Doppelgen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	como fazer o melhor oral da vida dele? How about speaking English? A melhor dica é a mais simples: você tem que transparecer amar o que está fazendo. Olhar nos olhar, beijar, talvez até falar... só não trate como se fosse um pirulito, fazendo uma lambida repetitiva. Vai pra dentro como se fosse um beijo apaixonado.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 05:31 PM
1	Stop Asking What to Say During the Conversation, You Can’t Script Flow Not to mention that you can drop hints that will lead them to say X, which “coincidentally” is the perfect lead to what you want to say next. One can’t script the entire conversation but you can absolutely script important parts.	/r/seduction	08/06/25 02:32 PM
13	Does a disabled man have a chance? That’s such a small thing. Sure, that’s a problem that will get in your way, but definitely not enough to end your life.	/r/seduction	07/06/25 01:28 PM
-2	If you're gonna use AI for dating apps, at least feed it better prompts (here’s mine) I would write a bot with principles and a description of the person you are going after instead. Using generic prompts for every person is lame and is unlikely to help you grow significantly; once you are without that prompt (real life), you’ll be fucked.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 11:49 AM
2	How to get used to taking pictures and posting them as a guy? Well, I used to be terrified of pics but now I post them often. I do take a while to set for one, sometimes I have to edit them a lot, but I still do it. You do it enough until it no longer bothers you; there’s no secret.	/r/seduction	05/06/25 12:21 AM
94	What I've learnt from fking attractive women I’m afraid to say that’s true in most cases. Thank god my definition of a 10 changed long ago! An 7-8 with an amazing personality is always thousands of times better than a traditional 10. Those are only good in porn, lol	/r/seduction	31/05/25 09:39 PM
4	What are you even supposed to say after a first kiss lol Don’t overthink it. If you are both into it, nothing even has to be said tbh. But if you want to, just be provocative and say something nice and hot about the kiss. Intense eye contact is also advised. Then you just act naturally; maybe the conversation will just continue or she’ll give you signs to escalate. Who knows?	/r/seduction	30/05/25 08:22 AM
18	Is it a coincidence that the women I treat like a second thought, generally care more about me than those I apply pressure on? Unless you are REALLY good at talking and flirting, what you really offer them is indeed only pressure. It's no surprise they run away from you in that case. The strategy is being really engaging when you are present or just not being present at all, that's how you make them want you around.	/r/seduction	29/05/25 07:56 PM
3	How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female? You can just be honest and delay all sexual activity, but quite honestly, I’d not date into you. I’ve been through more than one serious relationship in which I found myself incompatible and unsatisfied, and once things are serious, stepping out is hard as fuck. You may be an amazing, lovely person, but I’d never invest in you due to that. I’m sure others would, though.	/r/seduction	29/05/25 05:20 PM
212	Women with ugly duckling syndrome are superior They are often better in bed, too. The hotter someone is, male or female, the more likely they are to assume their hotness is enough for their partners, like: "My body is the big prize, you should be happy enough to have me here." In my experience (which is limited), it's quite rare to find an absolute 10 that is a great partner. They never felt the need to; it's that simple.	/r/seduction	26/05/25 10:08 PM
1	How can I get a date/number in the workplace without getting fired? Get a number in the workplace without getting fired? Research the HR files 🤣 Jokes aside, well, work relationships grow over time, so, as far as I've seen, that tends to occur naturally. You'll be talking to these people every day, going to happy hours and sh, so I don't see much of a challenge there.	/r/seduction	26/05/25 04:17 PM
2	Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first date I recommend dinners of 1) you are somewhat intimate AND 2) you want to impress with some great meal. On the other hand, here’s some bad news: many women wouldn’t enjoy the meal as they fear the extra belly you get from the food — in sum, lower odds of getting laid for you. (Although that’s not the goal of a first date IMO.) This is not about ROI from my perspective, but I do agree with your recommendation only because dinner is more “formal” than drinks and you want your date to be as “laid back…	/r/seduction	24/05/25 08:02 PM
27	its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late? Don't be silly, my friend. It's never too late while you are alive. I did take a lot of time to start acting; I hadn't even kissed when I was in my 20s, so I sure empathise with you — the fear of being noticed as the worst lover at an "old age" is terrible! Ironically, I've always been successful with women, but I was afraid to touch them so I had all these amazing ladies I lost to cowardice. The good news is that having them around helped me learn how to treat them, so one day I targeted this f…	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:49 PM
2	What is worse watching porn or posting bikini photos in relationships? Both are equally irrelevant. Humans feel lust and need to satisfy it somehow, thus, porn. People suffer social pressure and need to be validated, thus, bikini photos. If you ask me, well, I’d prefer no bikini photos, but that’s not up to me. My wife does what she wants. (Thankfully, she doesn’t do that.)	/r/seduction	19/05/25 01:04 AM
19	Never, ever neglect your social life - you are not as ugly, boring, or weak as you think Regarding confidence, I can tell you folks that women perceive me as outspoken and confident, but I must say: I’m often insecure as fuck. I shiver even! But when I have a goal, I simply lie to myself and fake it very hard. All the times I thought I was clearly fucked, even when I was trembling, I learnt that no one ever noticed a thing. (Better yet: they said I was great!) So yeah, you folks have to be more sure about yourselves even if it’s a straight lie. I’m far from a 10 but I should let you…	/r/seduction	17/05/25 09:17 PM
10	I have a very close female friend but, I really want us to have a casual sexual relationship. Bro, you are so deep into the friendzone you could start rule it as a kingdom. Leaving that will be way too fucking hard imo. My best tip is to preserve that friendship since your potential loss is much higher than your delusional lust. That aside, I did have a similar friendship and she considered fucking me once; it only didn’t happen because I was too much of a coward to capitalise. I think I only achieved that because, although I never tried to fuck her, I always dropped hints on her for the…	/r/seduction	10/05/25 02:47 AM
4	Women over 30 You've reached the sweet spot, mate. Younger women are more likely to be futile and disrespectful, not in the sense of being offensive, but not valuing interactions, for instance. The ladies in their 30s, though, beyond offering between flesh satisfaction, want to get shit done (whatever "shit" is in your situationship). If I were still single, I'd not even talk to anyone in their 20s; leave those to the kids.	/r/seduction	09/05/25 03:46 PM
2	Eye contact rule, when do know if it’s a sign? That's tough because the kind of stare will vary from personality to personality. A confident woman may give you a sexy look (a subtle smile, eyes sliiightly closed) while a more timid woman may give you a quite bland, undecipherable look. (Which she would probably try to hide as soon as you spot her, so that may be a sign of interest.) In the former scenario, well, you know you are free to act. Latter... maybe frequency is your best bet, i.e., is she repeatedly looking at you every day?	/r/seduction	07/05/25 05:40 PM
2	Girl wanted me first and now she pulled away. What do I do? You are giving her too much attention, but little action and attitude, which makes you become repetitively predictable. That would only work if you were a fantastically fun guy, but given how fast you lost this, that's not the case. (And that's fine, don't overthink it.) The problem is that you've already messaged her again, so you've got even closer to the losers' place. I suggest you simply vanish now and don't ever say hello again. To grab her attention back, you may try to be very interestin…	/r/seduction	07/05/25 04:11 PM
5	Should I wait to get physical if the girl wants something serious? Define “physical”. If you go too easy on them, they may realise you lack confidence and so on, which would suck. That doesn’t mean, of course, that they want you to grab them by the p.	/r/seduction	07/05/25 02:36 AM
1	What to do if girls leave you on read? Best tip I can you is: FORGET her until she shows up again. Do NOT message her again unless you have solid evidence it’s necessary, e.g., this person is know for recurrent depressive periods so you must check if she’s fine. In all other situations, you ignore her as well, and when she gets back, you don’t go sycophantic either; answer at a quite conservative pace: To prevent going to the Read list again, you’ll time her conversations with her: try to make this conversation as engaging as possibl…	/r/seduction	05/05/25 02:03 AM
1	Is it normal that a girl that likes me Is texting other men? Sure, I'd do exactly the same. Flirting is fun and nothing is serious, so there's no reason to focus on one unless that one is very promising, which doesn't seem to be the case with either of you.	/r/seduction	02/05/25 01:14 PM
3	Girl talks a lot about her daily life problems through text - How do you respond? That's too little info to work on, in my opinion, but it usually boils down to bringing relief and bringing fun to her. On the other hand, gotta be careful os you don't fall in the friendzone; you may want to drop the occasional hint so that she doesn't see you as her psychologist. Also, don't be tooooo available. Sure, show up by surprise "just to know how she is", but you must make her look for you too. From what you've said, it felt like you are the only one starting and it's always turning i…	/r/seduction	02/05/25 01:13 PM
9	I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that? Don’t waste your time overthinking that. We all have some kind of preference, and women do are more selective (especially below their 30s), but nearly everyone can go off their default path. I’ve seen people, even the hottest, date others that aren’t their type more than once. They may want a muscular guy, but once you get into their head, those features become nearly irrelevant.	/r/seduction	30/04/25 11:18 AM
47	Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this? Nothing wrong with it unless you are officially in a relationship with one of them. Just enjoy the process.	/r/seduction	28/04/25 11:50 AM
2	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? If you are past your 20s, ABSOLUTELY! You can make things clear, though. Don’t be afraid to be honest, if he cannot handle this, he’s not the right man for you. Be ready to be frustrated, though. I’m not saying he’s going to rape you, but there’s a chance any moment of intimacy will be interpreted as a chance to advance. In sum, you are in a tough spot. Move wisely.	/r/seduction	28/04/25 01:39 AM
2	He rejected me but wants my attention Humans often want what they do not have, especially when they are used to getting what they want, so it's only natural that one obsesses over something they cannot get.	/r/seduction	27/04/25 01:58 PM
1	How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ? Count 1, 2, 3, GO! (No joke, it works.) The perfect moment is not necessary; you only need a moment that is good enough.	/r/seduction	25/04/25 04:32 PM
1	Hearing my roommate have sex really upsets me I understand where you come from. I, for one, also started my journey quite late so this feeling of being a failure can indeed be crushing. I don't know you enough to say what you should(n't) do, but honestly, don't take this to your soul. We all come from different backgrounds and circumstances, and the fact that you are late in the process doesn't mean as much as it seems. Also, don't let age hinder you further. I remember I used to think something like: "how the hell will I tell women I'm a v…	/r/seduction	25/04/25 03:26 PM
-1	How to treat with girls that receive a lot of attention? Absolutely got results, I'm married even. And for god's sake, I'm far from any PUA thing, I know little to nothing about it. All I know is that those guys are quite extremists, but what I'm bringing here is quite moderate; I'd never offend, disrespect, or anything like that. I simply show my interest without making the girl think she's the ultimate female in the world. There's a difference between belittling people (what I think PUA guys do) and treating women as normal human beings. That being …	/r/seduction	22/04/25 02:42 PM
-4	How to treat with girls that receive a lot of attention? You give them limited attention. I have this policy regarding never talking about appearance, for instance; I’ll literally take months until I do that. In sum, I’d say you don’t want to be a sycophant; I’d even put her A LITTLE BIT down at times, like: “yeah, you are nice but not my type 😂”, so you don’t take anything away from them, but it’s clear she doesn’t own you.	/r/seduction	22/04/25 02:08 PM
4	If women are truly picky as many seem to believe... They are not. Usually, only young or quite immature women are picky, especially in terms of appearance. Most women in their late 20s know that having too many requirements is foolish and mostly useless. (And the same applies to men, I’d say.) I’d be so fucked if they were all picky, lol	/r/seduction	21/04/25 09:19 PM
0	Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women? Well, I can’t talk about any specific case I don’t know firsthand, but complimenting women is a mistake. You don’t praise their looks until you’ve already won, unless you do it in a subtle way that raises sexual tension without making you seem desperate or needy. That being said, feeling rejected is painful and, for a hot woman, being treated as an average woman is even more painful. Also, these dudes may be awful when you get to the end of the story, but they can be quite charming along the way…	/r/seduction	21/04/25 03:02 AM
2	Help! I got her IG. Now what? Most women will lose interest if you show your intentions too quick, so united you have one hell of a sex appeal, play it cool! Do NOT reach her today or tomorrow. Wait a few days until she posts something worth commenting, that you start building attraction again, ensuring you don’t look needy or desperate. You have to be in control for this to work.	/r/seduction	21/04/25 12:30 AM
7	How do you guys do this Any place it isn’t obvious you are making a flirtatious approach, like college, work, a line, whatever. A place where you are sharing some experience together and it makes sense, even if very little, to reach this person. (You can force yourself into those situations, e.g., I’d delay my return to work so I’d get there exactly at the time this girl will take the elevator.) Just reaching people that has zero connection to you is too hard and, given that you clearly aren’t a pro in the subject, it …	/r/seduction	20/04/25 07:54 PM
4	How do you guys do this Aren’t you being too bold approaching a random girl on the street? I consider myself to be rather successful with women, yet I’d never do that. I’d suggest you take it easier and start by approaching people in places where it would make at least a liiiitle bit of sense to approach them. Go step by step until you get there, assuming you even want to get there. I don’t.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 07:28 PM
4	What has been the worst rejection you have ever receive? And how it happened Actually, it does work and has worked to me more than once. There are many factors involved and, in that specific case, it’s likely immaturity was one of them; she was too young to see anything beyond my mediocre appearance back in the day.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 01:39 AM
5	What has been the worst rejection you have ever receive? And how it happened Used to talk A LOT to this girl online, for weeks or months, then we went out together and she became another person the next day. (And insisted it was all in my head, nothing had changed.) She clearly didn’t like me, certainly due to my appearance back then, yet I didn’t pretend to be anyone else at any point. One of the few assholes I’ve ever met. Fuck her.	/r/seduction	19/04/25 09:24 PM
1	How to stop being easy to sleep with? You won’t change your life in a Reddit thread; your answer starts with The and ends with Rapy. Also, it seems you’re finding conflict where it shouldn’t exist. First, affection and sex aren’t so opposite (although it’s true many men won’t deem you worthy if you give in easily); second, I’m quite sure you aren’t an animal so you shouldn’t be as out of control as you make it sound. You sure have what it takes to place boundaries and/or find relief when trying date, e.g., having serious conversatio…	/r/seduction	19/04/25 05:15 PM
7	How to stop feeling inferior around beautiful women? That's a good question because I have no idea how I overcame that. I could tell you the obvious: they are just normal people like any other. At the end of the day, all of them go the toilet take a shit just like you, there's nothing specially supernatural about them. The sooner you see and treat them like anyone else, the sooner you are going to succeed.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 03:13 PM
1	Why do some men ghost when everything is going well? Hard to say why one specific man would ghost you, but there are three possibilities: 1) Easy access to other women; he had had enough of you and moved on. 2) He's giving you the silent treatment so you get attached. (Assuming he eventually returns.) 3) Simply lost interest. I've done 2) more than once, to acceptable levels, of course. It works well.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 02:04 PM