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ADVICEDonuts_Or_Bust/r/RedPillWomen08/07/19 02:36 AM
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Your comments, while I understand are to defend yourself, do open the discussion as to whether or not you’re marriage material. If they can no longer provide sex how? If you actually read the Wiki, you would see many articles, blogs, books, etc., that explain vetting, finding someone you are sexually compatible with, and understanding that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Many women who subscribe to RPW ideals and values will tell you they don’t turn their man down for sex — almost ever — becau…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 01:36 AM
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You came to this sub. I imagine you must have read the Wiki, so why would you open this discussion to strangers if you’re not willing to understand why we feel your understanding of RPW and their ideals are completely flawed. Do you feel threatened that we aren’t agreeing with your post and comments? You can be well-educated, well-traveled, have a career, and be attractive and fit, and for many, if not most, HVM your past as a sex worker is a deal breaker. Yes, many of these men may want to fuck…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 01:03 AM
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Have you had an allergy test? I did makeup for years, and while bags under your eyes can certainly be genetic, it could also be sinus allergies causing the dark purple bags — it’s at least worthwhile to rule that out.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 08:54 PM
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Read The Surrendered Single by Laura Doyle — it gives great advice for getting you out of your comfort zone and improving yourself
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 07:55 PM
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I think it depends...Blonde looks pretty youthful, but I’m a redhead — because I take care of my body, and I don’t look like a stereotypical redhead, I will be the first to admit that I get 1000 times more attention being a pretty redhead than I would as a blonde. I think the same might be true for having your hair black — you might be out of the “norm” for women with black hair, making it seem more rare/attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 12:48 AM
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Honestly, judging off of your post and comments, you’re very insecure, and it probably shows. You may think you’re smiling and being approachable, but your discomfort and worry about your sister being the only one approached becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, and it’s probably reading all over your face. Work on yourself to boost your own self confidence — whether it’s hitting the gym, trying some new makeup tutorials, maybe a new hairstyle, etc., do things that make you feel more confident. If…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 02:51 AM
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Live alone! If you can afford it, live alone — 10/10 would recommend! I had roommates my Freshman year of college (dorms) and Sophomore year (an apartment), and after having some roommate drama the end of my Sophomore year, I moved into a one bedroom apartment alone, and I LOVED it. It can get lonely, for sure, but you don’t have to worry about someone leaving their dirty dishes in your sink for days, hair in the drain, or someone eating your food — and the other myriad of issues that can come w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 02:42 AM
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u/pisellipod based off of this users comment history, he posts in NiceGuys and admits to being an incel. This is not advice that any RPW would encourage, and he can kindly gtfo.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 10:01 PM
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I think sometimes we get caught up in trying to save a relationship because in this sub, we really work to be better, self-reflective, and willing to acknowledge our shortcomings. We’re inundated with women who sometimes are the problem in their relationships, but it sounds like all you’ve done is sacrifice. There is a big difference between compromise and sacrifice. While we always have room for improvement, it doesn’t sound like you are the one who needs to change. It sounds like you have the …
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 09:56 PM
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Get out — get out yesterday. Not every man is a captain, and more importantly, just because you love someone does not mean they deserve to be your captain. All of the things you mention show that you don’t trust this man — and quite frankly based on your side, you shouldn’t. You’ll do what you want, but this doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship. You want a teammate, and it sounds like for the past 4 years, you’ve been carrying this team. You are exerting so much emotion, time, and money int…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 08:53 PM
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This is so great and so true. My boyfriend calls me most days after work as he’s going to the gym, and we just have a brief chat, but then he’ll usually call me after the gym to really talk about his day and my day. While I definitely validate his feelings, and I don’t try to solve problems unless asked, I see an opportunity for myself to improve by showing more gratitude and appreciation for him. He often will tell me about coworkers who aren’t pulling their weight, and I will validate his frus…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 03:36 AM
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Well good! I encourage even lurkers to read more about RPW (stay away from TRP, haha), but if you’re a woman who’s looking for a relationship and values self-improvement, this sub has a lot to offer!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 11:48 PM
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I will disregard the fact that you didn’t mention redheads at all, and try not to be offended, lol. I would only change your hair if it’s something you want, and you are using a good stylist. Maybe some babylights or bayalage to start? If you see someone with highlights you like, ask them who does their hair — you want someone who specializes in color who will do a color consult with you and help you pick the right color that doesn’t look unnatural.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 03:33 AM
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I love Kitty! While maybe not her most RPW quote, I had, “And by the way I did not spill peppermint schnapps on the Bible — it was Sambuca — I'm not trailer trash,” made into a printed canvas
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 11:21 PM
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Ask any man what he looks for in a woman, and I will bet that 9/10 (like dentists recommending Crest ;) lol) degree and career will not be in their top 3 and for a lot top 5. Your boyfriend is a pharmacist — he already makes great money, he doesn’t need your career. You know what his career doesn’t give him? Love and a soft place to land — that’s what you give him. You’re young, so I totally understand comparing yourself to people you graduated with, but you need to stop! Most of them will be fa…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 05:49 PM
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I managed a dental office for several years — maybe you could start as a dental assistant, become more acclimated with the job and the duties associated with it, then continue with the dental hygiene program. Some offices won’t require DAs to have their x-ray certification as long as your actively trying to obtain it. Finding good DAs isn’t easy, so a lot of offices will accommodate your Dental Hygiene school schedule to keep you on even part time.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 01:39 PM
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I decided to take some time between when I ended my previous job to starting my new — I wanted to be relaxed and rejuvenated, and honestly, I felt I earned a break! But, I started getting bored. When I was working, my SO and I would spend weekends together and maybe one night during the week — maybe. Now I had all this free time — it should be great, right? I brought dinners over, did his laundry when I did mine, etc., because I was such a good girlfriend! He didn’t even ask for help! And then m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 10:02 PM
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Did you even read the Wiki and Sidebar? I’m not trying to be rude, but some of the posts lately show that the poster made no attempt to understand RPW and RP philosophies whatsoever. Do you feel happy and fulfilled now? Are you your best self? Are you happy with your physical appearance? Do you feel healthy? Do you have hobbies that bring you joy? Are you always striving to better yourself? Do you feel like you would bring value to a high quality man’s life? If you answered no to most of those q…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 09:31 PM
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I’ve done online dating within the last year, so I can honestly say that the dating pool for women is MUCH bigger. Like u/ihearthandbags said, cut your losses and quit texting him. Moving forward, as an adult understand that no one owes you an explanation for why they don’t want to date you — sometimes it just doesn’t feel right because I’ve been there. Continue working on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 12:11 PM
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This might get downvoted, but why didn’t you just play for a few minutes? He enjoys gaming, he wanted to share that with you, and you rejected him — in front of his friends. Maybe his comment afterward about your gaming side was a bit immature, but men can have some delicate egos, and you just bruised his. You don’t have to play video-games with him all the time, but your partner is coming to you saying essentially, I like this thing and I like you, and I’d like to show you why I like this thing…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 03:31 PM
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Have you read Laura Doyle’s Surrendered Single? It really gives a lot of tips and RedPill-centered suggestions for dating and making yourself more approachable. I should also say make sure you are asking questions and not dominating the conversation. That doesn’t mean sit silently like a doll, but men I’ve dated have mentioned that they appreciate that I’ve asked about them and follow up questions because some women tend to just talk about themselves without really getting to know the person the…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 01:03 AM
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The breakup is fresh — it’s normal to feel sad. Now, I’m the tough love friend in my group, this is a YMMV situation, but it has always worked for me (apologizing for formatting now because mobile, and honestly don’t wanna look into how to format): Feel sad. Give yourself time to just feel sad, but then let it go. I know it’s hard, but crying and feeling depressed aren’t making you feel any better. I know that’s easier said than done, but if you focus on being miserable, you’re just going to be …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 09:27 PM
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The moment he segued from a professional relationship is the moment you cut it off. It’s 2019 — social media makes it infinitely easier to meet people in your profession.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 01:00 PM
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I think the most important take away from this sub is understanding that submission doesn’t mean silent, and being submissive doesn’t mean being controlled. You don’t submit to all men — you submit to the one man who is worth it, and submission comes in many shapes and forms. I know that I can be a total control freak — but I love my boyfriend and trust him wholeheartedly. Literally just the other day we were driving somewhere, and the control freak in me wanted to tell him which route to take. …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 09:21 PM
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I’ve always said there’s a difference between “nice guys” and good men, and you summed it up well because the same can be said about women. There’s a difference between being a nice girl and a good, kind woman.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/19 05:31 PM
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I’m super into fitness and nutrition, so I’d love to join! I’m not a dietician or personal trainer, but I lost about 50lbs 7 years ago, and I’ve kept it off, so I can always share what I’ve learned and what has worked for me!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 06:54 PM
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That was my take away as well...in the off chance this isn’t a troll, I didn’t see what qualities and attributes she’s bringing to the table. Great, you’re pretty with big boobs and could stand to lose a few pounds — you and half the female population.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 01:35 AM
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