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That’s pretty high 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:13 PM
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How likely is it that someone cheats at the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:52 PM
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Ah I didn’t think it’s that serious because I didn’t throw up :/ I don’t even know if I want to be or not, but I know it’s not what we planned. And I drank a few times these last couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:21 PM
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I didn’t but I’ll go to my GP tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:13 PM
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It’s not a good time for that, but I don’t think I can be pregnant right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:04 PM
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:/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:55 PM
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I wish I knew. I’m just nauseous and food tastes bad. I had some dinner last night so I’ll try to eat again in a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:55 PM
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… A bit of nausea is not stopping me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:54 PM
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Second day in a row that I spent feeling like shit and only eating ice cream…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:13 PM
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He has his female friends including the one who has feelings for him but I don’t think I would be okay with an ex-fiancée… why did they break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:00 PM
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That would have made it look like I’m hiding something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:58 PM
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What should your reaction be when you meet someone you used to date? When you are with your SO too? Last night we ran into one of my high school boyfriends and he came up to our table to say hi. If he didn’t do that I would have ignored him just because I was with my man. But my man was completely unfazed and joked about it too after he left. Luckily most of the men I’ve been with are spread out all over the world because I still thought it was pretty awkward 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:22 PM
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Enjoy the date!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:13 PM
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He shouldn’t be arrogant but he shouldn’t be clueless and insecure either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:11 PM
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I’m almost retired :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:10 PM
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A man who knows he’s hot is so much hotter <3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:03 PM
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My period ended 3 weeks ago so it’s probably fine but I’ll take one if I still feel like this tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:20 PM
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Oh how does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:08 PM
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I’m not on birth control but we usually use the diaphragm and sometimes condoms. I can’t be pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:07 PM
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Each time I shower, isn’t that normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:28 PM
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That’s fair, I just didn’t plan to grow up so soon :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:10 PM
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Mine is high but not 3 digits in college high and if I had to guess it’s the highest in my friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:08 PM
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It’s not that bad. Being a housewife has its perks just not on a summer weekend when your man spent most of the day asleep 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:02 PM
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My parents and my brothers. But he is with me despite his family so maybe I shouldn’t say that. At least they all love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:00 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:58 PM
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I don’t think our neighbor would like to be our therapist 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:58 PM
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Yes, I’m still somewhat of a part-time party girl until we have kids :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:11 PM
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I mean I couldn’t have got a large tattoo after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:10 PM
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My small lower back tattoo was so painful I could have never done that!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:02 PM
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I still do that with my girls sometimes but none of them are in the city right now :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:58 PM
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But I fell asleep at 11 last night and I’ve been nauseous the whole day for no good reason :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:58 PM
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😂 to be fair I only accepted drinks when I wanted to interact with the man offering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:43 PM
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No one talks about the struggle of going from party girl to housewife…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:29 PM
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Surprisingly this wasn’t as bad as the rest of your updates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:38 PM
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Couples counseling was so bad I still get flashbacks from it. We only went once and when we left we both started laughing and agreed that we don’t need it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:21 PM
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Yes, they’re not working nonstop, he has a normal 8 hour shift then he’s on call. He can get a few hours of sleep at night which he doesn’t because he usually can’t fall asleep, but in a big city and on the weekend it’s not really a boring night. There are regulations but they don’t always stay within the time limits. But his hospital isn’t that bad, my twin’s is a lot worse at keeping it legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:07 PM
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What the fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:48 PM
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Yes, that’s pretty common in hospitals :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:46 PM
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He’s a surgical resident.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:44 PM
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Another 24 hour shift for my husband on the weekend, they really hate him this month… At least it’s Friday this time so we can still go out tomorrow night. I was too sleepy in the morning and he couldn’t wake me up before he left. He sent me a selfie while he was changing at work and I spent the entire day horny… I hope to fall asleep quickly from the wine I’m drinking :))
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:34 PM
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I look at his face and body shape first. Style is important but not more important than those 2. The only thing that can instantly disqualify a man with a hot body and very handsome face is bad hygiene. The second part could be true but it doesn’t have much to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:50 PM
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I’m post-wall but it’s not that bad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:26 PM
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Me too, I actually feel younger than I did a few years ago. It’s strange!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:26 PM
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It’s being filmed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:25 PM
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Don’t worry I still remember that I’m not single :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:25 PM
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I keep forgetting that I’m married and when I remember it I feel so young. Being married at 26 in 2025 feels like teenage pregnancy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:02 PM
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But that’s not his everyday body, that’s the body he built for a role. His everyday body is still his best feature though but I meant his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:58 PM
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We do that sometimes but without the scrolling. I deleted TikTok because I got a few of those weird bot comments… but I miss it, Instagram reels aren’t that fun 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:14 AM
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She looks scary!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:48 AM
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There’s nothing that sucks as much as my man having a nightshift on a Saturday night except when he has a 24h on a Saturday which happened yesterday… We couldn’t go out on Friday. Then I spent Saturday at my brother’s house which was fine. Then went out for a bit with my friends. But now I’ll have to be bored the whole day while I watch him sleep, the whole weekend is gone and we barely even spent time together. At least he’s a cute sleeper :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:40 AM
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He’s hot but what I call mid hot. He is very conventionally attractive and probably an 8+ to most people but he lacks standout features.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:33 AM
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It’s the opposite of a sign of wealth. I found them hot when I was really young but not anymore. I regret my one small tattoo that I got at 18 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:24 AM
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I never thought that about myself, more like the opposite. I would say half the men I met out in the wild approached me and the other half got approached by me. But I also used the apps a lot. I just noticed that I wouldn’t get approached much but I would get stares so I took matters into my own hands when I felt like it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:41 PM
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I’m glad I don’t have to approach anyone anymore if this is what the men thought about me 😂 Jokes aside I only had positive experiences and one semi-rejection but I am also not a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:27 PM
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Yes but still exciting :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:21 PM
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It usually looks and smells better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:16 PM
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It’s funny 😂 but mine is in his best shape and I wouldn’t want it any other way!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:05 PM
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My relationship isn’t “don’t ask, don’t tell”, we just don’t care much about the numbers. We both know that we had similar pasts and attitudes toward sex which is what matters. And I know that he would never pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:08 PM
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But if most men don’t ask how do you know that women lose their shit if they get asked? 😂 I might compare a hook up to previous hook ups but that happens once. If it is a more serious relationship that means the sex was at least as good as with the other men, otherwise I wouldn’t stay and be in a relationship. Which means there is no need to keep comparing the man I’m with to anyone. My husband is actually the best lover I had if I do have to compare and if I had to guess I’d say our numbers are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:55 PM
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No man has ever tried to confront me about my body count. I also never cared to keep track of the number. And your conclusion is unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:41 PM
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It happened often but not everyday! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:22 PM
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I’ve been much happier since I stopped venting and started distracting myself if I feel like I need to complain to strangers online :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:30 PM
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Dating apps were great when I was doing casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:27 PM
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You keep mentioning them in most of your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:09 PM
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I don’t think I can explain it, but yes, it’s true. I’ve usually been more physically attracted to older men because they have more fully developed masculine features even when I was very young. But the body is important too, at least the overall shape of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:09 PM
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You’re just not with the right person. This is how I felt about all of my high school relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:05 PM
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So why do you keep thinking about the sluts that you slept with almost 20 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:54 PM
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Are you satisfied with your sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:47 PM
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You’re sweet, thanks! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:24 AM
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It’s fun sometimes and I didn’t see any studies from the opposite side in this thread. Also I care about your relationship, tell me more about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:32 PM
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Why would I need studies if my relationship is great?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:18 PM
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We are 26 and 25 😂 I met him when I was 20 and he was 19, we were together for 3 years, I broke up with him to travel (he was in med school and couldn’t) and got back together after almost 3 years. During those years neither of us could get over the other and it wasn’t due to lack of trying or lack of options. It is the opposite of what you’re saying. Those girls probably have low libidos so they want a similar man. There’s nothing wrong with that, I think finding your libido match is the most i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:14 PM
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There was nothing wrong with my receptors, I just planned to travel full time in my 20s. But I agree with your last sentence. We both have very high sex drives and don’t care much about social judgement so collecting all those bodies was just the side effect of that, not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:59 PM
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😂 He is one of the “others”. Our relationship started as a series of hook ups back when neither of us had planned to have a committed relationship. And sex never came with a price for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:48 PM
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Sex with most men I’ve slept with was not an emotional action for me. Sex with my husband is most of the time emotional yet I still don’t get bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:35 PM
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I love to brag about my man but it’s usually not humble :)) But in this case I think the other guy’s explanation makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:35 PM
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Because a couple months ago some other people said the same. I’m not entirely sure what’s the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:18 PM
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Sorry to disappoint, but I’m still only me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:08 PM
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Maybe. He was laughing while he said it but we’ve been out like this before and it’s the first time it happened :))
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:07 PM
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Note to myself: don’t go to a bar with your husband and all your girl friends if you don’t want the waiter to think that you’re all dating him 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:06 PM
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There’s no need for that. Just take some photos with your phone in natural lighting such as outside but not in direct sunlight or inside next to a window.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:26 AM
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He has no choice now but to stay anyway 😂 but we both lost a bit of weight in the past month so we need nicer meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:35 PM
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My brothers would have handled that without my dad saying anything 😂 I don’t think the husband found the best way to deal with it, but I wouldn’t punish my son either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:29 PM
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She has potential to look much better than this!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:26 PM
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I love cooking for my man and I don’t understand why other women wouldn’t. It makes me feel so good when I see that he’s enjoying what I made for him and asks for a second serving :) Although I probably wouldn’t feel the same if I was forced to do it 3 times a day and every single day. But if it’s not an expectation then it’s still a great feeling! Today I used my grandma’s recipe to make lamb chops and then I also made a fruit tart just because I was bored. Ah and frozen cucumber mojitos, witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:24 PM
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We finally eloped on Friday :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:50 PM
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I think I look the best with my natural curls unless I have a bad hair day. He still likes it when I get a blowout with big waves which is the most universally appealing. He just doesn’t like very straight hair, I found it weird too but I don’t think it’s to uglify me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:07 PM
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Most don’t really care about hair color. But my husband is the only man I dated who hates it when I straighten my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:52 PM
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He doesn’t have that, but he has 24 hour shifts sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:47 PM
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He comes back early in the morning and we usually have sex, then we go back to sleep for a few hours. I love that routine, but I still prefer being cuddled up the whole night and not waking up to every little noise because I’m alone in the apartment :))
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:33 PM
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Are there any other signs that she likes or doesn’t like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:04 PM
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No nightshifts for my man this week. I’ve been sleeping so well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:00 PM
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Yes, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:30 AM
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That’s terrible. It’s definitely a reason for the family to step in!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:02 PM
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Thanks, that’s nice of you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:01 PM
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He is very handsome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:00 PM
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It can be a fun way to kill time as long as I don’t take it too seriously. That doesn’t always happen :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:00 PM
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True :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:59 PM
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Hi!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:59 PM
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Thanks, it helped with my baby fever 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:36 AM
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It was an interesting read! My therapist suggested that I try meditation too, so that might be the next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:35 AM
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That’s all my man lacks from the list… he needs to fix that!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:33 AM
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I think it helped me when I couldn’t discuss my relationship with others and I didn’t go to therapy, but it doesn’t have the same effect anymore. It might even be making my mental health worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:32 AM
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6 golden retrievers :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:30 AM
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They can’t pay you if you’re dead…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:30 AM
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Body type and face are equally important, then height, haircut, how he dresses and cooking skills, in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:45 AM
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I need to limit my time on here and how seriously I’m taking the replies I get. Yesterday my man noticed that I was in a bad mood and on my phone a lot. I usually try to not do that when he is around but I slipped up this time. I didn’t want him to think that it’s anything worse, so I said fuck it, and just showed him some of my posts here. He thought it was a strange place and didn’t understand why I keep venting on here. But he also said I am splitting hairs way too much, taking what strangers…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:43 AM
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That’s just sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:38 AM
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Ah you’re right, he was worse than me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:17 PM
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What the fuck, are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:16 PM
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No, I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:04 PM
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Where’s that woman who wanted to cheat on her husband? I miss not feeling like the worst person here…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:53 PM
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After I went back from my parents house and we had that very long talk, I told him it’s fine if we wait to have a proper wedding with everyone invited. He said that’s not what he wanted. I didn’t tell him to tell his parents before we eloped because not telling them was his idea and his choice ever since he brought up getting married!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:52 PM
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I was surprised that he had these kind of insecurities too because he has no reason at all to be insecure, except me I guess… That’s why I keep thinking and talking about it, it makes me feel guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:17 PM
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My dad and I were born in Europe but my mom and my grandpa from dad’s side are North African. And yes, I heard that a lot, I even told myself similar things, but it never helped :)) We are legally married now so the cycles of the hook ups and the break ups are over!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:05 PM
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I’m not leaving him no matter what and he knows that. You used to say that I was afraid that he would leave me if he told his parents and they convinced him not to be with me… But neither of these 2 things is ever going to happen. I only want him to be happy. He seems much better now that he was fully honest about what he’s going through and we got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:50 PM
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I’m not lying to him and I never meant to manipulate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:41 PM
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It’s a very long story, but I’ll try to sum it up. His parents never liked me. It’s mostly because of some cultural stuff, my family being more assimilated and a lot less conservative, and me even more so. I met my man through my twin brother. We started hooking up and planned to make it short term but it didn’t work out that way. We fell in love and were in a relationship for 3 years. But neither of us planned for that to happen, I already knew I wanted to travel full time, so after those 3 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:40 PM
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I usually don’t, but they all said the same thing so I wondered if there’s some truth in it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:29 PM
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When it comes to your husband’s situation, I too would stay by my husband’s side without question and it’s crazy that woman found it weird. Living in the car is a different story… I can’t imagine how that could work. And if they’re saving up that means they work and have money for rent. Just go and rent a place at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:02 PM
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She sucks but there are plenty of good ones out there! You just need to find a different therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:56 PM
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A few Red Pill men said that they feel bad for my man. I wish I could just laugh it off but I still feel guilty about some of the stuff I did that ended up hurting him. So instead I’m asking them to explain and tell me what I can do to make it better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:50 PM
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You didn’t explain 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:36 PM
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It wasn’t really taking over all the conversations and talking about myself but not giving him my 100% because I wasn’t sure yet that we would stay together longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:35 PM
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But why do you feel sorry for him? He could be with pretty much anyone else if he wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:33 PM
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You have no reason to be sorry for him, he was exactly the same or worse than me when we met 😂 Neither of us planned to fall in love, it just happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:16 PM
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Well I broke up with him 3 years ago to travel full time. I don’t think I would have done it if he could also travel with me (he was in med school) or if I didn’t want to do that, but back then I also wasn’t sure if I’m completely monogamous. Now it’s different, but unless I would have also been a completely different person back then, I still wouldn’t change the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:14 PM
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I’m fully dedicated to him now, but it wasn’t always like that… So maybe you are right and they could somehow sense it in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:11 PM
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If she only slept with those people in order to get something else out of it such as potential marriage, then sure. But I don’t think anyone should have sex for such reasons. I don’t regret any of my past flings even if my husband was and will be the best man I could ever get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:58 PM
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Them hating me doesn’t have anything to do with that so once they accept me despite the other unrelated reasons they and everyone else can find out about it. We will have a proper wedding too and they will be invited.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:36 PM
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No, and that’s not going to happen any time soon. They need to hate me less first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:27 PM
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I will try to do my best! Maybe they actually don’t want us to be enemies, that’s why they’re coming? I can only hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:27 PM
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My in-laws are going to visit us soon. They’re staying at a hotel, not our place, but I still need to somehow make them hate me less, especially his mother… It will be my first time seeing them since we got back together. Any tips and tricks or even black magic spells are welcome :)) I honestly have no idea what to expect, they just announced that they wanted to come yesterday…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:07 AM
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I don’t think all men want a woman like this or that this is the top. Mine didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:46 PM
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It can be fun sometimes as long as it isn’t too graphic and I’m not watching it alone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:20 PM
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That’s so sweet, thank you <3 We talked about having kids recently and agreed that we should wait at least a few years. Until then my nephew will get all the attention :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:35 AM
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The 2nd and 4th look pretty much matched, I would rate them the same both as women and men. The other 2 look around 1 point higher as women. But overall everyone looks very average or somewhat below.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:33 AM
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If we compare how most men and women present themselves: styling, makeup, skincare, hair, clothes and so on, then there are more beautiful women than handsome men. However if we look at men and women straight out of the shower then the average of their looks are on the same level. I only dated conventionally attractive men and I never had trouble finding and attracting them so I can’t find any other explanation for this epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:15 AM
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In 3 years and traveling all over the world I couldn’t find someone who is even slightly better or at least comes close to making me feel the same. So I just gave up, at that point we were meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:04 AM
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It’s not really about adding stuff to the description, now that you said that you have feelings for her and like her that’s basically all you need and shouldn’t care about what others think of her. But I’ll have to agree with sexual compatibility being very important. However it’s not about her being willing to ride you nonstop regardless if you have a high sex drive or not, but your libidos and desires being compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:54 AM
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I tried this when I was alpha widowed, it never worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:36 AM
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Are you attracted to her and do you really like her or are you just looking for a wife? From your description it sounds more like friend material to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:34 AM
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Like the “are we dating the same guy” groups? Doesn’t that break privacy laws as an app?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:33 AM
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What is this app about? I keep seeing people talk about it on this sub-Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:26 AM
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Seeing my husband play with my nephew is making the baby fever unbearable :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:25 AM
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I thought he knew it and I’m usually more physically affectionate, but I’ll tell him what I feel more often!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:57 PM
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I do most of the physical things you describe very often, but I’m going to verbalize how hot I find him more!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:56 PM
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We had a few big arguments lately, but I hope that’s in the past. He gets all the sex he wants, I don’t think we ever refused each other and I like to initiate a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:15 PM
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He gets a lot of those!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:14 PM
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It’s just surprising to hear him say this. I know he knows that he is very objectively attractive, it would be stupid not to. And of course I have the hots for him, but I think I show it more physically than with words. I did reassure him verbally as well when he brought it up and I’m going to do it more often, not just when we have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:13 PM
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😂 I don’t like PDA, but I’m already very handsy when it’s just the 2 of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:08 PM
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I think for us it’s even, I just didn’t know that he doesn’t feel that way :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:07 PM
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I’m 174 cm so for me there isn’t really too tall. But it’s harder for an extremely tall man to put on a lot of muscle mass and maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:06 PM
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My new mission is to fully convince my man that I am more attracted to him than ever. I thought he already knew it, but when he opened up about his feelings a few days ago, he also brought it up that he thinks he’s more attracted to me than I am to him. Which couldn’t be further from the truth. But it’s true that he compliments me more, basically all the time, while I brag about him more to other people and don’t often express what goes through my mind when I see him. Tips and tricks are welcome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 PM
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Why not your mom’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:37 PM
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I’m not sure, I just had a crisis and changed my lifestyle right before I turned 26. But I can’t help you with not feeling like a granny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:35 PM
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A woman with a natural hourglass or pear shape who isn’t very short.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:24 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:24 PM
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It was a lot more casual than this :))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:24 PM
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I only dated attractive men. I had a lot fewer negative experiences than most other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:51 AM
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I think the natural frame of the body is more important for both, but it includes height too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:48 AM
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You can postpone it for 1 year. That’s what I did 😂 Then get married to your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:46 AM
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Wear clothes that fit you well, correct your posture, be well-groomed, work on your small talk or pickup lines without being too generic or boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:45 AM
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We got married 2 days ago and things have been really great <3 Yesterday my man went to get checked out again to make sure he can go back to work on Monday. He’s perfectly healthy and his headaches aren’t that bad now. We also got invited to his childhood best friend’s and his girlfriend’s house for a garden party. We were the first ones to arrive, so the girlfriend showed me around their house while my man talked to his friend. He really wasn’t a big fan of me the last time I saw him, but now h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:42 AM
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😂 we’re walking, maybe driving because it’s getting late, not flying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:42 PM
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I dated some of them but I think they don’t work that much in Europe. At least I never noticed it but things never got serious enough with any of them for me to care about how much they work :))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:40 PM
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Doctors here can’t work more than 50 hours a week and I always thought that was a lot! Most people work less than 40 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:38 PM
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Why do you work so much and how is it allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:44 PM
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I’ll just get another drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:43 PM
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We’re getting ready to go out and I asked him if the dress I picked out is too short. It wasn’t a trick question, I was willing to wear something else if he didn’t like it. But he said that he has accepted that I’d look hot even if he put me in a potato sack so I should wear whatever I want as long as I feel good in it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:39 PM
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It won’t solve our problems, but I don’t see it changing things for the worse. We already live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:35 PM
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It’s normal that he has some insecurities given our past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:34 PM
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He has had plenty of opportunities to get with other women so I’m not worried about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:03 PM
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Can shit really hit the fan more than it already did? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:02 PM
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I don’t disagree with you, but I already gave up on the idea of trying to make this relationship “normal”. We just need to make the best of what we got.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:41 PM
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We can’t get married religiously anyway, it will only be at the courthouse. I know I have hurt him a lot more than he has hurt me. But neither of us could ever move on so we might as well make the best of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:40 PM
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Why would he need a side chick? I’m usually a bit too much for him on my own :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:38 PM
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We will have that after we elope. I really don’t think I’ll regret it. I had more than a month to think about it. If it was a spur of the moment decision to say yes, I should have changed my mind by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:37 PM
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Honestly, I don’t have a “good enough” reason. There are many things I said I’d never do and then I’m doing them because of this man. It just feels right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:34 PM
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It’s because either we talked about everything that we feel or we made love the whole night. I can’t explain it that well but I never felt this close to another person before in my life. Almost like we share the same mind and body. A marriage certificate doesn’t solve everything, but it gives him some security. I’ll make the rest of his worries go away eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:18 PM
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I’m done with the drama too. He was finally honest, he will get therapy and we will solve all our issues together. He wants to get married so there’s no reason not to do it. I never felt this much love before :))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:10 PM
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He wants to and this has been the plan for the past month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:06 PM
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But proposing to me and saying that he wants to elope was to tie me down and make me stay. He stressed that he does trust me and doesn’t think I’m lying when I tell him that I love him and want to stay with him forever, but he also knows me and how easily I can change my mind. So even though I’m being honest with him right now there’s no guarantee that I’ll always feel the same. And he wanted to have another reason to make me stay other than love. But he felt guilty about having such feelings ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:36 AM
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Yesterday he was really surprised to see me when he came back to the apartment. I asked him why he didn’t answer my calls and he said he planned to call me back and say that he fell asleep because he didn’t expect me to come back so soon… And yes, he was at the gym, pale as fuck and sweaty, could barely stand without shaking… I burst into tears when I saw him in that state. He started coming up with the excuses, saying he’s fine, that he stopped when he started feeling unwell… But I could see hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:32 AM
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Girl, you definitely know how to make me feel like the shittiest person in the world… I was bitching about it because I’m worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:42 PM
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I get it, I’m terrible, I’m a hypocrite, he has no reason to be in love with me, I’m only with him to torment him and so on… but at least do I get to be worried if he lives or dies? Genuinely, I don’t know what he’s trying to achieve, I just want him to be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:31 PM
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… There’s no other chick. He can’t even handle me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:28 PM
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Yes, I know that. But he should be resting and definitely not working out. He really doesn’t give a fuck about his health. That’s why I’m angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:46 PM
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Honestly, not much…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:45 PM
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I came back from my parents house because I was worried about him. He’s not even fucking here and not picking up the phone. I just know he’s at the gym, when he should be resting. I don’t even care at this point. I’ll just cook some food and pretend I’m not about to explode…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:14 PM
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I still regret what I did back then and wouldn’t do anything like that again. I said this many times, but both getting married and eloping were his ideas! If that changed I expect him to not tell me the same day we actually get green light to be legally married… I don’t care about waiting more and having a proper wedding (his parents know about the engagement and what usually follows after that…), but I never knew that that’s what he wanted because he said the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:07 PM
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We were together for 3 years. I broke up with him because I wanted to travel full time and he couldn’t. 2 years after that we hooked up and it got really messy, that’s when he brought up the elopement the first time. But I left and we were no-contact for a year. Then a couple months ago I came back home, we met by chance, then again and we hooked up. At that time I still wasn’t sure that I wanted to stay home for good and I didn’t want to hurt him more than I already did. That’s when he said tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:04 PM
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Whenever I asked him about the elopement, he said he still wanted to do it until today. So yes, if this is what has been bothering him all this time, he did hide it from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:58 PM
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I don’t have a problem with telling his family after we get married but I still don’t think they should get a say in it. If he gets disowned (financially, and only for some time, I don’t think they would ever disown him for good) I have money for the both of us. I don’t care about that stuff, he’s just too fucking proud and has the his money is our money/my money is my money mentality from the shared parts of our culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:42 PM
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That was to keep me around after we got back together because he thought that’s what I wanted. It’s not. Neither of us fucked other people (except that one time for me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:17 PM
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I didn’t know that it was because he was having second thoughts about eloping. If he told me instead of trying to find other outlets for his frustrations, I wouldn’t even be angry. I thought it was due to trying to make the people in our lives accept that we are together and stuff from work. Because that’s what he told me whenever I asked! I knew about the gym but he did go less frequently after I told him it might be too much. I didn’t know that he wasn’t sleeping or eating properly until he ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:15 PM
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Like a nicer stress ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:32 PM
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If you mean cheating on him while we were on a break, no. That was a very short time and I didn’t do anything. I slept with another guy after I confessed my feelings to him and told him that I’m ready to settle down, to which he said that I don’t get to change the initial conditions (casual relationship and I can sleep with other men if I want to) whenever I feel like it. So I stuck to the initial agreement. I didn’t know then what I know now and I still regret it because I only did it to hurt h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:31 PM
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But those issues will get resolved eventually. If that’s not the problem, there’s not much I can do about our personalities so will it be like this all my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:28 PM
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He’s going to say that he doesn’t need it and he doesn’t have time for it… but his coping mechanisms are anything but healthy. I’ll try to convince him to at least get individual counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:26 PM
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Our personalities might not be the most compatible, but most of this shit is due to the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:31 PM
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It’s not a break and he didn’t want me to leave. I think I’ll go back tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:31 PM
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It’s not over and I’m not going to do anything stupid. I’m just angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:27 PM
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He just needs to use his big boy words and talk to me when there’s something bothering him instead of trying to self destruct his worries away…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:26 PM
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Maybe that’s what I should have done to make my man get his shit together…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:11 AM
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This morning we finally got approval to get married, just after I almost accepted it’s not going to happen this summer. At first, he looked happy. Only an hour or so later he told me that we need to talk… He said he’s not sure about eloping anymore, it wouldn’t even be an elopement because we had to wait so much, and we can just get married the usual way in 1 year and not have to hide it from people. I asked if this is why he has been stressed out and acting different lately, and he confirmed it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:08 AM
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I’m trying to reduce it for him, but there’s not much I can do about him being a surgical resident and his family not approving of our relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:14 PM
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😂 I still can’t believe that this is normal and healthy, but maybe I was overreacting again and it’s not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:53 PM
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He has always been lean and athletic because he played at least one sport at a time all his life. He wants more muscle mass even though I think he looks perfect now. I don’t think he’s eating more than his maintenance calories most days so I’m not sure what he’s trying to achieve except piss me off…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:21 PM
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We live in Europe. Apparently it’s illegal to elope here because we checked every country that’s close :( Getting married in one of the countries our parents are from would be even more difficult. I would fly to the USA to get married but it’s not doable in the next few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:18 PM
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No. It’s impossible to get an appointment in the city where we live in less than a year. That’s why we chose a small town. And it’s still taking months at this point because of all the paperwork even if there are free slots there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:51 PM
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How does this make sense? It was 1 week. I don’t even want to know what he did when we were broken up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:46 PM
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We’re together now and I love him more than ever. We are more or less happy, but I should probably convince him to get therapy too... He just tends to get obsessive about stuff: me, work, the fucking gym… I hope it’s just that because he keeps saying that everything is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:08 PM
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This sounds unhinged. Physical attraction is very important. Lying about other things such as finances is strange too. How can they even judge your personality from a few chats online?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:33 PM
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I came back from the trip yesterday and we still can’t get married… we picked a small town nearby because it would take forever to get approved in our city, and it’s still taking forever. I also had to cancel therapy today so I’ll vent here again… My man picked me up from the airport yesterday. I told him he doesn’t have to do it if it messes with his work schedule. He said it’s fine and he’s free. Turns out he switched with someone else just to be free yesterday, and ended up having 2 nightshif…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:31 PM
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She would have a heart attack if she saw me at 19 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:54 PM
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I don’t play doubles often but practice as much as you can and get a good coach. I would need to see you play to give better advice but working on your 2-handed backhand can never hurt. Many beginners have a really stiff posture and aren’t leaning forward enough. Is your partner a stronger or weaker player than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:53 PM
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The more time I’m going to spend with the man, the higher the bar is. So this just doesn’t make any sense to me. Especially as someone with a high sex drive, I settled down with the man I was having the most fun with and desired the most :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:01 PM
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It’s his friend, not mine. We never liked each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:49 PM
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The first time I met my man I was actually FaceTiming my brother while doing my gap year abroad. He was with his new friends, including him, and introduced them to me. Today my man told me that he has liked me ever since then. I wish I could say the same, but back then I was in that weird relationship and not very lucid most of the time… Once I actually met him in person, everything changed. I don’t know why he waited all this time to tell me this but I love him even more for it <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:43 PM
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It’s been like that for years, but she only came clean about it recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:51 PM
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They didn’t hook up, so that’s good 😂 She was probably just trying to make my man jealous…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:28 PM
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She’s annoying, can’t I find her annoying? What confuses me is why would she do this now, and not when we weren’t together and she might have had a small chance… I can’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:12 PM
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I never cared about her “secret” crush until she pulled all the crap she did recently…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:08 PM
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I can’t lie, I love me some nice biceps and washboard abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:07 PM
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She needs a man, just not my man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:29 PM
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Oh, nice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:29 PM
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No one is forcing those men to sleep with women they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:50 PM
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When we were out on Friday night, the friend who has feelings for my man got hit on and she was receptive! They exchanged numbers, left for a bit, came back to dance and made out. She didn’t go home with him, but I hope they get married soon <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:49 PM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:43 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:43 PM
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I complain too much about him spending all this time at the gym, but his body is the hottest ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:42 PM
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It’s what I’ve been posting always. I said that I wasn’t sure that I’m monogamous before. I think if I wanted it to be a ragebait, I would say I’m still thinking about other men’s dicks 😂 fortunately his is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:33 AM
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How is it ragebait? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:24 AM
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Mine is chest length, it would be longer if it was straight, so he would have to be a male Rapunzel :) But shoulder length would bring out his waves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:23 AM
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I’m going on a girls trip in a couple days. It was supposed to be 10 nights but got reduced to 6 because one of the girls has to come back earlier. I feel bad but I’m secretly happy. Even that one week feels too long… My man doesn’t seem to mind that I’m going on a trip without him so soon, with a bunch of single girls, one of them in her newfound hoe phase after getting cheated on in her longterm relationship. But I will miss him too much! And surprisingly I don’t miss sleeping around with othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:05 AM
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I think he just wanted to tease me. He hasn’t brought it up since. Or he got scared that I’m going to be bald too 😂 I would actually love his hair to be a bit longer than it is right now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:57 AM
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I can’t pick just one! 4th in the 1st row, 2nd in the 2nd row, all 3 in the last row :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:12 PM
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Mine too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:10 PM
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Very thick, silky, a tiny bit wavy, great hairline, young Alain Delon length. Mine is 3a curly and chest length. If I shave it, it will take ages to grow back…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:08 PM
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Very bad… I love his hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:05 PM
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No! :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:05 PM
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First thing he tells me after we wake up is that he wants to get a buzz cut… I told him I’ll get one too if he does 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:27 AM
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It’s most men who I’ve been with casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:42 AM
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Those men and the women from the post deserve each other. Leave the rest of us out of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:40 AM
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What I don’t get is how can any women ask less from the man she wants to be with longterm than her ONS. It was never like that for me or any other woman I know who had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:48 PM
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Boys night out for him, and I’m listening to this song. It was not a good idea. I hope he wakes me up when he gets home 😂 But I’m glad that he is finally back to being close with his best friends, including my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:46 PM
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I didn’t want to be in a serious relationship, at least not until I was much older than when I met him. But I fell in love and I couldn’t not be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:59 PM
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She’s not ugly, but she’s kind of my opposite. She dated someone after we first got together. I don’t know about anyone else. It was the first time she confessed, and it was a drunk and confrontational text to me which I showed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:51 PM
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I’m not sure what to tell you. My man was a bit insecure about my clothes too, but it was a very brief period of time when we were going and putting each other through a lot of crap… Now he’s back to how he was before, just hyping me up. Maybe there’s a reason he suddenly changed too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:32 PM
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It’s not your fault, there’s a lot of previous context that I don’t write down all the time. Sometimes I just treat this place to gather my thoughts and get advice, even my therapist knows about it :)) No, I don’t expect him to never talk to her at all. Just no hanging out just the two of them and so on. Which was his idea too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:25 PM
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More like 6 years… When I met him, they had been friends for a year and she was all over him. I don’t know if he was oblivious or just didn’t care at all. But I didn’t mind either because I didn’t want a serious relationship, it just turned out that way. And she toned it down a lot once we started officially dating. Then 3 years ago I broke up with him because he was in med school and I wanted to travel full time. We only got back together again a couple months ago so he had all the time to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:23 PM
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I don’t think I’m going to say anything unless she switches up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:19 PM
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Does he ever take off his shirt at the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:15 PM
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I thought I wasn’t the crazy one this time :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:14 PM
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I have happy love, shit just keeps fucking happening to us all the time… but I know I am somewhat responsible for all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:08 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:08 PM
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… It’s not like that. He’s never liked her, he could have had her any time in the 3 years we were broken up. I think he doesn’t mind it because of that, and I know he would never cheat with her. I think I could get him to cut her off fully, and everyone else in the friend group who might have a problem with that. But we are already having problems getting our relationship accepted by his parents, I don’t want to alienate him from more people…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:07 PM
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I trust him fully and I can’t even imagine him ever liking his friend, but I feel like he’s treating this situation too lightly. I know that I was the one who said that he shouldn’t even talk to her about it, and it’s probably because he knows I trust him. But I’m not sure making plans to go out with the friend group including her (also me) so soon is a good idea. I didn’t tell him this, just thinking about it, so it is not his fault. She did talk to him today, she apologized, she said she was h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:39 PM
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But how do you know? In a previous reply you said you just trust them to tell the truth… that’s not a very good strategy if you barely know them. It only takes one time to ruin your health, all the other times can be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:56 AM
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Yes, STDs. I never did that in a casual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:21 AM
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Do you fuck without a condom? Yes, that would be my biggest dealbreaker in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:00 AM
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That’s how we met 😂 minus the stuff you describe as “freaky”. From my experience, that is only a small percentage of the high sex drive people who like to have casual sex. Most of them, if they don’t have other issues, just have a high libido and enjoy sex, but aren’t ready to settle down in a relationship. I wouldn’t care at all about the first part because I was the same. He’s a bit more vanilla than me, I was in a throuple once and that was basically the “freakiest” thing either of us did. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:47 AM
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This isn’t about me being insecure and comparatively ugly 😂 I knew he was hot when I first met him, I wouldn’t want to change that. I usually don’t mind that he gets attention and neither does he. But we’ve both been a bit more jealous lately, although he said he likes it because I was very nonchalant about other women before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:20 PM
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Ah I have my own part to play in the drama too…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:53 PM
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What I posted about earlier today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:44 PM
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I need to start boxing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:44 PM
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I do as well, but I want to do all the social couples activities too!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:43 PM
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They’re part of a bigger friend group so that would make it worse :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:42 PM
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I don’t think this is very likely to happen :))
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:15 PM
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He doesn’t. It gets weirder if it’s not strangers, but someone he knows…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:08 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:02 PM
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I could never be with an introvert, and I don’t think most of them would want to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:01 PM
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Other women noticing what a catch he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:00 PM
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Double the drama!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:00 PM
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Everyone wants a hot man until it comes with all the hot man drama…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:18 PM
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He has a mixed friend group that formed while they were in med school. After that some others joined such as his childhood best friend’s partner. I don’t have a problem with him having female friends. It was never an issue when we were first dating years ago, and it wouldn’t be now either if she didn’t act like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:17 PM
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I hope so!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:13 PM
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I hope not much. He’s going to interact with her less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:41 PM
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Cutting her off is not really possible. But after this I don’t think we can pretend that everything is okay either :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:31 PM
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Yes, I didn’t want it to turn out this way. But because she doubled down, my man will need to put some distance between them and that will raise some questions from their other friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:30 PM
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She’s also aiming at me while shooting that shot 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:28 PM
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No, I don’t think I do. What resources do you mean? He’s always treated her like he treats his male friends. And I never wanted to make him cut her off even though I always knew she didn’t like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:27 PM
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My man talked to his friend who has a crush on him. We expected her to take back the confession because she was drunk when she texted me. But instead she doubled down, confessed to him as well, told him he should break up with me or I’ll end up breaking his heart again… After that I received a few other texts… I don’t understand why she waited all this time to tell him. She is doing all of this now when we are together and engaged. She had 3 years but she never said a word. My brother said I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:58 AM
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Maybe it’s saying versus thinking. But no one thinks those 2 people are both 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:28 AM
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No one thinks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:16 AM
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Ah I thought you meant the older one where I first talked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:11 PM
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I said both in that thread. When someone asked me what was exactly in the text, I told him that there was name calling and saying I don’t deserve him too. You can go back and check.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:48 PM
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What do you mean? I was always honest to my man since we started over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:21 PM
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But you keep telling me to be honest… the one time I am you think I shouldn’t have been? :( I tried to convince him not to bring it up, but he said he can’t do that. It wasn’t just a message confessing her feelings, it was a drunk text full of name calling and swearing at me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:02 AM
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I don’t think I have many. It’s probably because I didn’t plan to have a serious relationship until my 30s. I definitely didn’t care when I was 20 and I met my man. It just turned serious unexpectedly. And it doesn’t matter much when you’re looking for flings. But I could never be with someone who smells bad and is a terrible person. That’s broad because I’ve always decided on a case by case basis. I never cared about having matching lifestyles, hobbies or personalities, until it clashed with mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:47 PM
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These are all relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:42 PM
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My man is going to talk to his friend who confessed to me that she has feelings for him tomorrow… I told him a few times that it’s not necessary, but he insists. He said he’s just going to make it clear where they stand and explain to her that there can never be anything between them other than friendship. If she wants that good, if not he’s going to pull away more. Even though I initially planned to ignore it, he was glad that I showed him the text she sent me. I hope I did the right thing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:40 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:39 PM
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That’s a lot. Why do you want to make your cheekbones pop just to have them shaved?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:28 PM
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It’s just the way he types. I think these things stop meaning anything by high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:27 PM
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I don’t think I ever refused a beggar. It’s the reason I carry cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:26 PM
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Breakfast in bed, my favorite flowers just because, and we are checking out an art exhibition later today. It’s nice being an almost wife <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:25 PM
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😂 you lost the plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:22 PM
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What circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:11 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:11 PM
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I need more details than that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:51 PM
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I meant if she ever reciprocated. I’m glad my man fought for me, but he also knew that I wasn’t indifferent toward him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:39 PM
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How do you describe a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:37 PM
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Waiting for my man to come home from the gym to feed him dinner and show him the text… I hoped for a more romantic conversation :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:18 PM
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Depends on the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:17 PM
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What if they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:16 PM
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Can good men have baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:07 PM
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I’m not sure what this has to do with my post? But most of his female friends are attractive and not single. This woman is attractive too, she just needs to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:43 PM
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Most people don’t want to be sad and lonely forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:20 PM
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She’s not fat, ugly or old, but she’s my opposite in every other way… I don’t believe that, but I don’t have any male friends. I tried to in high school, and they all eventually tried to hit on me, so I just gave up. But I don’t mind him having female friends. I would prefer if they weren’t praying for my downfall though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:17 PM
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I don’t think they would ever take my side instead of hers, except my man and my brother. But maybe you are right. We shouldn’t keep secrets from each other, even if I don’t think it’s such a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:51 PM
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I already knew she doesn’t like me, to word it nicely. It’s not really a surprise. But won’t she hate me more if I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:42 PM
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He has to suspect something, I’ve kind of joked about it before, but she hasn’t confessed before. If I tell him, he will have to talk to her about it. It will fuck up the very fragile balance I have with their friend group once again…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:41 PM
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Confessing her feelings, saying I don’t deserve him, calling me names and a lot of swearing. But it was full of typos and very erratic, I had to basically put the words together…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:16 PM
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Last night I received a barely readable text from the woman I’ve been suspecting of having a crush on my man for many years confessing that she has feelings for him. She was definitely drunk. I considered showing it to my man, but they have been friends for 6 years. She hates me but I don’t want to humiliate her. And it would mess up the dynamic in their friend group again. I didn’t reply to the text and I’ll just pretend I never saw it… I am not happy about being right, but I don’t feel as jeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:54 PM
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My dad was 33 when he had my older brother, 38 when he had me and my twin. But he got married to my mom 8 years earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:07 AM
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I’m very privileged. This is not the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:43 AM
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Is it a day wedding? What’s the venue? How formal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:34 PM
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Yes, it’s a new start. So far it’s been going better than I could have ever wished.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:33 PM
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He’s already standing his ground about the engagement. But I don’t want him to have to cut them off and choose me. Family is important to him, even if he doesn’t agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:15 PM
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What makes you think that he wouldn’t marry me if we waited? He was the one pursuing me despite all the crap I put him through. I never even wanted to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:25 PM
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His family already hates me. As I told you before, that’s the main reason why we’re doing it this way. It can get a lot messier if they find out about it. Let them think that they have a couple more years to separate us… My brother might try to talk him out of it, but my parents wouldn’t. But he is still my twin and I would need to do a million times worse to get cut off by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:59 PM
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It’s not some huge lie that affects them, it’s not telling them one thing for a few months. It will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:36 PM
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I almost told my twin about our plans to elope. But I know I can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:34 PM
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But you know it’s not your fault. That’s good!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:19 PM
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We did this before 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:13 PM
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I’ve always had a high sex drive but I’ve never been this fucking horny before. I am thinking about it all day. It might be because we live together now and I am around him a lot more often than when we were first together. I was also studying back then, but now I don’t have anything to do. I will start volunteering at an animal shelter next week so that will take a bit of time off my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:33 PM
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Ah :( I wish you a fast recovery!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:25 PM
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Why can’t you drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:21 PM
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You have a Hello Kitty image for every situation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:14 PM
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My twin has a day off tomorrow and I managed to convince him to get brunch with me. I missed him so much, I hope we can go back to being inseparable :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:08 PM
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:)) the schedule isn’t that awful where we live,m. My brother considered moving to the US, but he’s heard that being overworked when you’re at the start of your career is very common there. But I still complain about both of them having too little free time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:44 PM
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Ah I am proud of him for having such a tough job. But we both come from money, he’s doing it because he actually likes it and he’s wanted to be a doctor all his life. I broke up with him a few years ago because I wanted to travel full time and he obviously couldn’t. But I couldn’t get over him. We got back together recently and I am ready to stay home :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:37 PM
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That’s good to hear! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:27 PM
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The best things in life aren’t planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:24 PM
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Having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:23 PM
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Not really, but I’ve accepted it :))
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:22 PM
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It is, but the night is long 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:12 PM
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He’s a surgical resident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:11 PM
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I wonder if this is what I sounded like when I was pining for my ex not ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:05 PM
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My good man is off to a nightshift to save lives and I need to spend the night alone with all my baggage :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:03 PM
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😂 that’s exactly what we need!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:02 PM
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It’s a bit late for that. But we never planned to be in a relationship, they live in a different country and by the time I met them we were fully in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:01 PM
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In my case having 2 brothers helps a lot. My older brother works in the family business. My twin could become a doctor and my parents never tried to talk him out of it. And I could just do my own thing as long as it wasn’t too terrible. In his case, he always knew that he wanted to study medicine, but it took his parents years to accept that. Now he has me, who is definitely not the ideal daughter in law… And my family is more assimilated, I don’t think they would have tried to control my life l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:04 PM
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It’s a bit more complicated and cultural, but not every Arab family is as assimilated as mine. Even though his mother isn’t Arab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:56 PM
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You can initiate too. But if he is not receptive at all, there’s not much you can do. I could talk to my man all day long or just stare at him 😂 I can’t imagine feeling that being with him doesn’t make me feel fully alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:54 PM
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Unless you got an arranged marriage, you are supposed to figure this out in the first stages of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:45 PM
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I hope! At least my man is fully on my side. But I don’t want him to have to cut them off because of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:44 PM
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So what is it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:39 PM
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They didn’t like me when we first started dating. This isn’t really about me breaking up with him back then :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:38 PM
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I wish my man wasn’t an only child and his parents didn’t hate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:32 PM
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You said he is emotionally supportive, but he doesn’t have a high enough libido. You keep switching the excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:29 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:28 PM
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What did she say?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:03 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:05 PM
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My dad basically gave us his blessing yesterday. Sure, they’re not going to be happy that we didn’t tell them sooner, but they’ll understand. Again, the real issue is his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:04 PM
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I still feel bad about that. But the only reason I broke up with him years ago was to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:03 PM
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The reason doesn’t exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:34 PM
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My family aren’t the reason why, it’s his. But if I tell people, they will find out too. My man and his parents have a more complicated dynamic. He’s an only child, he had to fight them to make them accept that he wants to be a doctor, not take over the business. But he knew what he wanted since he was a child, so they eventually accepted it. That’s why I couldn’t let him throw his career away even when he was ready to… And they didn’t like me when we were dating for the first time, they certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:34 PM
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That’s different, it’s about creating a new life that I am responsible for. I’m aware that it’s not a good time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:05 PM
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Aw, I can definitely relate :))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:04 PM
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We have been together for almost 3 years in the past. They know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:04 PM
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They know we are going to get married, we’ll just elope before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:46 PM
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😂 that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:45 PM
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Food and physical affection seems to be the popular answer. Then he is very spoiled :) I got him a perfume while I was out today. But it feels like spoiling myself because I get to smell it on him 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:31 PM
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I don’t want to leave him alone :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:23 PM
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He gets a homemade dinner any time we don’t go out to eat. Every sex act means spoiling the both of us 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:01 PM
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:))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:39 PM
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What’s the best way to spoil your partner after a long day at work? Or how do you like to be spoiled? I need ideas :))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:38 PM
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I can’t believe my nephew is already 1 month old! He’s the cutest <3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:09 PM
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I feel fake giving you advice because I don’t know what I’d do in your place as someone with a very high sex drive, but you need to figure it out. If your marriage is important to you and this is the only problem, you’ll have to take care of it yourself. My man has been going to the gym a lot lately too. It doesn’t affect his libido, but I read that overtraining can lower testosterone, especially if it’s long term. That could be the problem with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:57 PM
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Does this mean that you are going through this crisis just because you are horny? You’ve said that your husband doesn’t take care of you emotionally… Tell your husband to get his hormones checked. Is he fit, does he workout?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:43 PM
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I think my parents are almost fully on our side now. Last night turned out so much better than I expected! I still need to fix my relationship with my twin, most of their friend group, and my man’s family… My girl friends are having mixed reactions. But over all they know it’s my life and it won’t affect my friendship with them. And they always thought my man was the hottest I’ve been with 😂 With some more time, life will start to feel normal again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:37 PM
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It’s my family, they’re never going to hate me… I feel a bit of guilt about not telling them, but I have a good reason to do it. And it’s an elopement, something symbolic just for the two of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:00 PM
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We’ll wait a few months before telling people. We’ll probably still end up having a wedding in a couple years. Things happened very quickly and unexpectedly, I get it they’re worried, but telling them about this would make it worse. We want to allow people to get used to the idea of us being engaged first. And we don’t want anyone freaking out and pushing for an annulment, especially his parents…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:52 PM
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Yes, we are hot. No, you don’t want my advice 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:52 PM
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Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:45 PM
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He’s not a good man…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:55 PM
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What’s so strange about this? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:54 PM
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When we were partying in the weekend, he told me that all the men are looking at me. He was laughing and started pointing them out one by one. I told him that he needs to stop looking at other men or I’ll get jealous 😂 I caught some women staring at him too, as usual. But I’m glad I’m not the only one experiencing newfound jealousy :))
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:30 PM
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I turned 26 this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:17 PM
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It hasn’t been a month yet… I’m keeping up with the therapy sessions. I’ve made several bad decisions, but this one feels right. And it can’t get worse than it has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:17 PM
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The engagement only happened because it’s not legal to get married quicker… It is a new start, and I know how it sounds, but it is different. I feel like a new person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:58 PM
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I know we sound crazy, I’ve been told by almost everyone I know… but it is completely different this time. I can’t fully explain it, but I was never fully invested in this relationship before, I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:55 PM
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That’s not going to happen, and I don’t need his money. I was the one who brought up the prenup, I am fine with keeping our finances separate. The problem is he doesn’t like talking about this because he says we aren’t going to divorce anyway, and he doesn’t care about me taking his money… I don’t view it as preparing for divorce, it’s just admin work. But I don’t want him to think otherwise :( I am not sure how his finances are set up, but it probably counts as premarital here. At most it’s the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:48 PM
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Thanks :))
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:15 PM
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Yes, but we come from similar backgrounds. He’s not living off a resident’s salary. I brought up the prenup, but he has the his money is our money, my money is my money attitude. I don’t care about signing something that only advantages me, and he doesn’t want to sign something that is 50/50… But everyone else thinks that we are having a wedding in 1 year or 2, I don’t think my dad wants to talk about money. The elopement is just for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:14 PM
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You shouldn’t dye them very dark then. A lighter brown would look better!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:01 PM
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The trip with the friend group went fine. We are not best friends, but there wasn’t any drama, which is great! My man’s childhood best friend’s girlfriend was the nicest to me, that’s good because I need someone from that group on my side :) We are having dinner with my parents tonight. Just them and my man. Even if we are technically engaged, it feels weird to say fiancé, and I never liked calling him my boyfriend. Just a few more weeks until we elope! Anyway, I hope the talk with my parents wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:00 PM
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Are your lashes very light? I’ve never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:53 AM
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Does he know you are married? And does your husband have a much lower sex drive than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:51 AM
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What if only the emotionally unstable women who are taking advantage of the good man are reading this? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:53 PM
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A handsome face works on me too, followed by a nice body. Other details are still important, style, hygiene (bad hygiene disqualifies even the best looking man), posture, effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:50 PM
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I know I have to wait to have human babies, but is it too early to get a golden retriever? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:43 PM
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Why do you keep repeating it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:40 PM
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Oh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:39 PM
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Foid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:30 PM
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I ran him a bath after he came back from the gym last night and washed his hair which made us late as fuck, but I felt like it was a good time to talk to him about his feelings and if there’s anything troubling him that I can help with. He said he was stressed about people, especially his parents, not accepting our relationship and has been using the gym to tire out himself to relieve it. But he noticed that he was overdoing it too and he said he would reduce it. Some of the explanations I got h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:30 PM
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The last time I went was years ago. I prefer being active outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:13 PM
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Ah I really hope it’s not. He says and looks happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:12 PM
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Alcohol and a knife? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:50 PM
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I don’t know how often he went when we weren’t together. Years ago it was just a few times for 1 hour or 2. From what I know, it’s been almost daily for the past month since we rekindled, he didn’t go while we were on vacation, then went everyday since then. But we’re on a trip with his friends, I hoped he could take a break :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:49 PM
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I don’t think it’s the first two. He’s lean and muscular, but not like a bodybuilder. I will talk to him tomorrow, I’ve been joking about going that much (when we were first together, he would go a few times a week) but he’s laughing it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:46 PM
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That doesn’t sound good :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:44 PM
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What about going everyday for 2-3 hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:37 PM
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How much gym is too much gym? And can men develop body dysmorphia? Before we “ran away”, someone here said he must be insecure, that’s why he’s with me. I can’t find a single reason why he could be insecure, but I can’t stop thinking about it. Maybe this fitness addiction is a sign? Or is pushing yourself until you’re shaky and nauseous normal? I want to know if I should be worried or not… Ah and he’s there again… I think hours every single day is a bit excessive. And we’re going to be late goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:22 PM
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Thanks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:09 PM
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😂 what if that’s what the good man wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:09 PM
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I’m going on a trip with my twin, my man, and their friend group. Most of them hate me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:20 AM
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Wish me luck for the next 3 days :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:04 AM
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My parents always liked him, I know it was unexpected for them, but they always said that we would get back together. I love him, but my brother needs to stay out of it this time…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:39 PM
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I know, I just don’t want the past to generate more drama and future problems :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:20 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:12 PM
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I don’t have male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:11 PM
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What’s done is done, I don’t see what I can do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:10 PM
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My dad wants to talk to my man one-on-one… I’ve been trying to find out what my brother has been telling him but he wouldn’t say. I just want all the fucking drama to end now :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:50 PM
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You’re right, I have 3a hair that turns into a ball of fluff if not washed right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:50 PM
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Promiscuous people usually end up together when they’re ready to settle down. It is not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:21 PM
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I have my location shared with my brother and a few friends. I had my boyfriend added too when we were together years ago. I will probably add him again, it hasn’t come up. It’s just for safety reason when I was in a different country alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:17 PM
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That’s what we do!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:56 AM
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I’m starting to like my therapist :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:52 AM
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I don’t think you’ll believe it, but it’s different this time and I know it will work because I’m fully invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:37 PM
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I’ve known him for almost 6 years. Then we had a 3 year relationship, and almost 3 years broken up. The only thing I regret is that I didn’t say yes when he suggested it a year ago. But this time it was different, more level-headed and not desperate. I know how it sounds to others, because basically everyone has been trying to convince us that we are crazy. I feel completely different, it’s like a switch went off, and despite it seeming like the most impulsive thing, to me it feels the right thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:33 PM
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Don’t do that to your skin!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:51 PM
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I haven’t caught her with a judging expression again 😂 she hides it better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:50 PM
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I’m just doing what I should have done last year instead of breaking his heart :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:49 PM
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We want to elope, it unfortunately doesn’t work like in the movies, so he got me a ring in Italy while we convince the government that we don’t have other spouses :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:21 PM
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Ah I am venting here again, I need to text my therapist :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:15 PM
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My brother switched up and he is convinced I am the victim now. He thought I was having a mental health crisis due to moving back home earlier than I planned, then “running away with my ex” a few weeks after. I know it was shocking for him because I didn’t tell him anything, just right before I left, and then showed up with a ring… Last year I was the bad guy, this year it’s his best friend, and he thinks he’s somehow taking advantage of me and my guilt. It couldn’t be farther from the truth. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:14 PM
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What if they don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:48 PM
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This one that I replied to. The obese woman can’t be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:19 PM
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She looks slightly worse than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:15 PM
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:/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:39 PM
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Eugh! I would have tried out an open relationship with him years ago, but never like this. He never wanted to and I don’t anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:38 PM
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Finally, the answer I want!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:35 PM
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How he’s feeling with all this attention 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:35 PM
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Ah I Googled it, and no, never!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:34 PM
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I just want all of him all the time, is that bad? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:33 PM
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What’s that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:27 PM
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I’m trying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:27 PM
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When women are too nice to him or stare at him, I feel more territorial. I used to laugh about it or just not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:26 PM
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Now that our relationship is more healthy, I feel more jealous and obsessive about him. Should it be that way? I was scared that without the toxicity my feelings will get less intense, but the opposite is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:10 PM
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😂 thank God I had a doctor with me :))
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:05 PM
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I don’t, I’ve always got them randomly :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:05 PM
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I got a bad nosebleed while playing tennis today and almost threw up. I hate blood :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:03 PM
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It’s 8 and the other man’s was slightly larger. It depends on the woman’s anatomy and how the man uses whatever size he’s got. Too big can be painful if he doesn’t care whether he hurts you or not and in that case smaller is better, but it can also be used in different ways. For me yes, larger is better, it’s not all that matters, but it usually helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:56 PM
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Sometimes I look at him the “wrong” way, fully clothed and not meaning to initiate, and he gets hard. I don’t think what you expect is crazy, but does he have a lower sex drive than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:53 PM
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:))
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:09 PM
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If you have the time and the money, why wouldn’t you want to look good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:56 PM
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😂 it feels normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:46 PM
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It depends what circles you move in. In mine they might not get rewarded, but if they aren’t well groomed they will get penalized for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:41 PM
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😂 there’s no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:33 PM
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Ah we are very happy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:33 PM
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It’s a secret :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:32 PM
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:))) mine isn’t even funny :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:32 PM
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AMA while my man hibernates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:10 PM
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It doesn’t match my aesthetic. And it’s not even hippie so I can’t blame it on my style back then :( Just a phrase and a very basic black font.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:10 PM
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It’s on the lower back which I heard is easy to remove, but some of the scars I’ve seen after removal look terrible. And I don’t want to regret both getting it and removing it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:04 PM
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26 years and 2 days old, and my mom was right about the shitty tattoo I got when I was 18 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:54 AM
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I can say being promiscuous as a woman. But most of the time it’s online so it doesn’t affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:42 AM
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It’s after a nightshift.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:01 AM
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I’m bored but he needs his beauty sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:45 AM
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It’s not just the dick, it’s what he does with it. The biggest I’ve been with was too big, but it was because the guy was obsessed with it while not knowing how to make good use of it. My current partner is almost the same size, but it’s a night and day difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:05 AM
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My first rate was a 7, but I was feeling generous 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:54 AM
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Just marry him wtf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:49 AM
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It might be in other countries, I’m not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:44 AM
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An 8? Or a bit less. All her features are attractive, but they’re all too big for her face and way too much all together, huge lips, huge eyelashes, overfilled chin, overfilled cheeks. It’s the same with her body, it’s a lot for her small frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:36 AM
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I wish eloping was easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:31 AM
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Remind me in 34 years 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:16 AM
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26 is the new 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:15 AM
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Family is very important to the both of us, but we aren’t going to let them come between us. My parents viewed him as the son-in-law they never had after we broke up. They will understand soon, they were just worried about us disappearing. And they didn’t know anything that happened before that. And my brother still wants to protect the both of us. But he’ll come around too. But his and my brother’s friend group and his parents are a different story. They didn’t like me much even before all of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:52 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:37 PM
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I’m only tipsy :))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:35 PM
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What? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:29 PM
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That won’t happen, at least not because of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:29 PM
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It’s a long and messy story. But I got back together with my ex after a few years, we were both toxic to each other. After that we realized that we love each other too much to be apart for good, so we both agreed to start with a clean slate and impulsively flew to Italy, then came back home recently. Ah and almost everyone thinks we are still terrible for each other, but that’s their problem :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:17 PM
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I feel like a new person. I’m glad that I followed my instincts, but I no longer feel impulsive, just peaceful. The past 2 weeks were surreal, but also some of the best days of my life. Despite all the dramatic phone calls and threats I got from my family about tracking me down… my birthday party was very civil and almost fun, but my twin brother is still very cold toward me. But if we made up last year, we’ll do the same this year. And my parents’ main problem was how quickly and impulsively we…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:49 PM
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Ah I am not sure you want to know 😂 But we’re happy. And at least my birthday yesterday went a lot better than I could have expected. My parents thought I was going insane while we were away though…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:04 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:02 PM
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He has a nightshift and I’m drinking wine alone and bored :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:46 PM
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I love the beach vibes!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:22 PM
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It looks like a daddy-daughter duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:13 PM
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I am proud of my family and their legacy, and so is he. We will both be keeping it. I am not sure about any future children because both last names are already kind of long and complicated for people who don’t speak the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:07 PM
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First time we are apart in the past 2 weeks. It feels weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:50 PM
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I told my brother and my girl friends everything (almost everything, I don’t want them to hate him…) They were kind of telling me the same things you did, maybe a bit less harsh. But no one can talk sense into me. I tried asking them, they tried talking me out of it. So I must go through with it. We’re going to Italy until my birthday, we will deal with the fallout after… I hurt him, he hurt me. If we can stop now, I want to believe that it can still work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:57 PM
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May this be the best and the last mistake of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:35 PM
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Ah girl, I’m sorry it’s real too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:16 PM
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What if I just go away with him and see if it works out? He said neither of us will ever have to bring up the past again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:48 PM
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It’s impossible for me to cut him completely out of my life. Even if I move again, I will end up hearing about him from others. But I don’t want to run away again. And I want him, not someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:47 PM
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We need a new foundation, I agree. But he’s the only thing I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:37 PM
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He would never do anything like that to me. I have started going to a therapist, we can go together as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:36 PM
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Doesn’t that mean that we deserve each other? Even if we will end up hurting each other more…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:32 PM
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I tried before, for 3 fucking years, barely seeing him, with the last year being full no-contact. It doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:25 PM
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Yeah, it’s definitely toxic, but I want it to work, I really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:24 PM
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I don’t think he needs me just for sex, he could have that with pretty much whoever he wants. He was the one “begging for my love” before. Now that I want to give it to him, everything got even messier. I wish I could feel ashamed, but I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:23 PM
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But why does he want me still? He should have gone through with it so I could hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:12 PM
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I guess I can at least stop feeling sorry for him…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:10 PM
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But I love him, I fucking do… I just want to be with him, I don’t care where it is, I don’t care what happens after :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:10 PM
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Shit just got shittier. He called, again, and I finally picked up. He said his plan was to play with my feelings until my birthday, then show up with some other woman. He literally fucking said THAT. But he had trouble sticking to his plan, that’s why sometimes he gave in and sometimes he pulled away. He told me that he can’t do that anymore, that he doesn’t care what we did before, he wants a fresh start on a clean slate. To get on the first flight and go away for a few days. I know I hurt him …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:55 PM
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He said I can do it at the start. If that’s what he wants, that’s what he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:40 PM
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You should go for it, you might have an easier time than I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:39 PM
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I wasn’t planning to get married yesterday. I just wanted to know if we’re on the same page. But if I’m not committed to him I can do whatever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:38 PM
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It would have been fine if he said he just needs more time. We had that conversation before, but this one was different. He backpedaled to the start of it. He said he had proposed our relationship to be fully casual, and he wants to keep it that way. I think he needs to read a fucking dictionary because he was the one not keeping it that way since the very beginning…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:37 AM
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:(((
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:34 AM
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It definitely doesn’t feel great…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:21 AM
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I wanted to do things the right way, but that didn’t work. So I did what we initially agreed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:20 AM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:05 AM
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But I want him more than ever before!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:05 AM
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I am not even sure I still have that in me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:50 AM
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He’s been calling and texting non-stop but I won’t block him. I want to hear every shitty excuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:46 AM
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Girl, my reaction as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:44 AM
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Ah I was traveling for the past few years, that’s why we broke up. I’ve been back home for a couple weeks and that’s when this new phase started.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:44 AM
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It’s complicated, but he was the one chasing me and wanting more for the past 3 years after I broke up with him. I thought he only offered casual because he believed that’s what I wanted. I guess not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:28 AM
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This is the last time I will tell you I am not that woman. But this obsession many of you seem to have is getting fucking creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:40 AM
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But I don’t fucking understand what’s wrong with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:29 AM
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Last night turned shit really fucking fast. We went to a restaurant, we had dinner and a few drinks, he brought flowers… so far so good. Then we went back to my place, (which is already filled with the fucking flowers that he’s sent in the past few days) and I started telling him what I wanted to tell him. I am not going to write it down here because I am still so fucking angry at how stupid I was. But at least I didn’t do it at the restaurant. He said when he offered to be casual he meant it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:21 AM
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How can you see a “Removed by Reddit” comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:47 PM
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That might be the most classless act that I’ve come across…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:38 PM
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:))
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:31 PM
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Ahhh wait I think I know who you are :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:27 PM
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A man should have a high body count because it means he has a high libido, and so do I 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:23 PM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:18 PM
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Hi? I hope he doesn’t care much about their outfits, only mine 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:18 PM
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I am going out with my girl friends tonight. He knows about it and so far so good. If he says anything bad when he sees my outfit, I’ll know where we stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:56 PM
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I’ve done all of the things “women don’t do” before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:55 PM
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Ah yeah, those places make sense for you then, but definitely not if someone is looking for flings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:20 PM
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How did you meet them? I used both real life and Tinder for my hook ups, but mostly Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:17 PM
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What’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:16 PM
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I change my mind very often, but my feelings for him have been a given for the past 6 or so years. That’s a good sign, isn’t it? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:51 PM
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I know :( but I feel like I should talk to my man first to make sure we’re on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:24 PM
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Currently I don’t want more than him, but I had both of these relationships before 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:22 PM
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The only polygamy I’ve ever been interested in is fully open relationships, or me and more than one man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:44 PM
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I was thinking of telling my man in the weekend :) I will have to sleep on explaining things to my brother and find a good moment…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:43 PM
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You can if you don’t judge those who do. I don’t think participation is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:45 PM
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Telling my brother or telling my man? :))
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:44 PM
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Now would be the time to tell my twin about what’s going on between his best friend and I. If we fight, which we probably will, there’s enough time to make up before our birthday. If I don’t tell him by tomorrow, it can only happen after our birthday, and he’ll only be more upset the longer I wait… But I still feel some guilt about breaking my former ex’s heart not once, but twice… and I am not sure I am ready to tell him that I am 100% sure about him now, even though that’s what I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:25 PM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:01 PM
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I used to be obsessed with long skirts back when I was a hippie at 19 :))
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:31 PM
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Apparently he was convinced Medusa was so beautiful, men couldn’t look at her…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:30 PM
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That’s what he said 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:29 PM
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The wind was blowing my hair in all directions and he said I look like Medusa. I beg your fucking pardon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:14 AM
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At first I was here for the discussions from the main sub-Reddit, but there are only so many times you can read and repeat the same thing. Now I’m here to vent, I’ll probably leave after I get comfortable with my therapist :))
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:10 AM
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I think you should say something as you give it to her so she doesn’t get too confused :))
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:08 AM
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Believing I am a virgin that you guys have a strange obsession with is not the worst thing I’ve been accused of, so I guess 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:12 PM
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:))) you could try leaving her a note with your number as you pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:57 PM
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Ah you still believe that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:56 PM
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Aw, sounds like a movie scene :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:05 PM
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What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:04 PM
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This will be us, except we both know how to play :))
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:51 PM
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:)))
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:39 PM
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A bit better than trying to date on this sub-Reddit… unless he is attracted to you anyway, men don’t care about what you bake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:37 PM
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Aw, that sounds really cute <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:35 PM
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What’s the best date you guys have been on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:35 PM
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That’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:49 PM
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I never said they’re a package deal. All I’m saying is the drugs don’t solve anything. I wasn’t even looking for solutions, I just wanted to live a full life. I still do, but I don’t think drugs have to be a part of it. They did not make me happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:41 PM
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When I met them they were together for 4 years and gay 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:31 PM
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Ayahuasca, weed, molly, coke, acid, and some powders and pills from questionable sources. Most of it was during my gap year in South America where I ended up in a strange throuple with two men who were almost gay. I thought I would love them forever and told my parents that I wanted to stay there and didn’t want to go to university, until they threatened to cut off the funds 😂 But I’m glad they did, I barely have memories from that year and I ended up forgetting about my love for those men two w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:25 PM
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But I love how they look :))
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:20 PM
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I tried them a few times… but yes, that’s what I’m telling him :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:07 PM
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If he can live comfortably using his savings or investments then it doesn’t apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:25 AM
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Despite that, I tried out way too much crap when I was younger. Fortunately, no one around me was shooting it up so I didn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:24 AM
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My money is enough for the both of us, so yes, unless I thought he was using me. But I understand why others wouldn’t. If you are trying to make ends meet and don’t live comfortably, it makes your life even harder if you are with someone who doesn’t contribute at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:15 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:12 AM
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Ah and I found an apartment so I no longer need to be a booty call 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:09 AM
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No, I can’t do that 😂 tell the single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:07 AM
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If you want to try out drugs, don’t use your veins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:06 AM
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We are going to play tennis together tomorrow. I am obviously still not as good as I once was, and he plays regularly, but it should be fun :) And we are having a real date in the weekend in a different city. We joked that we can just reveal that we are together at my birthday in a few weeks. Most of my family would be happy, but his friends not that much, and then there’s my twin brother… so we aren’t doing that, I think I need a bit more time to deal with my feelings and past choices. Hopefull…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:06 AM
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A head massage solves everything :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:00 AM
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Would you date a man who uses marijuana at least once a month? Yes Would you date a man who considers himself to be a devout christian? No Would you date a man who dislikes physical exercise? No Would you date a man who doesn't believe that gay marriage should be legal? No Would you date a man who believes that abortion should be illegal? No Would you date a man who watches porn at least 3x a week? Yes Would you date a man who lives 1000 miles away? No Would you date a man who's currently in a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:00 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:54 AM
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A woman ate your ring again?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:47 AM
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:))) thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:23 AM
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I don’t like football.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:59 AM
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9:56 here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:56 AM
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And he was in a very good mood when leaving for work today, so it looks like I can do that too, I’m not only good at pissing him off 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:55 AM
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Everything went as well as it could last night. I’m not sure I can describe it all in detail 😂 but at one point his head was in my lap, I was playing with his hair and I found 3 strands of white hair. I need to stop stressing him out, but at the same time, ahhhh, why do I find it so adorable? <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:53 AM
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Girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:48 AM
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I know why but I will be the one knocking on the door 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:05 PM
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:))) I’m planning a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:59 PM
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Maybe if I had a job 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:58 PM
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He’s a surgical resident, and I never had a real job so I would never underestimate that. I will do a bath, massage, sushi and a movie or whatever he feels up to :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:57 PM
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Sounds cute :))
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:53 PM
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No, he never cheated! I just shared how my thoughts changed about potential cheating, but he wouldn’t do it. He was my boyfriend of 3 years until I broke up with him to travel full time and because I wasn’t sure about monogamy… But neither of us could move on, so another 3 years later we are back to semi-casual and figuring things out. We don’t want to tell people yet because he’s also one of my brother’s best friends… That’s why I am posting so much here. But now that I can talk to the psycholo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:51 PM
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I am sleeping over and I will leave out the food because of what happened last time 😂 but the massage sounds nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:46 PM
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It wasn’t a threat, he didn’t say that I need to be on my best behavior, I added that 😂 I just don’t want us to fight again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:36 PM
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He texted that he had a shitty day at work. I will need to be on my best behavior. Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:22 PM
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I don’t want to be most people so that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:12 PM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:01 PM
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That’s bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:57 AM
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Why would you say that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:45 AM
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I played tennis for 2 hours and I will have my first counseling session soon. I’m hiding it from everyone I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:41 AM
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I can’t, I love him too much :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:37 AM
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That is very obese. How much physical exercise do you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:36 AM
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God forbid a woman has thoughts 😂 the “break” was only a few days, and we talked since.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:33 AM
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Yes, that’s what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:30 PM
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Ah I do like attending the big receptions. If he does it or has someone else do it, by all means, plan the biggest wedding I’ve ever seen 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:28 PM
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Good enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:27 PM
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It’s not just for safety reasons, but a small child can get attached to you very easily. And then she moves away or finds another man, repeating the cycle…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:27 PM
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:)))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:25 PM
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I like attending weddings and big parties, but I totally agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:24 PM
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The classic wedding planner won’t pick out your dress and shoes. They help with ideas, booking and hiring, but it’s still the bride or the couple who make most of the choices. When my older brother got married and I was a bridesmaid, even I had some stuff to do, and they had a whole team 😂 There’s no reason why it couldn’t be done my way, but most people like racking their nerves for 2 years trying to find the most suitable napkins, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:23 PM
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I wasn’t judging you, I was judging her for introducing you to her small child so soon and when you aren’t even together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:16 PM
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I hope 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:00 PM
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I don’t want to get married, at all, but I think I could do it for him… The entire thing would have to be planned by him or someone else though. I don’t even want to choose my dress. I just show up, sign the papers, have a party and get drunk 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:54 PM
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I’m not sure what it means, but if it’s like incel then that means you wanted to have sex with men but couldn’t, and maybe some additional self-hatred and bad ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:50 PM
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Why were you a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:42 PM
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He aged 6 years in 3 :o
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:37 PM
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I hope the shitty father gets locked up for a long time, but he probably won’t. I still can’t help but judge her too. I could have a baby tomorrow, and my baby fever is actually excruciating because of my nephew, but I still know better than to do it. And if for some reason I ended up pregnant and kept the pregnancy, I would need to stop being a mess and focus on the kid. I think I read that you already met the child and you aren’t even in a relationship with her. Sure, maybe you are a good guy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:35 PM
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Yeah, maybe I can start working on that with the therapist :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:28 PM
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I might be messy as fuck which I will state before anyone calls me hypocritical, but why would her priority be to date you in such a situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:05 PM
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And we are meeting up tomorrow. I can’t wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:03 PM
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Ah no I mean that he’s still the same, but we were both misreading each other’s intentions. He thought I was mad at him because he asked for that two day break, but he assured me that he doesn’t want to control any of my choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:01 PM
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I called him, we spoke for 40 minutes, he’s still his old perfect self <3 He doesn’t want to be on a break anymore and we both agreed that we need to communicate more, not less 😂 He thought I was doing the same thing I did a few days ago, trying to get back at him because he asked for a bit of time alone. I explained that’s not the case, we even joked about the way I turned down some of the guys last night and how my friends thought I was a different person because I wouldn’t even talk to anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:58 PM
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The cursed 26. I think it’s the same for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:53 PM
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No! Why would I have BPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:52 PM
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That’s what I was thinking, but looks like I dodged another bullet :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:52 PM
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It was a false alarm, fortunately :))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:52 PM
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But there’s nothing I should heal from…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:51 PM
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Fuck he has half a year left 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:46 PM
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I have a question for the men here: how old were you when your personality and major views about life stopped developing and changing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:28 PM
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I miss him. I am already 90% sure about fully committing to him and transforming my life as a result. Why the fuck does he have to change now that I am falling even deeper in love with him? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:27 PM
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Are you also a sperm donor like the guy below you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:23 PM
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No, I don’t have any kids 😂 and yeah, I might like calling him my former ex :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:10 AM
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What did you think? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:55 AM
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My girl friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:45 AM
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My former ex wouldn’t care if it’s taken or not, that’s why it’s not taken by you :( 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:41 AM
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I am not American, I’m 75% North African, I am very aware of that. But we are the ones who need to change this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:32 AM
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Ah and my girls were so confused when I didn’t do anything wild last night 😂 it’s the second time in a row, it’s hard lying to everyone but at the same time it is low-key exciting… To make it worse, last night I apparently looked very approachable and around 10 guys came up to me. Usually I am the one who approaches in clubs and now I am 100% sure I prefer it that way :))) The weirdest one was a guy appearing out of nowhere and calling me really beautiful exactly 30 seconds after entering the cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:30 AM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:24 AM
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You moved on quick 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:21 AM
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Don’t we all, but that’s still not a good reason to have kids, and why does “fair” need to be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:19 AM
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But you said you think of it as an investment…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:18 AM
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You should only have children if you love them for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:13 AM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:08 AM
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Good morning! You guys need to help me solve a mystery. We went out last night with the girls because that is what my best friend wanted to do. And for some reason he got kind of upset again? I do not understand because he was never like this. He always had a very positive attitude toward clubbing and understood that many girls go there just to have fun with each other. I didn’t only do that all the time, but that doesn’t mean if I am going to keep my legs closed I will also be a shut-in… To top…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:51 AM
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That place is taken, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:39 AM
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Kind of, but I like that. What are you going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:23 PM
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See my nephew tomorrow morning, spend the rest of the day doing whatever my best friend feels like, and I have a family lunch on Sunday that will last the whole day probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:12 PM
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The current stage might not be the healthiest but we are getting there!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:07 PM
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… Don’t say that :( I am doing my best not to overreact like I did last time. And I trust him, it’s because we were moving too fast and he got overwhelmed. He already congratulated me on becoming an aunt, he’ll text me again when he is ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:01 PM
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Thanks, I can’t wait to see my nephew <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:31 PM
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I’ve been thinking about him non-stop lately, it was weird to not do that today. We aren’t on a real break, just not seeing each other for 2 days because he wants to take some time to think some stuff through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:25 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:24 PM
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My best friend is not the Wizard Liz and he was having an affair for a while so it’s much worse :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:00 PM
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Between my sister-in-law trying to give birth naturally since the early hours of the morning then ending up with a C-section and one of my best friends finding out her boyfriend is cheating on her and breaking up with him (it’s the first time the entire friend group is single at the same time since high school, or actually, I’m not that single…), I forgot to miss my man while we are on a “break”. Is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:53 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:46 PM
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You can call me auntie now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:18 PM
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You didn’t say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:44 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:35 PM
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You didn’t want a tennis match last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:27 PM
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What do you mean by crashing? I say no because I’m not her, what do you want me to say? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:23 PM
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“It”… And I’m not :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:11 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:10 PM
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😂😂😂 what can we do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:09 PM
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I don’t think I have similar viewpoints with someone who is a virgin 😂 and I only use the laughing emoji.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:02 PM
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I have notifications turned on, otherwise I would be checking too much 😂 other than that that describes most people here, doesn’t it? But does she really have the same life as me? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:55 PM
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Post the same how? I may be on my phone too much, that’s true…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:49 PM
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No… Why do you guys keep saying that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:34 PM
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A real one! But from what I’ve seen they wear glasses too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:34 PM
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I found a therapist! I will call them tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:28 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:43 PM
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I have two brothers, I can just look at their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:43 PM
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What do you mean by forcing? :o Looks are sexually attractive, knowing they have money isn’t. Even so, I still think it’s disgusting if someone brags about sex, it is something to be enjoyed together with the other person, not some trophy. But you said it wasn’t just them being rich and the woman knowing that either, but that they give them money or jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:07 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:58 PM
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If I was a man I would be the exact same I am now or worse because I’m a man :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:57 PM
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No, I mean your girlfriend being jealous of your relationship with your sister :))) I’m also a bit jealous of my brothers being sure about what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:56 PM
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Same, but would you still think he’s hot? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:55 PM
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It’s not about that, as I said before. Just about imagining them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:00 PM
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I don’t think using the wealth you were born into to sleep with others is anything to brag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:59 PM
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Has it happened to any of you guys that the people you were dating got jealous of your siblings? Maybe this is another twin thing, because they were never jealous of my older brother. But that’s how all of my high school relationships ended… My former ex has never been jealous of my brother, even though he’s an only child <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:54 PM
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Eugh… was he bragging too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:51 PM
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No, I would have been disgusted if my brothers did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:43 PM
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His dad doesn’t look like that and neither does mine, it’s not about that 😂 I’m not sure, imagine her with stretch marks, white roots and double chin?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:37 PM
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Nice :))
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:31 PM
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That’s different and can look good on more people. You have to imagine it like I said 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:30 PM
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Nah, I don’t care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:27 PM
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Ah and I thought you were like me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:22 PM
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If you think he’s hot, imagine him with that half-bald half not head, a double chin and a beer belly. If you still think he’s hot, he’s the one <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:02 PM
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… you’re the second person telling me in the span of one hour :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:13 PM
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To travel there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:03 PM
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Yes, but I need to have it spelled out :( I promise I’ve been thinking about it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:02 PM
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… We have very different views about a good life…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:01 PM
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Good, I don’t think about other men when I’m with him, only about other countries 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:58 PM
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What are you saying? What are you doing? What is going on with your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:58 PM
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The crying and the erratic behavior is so relatable… but don’t shave your head because of a temporary feeling, it takes years to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:57 PM
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I am the one asking you that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:54 PM
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It was only a joke :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:53 PM
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I was 7 years ago 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:43 PM
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Ahh then that ship has sailed 500 years ago for me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:38 PM
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Do you have any tips and tricks? I really need them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:28 PM
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I wish the astrologers told me what to do with my life :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:26 PM
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It’s the Wizard Liz’s Instagram story. He was buying her lavish gifts. But that doesn’t mean shit, especially if he can easily afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:22 PM
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I’m home now and we both agreed to stay apart for a day or two and let things cool off a bit. I am going to be on my best behavior. But I really wish that I could talk with my twin about this. I know what he would say and I know he would get angry, but I still think that he’s the only one who could kind of understand me. A falling out with him is the last thing I need right now, my sister-in-law is due in a few days and our birthday is coming up next month. Which is going to be very interesting,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:21 PM
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What the fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:12 PM
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<image> “Can’t even cheat cause she didn’t want you” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:08 PM
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That’s very common sense. I’n not denying that genetics affect it, but I’m not going to be with a man who smells bad, has crusty teeth and greasy hair, no matter how attractive his face is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:06 PM
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The height feature has been there for ages. I think this is just a new filter, but I’m not downloading it to check 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:51 AM
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But he was also doing boyfriend stuff before that. I don’t even care if he uses me, I wanted to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:31 PM
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😂 she is a dating coach who is very famous on TikTok and he’s some rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:30 PM
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Maybe tomorrow if I swallow my pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:21 PM
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I have at least one a month, and they’re random too…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:14 PM
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Not if he sees the ring you gave me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:54 PM
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That sounds nice :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:54 PM
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26 next month…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:53 PM
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Jab taken 😂 what does real true authentic love mean to you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:42 PM
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I am not going to be the first one to reach out after that reaction he had.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:41 PM
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If he is really hot for something casual if they’re like me. My dad would never respect someone who could be my dad as his son-in-law.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:41 PM
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What does being a hopeless romantic mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:29 PM
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We all know he deserves better, but I am trying to be better!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:24 PM
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What if he’s one of those weird people who only want me when I don’t want them… I thought he would have called by now…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:20 PM
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Yes, and two years after that he wanted to quit med school in his LAST YEAR and come with me. And a year of no-contact after that, last week, we met accidentally and the same night he drunk called me confessing his love. Then Saturday night we hooked up and I stayed the night, he offered to just be together as long as I want to. That’s where we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:19 PM
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He knew I was there, I slept over last night. And we also both know where we’re standing and that we are in love. But he offered to keep it casual because I am not 100% about not wanting to travel anymore. After that he sent flowers, we met almost everyday, and he didn’t act casual at all. I know it’s too much but he was also doing too much, I just reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:15 PM
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Since last week 😂 Sunday, to be more exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:07 PM
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We started as non-committal when I was 20, soon after we fell in love. After I graduated I ended it because I wanted to travel full time and he was in med school. But I am back in the same city now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:04 PM
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That’s a good one! I’m only a slut 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:02 PM
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I had to Google that last time I got told that, but right now I kind of wish I was doing that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:01 PM
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Instead of crying about my ex (not ex), I am arguing about not having stolen someone else’s persona here (if I got that right?) That’s probably for the better 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:38 PM
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I should do that in the club!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:28 PM
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The Wizard Liz and Landon Nickerson
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:56 PM
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It’s my ex that I’ve been talking about, but we were never married. But no, I didn’t expect it and that’s not why we broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:44 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:40 PM
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I’m outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:34 PM
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Who is that and what emoji are you talking about? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:33 PM
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Will you explain what he’s talking about? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:31 PM
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Why aren’t you answering? Are all the men trying to piss me off today? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:24 PM
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Ahhh not again with your rings, is that all you think about? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:21 PM
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What the fuck? 😂 what language is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:20 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about. Explain!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:14 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:11 PM
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More than 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:10 PM
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Okay in general I get it, but what about this situation? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:09 PM
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I’m not blaming you, I’m joking, but why am I a red flag? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:04 PM
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Who’s the red flag? And also you suggested this… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:00 PM
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You can read my replies under this comment if you want to, but yeah I don’t know. Maybe it was too much too soon? But he was moving with the speed of light before this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:00 PM
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It just depends if the woman knows what she wants or not. I only wanted casual so whenever a fling or fwb type of situation turned into a situationship, it was from the men’s side, and then I usually ended it soon after.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:56 PM
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I am in the mood to talk shit about men, and the Wizard Liz-nerdy cheater husband drama is all I see on TikTok today. So what do you guys think about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:53 PM
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He knows I was there. He left the key at the front desk yesterday, I let myself in, that was his idea, then he came back from the gym and I slept over. This morning he left for work and told me to sleep in as much as I want to. And then even joked that maybe I’ll still be sleeping when he comes back. It’s also not some guy I’ve just met, I just don’t fucking understand what went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:51 PM
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I need a Hello Kitty therapist too!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:45 PM
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I told him I’d leave after him, but he usually likes surprises.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:45 PM
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It’s his lucky day then because I left. I’m not staying where I’m not wanted. And he literally joked about seeing me when he gets home, I did tell him I’m not going to be there, but I thought it would be cute and it’s called a surprise like? I just don’t know, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:38 PM
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Or well he used to love it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:33 PM
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He loves my cooking, I don’t know what’s wrong with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:31 PM
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I stayed at his place and made dinner, lunch, whatever, it’s between the two, and his favourite cake. And then when he came back sure, he was surprised, but he looked like he saw a fucking ghost, then didn’t want to touch me. I just don’t know what the hell I did wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:26 PM
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This is the last fucking time I try to do something cute. I don’t even understand what the fuck just happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:21 PM
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Well I guess you were right…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:20 PM
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That’s weird, I only got called flaky so far :))
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:20 PM
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😂 he should be home in a few minutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:17 PM
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:o
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:45 PM
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That is very true :( 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:31 PM
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What does that mean? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:22 PM
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He’s doing a surgical residency :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:25 AM
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The hook ups and flings aren’t just about the sex. Actually they are if I am single, because I have a high libido, but if I’m with him it’s not the sexual aspect that I am giving up, because he provides that and does it better too. I am not even sure I am 100% monogamous, at least I wasn’t when I wasn’t with him. And there is also the freedom aspect as the opposite of being tied down, even if I am tied down to someone I love. He was in med school for 6 years, now he’s doing his residency for ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:24 AM
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I might have ended up taking my PPD ex-husband’s advice, and I’m still at his place… I went to buy some stuff from the grocery store but I’m back, and I’m making steak, mushrooms and asparagus and a chocolate almond cake :) I will just do what I feel like and don’t even give a fuck anymore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:08 AM
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Yeah, I agree… I will make up my mind in the next month!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:04 AM
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Neither of us wants a long distance relationship so I can’t travel that much. But we will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:03 AM
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So 1 and 2/5 ? :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:02 AM
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Let’s make it a tennis match!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:01 AM
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It’s not really about hooking up or being non-committal, although that was my plan for my 20s, but I already gave that up once and I can do it again. I mean I already ghosted everyone and deleted Tinder this time too. It’s just about being tied down for good and giving up moving around to different places and traveling full time. The crazy thing is a year ago he was already offering to give up his career aspirations and just come with me indefinitely. But I can’t ask him to do that, it would bui…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:45 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:40 AM
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Only 3? :o But I can’t get very offended because the reasoning was cute :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:37 AM
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I always run from those interviews :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:35 AM
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You can just give HR the ring to confuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:35 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:34 AM
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Damn <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:34 AM
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<image> 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:31 AM
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I am in love with him, that’s not the problem here. And I don’t think I could be with someone long term who my family hate (it would be for a good reason too, I trust them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:19 AM
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I mean that she’s like me but she’s Slavic? 😂 I’ve seen a few of her videos, and we were raised kind of the same way and with the same mentality, including the mentality in the photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:15 AM
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I’m 75% North African, 25% European, and I was born and raised in the country where I got that 25% from. I’m not going to say the exact location, but it’s not a Slavic country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:09 AM
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Yay :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:03 AM
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Thanks hoe <3 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:50 AM
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I don’t even want to go on rants to strangers here. I just want to talk to my brother but I can’t ahhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:46 AM
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He’s the most passionate lover I had, it always feels like we are in perfect balance and coordination. He is completely unselfish in bed, like his own satisfaction only depends on mine. Then I could list all the other things he’s good at but it would take too long. He’s the kind of man other women say doesn’t exist. And my 20 year old immature self got him without really wanting anyone like him, and then my almost 26 year old still kind of immature self still isn’t ready to commit 100% to him… W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:35 AM
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How do you know they had massive counts? I consider myself to have a massive count, but no one has ever asked me about it, especially because we were doing casual only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:31 AM
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Let me know when she says yes and doesn’t eat the ring after!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:11 AM
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Ah damn… but yes, the fuckboy analogy was kind of funny and spot on, although I never cheated. But thank you, these were nice words! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:09 AM
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Actually I think her ring is smaller :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:52 AM
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So in 3 days? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:52 AM
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I am hot but that doesn’t mean I’m good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:51 AM
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Based on my comments in this daily thread, do you think I’m a bad person? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:47 AM
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Wow she gets a whole box, and I only got the edible part…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:46 AM
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😂 show me the ring you’re going to use!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:41 AM
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With the ring that you used to propose to me? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:34 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:54 AM
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This woman is me in a Slavic font 😂 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:27 AM
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… I am showering and leaving 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:25 AM
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That’s why I said not good looking 😂 I have also never been with someone who’s actually ugly so I can’t talk about that. But I think his face is too “cute” to be attractive as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:53 AM
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What if I stay in his bed until he comes back from work, so another 8 hours? :))) On the other hand, I need to sort out my living situation, because why am I the one always coming over?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:48 AM
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There’s only so much you can do with surgery, especially when you’re older. And sometimes it looks worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:39 AM
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Rich and not good looking is the worst combination. They will always find someone to be interested in them for their money and status, but they will also be impressed by this type of attention because they’re very insecure. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:35 AM
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He’s a man! :o
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:27 PM
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I could, but I’m like this most days 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:06 PM
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Sorry that was shameful, I’m putting the phone down 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:00 PM
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Waiting for him to come home from the gym, I hope he doesn’t shower…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:59 PM
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Do you have one too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:58 PM
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:))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:53 PM
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Ah I don’t want to convince you to think like me. Not even I know what I think anymore 😂 I meant most other women not being like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:49 PM
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That I basically played with my ex and his feelings. It wasn’t my intention, but I got carried away and was only thinking about the moment, not the future or any repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:48 PM
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Yeah <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:46 PM
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You’re not very convinced 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:46 PM
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I’m not bipolar… I don’t think most women are like this. I knew that I loved him since I was 20. I just (used to) think that love isn’t the most important thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:42 PM
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Nope, I took this screenshot yesterday :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:41 PM
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That was also the first time I had a real fight with my twin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:24 PM
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I haven’t told you guys this before because it does make me look a lot worse, and I did end up feeling really bad about it. But it also explains my apprehensions about the current situation I have going on with my former ex. Around a year ago I came back home to visit my family, and I ended up going out with my brother and his friends, so of course that includes him as well. We would meet sometimes, because I would come back home every few months, but we usually kept our distance. Except that ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:21 PM
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If it were up to my parents, I would already be married to my boyfriend/ex-boyfriend 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:44 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:40 PM
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:)))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:25 PM
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You can, obviously. And if you want a tip from me, if you like a guy don’t wait for them to approach you because you will often end up waiting forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:21 PM
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You won’t be asking her if you’re ugly, you just tell her to choose her favorites because you can’t post that many :))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:15 PM
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I couldn’t find the perfume that was recommended to me in the stores here, but I ordered it. Until then I will be wearing the one that used to be his favourite. I haven’t worn it in years, and I hope it won’t fuck too much with his head, just a little bit ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:06 PM
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You are probably too harsh on yourself. Send 10-15 of them to your best friend and ask her to pick out a few for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:03 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:57 PM
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What are you waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:56 PM
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And this too 😂 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:52 PM
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I laughed way too hard at this, I’m still a red flag :( <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:52 PM
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I asked my parents what I should do with my life. They told me they’re happy that I’m home and would like me to spend more time here, but also that I should whatever I want to do. Okay, but I ASKED YOU TWO… ahhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:50 PM
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I slept in, went to pilates but I’m still very sore, cooked lunch for my parents and I, and I will see my man in an hour or so :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:44 PM
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Are you going on dates? I think I remember that you said you’ll download Tinder after taking some photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:38 PM
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You’re so much worse than me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:37 PM
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Do you also have a twin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:35 PM
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Maybe when I’ll get really bored again :))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:19 AM
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Please don’t make me praise my own brother 😂 I never used Chat GPT anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:03 AM
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I don’t need to do mine because I already know what my brother looks like 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:00 AM
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I know that, but in this case I think it’s AI porn. I can’t control what someone thinks when they see me, but generating porn about someone feels a lot worse and also illegal. If I didn’t already have my account I probably wouldn’t make one right now. There’s a guy, I think he’s called Yuval, who showed how easy it is to find someone’s location based on the little bits they post. If I knew this 4 years ago, I wouldn’t have started posting…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:59 AM
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I don’t know if you guys noticed this, but I keep seeing comments under random girls’ posts on TikTok asking if there is “more of her”, and then there’s always a reply with the same shady link that I am scared to check out. At first it was the OF women, but now it’s basically everyone. One woman was crying and talking about her breakup and even that video got this a comment. Does any of you know what it is? Is it what I think it is? I am going to wipe my TikTok if I get a comment like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:47 AM
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He loves my curly hair and I stopped frying it a few years ago 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:53 AM
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Most of them are pretty common sense, aren’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:52 AM
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:)))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:52 AM
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But I love that man like nobody can (my own brother wants to protect him from me 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:05 PM
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😂😂😂 I quit smoking 3 times in the past two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:54 PM
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I think the description already sold the women’s fragrance for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:50 PM
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Not me Googling it thinking it’s some magical potion :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:48 PM
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Sure, and men can be a Chad billionaire too, only that there are probably 3 of them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:48 PM
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I find this attitude very vulgar, but you also have to keep in mind that this is what sells right now. I exaggerated some things in a few of my TikToks to see what happens, nothing very nefarious, but yes, it gets a lot of engagement. I would also bet that many of the sugar babies can afford that lifestyle due to their social media posts, not only because their men are buying every single thing for them. So a lot of them tend to play it up for clicks and more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:46 PM
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Aw I can’t wait for my nephew to be born! I have too much time on my hands, I want to babysit :))).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:42 PM
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He is definitely the one. The question is am I the one… and I don’t mean that I doubt him, I know he thinks that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:40 PM
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I feel fuzzy when mine is vulnerable :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:39 PM
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What’s the best fragrance you’ve ever smelt on someone? And I do mean the most sensual, sexiest, makes you want to rip their clothes off and devour them kind of perfume. I need a scent like this ASAP!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:39 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:37 PM
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I don’t feel like I owe him anything, not when it comes to romantic gestures, he also made it clear I don’t. Keeping it casual was his idea, but then he’s doing everything but that… He even said I can see other men, while he doesn’t want to see other women. But I told him I’m not going to. But I know he’s saying all this stuff because of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:37 PM
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What’s so bad about these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:34 PM
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… So how do you know it’s not unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:34 PM
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Currently working on not relating to this song :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:03 PM
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How many such women have you met?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:02 PM
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You won’t, I would want my brothers to talk to me if they ever felt this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:01 PM
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I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:00 PM
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Please talk to someone in real life too. Do you have siblings you could call?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:57 PM
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But they are very likable. Some of them also quite privileged, I’m not denying that, but most of the stuff I did today is pretty accessible if you have free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:54 PM
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I didn’t feel the need to do it for any of my past fwbs or situationships either, it’s just this one man…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:53 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:51 PM
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Damn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:51 PM
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I think you would feel a lot better if you did it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:51 PM
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I know many guys who have such days. You might have some mental health issues, but unless you are doing the psycho stare at random people in the street I promise you they do not hate you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:50 PM
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So while I do that, I shouldn’t do anything romantic? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:48 PM
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Get up, take a shower and go on a walk!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:47 PM
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:o
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:46 PM
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Today was so long. I am not used to waking up this early. I played tennis for 2 hours, then I had coffee with a friend before she went to work, after that I ate breakfast on my own, followed by a walk, I checked out a few shops too, went home, had half a rotisserie chicken because I was so hungry, I did some stretching because I started feeling sore, played some chess online, read a book for like an hour, edited a video for TikTok, and texted people while also posting here a lot. I am going to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:23 PM
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I am in the mood to do romantic things, but I am not sure it’s the right thing. He sent me flowers because we couldn’t see each other today… I know we agreed to start casual, but neither of us are very good at it… Is doing romantic stuff bad if our status is still undefined?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:13 PM
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Sorry, that’s not how I was programmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:46 PM
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You can slay with a condom too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:41 PM
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Half of them are mine 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:57 PM
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I am living in the moment :) and who knows, maybe I am old enough to stop running away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:30 PM
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Yes, he is <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:57 AM
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I just realized it took me exactly one week and seeing him twice to get back together with him after I came back home. My lack of self-control should be studied… but I think I’ve been mostly just lying to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:56 AM
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Facts <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:48 AM
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:o
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:31 AM
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Yeah I am not saying she’s going to be successful no matter what she looks like and what she asks for. But some women are also okay being single and waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:24 AM
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That’s how long the ring you gave me lasted, it’s not my fault :))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:23 AM
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Not my ex anymore, ah I keep forgetting and I don’t know what to call him :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:19 AM
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The thing is that whenever someone feels sorry for my ex or defends him from me, here or in real life, I don’t feel angry. I actually feel warm and almost fuzzy, kind of overprotective too, it is strange. Even though the person that he probably needs protection from is me 😂 But I also like being his weak spot. I don’t know if that makes me a bad person :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:19 AM
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I don’t really get this, you can only date a tiny fraction of men in your lifetime. And that applies even to me, who has dated A LOT of them. If those men don’t find her attractive and don’t want to date her, then yes that’s a problem, but otherwise it isn’t an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:15 AM
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😂😂😂 not anymore! At least the rest of them were all forgettable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:06 PM
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Not really, I wanted to be a tennis player, a ballerina and a pilot as a kid 😂 and honestly I don’t think I have the drive to make more money, I prefer spending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:58 PM
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A bit higher, but I don’t even know the exact current figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:57 PM
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I know, and I do. I volunteered as a kind of part time job while traveling if I was staying in one place for more than a few weeks. I want to start again next month now that I’m back home. This is also one of the reasons why I don’t want a regular job. It wouldn’t make a difference financially and I am not doing anything that could actually be useful. So if I don’t even like it, then there is no point. I guess other rich kids might feel like they have to prove themselves but that was never the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:50 PM
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I don’t really like talking about money (I know that’s a privilege as well, probably the biggest one), but I will get some shares when I turn 30, until then the “trust fund” is money magically appearing in my account every month thanks to my parents (my brothers get that too, regardless if they work or not.) So I guess my net worth isn’t really mine right now 😂 I can afford basically whatever I want, but I never dreamed of private jets and skyscrapers so don’t picture the Ambani kind of stuff. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:38 PM
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I just the things that feel right in the moment…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:21 PM
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Maybe we already follow each other then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:20 PM
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Yeah, for me. If I really loved to do some job like my brothers or my man I would do that. But I’m not sure that exists for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:19 PM
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I did physics, I needed a degree because I didn’t want to get ostracized by my family and I was always good at it. I knew that I won’t be using it anyway :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:17 PM
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Being funemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:07 PM
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What’s your username?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:06 PM
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What does that mean? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:04 PM
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I’ve been thinking about getting a job (by that I mean the past 2 days 😂), but I have no clue what I could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:01 PM
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I googled it. Some photos looked more edible, the others not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:00 PM
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I can’t have a baby right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:53 PM
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I only make good decisions. Ama?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:52 PM
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What’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:50 PM
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One of the reasons being with my ex (I guess not ex anymore) is scary is because my feelings for him as well as my wish to travel a lot are the only two things that were constant throughout my adult life. And of course they have to be in opposition with each other. I constantly change my mind about literally everything else, at this point it’s kind of exhausting. But at least that probably means he’s the right person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:46 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:44 PM
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We are kind of back together but not telling anyone yet. It was his idea, I just agreed… but it seems kind of exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:43 PM
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I only make good decisions :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:43 PM
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I just left my (former) ex’s place. Unfortunately you guys will have to still hear a lot about him because I can’t talk about it with anyone else right now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:25 PM
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My brother took that away from me because as always he was late, by 4 minutes :))) I think it means you’re spoiled. Lucky them I am spoiled rotten anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:21 PM
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Why do you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:14 PM
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I’m off to my ex’s place, I might need to stop calling him that. (No, I did not sleep on it, I’m going to sleep on him :o)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:14 PM
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I’ve been thinking about him all the time, but not this much as right now because we’re in the same place. I was kind of happy about it, I could have flings then leave those countries and never get my heart broken because I was, to use my favorite PPD concept, alpha-widowed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:42 PM
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I will try :))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:40 PM
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I fear you might be right… These past few years I actually wished he would move on with someone, but then every time I found out he didn’t I was happy about it :/ and I would have probably had a crash out either way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:25 PM
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3 years ago, after I graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:17 PM
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Which one do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:03 PM
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That’s always a good idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:48 PM
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Does that make it worse? Yeah it probably does. But let’s blame 20 year old me for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:38 PM
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One of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:35 PM
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I thought I said this a few times, but yeah, that’s how I met my ex :))))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:32 PM
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My brother: who are you texting? And it’s his best friend and this sub-Reddit… I wonder which one he’d find weirder 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:28 PM
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I thought I knew what I wanted, but I’m really not sure anymore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:27 PM
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My tummy is finally full, so bring it on, girl :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:25 PM
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I might bring it back for older Gen Z :))) but that’s not really what I have in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:16 PM
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I don’t even know anymore, I keep reevaluating everything :( but he was the one who brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:14 PM
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I would like to go to every single country at least once :) But obviously that’s a huge goal, and some aren’t very safe for a solo female traveler. I also like staying a few months in the same country, I feel like it’s more fulfilling that way. I did my gap year in the Southern part of South America so I got some countries off the list there. I’ve been to every European country, most Arab ones, and fewer in Africa (except NA) and East Asia, usually it was touristy trips there with my family when…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:11 PM
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Good for me then :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:55 PM
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The first baddie might steal it from you :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:54 PM
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He has a coffee machine but not a single coffee bean. I’ve been living off his cigarettes for the past 3 hours, I hope he’s happy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:51 PM
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He’s doing his residency and I travel full time, but I’m back home for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:50 PM
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This man is my brother in this case. He has exactly one egg and two oranges in the whole apartment…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:42 PM
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It’s almost 3 and I haven’t eaten anything, didn’t even have coffee and this man is still getting ready. The brunch place we want to go to closes at 4 :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:41 PM
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Can you have a midlife crisis in the last month of being 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:33 PM
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I guess I will just post my rant even though Parfait is nowhere to be found. I can’t really talk to anyone else about this because I know what they’ll tell me… if you have been following my other rants, you might guess what this is going to be about 😂 I did the walk of shame today at 11 am, but I don’t even feel ashamed about it. I should be regretting last night but I just don’t. My ex said we can keep it casual as long as I want to. He doesn’t expect anything from me and I can stop it whenever…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:35 AM
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I would say I am more forward than most other women, but I am not going feral before I assess the situation. And if I do, I usually already planned to do it before the date, and only if he was a really terrible person or a catfish would I have not done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:13 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s always the case, maybe 60/40 or 70/30. The older men (and I mean 30-40 year olds, I don’t fuck with grandpas 😂) are usually less likely to be into weird stuff or try to push for anal or trying out whatever crosses their mind. They are also less likely to be in a rush and more attentive, and of course they have had more time to practice the art, but I agree that doesn’t apply to all of them :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:08 AM
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I don’t see the problem? It’s a hook up. If you mean the usual RP crap that my standards are higher for hook ups than for serious relationships, wrong person, wrong time! My standards are high, yes, but they’re the lowest for hook ups. The more time I have to spend with a man, the higher the standards will get. I don’t want to get married, but they would be the highest for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:05 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:18 PM
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I wanted to even before the date, the only reason I wouldn’t have is if there was zero chemistry. Overall he was very chatty and flirty, but he also had that cockiness guys have when they’re young and know they’re attractive. That gets boring quickly and the older men seem to not have this attitude that often which is why I like them. My ex, although I met him when he was 19, never acted like his face was the best thing about him which is probably one if the reasons why our relationship wasn’t o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:18 PM
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Their looks, confidence, being more self-assured in their interactions with me and usually better in bed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:14 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:09 PM
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Most of the men I dated were older than me, usually 10+ years older. But I never had any intention to have a serious relationship with any of them, ever. I still think fully committed relationships or marriages are problematic if they’re between a 20 and a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:07 PM
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I’m not so sure about that :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:34 PM
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The date went well. We went to a speakeasy type of place and ended up staying there until they were closing. Then we hooked up. It was fun but not anything life changing. He’s also leaving in a week, he said he would like to meet again before that but I am not sure I feel like it. But the new strategy to meet guys who are also globe thots might work out well, even though they tend to be younger. This one was a bit immature too, but he looked older than his age. Today I woke up early and met up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:51 AM
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I haven’t found it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:28 AM
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I don’t think I am a man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:15 AM
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I wanted to get offended but then I remembered I don’t even want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:07 AM
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We can switch places if you want to dream about my ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:06 AM
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Good morning :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:53 AM
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As we should!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:26 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:18 PM
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😂 maybe he’s the waiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:18 PM
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If it works it works 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:01 PM
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This is what I have to see after I threw out the cigarettes I bought after seeing my ex :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:00 PM
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Ah dude :( why would he be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:59 PM
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I’m off to the date. Please manifest getting laid for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:51 PM
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Tell them you’re Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:40 PM
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I’m a Gemini, a twin and I have this username. Life is cute :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:36 PM
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I really am :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:56 PM
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Ah so he doesn’t only cheat, for some reason he also finds it necessary to pay other women. The mahr should be at least 7 figures then 😂 But you didn’t answer my other question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:54 PM
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I don’t think that’s always necessary 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:45 PM
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Why would he have every right to? Does he give all that money to the woman? What if the woman makes a lot more than him, can she cheat then? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:29 PM
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What’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:23 PM
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I am scrolling TikTok in peace and spot my ex’s lookalike… what the fuck, I’m not safe anywhere. Regardless, I have a hot date in 2 hours :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:18 PM
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Are you a Gemini too? <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:53 PM
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Aren’t you 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:29 PM
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I never had a real male friend ever. But I have two brothers who would die for me so that’s much better :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:25 PM
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A year ago I started arguing on the main, then I deleted that account but made a new one. Those threads were getting boring one day, so I checked out this daily thread that I used to ignore :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:11 PM
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She’s not below, let’s be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:10 PM
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Non, but my ex grew up there :(((((( why did you have to remind me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:10 PM
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If I was 100% sure he wouldn’t get hurt I would do that for the next few months that I’m home. But I don’t want to throw some crumbs at him if he wants more, that’s not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:04 PM
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Ah I was born in a big European city. My dad was born here too because he’s half European.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:54 PM
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I just opened the fucking app… <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:47 PM
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Yes, he is very attractive if we ignore the fact he pressed post on that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:43 PM
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My globe thot nature will come between us. I can give up the thot part, but I’m not sure I’m ready to stay in one place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:42 PM
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Girl don’t say that :((( I’m also going insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:40 PM
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I know it’s not my job, but it’s hard if I still care about him…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:40 PM
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Was? He will still be, tomorrow :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:39 PM
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Tomorrow I am going on that date and getting laid, on Saturday we have a full day of things planned with my girls, then we’re going out. On Sunday I will convince my brother to go out on a very late hangover brunch with me. I will be sticking to the plan! The only problem is that my brother is working on Saturday night so I won’t be able to ask him which club to avoid so that what happened yesterday won’t happen again. But I will keep my fingers crossed, which is hard because I also want the “un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:38 PM
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I really want to but I don’t want to hurt him more if it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:33 PM
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I would get back with him but what if I change my mind and want to leave again? He doesn’t deserve that. But if there’s a man that could make me settle down, it’s definitely him :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:30 PM
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I know he hasn’t turned into a monk, so I don’t think I need to do that 😂 there’s nothing wrong with him, I’m the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:25 PM
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That already happened a few years ago. He should be having fun not drunk calling me in the middle of the night after we accidentally ran into each other after a year of no contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:23 PM
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Because he wants to be a doctor and I want to be a globe thot :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:21 PM
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I think I am, I am just coping. I do wish he moved on but then I would be going off about that on here :((( I want him to be happy and I don’t want to start feeling guilty about my choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:12 PM
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He’s 6 months younger than me :)))))
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:09 PM
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I have a question for the people I see here all the time saying that the top 1% men never settle or have eyes only for one woman. How do I make my ex realize that he’s wasting his potential while being lovesick for me? We need to get him through this :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:05 PM
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Yes, I’m not canceling, we’ll see how it goes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:02 PM
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I usually get a humble margherita, as long as I’m eating it in Italy :))
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:00 PM
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I’m still alive and not the one who will deliver the first grandkid 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:55 PM
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He doesn’t want to be an ex, I am the problem. Our lifestyles aren’t compatible :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:54 PM
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My ex was born in 2000 too 😂 in the first month of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:52 PM
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Yes, Algeria is definitely in Africa :)))
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:51 PM
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I think I will, but if I cancel the date, it would be better to do it now than tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:50 PM
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I might be polygamous in nature too. I am definitely not polyamorous though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:48 PM
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26 next month, but the men I go for are 30-40 year olds. I am trying to switch things up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:47 PM
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Ah I don’t know what to say. My dad would give in to whatever if he saw me shed a single tear 😂 did you try crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:46 PM
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Guessing won’t make me answer either :))
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:44 PM
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He hasn’t, I wish he had, it would have made it easier for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:43 PM
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He’s 22 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:43 PM
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I usually start with some martinis, then I might start going through the cocktail menu :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:42 PM
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You will have to come up with more than that to impress my parents and make my ex jealous 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:40 PM
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The stable guy was a 19 year old fuck boy when we got together 😂 before that I had some teenage relationships in high school, he never had nor wanted anything serious. The plan was to be fwbs for a while, we just fell in love, so after that we were in an actual relationship until I graduated and broke up with him because I wanted to travel and live in different places. Actually yeah he was and is amazing, but the way you said that just made me burst out laughing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:39 PM
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