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Ignoring the fame, power, status and thick wallets these men have
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:29 AM
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Because that just proves most anti-male talking points. 1 Dehumanizing Women. Women are people. Not trophies. You've clearly never tried to date a woman or even read dating profiles from women where they have no discernible personality or anything to offer any other human being, have the personality of wet cardboard and can't support themselves financially but they're "yassss kweeeen" and "all that and a bag of chips too", e.g. a PRIZE to be won. ​ 2 Promoting dependency on sex to function like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:53 PM
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Ditto. It's like watching an immovable object hit an unstoppable force.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:01 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:54 PM
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Men still want pussy Women still want chores done and free shit ​ /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:54 PM
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women don't really get aroused the same way over pictures of unknown men Yup, LOL a hot man in a well fitting shirt for example doing physical work with his hands Yup, it's all about work and money for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:59 PM
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Because clothes can't make you taller or richer, better hung or imbued with real status.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:55 PM
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Go look at gonewild. There are some cut, hung men out there. Not one response. Chubby woman with stretch marks? At least 6 comments. Rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:15 PM
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They prefer to watch porn instead of fucking their wife. Even when she initiates, even if she wants it. After being shot down so many times, some men just go "nah, I'm all good. I'll do this time what I've done the last 27 times I wanted to have sex and you didn't. What's one more."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:10 AM
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Yup. And as women get older, their sex drive drops massively. Also, if they get on any antidepressant meds. Or birth control. Or it's a day ending in Y. Think of women's sexuality as being like a soap bubble. You've got to blow through that little wand JUST RIGHT. Too hard, and you have a soap spray. Too little, and nothing happens. And then in a second or two *pop* and it's gone. A girl felt her vulva throb for 10 minutes while watching "New Kids on the Block" in the 1980s when she was 12 and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:35 PM
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Because most women are indifferent or nasty, and the only ones who are nice want SOMETHING. And men are told to interpret kindness as sexual interest, because God Forbid a woman actually come out and say what she really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:20 PM
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compared to my female desire for sex in order to feel desirable So what you REALLY want is to feel desirable. If you flash your parts on gonewild and get validation from that isn't that basically enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:14 PM
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We're about to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:08 PM
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Ah yes, the 30something game of musical chairs where they suddenly look for one who isn't a felon and has some kind of thing going on. And lest you think I'm a misogynistic prick, this was the basis of a "Cathy" cartoon by "right on" feminist cartoonist Cathy Guisewite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:07 PM
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Women should. But they can't complain that men won't go for fat, old or otherwise "less hot" women when they can get ones who are. Look at how salty many of them are that DiCaprio can still pull chicks in their early 20s. Judgment abounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:06 PM
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Depends on the circles you run in. I'm an older professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:58 AM
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There's a lot of "I'm 45 and why aren't there huge lines of awesome men? I own a three quarter of a million dollar condo, am head of the local Chamber of Commerce, built three successful businesses, was Kappa Pagga Thacka at Awesome Ivy University and have three degrees Ultra Cum Loudly. Why are they all just interested in these 25 year old bimbos?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:56 AM
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What's typically meant by that is that whereas you're expected to support yourself to a major degree, men aren't going to go for a woman who looks like Janet Reno because it's so hawt she's a doctor/lawyer/rocket scientist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:28 PM
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Most women won't. The fact some women will, well, that's a matter of something very unusual happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:08 PM
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I actually found a lot of female commentary much more demoralizing than this redpill nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:15 PM
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https://fborfw.com/strip_fix/strips/04/fb040906.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:56 PM
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Of course you can. And it's ridiculous to suggest that rights are some weird kind of zero-sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:54 PM
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That's not what that means. It means if 20% of clams are poisoned and you don't know which 20%, you're going to rethink how often you go out for clams. Not that the other 80% have an obligation to eliminate the poison of that 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:46 PM
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> If men naturally NEED sex, then the women should be the same cause otherwise who are these men supposed to have sex with? Not at all. Wolves need to eat deer, but deer don't stand around going "I'm really succulent, come over here and chew me to death". They run like crazy when they smell the tiniest whiff of canine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:59 AM
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Confirmation bias. All it takes is one catcalling dickhead to squawk abuse at some chick, and she'll rant the rest of the day about how she can't even go to Ikea for a Kjurntenfrommer without being harassed because of that horrible piece of shit gender. There's also the phenomenon where if you constantly go into places with large numbers of men saying men are a cancer on the planet and how do you like explain to them about feminism without coming off as a feminazi, and immediately start arguing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:57 AM
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Positively ridiculous. I can empathize with a woman being really scared of having a creepy stalker. I can empathize with a woman who's been raped. I can empathize with a woman who didn't get a job over some lesser qualified man because the company managers were worried she'd fuck off and pop out a baby or two in a couple of years. Just because a woman empathizes with you doesn't mean she's under any goddamned obligation to let you masturbate into her body. Case fucking closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:54 AM
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From what I understand, r/MGTOW went apeshit crazy when they banned r/incels and I can only imagine the pus is spreading further.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:51 AM
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Both genders are blissfully unaware of what goes into what's attractive. "I don't like women with makeup, I prefer women without makeup" means "I prefer a woman who isn't OBVIOUSLY made up". "I like a guy who's naturally buff, not too muscly, not one of those weird gym guys who eats weird and is at the gym all the time. Just a guy who was born perfect." Riiiiight. I think each gender should spend a month in the shoes of the other. We'd work things out a lot faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:04 AM
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It was the would be nude-seller who was the homophobe. I was pointing out that its a business and if he thinks women are overjoyed at the thought of sex with the people they sell their pictures to, guess again. I didn't "include homosexuality to make it extra disgusting". I said if he wanted to sell photos of himself naked, and he's a young guy, to sell a type of fantasy to the buyer's market. And the people who pay for pictures of naked men, sir, are MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:25 PM
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Not that tactic. I don't have an issue with this happening, children are expensive which is why we have chosen not to have any. But this is why 1) men need to choose their partners really really really carefully and 2) you're wrong, it's not "one guy had one bad thing happen" it's "the legal system will do this to you, stay woke."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:24 PM
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Oh, right. Sorry. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:48 PM
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non-inkwell men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:06 PM
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Oh, they're his responsibility, sure. He gets to pay for them and do whatever the mother desires. That's my point. Once she tires of him, it's amazing how she gets to call ALL the shots for HER kids. But he is of course expected to happily give up 40% of his pre-tax salary to her and expect nothing but a token showing up from his kids when it's convenient to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:36 PM
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Nah, they aren't. Even if he sired em.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:20 PM
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They're both entitled jackasses: the guy who wants the maid/live in fuckdoll, and the woman who wants someone to watch her kids while she spends his money at the nail salon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:17 PM
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I'll try to find it. Europe in the 70s, Women were expected to pay to have sex with men and if they weren't satisfied could get their money back. Show me any woman who was ever satisfied with anything. Look at how often they return dresses and shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:57 PM
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They tried opening one. It went out of business. Ridiculously, they offered a money-back guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:47 PM
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Women simply don't have a sex drive comparable to a man. It's also a different kind of drive whose behavior manifests differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:46 PM
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Women want to be genuinely desired by the man she is attracted to. As do men. So you can understand why "I know you're my distant third choice, but your credit's OK, and my kids need braces" is soul destroying to a guy. The equivalent for you would be "you're fucking hideous and I hate everything about you, but I'd rather ejaculate into you than onto this alley floor, so bend over."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:45 PM
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This is news to a lot of men. I think that this getting out into the general population will result in a lot less sex. And dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:44 PM
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Because you tend to be rude about it. Either that or the guy's ego is about as fragile as a soap bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:42 PM
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Men have no problem getting relationships, anything where men are discussing this kind of thing is to find out how to get their sexual needs met. Just as how any woman can just catch dick but when women go online to kvetch it's because they're not meeting good enough men or want better relationships. Not sure how you can't understand that a man bitter his sexual needs were never met isn't going to be consoled with "but you get to pay for my bills for the rest of time now I'm not really intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:40 PM
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But my clit tingles every now and then too, so I'm just like you! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:39 AM
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No woman wants dick. If anything she wants the man it's attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:38 AM
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It's not a dare, this is stated fact. I answered some kid in another subreddit who was wondering where he could sell nudes to women. I was like "you wanna sell nudes, you better get good at looking over your shoulder and biting your lip seductively to give older men a "breaking the new boy in" chub. He was like "BUT I'M NOT GAY" and I'm like you REALLY think porn actresses are starving to gargle on the thumbcocks attached to the fat, balding schlubs who buy scud mags?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:37 AM
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But at that point the woman isn't paying to be dicked down. These guys aren't giving her a good pounding under a streetlight behind a dumpster down an alleyway, they're taking her to dinner and making her feel like someone who's in a relationship and loved and worshipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:36 AM
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Exactly. The human penis has absolutely no intrinsic value. It's worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:35 AM
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Men's drives are proactive, women's drives are reactive. It's why many men think women don't have sex drives. Because a woman can flash her twat at a man and get tons of enthusiastic replies, whereas a guy can post his schlong onto gonewild with "any girls wanna suck it" and the only reply he'll get is from RainbowHairyLeatherPants_420 asking if he'd consider a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:34 AM
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This site is weird. Elsewhere I'm considered a toxic piece of shit. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:00 AM
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Then #1, in a heartbeat, and I would work really hard to earn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:16 AM
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First woman, in an absolute heartbeat. Oh the understanding that she loves me for me, and isn't like compelled and has no free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:03 AM
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I’ve had many (not all) women shaking and whimpering when I’d slowly fuck them in doggy style. Women are good at acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:06 PM
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But you know some men will read that as "If you're rich, tall, handsome, funny and engaged anough, I'll set my glass of wine down on the bar, turn to you with a half smirk, and wait for you to amuse me enough to consider you."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:34 PM
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I'm not critical of either gender, just the stupid things they can sometimes do, and believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:08 PM
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Have to say, agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:53 PM
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Oh, wait, he's disavowing being a woman-manipulating, cancerously male-toxic pile of excrement churning out garbage on how to think of and use women as nothing more than wet holes? Has he finally realized that women are human beings that fucking matter and should be approached in healthy, normal ways? "I prayed to Jesus to ask Him what to do about fornicators and sinners...." Oh for the love of FUCK, he's sunk even more into alt-right Nazi horseshit. Fuck him with a pile of rusty coat hangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:52 PM
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Since when are people objective when dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:45 AM
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Are you for real? Women are nowhere near as materialistic and/or shallow as this incel-wankfest makes out. The average woman is a perfectly reasonable human being. If you're meeting the kind of woman who's just looking for a handout, kick that insta-thot to the curb and expand your horizons to seeing literally the entire rest of the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:24 AM
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No, no it really isn't. I'll say it before and I'll say it again. "50 Shades of Grey" would have been an episode of CSI: SVU if Christian Grey had been middle class and average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:21 AM
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What does rich and handsome have to do with it? Cause it's not creepy when a rich, handsome man does it, tee hee.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:39 AM
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Yes, she does love him for the money he provides, she rolls her eyes and "settles". Then realizes she really wants the kind of exciting man she had before, divorces him and takes his stuff. Why would men have a problem with this I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:06 AM
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"What about those of us who never get any attention?" "Oh, ick, not creepers! I mean from rich, handsome Chads!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:04 AM
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Oh, so the men you don't want giving you attention don't count. GOT IT. Sorry, but Brad Pitt's already busy, and Magic Mike is also back with his girlfriend. Also, men don't get attention from ANYONE, even female creeps and uggos, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:41 PM
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Thought it was a feminist axiom that any woman, ever, cannot walk down the street without being swarmed by guidos going EEEEEY BABY GIMME A SMILE EEEEEEY SWEETHAWT SHOW ME YA TITS etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:37 PM
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Woman does NOT love him for being stable and boring guy Woman likes the $tability, e.g. the amount of a$$et$ $he $uddenly ha$ acce$$ to that Chad didn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:35 PM
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Every guy I've dated has been a natural performer. Literally proving the point that a man needs to be one, because you ignored all the men who weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:25 PM
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There are Buddhist and Catholic monks, men who have no penis because birth defect or removal because cancer etc. who do JUST FINE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:23 PM
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Nope. Because sex is easy for women to get and difficult for men to get. If sex was as easy to get for men as for women, your hot takes would apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:59 PM
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The expression you're looking for is "topping from the bottom".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:18 PM
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They can stay single and whine there are no good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:57 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:44 PM
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Because child support, maternity leave and suchlike are in order to provide for children. Men who don't want to support their kids are pariahs and rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:43 PM
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If your core mentality about men is naked contempt, bigotry or that they're put on this earth to serve you somehow, goodbye, do not pass go, do not collect $200.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:04 AM
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There is a large number of women who absolutely will not allow a man to do that, because that's when they realize the man is getting emotional and losing logic and all they have to do is push a few more buttons and BAM he loses it and she can claim victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:21 AM
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Why are you arguing with someone who gave you the answer you asked for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:20 AM
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Because they don't want to lie there realizing his mom can hear you fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:55 PM
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It absolutely does, and for every man who complains that his wife no longer wants to put out because "you'll wake the baby" there's a woman complaining that her husband sees her as a mother now and therefore off limits for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:54 PM
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After interacting with /r/AskWomen and its moderation people, I completely understand a lot of the misogyny that goes down amongst young people and why they feel they would need to censor their every word. Never seen a group of people more looking for injury and insult in every word. The good news is, most women are not like those women, and when women like that show their hand - it's good news because it means you avoid the fuck out of them. Don't date, hire, promote, or give house room to anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:06 PM
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All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:04 PM
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You must have missed where I said men lie like rugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:39 AM
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Since "stuff" doesn't matter and the marraige was about all the warm fuzzies and good times, feel free to leave the guy without putting your grubby claws up in his wallet. Oh wait, "stuff" matters then doesn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:15 PM
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When did the gay dude from Kids In The Hall get that fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:02 PM
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Say what you will about ppd women, This week, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:46 AM
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That's a great line.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:45 AM
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To answer your question about men's perception of women, enough men have seen a girl complain that they're looking for someone nice, stable and to have a good, real relationship and then go weak in the knees when Bad Chad McStudly shows up, bangs em and tosses them aside - to ever bother paying the remotest bit of attention to what they say, especially when she's back with her male "friends" demanding uncompensated emotional labor and counselling complaining about the latest Gustavo Eyes/pump/du…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:45 AM
1

For the same reason that gay men fantasize about straight men. They want her to have the casual sex with HIM as an affirmation that HE has what it takes to give her the "get on the back of the Harley" look and she starts foaming at the crotch. Not it's just his turn next on the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:37 PM
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Yup. "BUT WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE MEN" yes but not in the same way as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:54 PM
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Well, let's see. I'm married, so it's more like "if I was single, here's why not..." I don't live in Alabama or Mississippi, so I'm not dating my sister or mother. Friends? Already in the friend zone - which you don't escape. Co-worker? NO. NO HELL TO THE FUCK NO. Me Too, being fired, etc. nope, sorry NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:54 PM
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If you already know them, they're relatives, friends or co-workers. None of whom you're going to end up dating, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:27 PM
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I love watching men chase this the same way women do. Gonewild is funny because a woman posts herself hanging her flaps out and gets 500 OH MY GOD LET ME CLEAR MY FACE OFF FOR YOU TO SIT ON posts A guy goes "hey, I guess I can just hang out my cock and get similar results" and there's either zero comments or one gay guy going "oh my God, just give us over here in the pink tent a try." You can tell the guys who've tried this more than once because the post says something like "Ladies, any of you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:15 PM
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If you're looking for a relationship, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:08 PM
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And a man is generally interested in seeing if the person's interested in THEM first, not a free meal. Women stupidly pointed out on social media that they do the whole "foodie call" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:07 PM
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Why black? Why are you bringing race into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:53 PM
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1) Date quality men. 2) Find someone who's genuinely kind and appreciates time with you, and likewise, find someone who you appreciate time with and want to be with. "Be nice" to a jerk just ends up with you exploited. Understand that a relationship is work for both parties, compromise for both parties, and sacrifice for both parties. So be prepared to put in the work, and also be prepared to stand up for what you want in an assertive, but not aggressive manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:51 PM
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Most women are obese. That's just the way it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:46 PM
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Just as women assume that abusive, mercenary women who take them to the cleaners in divorce/alimony child support court are instantly identifiable as bad people right off the jump and it's the man's fault for letting himself be deceived and not choosing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:09 PM
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You want to get laid? As a woman - just advertise that fact. Being a woman and advertising you want to get laid is like being a man and advertising that you just want to settle down and cuddle now that you've won 12,000,000 in the Powerball.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 02:54 PM
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No we aren't. Bonobos fuck on the regular. They've also seen no need to leave the trees and evolve as they get everything out of life they want. Food, lying around all day and regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 11:25 AM
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"What kind of sandwich would you like?" I'd go downstairs and make the greatest sandwich it is possible for me to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:36 PM
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The Wall is a stupid idea. When I was a teenager, I couldn't think of how an older person could be considered attractive. Now that I'm in my 40s, I appreciate women in their 40s and sorry, yes, your tits defy gravity and your skin is smoother, but younger women aren't as attractive to me as they were. And also, there's more to a relationship with a woman than a firm pair of tits and if that's all you're into you're going to be very disappointed no matter what your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:35 PM
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Yeah, well as I said, I'd like to hear the woman's theory that isn't "it's all men's fault, I'm perfect". There are multiple theories and grains of truth in each one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:33 PM
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Because there are a lot of men who hold the view that women don't like sex, who've never had sex and therefore have never been able to ascertain or prove their own sexual viability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:03 PM
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Because laziness in understanding other people's motives is tiring. It's as tiring as "women don't like sex because they won't fuck me."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 11:51 AM
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The same way patrons, admirers and others do. Show up with a critical eye to appreciate. Creative types make near zero money doing what they do unless they're in some kind of industry/factory mold. They'll spend hundreds if not thousands on paints, plug-ins, instruments, dance classes, whatever it is. And make near zero for it. I'll give you the example of music. With the democratization of the space, e.g. it's not all about big record companies, anyone with a bedroom studio can create a hit (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 11:02 AM
1

Sorry, saying to OP: find the fet/poly folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:54 AM
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What's your guess? "Because they're shitty lovers" doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:54 AM
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Your grade for trolling today is D+.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:59 AM
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. I think it’s also based on a belief that women don’t like sex. Can you not see why men would think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:59 AM
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OK Zoomer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:57 AM
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Not all of us have high body fat thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:55 AM
1

Find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:53 AM
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I didn't see any of those. I saw a few "you men are disgusting, my N count doesn't matter" posts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:30 AM
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Join swinger's clubs, have a decent personality, and develop excellent sexual skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:08 AM
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There are corner cases where people meet and regardless of the age difference they just click as people. I'm not in a relationship like this, never have been, but I've seen it. And I feel bad for initially assuming she had "daddy issues" or whatever. They were just.... a pot with a matching lid born 20+ years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:41 PM
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Am aware and am agreeing. That was a sarcastic jab from me. But then again, everyone assumes their feelings are normative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:38 PM
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But women want sex too. They know what it's like to not feel desired and wanted just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:34 PM
2

Holy shit you aren't kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:26 PM
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She clearly said he stopped having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:21 AM
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Women have this bizarre idea that all men want to fuck all women, that they're like some goalie deflecting 10,000 cocks slapshotted at them a day. And positively mystified when after years of putting in no effort the guy just gets bored or tired. I was reading a DB post in which a commentor said she had low libido for years and kept denying her husband and then was mystified when she developed one and he no longer cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:19 AM
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Of course. If you, off the jump said "look, I'm not interested in sex or having sex with you, like, ever, but I would like the babies, the house, you doing all the chores and making all the money" most men would say "thank you very much, but sex is important to me in a relationship so I'll try and find someone more compatible in that regard." So LIE. And make sure you engineer the society so that you can "damsel in distress" to get alimony and he has to pay you for your kids and of course, half …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:56 AM
7

We've still got people who think once the cock enters the vagina, consent is there and cannot be revoked until he finishes. We live in a fucked up world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:02 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:55 AM
1

Gen X. Stopped caring about what people do sexually years ago, maybe the youngsters are piled up like the guys at the end of the "gooback" episode in South Park, but that's no concern of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:49 AM
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Did this really all manifest once she got the Ring on her finger? People I know who are in dead bedrooms who've confided it to me said basically, yes. Once he was stuck in at the point where extrication involved lawyers and handing over house keys and not seeing the kids, he knew it was either leave and have it cost him dearly, or just bitterly live without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:42 AM
1

Never met a "poly" that couldn't have been aptly described with "roly" stuck in front of it. Fat chicks with bangs. And their scrawny boyfriends with the pubestaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:38 AM
1

Dude, seriously. It is. Fat chicks can dress up the whole "I'm poly! Which means I have multiple partners! My primary, and my secondary, we all wrap this in big words, but it amounts to I have cake and am on the lookout for more" all they want, but that's what it is. You can't pair bond with someone who's a serial cheater in all but name.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:34 AM
1

That was two separate statements. For most people poly people are off the menu because nobody wants someone who thinks of a their relationship partner as a backup while they troll around for other dick or flaps. N count matters because one way or another it's a measure of character or circumstances that can greatly affect a future relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:25 AM
1

Polyamorous people have their own problems. Show me a girl with a triple digit N count and I'll show you a prostitute, a nymphomaniac, or someone who was greviously sexually abused as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:18 AM
2

That way she can tell mom and her friends "I caught one!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:58 AM
1

Equivalent question: why do women have a problem with men who have a history of cheating? A serial cheater isn't going to necessarily cheat on you, or walk out on you if you get pregnant or bring a passel of diseases with him. What we're seeing in this thread is women who basically took full advantage of their ability to pull dick and hate that there are consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:57 AM
1

Liking sex is one thing. Putting yourself into every available hole or sticking every available penis into you is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:55 AM
1

He gives, she takes. She says yes but he puts in all the work of the setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:54 AM
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Women with very high n-counts are either that way because they have no self control e.g. manic depression or other serious mental issues, or were sexually abused as children, or were trading sex for something. None of which is conducive to being a good life partner. Also, yes, men would like a woman who's sexually open and adventurous and wants sex a lot. And when she's burned out having fucked every other cock in town, that means there's nothing left in the pussy tank for you. You do, however, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:08 PM
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Depends on your motivation going into it. It works when both parties realize things have gone shitty and they need to have a professional unfuck their lives. But typically it fails because it's a chick dragging a guy to it so some FEMALE therapist can take her side and be a better nagger than she is. It's at that point that most therapists say "this.... isn't working. Let me recommend a lawyer."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:56 PM
0

Oh I see. Sorry, I was referring to actual abuse, not the legal definition thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:46 PM
0

Never said women can't enjoy intercourse. I am saying, they give it, men take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:46 PM
3

Temporary layoffs, easy credit ripoffs. Ain't we lucky we got em.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:37 PM
1

Hence the push for more socialism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:33 PM
0

Nope, but I'm reading a subreddit full of folks like that and have had friends and co-workers this happened to. You maintain though that that isn't abusive. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:55 PM
0

So a woman who pretends she likes sex until she gets the ring, and he loses his house and kids if he leaves and then suddenly goes "yeah, I never liked that, hope you like jerking off, tee hee. I win" isn't being abusive? Sorry, reading this as well as deadbedrooms right now. Yikes, the attitudes of some people. I can see where the incel MGTOWs get their ideas from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:53 PM
0

Well of course. Women give sex, men take it. If you want to deny fundamental realities, go ahead. Or you could figure out what makes women tick sexually, and cater to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:51 PM
1

What about being denied sex at all? We agree that anal is disgusting and painful and any guy that wants it needs his head examined. I'm talking about people misleading each other to manipulate them. That's wrong. For men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:48 PM
0

Interesting. Do you tell women who end up with guys who "seemed so nice" at first and then ended up beating the shit out of them that it's their fault for not choosing better? Sounds like victim blaming here, anything but hold women to account for being mercenary (when they are - most women aren't like this).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:04 PM
1

You presented what would make you feel shitty, I showed you what multiple men were talking to you about basically is the male equivalent. This resonated with you so you chose to get personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:03 PM
0

Bit difficult after the marriage and kids and she gets the house, alimony and child support. Almost as if the state hands her all the cards so she can unilaterally decide for them both. Heads I win, tails you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:13 PM
2

Oh no! Anything but that! /s I'm not the only one trying to get this concept to you, you can block us all - but I mean, you could actually try and learn something. That's what we're all here for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:13 PM
0

Unless she tells you yes, she's into sex, really adventurous, etc to get a guy into a relationship and then, you know, changes her mind as soon as she gets what she wants. The male version is becoming sexually apathetic in relationships and that also happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:04 PM
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Did he take exes on trips because she's better looking? Yeah that's going to make me feel shitty. "I was more sexually adventurous with men I was really into, Sir Chadlington was oh my God so dreamy. But Wilbur dearest, with YOU I'm a different person for.... reasons. Just be happy I let you have sex with me once every three months at all."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:02 PM
-1

Exactly, she's "settling" or into you for security and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:56 PM
1

Well said. We can pretty much end the subreddit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:56 PM
0

Doesn't it depend on where you live? I'm sure that you don't find these attitudes at all in East Methlab, West Virginia, but if you lived in the Sanderest part of San Francisco, you'd be asked "what's that supposed to mean" even if you said "hello".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:28 PM
3

I'm not sure what's permitted any more AT ALL here. "I like cake"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:27 PM
1

Well, if you're not going to apologize, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:40 PM
7

Facts are just so inconvenient aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:53 AM
1

Not looking at facts? Never accuse anyone else of arguing in bad faith in future, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:20 AM
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More often. And they use weaponry to make up the physical difference. Or attack the guy in his sleep. Have you not seen the societal trope of the woman waiting up for the return of the drunken husband with a rolling pin or frying pan in hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:19 AM
2

Did you see the apology? It wasn't one. They were making light and giggling the whole time and all like *eyeroll* the network want us to say we were just having some fun and you know, if you found it offensive, we're soooooo soooooo sooooooooory. Just some girls having fun, but, you know - gosh, if you're going to be so sensitive, but whatever, we've been told to say this....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:15 AM
0

Well yes, I can see the point as well. If the women had laughed about a woman smacking a guy across the head for making an off-color joke, I wouldn't have cared. But a pre-meditated attack like that with that level of seriousness - whole nother kettle of fish. Also, that most of the women there were clearly all like "yeah, I could see myself doing that" and "wish I had done that" and "hope my husband's watching - don't piss me off har har har".... hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:13 AM
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No, it wouldn't be funny to have a panel of men joking about a man mutilating his wife, because it's something that happens every fucking day. Women are sensitive to jokes about male on female violence because it is a real thing that happens Gosh, today I learned that women don't abuse men, they don't use weapons to do it, and it certainly isn't dismissed by women going "women don't abuse men" when it's clear they do. Loreena Bobbitt is a fictional character, these women were joking about the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:09 AM
1

Thick wallet. And again, just as some men are into huge tits and some aren't, some women are into a thick wallet, and most don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:57 AM
8

Yes. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:55 AM
0

Yes, men do care about women's feelings but most are socialized to not understand them. It's very difficult to learn empathy when you aren't shown any. If your entire modelled life experience is a stern "Boys don't cry" you're not really sure what nurturing thing to do when someone you care about is crying. Because what you've instinctively learned is the people who cared about you most, your parents - well, one person just turned away in disgust and told you your feelings don't matter, and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:54 AM
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When something comes up, I'll link you to it. You have me confused with some kind of MGTOW incel. I'm not saying women are these hideous evil beasts, but let's put it this way, I've never heard any decent dating advice from one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:28 AM
2

Something like equal rights? Got them already. Nope. Please don't say "wage gap", that's been debunked. No it wasn't. Name a right you don't have. I'll wait. Also, yes, the wage gap HAS been debunked LOL. So you are an ignorant hateful little person Wrong. Found the person who can't argue the issue or use logic so she resorts to belittling and femsplaining and ad hominem. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:15 AM
2

I don't recall ever speaking on women's behalf. I will call rank bullshit when women claim one thing and do another. Just as when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:14 AM
2

I always listen to what they have to say. I also pay closer attention to what they actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:32 AM
2

How? Have you actually READ a feminism text? Nobody gives a fuck about manspreading. https://nypost.com/2019/07/19/manspreading-chair-wins-award-for-forcing-dudes-legs-together/ theguardian.com/world/2017/jun/08/madrid-tackles-el-manspreading-public-transport-with-new-signs https://www.gender-focus.com/2016/02/13/manspreading/ ​ And nobody would complain if men didn't feel entitled to take more space that's designed for their own seat. But it's funny how out of all feminist issues you selected t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:32 AM
2

Including the one I'm married to and the ones I'm a father of, the ones I'm friends and co-workers with? The ones I slept with and dated before I was married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:27 AM
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Because we pay more attention to what you actually do than the giant pile of rationalizations and weasel words you cocoon yourselves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:19 AM
2

> I never noticed the opposite trend. In case of women discussing men, it's mostly about venting or complaining. In cases of men discussing women, Are you kidding me? Feminism,for one, categorizes every single man on earth as XYZ. I've even seen women say that manspreading is a function of wanting to oppress women, rather than taking literally 0.00001 seconds to understand the concept of testicles, even though 99.9% of the rest of the time they're making jokes about kicking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:18 AM
1

I would. I shit on modern feminism as much as I do incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:07 PM
9

Nobody likes being cheated. Also, people like you later going on about how she's totally ruined because of an n-count that just got increased by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:00 AM
0

LOL sure okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:26 AM
2

People were signing quitclaim deeds to walk away from houses because with the explosion in interest rates people could no longer afford to live in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:11 AM
2

What makes you young people think I'm interested in you? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:00 AM
1

How does that disprove what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:45 AM
1

So you DON'T want just sex. *writes that down*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:45 PM
1

It’s also not exclusive to women. It’s for whoever was the dependent spouse. I'm sure you'll find that men in this situation are WAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYY less likely to Monty Haul their way out of a divorce court. You know it, I know it. Sure you can find ONE celebrity taken to the cleaners by a K-Fed type but most of the time it's women marrying up, women pleading damsel in distress in court, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:44 PM
0

So they at some point stop being MGTOW and just go their own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:43 PM
1

My mistake, usually shawarma is associated with Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:42 PM
1

Maybe he isn't into fetishism. As for swinging, you have to bring a woman with you to get into that kind of club. Otherwise it's just a bunch of men standing around going WHERZA GURLS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:42 PM
1

I'm only going by the ranting they bleat on the internet. If their marriages failed because they were so damned misogynist, they could either learn from their mistakes or build a bridge and get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:41 PM
1

That "right" was me agreeing with your last sentence above. > The state doesn’t grant women the privileges of a relationship. Alimony, child support, family courts granting her the house when she decides to leave him.... he still has to continue working to pay her bills whereas she.... does what she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:52 PM
0

Well, they are, but not purely for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:41 PM
1

Right. Funny thing is, the incels are doing the same thing: arguing that if the state will grant a woman the privileges of a relationship when it ends (e.g. free cash, a house, etc) then incels should get sex assigned to them by the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:35 PM
2

there's plenty of plain or overweight women who would jump you given the chance. You'd think that, but that just isn't the case for the average man. Sorry to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:33 PM
1

I said fucking you, not LTRing you. Men have 10 lined up happy to get a "relationship". Sex on the other hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:21 PM
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Going your own way is one thing. MGTOW is another. You might not hate women personally, but I can assure you every MGTOW site is a pus-filled carbuncle of incel rage disguised as "I'm taking my ball away and not playing with you anymore".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:18 PM
1

Sure they do. They do when they're "looking for something real" and realize that that tequila-soaked bed-hopping routine in her 20s didn't get her the relationship she wanted. After reading "The Rules" or similar advice she's decided to make this NEXT guy wait and put out dinners and relationships and so forth so she gets what SHE wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:10 PM
1

Trump doesn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:08 PM
2

He kisses his own daughter with more erotic interest than he does his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:08 PM
3

Donald Trump inherited a very large amount of money and now is only worth a large amount of money. With all of his failed business ventures if he'd just stayed at home and done gardening or whatever - honestly he'd have been better off keeping his daddy's money in the stock market where it was - he'd be even more richer. If his dad had been a plumber and he'd built up this empire, yeah, I'd say that reeks of alpha. And I'll say this: a truly alpha male wouldn't be looking to gold-plate his toile…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:06 PM
3

I'm a guy, and I'll back your play. I've seen women DESTROYED by a case or two of whiskey dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:02 PM
2

This is true. But it tends to be driven as an attack against the man. e.g. "You don't love me anymore!" vs "there's something about me that's unlovable!" "You're cheating on me!" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:02 PM
3

Societally, yes. They refer to a man's involvement in sex, literally as "performance".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:01 PM
1

They don't. And that's why we need to teach men that for women, sex is more a means to an end. It's something she will enjoy giving to a partner who provides for her in other ways. If you want sex, be prepared to think of it as a shared activity with someone you deeply bond with, not something you can dial up and instantly get on a computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:54 AM
2

Because you have 10 more lined up who'd happily fuck you. To be fair, men generally do not have this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:51 AM
1

Why should women spend their time with someone who only wants to have sex? Because according to every feminist I've ever heard, "women are horny too" and "women want sex just as much as men do". If that's the case, why do you have to buy them a meal to figure out if there's a compatible desire? Two gay men (men actually want sex) can simply arrange the whole thing by text before ever meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:47 AM
1

Found the Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:46 AM
4

Where is this magical land where women are readily available for sex to the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:45 AM
1

I think it's just the whole "women who have tattoos tend to be bar skanks" mentality. The same way it used to be that the only men who had tattoos were either sailors or had been to jail. The only tattoos on women I can't get into are decolletage tattoos and that's just from an aesthetic viewpoint. They "flatten" an area that really looks pleasing curved. Or that "semicircle of text in cursive from collarbone to collarbone" across both shoulders that really accentuates the shoulders in a manly w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:44 AM
2

So where do you live, do you just sleep at the whorehouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:42 AM
1

There are two main groups of men doing exactly that. RedPillers, who basically are looking at "pussy" as a commodity and looking for the lowest seller, and MGTOWs, basically incels who hate women entirely as if their only worth comes from the vaginas they have and won't give away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:41 AM
1

We can make diamonds in a lab.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:39 AM
2

Look at what the resale value is on a diamond ring. Go back to the store after the relationship turns sour and see how much they give you for it. HINT: That $5000 ring? You're not remotely getting anywhere near even one grand for it. Diamonds are NOT scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:39 AM
1

Women want grandkids. If their son is sitting around programming computers instead of slaying pussy, many a one will make discreet enquiries about whether said son needs hormones, gay conversion therapy or some kind of chick to "take one for the team" and give him some confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:53 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:52 AM
2

- most of you here on PPD today have no idea how profoundly destabilizing and damaging alcohol abuse was to the lower classes back around the turn of the 20th century. Um, it still is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:30 AM
3

Fucking meant children. Not all the time, but pretty much. It meant if she fucked around on you, that kid might not be yours. It meant teenage fumbling behind the bleachers meant leaving school at 15 and pretty much lifelong poverty compared to what you could have achieved if you had finished high school. In antiquity, it meant never marrying off a daughter, because nobody wanted to buy in to a woman bringing in other people's kids to feed. And since killing a baby was monstrous, they'd just kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:29 AM
1

Most people are boring to most people. If you want to bore the ever loving shit out of me, bang on about sports. Most people find my love of attending the symphony particularly excruciating and would consider that a tier of hell. It's actually a struggle to find people you share interests with AND can relate to. I can sympathize with most women, dealing with someone whose interests are video games, sports and farting, and not in that order, and whose main goal in getting a woman in their life is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:25 AM
1

There's a chapter in Norah Vincent's "Self Made Man" talking about this phenomenon. She was used to dating women as a woman, finding out their interests and dealing with each other as people. As a man, most women just simply rejected her literally on the spot, because she's 5'5". Anyone she did end up meeting who stuck around beyond the first glance held what was in essence a job interview. Never mentioned anything about themselves or what they would bring to the relationship, just "I think ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:13 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:26 PM
2

Well, their two kids won't feed themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:15 PM
4

People are not marrying their high school sweethearts in their late 20s. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:15 PM
2

That's when they start to settle, seeing how difficult it is to settle in their mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:51 AM
2

Because of a shitty personality or he's on the spectrum enough to not be able to connect with other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:42 AM
4

That's "you'll do".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:41 AM
1

Because women eventually get much older and realize that if they "settle" for a guy they can push around life is a lot easier and cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:38 AM
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Because multiple studies have shown it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:26 AM
3

There were a lot of Generation Xers who failed to launch or didn't get their lives started until around 30. Some recovered and bought just before housing prices got crazy, many didn't. This has been steadily getting worse but was masked by the blip where in the late 90s-early 2000s if you could even SPELL HTML dot coms were giving money out left and right to young people. That didn't last though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:14 AM
1

Do keep in mind "incel" has a specific meaning here. Not just "dude who isn't getting laid right now" but "man who believes he's entitled to sex and wants women forced by governments to sleep with them and it's okay to kill women if they don't put out."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:05 AM
5

> And then she meets you and you push all her buttons, she says you’re the best she’s ever had. she said that to 30,000 other men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:47 PM
5

I said straight out there was no fucking way it would work. It would be full of literal prostitutes and/or women going "oh, wow, I thought this was to make friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:32 PM
1

Oh yeah? Unless there's active neglect going on, what's the statute that says this? It doesn't cost $10,000 a month to buy Froot Loops for kids, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:34 AM
1

Actually, yes. I've heard far more people express to me that they've avoided sex for fear of disappointing a partner. So, uh, yeah I'm far more likely to hear it than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:33 AM
1

And uh nooo the state spends a lot of effort making sure the money gets spent how it’s supposed to. Wrong. There is LITERALLY no obligation on the part of the mother to spend the money in any way other than how she pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:02 PM
1

Of course. Thing is men can't typically go wah wah wah (hide the LV purse) he never gives me any money my kids need things gimme gimme like women can. And also, neglecting the kids is a really good way of having the kids go to her along with tons of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:46 PM
2

You're assuming the woman would spend that money on the child. Some do, some don't. Basically, women are free to spend that untaxed income however they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:17 PM
1

I don't have sex with men so they don't lie to me about foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:11 PM
4

My brain literally switched off within seconds. I could actually hear oxygen being wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:58 PM
1

Yes I would. And you really don't know what a white knight is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:55 PM
5

Technically your incels can go ahead and stick it into a glory hole too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:37 PM
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Not how this works. In the same vein that if you don't want kids you shouldn't have to pay for schools, I don't want to have to pay for your kids, so get this - if you don't want kids, keep your penis in your pants. Although with your attitude I don't think getting a girl pregnant will ever be an issue for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:35 PM
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And women get treated worse just for existing. My point is, you're getting harassed for wearing a man-purse, women are getting harassed for being born women. We need to band together and stop this behavior in everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:06 PM
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Lol "wreck her seniority"? Who's forcing her to have the kid? who's talking about marriage? She can get right back to fucking work and pay for a daycare service if she is so worried about losing her "seniority". But women choose to stay home with the kid. She made that decision and should be forced to take on the consequences. She didn't have to have the kid in the first place. No, you BOTH made the choice to do that, and so you BOTH have to put your lives together and BOTH have to pay to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:05 PM
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Some gay men are short and fat and ugly. Bend over. And if I don't want kids, I shouldn't have to pay for schools period. "I don't want roads, a military, police, taxes, health inspections or literate people around me so I shouldn't have to pay taxes at all hurr durr." Sorry libertarian boy, you live in a society. Contribute to it, and that includes schools. Your life could depend on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:04 PM
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No need to thank me, it's literally the only decent position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:27 PM
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Programs men benefit from does not include sex. By your logic, you should be forced to take it up the ass from a bunch of gay guys because they are undersexed and pay taxes to build schools and so forth that they'll never send their kids to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:26 PM
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Fuck off with that shit. By that same "logic", men aren't obligated to give women shit. Including CS/alimony/welfare/protection/jobs/etc. If you sire a child you are responsible for it, period full stop. If you marry someone and take her out of the labor pool - wreck her seniority and so forth and then discard her, you're going to have to top up her earnings while she regains a foothold in the job market. Alimony is not a permanent sincecure it's typically support designed to transition her back…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:24 PM
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Man chiming in to second this. Please stop thinking you're owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:21 PM
2

Just go find communities germane to your interests. There's no need to harp on or have a community talking about why you can't deal with men. By definition it will get incel-y very quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:18 PM
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That comes with its own set of problems. The plus side, from what I understand, is that both parties want SEX and negotiate that upfront. It's like here's what I want, okay, here's what I want. Okay, well in that Venn Diagram, we'd be doing X, Y and Z but not A B and C. I'll do A if you do I out of the I, J, K. The minus side is AIDS, rectal soreness, and needing to be pretty God-tier in terms of looks as well as a much smaller dating pool to pull from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:15 PM
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it can be uncomfortable to dress nice. If you are in any way expecting sympathy from women with heels and underwires and so forth, you're going to have a bad time. Anything from “wow you look great” to more snarky/rude comments. Beats HEY BITCH NICE TITS shouting from a passing car, again, you're protesting too much. Would you say to a women wearing a low cut shirt “the sun is out and so are those tittys” lol no. Oh women hear much worse than that just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:11 PM
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You live in a weird world where "I don't have sex because I'm not good enough" is "lying to make myself look better."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:07 PM
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It's not done in good faith which is the essence of sea lioning. Again, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:49 PM
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n 2019 it's difficult for one person to make ends meet. Regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:49 PM
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You can whine about it, or you can say okay, what makes women want to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:48 PM
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My only gripe is you breaking the rules of this subreddit. I’m a feminist, among other things. I would not date my partner if he wasn’t one. We get it. But the point is, people generally don't go around looking for people who oppose their core beliefs. OPs point about the difficulties in relationships isn't that a feminist went out and started dating a gun-toting redneck who thought a woman's place was in the kitchen or whatever (because that so rarely happens it's a comedy trope that it would) …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:39 AM
4

aqualata Come again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:30 AM
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Not as thirsty. You're far less likely to buy a McDonald's cheeseburger if you've had a good meal. If you're on the road and you've been driving for three hours straight, and you last ate six hours ago, you're likely to pick up a roller hot dog at the gas station. But nobody who ever finished a good meal at Thanksgiving would go "you know what? I'm going to jump in the car and head out to the gas station for a hot dog." Women, not having an innate sex drive as such (it's more complicated - they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:28 AM
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"My husband and I aren't like that" isn't a slam against the proposition? Either you were implying that it's easy to avoid because you did it, or you made the most narcissistic statement turning everything into being about you I've ever heard. Also, Rule 9. It's not a "dislike" button.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:22 AM
2

This is a man who was trying to have sex with a minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:15 AM
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That whole "well I wouldn't be with X unless we're compatible". We get you wouldn't date a Christian if you're an atheist and vice versa, but it's amazing how many people get married, buy houses together, have kids and/or otherwise intertwine their lives and the other person finds Jesus or decides one day God is bullshit, or whatever. Just dismissing the people as stupid for picking poorly isn't fair - a lot of this stuff happens after you say Happily Ever After.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:10 AM
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He ended up with Beyonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:06 AM
2

You'll quite often find "sexy-ugly" guys (the term in the UK is "handsomely ugly" for the record) are not only famous but also rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:06 AM
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This idea that "yikes incel, women actually have it just as bad when it comes to dating! They just want a happy relationship but only get thirsty men wanting to pump and dump ". Cut the bullshit Karen, women want dick just as much as men want pussy. Your mileage may vary. The switch usually flips in the early to mid 20s. All kinds of weird stuff happens once you leave your college/salad days and realize holy shit, there's things like BILLS and OBLIGATIONS and life is hard. The "LUG" phenomenon r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:05 AM
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People change. There have been men who have come home to find that she suddenly believes in all this women's libby stuff, there have been women who've been dating people who decide to go MGTOW. People convert to different religions and adopt different philosophies all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:59 AM
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Oh, you're sea lioning. I don't waste my time with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:56 AM
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Just anecdotal stuff. Remember, according to the state what the woman says goes, and the women are all like "your father walked out" and so forth. I know of more men that this happened to than men who just fucked off on their kids. I admit it does happen, but I've seen a lot of nonsense as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:01 AM
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Yes they do. But you have to understand HOW women love sex and WHY they love sex. These incels that think women just want to open their legs because they innately just want someone inside them the same way they just want to be inside other people are very disappointed because their experience isn't women's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:36 PM
4

Who talks more? Who constantly complains about language and changes it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:09 PM
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Nope. But we men talk amongst ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:07 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:06 PM
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Wait! WAIT WAIT WAIT Are you telling me that state media from a left liberal woke country is shaming men for pursuing women? Yet another example of where men are always wrong? Next thing you'll be telling me that water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:30 PM
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In theory you become BF and GF and develop a relationship. It's not on date 3 "yeah, let's go out, relationship established". A status maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:33 PM
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Just saying people don't have to settle, they can even order the new guy to use the previous guy's knob by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:32 PM
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Agreed. Unless you're with a girl who isn't into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:31 PM
1

Well, once you get yours, withdraw consent. ​ and a lot of women get very self-conscious when the guy can't cum News flash: most men do when women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:47 PM
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RIP your inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:46 PM
1

I'm not actually arguing with you. I'm asserting what you are, and backing you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:46 PM
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Reported. Be Civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:03 PM
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We call it a job Do you need me to define a job for you? Oh you sweet poor deluded summer child. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/job?s=t job 1[ job ]SHOW IPASEE SYNONYMS FOR job ON THESAURUS.COM noun a piece of work, especially a specific task done as part of the routine of one's occupation or for an agreed price:She gave him the job of mowing the lawn.a post of employment; full-time or part-time position:She was seeking a job as an editor.SEE MORE ​ There is no "A and B". It's all A. And prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:01 PM
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Unless a woman looks like Ronnie James Dio in drag (and he's been dead for quite a while) she doesn't need to put in effort. She WILL be offered cock. The guy will get on top of her and shove it in. The amount of effort she has to put in is literally to shrug her shoulders and go "okay I guess".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:58 PM
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Making it that she doesn't have to do anything. The woman can be COMATOSE and the guy will climax inside her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:53 PM
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That's like saying "what's the difference between having sex with you five times a week, and me having sex with you twice a week and three times with other women?" This bit about 1 vs 10,000 guys is an argument against the concept of a vagina "wearing out" because of "overuse", like women are a cylinder bore in an engine block that needs re-sleeving every 100,000 miles. Interesting that women should suggest this also applies to the psychology of being the town bike vs being with one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:51 PM
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I'm not saying men like that don't exist. I'm saying the percentage of men who are sexually selfish and lazy is much lower than women would whine about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:48 PM
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She doesn't have to put in any effort. Evolution has made it relatively easier for men to climax. Predator pressure sets the rhythm and the men that took forever to climax didn't pass on their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:45 PM
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wrong https://www.livescience.com/20684-porn-relationships.html Very first paragraph Young women who report that their romantic partners look at porn frequently are less happy in their relationships than women partnered with guys who more often abstain, new research finds. Which. translated into the vernacular - is LITERALLY Gals: asserts that porn use ruins a man's ability to form relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:40 PM
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Some women don't. They make their new partner pleasure them with a dildo made from a cast of their ex-boyfriend who had The Big Magic Stick. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1jaysp/so_my_girlfriend_has_been_using_a_dildo_molded/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:39 PM
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I can last about 2-3 hours? Depending on the time we have available. If you have that level of ejaculatory control you are literally 1 in 10,000 and a sex god. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:33 PM
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Here's an interesting set of facts - Women like sex and find it pleasurable - They also want to avoid the risks of being somewhere with random people So if they're with someone they happen to like and trust and he's good looking enough (and hung) to make sex with him worthwhile, he's potentially worth fucking just to scratch that itch without having to risk ending up in pieces on the side of the interstate after picking the wrong Internet rando.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:26 PM
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Women get upset at the FACT that men have much much higher libidos because they've been conditioned with the idea that men and women are just the same, but for this pesky patriarchy holding them down. That isn't the case. Men are capable of thinking of nothing and just going to sleep without lying there thinking for 45 minutes about everything they have to do the next day. Men are capable of just being in a relationship without constantly over-analyzing everything. Men can carry a fridge up thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:23 PM
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I’m with you. I am sincere. I believe men have an obligation to make women cum first. Most men earnestly believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:16 PM
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Women are woefully ignorant of a lot of things concerning male sexuality. Erection does not equal sexual interest. Lack of erection doesn't equal lack of sexual interest, for starters. The idea that men choose to climax eariler than women do out of pure selfishness (in theory they could go on for hours, they'd rather see women frustrated) is highly amusing to me. A man who chose to delay his own gratification by 25 minutes would be a sex god and have his pick of any woman in town given that so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:14 PM
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We dpn't refer to fellatio as a "blow job"? Or male manual stimulation as a "hand job"? You're saying that's bullshit? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handjob A handjob is a sex act, performed as either foreplay or as non-penetrative sex, that involves the manual stimulation of a man's penis or scrotum by another person to induce an erection for sexual pleasure, sexual arousal and sometimes resulting in orgasm and ejaculation. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blowjob Fellatio (also known as fellation…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:06 PM
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Interesting factoid about the language around sex where women are involved - it's basically called work. We don't call cunnilingus a "lick job" or fingering a woman as a "finger job". When a woman lies back and goes "go ahead" as someone's fucking her, there's no real word for that, it's just... well it happens. But when a woman actually has to actively participate in stimulating a man with her hand, it's a "hand job". When she's using her mouth, it's a "blow job". That's because women consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:52 AM
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I view it as a natural fact of life. I also find it amusing that every commercial on TV trying to get men to buy things is, in essence, "buy this and whatever little sexual interest she have will be directed your way."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:48 AM
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For a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:45 AM
2

There are a lot more men frozen out of their kids' lives than there are men who went out for cigarettes and never came back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:32 AM
1

I am. Successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:32 AM
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Middle aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:14 AM
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No, as I am not into men. Not interested in hearing anyone deluded to the contrary. I totally empathize with body dysmorphia, but I'm into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:17 AM
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True in the least bit. Remove work outside the home from both sides and see who does more time of it. By your OWN statistics, women do far more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:13 PM
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Find better people. There are far more women supporting far more relatively deadbeat men than you would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:35 PM
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This. She didn't ask for half his worth, under the laws of the state they live in, she automatically gets it. And if it'd been Jane Bezos and Mac Bezos and she'd left him, he'd have been the richest stay at home husband ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:33 PM
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There's a LOT of women who have supported the shit out of men. There was a trope decades ago of guys going through medical school and she's working a job to help that happen, then when he graduates, he decides that he can do better and fucks off. A lot of modern women hypergamically fuck off, but more women stick around and do more than you give them credit for. Never mind that the balance of things like housework and chores and support are VERY much slanted in men's favor most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:28 PM
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There's that but don't discount the fact, and it is a fact, that porn has just gotten more gonzo over the decades. It's gone from watching soft focus tits and a hint of bush to "Choked and forcibly impregnated my stepsister".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:33 PM
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Let's cut to the chase shall we? Nobody has an issue with anyone having standards. Unreasonable standards on the other hand.... BOTH sexes act entitled. Men act as though they're entitled to sex, and entitled to a live in cook and maid in a partner. Women act as though men are there to look pretty and dick them down hard until they get bored of that, and then call over another man to be the guy to pay all their bills. Obviously, NOT ALL MEN and NOT ALL WOMEN. But when entitlement rears its head …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:56 PM
1

yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:53 AM
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I swear, this sub genuinely seems to forget the concept of liking someone. I think most men here are QUITE familiar with the friendzone, based on the amount of incel content here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:22 AM
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Ground beef is not "tasteless nutrient paste". There's hamburger, and then there's pink slime. And the sexual equivalent of pink slime is far unhealthier than the food version.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:20 AM
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For women, especially "woke" and "feminist" women, porn is the reason everything goes wrong. He's not sleeping with you anymore? Couldn't be that you gained 75 pounds, fight every day, developed halitosis that would bring tears to a statue, or whatever. MUST BE PORN. Men not paying for women's dates? Couldn't be that women now advertise that they'll "foodie call", or that men these days are far less likely to have the money (so therefore they're losers, amirite) it's PORN. Men not signing up for…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:57 PM
2

He's not doing that: he's looking at what some people profess and say "fuck the people who profess that".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:52 PM
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It's morally wrong to use other people. It's morally wrong to lie to them. That applies to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:48 PM
0

Ask a feminist, I've no idea. You have hit upon an interesting thing though - that supposedly partiarchy benefits all men but at the same time is toxic and corrosive and cancerous to them. Weird huh? Almost as if it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:47 PM
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When you have no answer to the claim, go ad hominem. Stick to snowflake forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:46 PM
1

That's not just world fallacy. Learn what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:45 PM
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No, the reason why I said Borgnanistan is because I didn't want to name an existing actual country. The principle is "place women aren't safe" not "fuck race/religion/country X" That's not what happens here. That's what happens where you are. YOU need feminism. I acknowledge that and always have. The question was what does it mean to me? I don't live where you live - I live where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:24 PM
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Good question! If the issue is that things are terrible for women in Western Bognormistan because of evil attitudes towards women there, go ahead and lecture the Bognormistanians about it and fix things there. Don't argue that I have to be even more shittily treated to compensate and I'm somehow to blame for it instead. In other words, don't bandage your elbow when your feet are cut open because it's easier to reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:40 AM
2

Dude, I literally told you the secret to my success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:20 AM
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I mean look at you, you woulndt date me, if for nothing else, then because i speak up against this inequality Just so you know, I wouldn't date you because I'm a heterosexual male who is also happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:12 AM
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They're doing you a favor by trying to fleece you off the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:38 AM
1

Holy shit, how about this. Why don't you just meet people, men and women, learn how to interact with human beings and form bonds with them and one of them will naturally lead to something better? Because as you say, going up and asking supermodels out and flexing your abs at them isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:34 AM
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so far, no woman likes me So meet different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:06 AM
1

What do you mean, "work"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:46 PM
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Actually, you're right. And telling you facts isn't an outburst. Be civil. Interesting fact: you're VERY unlikely to be incarcerated if you owe child support as a woman. A new report concludes that between 95% and 98.5% of all incarcerations in Massachusetts sentenced from the Massachusetts Probate and Family Courts from 2001 through 2011 have been men. Moreover, this percentage may be increasing, with an average of 94.5% from 2001 to 2008, and 96.2% from 2009 through 2011. It is likely that mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:41 PM
1

Dude, seriously. Be yourself, find someone who likes you for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:48 PM
1

Show me the law that states debtors prison only applies to men. Sent you the link. Men who have lost their job and cannot pay child support.... thrown. in. prison. indefinitely. Again, you're trying to use emotion to override law Love the "apart from the one that exists, so let's not count that" LOL. Nothing to do with feelings. FACT. Men treated unconstitutionally. FACT. Women NOT treated unconstitutionally. Have a nice day. Again, you're trying to use emotion to override law. Nothing to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:44 PM
1

You're doing it because you want women to react to you a certain way. And no woman has ever demanded you go to a gym, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:35 PM
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Women don't get thrown into debtor's prison because they lost their job. Also, LOVE the tactic "apart from the one I know about so it doesn't count..." it fucking DOES count. The constitution somehow not applying to men doesn't matter to you, just the possibility that women can't murder babies under the guise of "body autonomy". Don't want to potentially get pregnant? KEEP YOUR LEGS TOGETHER (Note that this is the advice given to men, which is perfectly acceptable to say BECAUSE REASONS)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:31 PM
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Exactly, the whole point of me going to the gym is to build muscle. I dont care about muscles but women like them. Like there are studies done about this. Having admitted you're doing all this to bait women, try something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:17 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child. They most certainly do. You won't, but you should read this. https://mensrights.com/child-support-case-study-jailing-dads-who-cant-pay/ Turns out if you're poor and you haven't paid child support as a result, you aren't entitled to the constitutionally guaranteed access to an attorney because reasons. Also, there's this. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/24/us/military-draft-men-unconstitutional.html WHAT WHAT? DRAFTING MEN ONLY IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL? How long has that bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:06 PM
1

I named two. You have ignored that multiple times. And insisted the right to murder other people should be a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:57 PM
1

Most do. Not directly, but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:54 PM
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"I don't want to use bait" says the guy who talks about the abs and ability to bench press 90kg as if any of that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:54 PM
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You're arguing with feelings, I'm only using facts and leaving my opinion out of it. Fact: abortion stops a beating heart. Your "feelings" are that it's "just some cells" that doesn't constitute a life worth living. The facts are, you're killing a human being because you don't like the responsibility. You feeling like women shouldn't have that particular constitutional right doesnt make it any less of a constitutional right. "Black people, just because you don't feel white people shouldn't own y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:51 PM
3

Not all women are like that. Maybe you're chasing the wrong women, and using the wrong bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:32 PM
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The fact that incels even exist is proof That you need to get off the couch, douche the sand out of your vagina, dress better, lose some weight, and treat women like human beings. No, you can't just pick one and say "you're my girlfriend now" you have to interact and mingle with a bunch of people to find who you're compatible and who's compatible with you. That's the problem with you kids, so damn used to clicking a button and everything comes to you ready made to order that you cannot literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:09 PM
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"Women should accept beta guys like me, fuck Chad, wwaaaaaahhhh" Basically INCEL CONTENT that is BANNED.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:58 PM
1

Patriarchy is the idea that every man benefits from the power struggle being the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:38 PM
1

Terrible analogy. In the case we're talking about here, it's more like, you wake up to find a violinist hooked up to your blood supply. You don't like that, so you get a set of bolt cutters and hack him apart because fuck him. That would not be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:28 PM
1

? violinist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:12 PM
1

She's not going to think about any of those. As far as she's concerned, literal slavery for men is their own fault. Which is TOTALLY different than women not keeping their legs together and complaining they have the constitutional right to kill other people they don't like is DIFFERENT because REASONS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:57 PM
1

What about the fetus' right to life? Ever thought we were fixing that whole "you can murder who you want" problem? Men do not have the right to kill people they find inconvenient, we're just fixing a weird loophole feminists wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:53 PM
1

Whatever. Point taken
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:53 PM
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Between r/FemaleDatingStrategy and r/incel it's pretty obvious both sides are considering it a game not worth playing anymore. What a shame rather than try and find something equitable, it's "if I can't have everything my own way I'm not playing" which is good -because relationships require give and take, communication and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:25 PM
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The law once defined a black person as 3/5 of a human being. Just saying. The law also says that me shoving a camera up your skirt in public and publishing pictures of your crotch is legal. I guess that's OK in your world too because "the law"? Also, the fact is two people enter an abortion clinic alive, only one leaves alive. Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:17 PM
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Well, it's true. Pick your friends better, don't be alone with a girl, and don't be creepy. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:09 PM
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That's nothing to do with body autonomy. You're not going to be allowed to murder another human being for your own convenience, any more than a man can murder a pregnant woman because he doesn't want to pay her child support. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:07 PM
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I haven't heard about any law to strip body autonomy from anyone. News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:55 PM
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That's nice, but if you go into atheism forums it's usually hate on Christianity. But you know leftists, we MUST RESPECT THE TRADITIONS OF OTHER CULTURES.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:45 PM
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In my experience, "atheism" means shit on Christianity, but never any other religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:28 PM
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I respect that. Most women are like no LOL women can't rape pay up sucker
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:28 PM
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May I ask if you are in sex work? It's a personal question and you don't have to answer. I won't judge you if you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:28 PM
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Does that apply to female rapists? Just saying. Because right now female rape is a CASH LOL NOW stratagem. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:26 PM
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Yes they do. Remember, this is the same stratagem that insists that men should never comment on female experience (but women can tell men about their own).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:25 PM
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There are people trying to stop this, but your ilk are just suggesting it's base racism. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:57 PM
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So it ISN'T "propaganda". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:57 PM
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So hold up, it was because they were anti sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:56 PM
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rapists have parental rights in about ~8 states If men who are raped have to pay child support, then rapists should be allowed to parent their own children. in NC a woman can’t withdraw consent after sexual activities have already begun, Wrong. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/north-carolina-rape-loopholes_n_5dc46f4de4b07a341dfeb1a4 ​ in GA up skirt photos are legal, Vile. But when you read the legal reasoning why.. But in September 2014, when this case hit the courts, Washington, D.C. Superior Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:38 PM
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So we need MORE feminism HERE because women in Saudi Arabia have to dress like the ghosts in Pac-Man. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:37 PM
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I would consider myself a feminist because I do agree a lot with the descriptive and normative claims made by feminism So.... you agree that we live mid-last century?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:36 PM
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A feminist is someone who aligns with the belief that women should have equal rights, opportunities, and autonomy What equal rights and opportunities does a woman not have here in 2019? No "in Saudi Arabia, blah blah blah" and things like "I don't get paid as much for basket weaving as an engineer gets for working longer hours at a harder field, no fair" doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:34 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:32 PM
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"I'm already cheating on you, and/or there's this guy I intend on fucking". Instant divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:32 PM
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It's not propaganda. It's actual fact. Warren Farrell was a president of NOW, and an ardent feminist. You can go look that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:15 PM
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Only according to the radfems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:05 PM
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Many men have posted this. What more are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:04 PM
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But they're fighting for you, you ingrate /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:04 PM
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Not at all. Read the Myth of Male Power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:03 PM
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No woman has ever gone to jail for accusing a man of raping her. A man, on the other hand, very well COULD himself defending himself when she goes "uh no, HE raped ME." She gets pregnant as a result? Fire up the machine, get the coat hanger, SCRAPE SCRAPE SCRAPE. She gets pregnant as a result of raping him? Better work your ass off for 18-25 years or you go to jail until you do pay, which could technically be forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:03 PM
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Because you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:54 PM
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To women taking responsibility, you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:53 PM
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easier acess to sex Men are having less sex than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:53 PM
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Actually, the first schism was in the 1960s. When the whole "let's fix gender roles, for men and women" became "well actually no, we want permanent alimony and usurious child support and the right to unilaterally fuck you in the ass and demand that you stiff upper lip and fix those power lines when we order you to". That's why many male feminists splintered apart and started the men's rights movement. The progenitors were actually higher-up male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:52 PM
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The original "sell" to men in the 1960s was that "gender roles hurt everyone mmmmmkay so let's fix women's issues, and that will free men to be free of their own gender demons." The men said "that's great, by the way since we're on the topic, here's the things that don't work for us with gender roles" And the women said "uh, no. You get to keep your obligations to us and paying for us and us telling you to do whatever you want and getting fucked by the legal system. This is about me." That's why…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:50 PM
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Basically my point was that the issue isn't whether she would want to hurt him like that, but the fact the she has the power to Women, having NO answer to that, IMMEDIATELY switch it back to "just pick better, and stop being a loser, and I know someone who beat his wife and REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:47 PM
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I think what they want is the 20 years of work and the lifetime of salary, but doing something like holding the hose and saying they're just as good, while it's the guy hauling charred bodies out and occasionally dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:45 PM
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It's all part and parcel of "I want freedom and choice, but for you to pay for it all."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:45 PM
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Also: "Why I can be fat and hideous but I shouldn't have to settle for a fat man".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:43 PM
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But if it's true https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affilia It IS true. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:43 PM
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In theory. In practice, it's "well, you're just a lesbian white woman, BITCH STAY IN YOUR LANE, I'm a leprous, Arab, HIV+ hunchback black half-blind dwarf, which means you only have two Oppression Cards, I have five so shut your bitch ass up."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:40 PM
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That's why "women getting money from one man" needs to turn into "government takes wealth from men and hands it over to women". I mean, that's what pretty much happens now, except they'd kind of like to be this pampered, Coach bag holding "making all the decisions" class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:38 PM
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Um, I just did?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:37 PM
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In between lesbian feminists who want to "smash the idea of family" In fairness they don't want that in order to get access to cute women, it's because women have wised up to the fact that they're now working two jobs, one which is slightly underpaid and one which isn't paid at all. They'd like a complete re-tool of how men and women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:36 PM
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Well that depends on your feminism. If you're a "choice feminist" it's "feminism means I get to do whatever I want and other people get to pay for it and make it happen" and if you're a "radical feminist" you're like "no, because what YOU want might hurt the rest of womynkind."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:34 PM
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"We should do whatever is best for white, upper middle class women".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:33 PM
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What changed your mind about radical feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:32 PM
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But law enforcement is all part of the patriarchy which is why their first thing is to ask women what they were wearing and why were they out at night. What we need is for MEN TO JUST STOP RAPING.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:26 PM
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Take any intro to feminism studies course, and you will learn all of this. It's literally Gender Studies 101. I can cross reference all of this. I have presented it in its most extreme form to make a point, but whether you're talking about Simone De Beauvoir's "The Second Sex" or the most virulent radfem screed, it's all on the same sheet of music, you're just cranking the volume knob. Don't forget that modern feminism stems from the temperance movement and suffragettes, who believed themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:20 PM
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They will replace this with a "man tax".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:04 AM
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Fair enough: An ideology is a set of normative beliefs and values that a person or other entity [ disambiguation needed ] has for non- epistemic reasons. Okay, so here's what I know (not believe) feminism to believe. Men are inherently evil. oppressive creatures who, lacking the innate ability to create life, annihilate and control everything around them. They are intellectually and morally inferior to women, they are only in charge because of their increased size and strength and the abusive us…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:46 AM
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And all of it has some element of "you men are terrible and need to do more". Whether it's first wave suffragettes talking about being morally superior to the brutish men holding them down To fourth wavers complaining about pronouns and air conditioning being sexist... it all boils down to UGH you MEN are ALL VILE and ONE DAY WE WILL BE RID OF YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:56 AM
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Not the KKK per se, but yes, many of the early feminists were white supremacists. In fact, after people of color got the vote in certain other countries, they were like "why do (people of color) get the vote, and we don't?" strongly implying it should be the other way around. Ahem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:37 AM
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"Nothing you do for us is ever good enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:22 AM
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Watch what they do. Not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:21 AM
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NAILED IT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:20 AM
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Very good. Just saying, if that ever doesn't work in your favor, don't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:18 AM
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What is feminism in 2019? Basically, professional victiming. Its premise is now that equality of opportunity and legal equality has been reached, now we somehow have to treat people unequally and try to eliminate any source of criminality that can affect women. "We need to end rape" I agree with, but it's the same as "let's stop stealing from each other and murdering each other". That's about individual criminality, nothing to do with legal frameworks or so forth that you can fix. It has also tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:48 PM
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- I want to feel chosen, not settled for PROTIP: remember this when you hit your 30s and tell the men around you you're done looking for "tingles" and are looking for a "real man" who will settle down with you and your two kids and they should feel FLATTERED that you are going for THEM now now that you've "grown old up."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:42 PM
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Because sometimes it's worth the gesture to women who've been dealing with misogynistic bullshit all day to hear "I don't need to defend you because you don't need gallant defending, but I'm doing it because it's the right thing to do". Also, because it would be a valid complaint later by a feminist to say "I didn't hear any of you telling the guy he was off base."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:48 AM
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It is a terrible state of affairs that beauty is supposed to ultimately define women. Absolutely. It'd be nice if we did that based on character.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 11:52 AM
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Well, considering we already have a glut of kids waiting to be adopted.... once again, you want to pay for more orphanages?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 11:48 AM
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Ever heard the bit by Iliza Schlessinger (sp?) - the woman who makes sheep and goat noises all the time - where she talks about how women pretend to like shit to get male attention, and settle on "hiking" as a hobby because it's easy to fake? Yeah. that. Women complain men take up space at events. Guess what, a woman walks into a sausage party and suddenly it's "let's impress the chick" rather than "let's have fun". Especially when it's patently obvious she read the Wikipedia Entry about it on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:30 PM
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The ways laws work is to limit individual freedom for the good of everyone involved. Not really compatible with the Lawful Evil model you call for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 10:07 AM
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Guess the kid will die. Why dont you adopt it or open a charity orphanage, since you care Not gonna happen any time soon. The easiest and most politically expedient solution is to blame the man and make him financially responsible, even if he isn't the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:07 AM
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The mother, her family, anyone who wants to What if nobody wants to? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:56 AM
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Who'd pay for the kids then, Ayn Rand? I know you guys wouldn't want your taxes raised ONE cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:51 AM
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That’s why custody usually goes to the woman, too. I thought it was because men never ask for it. Another feminist myth debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:50 AM
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3/10 troll attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:50 AM
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So in other words, feminism is full of shit. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:43 PM
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Sure it does. Many women report birth control crashes their libido. Also, if you can't undo millions of years of evolution in a day, don't then argue that you'd throw your clothes off and suck every penis you come across enroute to Fred Meyer but for that nasty, evil patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:51 PM
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Depends on the woman. One wants validation, another wants a house and food for her kid. One wants a promotion at work, another wants her man to stay with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:30 PM
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Nope, those pants are fitted and that guy has an alright build. As I said, there was a time when standards mattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:29 PM
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Men: Because climaxing feels amazing, self-worth Women: To get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:42 PM
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I was actually underlining his comment with even further argument. Point totally agreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:55 PM
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The usual feminist argument is women would be MORE sexual than MEN (because anything men can do, women can do better) but for that NASTY and JUDGMENTAL PATRIARCHY. They'd be fucking men in the streets tomorrow but for those pinchy faced evil men judging them for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:52 PM
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Know what lesbians do like crazy? RELATIONSHIPS. Where sex dies almost immediately, but they move in together on the third date, buy a dog and get all kinds of relationship drama going.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:38 AM
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Had no idea we had neither birth control nor abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:34 AM
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Women don't have to pay men for sex. They just have to hit Tinder or the nearest bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:03 AM
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Sport coats. Also: https://eatliver.b-cdn.net/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/damn-hipsters.jpg Also: https://78.media.tumblr.com/a415e39720b7675b783d65a61d137019/tumblr_ot3h1rrk311vk17xso1_500.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:51 AM
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I said looking BETTER, not looking MORE FORMAL. People used to wear sports coats and chinos to take Greyhound, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:49 AM
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Except when they go on HRT, they strangely don't really want to anymore. They want relationships and cuddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:29 AM
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Men fuck HIV infected crack whores. Knowing that they're HIV. And without a condom. And paying extra to do so. There are very few prostitutes for women, and those that do aren't scabby streetwalkers. A fat, infected, ugly, clearly damaged man standing on a street corner at 3 am is not going to get women catcalling him to get in the car and lick her for a $20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:23 AM
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This is PATENT BULLSHIT and easily disproven by looking at what happens to trans people. Take a normal functioning man and do an orchidectomy and put him on HRT and you'll see a guy whose sex drive is much lower, and who suddenly likes cuddling and is fascinated by the change in libido. Take a normal functioning woman and put her on testosterone and she'll agree that what she THOUGHT was a sex drive is nothing like what testosterone does to human tissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:17 AM
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Again, agree to disagree. If you want to hang out all day in those kinds of crowds, go to it. But most people tend to agree that a guy who's better dressed is better dressed. There was a time that walking around in a T-shirt was literally walking around in your underwear and treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:14 AM
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I respectfully and strongly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 01:47 AM
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No, not really. He might be spurned by gutter punks but he'd still look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:12 PM
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https://www.splcenter.org/hatewatch/2018/04/24/i-laugh-death-normies-how-incels-are-celebrating-toronto-mass-killing Covers Rodgers and that idiot in Toronto. Then there's https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2019/local/yoga-shooting-incel-attack-fueled-by-male-supremacy/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marc_L%C3%A9pine Quite a few listed here too: https://www.thetrace.org/2019/05/incel-anti-women-gun-violence-isla-vista-shooting/ Doesn't count the many, many people posting incel death threats …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:01 PM
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The question is, if they actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:00 PM
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This is no different then thinking that all black people are stupid thugs No. This is dealing with people who write manifestos saying "Stacies" and "Chads" deserve to DIE because they aren't getting to sleep with who they want being thought of as murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:24 PM
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This is true. A guy in a collared shirt, tie, slacks, shined shoes and a jacket looks infinitely better than slobby jeans and a T-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:49 PM
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I feel like females dont put out the message that men are losers if they dont sleep with lots of women You MUST be joking. "Obviously you can't get laid" smirk "Oh LOOK, found the INCEL" and other feminist taunts thrown out by a woman who angrily lost an argument hit right at the whole "your worth as a man is dictated by how much pussy you get, and if it's zero, you're a complete loser". EVEN FEMINISTS USE THIS INSULT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:23 PM
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"Can't get pussy" is the harshest accusation you can throw at a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:18 PM
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Looking at the wrong metrics here, amigo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:11 PM
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Seeing a very strong correlation between "Kill all Stacies no YES They wrote manifestos. Feel free to read them. The final solution to triumph over my enemies was to destroy them, to carry out my Day of Retribution, to exact my ultimate and devastating vengeance against all of the popular young people who never accepted me, and against all women for rejecting me and starving me of love and sex. Eliot Rodger's manifesto - p112. They literally had an automod response saying that the accusation doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:26 PM
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There's no proof that simply having black skin makes you kill people. Thinking so would indeed make you racist. Seeing a very strong correlation between "Kill all Stacies, they just want Chads, fucking roasties, I'm entitled to pussy" on the other hand.. is not. Do NOT call me a racist just because you want to cry about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:42 PM
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THIS. DEAR GOD THIS. They have a long track record of MURDERING people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:23 AM
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"I have $1000!" "So do I. Fuck off."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:08 AM
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Meanwhile some men just dgaf. Yes, but they're FAR less prevalent than "beaten down by the women in their lives". That's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:17 PM
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Actually, what I'm trying to do here is help women understand what they COLLECTIVELY do, not YOU, this is not about YOU - but collectively here - to turn men into what they hate. You can act on that information, or you can spend your life complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:00 PM
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Don't think about why that could have been. Just rant at the nasty man and assume all men are just like him. It's easier than self-reflection, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:37 PM
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Trust me, that's why men get like this. They get tired of the double bind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:22 PM
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It wasn't YOUR experience but I'm almost certain it was his.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:16 PM
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It's NOT intuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:13 PM
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Yes - you said unrealistic. You didn't say exhausting. I fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:48 PM
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If men are seeking validation and not getting it through sexual attention, maybe they can find that validation in ways that don't involve putting a woman's calves on his shoulders. Both feminism and MGTOW agree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:47 PM
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Show me a man who won't make dinner reservations anymore, and I'll show you a man who's tired of hearing that every decision he's ever made has not only been wrong, but ABUSIVELY wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:45 PM
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It’s exhausting and unrealistic for women to try to be just like men. It's exhausting for men too. Just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:42 PM
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Honestly, I think it's accurate. But only because it's true of everyone. The Monkey's Paw stories shows that the worst thing that can happen is that you get exactly what you ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:33 PM
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Proto-Nazi ranting. Pre-internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:18 PM
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Seconded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:15 PM
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Feel free to ignore multiple women who've come in here saying exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:58 PM
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Oh, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:57 PM
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Because most women are partnered, and women are increasingly walking away from "dating events" that basically end up with would be Lotharios pointing to their dick and going "it's right here..... do something with it....."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:46 PM
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Simple solution is to ask them how they feel about you spending the night with your exes, oh don't worry, no sex or anything, just we're still friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:31 PM
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The problem with declaring sex a human right is that it obligates someone else to take that person into their body. Food as a human right, water as a human right, shelter as a human right - fair enough, use tax money to pay for food, water and housing for people who can't afford it. But when you start saying women are obligated in some way to accept a man into their body because some incel can't develop enough of a personality or is too selfish to want to build any kind of meaningful relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:30 PM
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Au contraire, the women ARE looking for relationships. A lot of men, sadly, have no idea what they want. In their heads they want no-commitment zipless fucks, but if a woman were to brazenly offer it, most men would immediately shy away or get spooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:28 PM
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> Lets take Tinder for example. In the United States, 77% of its users were male, whereas only 23% were female (Statista 2019). Tinder is supposedly for those evenings where a man wants random sex, and alongside women - being just as horny as men and just as sexual as everyone else could log in and find someone to sleep with. The prototype here was Grindr, an app for gay men to find an anonymous fuck in the back of a Motel 6. Of course, women showed up going "oh, great, a place to find friends a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:27 PM
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Yeah I don't get this idea that guys want a mommy or a maid. "I want the dishes stacked on the left, he chooses to stack them on the right. This is intolerable, and I have to do every chore all over again or micromanage it because he doesn't do it exactly the way I want it done. This is literally how a mother has to stand over a baby boy making sure he pees into the toilet, ugh." I realize that many men are absolute slovenly pigs, but then again so are a lot of women, so this isn't a gendered is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:24 PM
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It's a weird mind virus within feminism. Literally everything that happens is the result of this Illuminati-type cult called The Patriarchy, which meets in these Eyes Wide Shut meetings in dark places and constantly thinks up new ways to hurt women (while high fiving each other for the rapes they did enroute to the meeting). All men are part of this cult, they just hide their robes really well. But anyway I digress. Because everything that happens in this world is a deliberate and thought-out at…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:22 PM
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Trying to tone down the crazy on both sides. Men aren't these rampaging fuck-beasts, and women aren't all hypergamous prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:14 PM
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Sorry, can't read this. Please reformat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:05 PM
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my plan is to find some one and really try to make things works and build something , but for now , Just be aware that people can and will judge you in the future for the decisions you take today. A woman you might want to care about is within her right to think dismissively of "yeah, fuck settling down, what matters to me at the end of the day is how many holes I conquered."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:31 PM
3

Maybe not thrown in jail but thrown out of a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:08 PM
5

Have you seen #metoo recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:00 PM
2

For the same reason why women put that picture of them online that's 35lb lighter than they are now. Many women set their "preferences" to six foot and over. Think of it like people applying for jobs and getting nowhere and the first white lie is that they got that degree. The second white lie is that they have two years' experience at what the job is about. That sort of thing. ​ They lie because as you say, you want someone really tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:00 PM
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And they are financially rewarded by a court when they change their mind. Don't forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:49 AM
2

It's a interesting question. I somehow stumbled across "Mystery Box", which is a YouTube channel with Portland hipsters getting up on a stage talking about their vulvas. There's a few gay men talking about blowing people in glory holes or whatever, but most of it is women pretending they're oh-so-shy and talking in a halting little girl way about how they were all nervous about their bodies and oh my God I can't believe I'm being fisted in front of 500 people. And you so totally know that even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:44 AM
2

It is a physical hunger and need. Just because you won't die like you would if you didn't eat or drink - that doesn't make the urge and impulse any less physical than something like thirst or hunger. In women it's more akin to a nice thought, or a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:39 AM
1

The flaw in this argument is that a lot of you guys think that when when women are under 30, they have hoards of "good" yet unattractive guys offering commitment and healthy relationships, and we're just turning them down for the bad guys. Not every man on earth just wants to fuck women. Fucking women is something almost all men want, but when push comes to shove there's actually more men who'd like to do it in terms of some kind of relationship than not. That's not true. Pretty much no men unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:24 AM
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That's not really how the argument works. There's a germ of something in what these men are complaining about - and it's basically that men aren't "props" in your life script. "There to provide cheap easy sex when I'm young and fun, and willing to wait around and earn money for me to spend when I'm not." I'm not sure you can fault these men for having an issue with being invisible to you until you "grow up" and decide that a stable, boring guy with his own house and money to spend is far more us…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:17 AM
1

I read that. It said nothing about sexual dimorphism being a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:10 PM
1

Ah, you've gone into "I've realized nothing I say makes sense, so I'm going to make irrelevant comments, switch the argument to that, and then end up saying fuck off and crying for mods" territory. As you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:06 PM
1

By the environment. Giraffes evolved to have longer necks to reach taller leaves, not because Giraffe Stacy thought he was sooooooooooooo hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:01 PM
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If men and women wanted equality, then sexual dimorphism wouldn't exist. So if I chose to be equal to the woman next to me, we'd both immediately turn asexual? What I think you were trying to say is that certain traits associated with sexual dimorphism were chosen for evolutionarily. Different than saying people choose to be sexually dimorphic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:55 PM
1

So when did you choose to grow a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:33 PM
2

TIL people CHOOSE sexual dimorphism. And you guys complain women suggest you should try to be taller, like that's totally crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:02 PM
1

Says the guy who believes in the concept of consensual rape. Again, if you want approval, go back to the incel crowd you got that from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:51 PM
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There's no difference in incel/MGTOW misogyny and feminist misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:30 PM
1

Hard to be raped if you consent. Not sure if you understand how this works, son. But then again, when you get involved in misogynistic incel word salad, you lose your critical thinking. Learn from your failures, calamis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:29 PM
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Why is it when women debate they are 'shrieking'? sigh Same reason why men who complain about something are "crying", "whining" and "male tears".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:34 PM
1

Now you're backtracking. You said something to the effect of women being willingly raped. Which means... consent? Just take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:30 PM
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The same people who do this and see no problem with it however think that incels and terps shrieking at women is prima facie evidence of being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:00 AM
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Human sexuality, in men - is akin to an opiate addiction. Some people with ready access are able to maintain a high, whereas some shiver in the dark doing whatever they can to get the maintenance dose to get through the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:59 AM
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Not confused at all. You're the one suggesting women don't want to be raped, and yet chase after guys who will rape them. Not only is this a completely insane concept - if the women are voluntarily having sex with these men, it isn't rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:53 AM
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No, just a realist. Women can usually do without sex after they hit about 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:51 AM
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women in question aren't attracted to getting raped, they're attracted to the assholes that are very likely gonna rape them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:45 AM
2

"Women want to be raped" <--- is this your latest incel theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:10 PM
2

Wrong again, rape requires a woman to not consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:54 PM
0

**in general**
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 09:56 PM
1

In the United Kingdom perhaps, but I think places that still allow alcohol at company events have a one-drink-or-else-HR-keeps-tabs-on-you procedures. I know for sure a guy we hired at one place I worked was let go after he was seen staggering out to his car after a Christmas party.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 09:24 PM
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Douchey status is not the same thing as being a rapist. Please be clearer with your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:42 PM
1

Sure do!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:49 PM
3

You never said the fratboys were called rapists, you said they were rapists. But that these girls were willingly fucking them. Do you actually know what rape is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:48 PM
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If the women were into it, then how can it be rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:37 PM
2

Who's "they"? Where is this enclave of women who care so little about themselves you're so absolutely convinced exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:37 PM
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The vast majority of women have no interest in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:20 PM
2

You know I'm a guy, right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:20 PM
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A lot of bullshit was tolerated. Like "Happy Hour". Just get off work? Fuck the rush hour traffic, sit it out at the bar and have three or four drinks, THEN get behind the wheel of your car. The idea of getting a girl too drunk to say no was always rape we just didn't call it that back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:18 PM
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Not without getting her consent, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:13 PM
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No, I think if you're going to bring KIDS into this world what you want is a mature human being who'll co-parent and be a help in this regard, not a whining manbaby who cries that his penis isn't being serviced 24/7 because the stitches are still healing, and by the way, where's dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:12 PM
1

Which is why Redpillers want to "kick the tires", fuck her a couple of times, then high-five their buddies and notch the belt and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:56 PM
1

What they're not into is lying Redpillers using that line to get into her pants and then saying "yeah, let's just be friends" as she's wiping his come off her mons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:00 PM
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You can certainly make it up front "I want to see if this becomes a relationship". Women are more than entitled to say "that's nice, but I am looking FOR one, tire kickers fuck off."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:52 PM
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I think if you defined relationships where women just came over and sucked your cock and then never had sex with anyone else before or after and if they got pregnant just paid for everything themselves and had no sexual agency of their own, yeah -- there'd be nothing in it for them. Just as how if feminism redefined relationships as "you come home, you cook, you clean, you bring home all the money, and you get nothing in return." men wouldn't go for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:50 PM
1

So make that the stated intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:43 PM
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And she's every right not to have sex with you until she knows that gets to "relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:39 PM
1

Then you're friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:38 PM
3

That you're a cheating bastard and I dodged a bullet by not fucking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:36 PM
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So why not be honest and upfront about that? "I'm in this to see if this is relationship material". Just don't cry if she decides not to fuck you until you decide that's a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:29 PM
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You can't see if you're compatible with someone without actually going into it honestly to express your genuine motivations and intentions. You're just trying to justify Red Pill "lie to her, fuck her, dump her".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:24 PM
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So you're saying people enter into things without knowing why? Uh OK, interesting idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:20 PM
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They still COMMUNICATE
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:19 PM
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Not a fallacy at all. You don't even know what that means. The question was, who's up front about what they want. My answer was, decent, honorable, healthy people who want healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:00 PM
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Because women in general, not just older women - have different priorities in life than being poked in the crotch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:59 PM
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> What does this mean exactly? Who dates someone while being upfront about their intentions? Honorable, decent people. There are women who want a zipless fuck, if that's what you're after. Go find them. Or hire a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:58 PM
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That held true when men had more money than women and women needed to get male attention to get hold of resources. But.... now women can make their own money. So..... too bad Granddad, you can't compensate for your pot belly and ear hair by flashing around a wad of bills. Which is good, because that's a horrible thing to base a relationship on, a mutual exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:48 PM
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If Redpill became mainstream, women would actively have no need for men. Nobody wants to be considered a wet hole to be manipulated, come into, dumped and considered completely used up at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:23 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:54 PM
4

This. They're looking for raw material, not perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:54 PM
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Women want what they can't have. They'll go to gay bars to "get away from icky men and their constant pestering" and then see a good looking guy and are like "heyyyyyy, buy me a drink?" and the guy has to explain "this is a gay bar. I'm not looking for you, I'm trying to get that sailor's attention over there, please just, like, go back to dancing drunkenly with your besties, or better yet - fuck off elsewhere and take the homophobic straight jock boys who flit into here thinking following you i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:53 PM
2

This. Danny DeVito wouldn't have succeeded with this tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:48 PM
1

Many women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:39 AM
1

Well most men have porn induced erectile dysfunction LOL, yeah, nope. Gonna need to see some facts and figures on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:38 AM
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Women have a very real reason to not want their man to get dickplowed by another man. It's called AIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:37 PM
1

True that. But the gallery knows the score
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:36 PM
0

Because no jury would condemn a woman to death for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:35 PM
1

Porn is downright fucked up now compared to then. Shaved chicks with bolt-ons getting chokeslammed by guys and the ending is 20 people come all over her face? Whatever happened to watching a couple have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:37 PM
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If I remember she thought she'd be giving everyone orders and enjoying all that privilege. Reality check was her pissing off a biker and nearly getting beaten to death and realizing nobody was going to whiteknight to her aid. So much for "as a man you can walk the streets without ever worrying".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:36 PM
1

IT doesn't grow back fucked up faces and missing digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:35 PM
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Actually, what I'm saying is, her argument is men and women love sex equally. If women had to put in 1/10 the work to get the ball rolling, the human race wouldn't exist, which... proves my point. I just want her to admit she's wrong and then we'll move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:27 PM
1

You need to learn what communication actually IS, rather than rage on the internet. I'm not saying your personal experiences didn't happen, I'm saying you're complaining to the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:34 AM
1

I wasn't bitching about foreplay, when did I say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:33 AM
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Again, maybe women should stop insisting that it is. It would be better and more useful for women to comment about how shit most men are and why. It would be the beginning of something called COMMUNICATION, rather than lying there like a starfish and bitching about it on the internet later, just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:13 AM
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Whereas the man has to initiate the whole thing by having thirst before being made out with and so forth. "Women get to lie back and think of England. The men have to BE England".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:12 AM
1

I do just fine, thanks. Jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:10 AM
1

I couldn't find a ready website reference for hand-tailored clothing or really high end stuff. Went with BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:10 AM
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Jesus Christ, make any comment on here about how men want sex and women don't and you get a torrent of "well MY BOYFRIEND is practically a monk and I'm inserting any knob-shaped object into the house into me at all hours of the day" commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:09 AM
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You interjected my statement that men are hornier than women with your anecdote about your personal circumstances as "evidence" that men are always wrong. When it was pointed out that you were basically cherry picking your own personal anecdote, you still insisted you were right. You've made other quotes since pointing out that men "have to work" to get you interested in sex. level 2Orange_Paisley8 points·3 days ago I don’t get wet in seconds for anyone, they have to earn it. ​ If women "had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:07 AM
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but it's always made my day so much better. I remember one time I was out having a smoke,and this woman walks by and says "you're way too hot to be smoking". Wait til it's done by a 350lb bald hairy gay guy who looks like Carl from out of Aqua Teen Hunger Force, who then proceeds to follow you to work and tries to find out where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:00 AM
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I said that there are outliers and you pooh-poohed that idea, that women innately could want sex more than men as a class. You are wrong. I can read. Go back and read your own comments. > that we do enjoy sex Let's read some quotes from women here shall we? > It’s degrading, often painful, and women on average take way, way longer to finish than men and most men don’t care if you do or not: sex is done when they are. End of story > stick the end of a hairbrush up your ass, unlubed. Try it. Doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:58 AM
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I rarely enjoy it but I’m craving the peripheral feelings that come with it. Feeling desired, attractive, connected, validated. Tell u/orange_paisley this would you please, she keeps insisting this isn't the case - and that women have sex because women are hornier than men, blah blah blah and want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:49 AM
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Well maybe ONE of those rich Chads will wife her up I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:49 AM
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> I wish men saw that. They have this idea that sex is mutually beneficial So maybe women should stop insisting that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:48 AM
1

Right, which is what feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:45 AM
1

Didn't say men don't face violence nor have their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:51 AM
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then that's an incredibly nasty view of male sexuality. You must be new to feminism. No, I didn't learn about feminism from internet misogynists. I learned it from feminists themselves. Before you throw the annoying straw feminism thing at me, I'm talking about the greats. The foundational feminists. All of them to a womyn (sic) talk incessantly about the male gaze, the patriarchy, and the need to remove male sexuality from the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:51 AM
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It's OK, OP just flounced because he seems to believe "adopting my opinion because I say so" is the only definition of good faith. Good riddance if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:00 AM
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It’s not proof positive of women’s libido or men’s libido or any kind of trend You literally just argued against your previous attempt to make your "anecdote" equivalent to "data".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:59 PM
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I've had sex. A lot of it. Want to know why? Because I know what a woman really wants is between her ears, not between her thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:58 PM
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I am a man, you knob.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:58 PM
0

Once that I know of. It was in the 1980s - sorry, no interweb reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:57 PM
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> No, that's not what happened nor is it what feminism wants, That is what happened and that IS what feminism wants. The core complaint feminism has is that men want sex. They should keep all their desires in a box until women call on them, and then they had better be instantly hard, ready on command, and be okay with being totally shut down if she changes her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:55 PM
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The only men who are in the same room 24/7 are guys who are in intensive care. Most men leave the house and go places. They just don't approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:56 PM
0

Not to get Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:46 PM
1

Bye Felicia. Have a one-sided conversation with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:37 PM
-2

Did you just refer to yourself in the third person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:29 PM
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Yeah, well, if the guy stays on his couch, the girl would have to break in to do the asking, Men do leave the house occasionally. To go shopping, to get dentist appointments, to eat, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:28 PM
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Men are invisible. We are more likely to be homeless. Victims of assault and violence. We are much more likely to commit suicide. I would much prefer the victimization to be far more a result of my own life choices. I'll take being invisible to being stalked by a guy who saw me at a mall and decided I was his forever girl and being stabbed fatally through the eyeball with a screwdriver when I say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:26 PM
2

Yes, but a rich bridge troll man can get a trophy wife. Just sayiing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:24 PM
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They want absolute commitment enough to get resources and a strong baby, and then after 2-3 years, branch to the next guy to sample those genes and get that commitment. What would be ideal for women is like a man subscription service, where she gets a house, cash, and a live in servant who packs his bags and leaves to be replaced with a new contractor bringing more money and who is better looking and more attentive every five years .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:24 PM
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Come on, he gave TWO examples!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:36 PM
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I'll take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:34 PM
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Men. Not because "men are the patriarchy and have all the power" feminist horseshit, but: - men are innately invisible. This is to their advantage. They tend not to get perved on, creeped, followed by people in cars, told to smile, etc. - men are generally taught to value their skillsets, not looking pretty - so they develop one and capitalize on it. They are conditioned and societally encouraged to be successful so they tend to have more of it - because a man's worth isn't mediated by his appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:30 PM
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You can't argue with facts. These are not opinions, they are facts. If you want to labor in the delusion that women want sex more than men, I can't help you. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:27 PM
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It absolutely is. A man and a woman of the same age will have him massively want sex more. The entire way our society works is mediated by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:26 PM
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I know, given that my first language isn't English! > and it's not a rule that men have to have higher drive than women No, of course not. You have outliers like that 55 year old health challenged dude orange-paisley is with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:23 PM
2

No it is not. Ever. And men who act on this should be put to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:22 PM
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If you think women are picky lookswise, you've never seen a gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:21 PM
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This is the whole "get off the couch and get rejected, guys! You can do it!" Lucy-pulling-the-football-out-from-underneath-Charlie-Brown bullshit that women bleat on about. If women really wanted to fuck these dudes, they'd start doing the asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:19 PM
3

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:18 PM
0

You certainly have lower T than men, but I was referring to men with low libido. There's this weird quirk in English where "you" is the new version of "one" the same way "they" is the new version of "he" or "she".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:16 PM
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Inc*ls don't lose out on sex because of porn. Women whose partners prefer to jack off to internet porn rather than fuck them really should reconsider how they treat their partner. Porn has nothing to do with it, but blaming porn is far easier than self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:14 PM
1

You have low T. I can guarantee it. Get your levels checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:04 PM
1

Who's "them" and what's their motivation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:03 PM
1

Men can certainly cheat. All it will cost them is their house, half their income, and their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:56 AM
1

Most of the time when men abandon women sexually it's because she ballooned out, or became a thoroughly unpleasant nagging shrew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:55 AM
1

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:55 AM
1

You say that like it's a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:54 AM
1

So in essence, you're trying to hold up the extreme circumstance of an elderly, health-afflicted man and a healthy human female as proof positive that women outstrip their men in libido circumstances. That would be like me saying women are stronger than men because DJ Qualls married some Bulgarian weightlifter on horse steroids. Who now identifies as female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:54 AM
1

Why do you think women dump men after about 7 years? They want that new dick. Stands to reason, them having babies with multiple strong, alpha dudes gives her genes a better chance at survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:49 AM
0

Then you have low T and need to get that checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:48 AM
1

I understand it perfectly. And as you've just said, what you want and seek is the validation of "human connection", not the sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:46 AM
1

ding ding ding "How can I reject you if you never ask me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:45 AM
2

Some men have been told by society never to approach or want sex. They take the message to heart and then women wonder why it worked so well. The core issue here is feminism. It's entirely to blame. Mind you, that's also what feminism wants, so.... hooray I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:44 AM
1

Also because nobody gives a fuck when men complain about things, in fact - it causes most people to actively pick on or criticize the complainer. Remember, NOTHING is ever a woman's fault - everything is a man's fault. A woman passed out blind drunk on a park bench at 3 am in the bad part of town wearing a miniskirt gets raped? WAS NOT HER FAULT. But it's every man's fault in the universe that she was raped because of rape culture. Even the ones who were hundreds of miles away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:42 AM
2

Depends on where you work. And of course, showing up to a wedding or funeral in that, or going to the theater in that.... ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:36 AM
1

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:33 AM
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> do you even know me? I know what testosterone does to libido. If you had enough to have more libido than a man, you'd need duct tape to wear a bikini to tape down the big-toe sized clitoris the steroids done affected. > i would like sex just as much as men if there weren’t risks. I thought you said you did like sex as much as men, maybe more than men. Now it's "well I would but for those risks. And that patriarchy. And those clucking tongues that would call me a slut." > i have a high libido j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:50 PM
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All this flips when it comes to finding thrift/vintage however. You have near-infinite choice, whereas men have a very very small selection of clothing. Well, they have a small clothing selection to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:42 PM
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I believe you. You probably want sex, two, maybe even THREE times a MONTH!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:41 PM
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women only give it more of a consideration because statistically it happens way more often to women. Don't be so sure. Recent research indicates it might be at par, or actually statistically more likely for men. ​ so movies are real life now? If I had $1 for every "women rule the world" comment I've heard in real life or women believing that they're bulletproof and badass, I'd buy this entire website and shut it down. ​ the average woman could not be round kick to a guy. sex is a vulnerable posi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:35 PM
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those FtoM trans stories are proof of this Trans are insanely useful. We also see MtoFs lose their interest in sex and prefer cuddling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:24 PM
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The Redpill position is that women are objects whose value stems uniquely from the presence of a vagina (offer void after the age of 25).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:24 PM
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I'm saying men generally are too horny to give any of that consideration. The overarching question is why men can't treat any sexual negotiation the same way they treat negotiations with other men. By the way, based on literally every movie, even the biggest, broken-nosed Brooklyn dockworker thug can be dropped by a 98lb long-haired chick with a sassy roundhouse kick followed by a life-ending punch to the balls, so I mean, why worry?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:06 PM
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Right, because men are all of equal strength and never overpower or rape or beat or even kill each other. Gay men never pick up a guy whose religious guilt kicks in 3 seconds after ejaculating into someone else's ass, causing him to beat the guy to death with a lead pipe or anything. Oh no. Also, when fucking women men never get a girl pregnant, or accused of date rape, or wake up to find their keys, wallet, contents of their bank account, and social security card missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:01 PM
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Fuck me, you're right. Men's pants at Brooks Brothers: $198 Women's equivalent: $298 ​ God damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:51 PM
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Who, without all that money and fame, would be SINGLE AS FUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:18 PM
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Have you seen what nice men's clothes cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:17 PM
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Lack of looks, lack of height, lack of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:12 PM
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Not a power play. I never suggested it was. But that's what it is. She wants to be the prize, and a guy choosing that porn is just easier than dealing with her flies in the face of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:10 PM
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The vibrator does that very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:52 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:49 PM
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Or, you could phrase it as I just said it - vibrators don't pursue you and make you feel wanted. You said orgasms and now you're moving the goalposts. Orgasms? You can sit on a vibrator. But as you said, kisses, cuddles, validation, etc.... that's what you really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:46 PM
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2-3x a week? Many guys would want it 3-4x a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:38 PM
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A decent one. Just that the woman hated him, wanted out, and is like most women looking to punish the guy however she can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:37 PM
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More readily and strongly provided by vibrators. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:37 PM
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Odd comment here, odd comment there. Freezing the man out of the kid's life except as occasional babysitter but not really a parent. She makes all the decisions and makes it clear that she's the mom, the other guy is just some dude who you need to go ask for extra money for clothes and ask for new shoes when you're there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:15 PM
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When have you ever heard a woman complain IRL that she's in a DB relationship? Heard it more than once. Pointedly like there's something wrong with the man involved. It's a societal trope - Peggy Bundy was constantly complaining that Al lost interest in her years ago. Women are raised to view themselves as the prize, not the pursuer. Which is why the way they complain about it is to in essence talk about it as if it is the man who is deficient. "He was so dumb he didn't pick up on me giving him …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:12 PM
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> What does it look like to pursue sexual relationships with women fundamentally like you would any other gender? Not gay, but have you seen gay men? They pretty much lead off with sexual negotiation. Top or bottom? What are you into? What do you look like? Face pic, dick length? If the two are compatible, they meet wherever, have sex and may or may not meet again. That was the premise behind Tindr. It was supposed to be Grindr for straights, you know, seeing as how women love sex just as much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:03 PM
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"Oh hurray! Dry chicken on dry white bread again!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:54 PM
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Because she wants to be desired, pursued, etc. It all has to be about her being in control and having all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:53 PM
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Who the hell kicks the woman out of bed and chooses the porn? I would imagine A man who's had to deal with NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG all day and she is unaware that perhaps his emotional state and feelings tie into his willingness to fuck her. Also "I hit below the belt, but I won the argument and got my own way, tee hee." Can't tie that in to not getting any from that point She immediately ballooned out 50lb as soon as she got "comfortable" whatever that was. Did she get that ring? Di…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:52 PM
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Also, women tend not to be criticized for this. A guy who wants sex? "Rapey disgusting pervert you're not ENTITLED to sex, she has the RIGHT to say so, have you DONE ALL THE DISHES maybe it's because you've clearly let yourself go." A woman who wants sex? "Oh my God, he should be doing his marital duty, he's probably cheating, you're perfect just the way you are men are just so mean to women."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:45 PM
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Nope. Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:44 PM
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It's telling that telling OP that she needs to lose those "I just gained 50 lbs" is against that subreddit rules and ban ban ban
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:44 PM
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"Oh great. We're gonna spend the next three minutes hearing about her labia." Yup. "You buys think you're gross? We can be grosser". Difference is, there's humor when we do it. We don't just say our dicks smell like farmyard animals and expect the laughter because gross + flaps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:24 PM
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Women find hurting men HYSTERICAL. They also find any suggestion of negativity to women (in other words, genderflip their sense of humor) NOT FUNNY AT ALL IN ANY WAY THIS IS ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE IN EVERY POSSIBLE FASHION CANCEL NOW CANCEL Men find darkness funny. To a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:23 PM
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It's the wanting that they want, not the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:11 PM
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A lawyer who hasn’t been unemployed for any length of time isn’t getting alimony. Nah, she made sure to get pregnant, then left with the child support, but not after bullying him into getting six figures into debt to buy the house she wanted, which she kept. I realize all this falls under the category of "more fool him" but the point is, this is something which happens. And yes, no signs of this prior. They lived together for six years. He thought she was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:10 PM
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That's sad. It should be cut and dried down the middle. Men are equally shitty to women in relationships. A lot of these "single mothers" red pillers complain about are widowed or otherwise in situations where it made nothing but pure sense to leave the guy whose alcoholism suddenly went out of control or who was fucking half the neighborhood behind her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:57 PM
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Because men don't complain. Also, the women aren't complaining they aren't getting sex, they're complaining they aren't getting "pursued", "wanted", "pedastaled", "touched" etc. ec. etc. which is, in essence, an admission of being VERY upset that they aren't getting their sexual power over their spouse anymore. There's only so many times you can "cut him off" to get what you want before he just shrugs and accepts the new reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:44 PM
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Not so. Women do, they just ALL very vocally say very very few women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:14 PM
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Stop pretending that as a man you don’t have agency to vet and avoid the type of woman you’re describing (marrying a woman who supports herself and has money in the bank for starters). Knew a guy who did that. He married a lawyer. She quit her job within six months. "Too stressful". This was also after they committed to buying a house. Her solution was for him to just work two jobs. Oh, or of course they could split up, and she could get alimony and half his stuff. Stop pretending women don't ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:14 PM
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That exists. It's called "Fin-dom"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:39 PM
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It needs to be said - stop pretending that women don't do things like cut back their hours once married, or quit their jobs entirely because now they're married! Which wasn't part of the plan originally. - stop pretending that women don't enter into relationships with an agenda to slowly shift the 50/50 burden into something like an 80/20 burden with him working extra and then coming home and cleaning the house, while she does the emotional labor and watches "The View" - stop pretending that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:26 PM
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Women almost always weaponize the kids against the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:22 PM
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Alimony does make women very rich and men very poor. The essential difference is, the man has to work hard to get out from under the burden and often does and often comes out better as a result. Amazing how your finances improve when you don't have someone going off to Bed Bath and Beyond or TJ MAXX with your credit card because the "Eat Pray Love" sign she saw was $89.99 but it was 30% off! The woman gets a huge bolus of money and whilst having the "divorce party" with her friends shitting on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:22 PM
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When people say things like that, they're talking about having sex in the context of a normal, functioning healthy relationship. It is ENTIRELY possible, given enough attractiveness to manipulate some people short term into a one night stand they regret. Considering that the people making this comment are often women, they're thinking about sex on their terms, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:17 PM
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Wow, that really narrows it down as to which man you are ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:44 PM
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Women, for the record, don't exactly want to be thought of as a hot little wet hole surrounded by a suitably underweight meat envelope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:01 AM
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That escalated quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:04 AM
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It destroys the family if she decides her vagina has a dollar sign value that needs to be met with presents or chores before she agrees to any intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:33 PM
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The way to a man's heart is through his dick. If she can't "cut him off" without consequences, then she loses her power and control over him. "No sex until I get that mink coat" (yes, dear - *works overtime*) as opposed to "No sex until I get that mink coat" (whatever - *fucks her sister*). Which outcome do you think women would prefer? That's why a guy who has sex with another woman loses his house and half his income to her: she wins no matter what, and this is by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:31 PM
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Patriarchy theory is, in essence, AMALT on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:45 AM
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Enh, it happens. No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:45 AM
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Oh, you can understand how your post can be read as "no expectations that you'll ever have this puss" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 01:33 PM
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You did. "No expectation of sex". Seriously, I'm about to quit this site. 9 minutes between posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:26 PM
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"I want free dinners and tons of attention without any expectation of putting out". Yes, let's see how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:15 PM
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Imagine what we could achieve if we stopped competing against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:03 PM
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I never said I was superior, stop putting words into my mouth. You can stop being bitter that things aren't working out the way you want them to by changing your attitude rather than saying the rest of the universe is all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 11:46 AM
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for a dude who asks for infinite sources you sure like to ignore them completely.. You never presented any, just a gish gallop. this’ll be the third time i’ll ask for your suggestions on the male mental health crisis. you have demanded my step-for-step plan of action, to which I clearly lay out and back up with multiple citations No sweetie, you said "feminism is raising awareness" and "toxic masculinity". First step is to get men helping men. Initiatives WE MEN have like talking to each other i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:15 AM
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Nope. You have comprehension issues. GYOW is the total opposite of "you must act that way". I understand "I'm a rebel, just like all my friends who dress in the same outfit" just fine thanks. So that's what you're really mad about. Not mad about anything to be honest. Continue being hateful, means more women for the rest of us who aren't weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:05 AM
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Remember to recognize the difference between what the source is saying TLDR "I can't refute your points, going to go ad hominem" Being a woman does not automatically make someone a feminist. No it doesn't. In fact, much of feminist discourse is in hitting men below the belt and further instilling the standard. You can't argue feminism is trying very hard to dispel the stoicism standard when one of the classic feminist buttons is "dead men don't whine", and "male tears" as a taunt. As much as I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:03 PM
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Unless you’ve got better suggestions (Which I’ve asked for previously and received none), We've got tons. And feminists have actively fought against them. I’ve got sources for mental health reform suggestions/actions from the POV of those who have so tragically fallen victim to the liberalist-cult-agenda of feminism. And I've got sources showing that attempts to get men to talk about mental health and seek help were deliberately shut down by feminists because the narrative wasn't going to be abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:01 AM
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Yeah, actually, that’s exactly it. Right on! Which of course eliminates the possibility of you even contemplating that feminism might actually not be correct in some instances or about some things. Babe, I tell women this too; It’s for the bitter ones who use feminism as a mask for man-hating. The ones who actually, y’know… hate men. Which, in 2019, is all of them. If your understanding of feminism revolves around attacking men, then you’ve misunderstood feminism. I don't misunderstand a goddamn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:51 AM
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Cult means leader, dogma, etc. MGTOW has none of that. Not necessarily a "leader" as you understand it. If you understand the very conceot of GYOW to be a leading principle, you can substitute it for "leader" to see how you're supposed to act. And yes, there are notable "leaders" in your movement, like Sandman. Like it or not, these people do speak for you. Like it or not, people think about you what they think after wading into places like r/MGTOW. You need to review the definition of the word,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:11 AM
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This is not a cult If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck.... And has no representatives It's represented VERY well by the people who post in MGTOW, Sandman, MGTOW.com, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:18 AM
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That looks like parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 10:13 PM
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I think the issue here is, you're correct in the sense that not every man who chooses to bow out of dealings with women is a hateful misogynist. But that being said, the MGTOW cult itself is very very well represented by men who outright HATE women and come up with all manner of "theories" as to why that hate is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 10:11 PM
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Some states make it virtually impossible to get an abortion They do that because of their belief that fetuses are people too, not because women shouldn't control their own destinies. There are a lot of women who oppose abortion. This has nothing to do with patriarchal control over anyone. As for the rest, I'd be curious to see your citations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:44 PM
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Maybe if they stopped being unbelievably misogynistic, people would cut them some slack. If you don't want to do something, don't do it. You don't need a virulent, hateful support group for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:35 PM
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But you really wanna reject the validity social conditioning/emotional labour when earlier you were bringing up how a girlfriend thought it was “weak” for a man to show emotions? Ok. No, I'm saying if you're going to argue that it matters when it affects women (and you're right) we should accord the same respect to men. Why the fuck do you think men care so much about being strong, silent, with a lot of money and a big dick? What the hell do you think women go for? This is a strawman argument. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:19 PM
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into the crazy libtard strawman that’s been created of me and feminism as a whole. It's not a strawman, that's the point. Nobody is "misrepresenting" feminism here. Nobody heard Big Red say "men are people too" and went "oh, so you want men to die, is that it?" We hear feminists go "kill all men" and say "hm, you guys are saying kill all men." pulling out the “gender studies femsplaining” lol. You've just handwaved away, dismissively I might add, a very major point. cxj made an assertion, and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:19 PM
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Your biggest issue is between your ears. Think for a second about what your attitude says: you're technically insulting anyone who tries to get to know you intimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 06:30 PM
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Please slow the femsplaining for a sec. You giving us the gender studies "mansplaining" definition doesn't actually answer the point cxj was making, namely that feminism isn't doing anything to benefit most men. To put it into gender studies speak, me telling a woman she's fat because she eats too fucking much doesn't help her figure out how to diet and exercise, doesn't help her with the fact that the only place she can get food from is McDonalds next door, doesn't fix the fact that she can't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 06:16 PM
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