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This "purpose" thing is something that people talk a lot about, so i propose this to you - what do you do once you have completed a "purpose"? It's an entirely subjective self-made construct if we take out the delusions of religion and other denial philosophies, this isn't some magical thing that makes life worth living. PUA has always been delusional.
/r/MGTOW228/10/19 10:56 AM
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Getting things done in a toxic family is really difficult, sleeping in your car is a better alternative to staying at home. Do you have a job of some kind? Buy a cheap gym membership for the showers (+ exercise) and food for each day, it sounds difficult but i'm in a similar situation and this is what i've been planning to do.
/r/MGTOW227/10/19 03:47 AM
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yeahhhh why are you posting screenshots of these comments to /r nice guys then? fake nawalts being nawalts
/r/MGTOW227/10/19 02:48 AM
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Report and move on fellas.
/r/MGTOW227/10/19 01:05 AM
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AWALT is being annoyed at a system that doesn't work, this is a big fucking problem if you were to take the reproduction path of life and that's why it exists at all. I don't discount that men have their own subset of problems (ego, protector instinct etc) but it's not destructive to the formation of family like a woman's nature.
/r/MGTOW227/10/19 12:50 AM
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My physical health is good but mentally i'm a wreck.
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 12:20 PM
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Divorced, shes remarried for the 3rd time. I don't talk to him anymore but did give him a chance.
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 08:34 AM
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gym broo
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 05:35 AM
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I might be out of the house, but that shit stays with me until death.
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 04:47 AM
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Step-mother was barely human and father was a fool who only cared about his own pleasures, not the bundle of children that had to grow up in broken homes because of his actions. I lived in the family garage for a year and everyday was a red pill for me, wasn't allowed inside to eat - had to clean up after them always or i'd be called "lazy" and "pathetic", never mind any success i had in schooling because it was always covered up with how good her preschool children were doing. Father was being …
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 04:40 AM
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americaaaaaa fuck yeah
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 04:36 AM
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You run 8km and tell me if you do weight training the next day, it's fine to run for like 15 minutes but start trying to progress in both and it's really not possible without steroids. Also, 2 days a week is hardly enough cardio to begin with - 5 days a week is what runners do if they're serious about running distance. So don't "what is this shit" me dumb ass.
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 04:32 AM
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If you're older you need the expensive coq10, ubiquinol if you're younger.
/r/MGTOW225/10/19 04:29 AM
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My advice is to lower your expectations for people in general as we all suffer from the human condition - a person above your station has probably judged you for being their definition of "aimless" or "loser" in the same way that you're judging your friends. I used to have blue pilled friends (notably smart people who were all in university and studying things like architecture, teaching, programming etc) and they're so fucking boring. From what someone explained to me, there's difference planes…
/r/MGTOW224/10/19 03:57 PM
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You have to interact with people and society on the daily, whether one likes it or not i think it's an important consideration. This "do it for you" mentality around here is starting to annoy me because having a better physique IS doing it for you, like i said people treat you much better and there's less bullshit to deal with. Unconscious suffering adds up over time and i don't think it's wise to let yourself be a skinny - average male in 2019, you're going to get walked on by ignorant people.
/r/MGTOW224/10/19 05:26 AM
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Weightlifting is a very small part of the picture, the only reason to do it is for injury prevention when doing cardio AND tendon strength when you're old.
/r/MGTOW224/10/19 05:16 AM
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Ok. Run 5 days a week and lift as well, tell me how that works out.
/r/MGTOW223/10/19 02:35 AM
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Do you lift weights? Run? What kind of stuff.
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 12:29 PM
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If you have to fight someone, you're doing something wrong.
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 12:26 PM
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I mean, what should be a higher priority?
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 12:25 PM
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What exactly do you classify as winning? Do you really want to suffer in the pursuit of something that doesn't exist? Trust in the wisdom of the better men who have tried and failed to find these supposed NAWALTS, i'm not saying this to take away your hope. The system is an illusion and always has been, women are wired for polyamory and so are men. Loyalty disappears as soon as the resources do (which can be an array of things.) Do you want to enjoy short flings? That's very possible.
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 07:59 AM
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Religion is really interesting because it encourages monogamous relationships and particularly in religions that enforce monogamy you begin to see better behavior regulation, it's just not that effective unless there's danger of being reprimanded for slutting out. See, a woman's tribal behavior is always going to trump systems that aren't taking the danger of polyamory seriously, feminism has broken down a lot of the key defenses like slut shaming and given powers that women didn't have before l…
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 07:52 AM
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> What can I do about this? Friends, family and society have conditioned you to believe in something that doesn't hold up to scrutiny - i think this is a result of feeling "lost" after a big desire (marriage/children/significant other) has been ripped from your life. What can you do about this? Find some goals and find some desire to do them, right now i'm training for a marathon and i think that has helped.
/r/MGTOW220/10/19 10:30 AM
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> but I heard as you get older your friends leave This is something that i have definitely heard being said and seen myself firsthand. The friends in your life are not "aware" of anything, so the first sacrifice you make is immediate because talking to them about philosophy or life direction is a waste of time (tried this myself). Eventually, my friends who were in relationships closed off from the rest of us, like they made their own tribe of 2 - they wouldn't show up to events, would be occasi…
/r/MGTOW219/10/19 04:42 AM
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MGTOW based herd condemnation.
/r/MGTOW219/10/19 04:10 AM
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Yet for some reason the posts involving self-improvement never seem to gain good traction, i think there's a disconnect between what people say this subreddit is about and what it's actually about. > r/mgtow2 is for thoughtful, genuine, open discussion about MGTOW and independent male life I think this falls into an open discussion category as there's a large amount of divorcees in this community who might feel the same way, in what way is this women bashing?
/r/MGTOW219/10/19 04:06 AM
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It absolutely does.
/r/MGTOW219/10/19 03:55 AM
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> What are some practical steps I can put into motion to build myself up? The idea that you need to be confident comes from the ego. Focusing on minimizing the ego is IMO very important to developing confidence in a healthy way, no denial coping systems like stoicism or rubbish that gets spread around on self-improvement forums. You're comparing yourself to the people around you in order to develop a self-image that helps you fit into the dominance hierarchy - which is a misguided thought proces…
/r/MGTOW217/10/19 05:25 AM
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You know, everyone loves to complain about their problems - it always has to be "oh but I'm worse of than this group, gender or race. I think it's important to understand both sides of the same coin, on one side you have toxic masculinity (purely just egotism, none of that other nonsense - desire to ejaculate is also a massive biological reason for why we suffer so much) and on the other side you have women with brains that just don't function well enough for society to flourish.
/r/MGTOW211/10/19 05:16 PM
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judgement comes from ego, lower your expectation of people holy zagnut.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 09:11 PM
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Fuck no
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 09:07 PM
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The feeling will go away once you start accepting the futility of life, from there you need to find some things that you actually like to do on a daily basis. Get used to being alone - meditate in the morning and make time to be alone every day.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 09:05 PM
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There are no rules, do whatever you want. It's not our fault if you do idiotic things despite being warned though! Rules are enforceable things, no one is coming to your house to punish you for breaking a rule - just a common shared idea that doesn't hold up to scrutiny.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:55 PM
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conditioning
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:53 PM
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Why is dating associated with living your life? That shit is stupid, don't ever commit to a female.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:52 PM
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Beware of the infiltrators.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:50 PM
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You might need to structure your goals and rewarding behavior more effectively, "after i do x i can do y" - when left on autopilot the brain will always (unless good reward system) default to the easier activity. Is studying easy? Or is playing videogames easy? Can't structure reward and work? Welcome to the addiction scale, it's time to quit.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:47 PM
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Is avoiding all women a good idea? Probably not, but you know what you want and how to obtain peace. Perhaps you could start treating them like objects instead? You will care much less, trust me.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:39 PM
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Welcome to the circle of one.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:37 PM
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Stoicism is kind of bullshit in my opinion, what will help is meditation as it calms down the fight or flight reflex over time. Stoics are like cashiers who keep going through robbery situations, they bottle their emotions to try and pretend like it doesn't bother them and one day just end up shooting the robber out of anger. > Do you have any tips or tricks? I'm a sociopath, so it's something i take for granted. You do of course not want to go down this road? - Completely disconnect from the in…
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:29 PM
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>I want to feel like a man. Well you are a man, whether or not misguided people want to tell you that you're not. Be careful of Jordan Peterson - responsibility is great but he does suggest for men to suffer in the pursuit of marriage and reproduction, which is not something that you will find favorably talked about here and for good reason. > I don’t want to end up being someone that nobody wants around or that nobody respects. Look, at your height it just isn't simply possible for people to re…
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:20 PM
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Even if they weren't bailed out on every decision they'd still keep making bad choices, lookup the wiring of a woman's brain and then a man's brain - women's goes left to right in the emotional regions and men's goes from front to back and a bit everywhere. https://www.economist.com/sites/default/files/imagecache/640-width/images/print-edition/20131207_STP001_1.jpg Biology fucked them over for sure, does it change anything? No, but just for understanding.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 08:09 PM
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It completely goes against their way of life. At some point you will stop caring.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 07:44 PM
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IQ is misleading, simply put. Don't obsess over arbitrary numbers or think that other people have it better / worse based on their IQ. (Average and above) A wise person might realize that boosting his ego could cause problems for him in the future, so he wouldn't look down on people. If you start thinking that dumb people have no insight to offer it only leads to nihilism and suicidal ideation - or even narcissism and a god complex. My friend is really smart, piano teacher at 19 & studies archit…
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 07:29 PM
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​ "We are supposed to be better than this, not stooping to the level of our enemies" There's certainly no we, this is not going to end up as a terrorist organization with rallies and shit - and besides it's not a war that can be won since our biology is still human.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 07:22 PM
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If you haven't talked to them for many years, they're strangers.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 07:18 PM
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Desire helps to fuel the ego, without desire one would not find any motivation to do anything - so i don't necessarily think that the world would be filled with driven men.
/r/MGTOW210/10/19 07:16 PM
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Are you a stoic? I'm looking into it and "the endurance of pain or hardship without the display of feelings and without complaint" doesn't seem like the expectations would line up to reality? Maybe for our psychopathic brethren..
/r/MGTOW215/09/19 05:48 PM
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Could even be sociopathic, that raises impulsive behaviours.
/r/MGTOW215/09/19 04:22 AM
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I'm not here to judge you, the only thing that matters is how you view yourself. Cut this toxic person out of your life is my only advice.
/r/MGTOW215/09/19 04:20 AM
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She is broken, with daddy issues She is also a cum dumpster I know it's a losing battle to try to understand her Whenever I try to distance myself she uses the biggest simp that I've ever met to try to make me jealous ​ She seems like a terrible person, you shouldn't feel pain from distancing yourself. All this time you have been manipulated into providing attention while she was out there being a cum dumpster (her personal choice)
/r/MGTOW215/09/19 04:11 AM
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"This is someone who needs me emotionally but doesn't want me." So borderline personality disorder?
/r/MGTOW215/09/19 04:07 AM
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Men look at other men as competition, that's what my person anecdotal experience has told me. Basically any friendship with a man who chases pussy is not going to be very genuine - especially if they get a whiff that you're not on the same page.
/r/MGTOW215/09/19 04:04 AM
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You kind of get a choice to keep going with the black pill (and sink further into pessimism and existential despair) or find your own personal meaning, either way I think it's important that everyone looks into nihilism at some point in their lives. Things get put into perspective, my social anxiety was curbed because I realized that people are like robots who can't think outside the boundaries of their programming.
/r/MGTOW214/09/19 02:40 AM
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That's as genuine as it can get.
/r/MGTOW213/09/19 05:04 AM
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Get a dog or some friends.
/r/MGTOW212/09/19 02:35 PM
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Once the trend goes away so does the desire to wear that clothing.
/r/MGTOW212/09/19 01:54 PM
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When you age that muscle is going to gradually disappear.
/r/MGTOW212/09/19 01:47 PM
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It's not genuine when you do things to appeal the herd, comparing yourself to others is fine because that is how you form your own self-perception. There's better ways to get higher in the dominance hierarchy without doing these sorts of things to yourself.
/r/MGTOW212/09/19 01:45 PM
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Clothing : Everything but good shoes is irrelevant, wear whatever you want. Exercise : Cardio Money : Enough to pay for yourself in life (bills, food, shelter and recreation).
/r/MGTOW212/09/19 10:04 AM
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When you say "some of you might say I shouldn't even have a girlfriend" you're appeasing the herd, it really is your own choice if you want to continue dating or not - the only standard guidelines are : no marriage, children or cohabitation. The reason I tell you this is because people will judge you either way, whether you placate them or not. If it works for you then it doesn't matter what others think.
/r/MGTOW211/09/19 04:24 PM
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The audiobook offers things that the book alone do not - Goggins talks to you, the narrator talks to Goggins and narrates the book, it allows for much more depth into what he's actually talking about and for that reason i'd recommend the audiobook.
/r/MGTOW210/09/19 07:09 AM
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They must be a troll, i've come to the same conclusion. Might be worth a report?
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 09:19 AM
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You're liberal, your post history is in the feminism subreddit and you seem to believe that feminism is about equality? I was curious because trolls are common.
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 09:13 AM
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Damn man how does feminism and MGTOW co-exist in your mind?
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 09:07 AM
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Yeah, but you have to seek out that channel. I see left shit in everything, explain that.
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 09:03 AM
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I kind of steer away from anything political, it's a complete mess of different agenda's. If I was to be classified it would likely be right/alt right because of how delusional the left appears, from my day to day experiences I've rarely (if ever) came across a racist/Nazi/white supremacist as per what the extreme right is - wheras I seem to encounter some crazy libtard almost every other day at work.
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 08:34 AM
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I'll definitely have a more positive outlook on forming friendships. Right now i've been running 3 times a week, for 2 months - i'm training for my first 5KM run and things are going well. Like you i'm on the ketogenic diet (because of diabetes scares) and i have heard many good things about it, i don't care enough to be in the best muscular shape - it's something i could definitely do after i'm done with running, but i can't get it out of my mind that i'm "doing it for women" or "doing it to be…
/r/MGTOW204/09/19 09:26 AM
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I like the tribe talk. The problem with valuable friends is that I'm probably not going to find them until maybe 40? That's 20 years away! As for your talk on happiness, i agree.. The desire for something (and EXPECTATION) causes suffering instead of happiness, if you seek happiness you're basically screwing yourself over. To be honest with you, we're both not going to live long enough to see cyborg enhancements. The attempt to delude the mind is a prime example of our lizard brain wanting to su…
/r/MGTOW201/09/19 07:16 PM
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+1 for the quality of moderators here.
/r/MGTOW201/09/19 04:12 AM
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I started focusing more on myself after taking the black-pill. Motivation is hard to get when everything means nothing..i do find motivation to exercise and eat right, personally i find some short flings can be quite rewarding. I've lost a bit of empathy for women in general i feel, it doesn't bother me too much to sleep with them and never call again if the situation necessitates it. There's not much that i really get into nowadays. Friends? Sure, they're cool.. but we can never talk effectivel…
/r/MGTOW231/08/19 04:44 PM
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Women's hypergamy : Attractiveness, money, status Men's hypergamy : Attractiveness
/r/MGTOW229/08/19 08:53 AM
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I think there are some ideas that deserve further scrutiny (the term "Alpha male" for example) ; when you're in an echo-chamber there is a problem with the quality of information you receive because everyone just parrots the same things, that being said i think there is too much evidence in favour of certain terms like AWALT. Throughout history people have been saying these exact things (well outside of the MGTOW echo-chamber), this is the greatest anecdotal evidence there is. Denial is also a v…
/r/MGTOW229/08/19 08:27 AM
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Embrace the nihilism, it is the only truth.
/r/MGTOW225/08/19 10:48 PM
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i will google it, thankyou
/r/MGTOW222/08/19 11:58 AM
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Magnesium is great, i take it everyday.
/r/MGTOW222/08/19 10:41 AM
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eugenics
/r/MGTOW222/08/19 05:15 AM
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Do you have any peer reviewed studies that support your MGTOW idealogy? Jokes aside, look at the examine links i posted - they compiled the studies ; some are more studied than others. Adaptogens have been used for hundreds of years and many are considered sacred in certain cultures.
/r/MGTOW222/08/19 03:47 AM
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People treat dogs better than themselves.
/r/MGTOW220/08/19 08:23 PM
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Cut crappy people out, even if it's your own mother.
/r/MGTOW212/08/19 01:42 PM
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Take a year off, hell take the rest of your life off from unconscious thinking and pleasure seeking.
/r/MGTOW212/08/19 02:43 AM
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God isn't real, reincarnation isn't real, buddhist teachings mislead you and science hasn't got it all figured out yet. Put your eggs in a basket that has value ; suffer for the reward.
/r/MGTOW212/08/19 02:39 AM
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They're all varying degrees of poison, some just ruin your liver in addition to your brain chemicals.
/r/MGTOW212/08/19 02:34 AM
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Nihilists won't understand what i'm saying, so i don't have much expectation for this information to be utilised - but this community has helped me, and so i'm returning the favour. Enjoy life to the fullest!
/r/MGTOW211/08/19 11:37 PM
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How can anyone blame them.
/r/MGTOW210/08/19 02:48 AM
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It's typical consumerist thinking that x,y,z will make you happy - that couldn't be further from the truth unfortunately, society sells us the idea that a relationship will make us happy... no object can ever make you happy past a temporary moment. Happiness is an internal emotion that will become external if you play your cards right (and just like being successful it takes WORK). Friends however are important ; at 20 years old i find i don't really relate to anyone anymore, my friends have gir…
/r/MGTOW210/08/19 02:42 AM
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Join illumini, they make you verify via voice chat for a while to weed out any infiltrators.
/r/MGTOW207/08/19 01:26 PM
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I don't think you would really want to kill your sex drive if i told you how, alas there are these things called "monk berries" that have an androgenic (anti-testosterone) effect when taken by males, these are used by monks apparently to lower their sex drives. You're not going to die if the testosterone goes down a bit - and it will naturally go down through aging anyway.
/r/MGTOW205/08/19 06:21 AM
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Meditation can create a bigger buffer between the thought and the subsequent behaviour that follows as a result of that thought. Like other people have said, it's only human to desire pleasurable things ; i think the important distinction you get to make is what these things actually are, the reward system is what determines the activities that you find "pleasurable". Before the abundance of technology, people would find pleasure in a lot of different and more beneficial avenues.. it's now commo…
/r/MGTOW205/08/19 06:02 AM
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It's bad for your reward system, regardless of if people try to convince you otherwise.
/r/MGTOW231/07/19 01:38 AM
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The term "Alpha" was coined in a book that the author later said was wrong, but society had already glamorised it and now it's common to hear of beta,alpha,omega - even so called sigma males. Your point is right in that the attractive (genetically superior) males will have a better time with their women experiences in life than the uglier males, i just wanted to make this distinction as it will further your understanding and maybe one less person will go around talking about "alpha males".
/r/MGTOW230/07/19 04:27 PM
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The propaganda is everywhere man.. the movies you watch, the songs you listen to - hell your parents will probably be telling you how great marriage is and to treat women with respect, your existence is catered to pedestalising women
/r/MGTOW230/07/19 05:37 AM
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They are involuntary celibates.
/r/MGTOW230/07/19 01:39 AM
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Meditation helps
/r/MGTOW230/07/19 01:26 AM
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You have a range of options available to you ; sex dolls are out there now.
/r/MGTOW230/07/19 01:18 AM
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Some people are just born that way! It's not unusual for people with little romantic experience to be not recognized as MGTOW by others, the idea is that you have to experience all of suffering that they themselves experienced to learn a number of truths about women - clearly you don't.
/r/MGTOW230/07/19 01:16 AM
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Australia is pretty bad to live in, i think.
/r/MGTOW229/07/19 01:16 AM
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They think people will forget lol. I'm never going to forget that.
/r/MGTOW228/07/19 04:30 AM
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You're supposed to use "/s" because sarcasm can't be conveyed through text like it can through talking.
/r/MGTOW228/07/19 04:29 AM
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Incels are waiting for their "dream girl" to randomly appear and accept them for their ugliness, they were never redpill or blackpill to begin with. Additionally, MGTOW is a transition - not everyone can just go monk easily.. it takes time and dedication (you have to reinforce the things you learned or one day you might start thinking about trying dating out again). This is my experience with the white pill.
/r/MGTOW227/07/19 04:15 AM
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Oh please no mass posting of pictures, that's all that MGTOW1 is now.
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 03:06 AM
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I'd suggest going to classes for each of your hobbies if money isn't an issue. You will learn faster, be in a more professional environment and be out of the house - as for hobbies there's already some good ones listed in the comments.
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 01:45 AM
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Does anyone know why men look better over a longer period of time? Any studies done on this? Why do women age faster?
/r/MGTOW213/07/19 06:50 AM
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Their whole existence revolves around increasing their attractiveness. It's not that much work if it's all you're doing and don't have a job - when you're home for a good majority of the time these things become so easy. Keeping fit and eating healthy is something everyone should be doing, what shave once a week? Spend 5 minutes putting makeup on? Sorry if i'm coming across as misogynistic but a lifestyle based around looking good is barely a life. ​ Something else to mention is the physical adv…
/r/MGTOW213/07/19 06:46 AM
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It does improve your reward system, wheras masturbating to porn does nothing but cause problems.
/r/MGTOW213/07/19 05:23 AM
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He must have thought this was the red pill.
/r/MGTOW212/07/19 04:00 AM
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I'm going to list what i think is "effective" but not necessarily "good", because these things are really hard to do. ​ To rewire your reward system you should : Stop spending anytime on things that do not benefit you, i'm talking - internet, television, porn, games, anime,manga,fiction books even. Stop masturbating Meditate daily Replace the time that is now free with productive habits that take willpower to accomplish (like learning an instrument, working out or learning a language) - if there…
/r/MGTOW212/07/19 03:53 AM
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Stop caring about having the conversation going in a positive or negative direction, it's OK for it to end in a bad way and the fear you're facing comes from the possibility of it going bad. Standard exposure therapy - say hello to everyone you see, when walking down the road or path or whatever. When i first got a job the manager made me pace near the entrance of the store, telling people "the self-serve machines are broken" for 5 hours. I had to be the bearer of bad news and sure there were a …
/r/MGTOW212/07/19 03:14 AM
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It's very difficult to simply go off women forever, that's why MGTOW is more of a long-term transition. You don't just become MGTOW one day (unless divorce maybe, but even then) - it takes time to adjust your thinking and set behaviour patterns towards women. ​ MGTOW is like the real version of the red pill, but it's too black and white to just go abstinent one day.. forever.
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 05:29 AM
1

When i say "pretending to be fine" i'm talking about social media and the way they display their moods in positive lights. Yeah, it might also be because they seek professional help more.
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 05:12 AM
1

Don't help others wake up, not because it's a bad thing to do but because they won't believe you.
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 01:15 PM
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They've evolved to SEE US as a provider and a protector, a tool and a security system. Just like everything else there's some standards on what security system you buy at the shop - you're not going to get the cheap Chinese shit here, no.. some things it's better to spend a bit more and get the best stuff available to you. Women are like this and it isn't as simple as (oh i'm a tool come and buy me), no there's even these standards on the tools that they buy and the tools that they hire and even…
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 12:30 PM
1

Unfortunately there is no "cure" or "ailment" to genetic mental diseases past a band-aid treatment, depression isn't as bad as what i was thinking of (bipolar, autism, schizophrenia) - as always, it isn't a black and white solution for everything.
/r/MGTOW205/07/19 02:04 AM
1

Same with the mentally ill and those with severe physical disease, you shouldn't want to reproduce those genes at all.
/r/MGTOW204/07/19 01:33 PM
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Wow. not surprised but wow
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 02:26 AM
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What study says that? I'm interested, of course when you're in an echo-chamber like MGTOW it tends to be "men good", "women bad" - both parties have their flaws but some of women's flaws are just things that i'll never be able to accept, manage or understand.
/r/MGTOW204/07/19 12:16 AM
1

Only 6 years?
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 12:06 PM
0

And the fact that men couldn't care about those other 3 things? Or did you not notice that information, women having freedom is nonsense lol they have freedom legally and socially to do whatever the heck they want.. unlike men. Incel women who couldn't get chad = wgtow. Gaslighting me is fucking hilarious hahahaha. enjoy your sad miserable life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:58 AM
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Also just anecdotally - My ex pretends like she is in healthy relationships, you see the "i love you, insert x", the pictures of them kissing, the "love of my life posts" and then a month later she moves on to a new boyfriend. At 17 i think she is up to 7 now? Haha, that is a constant reminder for me when i need it of what women are like.
/r/MGTOW203/07/19 04:27 AM
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Well my ex pretends like she is in healthy relationships, you see the "i love you, insert x", the pictures of them kissing, the "love of my life posts" and then a month later she moves on to a new boyfriend. At 17 i think she is up to 7 now? Haha, that is a constant reminder for me when i need it of what women are like. ​ Overall you could take a look at the % of children born out of wedlock and the % of divorces initiated by women to get a decent understanding - the men are happy with any relat…
/r/MGTOW203/07/19 04:21 AM
1

> I ask you, MGTOW, how do you keep from becoming the weird creepy guy that's everyone avoids? ​ Honestly lookism is a big thing in your overall perception as "creepy" or "withdrawn and cool", if you're an ugly guy there's always going to be that stigma of weird creepy guy (especially to women).
/r/MGTOW203/07/19 04:06 AM
1

Great answer here!
/r/MGTOW203/07/19 04:02 AM
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And what man cares about money or status in a relationship? Truly showcasing evolutionary psychology here, you thought that it was the same but it's not. No man ever cares about the money or status in a relationship - infact it's not even a big consideration for us at all, what is important (at least to me) is if she looks good and has a good personality. Intelligence is a bonus! Not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:48 AM
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The feeling of freedom is better than any relationship, i can do whatever i want whenever i want. Everyday my behaviour revolves around getting myself to be just that 1% better and i get happier and happier - this is something purple pillers will never understand, but thanks for parroting my own ideas back to me that's a great way to avoid saying anything of real substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:25 AM
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Feminist separatism is the theory that feminist opposition to patriarchy can be achieved through women's separation from men. Yep im gone, goodbye now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:42 PM
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Don't ever worry about "being a true MGTOW" or not, there's some fuckers in here who are still married. Going abstinent and NoFap is about as monk as it gets
/r/MGTOW202/07/19 02:07 PM
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And please explain to me what the heck a "Pinkpill feminist is", because that sounds like an even bigger joke than WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:46 PM
1

money, status and attention Not just money ​ Women can literally just post a picture on tinder (or any dating site) and they will get responses easily, the supply and demand for female vagina is very high so even an ugly women will still get attention from men who are above average. WGTOW is a joke because it's a false imitation of MGTOW, men go their own way (and that for a bunch of the members means away from relationships and hookups) - it's unimaginable to believe that the amount of women go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:40 PM
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WGTOW huh? Women go their own way? Hm show me some then because i don't believe you. It better not be this woman either : https://www.whimn.com.au/strength/happiness/i-was-a-nun-now-i-love-latex-and-the-fetish-world/news-story/7d733ca44b96bc708968262aef3f1a99 ​ Furthermore why would a woman ever want to be single? Relationships provide them with money, status and attention - these things are a big part of what women desire, what else is there? Seems like a big joke to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:23 AM
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quite simply, to me it means freedom
/r/MGTOW202/07/19 08:49 AM
1

Studies show married men live longer Studies show married men live longer Studies show married men live longer ​ Nah, common misconception - married men live longer than DIVORCED MEN, neither married or single correlate to lifespan.
/r/MGTOW202/07/19 08:30 AM
1

Just do NoFap and control your urges
/r/MGTOW202/07/19 08:16 AM
9

This meme got me fucked up
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 01:25 PM
1

might find yourself not even wanting the stress that making a bunch of money would produce, lots of frugal livers in the community
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 01:24 PM
1

Kind of, it took 3 years but I think I have finally found a path that resonates with me. Things have changed a lot.. I've always been an addict for videogames and pornography but I found that I just can't keep involving myself in this vicious cycle, I'm 2 weeks clean but with the MGTOW understanding and the introspection that "chasing after girls is just going to land me back into the same problem areas", and the use of Russel Brands book - "Freedom from our addictions", which is basically an al…
/r/MGTOW230/06/19 03:39 AM
1

I think the "men are hardwired to be promiscuous" is just another falsity that society has normalized. I've never been a very promiscuous person and never had the desire to cheat on my girlfriends before, if anything it's the OTHER way around. Do you know how many men a girl will fuck when she is in her 20's? I've seen my ex go through a guy a month, and it's easily accessible with no societal backlash.
/r/MGTOW228/06/19 01:52 AM
1

Only a matter of time now
/r/MGTOW227/06/19 02:09 PM
1

Oh this shit again lmao
/r/MGTOW226/06/19 03:01 AM
1

Well avoiding girls makes me feel like a little bit ahead of the curve already, there is more time to devote to my hobbies and it is these hobbies that bring me joy. There isn't really any reason why you should be feeling as if you're wasting your life because everyone will be going to the same place (depending on what you believe) - death really is the great equalizer, if you want to do dumb shit in life then go for it.. the same applies to the opposite pursuits.. just have no regrets and you w…
/r/MGTOW224/06/19 01:38 AM
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No what i mean is they don't care, women have BPD. Lack of control over their emotional state.. manipulation.. self serving... attention seeking.. lack of empathy (turning the switch on and off) i don't know why it took me so long to understand. There are degrees obviously, otherwise the world would be a bigger mess than it already is. Evolutionary adaption to extort more resources for child rearing would be my guess.
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 01:43 AM
1

Lmfao dude
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 12:55 AM
3

Still self-serving behaviour.. if they speak out against behaviour that impacted them negatively, it will make them feel better about themselves.
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 12:47 AM
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If i remember correctly you get more dopamine whilst pursuing a goal than you do when completing it, so it might be a good idea to not stop pursuing success (unless you have already reached the top 1% or everything you ever wanted).
/r/MGTOW223/06/19 12:44 AM
1

Fuck man that's $2.50 i'm never going to see again, i want my offbrand powerade back.
/r/MGTOW222/06/19 02:20 PM
0

So you're an attractive manlet narcissist? If you're average or ugly looks you should go and be on their podcast, seems rather interesting.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 01:20 PM
1

Yeah when i checked a year ago it was legal in my state, but not others. I'll look into it more when i'm actually going to buy (even if it's not legal i'm still doing it just with a more discrete vehicle.) ​ Funny skit haha.
/r/MGTOW221/06/19 05:33 AM
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Even without marriage being a risk, dating would still not be a worthwhile pursuit. Investing in yourself will pay 100x more rewards than sex or "love" ever could. In my BP days Peterson resonated a lot with me, taking responsibility is something that everyone should be doing - my responsibility is now to myself (as it should always have been), to maximising the things that make me happy and minimising the things that make me sad. When you have a breakup all that time, effort and bonding just go…
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 01:43 AM
1

This is great. I'd give you gold but it's such a waste. Keep on making quality memes! ​ wew sorry im not made of money
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 01:39 AM
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They have been judging potential suitors for most of their lives, it comes naturally to them. You're not being evaluated by older women but that behaviour pattern doesn't just disappear, in extreme cases it will turn into narcissism personality disorder. BTW. Ever watch this? : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpIDQSodQ7Y&t=503s ​ It's good information that you might relate to.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 01:33 AM
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" my wife of 15 years who I have a daughter with has decided shes a lesbian and wants a divorce " What the heck did i just read? Run away as fast as you can.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 01:13 AM
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It's talking about an increase in short-term attraction, but yeah that would happen as well - i mean just have a look into Ted Bundy's fangirls. They fell for an admitted and charged serial killer / rapist https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia He wasn't even that attractive but know what was attractive to these girls? His ruthlessness, non-caring and narcissistic tendencies. What i think is that they don't really care about what he is or what he did, only the surface value of his attracti…
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 01:02 AM
1

Did you rig a bed up and leave it like that? What kind of things do you do during the day? ​ If it works for you then all the power to you man.
/r/MGTOW220/06/19 09:55 PM
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A study on dark triad traits and women attraction https://scholarworks.csustan.edu/bitstream/handle/011235813/1205/BoriaA%20Fall%202017.pdf?sequence=1 Perceived Attractiveness of the Dark Triad Research has shown those high in the Dark Triad to be rated as attractive based on their characteristics and physical appearance (Carter, Campbell, & Muncer, 2013; Holtzman & Strube, 2012). Appearance is a principal component in initial attraction, and those high in the Dark Triad often manipulate their a…
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 02:06 PM
1

"The fact is, you're probably not Mr. Right. You're Mr Right-Now." Spot on. You gave it a shot and things didn't work out - now you can live in peace and choose to do whatever you want with yourself.
/r/MGTOW219/06/19 11:07 PM
2

The world just seems to be getting worse and worse, bad parenting is something that could lead a person to investing their time in cults / religious circles / or breaking the law for example, that's not to say MGTOW itself is a cult but the ideology itself is not something that average Joe would believe in unless he was exposed to poor environmental circumstances either as a child or through his relationships later on in life. You don't just wake up one day in a good relationship and say "fuck i…
/r/MGTOW219/06/19 09:55 PM
1

Are they good looking or rich? There's always that guy that says "he knows a guy" but for arguments sake.
/r/MGTOW219/06/19 03:40 AM
1

RIGHT? ​ But man fuck it all, honestly fuck dealing with women, politics, relationships or any of that stuff. Even the majority of male friends i've had throughout my life have been fake and i've fucked them all off, live in solitude and invest in yourself it's the only thing you can do to escape.
/r/MGTOW219/06/19 03:30 AM
1

I don't live with my parents anymore. My dad is a psycho who left me one day and never came back - and my mum is too insane to live with (really bad bipolar). Naturally, i'm assuming parental problems are not uncommon in this community either.
/r/MGTOW218/06/19 08:16 PM
1

You shouldn't, but you do.
/r/MGTOW218/06/19 01:39 PM
1

Manlets (short men) have it quite a lot worse in trying to find / maintain relationships. ​ I watched something recently that likely sums up your situation : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpIDQSodQ7Y Listen to some 5'5 - 5'3 men share their experiences with dating and just the complete lack of care given to them by women (straight up insulting them, saying they "only date tall guys" or even "you're just too short", both men and women treating them as inferior simply because they are short, hav…
/r/MGTOW218/06/19 07:09 AM
1

I wear black t-shirts (because they're hard to stain) with loose fitting denim jeans (goes with any style, really - so it's just my all in one for pants.) Grey unbranded jumper and 3 sets of shoes (skate, work and thongs) - underwear & socks etc. Interested in the van life as it's legal to do so in my state. I'm about to start a second job soon and move into a van when i can afford it, then live frugally and invest finances or start a side hussle over the long term (definitely both actually). Pr…
/r/MGTOW216/06/19 09:07 PM
1

I only really need a google browser for work and downloading PDF's. Hope this clarified why i'm using Linux and not windows.
/r/MGTOW222/05/19 02:27 AM
1

Australia really is a mess, goodluck to us both.
/r/MGTOW220/05/19 07:15 PM
1

Going vegetarian and doing exercise is one the easiest ways to lose weight and be healthy. Lots of people are suggesting keto (and that's even better for fast weightloss) but i'd suggest a vege diet if you have no underlying insulin issues.
/r/MGTOW216/05/19 08:04 AM
1

Wow that's hardcore. I might just settle for simply disconnecting and replacing information streams where possible (there's simply no need to learn skills through the internet when books are a viable choice, i've been learning Japanese and Spanish through actual dictionaries and it's been just as good as any internet resources.)
/r/MGTOW215/05/19 06:17 PM
1

Toxic people have toxic thoughts have toxic insights. Don't close yourself off from finding useful and productive team members / friends though. Teams create drama sometimes (when people don't pull their own weight especially) but distribution of labour is important in any working environment to ensure success, i know this is a rant but some context would be nice if you're looking for anything in particular.
/r/MGTOW215/05/19 05:55 PM
1

It's kind of sad really, both subs have big problems going on.
/r/MGTOW215/05/19 12:08 PM
1

Gardening Piano Coding
/r/MGTOW209/05/19 06:11 AM
1

Damn man, you be careful with that direction.
/r/MGTOW201/05/19 10:44 AM
1

I was banned for cog dis apparently. Maybe 7 months ago? Endzone18
/r/MGTOW230/04/19 03:03 AM
1

They issue bans for silly reasons and i'm pretty sure the mods either believe in feminism, or get triggered by the slightest things - they shouldn't even be mods if that's the case.
/r/MGTOW229/04/19 01:26 PM
1

Should post this in the megathread (lots of people post here about getting banned, myself included). MGTOW has corrupt moderators.
/r/MGTOW229/04/19 06:56 AM
1

Hahaha another person that does this. Grey everything is the best. Good stuff!
/r/MGTOW229/04/19 06:54 AM
1

I like to wear the same plain colour (grey) t-shirts, singlets and a brand less hoodie for upper. Just jeans or denim pants for lower - depends on if it's for a party or just out and about wear. Shoes are something that I like to get good pairs of, I've got runners, thongs (for lazy days) and skate shoes.
/r/MGTOW229/04/19 06:44 AM
1

This question is only feasible if you don't believe in female hypergamy. I'd never date a girl that is constantly shit testing me for quality control purposes - and that is 100% of women. You get less stressful bickering if you're the one that settles in the relationship, so to date a women who is far better than you would be a recipe for disaster.
/r/MGTOW229/04/19 06:33 AM
1

This would be a very fulfilling hobby. Part 1 he shows his growing land : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xB7UK7yuW5g Truly the best thing I've seen in a while, this has convinced me (vegetarian) to at least grow my own greens and herbs.
/r/MGTOW228/04/19 07:28 AM
1

Oh i see, thankyou.
/r/MGTOW226/04/19 07:16 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:10 AM
1

Can't post there. They block MGTOWS.
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 06:27 PM
2

He's a piano prodigy and learning architecture, guy is much smarter than me.
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 06:24 PM
1

Dad was essentially a chad with no empathy who has had 3 wives and a child with 2 of them. Did it affect my relationship with women? I don't think it did, because he was never really around much. My step mother was a truly evil person but it wasn't until i had a very bad experience in a relationship that i started to put 2 and 2 together. Hypergamy etc.
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:59 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:45 PM
1

/r/relationshipadvice "you aren't allowed to post there!" Not surprised.
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:44 PM
1

It's truly sad because how does the typical unattractive - yet smart man even go about getting a relationship with a girl like that? He will move on. Reality is bitter, wow.
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:42 PM
1

I want to believe there is more to the girl for his sake, but she does seem like just another life draining succubus. You're right. Thankyou
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:37 PM
2

We were coincidentally talking about the whole situation over a few beers, the concern raised after the session was over and now it's just clouding my mind. I agree that it is a question better suited to other subreddits and I'll be cross posting it to suitable places. To be honest, i don't want to be that guy that tells others how to live their lives and even subtle inferences seem rather psychotic to me (which is something I'd like no part of). He can learn at his own rate and develop understa…
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:34 PM
1

Porn is poison.
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:30 PM
1

I'm only young but from my point of view the thing that will give you the most satisfaction from life would be to pursue hobbies. Training, musical instruments, golf, fishing, writing.. anything that makes you want to do it again. You can go through the route of short term gratification (and perhaps you have), yet this will leave you feeling like there's a hole in your heart and nothing worthwhile to do. Remove addictions, instill new hobbies, take medication (if you have a mental illness that t…
/r/MGTOW223/04/19 05:20 PM
1

It's a biological problem, they're incapable of providing the things that would make me invest in the relationship (namely, loyalty). They don't just decide to be outright malicious - it's part of how evolution screwed them over.
/r/MGTOW221/03/19 01:10 AM
1

Do you have many friends? That could be a good outlet for loneliness, maybe get a dog (small one that lives longer).
/r/MGTOW221/03/19 01:08 AM
0

not even a real thing ya gronk
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:04 PM
0

incel ya reckon
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:57 PM
1

ahahahaha
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:17 AM
1

"TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them." Look at this shit. cucks.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:50 AM
1

If I say i'm not looking to get laid, my post will just get removed. I want some studies to further my understanding.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:47 AM
1

The title really offended you that much?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:43 AM
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I'm only interested in finding studies. Not looking for the ramblings of faux alphas.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:43 AM
1

cmon dawg
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:36 AM
1

There is no studies there, which is what I asked for.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:26 AM
1

Stay away from politics, it will make you toxic over time. Not like anything you believe will change anything - the hive mind always wins.
/r/MGTOW217/03/19 03:23 AM
7

I'm so fucking confused, thought it said NAWALT at the time. Oh well
/r/MGTOW216/03/19 12:47 PM
12

Capture her so we can run tests
/r/MGTOW216/03/19 06:07 AM
1

Going to war about this on social media is a terrible idea and should you do that it will result in you being completely ruined, because feminists couldn't care less if you actually did any of these crimes - don't go to HR about this unless you have concrete evidence of her being malicious to you specifically, i'm talking screenshots where she mentions you by name and it's clearly her official account- save these photos in case she attempts to ruin you and just wait it out for now.
/r/MGTOW215/03/19 04:28 PM
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MGTOW2 has its own share of problems (notably, I think that it's filled with more "cucks" than the original subreddit - any attempt to critique women, share information regarding women or even mentioning slightly unrelated content will normally result in your post being removed and condemnation by some users.
/r/MGTOW215/03/19 03:57 PM
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