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| 74 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified? | Question For Women | DontwantaFairOne | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How much of unsuccessful dating is due to mental illness? | Discussion | DontwantaFairOne | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:53 PM |
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| 45 | You won't get any kids from this Danger Zone diva while she intentionally subjects her future child to the unfavorable statistics.Self hating, racist, single mother by choice How do you help someone who doesn’t know they are ill? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/05/22 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Wow, I didn’t know brainless feminists could make cringy poems proving they’re all post-Wall na conablaigh lofa that no man wanted!Yes b/c it is always the pleasant agreeable women that end up single at 30… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.“All the time” isn’t a number. I don’t care about your personal anecdote. The average age of a bride is 28 meaning she already met her husband years before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.Sex +2-3 years. Relationship, 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.Yes simps exist, and they will suffer. The average bride is 28 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.B/c old women don’t get providers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.Yet they still prefer you to have more, women tend not to spend money on men so their money is irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Probably very low in dark triad personality traits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?He allowed himself to get used, who was he competing against? Most guys either already have kids or demand that she at least have more kids with him. I feel bad for him but most guys don’t need the red pill or anything to know not to go all-in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels Mega-ThreadYou’re right, it’s good stress relief to fantasize about a man they don’t qualify for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.The even greater majority of older women will want you for your money & resources 🤷♂️ Date whoever you want, guys commit when they are ready & find someone qualified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.Read all the subreddits where a girl thinks she’s dating a guy she sees once a month 3 hours away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.You might not get early 20s but 40 year olds routinely get women a decade younger. Guys should generally be patient, my gf is about 8 years younger after casual stuff with women my age. You need too have good timing especially since guys accrue experience slowly. The majority of the problem with older women is baggage & personality even before the toll on their looks happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Marry a decade younger before that. Even at 40 I man can have a family with a childless 33 year old at worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Every other week? I’d need to have a baseball team of FWBs at that rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Missed the last train leaving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?If you are older 40+/have kids of your own, your dating pool is all single mothers or childfree, cat ladys unless you date way younger. Even for casual, the shit schedule & emotional damage from failed relationships isn’t worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Why did he not demand a kid of his own if he could afford all that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Is making some women uncomfortable just part of dating for men?Yes, you need to take chances, there is no perfect approach or time to make a move | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels Mega-ThreadAs if the single mothers calling into his show weren’t stressed already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 37 | Who wants to hookup with a washed-up racist with herpes?Thank you for preserving the health of the black community | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/05/22 02:54 PM |
| 6 | A round of applause to see the Femcel community 'Female Dating Strategy' BannedI actually like being able to browse what the most selfish, mentally ill women were thinking. I didn’t even mind dinner dates, now not a chance. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 01:39 PM |
| 8 | A round of applause to see the Femcel community 'Female Dating Strategy' BannedNothing says great partner like someone “prioritizing themselves”. Have you noticed the high correlation between FDS & mental health subreddits? | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Anon's roomate is a good example of...How is it going to grow if interest & payments have been halted for 2 years? | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Having "ulterior motives" isn't a bad thingUlterior motives is just a way to penalize unattractive guys for not asking for sex right away. Women’s #1 OLD complaint, asking for sex right away. If she doesn’t like you or has issues with intimacy she dislikes your motive whenever you express it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 11 | "im just ready to finally settle down and enjoy life", said the tatted single mom who has already had her fun.Ready to settle down, but not ready for a natural hair color. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/04/22 10:52 AM |
| 6 | I love my husband but my best friend is smarter, healthier and better looking. And I'd rather have a baby by him. Why can't my husband understand that I'm doing this for us?Attempt to normalize…this sub wouldn’t exist if SM were getting stepfathers & married in large numbers | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/04/22 10:06 AM |
| 9 | I love my husband but my best friend is smarter, healthier and better looking. And I'd rather have a baby by him. Why can't my husband understand that I'm doing this for us?A cc ride before settling down or having kids with a guy & divorcing him is average. Being a single mother & expecting a relationship is below average. You won’t find worse than her | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/04/22 07:48 PM |
| 12 | I love my husband but my best friend is smarter, healthier and better looking. And I'd rather have a baby by him. Why can't my husband understand that I'm doing this for us?This woman is Satanic, like literally | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/04/22 05:54 PM |
| 17 | What a catch. It’s good to know she doesn’t want a quick fuck, this time.“Full-time mom” = much worse than simply unemployed | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/04/22 04:51 PM |
| 15 | BF of 3 years is shocked by prudish GF's deceit and FDS-like mercenary behaviorReddit logic: guys will judge you for your past, they weren’t exclusive & she has boundaries!!!!1!1! Don’t invest it anyone with a false, fake persona | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/04/22 03:49 PM |
| 14 | Woman in open marriage wants a guy who will get to know her for her or a girlfriend or a sugar daddyInsert attention & resources here | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Personality becomes more important as you age and it's not because of lack of optionsLol you sound weak, good luck brah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Personality becomes more important as you age and it's not because of lack of optionsSo you’re self sabotaging? I mean if you’ve got baggage then yeah stay away from women who don’t have any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Personality becomes more important as you age and it's not because of lack of optionsDo you find that personality improves with age? I find most older women to be far more delusional & bitter from past xp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | The Faustian Bargain of women exploiting their sex appeal & why I believe a significant portion of OnlyFans and Instagram models actually have LOW N-countsTLDR, but a sex worker with a low n count is as useless as a tattooed up virgin. A beat up, rusted out 1995 Corolla can have zero miles on the odometer, I’ll get the clean car w/ 25, 50k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.But if a woman looks horrible after putting effort in, isn’t that the bigger L? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Approximately 75% of college aged women who've hooked up have regrets about itYeah a lot of guys regret the level the sank to for a hookup also 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 10:51 AM |
| 26 | Mormon Single Mom Seeks Second HusbandShe coaches men on sex addiction & porn??? Who on earth views her as an authority? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | [42-F] approaching No Man's Land: have you ever asked yourself how difficult is to find someone normal?I learned what CPTSD was last week & I’m applying it here! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.You can do a dual strip show together! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Most Americans opt for that over debasing themselves We do need enthusiastic sex workers, just like we need clean toilets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.So if your poor that’s not your fault. Your parents failed financially & raising a worthy wife as far as values . I feel sorry for most strippers I have met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Your parents couldn’t afford your education so you’re working the pole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Not dumb, just degraded & damaged. Would you want your future daughter entering sex work also? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.A proud sex worker, literally the job every father tries to get his daughter to avoid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Most sex workers have an unrealistic view of life & no idea what kind of grind it actually takes to earn money is a competent field but you’ll learn soon enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.That’s cool but I could care less about your future with a past like that. If a guy is willing to commit to you despite this baggage, I’d relax on your demanding tone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Women do care about about male body count.They care, you need to have a body count as a man. Just my xp with low n count women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:07 PM |
| 4 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Lol, this coming with from a stripper. Most guys 10 year vision involves having nothing to do with a sex worker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How much of unsuccessful dating is due to mental illness?Mainly FDS, but how many dating threads make you think, “This person is totally unhinged” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage mean something different for women?B/c it will continue if there is a willing simp even if we don’t like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Western women, western men and perceived valueI find far more Reddit men matching that description than IRL average men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Body count and infidelity excerptsCool research bro…but what if I just don’t like the personalities & my treatment from high n count women? I prefer just saying it’s a preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:21 PM |
| 165 | Another sub was talking about how FDS was the most toxic place on reddit so decided to take a look to see if it was really that bad and this was the first post that came upAssuming 150 million women, that is a .007844% risk compared to about 100,000 troops in Iraq. Makes sense that the sub only wants .0001% HVM when you see their understanding of numbers | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite.Even most ppl who aren’t qualified for it have some options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.I already have a younger GF, so I’ve already answered the question good enough for her. Guys have to take who they can get, but I just showed you older women are objectively less suitable partners so most guys will put in less effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Correct, it is an insult to invest 9 months of pregnancy & 2 decades of your life into the seed of a man who you can’t/won’t/don’t stay with. I know women with STIs who I don’t think are bad ppl, but I ain’t dealing with baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.It’s common for ppl to not want what they qualify for, take “beta bucks” for example…are they offering anything else. FDS posters have awful stories from men b/c these men qualified for broken women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Yes a younger woman is more fertile, more athletic, has more earning years ahead of her in a LTR and lower healthcare costs. A team doesn’t sign a 35 year old running back to a long term contract | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Is there a part about not being a single mother or a childfree spinster. Or to choose a decent guy when you have options? Reading a book can’t fix crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite.I don’t think “I don’t have any matches” means “ I need to be married” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite.The men that find women that are wives DO get married & the benefits you listed. The men that encounter FDS, r/datingoverthirty & all the baggage (single motherhood, high n count, STDs, non traditional women) don’t get married b/c that’s taking a loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?Yeah but maybe the hate is do to the fact that that are unable or unwilling to meet most women’s needs (in a relationship context) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?What worth is a witchcraft group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?r/inceltear They literally find the dark corners of the internet nobody has ever heard of to quote mine 5 losers posting crazy shit to themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?Incels would bow as hard as they can if they had the option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?Isn’t being a player adjusting to that relationship expectation & “playing the game” (admittedly using some deception or at least keeping the nature of the hookup vague)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?Oh definitely, they are both self interested & useless for relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?Maybe a few, but not at large | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?A string of murders…like more than you can count on one hand? Out of millions of ppl, you have a few highly publicized incidents. The vast majority of incels aren’t violent & under more circumstances would see sympathy/empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Not where I live, you clearly aren’t married & actually sound like who OP is aiming for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?You clearly aren’t a wife if taking your husband’s name is an issue. What is wrong with what OP is offering then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?70% of mothers work, I would actually prefer my GF to take the early years off or at least WFH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?I personally don’t mind my GF doing WFH or taking a decade off, but stay at home housewives are not the norm through history. I’m guessing most of those single mothers had the mentality to pass in their last name and are free to do so. It’s actually a great screening tool to differentiate between women who want to get married vs. be a wife You seem to not understand that the demand I am making is fundamental to the agreement. I am willing to consider marriage ONLY & FOR THE PURPOSE of passing do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Most mothers (over 70%) work at least part time, most American women take their husbands last name. In order to get my permanent commitment those simple standards must be met. If I had a brother and he passed on the family surname with a son, I would not be open to marriage at all. The women who want to keep their name are free to pass on marriage to me and they can compete for the pool of men who are cool with that 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?She has a brother, her surname will be fine & is very common. We don’t have to be married, taking my surname is a requirement to move beyond “girlfriend”. If changing by your name is sexist or whatever, than you are free to opt out buy your own ring, skip the legal stuff or whatever. The requirement for marriage in the conventional sense is all or nothing, including my surname. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?And the personality of high n count women I found in my XP to be awful. I don’t know many virgins but I don’t fault an adult woman for having had sexual partners. A quarterback isn’t benched for one interception or bad throw. If there’s nothing wrong with her 25 short term hookups, then what’s wrong with me not changing her dating pattern of short term hookups at #26? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?With somebody that you are #26 or more to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?He’s intentionally dense to justify this. Out of thousands of ppl, he wants to classify it as unreasonable that only a few should be allowed inside your home/body. If you can’t vet & keep the first 25 ppl, I’m not riding on the road to 50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 0 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?A QB is a person. From XP, sex is much better doing what you want with someone fresh then being blocked off from things other guys did. If high n count women aren’t demonstratively better, than why bother me? Hell I don’t like tattoos either so I just date women without it. If she’s had short term situations I’m fine for her to be a short term backup, that’s what she qualifies for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?I’m willing to give whatever type of relationship the woman qualifies for, but yes my Christian GF has me more open to a tradcon family lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?An NFL team doesn’t sign a quarterback who has been sacked a bunch of times & is a 10 year backup to a franchise contract. Unless you plan to be in an LTR with multiple women, it’s in your interest to choose the best prospect just like an NFL team. Even if n-count was irrelevant the burden of proof would be on YOU to prove that high n count women are BETTER to question my personal preference. Hell, I don’t want a woman that has changed careers multiple times and that’s WAY more irrelevant than t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Just a requirement for the role, the role where you don’t take my last name is called “girlfriend” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?I’m willing to do the traditional things…ring, ceremony, reception if my girlfriend keeps the tradition of taking my last name. I don’t HAVE to be married, and if a woman is unwilling to take my last name she really don’t want it that bad, and that’s cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?They don’t need to as long as they find a man willing to do it, just won’t be me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?The family surname living on is most of the reason I would get married. Otherwise I don’t want to it. Those are the terms & conditions, we do it traditionally or not at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Parody post but you missed the /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?Women with tons of one night stands & situationships are getting what they are qualified for. I’m not investing my life in a heavily used rental | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Yet somehow still the standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 24 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?She’s not difficult at all, it was the other 25 guys that were the problem! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?The autists on this sub can’t really comprehend the social implications of having bastard kids, really kinda selfish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:09 PM |
| -1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?With that attitude it’s a big IF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Why would you do that when the majority of women will take your name & give your kids their surname? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Guess I won’t be marrying an Asian woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Thankfully, couldn’t imagine sticking around & marrying a ball buster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 34 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?A history of failed relationships isn’t a good future relationship prospect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually value relationships and families?Post 32: Family Pre 32: Smashing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:57 PM |
| -6 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?I guess you know a lot of weak men, I know one bride who kept her name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:52 PM |
| -2 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Have you met any men that would commit permanently to a woman who wouldn’t take their last name? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.🤣 yeah dating a single mom isn’t high effort or difficult w/ no reward Self-improvement is hard, getting an inadequate, unqualified GF is harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age?Online, everybody is rich. IRL, roommates, cheap studios, inheritance from dead family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?An attractive man can both be in a relationship & look for casual sex. Hence all the married/poly guys on OLD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Is "The Tinder Swindler" what happens to women who vastly over estimate thier SMV?I mean stupid is the most logical explanation, but yeah pretty women getting scammed is the outlier. Most love scams Target older ppl of either sex b/c they are desperate and lack options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Is "The Tinder Swindler" what happens to women who vastly over estimate thier SMV?You’re missing that if the genders were reversed we would call what happened “A day ending in y” Hell reverse the genders & men would only be howling if the girl didn’t put out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 0 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.Hit dog hollers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men are more right wing than women?Besides healthcare, what part of the private sector has the bulk of the productive work done by women? Education, social work, nonprofits all support the fantasy of the independent woman. Less income for a variety of reasons, longer lifespan and vulnerability due to pregnancy all create rational incentive for left leaning beliefs. Married women already have the support of a partner so the social safety net/abortion/ free stuff isn’t as important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:08 PM |
| 17 | Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers?Being a decent OF creator involves both talent, hard work & 🍀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:22 PM |
| 2 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.Women, a dozen. Men, 25. No matter what their age is, these are lifetime figures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Question about work-housework balance in a relationshipYard work? Repairs? Cleaning the garage? Attic? Trash? You sound really bitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Question about work-housework balance in a relationshipIt’s the aggressive negotiation tactic, mentally shift the tone by starting with “I want everything” A smart negotiator will just walk away, but some will negotiate from weakness & maybe pay 60-75% & do a lot of housework | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Which Family dynamic do you think is better overall?1 assumes the parents are both alive, healthy, close by & have a great relationship. The 1st two are not necessarily likely once you reach 30. Otherwise it’s just fine once the kids are over 5. On option 2, most women post COVID could work from home at a lower rate so her income doesn’t have to be zero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Which Family dynamic do you think is better overall?Cheers comrade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?Also, not speaking to my exes makes my current relationship better/easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?My friends helped me meet women when I was single. Is your ex going to that without an agenda besides your best interest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 130 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?The women who could make FDS demands are already getting those benefits with very little studying/posting/demanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | What are the signs and behavior of a "post wall" woman?No longer excited/optimistic about marriage/LTR/future family. She no longer has the time pressure & the willingness to enter a relationship once a traditional setup isn’t viable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | True or False Dating Apps have led to a gamification of OLD therefore attracting more men therefore disadvantaging men?🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 2 | If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet?Infastructure, quality medical care, safety… the fact that you don’t know if you would be happy in a relationship with a foreigner until you have already sacrificed your entire life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Do a lot of nerdy stem/white collar men fail to meet woman's attraction threshold?Lol, how about neckbeard philosophy majors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Do a lot of nerdy stem/white collar men fail to meet woman's attraction threshold?Chad rarely becomes a techie/engineer He’s been getting laid since 14/16, and will only put in enough work to keep it going. Even if he goes the school/professional route, a non-STEM degree & $10K-$40K less in earnings will be just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 27 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleAn average man still drives a decent reliable car. A used Toyota Carrolla, while plain, is far more worthwhile of a car than an overweight, in therapy, single mom is of a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Women demonizing men for wanting sexHas she considered that she likely offers nothing as a friend & guys are just searching for utility anywhere they can find it? | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/02/22 11:45 AM |
| 0 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?Forthcoming? If N count matters you need better data then just asking her. Just like what a guy says is not a foolproof way to weed out fuckboys. Wagging your finger doesn’t stop deception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?B/c many women don’t want to hear that they don’t qualify for the GF/wife/mother track. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people see a decline in SOI with ageLess options due to reduced physical attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedEvery guy is a “Chad” to some woman not worth his time, and a simp for some 8 or 9 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedCongrats, female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedOnly 2 decades ago 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:29 PM |
| 0 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedIt isn’t most of my female friends qualified to find someone get snapped up on Tinder & Hinge. One, older unqualified female stays single on Bumble after flunking Tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedUsually they get unmatched on Tinder once the truth comes out. On bumble, there preset fields, usually involving having a child or not wanting any gets them no response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejected37, no idea why guys aren’t responding 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedFrom XP, Bumble more than any other app offers women who flunked other apps/real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:56 AM |
| 7 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedGood, then they can remain where they need to be…alone. If you can’t figure out why a fit guy w/ an Ivy League degree didn’t respond to a lazy ass hand wave emoji. I think one visit to FDS should educate most men on why dinner isn’t an option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:00 PM |
| 18 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedWhen I used bumble, the matches that got no response were literally women that were several leagues below me. If you don’t meet the low bar for casual sex, you should feel dismissed & dejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?“I’m not wife material but don’t like pump & dumps” - translated for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Is There Anything You Can Do Or Say Which Can Determine If A Woman You're Talking To Is Interested Or Not?Ask them to do something for you, like pick something up from the store they are going to. $10, remembering your request & having the item in anticipation of seeing you again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?They aren’t average, probably slightly below. Most guys I know are married or in relationships, the ones that are perpetually single have almost as many issues as the perpetually single women I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating market35, high risk pregnancy plus a generally soured attitude on relationships if single over that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 03:19 PM |
| 4 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Usually dinner, drinks & the opportunity to form a relationship with someone will to plan dates, lead the conversation without expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 11 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Besides sex, men are looking for wives & mothers not opposite sex friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.B/c outside of of the traditional wife/mother, women don’t provide anything unique in a romantic relationship besides sex. When you consider all the women unfit to be the 1st 2 things 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | I am also a 17 year old male and I know to cook :) (check profile for images if you want to)What guys are asking random women to cook for them? It’s not a gender role, it’s a relationship role | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Survivorship BiasI don’t think many well adjusted women that would make good partners are “happily single”. Usually a lot of mental baggage there. Most guys (including myself)find an LTR prospect after 10-20 dates/hookups/whatever, most women in my XP, 3-10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Such a self serving diatribe, apparently wanting a woman in her physical prime & not post menopause is “pedo” b/c age 18-35 doesn’t exist. Just teenager 👉🏾 used up 40 year old with baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Survivorship BiasMore men than women want relationships according to surveys, so many women have already self selected themselves as ineligible. The may get on an app or go on dates but if they are unqualified for a relationship they will remain single. Every reasonable female > 25 I know IRL is in an LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Survivorship BiasYeah but a lot of women take damage in relationships & aren’t the same optimistic prospect they were b4 the LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?His loss, sound like the ideal situation for “living apart together” or some alternative arrangement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?That’s fine, but time is money too. Also money is fungible, meaning whatever you spend on your kid(s) is time/resources that could go into a future family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?You must be intentionally dense if you can’t see the difference between single moms as low hanging fruit & somebody to actually invest in. Do better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 11:34 AM |
| 0 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?A permanent financial obligation to another guy’s kid isn’t baggage? Besides an STD, it’s the worst baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?Umm lol our society is based on families since the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Whoa this sounds like a lot of baggage & problems. Hard to believe some “red pill” guy would go anywhere near this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 7 | CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futuresYou would be surprised how not thorough most employment background checks are, maybe 1 in 2 or 3 employers would find out. The problem is most onlyfans creators fail for the same reason they don’t want to work a regular job: either one is going to take a lot of effort from most ppl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.Yeah, personality…you have to pick a struggle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Is dating today worth it?Lol, I guess it depends on your options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 03:11 PM |
| 0 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Married women are more conservative (usually the right shift comes along with having a family & accumulating ownership of things) Right leaning, free market politics have no appeal to the sex in the city style free college, higher minimum wage, free healthcare, abortions, childcare, social security & welfare are all ways for society to subsidize a single woman’s lifestyle. If a woman wants a family, her road will tend to go right without provocation down the line. Obviously the serial daters, sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:14 PM |
| 0 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?If he likes low taxes and votes R for it, it counts all the same I guess. I’m pro pot legalization, but rarely vote for a candidate supporting it as an R/libertarian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 0 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Lol, 🛑 revealing anything. B4 my traditional GF I just said “I’m not into politics, they’re all corrupt” Never got any grief or pushback | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Ultra leftist women are over represented on OLD b/c of both personality mismatch with conservative guys & b/c LTR & family values tend to align with a centrist/right viewpoint. Thus making many perpetually single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?B/c women who aren’t tradwives are perfectly capable of casual sex. In fact their values often align with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?“Date” & relationship are completely different. Who would want a relationship with someone filled with so much animosity over voting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 0 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?From XP, just lie to them for sex. Any woman that cares about politics that much has issues & is unqualified for an LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateEither that, 🎾 or a video chat. Even if I wanted to go to dinner, I would screen by asking for one of the above things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | What's the best dating advice for womenYes they will be as barren as you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:08 AM |
| -1 | What's the best dating advice for womenWomen who don’t want kids don’t count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 10 | What's the best dating advice for womenThis. + you can’t get on Tinder full of tats and wonder why guys wanna hookup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Maybe not more in 💰 spent, but my GF got a weekend date & one of my better ideas (indoor shuffleboard). She paid for her own drinks/food, but my Saturday afternoon is a lot more investment then my typical 🎾 & a smoothie after work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Talking about the 80/20 database and the comparison of dating in the past and now, wouldn't it translate to that most of our mothers resented our dads?Yes, most of y’alls divorced moms are 304s anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 12:17 PM |
| 2 | To avoid being a "starter wife" or "forever girlfriend," this is the best dating strategy for women:Just like MLMs, they never look at themselves on why they aren’t in a legitimate business. Most “forever girlfriends” I know got the 💍, by the time your consciously thinking about how to get a guy to invest, you’re already too far gone. Look OK, don’t have a black hole for a personality, then pick from the guys willing to invest in you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 23 | To avoid being a "starter wife" or "forever girlfriend," this is the best dating strategy for women:Great FDS copypasta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 0 | "Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother?Yes but few women end up with a long term FWB, most at least get a BF & most of those will leave well before a decade if they don’t get a 💍. But the best part is getting you to drink the kool aid whole hog that what other women are getting in relationships isn’t objectively better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | "Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother?The joke is that you somehow perceive this as a W. He gets you to give up your options (which are more as a female if you ever got it together), he gets clean safe sex, he can always have you as the backup if he doesn’t find someone he likes better & you have bought into this “relationship” so much you are on Reddit posting this as a W | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:19 PM |
| 8 | "Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother?“Monogamous Long term FWB” 🤦🏿♂️🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 37 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?Like for looks & sex, there’s a minimum threshold of intelligence for a relationship. Once you pass the undergraduate degree/decent career threshold, being a lawyer, joining Mensa or earning a PhD is a nice bonus but not that relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Is traditionalism inherent inefficient?Have you checked the price of childcare? It’s efficient only if the parent that doesn’t stay home makes the $20-22+ per hour to come out ahead after childcare. This is assuming that you don’t take welfare (food stamps, WIC, Medicaid, US programs etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | What signs tell you a man is taken?Glad I don’t know any women who use Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Question about your thoughts on this strategy (NOT an advice post)Not unique of a strategy, seems basic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Are all women polygynous?I wish serial monogamy wasn’t applauded as so “morally righteous” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:38 PM |
| 3 | The sexual strategy of abortionMost women with abortions already have kids, so reckless ppl behave recklessly. There’s no strategy, if the was, there wouldn’t be welfare for all these single moms they would just have abortion or the option to fund parenthood yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:19 PM |
| 4 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Because Leonardo Di Caprio, Future & Nick Cannon aren’t wondering or caring if their the asshole. Dude is dating a woman 5 years older, dump her, be an asshole & don’t live your life according to strangers approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Can’t older women just date older men?Once you’re 40+ (my older sister’s age), older men have baggage, not likely to propose & might have health issues. Even if you find “your guy”, my coworker died of a heart attack at 52. Obviously the healthiest, financially secure men @ 40 would at least want somebody closer to 30 to still have a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Can’t older women just date older men?So he doesn’t want or already has kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:25 AM |
| 5 | Can’t older women just date older men?This is the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?Validation, usually in the form of agreement of “can’t get a relationship because opposite gender” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?The amount of mental illness on most dating subs explains a lot about why I know very few IRL ppl w/ Reddit dating problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the right amount of dates do you think a woman should wait before having sex with you?Religious, wants kids, decent job, younger than me - up to 7 dates Secular, doesn’t mention kids, low paying job/bad hours, absolutely any baggage, 35+, - 2 to 3 dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?Every woman I know that is not perpetually single found her BF/husband in 10 dates. If you’ve been on 25+ dates you’re for the streets whether you put out or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | In your observations, what are the main differences between the wo/men as described by users here, and the wo/men you know irl?Almost everyone I know met their significant other in < 25 dates/hookups/whatever, usually under 10 Ppl who value relationships accept who they can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:09 PM |
| -1 | Women have a greater return on investment (ROI) than men do when it comes to appearanceMost of male care is cheap, female care is only reasonably priced if you are starting w/ a 6 or better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Well I guess I still know one of each, they have had boyfriends in the past. The career one got a high status man that cheated & left. The sex worker dated a loser & is now celibate holding out for marriage in her 40s to a HVM that could date her daughter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Nah, seems pretty normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:24 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?3 is pretty standard, was there any physicality on the the 1st 3? Were the 1st 3 expensive dates that he foot the entire bill? The 3 times I waited, 2 went to 5-7 b4, the other had no intention on a real relationship and I ghosted after 2 months. Chatting for days, planning dates & waiting a month is a long time especially on OLD. Long enough to find someone things are progressing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 13 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Exactly! Check the post history of “men only want sex” Reddit posters & you will find the most toxic ppl that would be hard to tolerate even just for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 02:16 PM |
| 31 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I don’t know a single woman IRL that can’t get a relationship b/c “guys only want sex” Most women learn after a couple pump & dumps unless they have mental issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Schedule a 2 part date, museum + dinner. Mine fav is 🎾 + smoothies. If you own 2 racquets the date is free. Then you only have to do smoothies if part 1 goes well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?No access at night while they are working, in the morning if I want to go in the office late or on my lunch break | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 07:27 PM |
| 8 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Doesn’t work daytime, 9-5 type hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | TRP is undercomplex in evaluating the SMV of peopleYea but a used car needs a used car buyer. Both ppl have objectively negative baggage they have to accept from each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?Starting to get a idea why you asked this. Vetting someone for half a decade or more isn’t normal. If you still think this post 30, 35 or so there will not be much out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?4 years??? Please tell me you are like 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?Probably not, maybe demisexuals or a relationship focused app like Hinge. I really only understand waiting for religious purposes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?Have you tried your church or asking your parents? If you are going to casual sex places, dating apps & social venues; you will find hookup culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | TRP is undercomplex in evaluating the SMV of peopleAll value in economics is subjective. Your weight, age, income, children, rating are objective & more useful than “great personality” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the Kardashian look?Facts. Why she’s still on his jock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."Have PSVR, more comparable to porn than a GF, FB, strip club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardYeah steroids is trying too hard, the rest is fine. You’re like a girl getting BBLs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Is celibacy a red flag?That place in life isn’t an appealing one for a normal person seeking a relationship b/c sex is included for the vast majority of ppl in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is celibacy a red flag?Just like celibacy the reason doesn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Is celibacy a red flag?Exactly my point, if you like sex avoid celibate ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Is celibacy a red flag?Yeah Virgin is totally different than celibate. If the virgin is over 25 🚩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Is celibacy a red flag?🚩 When somebody says they don’t drink it suggests a bad relationship/xp with alcohol. Now apply that to sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Is pumping and dumping girls immoral?Why does it being immoral bother you? Most Redditors are non religious anyway so “wrong” is just a shaming tactic. Enjoy your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?If they care 🚩🚩🚩 for LTR Just avoid the subject & keep it casual. Well adjusted ppl aren’t engrossed in politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 02:20 PM |
| 0 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:You have to, you actually care about politics & are half a foot shorter than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | FDS was built to be a business & a cult.It’s such common sense, like duh the ones I like are going to concerts & the meh ones are getting ☕️ or the park | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 3 | FDS was built to be a business & a cult.Buy my book! Listen to my podcast! At least PUAs don’t promise you will be 6’3” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 3 | FDS was built to be a business & a cult.I agree, these below average women have been brainwashed into passively hoping a HVM decides he wants an uncompetitive female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 5 | FDS was built to be a business & a cult.😆, the best is when you click on their username & each post is chapter of their 🚩 book, and why they aren’t even worth the free dinner they strategize over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 5 | FDS was built to be a business & a cult.Most of the posts aren’t dating it’s “men bad” & “be happy alone” The closest they come to giving practical advice is “make every guy treat you like his dream girl and demand everything” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:24 PM |
| -5 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Sad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 8 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightTinder will downrank you from other ppls left swipes. You will get shown to more desirable ppl by matching & getting ghosted. It’s the same reason single mothers all over Tinder with nothing in the description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:05 PM |
| -2 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:If she doesn’t own yoga pants, return to sender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Would you date a woman that dressed in whatever, crocs, baggy, manly clothes, short hair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetCool story brah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetStay mad old hag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Is she a catch?All my broke hobosexual Kings 👑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Is she a catch?🤣 you took a meme seriously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice how common this is?It means “I’m a passive aggressive bitch” Date whoever will put up with that attitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice how common this is?Plenty of nonblack women don’t date BM without posting about it or downing them. Their attitude is why WW are married @ 50% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice how common this is?I just said you come off like a typical BW, bad attitude, resents BM, all the negative stereotypes. Date whoever will tolerate you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Ever notice how common this is?😂 b/c fully white woman don’t talk like this. Half black, full angry BW. The only biracial girl I know is a baby momma to a WM who dumped her, good luck. Hopefully you hold your breath until a single WM I know marries a BW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersShe is 5’8” (almost as tall as the average man) & listed @ 130-140. If her tits were bigger 145 would be fine & there’s a lot of workouts & muscle in that butt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersIt’s borderline overweight by BMI for a woman of average height 5’5”. I’d hit it, but my GF & doubles 🎾? Nah, not without some decent T&A & muscle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersGet a cheap apartment/townhouse there, but you gotta be swimming in fatties for 145 to be in the normal category. The Deep South & Midwest fatties rely on strength in numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersYou in Mississippi or something? I can’t drink a beer on my own porch without some jogger waving @ me. A mile west of here (rich area) you can’t even find a woman pushing a baby stroller over 145 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Shaman's iron rule: never have kids unless you find a woman who will have kids without marriage😂 your advice is to have kids with trash? If you intentionally become a single mom you are for the streets, don’t @ me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersNormal/thick = yes Petite/chubby = case by case basis Don’t weigh more than my fighting weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | why would any man get married?Meaning is this girl better (looks, personality, long term plans, potential mother) than any girl I’ve previously dated or can reasonably see myself with in the future. & pro tip: find somebody who actually enjoys working out, 🎾 has been my go to 1st date in quarantine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copers😂 none of my white friends GFs are over 125. At 140-160 Chubby is a relative term. I guess petite<normal<thick<chubby<fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Ever notice how common this is?Her opinion of a HVM matters, yours doesn’t. You sound real sad & defeated. Even the dudes I run 🏀 with that have black children moved on to nice WW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersYou can have both fat & muscle, that’s what a good ass is in a female, like r/thickfit If you mean chubby by “huge gut, never works out” then yeah I’m out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Rate female pornstars without makeupMeh, are any of these girls popular? Like top 50, 100 on pornhub Tori Black without makeup is still a 10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:41 PM |
| -1 | And that's ok!🚩 Woman with a type 2 personality disorder incoming 🚩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | why would any man get married?B/c women who are wife material will get it from another guy. If you think the next GF will be equal or better than yeah don’t bother. Also the whole traditional, Christian family thing if those are your values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersShe has big tits and nothing else, no muscle, no tone…hard pass & I’m not even into hundred pounders like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Ever notice how common this is?HVM is a subjective term like “wife material”. Marriage rates are an objective measure of a group’s desirability long term. Matches/messages, short term. Yes I am black & my GF is one of the whitest ppl in human existence, frankly I prefer the nicer attitude but that’s also subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Race and attractiveness is not a big thing among gen z, anyone of any race can be attractiveOr short…which is partially an ethnic feature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Chubby chasers are copersEwww, and I’m not even hard on women’s weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Ever notice how common this is?That black men are LV? Brah there are over 800,000 more married BM than BW even though America has 2 million more BW than BM. You need to up your game & self-esteem, I don’t even talk to BW on OLD unless I’m in a slump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Ever notice how common this is?Lol, I’m still waiting for a single white friend to marry a black woman. Hell, even making to GF would be 🎉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Lol or how heightism = racism. Western men are the tallest & all men are measured against that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Do not "push for it harder" when you're trying to get laidIf you’re a virgin, date @ church. Out here on the streets, we want sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:44 AM |
| 5 | Almost all Chads are taking anabolic steroids. You can't really ever hope to be a Chad unless you take them yourself.Chad has the jaw & height, not steroids & overtraining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do women even care if their relationship ends? They can find a man that's better looking, taller, richer, and has a bigger dick than their current bf/husband in 5 seconds on tinderThey can’t find someone better across the board just in a few areas. Look at most celebrity women who date down in status as time goes on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Is a mildly disabled widow “dateable?”Of course, you have already shown you have the looks & personality to find someone. It would be totally different if you were insufferable plus you’re 29 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Purge me on age gap relationshipsYes a failed LTR, assuming no marriage, isn’t that bad for a guy. Starting over is really refreshing, usually the age gap keeps growing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Men STFU and stop working out to impress WomenThe 🤡makeup will attract another woman, who cares about your ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:02 AM |
| 7 | "Creepy" has no meaning any moreThis is the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Purge me on age gap relationshipsThe mental is often worse than the physical, super damaged goods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:48 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Sex is a need.Asexuals needs conflict with yours…only one will survive 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.To Dubai yes, but millions of women get taken to dinner/concert/ball game without putting out or joining FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:59 PM |
| 4 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.Flirt/sex/something in between, but 1st you have to follow rules 1 & 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Straight men should experience penetration at least once in their lifeFind a guy into your pegging fetish 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | There will never be a male body positivity movement because there is no sexual desire from women for one“Dad Bod” - just like curvy women don’t go too far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:45 PM |
| 10 | Typical counter argument from the FDS crowd.Kweens that are so hot that they need a manual to figure out how to get dinner out of a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | From the post about r/askwomen's standards a few hours ago -- these are the actual top answers, which OP had to scroll over and skip to get to the answers he screenshot lolThe floor pissers were hot…and some women have these half baths on the 1st floor that are real tight & awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | From the post about r/askwomen's standards a few hours ago -- these are the actual top answers, which OP had to scroll over and skip to get to the answers he screenshot lolThe men those women are complaining about followed rules 1 & 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 3 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.Weed out such nefarious things as “going to coffee or the park” with a stranger from a dating app. If they left it at avoiding nextflix & chill, meeting in public and not insane demands they wouldn’t get half the hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.FDS is a great instruction manual on demanding a guy treat you like a 9 or 10 🤣 Don’t forget the 90 days of funding her dating life before any action from this single mother! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:27 PM |
| 5 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.Hot women are getting flown out, bought stuff & have simps packing their IG inbox. Why would a woman with anything to offer need FDS to choose from all her options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.I love 🎾! Yoga pants & you weeded out the fatties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:20 PM |
| 5 | LMAO, who gives a fuck about FDS? If you're nervous about FDS becoming popular, then you're automatically an LVM. FDS is hilarious, i hope it grows to 50 million members.They taught me the golden rule: avoid dinner dates at all costs If she will go to the park, you have screened out all the toxic women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetMe 37M w/ 29F - how dare you want a couple years of time & an easier way to have a family! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | "Just hit the gym bro!"They’re pretty hardcore, but shouldn’t the meme somehow involve them not getting laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Normies overvalue the importance of muscles when attracting womenSorry, on my girl’s Reddit while she’s in COVID quarantine. But dude, don’t workout if it isn’t fun for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Explain to monkeWe live in a society! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | "Black men are desperate for white women and can only date fat ones" Yeah about thatHe’s implying you’re broke. Like a coastal person insulting Mississippi. Beautiful state but low income-per-capita | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Normies overvalue the importance of muscles when attracting womenFitness is more important as you age, most women that are fit later in life workout consistently. I usually invite a girl to play a sport on any weekday date, so it’s about compatibility with the active women you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Looks are THE ONLY thing men care in a woman. Unattractive girls have no chance.What about all the incels that are available? There always somebody if you lower your standards enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | The cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for1/3 is rare 😂 What do 33% of theses women look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Moids will never understand the trauma their objectification causes.She still has a mouth, hands and feet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | The sub r/askwomen drops the blackest pillsDo any of those people sound like someone you could stand for half a second? There are alone(despite daily opportunities) for a reason. Edit: PLEASE click on the profile of the women with insufferable quotes on any Reddit dating forum. You will find trauma, mental illness, it’s scary to think that some of them may be hot(SOME) but the crazy will be in their post history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men, I hate how you think you do so much for the world when you do absolutely nothingWe live in a society! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | People promoting male financial abortion don't understand that it's not to punish the male, it's to help the child with what's best for itBecause ppl respond to incentive. A paper abortion hurts a few children today in order to get the benefit of less single mothers in the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | There is no condition under which a man is entitled to a woman's body / there is no condition under which a woman is entitled to a man's time, money and resourcesThis is the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Blackpill is the best pillYeah but most guys are average, they swallow red pills the work out, ask out a bunch of women, etc. Black pill is no hope, predestination…if you are a 1 or 2, then yeah self improvement isn’t worth it to level up to a fat single mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Would you say drugs and/or alcohol are often not considered enough when it comes to the whole casual sex arguments?Not only that, when you drink/smoke/whatever you can playfully cross physical boundaries & blame it on inebriation. Really makes the process smoother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 12:37 AM |
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