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Whenever a man or a woman complains about assholes or sluts, what they are doing is confessing to you about the type of person the pursue. They don’t need to be counseling ANYONE on relationships or intersexual dynamics, they need a therapist.
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/23 01:57 PM
1

Because they know it’s true.
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/23 01:52 PM
1

Insults, shame and guilt are the only weapons in a woman’s arsenal. You take them away & they have nothing. They don’t want a man they can psychologically manipulate, the want a man that is impervious to their bullshit.
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/23 01:51 PM
-1

You gotta sell them the dream that they’re special. Look at beauty & the beast, they all want to be that special woman that can tame the beast. That doesn’t work if they see other women taming the beast too.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:58 AM
1

I never said that. I said that texting “words only” on a dating app is a less efficient by orders of degree than meeting someone face to face. Even a guy that is successful on a dating app take a hundred losses or more before he is successful. A guy in the wild is going to take 10-20 losses before he is successful.
/r/seduction08/08/22 12:23 PM
1

Not incel shit, just life experience from a man that has been that guy a few times. Once you experience it & learn to recognize it, you’ll never settle for anything less.
/r/seduction07/08/22 04:10 PM
1

There are studies that have broken down how effective different types of communication is between people. Body language is 55%, vocal intonations is 38% and words only is 7%. By cold approaching in person you are working at a 93% efficiency whereas on a dating app you’re working at a 7% efficiency. This is why you’re more successful in person than on a dating app.
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:20 PM
0

They all want a hot guy to fuck the shit out of them. This is why you don’t waste your time with a girl that is kinda into you. You’re either that guy for her, or you move on until you find a girl that you are that guy for.
/r/seduction07/08/22 06:51 AM
1

Realize that they are a bunch of quitters.
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:15 AM
1

Stop taking them seriously.
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:10 AM
2

Because you care too much about the outcome. The more you do it, the less you will care.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:38 AM
1

I only deal with women that communicate in paragraphs & essays.
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:29 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with a soft compliment as long as it is immediately followed by the removal of all attention. That is most powerful weapon you have in your arsenal when it comes to women. It is the coin of realm in girl world.
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:36 AM
10

You always gotta read the situation. Sometimes a woman just wants to get laid, otherwise you wouldn’t have songs like “did I shave my legs for this?” You’ll get better ate reading this the more women you date.
/r/seduction01/08/22 09:43 AM
1

I would say look for any social event. One trick I learned is to be observant at what people are wearing such as sports hats & use it as a conversation starter. Another is listening to what they’re talking about as a way to get them talking.
/r/seduction01/08/22 09:13 AM
1

There’s only two things you need; Social experience. Go out to a bar or restaurant bar. First observe people and how they interact. Then start interacting and conversing with guys, then work on talking with women that you don’t find attractive, this will calibrate you for the women you do find attractive. Rejection: There’s no way to avoid it. What a lot of people don’t get is it’s like the fear of diving head first into a pool for the first time. At first it’s terrifying, but the more you do it…
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:03 PM
3

The problem is your mental point of origin has been women, not yourself. You change that, you change the game.
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:20 PM
17

The reason is irrelevant, if she wants to have sex with you she will put herself into a situation to facilitate that desire. “I just needed to go pee, then we had a drink & one thing led to another”. “I wanted to see his cute puppy, then we started kissing & one thing led to another” If a woman wants to fuck you she will find a way to fuck you.
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:57 PM
2

But almost every woman wants to call the guy daddy, popi, etc. I think both are cringe af.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:16 PM
17

That’s a low of power. “Law 4: Always say less than necessary When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.”
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:59 AM
20

Just say you were looking for a specific snap, you don’t need to disclose which one.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:34 AM
1

You treat all of them with dignity & respect, because they’re always watching; especially when you think they aren’t.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:27 AM
17

Then why are you worried about whether she likes you or not? I never stick my dick somewhere I wouldn’t stick my mouth.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:03 AM
5

Those are general rules, but you need to develop social intelligence to be able to tell if they want to be approached. Take the gym for example. For every girl that complains about being approached at the gym, there is another one that complains about not being approached. The reality is that most women want to be approached by the guy that they want to approach them. That’s where the social intelligence comes in. You need to be able to translate her covert communication (actions, body language,…
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:31 PM
1

The girl is just wondering why you’re at someone else’s place and not your own. Does he have a gf? Is he married? What is he hiding, etc?
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:41 PM
1

Why did you say it was your cousins? That is a duffel bag full of red flags.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:43 PM
1

It all comes down to the mindset of the guy. If you’re putting in all that effort to destroy her relationship, you’re already in her frame; so any relationship is already doomed.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:38 PM
3

Say you’re nice too <use another girls name>
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:30 PM
1

That is about the biggest simp Move a guy can make. He isn’t just entering her frame, he’s slithering into it like a cuttlefish; which is the ultimate sneaky fucker game.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:28 PM
3

Pook hath spoken!
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:59 PM
1

Testosterone. You can eat a diet to encourage it’s production, lift weights & get plenty of sleep. 5-HTP (200mg daily). This is the amino acid precursor for serotonin. With this you’ll need to take 1000mg of L-Tyrosine daily. This is the amino acid precursor for dopamine. If your dopamine levels bottom out you will cease to produce serotonin. This combination is a natural alternative to SSRI’s. Ashwagandha. This is a herb that has many health benefits, reducing anxiety is one of them.
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:58 PM
1

It’s called having standards, and we develop them because at some time in the past we went against our gut instincts and gave one or three of those girls a chance. What we learned is they didn’t swing back around because the liked us, they did it because of their own insecurities, FOMO, to make someone jealous, or revenge porn on their boyfriend. There’s far too many women in the world to be wasting your time on one that shut you down. She had her chance, she blew it; and that’s the end of the s…
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:21 PM
1

Most guys are simps with one hand on their 🍆 and the other on their wallet. Eventually they learn that it’s not just about face value and choosing the wrong one can be one of the biggest mistakes they will make in their lifetimes.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:20 PM
0

All actions have consequences. You eat a whole pie, you’re probably going to gain weight. You spend frivolously on partying, you’re probably going to have an empty bank account. The higher a man’s self respect is the more severe & absolute the consequences will be. I’m not saying I won’t be civil or cool to a girl that rejected me. If she changes her mind later, she’s never getting any romantic attention from me; no matter how hard she tries. At least be consistent, otherwise you just look toxic…
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:12 PM
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It’s not reason, it’s emotion from the rejection. The best thing a day can do is have a “your loss” mentality, slam the door on any possibility with her in the future and move on with his life. The big problem is most guys allow themselves to be turned into betas in waiting for when women hit their 30’s and decide to cash out before the lights come on at the club at 2 AM. If every guy had a one shot at the title mentality with women, they wouldn’t act so shitty; because there would be consequenc…
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:28 AM
1

Yeah. It’s the 4-5 women that think they’re 10’s.
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:06 AM
1

No, because most 7/8 women think they’re 5/6 women.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:13 AM
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I’m in a relationship because I stopped wasting time on women that didn’t equally waste their time on me. I don’t care how “busy” a woman is, if she wants a relationship with you, she will make the time. Everything else is a bullshit excuse.
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:41 PM
2

Reply back tomorrow and be real vague about how your night went.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:38 PM
1

The thing is she doesn’t want a dude that is going to cave to those demands, she wants a dude that has no problem showing her the 🚪 The guy that caves is a doormat, the guy that doesn’t is a guy worth having.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:06 PM
2

Disagree with the sentence/paragraph paradigm. Not all questions or statements can be answered in a sentence. Where this becomes a problem is if she always sends low effort one sentence replies, because she’s blatantly saying she has zero substance.
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:26 AM
3

Watch the first 5 minutes of Gone with the wind which was made in 1939. Simps we’re here long before we were born & they’ll be here long after we’re dead.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:15 AM
1

It works a lot better when you save your approaches for women that display positive body language. “Only suckers buck the tiger. The odds are all on the house.” - Doc Holiday
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:39 AM
2

Not taking them seriously & not tolerating their shit. Rationally, you would think this would be counter intuitive; but it’s like talking dirty during seggs.
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:32 AM
0

The elbows never lie.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:11 PM
2

It’s not being offensive that people desire, it’s HONESTY. The nice guy is dishonest & tries to hide who they really are to get people to like them, people psychologically pick up on this. Chad doesn’t care if people like him, so he’s honest about what he wants. Sometimes that’s offensive, but it is usually respected because people also psychologically pick up on the honesty and the fact he isn’t trying to hide his true intentions.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:41 AM
1

I’m not saying you are, but the reason you think being judgmental is a bad thing is a product of it. You can still be a man whore and be picky. The pickier you are, the less complication the woman will bring into your life.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:21 AM
1

Stop being so thirsty and stop replying to this broken woman’s bullshit.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:16 PM
1

If you gave off creep vibes these women wouldn’t be taking actions to draw attention to themselves. Stop trying to read their minds and start reading their actions.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:24 AM
1

Being judgmental wasn’t a bad word until feminists made it a bad word. Go Google the history & usage of that word, it was a dead word before the 60’s. What they’re saying is don’t hold me accountable for my actions. This is why the world is so fucked up today. You’ve got 25 year old dudes with six baby mommas, no job and lives at home with his momma and y’all are afraid to be judgmental and call him a straight up looser. On the flip side you’ve got 19 year old girls with a body count in the 20’s…
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:40 AM
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Honestly a girl that bangs on the first date is never getting past casual dating. It shows low standards & low impulse control. I want to see that she wants to, but fight the urge for a few dates.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:33 PM
-3

No, creep is just womanese for “a guy I don’t want to fuck” If she has genuine desire for the guy, hygiene is about 11 or 12 on the list.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:05 PM
1

If women had any kind of intuitive powers they wouldn’t initiate 80% of divorces.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:24 AM
3

It’s like watching someone ride a bike. There’s a huge difference between someone that hasn’t done it much & a professional cyclist or courier that does it every day. Honestly you’re willfully ignorant if you can’t see it.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:37 AM
6

Their answer never matters. Taking 20 dicks is like sending a man to a war zone. It makes them cold, hard, calloused & emotionally disconnected. It’s not hard to spot.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:01 AM
1

The best way to recover is to not make the same mistake of looking thirsty. Once you get a girls number the rest of the women in that venue are off limits. The only real exception to that rule are sexual zones like nightclubs.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:20 PM
24

Women want a guy that other guys want to be and other women want to get with. You invoke the first rule of fight club bro, you act like you never saw her while out with the other girl. Also stop taking shit women say seriously in favor of watching what they actually do. They will cry all day about not liking jerks or fuckboi’s, but who do the majority of them end up with?
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:34 PM
3

“Rejection is always better than regret, always” - Pook
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:43 PM
1

It is a numbers game, but you gotta have some tact. You never want to appear thirsty & desperate.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:06 PM
1

That’s not a dis. Too many people are caught up in the idea that they’re unique, when in reality; they’re really not. There may be billions of people in the world, but there are only so many types of people. That’s why you have things like enneagram, MBTI, socio-sexual hierarchies, etc. People are nowhere near as unique as they would like to believe they are.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:53 PM
1

That’s taking the snowflake ideal and amplifying it to a ridiculous level. The individual doesn’t matter. If you’re doing things that are attractive to 90% of the female population, you’re going to be much more successful than someone that is doing things that is attractive to 10% of the female population.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:33 AM
0

No! You do this in a place that you don’t give a f..k about.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:12 AM
8

It’s only a tragedy if you don’t learn from it. It took Thomas Edison 1,000 attempts to successfully create the light bulb. When later asked about it he said I didn’t fail 1,000 times. I discovered 1,000 ways not to make a light bulb. Just like Edison, you discovered a way to screw a potentially good thing up. It’s a valuable lesson if you don’t do it again.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:47 AM
31

Father bull and his son are up on this hill and looking down on a bunch of cows. The son goes to the father and says, ‘Dad, why don't we run down there and fuck one of these cows?’ The father says, Son, why don't we walk down there and fuck them all? It’s an old joke that’s been told a million times, but it’s not without wisdom. The moral is don’t be too thirsty and draw negative attention on yourself. It’s going to make your job harder & the payouts less. Here you got greedy. Instead of getting…
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:03 AM
26

Doesn’t matter. If you’re trying to sell a product, you don’t go after the outliers; you go for the majority.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:47 AM
-5

Because she’s submissive & understands her place. It’s the same reason dogs won’t hold eye contact with a human they see as the alpha.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:53 PM
2

Neil Strauss (the author of the game) is bald & 5’6 ffs. It’s never all about looks. Most of it is about owning who you are.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:11 PM
2

When it comes to looks, it’s all a matter of self image. Most women are extremely insecure about their looks. That’s why they spend money on boob jobs, Botox & BBL’s. It’s not how good you think you look compared to her. It’s how good she thinks you look compared to her. My girl (who just interrupted this post with a morning phone call) describes me as her dream guy. I’ve had a lot of women who don’t look as good as her that think I’m unattractive. It is what it is. Don’t waste your time on wome…
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:59 PM
1

Looks are subjective. You could be a 5 to one girl and a 10 to the next. Never deal with a woman that isn’t all about you from the start.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:50 PM
1

Penis envy is what fuels feminism.
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:40 PM
3

I actually canceled my second date with my current girlfriend because she was running an hour late and didn’t tell me until I was already on the way to the restaurant. Six months later she still hasn’t made that mistake again. In my experience good women want discipline, boundaries & accountability.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:09 PM
1

Life expectancy was 35 until the mid 1800’s. That’s 4.3 billion years of evolutionary programming that will likely never change no matter how much society tries to shame it.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:23 AM
1

From what I’ve seen feminism is all about 🍆 envy. That’s why they model their strong independent woman after an alpha male. Disagreeable, assertive, independent & aggressive. All of the traits that repel the very men that they want.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:07 AM
4

That’s oneitis. You feel that way because you didn’t get what you wanted. When I cross paths with women like that from my past, I hold on to the thought that she could have gave me what I wanted, but chose not to. That makes me pretty indifferent to those women.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:03 PM
1

Give zero fucks, target girls 28 - 32.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:39 AM
0

Age is less important if the man is older. Biologically women have to get their shit together about a decade before men do, so your age gap really isn’t that big.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:30 AM
1

Women are too, otherwise the most common sex toys for women wouldn’t be 25% bigger than the average penis.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:10 AM
1

Feminists like men so much most of them have become the man that they wanted to marry. The downside is that kills polarity and repulses the type of man they want because like doesn’t attract like.
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:33 AM
1

The thing most guys need to learn is some women are just a bad genetic match when it comes to going down there. My girlfriend & I can’t get enough of going down on each other.
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:15 AM
21

No, they just seem more attainable than women your age.
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:17 AM
1

That’s a 0.001% guy she’s talking about. Unless she’s a 8 or higher, that shit ain’t happening.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:52 PM
3

Body language is a prerequisite for me spending any attention on a woman. They say that men are the initiators, but that’s not true. Women almost always initiate, they’re just very covert in communicating it to the guy. To them, they think they’re being obvious af because covert communication is what they default to.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:19 PM
3

The thing is 93% of all communication is not the words being spoken. It’s body language, vocal intonations & actions. You can learn a lot by searching “female body language” on YouTube and digesting about 50 videos. After that you won’t be able to unsee it in your everyday life. I can tell within 30 seconds of meeting a girl whether she’s into me or not. It’s a very powerful tool to master.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:01 PM
4

Her cold responses was covert communication for I’m not into you. She reciprocated with the rando guy as a way to escalate the message to you. Learn body language & you won’t waste your time on women that aren’t into you.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:32 AM
3

If you’re good at something, never do it for free.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:07 AM
26

Just think of it as filtering out toxic b¡tches. Eventually you’ll find a decent one.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:13 PM
2

This is why I hard next girls like this. They’re fun, but they’re usually train wrecks full of bad decisions.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:49 PM
2

Having a good social rapport with the bartenders, servers & regulars is key. Try building that first. Very few women will come up & start a conversation with you, but most will ask a bartender or regular about you.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:06 PM
1

Slap Slap Slap Slap Slap That’s all you need & all she really wants to hear.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:08 AM
1

That’s things clueless dudes say. Do you also ask questions for the bullshit answers that come out of their mouth?
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:04 AM
1

I’ve got many women to not only admit this fact, but many of them have me a high 5 and the you get it nod. That fact is that it’s not the sex women hate, it’s the lie. That’s really the root of all cheating. How much you want to bet the girl in the main post wouldn’t dare show her dude the message between her & OP?
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:51 PM
1

Cheating starts waaaay before there is any physical contact. I always ask myself “is this something I would do if my girl was right next to me?” She gave him a soft next, but left the door open; making him a potential orbiter. If a woman is all in, she doesn’t need orbiters.
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:46 PM
41

My litmus test is this: If her boyfriend was sitting right next to her, would she have wrote what she wrote? If the answer is no, she’s a cheater.
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:43 PM
172

If you had a girlfriend, would you want her talking to some random dude on IG for a few days? She belongs to the streets.
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:43 PM
7

Houses have gone up too, so that’s not really a valid argument unless OP owns his current house.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:57 AM
15

Apartment complex in a big city near a college.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:28 AM
1

I’ve seen freshmen girls in high school that look like Maxim cover girls. It’s not always easy to tell. Don’t beat yourself up, you didn’t persist after you knew she was underage.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:21 AM
1

You saw the Lauren Sanchez Leonardo DiCaprio video right? All girls are attracted to it, but it’s not a strait jacket. A girl may find a superstar attractive, but not attractive enough to leave a guy that checks off all of her boxes. The more toxic ones are the women in relationships that talk about “hall passes”
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:32 PM
1

As you can see from her body language reaction in that video, status & social value trumps everything. There is a 54 year age difference between Jack & Jennifer & even she was considering getting with him. Jackie Siegel (Queen of Versailles) is another good example as well as Katherine Zeta Jones. Status trumps everything.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:14 AM
2

You need to learn to stop seeking out the external validation that the game brings you, because you’re putting the control of your happiness in someone else. Instead do use on something you can control like working out or your career. Women should be a compliment to your life, not the focus of it.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:37 AM
2

Then don’t make a date with a woman unless you both have the next 24-48 hours free.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:18 AM
2

Watch this video Status trumps looks & money.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:15 AM
5

Because they confuse anxiety with love.
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:16 AM
1

The only reason I did that is because we had a planned date, she got Covid & vday was a few days later. I knew she hadn’t gotten anything on Valentine’s Day for at least 6 years. It was part to make her feel better for us having to cancel the date and part a test to see how she reacted to it. The thing I’ve learned with frame, don’t make rules based on an action like sending flowers. Make rules based on why you’re doing it in the first place. I wasn’t trying to buy her, I knew she wasn’t feeling…
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:17 PM
1

That’s why you need to watch their actions. Good or bad, they’ll show you who they really are. Usually the toxic ones will self sabotage and filter themselves out for you.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:38 PM
-7

You guys need to stop focusing on winning the battle instead of winning the war. If you want to find a good woman, do basically everything common dude rules say not to do. Call her, text her, send her flowers, etc. The toxic bih’s will filter themselves out. The ones that are about you will eat that shit up, put you at the center of their universe and wake you up with a bj.
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:01 PM
1

I would say submissive, not passive. The reality that modern society doesn’t want to swallow is that like doesn’t attract like. This is why you rarely see two feminine lesbians. There’s almost always one that is very masculine & one that is very feminine. We aren’t looking for what we are, we’re looking for what we are not. We’re looking for our compliment.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:39 AM
13

That’s 90% of people, not just girls. Eventually you will learn to bounce and go find someone more interesting, not every girl is for you.
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:39 PM
5

Reality. Women simply have a much higher reproductive cost than men. Pregnancy is possible death sentence for a woman. It’s a much lower risk today due to modern medicine, but it’s still a risk that men don’t ever have to deal with.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:22 PM
2

But in order for her to do that the benefits have to outweigh the risk.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:00 PM
2

Then you don’t understand women. They have a much higher consequence of sex than we do.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:13 PM
1

Nothing really, I have several friends that fall in this category. The thing is they aren’t very smart. You’re going to need that to survive a nuclear war.
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:08 AM
9

You’ve got to be smart to survive radiation, no where to shelter up, etc. Muscles aren’t going to help.
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:15 PM
15

Doubtful, Chad isn’t that smart.
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:09 PM
1

That’s how it goes once you develop some standards. I went almost two years without seriously dating any women until I found a good one.
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:29 PM
3

You could save a lot of time and headaches by not pursuing club girls, they’re literally the bottom of the effing barrel.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:29 PM
31

Be thankful you learned that at 26 instead of 46. Don’t wish it was it was easier, wish you were better. Then get up each day and make yourself better. You get what you pursue.
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:30 PM
1

Move on. If setting up a date with this woman is this hard, what’s a relationship with her going to be like? What’s living with her going to be like? Stop putting up with bullshit from women like this & your life will drastically improve for the better.
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:22 PM
1

It’s her job to shut that shut down. If she doesn’t you get up and walk out of her life. It’s really that fucking simple.
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:20 PM
8

Stop focusing on the waiter, he irrelevant. Her behavior and how she handles such situations is what’s relevant. Just the mere fact of you reacting to the guy, you’re entering his frame. Any girl that is average or better is going to constantly get hit on by other dudes, especially when you’re not around. You need to pay attention to her behavior not only in your presence, but when she doesn’t think you’re watching as well.
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:12 PM
6

The mistake that most guys make when this happens is focusing on the other guy. I act like he doesn’t exist, and focus solely on whether or not she is egging it on or shutting it down. I’ll even stand across the bar and give her a chance to shut it down, if not poof 👻
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:05 PM
14

You should feel grateful that she just showed you who she is, in my book that is the most solid of solids that a girl can do. Don’t get so wrapped up in your feelings that you make decisions that aren’t in your best interest. A girl that does this is telling you that she isn’t about you without telling you, you should listen to her.
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:02 PM
1

That’s what I do when I get the friend speech, she’s too comfortable with you at that point. It’s all attraction, zero arousal on her part. You need to add some discomfort & mystery to that relationship dynamic.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:44 AM
136

You don’t have insecurity issues here, dude was trying to get at your girl and your instincts served you well by going off like a fire alarm. What is wrong here is your mindset. You aren’t the one being tested here, your girl is. If she shut him down and didn’t entertain him, you got yourself a good girl. It’s when you come back from the bathroom and she’s entertaining him and flirting back that you have a problem woman that needs to be returned to the streets. Dudes are going to try to get at y…
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:35 AM
3

You’re talking about initiating. I’m talking about once they’ve decided you’re the one they want.
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:12 PM
1

Best way to come back is to date someone else and let them feel all that attention you gave them is suddenly gone and being given to someone else. I’ve done this and even girls that friend zoned me chased me all the way into my bedroom.
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:52 AM
2

There’s no such thing as a natural, those guys still had to learn the skills; they just learned it a lot sooner. A lot of you guys overthink shit way too much. If a girl is really into you, she will make it happen. She will kiss you first. She will find a reason to get into your place, or get you into hers. A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:01 PM
9

Stop caring what other people think, if you can’t follow the Jumbotron rule which is essentially a visualization of Poon Commandments V and VI: “Every text or email or recordable instance of conversation you have with a girl must follow this simple rule: If it were given a public airing, let’s say on a blog or a sports stadium jumbotron, you should feel comfortable with what you have written for the world to see. You should not feel an urge to wince, because it will be clear to everyone reading …
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:15 PM
1

Go talk to her, watch her body language and listen to her vocal intonations. If she looks and sounds interested, you should know. If she’s the one that got feelings, don’t swing back around unless you are prepared to match those feelings. That’s just cruel.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:27 PM
1

Girls want that emotional impact. They want to be overwhelmed. Any emotion for a woman trumps boredom. Even if you piss off a girl the first time you meet her, she will remember you and have more feelings for you than the guy that bores her.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:01 PM
1

Because sex is fueled by anxiety, urgency & sexual tension. Comfort & rapport kill those things. This is why married people have less sex than couples in a committed relationship that don’t live together. They’re too comfortable & familiar with each other. When I was married and traveled for work, just the knowledge that I was going to be gone for a week and sex wouldn’t be possible put my wife in the mood and she made damn sure I didn’t leave without a proper fucking the night before. When i ca…
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:46 PM
1

Familiarity and rapport are anti seductive. If you want to end up in the friend zone, focus on those two things. If you want to be her lover, then approach her like a lover
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:26 PM
1

Just like a good movie plot, you don’t want her to see it coming. She wants to feel, she wants the tingles, she wants an emotional impact. The more sudden and unexpected the better. When it comes to dates, it really doesn’t matter if she likes you. Pick something you can afford, and treat her like a lady,
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:50 AM
1

Watch little boys like 5-7 years old when they play. Their imagination, their mental point of origin to do whatever it is that they want to do without a care in the world as to what the rest of the world thinks. That is the essence you’re looking for. I didn’t get it for the longest time, then I met my cousins wife. We went to a buffet and he went to pay. While he was away I said he hasn’t changed at all has he? She laughed and said no. Look at him. He dresses like he’s 5. Look at his body langu…
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:09 PM
1

Never tolerate a woman that isn’t 100% hot for you. When you find that girl, marry her & and have lots of babies.
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:14 AM
2

Pook knows all…
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:06 AM
1

22-24 are a woman’s best years.
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:05 AM
3

The ones I know do at least 30 minutes every morning, but they keep their heart rate between 120 & 140. They never go above that. They will start off on the stairmaster fast to get their heart rate up and as it nears the max the will slow it down to keep their heart rate in the zone.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:48 AM
1

When it comes to height, you don’t have to be 6’ tall, you just have to be taller than her. Any fast cardio like running or swimming is going to eat your muscle. You never see a bodybuilder run, but they will be on the stair-master for 30 minutes at a good pace. Having a beard is a look, but it’s not the only look. Cut back on the running to a mile or less per session. Do legs on Wednesday & Saturday, and arms and calves every day
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:00 AM
3

Normally I would agree with you there 1000% This girl just hits different.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:40 AM
16

I think Hinge chases away most of the low effort girls. For me just the ability to send an opener with the like is effing gold. It got me several matches including my current girlfriend. I almost felt bad deleting it last week.
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:02 AM
3

It’s not really that you have to talk to tons of them, I made that mistake in my youth. Once you master female body language, you only waste your time on the ones that you know are already interested. That saves you a metric ton of time & effort.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:41 AM
1

The problem is women don’t want average, they want better. They want a guy that’s taller than her, stronger than her, better looking than her (at least in her own mind), makes more money than her & rocks her world like no one else has. As awesome of a woman as my current girlfriend is, and the many qualities she has that puts her head and shoulders above any other woman I’ve ever dated, I still check all those damn boxes & I still had to initiate.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:34 AM
1

I don’t know what pleb downvoted you for speaking the truth.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:24 AM
0

Depends if the woman can overcome her approach anxiety. It’s 100 times worse for them than it is for men, which is saying a lot.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:26 PM
9

Well, it usually comes from women whose default form of communication is covert communication. They can’t even tell a guy no, they will say things like “let’s just be friends”, “I have a boyfriend (when they don’t)”, “I’m not looking for a relationship (with you)”. Once you learn to understand womanese, everything gets easier.
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:29 PM
27

Nice is such a vague word. What women really don’t like is weak, needy, necessitous guys with no backbone that let people (including her) walk all over them. Learn to have some standards, learn to create & enforce some boundaries. Learn how to be unapologetically judgmental based on those standards & boundaries. Always think about what is best for you before considering anyone else. I’m not saying you can’t consider other people here, but they should never be your first thought. If you’re doing …
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:20 PM
1

I’ve been on both sides of that. My girlfriend now, we never run out of shit to say. We average 2 hours talking a day. There’s 16 different personalities according to MBTI. There are 9 types according to enneagram. According to MBTI, we are a good match & with enneagram, we are a match made in heaven. As great as this relationship is, I’ve had horribly painful dates with other women as recent as November. Not everyone is meant for you. There’s always going to be something wrong about you to some…
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:18 PM
8

“If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Make her happy, make her angry, make her laugh, ANYTHING but bore her. That enemy, boredom, is back and women are looking for you to strike it down. Embrace you your youth and live again for the first time.” - Pook
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:18 AM
4

Going after a woman in a relationship is the creepy part. Even if you win, you’ve won an untrustworthy woman.
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:58 AM
9

You never talk about going to your place upfront like that. That shit has a success rate of zero If you meet and she’s really into you, she will practically drag you back to your place. It’s all about the feels with them.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:49 PM
1

Whether or not she wants to bang you.
/r/seduction12/02/22 08:36 PM
4

You mean there’s still people out there that take that guy seriously?
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:37 PM
2

Make her feel safe & protected.
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:57 AM
1

They say you don’t ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask a fisherman. By that same logic you don’t ask a hunter what a good meadow looks like, you ask a deer. Paying a professional dating photographer isn’t necessary, but it’s the most efficient path for getting more dates. I spent two years honing that skill before I found Ms. Wright. It only took two months once I got good photos to find that ride or die girl. Doing that two years ago would have easily saved me $2,000 in bad dates.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:40 PM
16

You’ve got the rule all fucked up. It’s not that the top 80% of women want the top 20% of men. It’s 100% of women want the top 20% of men. Look at the average woman today. They will go 100k in debt on student loans, and work soul crushing jobs so they don’t have to settle for a guy in the 80%. Look at the girls on Fresh & Fit or Kevin Samuels. These women would rather die than settle. It’s like Pook said a decade ago: Women would rather share a successful Alpha than be saddled to a faithful beta…
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:32 AM
0

With the right girl it won’t matter. If she genuinely desires you she will find a way into your place, and a way into your bed. If she wants to fuck you, she will find a way to fuck you; guaranteed.
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:38 PM
3

Patrice was way ahead of his time.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:16 PM
7

Because her desire outweighed her fear. If a woman genuinely desires a man, she will throw damn near all of her rules out of the window. In that kind of situation she may still say one thing led to another. With women it’s not really what they say, it’s the context of how they say it. That’s why they say I’m fine, when obviously nothing is fine.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:26 PM
43

“One thing led to another” is always preceded by something to absolve the woman of any responsibility in sex happening. We just met at a bar. I was drunk, he was cute & one thing led to another. We just went to his apartment because he needed to take his dog out, and then one thing led to another. All you have to do is give the woman something to take the blame for her.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:31 AM
1

You’ve got to look at men & women. The currency of girl world is attention, the currency of guy world is sex. This is why the female friend zone is all attention, no sex & the male friend zone is all sex no attention. This is why I crack up when I hear the term hookup culture. That’s not a thing, it’s the male friend zone.
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:48 PM
0

This wasn’t FWB, it was the male friend zone. It was all sex, zero emotion. Which is the inverse of the female friend zone which is all emotion, no sex.
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:29 PM
11

Hell no, he was pulling narcissist carrot & stick, hot/cold shit on you to use you for sex.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:59 PM
3

Location would help, just sayin.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:22 AM
3

Yeah, that I don’t get. I’ve got a girl I’m genuinely interested in right now. I’ve let my likes pile up to almost 70. My bartender was trying to hook me up with her friend and I had to say I think she cute & cool, but I’ve kinda got something going on and don’t want to be “that guy”. I told her if it falls apart I’ll ask her again about her & see what’s going on.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:40 AM
17

Think about their daily work environment, are there actually women there; or are they scarce compared to guys? I work in engineering, I would say there’s easily one girl for every 20 guys.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:00 PM
5

Sometimes you’ve got to risk it all if you want to win the war.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:24 PM
11

I would just say: “I enjoyed the other night, and I respect morals. We shouldn’t talk as long as you’re pursuing that relationship, it would just make me feel weird. Feel free to hit me up if things don’t work out there.” This way you’re leaving the door open, but you’re removing your attention & her ability to know what is going on in your life. This will make her miss you, and foster fear of missing out because she doesn’t know what you’re up to. Stand firm on not talking while she’s with the …
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:19 PM
25

I used to hangout with this old retired Philly construction worker in the gym. He was super social and banged half the old broads in the gym. One of his nuggets of wisdom was always be nice and acknowledge women, even the fat & ugly ones because the rest of them are always watching, even when you think they aren’t. I would say be a little flirty in a playful and non serious way. If she trims down, she will think he was nice to me even when I wasn’t hawt.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:15 AM
7

Anyone with photo editing/enhancing software.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:18 AM
3

It works in small doses, or on the weak minded.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:13 AM
1

Have you tested your photos on photofeeler? I had pretty much the same results until I took better pictures and tested them on there.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:16 PM
1

Most dating apps are super shallow. I like hinge because I can send an opener message with the like. Within 5 messages I can tell if she’s worth investing time in or not.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:13 PM
1

Embrace it
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:44 PM
3

She’s trying to figure you out. Girls want a guy they’re into, but they’re also afraid that you JUST want to fuck them. They don’t trust you & they don’t trust themselves.
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:52 PM
8

She knows you’re crazy about her. Women have a social intelligence you could only dream to have. What you need to do is still be her friend, but don’t take her seriously. Treat her like one of the guys, tell her about interactions with other women, etc. She needs to think she can’t have you.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:13 AM
3

Never let a woman pay, be a gentleman
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:34 PM
2

I’m getting paid, don’t care.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:42 PM
2

I work in cyber, and I get bored when I have a 30 minute scan running. Honestly, I don’t really care what you believe or don’t believe. FYI, most rich people live WELL below their means; that how they get rich. I know a multi millionaire that rolls around the inlet in a pontoon boat each weekend. If you saw him at a beach bar, you would think he made 30k tops.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:39 PM
3

I’m in the 92nd percentile by income alone. You throw in marital status, height & weight and I’m in the top third of the top 1%. As far as my ass it gets washed and lotioned at least twice a day like the rest of my body because I’m never going to be that dude that smells like shit. The whole king thing is a mindset of prioritizing yourself first. It doesn’t mean you’re an asshole that doesn’t care about others, but rather you’re not doing people pleasing things because you’re pedestalizing someo…
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:18 PM
1

You have to because alpha widow is a real thing. Just look at old Rose in Titanic. Even after spending a lifetime with her husband & the father of her children, her heart longed for the one that got taken away. Women see that movie as a love story, Men see it as a horror story. The takeaway every man should have from that movie is that if you’re not a woman’s Jack, you’re just a utility & a means to an end. The reality is that if her husband was a guy like Chris Hemsworth for example, she wouldn…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:22 PM
3

I didn’t say that, the dude above me did. It’s really not an incel vide, it’s a knowing your worth vibe. Even in the game of chess, the Queen might be the most powerful piece, but you can still lose the Queen and win the game. You can’t lose the King & still win the game.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:09 PM
6

They’re all hung up on their ex at some level until your emotional impact is greater than his.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:23 PM
1

You just got out of a 2 year relationship, you need at least 6 months solo to reset yourself.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:17 PM
1

Because they want a guy that they think is better than them. The ones you’re describing display the behavior of a guy that thinks he’s better than them.
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:45 AM
-2

You’ve really got to look at what women generally look for in a man: Taller, richer, better looking, socially superior & desired by other women. To a woman this is her “equal” So would you say they’re looking for their equal, or are they looking for someone they see as better than them?
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:33 AM
9

You could look up “the boyfriend destroyer”, but I don’t bother. It’s best to remove all attention and go find someone else because the likelihood of it being more than a fling is low; and I’m not into that.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:31 AM
0

Pay Attention
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:06 AM
10

Because true fuckbois don’t have to.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:37 PM
1

Give him consistent attention and subtle hints when you see him. Most guys are dense and it’s going to take you doing these things consistently for most of them to get it.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:19 PM
1

Just remember all emotions are still emotions. Hate isn’t the opposite of love, they’re both feelings. The only opposite of feeling is the absence of it, which would be indifference. It’s when you get indifference is when you’re in trouble.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:54 AM
1

Think back at when she started talking to you again. Something triggered that, or a lack of something triggered that.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:34 PM
2

When it comes to women I always trust actions over words. Ask yourself this. If A made the time for you the way B did, would you have ever had the desire or energy to hook up with B in the first place? Seems to me that A doesn’t have to to satisfy your needs, B does.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:21 PM
7

Dude, women run on emotions. Good, bad it doesn’t matter. It’s the guy that bores her & doesn’t give her emotions that is dead in the water. She doesn’t want you to try and resolve the bad emotions, she doesn’t want you to fix her problems. She just wants more emotions from you. That’s why she was arguing with you when you made her cry. Stop paying attention to whether it’s a good or bad emotion, and start paying attention to how much she cares. Someone that doesn’t give a fuck about you isn’t g…
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:13 PM
6

It’s because you spent a month getting emotionally invested with her. Now if it fails it has a much greater impact because of all the time you have invested instead of going on a date before that has happened. It’s just like the first time riding a bike, driving a car or jumping off a high dive. The more times you do it, the less scary it will be to you.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:38 PM
1

Currently, no. I’m a greedy bastard. In the past, I’m okay with it as long as she has a monogamous mindset.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:48 AM
0

Yes as long as it not self deprecating humor. My brother in law got my sister when he was like 15. They’ve been together 30 years. Dude could be a stand up comic if he wanted to. Just natural wit and good timing.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:09 AM
2

I would start by searching “female body language attraction” on YouTube and watch about 50 of them. Afterwards you’re going to be pissed at yourself for all of the signals you missed.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:12 PM
2

A girl can’t help but like a guy that she finds attractive and arousing. If she’s in a relationship it should mitigate her from stepping outside of it. I never push in that situation because even if I’m successful in pulling her away I’ve won a disloyal women. It’s really a lose/lose situation. Just enjoy the interest, and pay attention to her body language, vocal intonations & interest. That will help you spot it easier in available women.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:04 PM
4

This is what I did. Test them out on photofeeler and only use ones that score an 8 or higher.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:47 PM
1

“If you’re good at something, never do it for free.” The Joker
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:56 AM
20

They are matching your energy, and they aren’t confusing you as to whether or not they like you.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:07 AM
0

That’s not an abusive personality, that’s psychopathy.
/r/seduction23/01/22 01:24 AM
1

All you really have to do is look for a man that can’t control his emotions. Serial killers, domestic abusers, crimes of passion they all have that trait in common. Why is this so hard for people to see?
/r/seduction23/01/22 01:08 AM
11

Yeah, they’re just so covert about it that most guys completely miss the signals.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:35 PM
1

Alphas do whatever they want to do, their dick doesn’t run their life.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:10 AM
3

You’ve got to look at the context of the situation. Girl is 20, hasn’t dated in 5 years. She doesn’t have a lot of experience, so that Disney fantasy idealism is as high as it’s ever going to be.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:58 PM
2

On the guy side, even if a girl has a busy job like software engineer or wealth management. If they’re interested they’ll get back with you in 1-3 hours. It’s 2022, nobody is that busy that they can’t take 5 minutes to answer a text every few hours.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:54 PM
3

It’s called social intelligence, it’s watching actions and responding in like kind. For example: If someone gives you a playful dis you respond with one, you don’t run them over with a car. I’m not saying you have to respond to the minute, but if she immediately responds and you wait 5 hours she’s going to feel hurt.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:39 PM
5

She thinks you’re playing with her emotions by not replying back in a timely manner. Girl is a virgin and hasn’t dated since she was 15. Her idealism is sky high due to lack of experience. You need to learn to match a girls energy. If she replies right away, you reply right away. If she takes an hour, you take about an hour.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:14 PM
2

Be the guy that other men want to be and other women want to bang. That will fire up her libido like a can of kerosene.
/r/seduction18/01/22 12:13 AM
1

If he could bottle that, he would be a billionaire.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:57 PM
5

There this dude in my gym James older married black guy, late 50’s early 60’s. Probably the biggest social butterfly I’ve ever met. He talks to EVERYBODY, and I literally mean EVERYBODY, even the janitor. I’ve seen several times with girls they’re like WTF at first, then they realize that he’s not trying to get with them & they just love him; because he treats them like a person, not a sex object. I saw him spotting one of the cutest girls in the gym that he normally talks to the other day. Whil…
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:13 AM
8

I have a bar downstairs I go to alone all the time. I know all the regulars and staff. Pick a bar or two, go fairly regularly and you will make friends. I’ve been to several parties at regulars and bartenders places. I’ve also dated several bartenders and servers.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:09 AM
1

Learn the reverse kegel to bring yourself back from the point of not return. In addition to bringing you back it swells your tip and drives her crazy.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:21 AM
4

Read she comes first, a lot of good info in there about a moans pleasure zones and the clitoral network. The main thing it taught me was all her pleasure zones. Since then, I never stimulate just one. Some positions you can stimulate three at the same time. Learn them and overwhelm her.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:18 AM
6

Sorry girl, but at your age most guys are morons. Even 25 year old college graduate interns that come into my company are morons. Your best bet is probably an introvert. Because they are in their head a lot they probably have a lot to say if you can get them talking.
/r/seduction14/01/22 09:56 PM
0

A lot of it is that they see you as more than a one night stand, otherwise they wouldn’t be debating themselves. They actually care what your opinion of them is, that means they actually like you and want more than a one nighter.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:50 PM
3

You need to fix the problems that caused the breakup. You need to get on your grind, and take care of business. Nothing is more seductive than confidence & competence. Women don’t want an equal, they want a man that they can look up to. If you aren’t capable of protecting, providing, being a father in addition to being the gut that other women want to fuck, then you’ve got work to do. As they said in top gun, there are no points for second place.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:43 PM
1

That’s ASD (Anti slut defense) and it’s a good thing. It shows that she has some self control. I want to see that desire, and I want to see her fight that desire. This is a pretty good indicator that she will be less likely to cheat. It’s also a pretty good indicator that she wants more than a one night fling with you. As much as women like to cry about double standards, they know sex for them is playing the game on easy mode with all the cheats enabled; and they know society judges them for eve…
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:34 PM
3

It all depends on the girl. There’s a bartender that’s flirting with me, and she likes to drink; so I would definitely take her out for drinks. There’s another on that is an accountant, all of the pictures of her on her dating app are of her out in nature. So with her it would be kayaking in a park that has a restaurant/bar in the middle. One place I really like if you can’t get a read on a girl is the YardHouse. They have a very wide food and drink menu, what she orders can give you some insigh…
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:04 PM
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Just treat her like a little brat sister that you don’t take seriously.
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:33 AM
3

Basically when she’s run out of options trying to communicate something covertly is when women get overt. You’ll see this with women quite often with pushy guys. She’ll say things like I have a boyfriend, or I don’t give my number to strangers. If the guy persists she will finally get overt with something like screaming get away from me you creep. Your plates actions are saying she wants more. Cooking, laundry, massages, meeting your parents, etc. Maybe you should think back to some of the thing…
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:18 AM
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That conversation should always come from the woman. Are you sure she hasn’t covertly brought it up with statements like “where are we”, “what are we”, etc? Generally a woman is only going to get overt when she feels like she is out of options.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:16 AM
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Neil Strauss is 5’6, so really not that fucked. At the end of the day it’s all about owning who and what you are.
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:24 PM
12

I love cuddling after sex. We fall asleep, I wake up with a stiffy and the cycle repeats.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:23 PM
17

Eventually a hookup is going to turn into a wife. Fuck rules, do what you want to fucking do. If she wants to cuddle and you want to cuddle, fucking cuddle. Understand that hookups are all about emotional fear. Once desire outweighs fear is when shit starts to get real.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:21 PM
1

Basically that women need a sign of on a guy from other women. They either ask their friends if they think he’s hot, or they have to visibly see that other women find him attractive in order to know whether or not they like him. I’ve seen some women that don’t need this, but most women do.
/r/seduction30/11/21 10:24 PM
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She was asking the colleague for preselection confirmation, or excitedly sharing the story of what just happened. Either way it’s a positive sign.
/r/seduction30/11/21 11:36 AM
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You asked a question, she didn’t answer. She’s either socially inept, or she’s flooded with male attention to the point that she thinks she doesn’t need to put effort into the conversation. I would leave the conversation as is until she sends a proper response.
/r/seduction29/11/21 05:25 PM
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He needs to read victim to victor because he’s got a serious victim mindset thing going on.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/21 05:12 PM
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/r/seduction27/11/21 08:21 PM
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