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ResourcesDorsiflexionkey/r/seduction28/10/22 11:32 AM
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How so? Honestly I have game and I’m 6”5 handsome light skin dude, I have no trouble picking up in my own western country. But when I went to Thailand although I wasn’t trying (relationship) I never had women approach me like they do in my own country. So I’m curious everyone and their dog gets picked up in Thailand but how?
/r/seduction28/07/26 12:36 AM
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Only if she likes you. I’m assuming she doesn’t because you’re asking this question. I guess if you have a glow up and stop being so needy she might feel attracted to you but the way you’re probably thinking of doing it; being a cornball and trying to get her flowers and shit won’t work.
/r/seduction24/09/25 04:53 AM
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“I’m just not built for going to the gym, pushing weight is an extremely wild concept for me.” Too bad, get to work.
/r/seduction16/09/25 04:49 AM
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Depends where you are tbh. Middle class areas in first world countries this is true. In countries that are "not so first world" men still approach and are confident. I've seen both sides, its hilarious. But
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:27 AM
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"sumtmes ppl do bad thing!!!11one!!1!" wow, what a fucking revelation. any other cutting edge science for us, ChatGPT?
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:59 AM
2

Good advice, the people in this sub are being pedantic. There's a lot more to add of course, because there's infinity different variables, but this is great for a basic guide. Especially for idiots (like most of us) who actually need to lurk on a reddit sub about seduction.
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:58 AM
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Confidence = Competence So first gain competence.. how? reps and reps and reps. gym, career, hobbies, travelling, doing interesting projects and last but not least... talking to people even when you feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction10/06/25 12:04 AM
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have you ever flirted before? I agree in genuine interactions but flirting is 50% joking and 50% teasing. If you don't understand that, ofc you're going to take everything too seriously and literal and kill the mood.
/r/seduction09/06/25 02:04 AM
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Not really, tbh im a bit older and pickup lines were never really a thing despite what movies would have you think. The lines were maybe jokes, but not used seriously like a fallout new vegas dialogue. Today if I use a pickup line its extremely ironic and then i make a joke about the pickup line itself. Not because I expect the polar bear line to actually work. If you don't believe me about pickup lines being never working on their own merit look at the 1000 cringe youtube videos of guys being c…
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:37 AM
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Honest feedback? Where are you seeing this advice that says "just be confident and approach." that's like 1-2 comments per 100 comments on reddit. The main advice is that you need to maxx gym, career, personality, hobbies, goals, looks. All that other shit comes later, including women. And that's the only advice you need. You're telling me about tall guys, attractive girls and minor approved advice. It tells me you have a confirmation bias. Also, that just approach thing is real.. after you've m…
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:27 AM
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it sounds dumb but i can understand it. when you roll a nerd/autism build and then fight through the fire to get to a charmer build you tend to write about your experiences and back it up with math lol. It's a very rare build, so you might be right he could be capping. But it's not impossible lol.
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:05 AM
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yeah, that's fair. I am on both sides of the coin imho. I have great genetics, but for various insecurities and loneliness growing up I had trouble making friends and talking to people. I got dealt great cards, so even these days if i go out to a bar women will approach me a lot. At points in my life I had to learn and fail hard at reading the "dating manual" which was brutal at times. I understand why guys who are "less blessed" than myself would have it even more brutal, which is why I try my …
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:03 AM
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yeah pretty good read, boiled down to "mouth hi and wait for her to do it back." that's excellent advice. This worked for me a few months back, but I just did the "smile and wave nod" at a girl who made eye contact with me and she mirrored it back. This works, when you're in that situation. Before people in this sub start acting like fucking mimes though, remember getting her to eye contact you and wave back you've had to have done 70% of the work before you even walk through the doors of that b…
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:39 AM
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you know when you have to think and do that little look away thing, is that good or bad.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:20 AM
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This, im thinking I KTFO of 99.999% of females in the world. I ain't scared and I can throw hands. Jokes aside, what are they gonna do? Make mean comments about your hairline in their groupchat? Also, most people are understanding. If they really did confront me I tell them straight up that I'm a good dude, I've never tried to intentionally hurt anyone, so I don't have to worry about lame shit like this. If it's her brother, well I train so if he's unreasonable I'm not scared to fight. If he's g…
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:15 AM
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you're getting downvoted but you're absolutely right. your environment is a big factor. You will find more 8's-9's in LA or Miami than you would in your old farm town in the middle of buttfucknowhere.
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:50 AM
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true i egt approached like crazy in bars, but get avoided like the plague anywhere else that isn't social lol.
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:57 AM
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Oh 100% and thanks for sharing your field test results, more power to you and others who are in this fight. I'm in a LTR so probably somthing i dont need to worry about for the time being lol, but back then when dating was a little simpler im kinda glad i found someone so i don't need to put in as much effort as others are doing today. But i love this sub, because it keeps me sharpening my knife and points me in the right direction lool.
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:39 AM
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no 100%, you are completely right it's definitley ego. tbh the thing holding me back from getting laid is LTR but that's another story lmao. But yeah bro, power to the guys strong enough to go through with the photography thing, no shade there. and thanks for the perspective shift about ego holding me back, its helpful asf.
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:37 AM
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Blackpillers are the emo's of our generation. Narcissism disguised as depth. "oh boohoo world is mean 2 me."
/r/seduction06/06/25 09:08 AM
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I totally get it and thanks for the advice man, but woweeee im so lucky im not on insta or need to date anymore because I would die of fkn cringe knowing I paid some asshole to take photos of me so i look good on tinder. Power to everyone here though (seriously) you gotta do what you gotta do lol. I'm just too shy and not about that life lol.
/r/seduction06/06/25 09:05 AM
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ohhh 100%, sorry for my long novel I think I misunderstood lmao. Yeah it's a bit of a red flag too close yourself off to others like that.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:25 AM
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I mean that's fair. I have female acquaintances but most of my actual friends - probably 100% of them are male. I don't have a whole bunch of friends these days, when I was younger there was alot of us and some female ones, but nowadays my circle is small and I like to keep it to men only. I just think it's easier to relate to other guys, I've been told I'm a pretty "hard" or "masculine" guy too, so I can be nice and work well with girls, but tbh I can't form a deep relationship the same way I c…
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:52 AM
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Just wanted to add on, a big big skill in attraction or anything social is being able to carry on without making shit awkward. Yes feel awkward as much as you want on the inside, but don't show it on the outside. Think of when Chris Rock got the shit slapped out of him on stage.. how gracefully he took that shit and carried on with his job. THAT is a fucking skill and he nailed it, if he would have cried or froze up or got shocked he would have got cooked by the world. So yes listen to this guy,…
/r/seduction12/04/25 11:05 PM
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interesting.
/r/seduction12/04/25 12:21 AM
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yeah im not denying that, im asking how long 10 times takes.. lol.
/r/seduction12/04/25 12:08 AM
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so true, i was the same. have a friend who has it all and then i thought why isn't he confident. then i thought fuck im exactly like him why not me? anyway cool post op
/r/seduction11/04/25 10:39 PM
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8-10 times? how long does this take lol
/r/seduction11/04/25 10:23 PM
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great write up, i focus more on inner game myself. it's just easier and more authentic. I would dare to say its more effective than anything else too. Point 1, 2, 3 and 5 are great ones i haven't considered in depth yet so thanks for the ideas. For others reading, I personally believe that once you find self belief through the gym and/or achieving some big ass dreams and goals while having a positive mindset you realise how strong you really are. once you realise you are strong and you are worth…
/r/seduction11/04/25 10:22 PM
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100% brodie got no time and energy just sits on the sidelines and cries
/r/seduction19/03/25 09:27 PM
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>is in a seduction thread wasting time on reddit "no seriously guys, im waaaaay too busy to improve my life!" fucking redditors man.
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:21 AM
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Or just be a defeatist black piller?
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:20 AM
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What are you gonna do? Sit around and blame biology? Or just do your duty as a man? Have you ever sat there and cried about the pain women have to go through in pregnancy and looking after a kid for 18 years? Like life isn't fair for anyone, pros and cons to being a man or a woman. To answer your question, biologically the reason us men have to dick around and tap dance for the woman is because they carry the most risk getting into a relationship. We can hit and quit, historically they couldn't.…
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:19 AM
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you give us no information about anything from before versus after. what do you want us to say?
/r/seduction17/03/25 02:49 AM
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boring and honest answer.. you probably already know it. Gym, learn to dress, be more social, go out more often, focus on your career/studies and upgrading, focus on making more money, self respect, confidence, hobbies etc. PUA? probably a waste of time unless you're on the spectrum or something and actually need socialisation training. The best concept is to learn inner confidence which comes from competence which comes from achieving the things I said above. All the PUA stuff does is just brin…
/r/seduction16/03/25 03:23 AM
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You're missing a lot of info about yourself we can't make many judgements for you. Are you handsome, tall, rich whatever (objective standards). Lets assume you're a 6-7/10. I'm gonna say it's mostly likely you lack game. Unless you're like an 8-9 you have to work pretty hard to get the skills to pull women, not to mention like the other guy said it's hard to carry on that flame outside of the bar. So it's not entirely your fault. Other than that we don't have much else to go on..
/r/seduction16/03/25 02:52 AM
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a real OG right here. listen.
/r/seduction16/03/25 12:22 AM
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Wise nigga right here. It’s up to the man to move
/r/seduction04/03/25 11:07 AM
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my lifespan hasn't been long, baby.. but I'll tell you what is.
/r/seduction08/12/24 11:56 PM
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the conversation part is easy, its the initiation part thats the hardest lol is it just a matter of "fuck it"?
/r/seduction08/12/24 01:29 AM
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I'll take a crack at it. He's basically saying that it's way too much investment and "risk" for such a small reward. [heres my opinion now]: People here think that a shitty ONS from a club chick is something to chase, it's not that special. It's just drunk shallow short term pleasure, take it from a guy who was pretty decent at it - i probably lost more than I gained from that merry go round. IMHO, you're better off working on yourself and chasing meaningful connection with people, not just wome…
/r/seduction07/12/24 11:20 PM
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your not unattractive you're probably just not at your full potential yet. most people including men really underrate how much effort (not luck or talent) goes into being attractive. I could name 10 dudes off the top of my head who cry about being ugly and short and dont go gym or dress well. gym/diet dress well do your best at work/study 90% of your issues solved
/r/seduction13/11/24 02:46 PM
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thanks man
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:52 AM
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thanks. yeah its happened to me a few times out in bars, but i assumed that it was normal. Honestly, not humble bragging I'm tall but low confidence in looks etc. Is it true that it doesn't happen often? If I have been approached a few times before, does that mean I qualify to approach?
/r/seduction10/11/24 02:31 AM
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out of interest. if a woman approaches you this boldly, what would your move be then? Have had that happen to me a few times, didn't fumble but i was definitley carried by my looks and height (apparently). Want to see how someone with better game would react.
/r/seduction10/11/24 02:21 AM
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I agree with you, but peaking in 40's? might be a stretch. Maybe financially, but not attractiveness imo. im similar age as you with the same experience. I would estimate about 35 being peak, granted you're at your fitness potential at any age.
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:29 PM
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another guy made a good point, that even girls who get no attention can be extremely bitchy which means that attention might not be the main component of older women benig nice. I think you're partly right though about the younger women, but i just think thta it's a combination of being humbled by life (like all of us) and having more social skills/experience to deal with things confidently. Honestly people don't realise how autistic pretty girls can be, they have no need for social skills and e…
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:27 PM
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facts. young beautiful inexperienced women tend not to need social skills, im not hating either i love all women... but in reality there has never been a girl my age who has "gamed" me. Ones older than me though always have pretty good game.. lmao. Idk take that how you will.
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:23 PM
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Yeah definitley start the gym again and work on that diet man, that'll solve like 90% of your issues, it solves most of the mental ones too. Then you're fine, just keep improving. I think the real issue here is that you're a bit rattled that you got rejected. Focus your mind and energy on hitting gym and diet, that rejection fear will go away in no time.
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:34 AM
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Same, and I can tell you something. When I was fat i got 0 play. When I lost 40lbs my play went up tenfold. I understand you're not "too out of shape" but being ripped especially at that height puts you at an automatic 8/10, seriously. So I would be making gym and diet priority right now if I was you. Striking out doesn't mean you're not attractive. But it might mean the other guys were just more attractive. Also, being a 9/10 doesn't mean you get lucky every single time you try, it just means y…
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:19 AM
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How brother? I think maybe you're thinking in binary too much like this is your thought process: > Ask girl to dance is attractive > Ask girl to dance > Rejected > Therefore ask girl to dance not attractive Think of attraction like a spectrum from 1 to 10. You want to reach as close to 10 as possible. Some things give points, some things deduct points. Handsome face + 3 points 6ft + 3 points Good shape + 4 points Money + 3 points Asking a girl to dance + 1 point Ambition + 4 points etc. Doesn't …
/r/seduction28/10/24 12:51 AM
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they were more attracted to the other guys. Hey it happens. Sometimes I was the attractive guy, sometimes I wasn't that's life. As for your question, yeah I believe personally that it helps. It displays confidence. So lets use a 1-10 scale, i think asking for a dance gives you like 0.5 or 1 point. If you're a 5 it might bump you up to a 6 or even 7 if you got good game. But in this case, maybe the other guys were just natural 7's or 8's so even if asking helps, its just 1 component it doesn't au…
/r/seduction28/10/24 12:36 AM
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Thats great then, keep working on it and adjusting that diet and you'll be there in no time. Yep i was the same but for a different sport, got into a job i really liked, so my passion was sport but my goal was to free my family of poverty which means the job i do now is a step toward that goal. So maybe that can be you. I would definitley go into self improvment mode, it sounds like you're kinda doing it now but next 4 months do it to the extreme whatever that might look like, im guessing going …
/r/seduction25/10/24 07:17 AM
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Yeah sure, but still are you going to the gym? Are you studying? or if you've graduated or working a job have you tried learning your job to its fullest and started progressing in your career? Hobbies are fantastic but im asking specifically about these 3 things. Also slow down, you're majorly overthinking this. It will show when you talk to a girl how anxious you are. I'm not even up to the part about meeting girls yet, get through the big 3 things i mentioned earlier and then you can start wor…
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:23 AM
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Here's why you're stuck. You're young and have experienced less than you've probably read in books or on reddit or whatever. So you're getting confused from all this information. I'll tailor it for you personally. A lack of experience is only weird turn off if you're a weird ugly guy. First off, ill be honest i had more dating experience than you at that age, but on average you're not actually far off normal. In fact something like 6 partners per men on average through out their whole life (?) s…
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:03 AM
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the other guy is right about emotional availbility not being prevalent these days. But also, this sounds like oneitis. You spend too much time and attention on one girl she'll get the ick because you look desperate. I mean it makes sense, if you had a friend that constantly bothered you everyday to hang out you'd gte annoyed. Also, you're right you can't be COMPLETELY open to any female about your emotions, you sound young so welcome to being a man. The only people you can completely trust with …
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:34 AM
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"i don't do that" yeah that's true, i feel you on this.. but to think you will go through your whole life without being tested by a woman is naive. She can test me if she want's im going to be me, im confident enough in myself i can pass her petty little tests cos ill never simp lol.
/r/seduction15/10/24 05:23 AM
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bj anal and toys. bruh, those aren't Christian value (not here to judge) my point is that she's a hypocrit so why care about what she's saying? I'm a Christian too, a bad one.. and I'm probably worst than her... but like you're going to get nowhere trying to analyse the Christian mind, because this IS NOT the Christian mind. This is just a normal person trying to do some mental gymnastics. I'm not going to give you advice to manipulate her, nor should you even do that? If you're that horny just …
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:07 AM
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this, man i thought i couldn't do a lot of shit until i actually picked up my balls and tried
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:00 PM
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Maybe I could use your facial hair for my head?
/r/seduction13/08/24 02:44 PM
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i dont give a shit, ur ugly. next.
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:05 PM
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lmao your bio, you sound like the most insufferable person on the planet.
/r/seduction13/08/24 12:59 PM
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I cooked, and won the game. It feels kinda cringe since i hate texting, but was genuinely fun. Thanks OP, what a fun idea.
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:31 PM
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So you did everything but workout and become a better person? Literally the only 2 pieces of advice you need here? Also, i used to suck at math aka: i failed math in highschool like didn't even pass it.. now I'm finishing a masters in EE which is one of the most heavy course beside actual math degrees. So no, I don't believe in you being destined to be shit at something.. not wanting to invest because you don't want it enough? Sure.. but don't blame math for you sucking at it. Honestly that 2 ye…
/r/seduction23/07/24 12:00 PM
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No sir, she belongs to the skreets. Just don't want to wife something that everybody has been with. Don't need a virgin, don't need someone with a squeaky clean past, just not wasting my time risking it with somebody who has a habit of loose and casual sex. If that's not important to her, then that's fine. We are incompatible.
/r/seduction07/05/24 06:07 PM
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Yeah plenty of times, in fact i've had 2 non-close dates and closed on the 4-5th. Look there's way too many probabilities and variables to account for, nobody in this thread could predict. Just keep trying, give it another few goes until you're certain it's not gonna work... That's literally what dating is for.
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:34 AM
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Not quite bro, im 6'4 been rejected a bunch of times when I was fat. Lost weight and i got better. The point is you don't auto-fuck cos you're tall, you still got to put in work. Will it be easier for you than a guy whos 5'1 of the same looks? Of course. I've noticed that a guy doesn't need to be 6ft just needs to (in most cases) be taller than the girl he's going for. After that the inches don't matter as much as you think. Ask me how I know.
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:08 AM
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Why is everyone here complaining about OP giving advice about chasing "baddies". If you don't want one then don't go for one? The sub is called "seduction" not "You have to give me advice about the specific woman i want".
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:05 AM
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For me, it's not about shooting down a girls ego, it's not about insulting or negging. For me it's about defusing an ego by not being intimidated by her no matter what and being secure in my own self. If I meet a girl who is beautiful I don't go "AWOOOOOGA HUBBAHUBBAHUBBA" I just talk to her like I'd talk to anybody. I don't treat her special, but I don't insult her either. I make sure I'm friendly, but more importantly funny. I will build them up and encourage them, then I'll knock them down a …
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:40 AM
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So, it's NOT instinctual for alot of men then? Because you just said that you need to be used to talking to girls.. and if some men aren't used to it then it's not instinctual. Things that are actually instinctual are things like sleeping, you do need to teach a baby how to sleep. You do not need to teach a baby how to suck a tit. You do not need to teach a baby how to cry. These things are instinctual. I just don't agree with your word "instinctual" it should be natural, I think that's a better…
/r/seduction20/02/24 01:40 AM
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honestly I think you're being a contrarian and trying to pick apart any stupid thing out of context to start an argument. If it's instinctual why do so many men struggle? Might be instinctual for you and I, but not everyone. so lets drop that point. I never said the gym teaches you how to talk, another example of you taking it out of context. I'm saying the gym makes you look and feel good and gives you the confidence to talk to women, not the dialogue. Another thing taken out of context, it doe…
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:30 PM
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then being both 20 or 30 suck
/r/seduction16/02/24 03:23 AM
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This is true, but imo for this shit it only applies to the base average. A man or women who goes to the gym and dresses well is like 90th percentile.. and has a huge chance of pulling. That's just a testament to how lazy western people are. My point being is that it's easy to get out of the average bracket
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:25 AM
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You're an engineering student and so am I, so here's what you need to know. Do not compare your sexual value to other engineering students. That's like a rock comparing himself to pebbles saying he's above average.. little does he know that there are diamonds elsewhere for women to pick from. You ARE average looking if you're comparing yourself to engineering students. BUT here's the awesome part you can easily become a 5 into a 8.5-9 by working on yourself, especially you.. 21 years old you hav…
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:23 AM
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Reasons why it's hard: - nobody teaches us this shit - we have to do it through trial and error; we can't theory our way through this shit - it can hurt our feelings ​ Reasons why it's hard for you: - you haven't worked out enough - you haven't worked on your career enough - you've been doing this for 1 fucking month (that's basically 0 time) - you haven't put work into your foundations yet Not to be rude, but you haven't been around long enough to be a valid player yet. You haven't put enough w…
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:17 AM
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rofl im an engineer, know many engineers.. the only engineers that suffer with women are the weird ones you meet in uni. The ones who cant find work because they can't talk to people properly. Most engineers i meet don't struggle at all, they're normal people with good jobs and good money. Just say you suck at flirting and dont try blame it on engineering.
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:43 AM
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i can talk to girls at clubs and get numbers etc. but outside of clubs i feel hopeless lmao. am i ugly
/r/seduction23/05/23 04:37 PM
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I've worked in automation and I'm doing a masters in EE. I cringe when people say automation is bad, but hold the opinion that slavery was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:29 AM
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>I've seen many girls say that "If he doesn't have female friends it's a red flag" I have never heard that in my life. In fact, I hear that if men have too many female friends it's a red flag (not that I agree). Agree though with women thinking that us men advancing for friendship they confuse with flirting. But men are definitley the same way. IMO it's exhausting for both sexes to find friends with other sexes if it's not purely business
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:27 AM
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I think it's pretty much been always like this. Except it's not only women it's men too. Some dudes just wanna chill play CoD and watch anime, and that's boring as fuck to me. Women are the same but enjoy IG or Netflix. The truth is that most people we meet are average, and do average people things.. and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just boring to me, but what does that mateer.
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:30 PM
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yeah it's a copypasta. Reddit newfriends.
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:22 PM
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im late twenties and i get this. It makes me think this sub is full of 19 year olds who haven't stepped outside into the real world yet. Even if I talk about being approached by women they just blame some other shit without actual experience. IT's funny because my friends who are really cool guys have done way crazier shit than me that most people on this sub wouldn't believe is possible for normal dudes lol
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:25 AM
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My go to line in this situation: "Hi! Few things to start off with =) 1. Yes I liked your pic because you're a female gamer, 'tis and awesome thing to see! 2. I'm Brian 3. Don't be intimidated, but I'm not a stereotypical guy. If anything, I'll be the one in the kitchen =D."
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:14 AM
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It's not that your standards are necessarily too high, it's that you may be too entitled for what you offer. If you can match those standards, ideally be better than those standards (not from your own opinion, but based in objective reality) then there's no issue. But keep in mind that the people who are of this particular standard may not find you attractive.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:37 PM
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The real issue is that you don't want to be a "badboy" you just want to be yourself and be confident doing it. Are you really a "nice guy" somebody who's nice? If so, why would being nice hurt your chances? Before you say "because I'm a doormat" that's wrong, nice people aren't doormats, that has nothing to do with being nice and everything to do with being insecure and low self esteem. Dwayne the rock Johnson is (seems) a nice guy, but do you really think he'll take your shit if you tried to fu…
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:29 AM
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Been in this situation a couple of times, girls wanted to see who I came with or whatever I just tell them they went to [insert town's shitty nightclub] and I snuck off for some peace and quiet and quick drink before heading home. They usually buy it. But I mean I only really said that because it actually happened, or I ended up getting lost etc.
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:20 AM
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High value man is just "attractive guy" rebranded. The only "qualifications" to being a high value man are the following: Gym/diet, hobbies, career/study, sociability. You've already defaulted yourself from 3 things being overweight and having no social life and ambition. So you've got plenty to work on before you start asking any other questions. I suggest you start at a gym or even MMA on monday, this will build your confidence. And MMA puts you around friendly people with a similar goal. More…
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:12 AM
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The only advantage to smoker girls is if you smoke yourself and they/you start up a conversation by asking for a light or something. That's it, everything else is pretty much the same.
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:41 AM
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To me, abundance mindset is something you achieve over time. The answer is the same every single time, go to the gym, focus on your career/studies, focus on your passions and hobbies and make good friends. Honestly, if you are ripped, have a good networth, are passionately enjoying what you do and have a good circle of friends around you, then you shouldn't really be asking for advice on this sub. The answer is the same every single time, if you have all of that and still can't get laid then we …
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:54 AM
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Ohhhh you have aspergers. I forgive you.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:35 PM
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Fuck yea O&A was amazing too. Black phillip is just hilarious and offers a fresh perspective for men who have been simps their whole life
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:19 PM
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Where did I say that I pay for the meal? Who hurt you? the girl who used you as a meal ticket? Go touch grass and get therapy nobody should be as tilted as you are right now.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:18 PM
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You're getting emotional because I made a pussy joke. I know for a fact you ain't getting pussy, brother. Why on Earth would you go to a dinner date? To eat food and get to know somebody? Nobody is saying you have to treat tinder girls to free meals you fucking moron. You usually this abusive to people? Or just the ones who ask you on dinner dates?
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:47 PM
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yeah so if you haven't done it how would you know? You shouldn't be giving advice here if you can't even get a date, brother.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:30 PM
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How would you know? I thought you said you don't do dinner dates?
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:17 PM
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First off, that's an amazing effort. Most men don't make it past 5 so be proud of yourself. I think there's leeway there though. If you try too hard, then yes you can burn out and make it forced.. but I just mean that when you do approach you have an intention to learn, not to pull as counter-intutive as it sounds. So yeah I agree it happens when you least expect it so having no expectations is the best bet, BUT I am referring to learning from mistakes which I believe is a different issue altoge…
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:59 PM
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well I hope you got pussy at home too
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:12 PM
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yeah it sucks. ya'll need Jesus. And a bit of black phillip lol.
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:55 PM
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That's not a shit test, that's manipulation bro. Stay away from her. Lets clearly define a shit test: it's when a girl negs you a little to gague an emotional reaction (though it is not limited to this definition). If she's leading you on, she just wants attention and found easy attention from you to the point that she could "victimbrag" by saying you were stalking her but makes it look like she's desirable. This isn't a shit test, again this is just manipulation.
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:53 PM
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Okay a few things. 1) YES, healthy men realise that shit tests aren't meant to be taken seriously. Even if a woman is getting serious about it, let her get angry, laugh it off.. play off the question once but if she's adamant just keep giving her shitty answers for her shitty test. She will get the message and chill out, because women are so much more socially superior (on average) than men that she will know to not look like a spaz and leave the issue alone. If she doesn't and she persists with…
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:26 AM
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How many times have you been rejected? Looking for facts, so what I mean by that is were you looking for things that indicated WHY you were getting rejected during the process. Example, did you notice that you were too nervous, you were too needy, you were overly pessimstic, you were too boring etc. All these things that ruined your chances, were you on the look out for and actively trying to fix those issues each time you went out and spoke to another girl. Basically were you focusing on improv…
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:14 AM
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If your self worth comes from the approval of women you probably need therapy. I think it goes without saying that this advice is for normally adjusted people.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:43 AM
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I think you proved his point even more tbh. If hot women get hit on all the time (which I don't think they do in a proper sense btw) wouldn't that mean you would be MORE forgettable? You were just number 25 that day getting rejected. Whereas OP is saying he got hit on by some guys and forgot them already?
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:19 AM
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How many times have you been rejected? Like a real number. Also, when you were going out to get rejected was your mindset ready? Like were you just going out and putting your heart on the line or were you going in looking for facts and things to improve on?
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:17 AM
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I really like OP's advice but in reality I'm probably more the expressive and impulsive type. It works with some people, some people find it annoying but that's ok.
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:57 AM
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No easy fix bro, eventually you just have to try again. But here's how I made it easier for myself, what I did was got into a gym got into boxing and found my hobbies (sport) and got into university, these things really upped my self esteem and self worth and I knew for a fact I was a better person after doing these things. If I got rejected I knew it had less to do with who I was as a person and more to do with that particular women not being interested in me. It got easier because my self wort…
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:23 AM
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great, so by definition you should know that looks don't matter and can be improved? I'm not projecting I'm calling you out on your comments. You can't just expect to say stupid shit and then not get called out for it.
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:26 PM
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No you didn't, nor did I say you said that? I'm not projecting either, tbh I don't even want to see your picture either the way you pulled back proves to me that you know you're a normal person. You're not lacking in the looks department, you're probably just fat/skinny or just weird. You're a normal person who just refuses to go the gym or put down the fork so you blame all the bullshit on white people or tall people or rich people. Also, stop being a coward victim. Don't pull back and say "tha…
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:13 PM
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bars and clubs are great, but if you don't enjoy that it's very hard. I used to get all my women from bars/clubs because I am comfortable in those scenes, I can drink I can dance (ok) I can conversate with randoms and be friendly and most importantly I love to dress up, get a haircut and present myself as best as possible to make that job alot easier. When I took my friend who has zero game at all out to the clubs with my other friend who is a great gay wingman we ended up having so many girls f…
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:09 PM
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Post a picture of yourself, prove that you're beyond repair. Or more likely let's see that you're just a normal skinny/fat kid who hasn't done shit all to improve themselves and blames genetics for their videogame and soda addiction.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:55 PM
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So why are you still a virgin then?
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:53 PM
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Great that you accepted reality, now what do you do? Cry or work? That's the thing with you whinging blackpillers, you try to act 3deep5me by saying "I've accepted reality", and then die. You're not dead yet, you've still got to do something if you want to be consistent with your bullshit about reality. So do you cry, and admit you were just a baby this whole time? Or do you work and prove that change is possible? Or do you do nothing and prove that you're only a loser because you did nothing.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:52 PM
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Fucking facts bro. Probably best advice I seen here in a while. First 2 points need to be stickied too, I try to tell people here all the time but you put it way eloquently than I ever have. Props to having a sensible, yet proactive mindset. Very rare.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:49 PM
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how many times exactly did you get rejected? Would you mind giving me a real number? (not "more times than you can count, bucko") Also, how old were you? And was your mindset geared and ready for improving your seduction techniques, or were you just getting rejected brutally without any real concept or reason behind being rejected or behind chasing/exposing yourself to rejection? Those are some pretty important factors.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:33 PM
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you only have difficulty with rejection because you haven't been exposed to it enough. Get rejected more, yep first one will make you lose your self worth but after the 20th time you realise oh, it's not even that bad. After 50 you say, okay I'm obviously doing something wrong what should I do? After a while you focus less on being rejected and more on how to improve for next time.
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:44 PM
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so true. man you put this quite well, I've never been able to verbalise this. Another thing I'd like to add to this conversation is to "dress for your body" not for what you want. So often I see fat pasty guys dressing like their favourite anime character, who's tall, lanky, asian and has beautiful female hair with sharp features. If you're a big fat white guy you can't pull that shit off, no matter how much you want to. You have to be realistic and dress with clothes that flatter your figure. M…
/r/seduction27/10/22 02:03 PM
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rugby, gym, outdoor stuff, engineering and looking to take up some MMA soon. hear me out, it's not so much that my hobbies are even special it's just that I'm so passionate about them or know enough about them to have a good conversation with somebody about. It's not how much you know about something that makes you interesting, it's how you can engage the other person with your topic that makes you interesting.
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:43 PM
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Being funny to me is a combination of wit, quickness, delivery and perspective. wit: intelligence and being able to analyse a situation. This can be trained with experience, being analytical and trying to look for fun in every situation. quickness: literally just being quick. To get quicker this comes down to experience, I've been so slow in the past but with enough roast sessions with my boys I've gotten alot better. I constantly say jokes to myself in my head or when im bored roast others in m…
/r/seduction25/10/22 05:04 PM
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the reason this works in not because you're attractive (in a technical sense although it helps) but because they're laughing with your vibe. If you're saying something stupid in a warm, confident and fun way they will laugh with you. If you say the greatest joke in the world while stuttering and toxic and disgustingly they won't laugh with you.
/r/seduction25/10/22 04:54 PM
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dude if you don't want advice don't whinge about being lonely on reddit so we don't help you. You're the equivalent of "hey can you help me?" 'Ugh I HAVE A BOYFRIEND." but the incel version.
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:20 PM
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That's fine, just say so.. no need to freak out. Frankly, I don't care about your body I just wanted to prove the point that you probably haven't really been training properly. Which I just did. If you can't post a faceless pic on imgur that doesn't doxx you, chances are you're probably still flabby/skinny.. nothing wrong with that but my next point was that you need to work on the gym. Not just say you've been going to the gym, before you get a gf. There's always something to work on, no need t…
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:04 PM
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? I'm trying to help. You may have just misunderstood my comment.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:58 PM
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agree bro, you will get downvoted on reddit because everybody here is a victim. Nobody likes being told they're the annoying privileged suburban kids who's problems are a joke.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:54 PM
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You're basically on the money, mate. I've lived in both lives where I was too timid to ask out a pretty girl and now I'm dating the girl who "got away" after picking up my balls. Smartphones and social media are a big part of it. Isolation is so much easier these days and it's easy to not commit to people, if you're bored of the person in front of you, just go on your phone and "talk" to somebody else. If you're bored of your relationship, don't culitivate the skills that make you a better partn…
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:53 PM
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So you try but you have just been "unlucky" huh? Can you tell us about the (all) times you approached women? No amount of gym or therapy? Can you post us pics of your body? There is nothing wrong with being lonely or wanting to have a gf, i'm glad that you're honest with yourself on your intentions that's the first step that many cannot admit. My issue here is that you said you've tried and that you've implied you've done gym work. In my experience I find 99.99% (yes that includes you) of the ti…
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:47 PM
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I feel like putting so much pressure on yourself may psyche you out if you're a certain personality type. The only things I really prepare to do are try to eat well and train well that week before going out (thicc boi) if not year round. Get a haircut 2 days beforehand, shave (if you can't grow a proper beard). New or at the very least clean clothes that fit you well and look exceptionally good, this part is probably the most important with the haircut being equal or a close 2nd because this shi…
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:37 AM
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I got a short white friend who's such a victim, he doesn't know how to dress aka still dresses like a fucking kid. (He's gotten better though by copying us). He doesn't want to go to the gym or join a sport. He acts like a baby and his main goal in life is to get a wife, not a good career or anything but just to be good enough to get a wife. He thinks everybody around him is stupid and he's the smart one despite having no degree, no game and no life experience. Of course he says that I only get …
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:23 PM
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you go to therapy, that's what you do.
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:57 AM
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you look at too many memes. Doesn't matter what she says if shes interested shes interested, relax.
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:23 PM
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a few things: You said you guys don't chat for days on end, maybe she's just doing that? Could be a million things, maybe she wasn't feeling you. Maybe you didn't pass the kiss test, maybe she's got a bf who knows.
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:35 PM
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lmao. You're fucking delusional bro if you think need roids to look like brad pitt. He's literally like 60kg and just super low bf%. You don't need amazing genes for that. Excatly my point, so why are you quoting all these things when you can't even give us that actual effects of them.. but you seem SO CERTAIN that you can't build muscle because of it. I know, because you're saying alot of things that are actually in our control. I then go on to say yes there are some things we can't control but…
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:06 PM
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No, I'm not wrong. You haven't clearly defined what a "good body" is and I bet you 100bucks you're going to move the goalposts and say that a "good body" is sub 10%bf and 220lbs which is bullshit, because that's a genetically gifted/roided body. every single detrimental thing you just named you didn't go into any detail on how it affects you and by what actual percentage, the same way I could harp on about how good diet and excercise can counter those things, but it doesn't hold much weight when…
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:37 PM
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agree with your first paragraph. Second paragraph is kinda stupid though. Anyone can build muscle unless you have rare dystrophy conditions. Genetics just limit how far you can go, but in 99% of cases people have the genetic potential to at least look great. Also, FYI you don't even need to be in the gym for 2 years to look good enough to date. (assuming you have a good bf% which can 100% be manipulated)
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:38 PM
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I do. If you're being approached first (had this happen to me a fair few times) it's because you earned it by putting in the ground work. Whether that's because you worked and earned a good job, a good body and got the mindset to improve how you dress and treat people it doesn't matter that fact is that you worked toward something and achieved it. The "prize" was that it made women more accessible to you. Now, you're explaining something different. For example "buying" a woman with gifts isn't e…
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:36 PM
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The only way is that you have to get out of your comfort zone if you really want this. Guys are stupid when it comes to this stuff so whatever sounds like "obvious" flirting to you, you're probably going to have to amp it up by 150% so they can get a hint. You can do the direct approach, but that's not really that fun and would probably attract guys who aren't too confident which isn't something you want. You can also just talk to the guy you're interested in and over time he should click. Espec…
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:25 PM
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true, but it's also good to talk to people we don't like sometimes to build up some social skills against assholes. Makes us more socially resillient lmao
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:41 AM
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What i do is laugh it off and make funny observations. It's hard to pre-script these situations so you have to be able to make jokes off the top of your head. Like if she goes: "I'm too pretty for you.." I'll say something like "Damn girl, you really gonna talk like that wearing those shoes though? Look, at this chick.. blah blah blah" Like pick something out on her outfit while laughing in warm, funny way. Get her friends involved or your friends and just roast her but making sure you're still …
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:40 AM
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Yes, bad people can attract women too. Attraction has little to do with whether you're a good or bad person but alot to do with how "useful" you are (just made up the term now). What you're doing is basically focusing on the worst pieces of shit who get laid. Most men who do get laid frequently or have great relationships are men who are good because it's sustainable for both parties that they are happy and in a positive relationship. Sure there's some women who are attached to abusers and such …
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:49 AM
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no it doesn't. I've only kissed on the first date maybe once in my life. Everytime I go on a first date I barely ever kiss and get more dates. I'm not saying what I do is right for everybody, just making sure people here don't feel pressure to kiss on the first date every time like it's a rule written in stone. It's always different for every person.
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:53 PM
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it felt like an instant flip, but it certainly wasn't. It was when I lost 20kgs after a bad breakup. Couldn't get a girls attention worth for shit. Once I got in better shape I worked that summer (uni student) brought better fitting clothes, developed a style and just felt so much better about myself the girls started flocking.. It was crazy. I went from no girls to like girls every weekend or at least a number without even trying. Most men here are normal, and most normal men that get women are…
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:25 PM
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At worst, height is a single component. If you rely one 1 thing to be happy you're going to fail regardless.
/r/seduction12/10/22 11:51 AM
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you wanna know what the difference between being creepy and not creepy is? No, I don't because I already know. I'm talking about a whole other issue altogther.
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:01 PM
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The difference between being a performer and enjoying the show is letting go of the mic. Let her talk, let her make the jokes and laugh at her so it encourages her to "perform" for you for a bit too. Give and take.
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:13 PM
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Respectfully disagree, OP. Main reason is because you're assuming that "working on yourself" means you have to be a recluse. I give this advice all the time and all it means is that most of these young kids have not idea what they want in life, have no job, no hobbies, no drive, no dreams, no car, no money and they wonder why a woman doesn't want to be with them. Then they say "Oh but why do I need to provide something?" Because you're wanting her to provide good looks or loyalty, that is her sa…
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:26 PM
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correction: you could.
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:41 AM
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i understand that, I'm moreso commenting on "society's" (other reddit posters opinion) inability to just be upfront and say "don't approach girls if you're ugly or have no skill" I already know what a creepy person looks like, but I'm saying I'd respect it more if they told us that creeps shouldn't approach women. Yep people will get their feelings hurt but they won't be so confused as to why women run away from them.
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:00 AM
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yeah i understand all that, what I'm saying is that "society" is telling us to not approach women (according to that other reddit poster) so it would be better if they just told us the truth and said outright that you should only approach women if you got game etc. I'd rather have feelings hurt than be confused.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:59 AM
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You know, I'd be more inclined to be on "society's" side if they were just honest and told us what being creepy is. That way there'd be less confusion and all these stupid debates between men and women. Sure some people would get their feelings hurt.. but I mean you have to figure it out sometime don't you? lol Edit: please stop commenting explaining to me what creepy is. I know what creepy is, I'm just saying that it'd be nice if "society" were honest and just said "dont hit on girls if you're …
/r/seduction09/10/22 08:23 AM
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hahaha.. you know what if you weren't happily taken I would have been forced to shoot my shot. Your man is very lucky as are you. My comments definitley do not apply to you.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:34 AM
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I didn't sum up all women, I was just referring to the average 45 year old bar goer. I am completely aware you are an outlier, please do not think I was criticising women or "older" people. the context of my post is for OP to get some insight into a very niche dating market, I did not mean to lump women like that.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:31 AM
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I never said an older women who has my same interests doesn't exist, I'm just talking in general there's not many older women I'd have a real connection with. Now to go even deeper, do you specifically enjoy rugby? Do you like MMA? would you love to go to a hardcore "young person" nightclub with me and get wasted? Would you get the ick when I told you I'm only just starting out in my career while you're an established business woman? Would you understand my spongebob references? Do you understan…
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:50 AM
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yeah but you don't represent all women.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:47 AM
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Because you're older. I'm 28, I have not much in common with a 23 year old.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:45 AM
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exactly, which is why i would personally never date somebody who isn't 5years +- my age. That's no offense to any other age bracket it's just that we're in different phases of our life. I'm sure no 50 year old woman cares about my sports games or gym stats they're probably thinking about grand children at that age. But hey, I'm just providing OP with the info. It's up to him to learn the lesson xD
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:43 PM
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Honestly bro, this is a very small niche. 45 year old women will be in a minority when they go out to bars/clubs, not to mention classy ones will be even more rare. My experience with 45+ year old women were that they were cougars and there wasn't much you needed to do except be young. Anyway, you probably want bars that are "classy" and you want to do all the normal things you do to pick up the average woman. It'll probably just be easier because you're in your 20s and 45+ year olds don't give …
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:52 AM
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sure but I think OP's post is assuming we're all the average man. What's the point in taking his statement into consideration when you're Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:13 PM
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unusually quiet and staring. Fuck, I must look like a weird guy around peeps man. I need to stop that shit.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:12 PM
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Aziz is socially stupid, the girl sounds like she was dumb too she waited way too long to set any boundaries. In any case, I still think Aziz was wrong.. he got it wrong by being persistent and not reading her signs. If everything she said was true (Aziz's side said it was all consensual) then she would have needed to put her foot down earlier and been more assertive. But still, Aziz, come on man it's not hard to see when somebody is uncomfortable. Sounds like 2 hollywood idiots that we shouldn'…
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:08 PM
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that's wisdom. not many redditors will understand because their "experiences" come from what they read online rather than actual interaction
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:40 AM
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For 5 easy payments I'll tell you the secret: 'Alpha body language' is just another way of overanalysing a person who's confident and well established. Like when you watch those youtube charisma command videos, all he's doing is just overexplaining what we subconsciously already know.. not to say it isn't fun and entertaining to watch or even that it's not true.. it's just that you don't need to worry about things in that much depth. I say this every post, but if you hit the gym and get ripped/b…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:55 AM
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Are you ripped and have a good job? That's most of the work there. As for what type of "game" is the best? All of them, but the easiest and most organic one is to meet people through your friends. To do that you've got to work hard on your body, career, hobbies and personality.. that's the only way things happen organically. People here really overthink and underestimate the power of feeling good and looking good from being in the gym and the confidence it brings. They underestimate the societal…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:36 AM
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Oh, you're right you actually didn't. I just made the assumption that we're talking about wanking to porn in context with OP's post.
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:01 AM
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You don't have to be rich, and being in forestry doesn't bar you from being rich. That's cool, if that's the case you should have no issues with women. If everything else is sorted then you only need to keep working on the fundamentals (it's a life battle) working out, progressing in your career and bettering your personality. Those things can always be improved
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:11 PM
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disagree, never liked that porn argument. It's dangerous to suggest that abstaining from media that shows unrealistic sex standards and objectification of women WON'T help a young impressionable male to act correctly and treat a woman correctly. You can argue all day about the tough guys who aren't affected by porn or porn addiction but it's dumb to suggest that NOT watching porn isn't beneficial for alot of men. The wanking routine is not coincidental, it's like saying "if you are doing less he…
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:08 PM
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Workout, develop a better career, get some hobbies and practice empathy and surrounding himself with good people. Don't spin your wheels thinking you can say some magic phrase to make a girl like you. But to try answer your question, you could try getting a better fashion sense. To me, you need to work on your sillouhette are you tall, skinny, fat etc. Dress to your body. But honestly, there's not really a quick fix I'm sorry to say. You have to put some effort and some years into it, rip this b…
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:00 PM
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When did I once say that being productive was bad?
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:24 PM
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Yeah but it's just that this guy in particular seems socially stupid. You sound like you're not socially stupid you just struggle with women. I would suggest to continue hanging out with your guy friends or try to hang out with better guy friends who pull and study what they do. i know nothing about you, but my usual advice is that you need to get ripped, dress well and earn a good living are you honestly doing all three of those things to a high standard?
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:23 PM
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>society is a shit test that is the simple most brilliant way I've seen somebody put it. The whole thing banks on our outrage, the same way when people shit test you they're seeing what type of reaction you give.
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:33 PM
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Bro you just sound like you're inexperienced. You need to actually talk to people. See how I didn't say "girls" specifically.. talk with other men too. Befriend other men, watch how they act and you will start acting like a normal 22 year old. More importantly, get buff, work on your career and find some hobbies.
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:03 PM
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i think you're wron about him embarrassing himself. You don't need to be 30 to know that you struggled in life. Also, he doesn't need to produce an "original" story for him to have a point.
/r/seduction01/10/22 02:29 PM
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Short answer: maybe, but so is everybody. First off, you're very productive for a 22 year old. Let that sink in. Not to be mean but you sound like you're making a brag paragraph. Most 20 somethings are NOT in college. Most just work normal jobs and live normal lives. There's nothing wrong with that too. Because i'm in college doing engineering most women I meet are disciplined and smart as hell, but you have to remember these are the top tier people in society. These people come from good famili…
/r/seduction01/10/22 02:26 PM
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wow that's amazing bro!
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:21 AM
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I just think there's a growing trend of the stock market with normies. With that comes a growing trend of people who like to LARP as stock brokers. It's like the growing trend of entrepeneurs brought in the influx of women who say they're "business owners" because they do digital marketing. Humans have always lied to appear interesting, same shit in 2022 just a different template. My personal lie is that I tell women that I'm happy.. I'm a studying a masters in electrical engineering so they kno…
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:20 PM
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random question. But is it appropriate for somebody with aspergers to do something like boxing? I say this alot but boxing/mma helps with confidence and assertiveness.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:18 PM
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imo, you gain confidence by achieving things. Ask yourself, what does "ideal you" look like? Does he have 6pack abs? does he make 150k a year, does he dress up in cool clothes? If you can answer that by being honest then you should try to achieve those things. It will give you confidence. How do you use it? It's not like a sword you weild when you need it, it's a real tangible feeling you get forever as long as you have that self validation of what you're humbly proud of yourself for. You go int…
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:14 PM
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sometimes I ask for consent like, I go to a girls best friend in front of the girl I want and say "hey is it cool if I borrow your friend for a minute?" or "hey, can I dance with your friend for a sec? I just wanted to ask you first :)" basically once you get the best friends approval you're in a good position. A womans biggest judge are her female peers. This has worked a couple of times. More importantly what's worked better with a lower risk ratio is just talking "next" to a girl. It's been m…
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:18 PM
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Best thing to do is sneak up behind them and scream really loud. It should break the ice, and they'll see you as a jokester and befriend you. jk, i'm a big guy too. Best thing you can do is smile and dress nicely. Speak softly and be interested in what people have to say, I mean looks do matter when it comes to beign intimidating but other things arguably matter more. If you're around others laughing having a good time, subconciously people see you as well adjusted and friendly. If you dress wel…
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:08 PM
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r/niceguys I've read about this guy on here.
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:36 AM
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everything is situational. My partner (gf) double texted me when we first started "seeing" each other (we had been friends for a while). Now we're a few years into a LTR. There's nothing wrong with it, just another weird anxiety we've made up as people since life is relatively "easy" these days. But if you were to be like: you: "Hey darling how are you today." him: (no reply) you: "helloooo? are you there? why aren't you texting back?" Then yeah, after a couple times that is probably bad.
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:13 AM
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The only paradox is the one you've created. You're taking (unknowingly) the two concepts out of context. Let me put it in easier terms: Indifferent = Not being needy Interested = Showing interest So, you can show interest in someone without being needy. Example, if I think you're attractive I will approach you, talk to you, try to get to know you and read whether or not you like me back. If I feel like you like me back I'll try to get more personal. If I feel like you don't like me I'll back off…
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:05 AM
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We don't believe because our biology makes us attracted and throws a bit of logic out the window. The key is to control those emotions and remember. I like your approach, my particular approach is to work hard enough until I feel like I deserve that confidence. It's helped me thus far, you can't bullshit hardwork and physical/tangible results.
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:37 AM
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If their genetics weren't meant to be passed on then how did those same genetics create that guy in the first place? They just pop out of thin air? Also, when people say "My genetics prevent me from XYZ" my best comeback is always this: ​ "Prove it"
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:11 PM
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There's always one lol. Why are you scared of other people's opinions on an opinion thread? What's the difference when a woman says she wants 6'5 150k 8pack guys but she's fat and has 3 kids? That's a dumb opinion too, but it's not scary, the fact is that assholes exist.
/r/seduction29/09/22 02:42 PM
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is this the "age" equivalent of "guys I have a 50 word essay due next week.. HELP" troll posts?
/r/seduction29/09/22 06:39 AM
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also OP: "Chip even puts my condom on for me and books the uber for the girl home!" jokes aside, that's cool that you've found a way to use your dog bro lol.
/r/seduction29/09/22 05:02 AM
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>I think status matters most. I’m 22 have no real status and I can’t even get a chance. So are you good-looking and have game? Also, status isn't synonymous with money. So you can't lump the 2 together. > Just bring it back to high school/ college Comparing high school to real life? lol wtf. An extreme example would be someone like Prince Charles versus Jason Momoa. We both know who'd get more girls if they were single but we know Prince Charles has more status. Therefore if Jason gets more girl…
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:10 AM
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>I don't even know where to start. There's so much wrong here. And I am surprised people upvoted you. So you post a thread and when everybody here in this thread disagrees with you it's OUR fault? Buddy, I didn't mean to strike a chord with you but this is the truth. You complain about everything except yourself. YOU are at fault, not a stupid spanish accent the quicker you realise that the quicker you get better. >Well, yeah, I started going to the gym 2 months ago. I can't very well have a 6-p…
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:00 AM
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I said what I said because you're blaming everybody else and women for your lack of success. You're proving my point that you have a victim mindset and that's why you don't get laid. I'm trying to help
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:44 AM
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Scientists: ' WE DISCOVERED NON-SPANISH PEOPLE... HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE WITHOUT SEX?'
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:03 AM
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if it's really the accent why doesn't this idiot just fake an accent and realise that he's not getting laid because he's an idiot. I have a friend exactly like OP.. "Oh you only get attention because you're tall and brown and white girls like exotic guys." Oh right, not because you're a fucking loser? If that's the case why then by your definition no white male should have a white gf in a white country because they're not "exotic"
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:02 AM
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> Somewhat socially anxious (well, that's quite an understatement, but let's not delve deeper into that) Let's not dwelve into 90% of the reason you're NOT getting laid? You ignore a massive component of attraction just so you can rant about not having a "sexy accent" > I would like to believe I am intelligent, but that's not necessarily helpful with women It absolutely IS helpful with ANYTHING in life. The issue here is that most r/niceguys or redditors confuse their niche affinity with coding …
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:00 AM
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1) you get in more reps 2) you realise 80% of rejection are comprised of things out of your control
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:46 AM
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