DontPissOnMyGrass Archive

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4	My ex absconded with our two children. Pursuing an urgent motion for access. She's toxic and spreading lies. Taking the high road through this is very difficult. How do you cope with a toxic ex and coparent?		DontPissOnMyGrass	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 12:07 AM

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1	A little freaked out - Wife petitioned for a hearing and Standard possession order custody I'm in the exact same situation. Primary parent for our 3 year old. We also have a child under 1. So far I'm being treated as a second class citizen but I'll have my day in court later this year. Until then I'll continue to be there for my kids during the short visits I have with them.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/22 10:56 PM
0	I won for now. In Canada it's typically 50/50. But in the US, do fathers actually not get 50/50, unless there are safety circumstances?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/22 06:33 PM
3	Mediation this week. I think I’m in a good position. But nervous. In Canada there's a financial equalization process where it's cut and dry, who takes what in terms of assets / investments. Can you really negotiate that? I'm not yet at your stage, still early days with a toxic ex who accused me of all sorts of lies and I've got two kids under 3. Sorting out the custody thru urgent court. I hope the mediation goes in your favour!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/22 06:32 PM
2	Buy Out You can keep the mortgage and remove the spouses name if you qualify to maintain the entire mortgage. My bank just confirmed this.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/22 05:42 PM
5	When a woman say she was/is in an abusive relationship or marriage, Abusive is a Code word for women. This! I'm going thru a separation with a toxic ex and I feel like these bullets are her. She actually accused me of domestic violence (no proof because it didn't happen). I can't wait for this all to be over and behind me.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/22 01:27 AM
1	What should I do? Sounds just like my situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/22 01:47 PM
1	My ex absconded with our two children. Pursuing an urgent motion for access. She's toxic and spreading lies. Taking the high road through this is very difficult. How do you cope with a toxic ex and coparent? How did the situation evolve afterwards? Was she still toxic and trying to bait you?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/22 11:54 AM
2	My ex absconded with our two children. Pursuing an urgent motion for access. She's toxic and spreading lies. Taking the high road through this is very difficult. How do you cope with a toxic ex and coparent? This is very appropriate!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 03:31 PM
2	My ex absconded with our two children. Pursuing an urgent motion for access. She's toxic and spreading lies. Taking the high road through this is very difficult. How do you cope with a toxic ex and coparent? She wanted to file a tro. She couldn't because there was no proof, because nothing happened. She's not allowing any contact except for a few hours, 2 days a week. She ghosted me and everyone who tried to contact her.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 12:31 AM
4	Guy who got divorce, is life better? Get out and live! I'm turning 40 next Friday and I'm going thru the worst separation ever. Two kids 3 and 1. The children's mom has an undiagnosed mental illness. She abducted them and I'm going thru the process of an urgent motion to get 50/50, will probably cost me $15k - $20k tot but she will have to pay some of my fees because she's being uncooperative 😆. Your situation is a good one to be in. Divorce ASAP and LIVE YOUR LIFE. All the best and much love brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 12:24 AM
3	My ex absconded with our two children. Pursuing an urgent motion for access. She's toxic and spreading lies. Taking the high road through this is very difficult. How do you cope with a toxic ex and coparent? This is in Canada. I see them only a few hours twice per week. The kids have regressed since they have been taken away from the matrimonial home. They have been taken 40kms away. The court may take a few more weeks to get an urgent date. Im in my rights to keep the kids next time they visit but I haven't done anything wrong to date and don't want to tarnish my optics as my ex has been doing everything wrong. Dads, how have you dealt with similar situations?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 12:10 AM