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Trust me boys. Buy gold and silver. With CASH! Tell everyone you have a gambling problem. My ex wife’s lawyer subpoenaed my friends coins shop. She wanted all receipts and video footage of me.. you got to be fucking careful. It takes years. If your sensing her getting stupid. Start to cover your 6. Take out a few hundred dollars every week. Big transactions will,get you in trouble too.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 03:42 PM
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Iowa 2 kids. 13 and 5 I make 90k a year she makes 65k 50/50 legal and 50/50 physical 100$ a month in child support. Married 5 years. Cost me 200k in lawyer fees and paying her off. I pay all medical insurance dental and eye insurance
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 05:21 AM
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Very eloquent and thoughtful.. well done. Are you a poet or something?
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 03:27 PM
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After we had a horrible storm. It blew the garage apart and fucked the roof up on my house. The phones were down. I rushed home. Trees down all over. The town it looked like a was zone. I ran in and hugged my wife and two daughters. I was so happy to see them. We weren’t arguing or anything. I said. I love you guys. Im so happy your ok. She looked at me and I had a paper mask around my neck. It was the end of Covid. She said. “That mask better be clean,before you touch me”. I instantly sank. I f…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 04:34 PM
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You are in the right brother. I think it’s a guilt thing women feel or they are being malicious. What normal person would want that?. Chicks are fucking crazy. My ex wouldn’t try to have me meet her boyfriend but she would try and get me to go out with them and “play” family. I told her I wanted nothing to do with her and I needed boundaries. She would ask me to stay for dinner and stay for cake on my kids birthday. Fuuuuck that. I’ll have separate birthdays and Christmas thank you very much. I …
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 02:23 AM
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Your not a pos bro.. we try to let things slide because we “love them” and don’t want to look weak or jealous because that’s not what confident men do.. this is a case of blatant disrespect. And her not trying to apologize or at least assure you everything is ok is fucked up.. even if she didn’t hook up with some dude that night. 7am/ and no call or anything? Highly suspect. Leave her to the streets bro. There are plenty of other women out there that will be good to you…… for a few months. Have …
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 01:54 PM
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Hang in there bud. She is still very young. All you can do is make the time that you spend with her as good as you can. Meaning. Don’t talk shit about her mom In Front of her. Which your ex wife is prolly doing enough of. She will remember that you put the effort. I’ve got two little girls. They come around eventually.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 06:05 AM
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Shit my ex wife isn’t even allowed to step foot in my house. Fuck that.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 05:48 AM
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Hahahaa. I feel so safe here.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 01:55 PM
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Your not dealing with a rational being. The chick you married. She is dead and gone. She is going to try to fuck you over dude. I don’t get why you won’t let her see the kids when she wants. is she a pos? a bad mom? or she has just lost her shit and is too busy hooking up around town. Which is what mine did. The part where you said your ex always had a perspective that justifies her actions to say and do whatever the fuck she felt like is my ex all the way. Crazy time dude….. for real. She was/i…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 02:39 AM
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First of all. Stay strong brother. I know it seems hopeless some times. And it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done was go through a divorce while having an ex wife that lied and tried to use the court as a weapon. My ex brought a temp injunction against me of all lies. Her lawyer told her to stop working and she was trying to take my house my kids my money she wanted alimony. It was dark man. Really dark. On top of that my lawyer at the time was a fucking shit bird. I was at my lowest point I mea…
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 03:29 PM
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Every mother fucking thing was my fault. I mean she would try to find a way to make everything my fault. If she got sick. It was from me. If she was unhappy it was because of me. Fuck that evil bitch. I was so stupid to let her control everything I did.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 07:49 PM
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This is solid advice. I couldn’t have said it better.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 11:28 PM
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I love women. Very anti marriage though. That is true.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 11:18 PM
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your kids should not be included on all the details of your divorce. DO NOT FIGHT IN FRONT of your kids!! Do not talk bad about your (ex)wife around the kids. Dude. I know this is tough. My ex told my kids horrible shit about me. And I couldn’t even. Tell them the truth because it’s not appropriate for them to know about everything that is going on. Just tell them everything is going to be ok and remember they love you both the same.. They want you to be together but since that’s not gonna happe…
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 11:15 PM
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Dude. She is going to get a lot of the money since she makes she much less then you. But still. Dude. Pay the 4 grand and retain counsel. Get an older lady. They are the best fucking family lawyers. It’s not about what you or her think they are entitled too.. it’s about how the courts would divide it up. This could get really ugly too man. Having a lawyer and getting this rolling is the best way. It really sucks having kids involved but your already past that. Time for war bro. Stay calm. Don’t …
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 11:04 PM
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Sorry man. That’s a tough situation. It seems bad now but dude. It could be way worse. Your out of the military so that’s big. Nothing like dealing with a catastrophic family situation while on fucking deployment. Also. If she gets paid more then you. Your sitting pretty. Don’t get hung up on your truck and shit like that. You need to focus on #1 Talking to a lawyer. #2. Do NOT move out of the house bro!! #3 keep your temper especially in front of the baby. That certainly especially means don’t …
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 10:53 PM
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Go for her guts too. Hahaha
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 08:42 PM
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My ex says she hates me all the time. Yet asks me for favors constantly… hey can you. She knows I would never say no to my kids so she uses them against me. This is my 20th month going through a divorce. I’m still living with this trash monster! I signed the papers today!! I’m supposedly the worst person but she won’t leave and loves not paying any bills. At all! I buy food I pay all utilities. She I a registered nurse that makes more then me. I think it’s gonna be a better year though. We were …
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 03:26 PM
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Don’t do it dude!! Don’t fucking do it. She will take everything from you. Including the kids you have with her.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 08:02 PM
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I’m going through the same thing man. At least you called it quits after 9 months. I waited for 4 years. My stbew is the same way. Super controlling. Hates any female family member. Weird as fuck. I should have paid attention to the red flags. My lawyer was a little simp and got walked all over by this nasty bitch of a lawyer. Get a women lawyer. They are so much more nasty. Fight for your kid man. Don’t give her ANY of your parental rights bro. I know your beat up. Broke. Sad. Angry. But you ca…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 04:04 PM
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I’m going through the same thing. Doesn’t matter how long you were married for. It all depends on how much SHE makes compared to you.. If your a dr. And she is a stay at home mom that can’t read. Your fucked. Hopefully she has a degree or a trade or some work experience. Hopefully she is employed that will help you. This is not legal advice. Get a lawyer immediately!! My ex is a RN. I’m a plumber. Her lawyer told her to stop working to fuck me over and get alimony. Which we were only married for…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 03:03 AM
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I learned my lesson. Marriage is the dumbest thing you could ever do. The longer you are together the worse your gonna pay. If you have kids like I do. It’s much worse. I’m still living with my ex 18 months after I filed!
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 02:52 PM
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Mine makes more then me but she won’t put the hours in. She is a RN and she started turning down shifts at work. She is under my insurance so she doesn’t have to keep up a certain amount of hours. I told my lawyer she was turning down shifts to party and my ex sent me a texts of her arguing with her boss. She turned down a shift to go have drinks and her boss was pissed. SHE SENZ ME THE TEXT!!? So my lawyer puts a subpoena on her texts with her boss. Turns out she told her boss in a text “ I won…
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 04:18 PM
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Hey brother. Downsizing is what you need to do to take care of your kids. I applaud you. That’s what real heroes do. They take care of their shit. They get up,and go to work every day for years and years. Shit is hard. It’s kills me to see my little girls unhappy. But all you can do is make your situation better when it’s your time with them. Try not to get caught up,with what your ex is doing.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 02:52 AM
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I’m sorry man. I’m going through the same bullshit. Fucking family court is a joke. My ex has stolen my phone to destroy evidence. Forged my signature on my checks to pay her bills. Lawyers are fucking scum get ready to deal with the dirtiest mother fuckers you ever met. I am treated like a criminal. My ex has lied and said all kinds of stories about abuse and cutting her off. ZERO proof besides her just saying it. She is a fucking liar. Just wasting money. She told me If she is gonna go down. S…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 02:38 AM
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14 year separation! Jesus that makes my stomach hurt. I can’t understand why you would let this go in for this long. Fuuuck that. Even if she disappeared and you couldn’t find her the courts will grant a divorce. Eventually. Good luck man. That’s some scary shit.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/22 04:14 AM
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I’m sorry brother. I’m going through the same shit. She “wasn’t 100% sure she wanted a divorce” when she was served the papers. But before that She said she wanted to be with other men and she missed having flings with other guys and she wanted to be single again. She gave up on our family. We have a 12 year old and a 4 year old. Does your wife have a job? File for divorce dude. Get a lawyer right away. Don’t be her bitch anymore. I bought my ex horses and gave her whatever she wanted. She used …
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 08:10 AM
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