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DISCUSSIONDoomsdaysister/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 01:49 PM
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I was referring to fat girl and chubby chaser. If she eventually loses him, she has to be ready to be on market. Fat is something you can work on. You can't just slack down because you're married, because it's easy to drop the ring. The rest is the same you said :p work on ourselves so we have other value points to showcase, so that the good can outnumber the bad
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 10:05 AM
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Basically it sounds like "don't do anything". Everything has it's downpoints, even virginity. I think it almost sounds biased and like an excuse to turn someone down. It's fine though, no one can force someone else to date.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 10:01 AM
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But in ultimate she had 7 husbands, so when the man reaches full commitment, he eventually leaves. So that says something about her, regardless of who she had sex with. The size of the ring doesn't equal a quality relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 09:59 AM
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I don't know, both? It's a theorical question.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 11:04 PM
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Well it also depends on the man. Either way, I think even if the SO "doesn't mind", we as woman should have our own worth at heart. So becoming the best we can be and cope with what we dislike in ourselves is the best way to be. Even if married, commitment is still not 100% (I think). They can run if they want, a man can't be taken for granted. And if SO leaves us, we can't be caught in an unmarketable position. I think.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 09:12 PM
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So 5 at 23 would be good?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 09:05 PM
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Very, thank you! At least it gives a little hope. Improve, improve, improve. Even if my actual SO is ok with it, I'm not. So, I'll work on it ^
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 04:07 PM
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Great advice! And it does make a lot of sense too. It's easy to fall for physical traits, but it doesn't guarantee the rest will work out. If I ever become single again - hopefully not, I want to work things out with SO - then I'll be super careful. I won't forget about the 90 day rule! It's better than the 3-date rule ;p
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 03:57 PM
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Makes sense!!! It's pretty straight forward, thanks for the link. I feel it explains it very well.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 03:04 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply!! I also came to the same conclusion after researching it a bit. Never hurts to ask the experts though :p
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 02:55 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply!! I checked out those two links and couldn't agree more. Here in Portugal, it really depends in region too. Some older/successful men I dated didn't really care as long as I was exclusive to them at the moment, while younger/immature guys worried a lot about it. It also seems that partner count standard varies with maturity level - also what I've figured out with my quick research :p
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 02:54 PM
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It's still a generalization that leads to an ignorant stereotype. So most generalizations are based on public opinion, not facts. Even with facts, you can't generalize because those 20% who do different will be taken out of the equation, making then "not men". If all men do this, then those who don't are not men. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 11:05 AM
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Diseases spread more easily between males and from males to females because of penetration and friction, while lesbian don't have the same type of sexual activity which also explains why diseases don't spread so quickly in the lesbian community. So perfect then. If you're right, it means it's perfectly normal for woman to not want to have sex often and they don't need treatments to have a higher appetite because they are perfectly normal, so option 2 from OP is correct. But still, gay/lesbian ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 10:59 AM
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I say this because I know girls who want to have sex everyday and others who get satisfied with once a month. Men, the same (I think). Some girls are wild on vacation and monks during regular life. A lot of it seems to depend on the overall mood. Also, animals have mating seasons, so I guess the males are pumped up during that specific time. Humans are always in mating season although girls can be hornier before and during ovulation while I never heard of that pattern in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:14 PM
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That leads to stereotypes like the dreaded "all man are rapists", for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:09 PM
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I think this really depends on you. If you feel sexier by shaving, it will reflect in your overall attitude and even sex drive, which are bonus points for him. If you're fine not shaving and he is ok with it, then don't. On the other hand, your looks might be his favourite too and he is more than delighted with it! I guess you should do what feels better to you! And see how he reacts. (Not sure if this last bit is RPW advice :p)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 10:07 PM
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I didn't watch the video. I guess everyone is different. Sex drives depend on so many things it can't simply be pinpointed down to being a man or a woman. Stress, hormones, predisposition, room cleanliness, feeling sexy and many other factors can impact this. I'm not a guy so I can only speak for myself, but I think there are too many factors involved in this. So those feminist quotes or sayings are creating a gender based issue where there is none. To the core, most men are meant to reproduce a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 06:47 PM
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I don't feel offended or hurt because I aknowledge my situation with him might not appear ideal to other people. You immediatly focused on me living with him under his parent's roof and talking about his personality when you had very little info about him. So you have not been helpful, you only have an opinion on something I didn't ask about or give enough info for you to opinate about. Either way, thanks for your input about my situation. That will be very helpful into bringing positive change …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 03:39 PM
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It's our life, not only his. We are both entitled to our decisions about our own lives but if it impacts both of us and eventually our future kids, then I will do my best for both of us. Also, you don't know him, so you are answering blindly. Very blindly and miles from the spot. He is careful and doesn't want to move out without a good cushion in his bank account, which is well thought when we live in a country where people lose their jobs from night to day. I agree with this 100%. I need to se…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 03:01 PM
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I'll try to participate on this one!! Goals for the week: -Get The Surrendered Wife and read it: you girls really recommended it so I'll take the advice :) -Establish a schedule to keep track of work, cleaning, personal projects and SO quality time: this way I can optimize my time. Example: 2 hours of quality time with SO before sleep instead of multitasking when we are in bed. This way he'll feel important and apprecitated. -Apply STFU in my relationship to boost my good mood and my SO's self-c…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 02:09 PM
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I'm kind of new to this but my advice would be to chill. First rule would be to trust your boyfriend - would you rather have him stay at home and resent you? You are a team, not siamese twins and although it would bother me too if my SO would go out partying with his friends, odds are he is with you because he sees value in you while those other women don't have the same value to him (only sexual/fun for a night of drinking value). I think a smart man will control his impulses because he knows h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 09:53 AM
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Makes sense :p I tried STFU last night for like half an hour and did what he wanted - cuddle and watch a movie, and it seem to make him happy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 08:24 AM
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Maybe I'm wrong but either way, he will eventually become more Captainy when he had a ship (not only a relationship). He has some redpill mindsets but he's not hardcore. He knows what he wants and knows his direction.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 08:21 AM
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Makes sense!!! Will work on that!! Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 02:29 AM
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I'm not expecting him to be anything besides himself. I want to be the best partner possible to secure our future and his wellbeing. As he is a shy guy, he needs some reassurance to proceed and this is why I'm here. I don't want him to be someone he is not, but I think it will only do him good to have some responsabilities because it will help him to live up to his potencial. Also he did just great accepting me into his parents house.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 02:28 AM
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As for now, the ship is our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 01:49 AM
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A man can be a captain even if he still hasn't the ideal financial conditions. We want to save money and secure the basics (a car for me, for example). 2. I was at my parents home and he was here. 3. LDR for 1y and a half
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 01:13 AM
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I'll work on that as the first step - calming down. That will probably help in many other aspects of my life. Will also read the book. And go in depth with the wiki. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 01:08 AM
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As for his plan, I don't have a ring on my finger and he won't pop the question anytime soon for practical reasons. The sample convinced me to 100% get the book!!! I'll try the STFU option :) seems it works for most people out there.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 01:03 AM
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Okay, done! I will look into that book then. Anything with more info will be very useful!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 12:49 AM
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From what I understood about being more feminine, it involved a lot about social behaviour and looks. That's why I asked if there were other ways to become more feminine that weren't disclosed in the sidebar. Ultimately, I think I'll just lurk and read more about this, because it seems I'm missing a whole point altogether.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 12:47 AM
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From what I understand about the Red Pill, it is mostly a mindset and couple dynamics - my physical aspect could matter a lot more if I was single and looking for a mate. In this case, I stated it mostly to try to express how I see myself (not feminine) and how I can improve it (more feminine) without getting rid of the physical and personality traits my boyfriend likes. As for him, he is a wonderful man. He works full time, wants to get married and have 3 kids. He want me to have a job too so I…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 09:54 PM
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You were the most helpful because you answered the question!! I meant ecological as in I like to save water and electricity, I'm against animal cruelty in makeup and use of chemicals, I recycle a lot and put a lot of thought into ways to help the Earth. Thank you for answering my question about the Captain issue. That is one of the main issues I'm trying to work with. I'll read the sidebar again, maybe I missed something!!! Once again, thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 09:40 PM
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This is not intended as a shitpost, but instead as a question about how I can make myself more feminine. I read the sidebar. Also, I'm not special, or a snowflake. I'm trying to find a way to improve myself. If I thought I was special, why would I come here to ask? You girls are more experienced than I am. As for my boyfriend, he was standing next to me when I wrote this post and asked me not to give too much personal info about him, which I respected. The post is meant to change me, not him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 09:34 PM
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There isn't a way to combine the two, you say? If my boyfriend fell in love with those traits in me, how can I apply TRP without removing what made him fall for me in the first place?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 09:21 PM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 11:27 AM
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We are 5: the owners (his parents), us and his sister.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 08:31 PM
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We have 4 bathrooms and 4 bedrooms. It's a big house. They used to have a cleaning maid but she quit so now we do the cleaning :p also, we're not in the USA.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 06:54 PM
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Thanks! Happy New Year for you too :D
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 05:18 PM
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Oh right sorry! I saw that part wrong. Looks good! I'll try it woth a few adaptations. Thank you so much :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 04:40 PM
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This could work fine! I need more than 1 hour to study thought, as the final project I'm doing is estimated to a 4 hour per day effort. But looking at that schedule you provided, it makes me think that maybe I'm not organizing tasks as well as I could. I'l) defs look into that. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 04:27 PM
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Oh right. Nice :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 02:59 PM
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Did you live with him or his family?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 02:54 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply! I'll try your approach. It sounds like good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 02:44 PM
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