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| 3 | Are men *really* attracted to average-looking women?When I think of "average" I do not think of a overweight or obese woman, somebody of normal healthy weight and presentable but otherwise plain comes to mind although the average american and british woman is overweight or borderline obese. Because the average american woman is a fat slob doesn't mean men will accept her as being of average attractiveness. She is not, she is below average attractiveness. Most american and british women are of below average attractiveness because of the obesity an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Could a normal weight or healthy fit mans "looksmatch" actually be fat undesirable women?That's what (most-) men think; that fat chicks are bottom of barrel. But do women think that about themselves? Many women will consider a facially ugly short man "bottom of the barrel", even if he is lean, fit, runs marathons, is quiz night champion and attended university once upon a time. They'll consider him to feel 'lucky' that a 40lbs overweight woman is giving him a chance. Many will consider him an asshole just for wanting a healthy weight woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Could a normal weight or healthy fit mans "looksmatch" actually be fat undesirable women?So men who look for slim women are the men more wired for fecundity? Men who like fat chicks, older chicks (40+), strange kinky shit are wired for non-offspring-giving values? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:03 AM |
| 20 | The issue with the rating system and looks vs personality argumentMen are heavily more bodily-orientated when judging women. A female face doesn't have to be top-tier for a man to be turned on. A facially average woman with a good body will have high SMV value, where as a facially average man with a good body will have comparatively super low SMV compared to her. She can get Chad (a facially very handsome male who's also tall), he can't get his looksmatch. Women have the lean advantage no doubt. The sexual market place is skewed because of male thirst, that's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Could a normal weight or healthy fit mans "looksmatch" actually be fat undesirable women?I do not know of all. Actually the two guys from when I was 17 that enlisted in the army actually look to still be single on facebook at age 42. I don't see them pictured partnered with women or with children. Can you blame a guy with good level of fitness and healthy BMI to prefer to remain alone if his only options are fat women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Looksmatch is NOT objective. It's done by popular demand.Here in the UK You see slim average girls (HB4.5 to 6/10) with Chads and Chadlites (guys who are 7+ SMV), but how many 5/10 average guys do you see with thin average 5/10 girls by their side? How many average guys do you see with obese or very overweight women? Likely far more than average guys with an slim average woman. You see, after online dating, its becoming nearly impossible for an average guy to get with an average foid. Back in my H.S days (1989-1994) kids would just go with their looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else mind boggled by men who go for landwhales?I've never been with a woman that was over 140/145 pounds or over their normal BMI. End of story. If they don’t meet this criteria they don’t get a second look. And I have a pretty good eye and can gauge what 145lbs+ looks like on an average height woman as well as what their BMI should be within reason. I really prefer 100-118 lbs. If they’re a little small-chested and shorter, so be it. But that’s what’s attractive to me. If she’s taller but thin and within her BMI that is perfectly fine as we… | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/20 09:33 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with this world?Women who do not fit the classic standard of attractiveness (be slim) are easily triggered. They have so much power. I mean I have been perm. banned from forums just for saying "I won't date fat women" etc. Its a clown world where the weak have too much power. Most Reddit moderators are fat. | /r/MGTOW | 21/01/20 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how would you feel if only obese men showed interest in you as a healthy weight woman? And all healthy weight men that are your looksmatches ignored you and thought they were better than you?But a woman who go's from fat to normal or fit is more likely to leave the "average" non fat man she is currently with. She'll get attention from studly, handsome high value men. Hypergamy/monkey branching is something women do often when they go from fat to thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how would you feel if only obese men showed interest in you as a healthy weight woman? And all healthy weight men that are your looksmatches ignored you and thought they were better than you?I have tried meeting women offline. At my age (41) I found out that most single women that are normal in weight or slim are taken. despite being a college graduate over 20yrs ago, I have a blue collar (taking web orders and lifting goods onto trucks) job as well, which is deemed "loser-ish" by many, many women. I have had no luck meeting women that want to get to know me offline and in my daily life, that's why I went back to online dating. A cannot lower my standards and be with a fat woman. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 02:24 PM |
| 79 | The double standard: a male needs to become the best version of himself by overcoming challenges and growing financially to raise their social value in society. Females: just don’t be fat and ugly.I see landwhales with 40% bodyfat with their 6ft2, 220lbs, 9% bodyfat, bodybuilding boyfriends quite often. Quite a common pairing among fabricators/factory staff/blue collar men where a once worked. I couldn't believe some of these guys dismal standards. It never used to be like this. Fat women could only get fat poor men back in the 1980's, or they got a 5'2, 110lbs very facially ugly man with disabilities/low IQ. Fuck this world. Just wish men would raise their standards. | /r/MGTOW | 06/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | American Women Obesity Expected to Get Worse, But They All Want A Physically Fit ChadI think this phenomenon is responsible for some of the frustration and confusion on the side of women. Since this point is usually only brought up by guys, it's unfortunately overlooked. Some women don't understand that (Simp-) men can more easily compartmentalize fat women "for short term sex" but not "for LTR". Women are the opposite; they'll never choose a fat man for a ONS or "fun", but may consider an overweight (but not obese) man for an LTR. (Alpha fucks beta bucks) So when fat/overweight… | /r/MGTOW | 19/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?I think a major problem here in obese USA is that women themselves have an over inflated idea of average. Simply being healthy in weight and plain featured in the face makes you a hot girl among other women. For men, the beauty standards are much more harsh. To be considered hot as a man you need the full works: great facial aesthetics, height, perfect hair, strong jaw, athletic muscles gym body etc. The beauty standards have dropped fro women considerably. I remember as an eighteen year old way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Beauty standards that women have for men aren't as high as you think.And women make great effort? You know the average American woman is 171lbs at 5ft4, right? How is that making effort? Most women are fat, the average woman is 50 pounds overweigh. OverFat which is the biggest turn off for men. Women are not making great effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do thin women with plain faces have it easy in the dating market, but thin plain faced man have it hard?I can name lots of thin yet "plain" women in the media, yes. There's always a huge market for plain thin women, no matter how plain or unattractive they are. There is no such equivalent for plain yet healthy weight men. I truly believe this. Men have to be good looking facially to be considered good looking, women do not have to be facially good looking to be considered good looking, I truly believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do thin women with plain faces have it easy in the dating market, but thin plain faced man have it hard?Create 2 profiles on a dating website. 1 of a thin average women, 1 of a thin average man. The male could go years without getting a date yet the woman will be getting 50 messages / offers a day. This proves women have it easier to get dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?I would travel the world. I knew an ugly guy that became a cycle tourist abroad and became a blogger. He was fit but ugly. He managed to get an ugly GF from Vietnam, but she was fit in her build. I would suggest that nobody should believe they are 'meant' to be obese. I have seen PT's turn fat 230lbs 60yo women with metabolic crash into 120lbs women. As an ugly white guy (not fat though) there is a niche of non-fat women abroad that like my look, but here in the UK I have no luck whatsoever with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How much trash do you make by yourself?one quarter of my waste go's in the black bin once per week. I compost the remainder of my food waste (less than 500g of vegetable waste per week). green recycling bin fills up one third each week (mostly milk cartons). http://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/1/590x/bins-437174.jpg I also lived next door once to a fat couple (well, think simp guy with obese wife) and theyhad a one fat kid. They went through two black bins of waste per week. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/11/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What's causing more single, sexless, frustrated and lonely men?: the fat woman pandemic or the resulting hypergamy of the women with healthy BMI's?If face is holding me back getting a healthy weight woman, should I look abroad? I'm 41 and never dated, its killing me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 12:45 PM |
| 8 | What's causing more single, sexless, frustrated and lonely men?: the fat woman pandemic or the resulting hypergamy of the women with healthy BMI's?Because I cannot have sex with fat women. I wouldn't enjoy it. I don't like looking at obese bodies, they don't arouse me. I don't think anybody who's normal does. Without sex, whats the point of a relationship? Maybe when I'm 70 or 80, I won't care. Fat women are beautiful only to idiots, if this is the body type u would actually settle for idk what sort of mind u r expecting or what the hell is going on in your head. A healthy body bears a healthy mind. Hope u make a logical decision for choos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 12:38 PM |
| 13 | What's causing more single, sexless, frustrated and lonely men?: the fat woman pandemic or the resulting hypergamy of the women with healthy BMI's?Average men feel learned hopelessness, as there is NOTHING they can do to compete with Chad if they want slim / non-fat average women. She wants to enjoy her (prime years- if not beyond) with hot men, not average looking dudes. Going to the gym is not a one-stop solution to becoming a Chad. Bone structure, genetics, height are more important to women when judging a man. Simon Pegg cannot become a Chad by gymmaxxing for example, he'll still be an average schmuck but with muscles. Men will overloo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Do women have completely different standards of what's appropriate and what's not depending on how attractive a man is?There's a war on men of low to low-average attractiveness. Haven't you woken up to this yet? Even in my Uni days back in 1997-98 it was like this. Chad / Troy the 6ft2 athlete could squueze girls bums in night clubs if she smiled at him. If a nerd did it, or even approached a girl and said "hi" without touching her.... the police or security staff were called or he'd get threatened pretty badly by offended womans orbiter male cucks, or pecked to death by her hen group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Men who find overweight women unattractive. Why and what exactly is it that makes them unattractive for you?I guess women lack the hip to waist ratio the more they gain weight - as weight gain signifies advancing age as well, mating with 'older' looking menopausal women serves no evolutionary purpose as they can't get pregnant. Men get erections when we see a small, flat waist and slightly wider hips. Fat women lack this. The upper body of fat women looks big, butch and unfeminine / not delicate. Without the boobs a fat womens torso looks the same as a fat mans. As does the lower body. A fat woman los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women break up from their non-fat male partner when they go from fat to fit or normal weight themselves?Because its easier for girls to lose weight than a man to get rich. And why sould simply be slim mean you deserve a Chad or a rich tall Doctor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What's it like to date a fat woman long term? (pros and cons)I'm not attracted to fat women personally so even a ONS is out of the question. But I can tell you, just don't do it. Every guy I come across that hitched it with a fat woman is a miserable wreck. My male colleagues who I don't get on with (assholes) all have fat wives or GF's when I looked them up on facebook. The nicer guys had fit or average girlfriends. We have a male friend of the family who hooked up with a 200lbs to 220lbs 5'1 woman from a lower social class. She had 2 kids from a previou… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Betas are dangerousWhat a load of rubbish the O.P. He's just blame shifting onto 'Beta's for their failings with women. The beta being...I presume... the average guy. Not tall, muscular, sexy, high status? What about the guys that drive our trams or taxi's, work as our chefs, our barmen? What about us that can never be 6ft tall, high-status, social butterflies with model hair? Do we only deserve whales and dirty looks and mistreatment? How does our society keep afloat when all the lower to mid status jobs with ave… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Young Men & The Empathy Gap - "Young male suicide rates have increased 50% since 1994."Correction: Those that don't die simply look like Chads. College is a great environment for good looking guys only and all non-fat girls. It's utopia for only 20% of males and yet 70-80% of females. Thats all I learned from it. Ugly/average guys are smashed into the concrete when they dare to compete with women at college and the foray into working life thereafter, hiring processes and quota's totally favoring young females over males with the same qualifications. Nobody wants to interact with t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Young Men & The Empathy Gap - "Young male suicide rates have increased 50% since 1994."Consider that before the rise of feminism, even being one of hundreds working as an unskilled factory drone was enough to justify your existence as a man. You were earning money doing hard work and came home to a family that you were providing for. Now you share that responsibility with your wife. The intention was that this put husbands and wives on an equal playing field. What actually happened was that women started looking for men with better jobs than them. The problem is that there isn't p… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 02:31 PM |
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