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K so you have seen it and you're a liar as per usual with your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:19 PM
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Nope. Not worth the effort. You've seen it yourself and already chose to dismiss it because you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:40 PM
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Sounds like the solution is to assume all men are inherently violent and "act accordingly"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:20 AM
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it's not and you don't know what objective means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:31 AM
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Oh lord...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:15 PM
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Just the cattiness. I honestly thought he was gay when I first met him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:39 AM
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You're gonna get a lot of rude answers but I actually understand exactly what you mean I had a friend who was attractive but perpetually single. And I mean ACTAULY attractive as in he modeled. However he was pretty insufferable as a person and came off as effeminate lol. He was a grown ass man who acted like a highschool mean girl who rarely had anything positive to say about anyone. He would attract beautiful women then they would quickly be put off by his behavior or he would treat them badly …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:32 AM
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You're just insulting her and telling her she's wrong without really explaining why. I've seen people shave and grow their beards or hair and look like different people so I don't see how wearing makeup is different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:47 PM
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It is and that's why it's equally retarded because they're not different lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:43 PM
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You know I never thought about this logic and yeah you're right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:41 PM
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Oh of course they will. After all "choose better" really means "choose me" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:54 PM
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A lot of men don't even like when women approach them. Like literally it makes them less attracted because it makes the women come off as desperate lol. There are also a lot of men who won't reject women they aren't into. They will keep them around for sex so if you're not open to that in my opinion I think it's in the womens best interest to just let men do the approaching. Undesirable men are going to push back against this but I'm not talking about undesirable men when I'm saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:49 PM
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So did that movie adolescence on Netflix really make y'all mad lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:46 AM
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I swear I don't have a complex and I don't even like dogs. Maybe this is subconsciously why lmao 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:51 AM
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Random af but this reminds me back in grade school it got out that this one kid had basically half a penis when another boy saw him using the urinal. The boy didn't seem to be ashamed at all and told us this story about how he was in his underwear playing with his dog and the dog just....bit it off.... No idea how he's doing now but I think about him every now and then lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:34 PM
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Like they go on and on about wanting society to address male loneliness but when it tries in a bias free way that doesn't paint them as completely innocent victims they just complain misandry and completely shut everything down. To solve the issue we need to actually dissect it and be honest about it. How can we solve it if we can't even talk about it?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 04:28 PM
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Nah I think if you can have casual sex without getting emotionally attached then go for it. If not then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:06 PM
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I personally don't. Most other women I know do though. I guess I'm weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:34 PM
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Then you're just lying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:08 PM
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Well I barely see those guys. About 75% of them are dudes just thinking because of their height or face or something nothing else about them matters and that's the sole reason women aren't into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:01 PM
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Oh good luck with this guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:59 AM
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Oh yap yap yap Nowhere in there did I ask for your crazy manifesto dude. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:37 AM
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A while back I saw a video of a guy in Iran or someplace where women have basically no rights get tied down while dogs chewed his penis off for raping a little girl. There are lots of torture videos like that of rapists being dealt with in foreign countries. So yea most dudes actually REALLY hate rapists lol. This fantasy where incels think they will be able to just in mass grab women off the streets will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:41 AM
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And for the record he actually does seem very autistic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:09 AM
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This is what most people already do. It's why so many manosphere guys get on here claiming women "lie" about what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:01 AM
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Okay. You clearly have all the answers then so keep doing what you're doing and keep failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:38 PM
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The post is saying that generally looks aren't as important as you guys think they are and that's what most of us have always been saying. You guys just seem to suddenly become autistic about this though and read "Looks don't matter at all and you can date anyone you want as long as you have the right personality! You will never be rejected for your looks!" Deny it as much as you want but if you can't grasp something as simple as this then you can't grasp the nuances of interacting with others i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:26 PM
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If you have no standards and literally any woman will do for you then you are correct. Looks do not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:09 PM
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There are generalizations but they exist on a spectrum. Where one's partnership fall on that spectrum depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:03 PM
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I'm saying there's lots of different reasons for women to be into dominating men that don't involve hating them. I mentioned a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:40 PM
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A lot of women I know who like being dominated also have a humiliation kink. Some also don't actually feel weak around most men so want to be in a position where they feel completely powerless. I see no reason to believe these are outliers. Human sexuality is a lot more complex than you're making it out to be. This sounds more like an issue of you not understanding women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:27 PM
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What purpose does it serve besides being antagonistic? What would you blame women in general for regarding those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:34 PM
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they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:16 AM
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yawn I didn't and this was a nothing response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:25 AM
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I consider very good friends Do you really?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:25 PM
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straight up delusional Just returning your energy dear 😅 No I'll stick to actually understanding sarcasm instead of going on ironic confidently wrong screeds but thank you nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:35 PM
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I think your response here is a perfect example of manosphere guys not understanding sarcasm or really most things in general and interpreting them in the most negative way possible because they're insecure and feminine and need to be the victims in everything. Do you see it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:14 PM
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And also they keep failing the written part of the exam because "Pff! Why do I need to know all that bs to drive anyway!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:35 PM
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I think it's more an issue of men not understanding the difference between people understanding their issue and people validating their issue. I understand a lot of the takes here as well as the logic and thought processes involved but sometimes the takes are just straight up delusional and should not be validated. To put it bluntly some of the issues just aren't issues A few comments up there's a guy getting personally offended that Comic Cons have signs that say costumes aren't consent. People…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:28 PM
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I agree with this. Maybe a neurodivergent man who does okay with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:23 PM
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A while back a guy ran up on me at the gas station because he felt I was taking too long at the pump so I pulled my taser on him. Then his wife witnessing the whole thing is on the phone lying to the police saying I pulled a weapon on him for no reason. Assholes actually tend to marry eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:09 PM
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No you guys get mad either way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:58 PM
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In the most common type of female circumcision the entire clitoris is removed and the labia sewn partially shut. The goal is to ensure the women don't enjoy sex at all not to reduce pleasure. We can shame both without trying to make them a one-to-one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:26 AM
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I'm still not seeing how this explains the orgasm gap. Also that survey doesn't factor in whether there was foreplay, what type of foreplay, or the fact that most women don't orgasm from penetration alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:54 AM
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The orgasm gap refers to how it's much easier for men orgasm than women. Where does circumcision come into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:09 AM
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Are you trying to say that the orgasm gap is caused by female circumcision?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:55 AM
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Not owed but it would be polite to let him know with one message that you want to cut contact
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:35 AM
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women are attracted to shitty men because the men are shitty, not despite it. So then all incels need to do is commit felonies to be attractive right? Does every man who commits a felony look a certain way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:40 AM
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Just about every time I see you here you're just inserting yourself into conversations going "hur hur not all men!" without actually contributing anything of value. I've explained what it means for someone to be speaking royally to you before so at this point you're just stirring up shit and acting like a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:59 PM
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Yes ughhh. I've accidentally made several of my crushes think I hate them lmao 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:51 PM
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I still uphold the opinion that it doesn't matter and constantly bringing this up only creates division
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:49 PM
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I think the argument he's trying to make is that a lot of the guys who date 18 year olds freshly out of high school would likely go younger if the laws allowed it. Since what you're attracted to doesn't depend on what's legal there's a good chance those men are actually sexually attracted to minors as well. This sounds like what he's trying to say but is having trouble articulating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:42 PM
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I think she knows why her own friend would commit suicide better than you do. This is why it's so difficult to sympathize with a lot of you guys. All your problems are just so unique and profound that nobody who's not exactly like you can ever relate or understand or experience them. Nobody could ever suffer worse than or as much as an ugly dude especially a woman. If you feel like people hate you saying things like this is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:18 AM
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Where did I say they would?? You seem to be arguing a completely different point. I'm saying that any man can get a woman no matter what his income is like just that she may not be someone he desires or is compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:16 PM
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I don't think you're disagreeing with what I just said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:05 PM
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Money doesn't matter if the goal is to get any woman at all no matter who she is or what she's like. However most women want someone of at least similar economic status to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:48 PM
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You guys are so freaking annoying. You know damn well that's not what's happening. They're being called bad people because they're saying they can't date because women are hypergamous shallow bitches and 666 or whatever the buzzword of the day is. Then a lot of the ones who don't whine that they are being blamed and called bad people when they are actually just being given actionable advice. When all those things are absent positive civil conversation happens. Stop lying about this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:39 PM
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I don't necessarily believe that. I just think it's kind of a pointless thing to argue. Life's hard for both genders in different ways and if men aren't going to acknowledge that for women I'm not going to acknowledge that for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:21 AM
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Nah men live life on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:13 AM
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I know exactly who this is. You just got your account big banned and you're posting from an alt account. Have fun while you can. Reddit admins don't play that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:22 AM
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Nah men do. Your life's not hard just because women won't fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:16 AM
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If they supported keeping women out of the workforce then yes. I don't give a damn how I sound. You don't get a pat on the back for self martyrdom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:24 AM
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I want you to accept that advances in science has been paid for in blood by men, in ways that no one would consent to. Oh well. It didn't have to be that way but men chose to be stupid bigots. You don't get a thank you for that lol. And women don't envy men. Women mostly just want men to leave us tf alone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:09 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:07 AM
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Back when doctors knew little to nothing about female bodies women were not even legally allowed to join wars or work most dangerous jobs to die and have their bodies dissected. You guys have this really silly habit of pointing how women didn't contribute to things they were prohibited from contributing to by men. Y'all literally cause like 90 percent of the issues yall complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:55 AM
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Nah men live life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:54 PM
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Just fyi that's a mod you're demonstrating how small and hateful you are to so enjoy that incoming yeet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:31 PM
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yawn 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:22 PM
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This reminds me a while back when a dude here got SO pissed when I told him women "pump and dump" men too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:13 PM
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"But wamen!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:58 AM
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For heterosexual men y'all sure do talk about dick a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:06 PM
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I'm fine with it as long as it doesn't look like I'm busy or focused on something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:45 AM
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I think for most the issue isn't insemination. You could easily just use some sort of applicator to insert his cum into yourself. I think it's more just a dude jizzing out of a hole under his balls is kinda gross and weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:20 PM
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Perhaps but I think it just triggers something visceral for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:26 PM
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Like..... imagine how women do the duck waddle to the bathroom to go clean up after sex but it's the guy. Idk it's just.....ugh....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:53 PM
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Probably not. No. Unless we were already married maybe......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:41 PM
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Maybe men should stop being inherently violent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:13 PM
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Honestly this whole "gender war" in general doesn't even really have two sides. Most of it is just women telling men to leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:54 PM
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Oh absolutely. I already came to this conclusion from the daily whine sessions about how oppressed men are because they can't abandon their own male children lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:36 PM
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Damn I'm stealing this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:02 PM
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It's been a while since I was single but when I was I would meet a lot of guys who would lie about having a partner. This was a frequent complaint I heard from other women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:57 PM
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• Paying for first dates yes • Buying flowers weekly without asking • 'Sidewalk rule' • Opening the door for her always • Pulling out the chair for her before she gets seated • Gifts every month or two The rest of these things are nice gestures but not required but they will definitely earn you extra brownie points. I do expect gifts for holidays and special occasions though as I'm a generous person myself and gifts are how I express my love language I would say these are all pretty much the bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:02 AM
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You're wrong but you'll continue to say this and never, ever evolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:40 AM
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blah blah blah.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:26 AM
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yap yap yap But if they are murdered it's most likely going to be at the hands of a man. The point was that men are more dangerous to women than women are to men. Facts don't care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:25 AM
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damn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:04 AM
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Most non desperate men actually do care about womens income btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:01 AM
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No it wasn't and no goal posts have been moved
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:51 AM
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Facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:50 AM
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How often we kill each other, even though a Big Mac is Strawman. You wanted an explanation for why there are more womens shelters and that is the explanation. One. It's not just people in power, but everyone who contributed. Nope it's people in power. They could easily just enslave you again. Two. It's not taking credit for anything You are lol. Anyway you're Freddy Kruger isn't under your Anyway still a strawman and you have no argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:30 PM
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K so anyway if we get back on topic men are still a bigger threat to womens lives than women are to mens lives. Nope. People in power built society and those included men and women and I doubt they'd appreciate some pleb taking credit for their work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:07 PM
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Yes they are. If you're going to be murdered or have violence committed against you most of the time it's going to be at the hands of a man. Don't ignore facts just because they hurt your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:55 PM
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On most posts I've seen of guys shaming women with no ass other guys just join in. There may be a few who say they like her ass but most of them aren't defending
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:50 PM
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Yes. You have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:34 PM
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"blah blah blah...."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:08 PM
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So is a man who wants his wife to be a homemaker while he is the provider wanting to be abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:00 AM
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I don't think it's up to you to decide if someones love is genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:55 AM
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Awesome because I don't and neither does anyone else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:49 PM
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I think you lie out of convenience. Since we're online and you're a stranger no one can realistically prove it so you rely on that. Tallying up the number of dates you've been on, documenting each one, like you're studying wildlife is not how most people operate. It's how an inexperienced person who is on the spectrum might assume dating works though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:44 PM
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What part of yours is objectively true?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:29 PM
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I suggest you learn what the word objective means
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:24 PM
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Nope. I just wanted a pink flare color
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:49 PM
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You haven't dated a hundred girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:48 PM
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You don't need to be perfect to get an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:37 PM
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This was so close to not being manosphere rhetoric. You don't have to be "perfect" and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:32 PM
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blah blah blah I don't need you to mansplain my beliefs to me. I said exactly what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:32 AM
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People are raped everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:07 AM
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Doesn't need to be ignored but unless you're a celebrity or wealthy it's really a nonissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:05 AM
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It's sounding more like you're trying to say both those things are just as likely when they aren't. More women aren't being raped because women are avoiding situations where it can happen. In places where law enforcement is more lax or women don't have the means to be more cautious a lot more rapes happen. Aside from celebrities false accusation numbers don't really change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:59 AM
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That's because women are cautious and actively do things to avoid being in situations where they can be raped. False rape accusations are low because most people aren't evil and vindictive and unless you're a wealthy celebrity there's not much to gain from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:41 AM
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Yup. I think they're hot. Not attracted though because I don't know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:21 PM
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You can't be attracted to a photo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:08 PM
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I know where you're going and it doesn't change my stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:03 PM
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Yes. Do you? Solitary confinement is literally used as a form of torture. People not touching you is not torture. You(royal) try to act like your problems are the worst problems anyone could have. Like imagine someone talking about being tortured as a war prisoner or starved, or living on the streets and you try to relate with "Well a girl has never touched me 🥺" This is why you guys barely get sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:14 AM
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You could also survive in solitary confinement for a very long time. So being in solitary confinement for a long time is just as bad as "not being touched" for a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:40 AM
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I don't agree that it's needed. It's just really wanted. Lots of people go years without sex and are fine. The guys here can't stop treating it like a need because they don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:34 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:45 AM
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Okay just clarifying. You're wrong but I get the feeling you have your mind made up. This is why I will never recommend women date ugly men thinking they will be better partners lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:04 AM
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If you’ve got ten women vying for your attention, the incentive to be a devoted boyfriend drops significantly Case in point. It seems like it would work that way to an unattractive man. Attractive guys approach dating similarly to how women do. They don't have an issue getting attractive women so they put more value in non superficial things like personality, hobbies, and compatibility. They have a lot of the same gripes women do. So you're basically saying most men who are good partners are onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:56 AM
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Okay that was pretty funny 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:42 PM
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Because a lot of desperate unattractive men are projecting what they would do if they suddenly became good looking because they think the only thing making them unattractive is their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:28 PM
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You're so weird for finding it weird that I would personally attack someone who's personally attacking me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:29 PM
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what a lazy and dull retort. this really doesnt contribute anything of value
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:07 PM
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"Choose better"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:05 PM
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You're so angry and hostile for no reason. No wonder you get cheated on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:58 PM
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what a lazy and dull retort. this really doesnt contribute anything of value to the original post much less my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:54 PM
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So do men. Cheaters are gonna cheat and that's not gender specific
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:51 PM
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yap yap yap....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:57 AM
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They're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:25 PM
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Legally of course. I couldn't imagine just dipping out of a childs life after raising them for years though over something the mom did but that's his prerogative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:27 PM
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Not only would it be a turn off I would assume you're planning to harm me and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:38 AM
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Nope. Men with power let women live more or less freely just like they did you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:11 PM
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Yeah all men are rapist too now that I think about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:15 PM
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(For Chad) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:51 PM
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And everytime nature is brought up you guys can't resist talking about rape lol. So then the options are " act like people who don't have rights or we will treat you like people who don't have rights". I don't negotiate with terrorists. I'll just have hot babies with hot Chad while you guys all die out and get replaced with Chads offspring. Then those men will grow into well adjusted adults who don't think they're entitled to other humans and the world will keep spinning like you never existed 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:46 PM
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Prove that those are the exact same women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:19 PM
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Why is it so difficult for you to just accept that you're wrong and aren't important enough for women to collectively lie to? It's everything but the most rational explanation for you guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:11 PM
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I've said this before but I think women are honest about what they're attracted to. It's just if they list those things then manosphere guys think that means they need to be attracted to literally every single guy who meets the listed preferences and if she's not then she's a liar. Also to them those preferences are not negotiable then she's also a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:48 PM
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Oh yap yap yap most men do not feel this way. You are the minority whether you like it or not. Instead of trying to help other men you guys just act like parasites and try to drag other men down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:18 AM
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Oh so this is a troll post...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:50 AM
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No they don't. This is downright pathetic and not at all how most young men view themselves. Work on your low self-worth and stop trying to project it onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:47 AM
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Not gonna lie I don't trust a red pillers definition of "decently attractive" at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:47 AM
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Well if they're not lowering your standards they're obviously attractive to who they want to be attractive to. People body shame when they body shame. It has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:44 AM
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I mean if you're not attracting anyone you're by definition unattractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:37 AM
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No he won't. That's you projecting what an unattractive man would do if he suddenly became attractive. Chad actually has standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:00 AM
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I mean y'all still think it makes sense for ugly awkward weirdos to be able to fuck the same women Chad fucks just because Chad didn't commit. Men absolutely overestimate how attractive they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:56 AM
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You hate women and like when they're murdered and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:17 PM
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Dude there's no reason to say any of that to her. Just leave the class if you're not comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:16 PM
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Yeah men really live life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:23 PM
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Well you've been raping and murdering women and children since the beginning of time so maybe you owe us
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:11 AM
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I have seen the documentary and there's absolutely no evidence that she was abusive towards him. Also other people who knew the couple have come forward and said Brian was the abusive one. He's just desperately grasping on to things to defend a murderer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:36 AM
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You just made all that up based off nothing. There was nothing to indicate she didn't scratch him in self-defense nor was there anything to indicate there was any "50/50" abuse going on. Other people have even come forward and called him out for being abusive. What a garbage take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:33 AM
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Not dating them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:29 AM
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Man you are an HR case waiting to happen. I don't know why this conversation is still going on. Don't touch people without their permission. It's that simple. Like damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:19 AM
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dismantled the gender role for men in dating I keep hearing this and on paper it sounds good but I think in practice it would make men come off as less masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:41 PM
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Yea I would say if it is urine it's not the same kind of urine and at that point it's just kinda semantics really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:36 PM
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he's 40. Someone said it a few comments up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:25 AM
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Yet you still somehow managed to be the only pathetic one.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:22 AM
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Oh wow...now I feel kinda bad....kinda....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:20 AM
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Op are you maybe on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:00 PM
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think you overestimate the demand for orbiters among women I think on some level they know this. It's just them trying to make women who aren't into them bad people for not being into them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:00 PM
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So don't do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:29 PM
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If you're giving your money to women you're not even dating that's your own fault and you're the moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:25 AM
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If that were true they wouldn't need to be passport bros now would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:20 AM
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I forget where I saw a clip of a passport bro who brought a woman from overseas and then was pissed that she didn't want to go 50/50 and wanted to be a homemaker lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:34 AM
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It's also insulting to the woman to think that every last one is only after your wallets Bro some of them will even tell you themselves that they are lol. They wouldnt choose to uproot their lives to live with some fat loser that couldn't even manage to cut it with women in his own country if they had a better option. That's why so many of them run off after they get citizenship. Like..... I don't know how this isn't obvious to you. It's like thinking the Hooters waitress actually likes you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:53 AM
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The whole concept has always been weird to me because guys complain so much about gold diggers but would literally pay for a woman from another country?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:47 AM
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That doesn't say in a relationship. So you lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:25 AM
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Okay so quote the part where it says it only matters what women want in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:55 AM
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What's the point of a comment like this or do you just need to take advantage of a moment to incite someone further instead of at least trying to life them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:14 AM
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Link the post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:12 AM
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"hur hur I'm censored because I'm right!" is a super brain dead assumption. Nope. It's censored because as of now red pill is essentially a hate group and right wing propaganda tool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:10 AM
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Oh brother 🙎‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:53 AM
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Yes an astronaut and then I grew up. Try it instead of acting like the worlds wronged you because nobody wants your short maladjusted ass lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:41 AM
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Because these posts are annoying. You've never been told that height doesn't matter and you know it. People have height preferences just like people have preferences for everything. Priority can and tends to vary just like most other preferences. This isn't hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:29 AM
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Okay so then this is really that same autistic question y'all keep asking? Great I'll go ahead and report this question for circle jerking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:20 AM
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Oh it's definitely a social skill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:13 AM
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Really depends on a lot of things but generally I've found more taller men attractive than shorter ones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:09 AM
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It's always the most malicious explanation over the most common sense one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:55 AM
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I mean not only would I not date him I'm not even sure I'd want to be friends with someone like that.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:30 PM
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I second her that guy absolutely does not sound "better" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:25 PM
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She really does. It just gets kinda annoying when half the responses are just "Ghahhh Lilith again 😩" I wish people would just stfu if they don't have anything meaningful to contribute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:22 PM
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No they won't. Unattractive women are invisible to men which is why so many guys here insist there are no ugly couples. And people abuse pretty privilege regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:43 PM
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Okay? And? Why is this an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:16 PM
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Well it gets easier when you stop trying to look for rules and fairness in attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:56 AM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:14 AM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:29 PM
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Okay and Victoria's Secret models are treated better than most normal women and most of us don't think much of it. This is such a bizarre thing to get this angry over. Hot people get away with shit and are treated better. Water is wet. Get over it lol You're upset because unattractive guys aren't getting treated like they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:12 PM
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"But the wamen!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:49 PM
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Oh? Where's that happening at?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:37 PM
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Sir play word games with your mom. If you don't want to be romantic with your partner then fine. Just be willing to accept whatever comes of that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:31 PM
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Okay so then when I said I can want equal rights and still expect my husband to buy me flowers your response was really an irrelevant statement. Got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:10 PM
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I think the basic human rights of women and dating are completely separate topics and should just stop being discussed together. It's not an either or thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:28 PM
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I've always thought discussions like this come off as grown ass men wanting to be treated like pretty princesses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:56 PM
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I can want equal rights and expect my husband to buy me flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:46 PM
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The only time I don't like compliments is when they're from guys about my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:33 PM
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Sounds like you should date each other then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:51 AM
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Incel: I have no idea what you believe so I'll just desperately clutch onto your silly flair then make up an argument while you laugh at my expense. Enjoy.... whatever this is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:49 AM
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Nah I'll just stick with my husband who doesn't whine because he has to be romantic to his own wife lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:44 AM
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Sure. Call yourself what you like. I have lots of different names for you though lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:40 AM
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Of course. I don't value the opinions of men who don't meet my standards 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:47 AM
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Sure I can and will 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:40 AM
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"What?! You can't have flowers and equal rights!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:19 AM
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Watch them ask if you can protect yourself from an avalanche or some shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:17 AM
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And you have no proof that's a particularly large subset of men for any particular woman so not worth worrying about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:10 AM
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It's.....it's like a car crash I can't look away from.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:32 PM
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So you think 55-year-old men aren't sexually attracted to 55-year-old women lol? I like how you keep going on about how uneducated I am about this topic but all your assumptions are based off revenge fantasies. You have absolutely no proof that the 55-year-old woman isn't the one who doesn't want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:25 PM
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No I absolutely do. You do as well. You're just trying to bend and stretch the definition until it's unfalsifiable. By your logic a teenager who isn't sexually attracted to any of the boys who are into her has hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:16 PM
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The wall is not about attention from men or sex. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:12 PM
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Nope the average woman gets married around 30. You'll have to find a different straw to grasp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:09 PM
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The why is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:48 AM
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Bruh people can't date each other without mutual consent. There is no "GateKeeper". If you're so desperate you'll date anyone who wants to date you then that's on you but that's not how most men operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:28 AM
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It's because when people constantly have rape on their mind it tends to randomly seep out into their regular conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:19 AM
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No one's the "gatekeeper"of anything. You're acting like you're not a participating party in who you date or have sex with. If that's your reality then fine but don't act like that's the norm for most others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:16 AM
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Can you keep your rape fantasies to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:41 AM
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I mean yes.....if they wanted to remarry they would and some even do. You acknowledged yourself that most men remarry women around the same age as them so I mean..... Sounds like you're just going to have to get over the fact there's never going to be a time in most women's life where they're less desirable than the average man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:36 AM
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And that's not really relevant to the topic. But if we're going there both of those demographics have an easier time remarrying than a divorced older man. Most older divorced women don't remarry because they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:29 AM
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Most of them remarry women around the same age as them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:20 AM
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Those guys have a tendency to do that with a lot of things as far as women. Like they're just laser scanning everything women say and do looking for gotchas so the can go "HA! See? Women are just as hateful as we are!" Meanwhile they have had entire subs shut down for inciting rape and murder against women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:41 PM
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Yeah that's part of why I left that sub. They just really suck at talking about issues that don't pertain to white women sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:39 PM
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yellow flag: r/passportbros The dudes there are normally pretty chill just the concept itself is a bit sus to me. Also the "true" version of anything. That's almost always that sub but with far right bs allowed red flag: r/mensrights Supporting mens rights is great but supporting that sub is a no. It's just full of incels and I'm surprised it hasn't been banned. They hardly ever discuss mens rights and are clearly a hate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:26 PM
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Yeah I was about to say he's just going to lie and say he does volunteer work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:31 PM
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When did I say this? I said I believed hypergamy is being willing to leave your partner as soon as a better option becomes available.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:12 PM
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What is "marrying up"? I believe the concept developed before women had equal rights and married men for stability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:53 PM
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This is what I've always understood hypergamy to mean. Dating the best option available to you is just regular dating. Being willing to leave your partner if a better option becomes available would make you hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:06 PM
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You saying this but you're not really giving a reason why. If women could adopt this mindset then why can't men do it as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:27 PM
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I mean if you can't find a single woman willing to date you then the issue is more than likely internal. This doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad person. Just there's something about your personality that's negatively affecting your dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:01 AM
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You're so angry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:55 AM
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She disagreed with you and said you were being pedantic. That's not attacking your person lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:40 AM
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Lol see? The only thing about that response that was remotely a personal attack was that she used the word "you" in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:37 AM
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So then this is just you being pedantic over no one specifying they meant "biological need" even though you understood exactly what they meant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:35 AM
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And I think she's a mod so watch this comment get removed for not being civil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:25 AM
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Okay so if they don't agree with you they don't know what they're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:48 AM
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Or you're both just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:05 AM
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Show me a source that shows feminists promoting girls going into porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:20 AM
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source.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:18 AM
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Yeah that kind of guy sounds boring af edit: yea sorry I guess I pissed off a mod again lol But yea it's really not up to others to decide for me how I perceive others. That guy sounds boring to me. Like the one guy who didnt get invited out for drinks with the coworkers so is treating it like a virtue. Said what I said. I don't need to rationalize anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:31 PM
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Oh no yeah it definitely makes sense when you understand what red pill is generally about. I just kind of found humor in the fact that even red pills supposed female counterparts don't want red pill men 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:29 PM
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What about what about what about....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:54 PM
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So red pill women advises against dating red pill men? That's kinda funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:46 PM
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If it helps, he's a big liar, lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:30 PM
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So just don't do anything unless it guarantees results? That sounds like a good way to stay a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:32 PM
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hahaha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:18 PM
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Well that's the thing. Women are a lot better at this than men are. I'll just convince him I'm going to go home with him after dinner and after he pays I'll just not do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:02 PM
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Nope I won't. I'll just eat the meal then say I'm going to call you tomorrow and ghost you lol 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:56 PM
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Read the rest of my statement slowly....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:35 PM
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If one person feels like the other isn't putting in enough effort they should either communicate that or leave. There's no reason for dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:32 PM
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So hey guys when you get on here upset over women making you pay on dates and put a lot of effort into courting you can thank guys like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:23 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:56 AM
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Nothing. He just learned the word yesterday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:16 AM
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Blue pill is just everything that's not red pill. How can it be "the dumbest rhetoric possible" lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:11 AM
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And people are entitled to find it pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:07 AM
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You can acknowledge it. Just acknowledge it and find a new purpose instead of just wallowing and doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:00 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily say they're being unreasonable. What's unreasonable is just refusing to even try to find a purpose outside of women. Women could find purpose outside of motherhood and dating so why can't men? And before you say it, it doesn't matter that women are still desired because most of that desire does not come from people those women want. Men are also desired by people they dont want but that doesn't matter because most men are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:13 PM
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We don't think you're being dramatic and that's what makes it so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:58 PM
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It has absolutely not. In fact it has done the opposite and motivated multiple mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:51 PM
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Well? Why would we if how we are gets us the men we want already?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:49 PM
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And just because you don't like something doesn't make it feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:25 PM
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So you wouldn't teach your own daughter to protect herself and have common sense just because it hurts your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:18 PM
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What? You talk about women like they're robots so I don't think you have to worry about any of this anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:42 AM
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No this is nothing she needs to think about because neither of these guys would ever know any of this even if it were true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:15 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:22 AM
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No lol.....most of us will have kids. Just with men we're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:10 AM
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Your entire counterpoint is a bunch of shrilling and going "nu uh!" Well "uh huh!" lol If us not aligning was fine you would not have initiated this interaction. You can tell me what you're going to do and I can tell you I think it's pathetic because I do. Oh well....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:07 AM
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How do you know it's going to constantly decrease though? Do you just assume any graph that trends downward just trends downward forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:57 AM
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Did I say you didn't have the right to be motivated by what you wanted to be motivated by? What does it even mean to have the right to be motivated by something? And you were the one who added the word "evil" in. This has been my topic the entire time. Maybe don't respond if you don't actually understand the topic??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:54 AM
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What choice do you have? No one's going to fuck you if they don't want to. And it is pathetic and evil btw and no you don't have the rights to somebody elses body
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:22 AM
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It won't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:04 AM
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I just think this whole mindset that everything men do is for a woman needs to just go away. Imagine refusing to be a functional adult just because no one will date you(general). It is so God damn pathetic. Biology this biology that. If this were really all about biology then why are women so fine without having kids but for men it's "waaaaa but mah nature!"? Why are women the "broken" ones here? And no a society where half the population is subjugated is a society that does not deserve to exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:57 AM
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You're racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:44 AM
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I literally just overtly did 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:42 AM
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I mean personally I've never found white men attractive anyway and will be loud and proud about it lol. Especially ones who have this weird constant need to try to convince people they aren't racist(the ones who do this likely are btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:35 AM
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hm?? I mean personally the idea of a cup full of menstrual blood makes me cringe but "bad character" lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:26 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:20 AM
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I went on a date with a guy and we went back to his place to watch a movie. We got hungry so we went to go pick up some food. On the way back he told me I couldn't eat any of my food in his car which was fine. It's his car. Only thing is he ate almost his whole meal while we drove back to his place. We both ordered the same meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:13 AM
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Most bisexual men I know come off as effeminate so maybe that has something to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:01 AM
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Yes. Please don't listen to her lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:59 PM
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Nah it's true. Unattractive guys can be pretty bad too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:04 PM
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But also don't forget if she does this she gives up on relationships too easily and sees men as disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:38 PM
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Well, I mean... <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:55 AM
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Okay like I told the other dude. You clearly have all the answers so keep doing what's convenient for you. Whatever comes of it comes of it 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:18 AM
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Bruh...that was me, and I said nothing about being sent to war. Y'all just lie about everything 🤣 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:09 AM
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Bro you sound like you're trying to convert me to Scientology or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:59 AM
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Yeah this is all starting to get way off topic. Those prostitute comments are not hurting my feelings btw. Especially not coming from some dude who probably thinks the Hooters waitress really likes him. Okay I have first hand real world experience but you definitely should listen to your theories and speculations instead. Good things will definitely come from that 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:54 AM
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Women are not attracted to men old enough to be their fathers. Most of them cant even stay hard without help. They want your money lol. Yes they get into regular real relationships with people they are actually attracted to. I have friends who married rich older men for money as well and most of them have younger men on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:18 AM
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Lol I used to sugar baby and definitely had a guy I was actually attracted to on the side. It's what you sign up for with those relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:03 AM
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Damn you were so close to having a grounded take then just b lined right into hatred and revenge fantasy land lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:56 AM
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The part I personally came for yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:49 AM
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Is it weird that with erotica I often skim to the sex part lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:10 AM
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I don't really think it's that different from erotica or smut
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:54 PM
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Because when we start to address legitimate male issues like mental health some of you guys just hijack everything and make it all about dating and sex and then it just devolves into a hateful rhetoric and nothing ever gets worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:57 PM
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You'd rather respond with random bs I never said? sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:33 PM
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So then what's the alternative? Do nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:22 PM
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Exactly. Maybe because they don't understand women they think they are also difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:43 PM
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Reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:29 PM
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Generally yes they are depending on the context
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:45 PM
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Relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:01 PM
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You should express yourself but if the feelings are jealousy or insecurity you should keep most of that to yourself or discuss it with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:54 AM
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I think men like you would have found an excuse regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:39 AM
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"baaaa that's all just arbitrary yapping!" No I mean exactly what I said. "People aren't a monolith" can be applied to pretty much any social interaction yet there are still certain behaviors that are genarally accepted as undesirable. It's like talking to the wall. You dismiss inconvenient answers and just fill in the blanks with what you want the answers to be. I know my own husband better than you do lol I already clarified that I wasn't applying this to men opening up to women anyway and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:37 AM
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You quoting me doesn't do anything. Complaining and being offended by everything is not the same thing as opening up about your problems. Opening up about your problems is not: "waaaa but how come Chad doesn't have to do that??" "waaaa 666!" "waaa did you do it for your ex tho?!" "waaa I watched this grifter content now women of the internet answer for your crimes!" Opening up about your problems is: The other day I was watching a medical drama show and my husband asked me to turn it off because…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:09 AM
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This is essentially what I'm trying to say. Personally I don't think I could find myself attracted to someone I'm more resilient than lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:49 AM
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Bruh you're perfectly demonstrating my point right now. I never said this applied to men opening up about their problems. You just went on a whole rant over something I never even said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:38 AM
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Thinking emotions in general come off as weak and beta demonstrates a lack of emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:34 PM
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I mean.... hopefully it motivates you to implement the "workout and get your money" up parts y'all like to pretend it's about. Complaining and being easier to offend than the average female sjw is just never gonna make you attractive to women. I'm sorry lol. It really does make you(general) come off as emotionally weak and "beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:14 PM
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Then hypergamy is synonymous with dating and is a redundant word
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:57 PM
8

That's not hypergamy. That's just dating. They would be hypergamous if they were monkey branching around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:51 PM
7

Women are not hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:44 PM
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Bruh honestly yall need to get drafted into the Marines or something and gain some resilience. All this dramatic whining is not masculine or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:31 PM
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I wouldn't say that's specific to undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:34 PM
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Yea ya did. Play with your mom. Why is a woman dating the best option available to her morally wrong and why is it just as morally wrong but rational to rape her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:48 PM
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I mean yeah.... Look at your local sex offender registry. Those guys aren't exactly Chads lol But still statistically if a woman is to be assaulted it's more likely to be by an intimate partner or somebody she knows
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:21 PM
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Rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:55 PM
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We both know you are lol.... Your whole argument is if women want to use their desirability advantage to date the best options available to them then men should be able to use their physical advantages to rape them. This is nothing new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:54 PM
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What's stopping bigger stronger men from enslaving half of you in this hypothetical society?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:08 PM
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Why are men with more natural advantages than other men with natural advantages expected to use their advantages morally when it comes to those other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:03 PM
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Just about every male issue y'all complain about he is getting ready to make worse.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:47 PM
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No the majority of people who voted for Trump were not women. Why do you people just make things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:07 PM
3

It's so interesting seeing your takes. Sometimes they're down to earth takes that I agree with and other times they just sound like crazy red pill yapping. It's like there's two different people using your account. It's weird lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:36 PM
5

It's absolutely not lol.... Y'all just lie about everything. Is this why you always assume everybody else is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:32 PM
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I don't have to. I know why men like you hate women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:32 PM
4

Yes lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:22 AM
8

We don't care about "backlash". We literally don't know you people lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:32 AM
7

And then you could probably clap back with something just as extreme but the sad part is they would probably say yes because they're that desperate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:10 AM
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Bruhh and arguing with them about that is just.... Like have they just never seen any unattractive couples in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:06 AM
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They don't struggle to honestly admit their preferences. It's just you guys autistically seem to think if she states a preference she needs to automatically be attracted to every single guy who meets that preference and if she's not she's a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:59 AM
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I...."literally" didn't and you're "literally" bad at logic. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:15 AM
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what about, what about, what about.... Some random in the world somewhere is doing this bad thing so that justifies me doing this bad thing to this other random person who had nothing to do with any of it. Exactly how narcissists justify their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:38 AM
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If that specific woman didn't do anything to you then you're a garbage person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:32 AM
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And I wish they understood how insane they sound making all these arguments where if women want literally anything from men( including to just be left alone) then men should leverage womens basic human rights or rights to womens bodies. " oh you don't want to pay for your burger and fries on a date?? I guess you don't want equal rights after all!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:30 AM
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You could use this logic to justify just about anything. You lie cheat and steal because you want to lol. If you're going to be a garbage person take responsibility for it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:16 AM
5

Then why did you reply 🤣 This comment is like typing "I have nothing to say"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:10 AM
1

Yes....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:42 AM
0

That's still not explaining why it matters. The end result is the same. Understanding why these guys are unattractive is not going to make them more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:11 AM
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I mean if anyone does acknowledge that why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:09 AM
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Or don't. Just stop being hateful and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:55 PM
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As much as I can't stand red pillers I don't want them to disappear. I want their pain and loneliness to disappear and I think that would make the world a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:11 PM
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You didn't read anything I just said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:59 PM
2

Okay now prove the divorces are because the women aren't attracted to their husbands and then we'll talk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:20 PM
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I wonder why people growing and changing is such a difficult concept for dudes here to grasp? It's always got to be the most malicious explanation over the most rational one. Have you been the same exact person your entire life? For me the guys I was into 15-20 years ago aren't even my type anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:55 PM
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Tell yourself whatever you want. Most married people love each other and you have no reason to believe otherwise. Just because you're miserable and bitter doesn't mean everyone else is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:38 AM
3

I would have kept that 300 part to myself 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:39 AM
2

, had 50 dates in 1.5 years and can verify they are right about everything It's this obsession with numbers and percentages thats the dead giveaway for me lol. Most people who can go on that many dates lose count after like 10 or 15. They try to let the anonymity of the internet do a lot of heavy lifting for them 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:59 PM
2

men would immediately "win" whatever the fight is. Aye keep your woman beating fantasies to yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:14 PM
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If you ask 10 people what red pill is you’ll get a different answer every time. You actually won't lol. Most of them will say it's angry dudes screeching into a mic because women rejected them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:36 PM
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That's just moving goal posts. You have absolutely no proof those women don't genuinely want their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:38 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:57 PM
2

So "no true red pill"? And also no red pillers generally are misogynistic men who don't like women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:55 PM
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I mean there are good things and bad things to being either gender. I don't feel any particular way towards men because of that and I'm certainly not "frenemies" with them over it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:33 PM
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Don’t you, on some level though? no... Like, most of the women I see in passing seem to hold in a ton of anger around gende You asked them? Because you guys seem to hold in anger so much and, for a lot of men, it truthfully hurts to see If they're holding it in then how do you know they have it? I have no idea what you're talking about with the rest of that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:50 PM
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I'm sorry if this is a tad off topic but do you ever kinda get the sentiment that some of the dudes here are jealous of female rape or sexual assault victims in a way? Like they're so touch starved they genuinely can't understand what's so bad about a woman being sexually assaulted or why women lowering their standards to date or have sex with men they're not attracted to is not a reasonable ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:45 PM
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It does imo. Well adjusted people don't think this way. You shouldn't see the person you want to date as an opponent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:33 PM
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If it helps I don't think guys like this really get women anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:57 PM
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Sorry further down in the comment thread I mentioned that he originally had a bit about equal pay in his comment and edited that part out after I replied
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:06 AM
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Oh snap didn't think about that 😳 As much as I can't stand these dumbasses I hope this doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:30 AM
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But if men are disposed there's no Next Generation either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:16 AM
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Well y'all chose to address trans people and other "weirdos" instead of your actual grievances so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:00 AM
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Can y'all stop using black people as examples to defend your bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:27 AM
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Fyi it was me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:48 PM
2

This you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:34 PM
1

Very hysterical response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:13 PM
1

Oh absolutely. I hope if humans evolve again our brains evolve to not work against us 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:27 PM
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Also socially awkward people can also be incompetent a lot of the times. Have you ever seen someone be so nervous and caught up in trying to seem normal that they end up messing things up? It's not fair but it's just kind of how life goes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:01 PM
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Isn't there a thread like every other week about how y'all used to think women were like Disney princesses and then everything changed when the Fire Nation attacked or something lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:42 PM
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Bro just go ahead and change your flare to Red Pill. You just say the same thing every post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:07 PM
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Your original comment talked about equal pay at work and you edited that part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:51 PM
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It's not. Answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:48 PM
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So because they're not paying for their burger and fries during a date they shouldn't want equal pay at their jobs or equal human rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:46 PM
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How would you even measure a negative attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:56 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:54 PM
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Yes we do. We absolutely do so yall can stfu about this "male loneliness" and leave us alone Also my husband goes out for Applebee's every week with his buddies so I guess I better go put him on schizophrenia meds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:27 PM
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Wait you're a mod lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:25 PM
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Sorry you'll have to actually see women as people to understand why your obsession with dominating women is extremely off-putting to most others. I understand what he unsuccessfully tried to do and I said what I said. Don't be so emotional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:12 PM
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"and that makes me angry and jealous" There FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:51 PM
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ehhh I just dont buy that he doesn't know what the dudes are like here though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:33 PM
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You are. If women attribute literally anything to nature then it's an immediate screed about women losing their bodily autonomy. It's a false equivalence and it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:18 PM
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Then you're arguing in bad faith and she has already won. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:09 PM
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I did and there's never a justification to say something like that....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:09 PM
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So you don't constantly see this rhetoric here about women passing up nice unattractive guys for asshole Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:00 PM
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"Oh you want literally anything at all? Well maybe you should lose your basic human rights!" What is it with red pillers obsession with trying to strip women of their rights? If you want women to be into you then stop sounding like deranged evil people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:55 PM
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There are absolutely a lot of guys here who think good looks and a good personality are mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:46 PM
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Not dating you isn't being a cunt either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:24 PM
-1

So no screenshots huh.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:57 PM
1

It's funny how incels only have mens backs when it involves defending other incels. Every other type of man is evil to them. Incels are really the biggest misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:26 PM
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I would rather drink all the cleaning products under my kitchen sink
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:15 PM
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Not dating you is not an infringement on your rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:10 PM
0

Do you have screenshots of the reddit thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:51 AM
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But honestly if you're serious I've been working remote since the pandemic meeting new people. I've made tons of new friends through this app called Bumble BFF and going to Meetup events. Some of the guys I know have said good things so I think they are worth giving a try. Up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:30 AM
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Well my husband meets up with his buddies every week for Applebee's so I guess I better go call the police
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:25 AM
5

High value men fuck more and fucking makes kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:56 PM
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Okay thanks. I'll save this reply to come back to anytime I start to have even a little sympathy for black pillers seeing as you don't have empathy for the suffering of others in even the most basic sense of the word. Also I don't know if I need to tell you those people would call you pathetic and probably beat you ALSO also don't award yourself from an alt account immediately after each reply. You don't want it to be too obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:31 PM
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Yea I didn't feel like my notifications being blown up with all the shrilling about gaslighting so I didn't say it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:45 PM
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So just to be clear you think those people would agree that them having to watch their loved ones starve to death compares to you being lonely because you're unable to find a woman willing to be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:21 PM
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For the people starving in foreign countries how do you think they would feel about you comparing male loneliness to starvation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:40 PM
0

So essentially calling someone a troll for witch hunting is witch hunting but her actual witch-hunting is perfectly civil.... Make it make sense 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:23 PM
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Yes people who do that I actually do have very little sympathy for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:25 PM
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To be fair I do think most of you understand womens issues. You just pretend not to because you're hateful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:18 PM
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I'm not and that's a cop out response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:15 PM
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And that's still not what happened here. You are perfectly demonstrating my point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:52 PM
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They said nothing about sex.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:46 PM
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And the first thing you guys say to responses like this are "You don't understand!". Everyone understands you. Everyone understands male loneliness. You're just not getting the response you feel is appropriate so you think they don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:42 PM
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You spam the same arguments and get shut down and ripped the shreds every time. This is starting to seem like a kink for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:32 PM
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Oh here we go 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:16 PM
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Nobody has to justify their dating standards and everyone is absolutely entitled to them. "I kNoW yOu ArE bUt WhAt aM I 🤓"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:59 PM
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So then what would you say to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:06 AM
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Okay.... first of all you need to stop calling yourself a loser. That's not something a seemingly normal person does. Women are normal people who do not sit around hating you or men or really anyone in general. We're just out living life just like everyone else. I think you need to really do a lot of introspection into what's making you dislike yourself so much and yes.....it may take therapy lol. Clear your browsing history and cookies and reset your algorithm so it doesn't contain anymore dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:49 AM
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Most women still marry. Just later in life. Chill out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:25 AM
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Let's see. (And this is speaking generally) Children are not forced to have jobs to keep their families afloat. There are fewer people in general living in poverty. Only about one in every 500 Americans is homeless. Husbands don't have to work back breaking hours to support their families since their wives can work well paying jobs. Also the whole rebellion issue. Turns out a lot of people are willing to die for their rights Overall I would say life is objectively better for everyone than it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:43 AM
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So you think men desire power just to get the best women lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:35 AM
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It actually didn't. One of the big reasons minorities and women were given equal rights in the US was because all the rebellions were destabilizing society. Turns out having a good majority of the population as an enemy kinda sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:32 AM
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No they don't. By the way if you really want a one-to-one comparison there is a female version of "are we dating the same woman" Facebook group but I know you'll ignore that because it's not convenient for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:18 PM
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Can you go demonstrate your inability to think critically on someone else? Nice edit. They're bad but they're definitely not the same thing. Two things can be bad and not be comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:54 PM
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"Are we dating the same man" Facebook groups are not doing this to men...... What op is describing is more revenge pornesque
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:51 PM
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That sounds illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:27 PM
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You sound pretty disgusted by the idea of dudes being gay. You're more likely to get banned yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:06 PM
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Why would they care how they present to people online who literally have no idea who they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:31 AM
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I mean you're a man and you seem not to have that part of your brain. Also the part that stops you from being a whiny incel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:35 AM
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I just really don't get why you guys think women care what strangers on Reddit think. We literally don't know yall lmao. Why is it so difficult to accept the common sense answer that you're simply wrong or that different people can think different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:20 AM
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I do. You just want it to be easier to argue. Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:13 AM
2

No because it's irrelevant to my point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:12 AM
3

Goalpost moving. All casual sex isn't on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:08 AM
1

This refuted nothing I just said and is moving goal posts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:02 AM
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Lol yea no. A lot of attractive guys have women they can go to for casual sex while they court the one they want to date. Once they get into an exclusive relationship they break things off with their fwb(s). They have so much sexual access it really stops being a big deal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:16 PM
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What does this mean? There are a lot of things people want to do but don't due to them wanting to avoid certain ramifications. What's difficult to grasp about this? And no lol. Most women will not have sex on the first date no matter what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:30 PM
2

The girls chat would have a field day with this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:44 PM
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You've had this cleared up for you several times by several different people here. Nobody's going to validate narcissistic behavior. Do what you want just hold yourself accountable and stop acting like you didn't have a choice. Also stop saying "men". You're talking about yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:06 AM
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You can say that but that's not how it comes off to most others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:32 AM
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Laugh my ass off and breathe a sigh of relief that I didn't put any more energy into such a silly insecure man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:17 AM
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So the only way to break things off with someone is to ghost them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:03 AM
8

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:58 AM
15

He's socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:44 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:42 AM
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Or its so easy for women because men have no standards 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:55 AM
2

Bruh what do you want?? Spell out exactly what it is that you want?? You literally asked what options. She gave you like 4 and you swatted them all away for no real reason. The fact you think therapy is just paying $400 to talk to someone shows you've done no research into the topic. It seems like you just wanted someone to attack. Is this what you're using in place of therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:02 AM
3

Now that I think about it I don't think I would date a man who doesn't have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:34 AM
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Criticizing women is fine if you guys can just stick to criticizing things women are actually doing to any notable degree. Most criticisms of women I've seen here have just been really weird assumptions or things that are just factually incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:44 AM
3

You just say the same things over and over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:35 AM
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It's not convenient for his worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:40 PM
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The average women dates the average man of similar socioeconomic status and income and before you say it you have absolutely zero proof they aren't attracted to their husbands lol There. Debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:36 PM
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The men who matter don't 🤷‍♀️ I think most people would avoid someone who would call another human who hasn't personally slighted them "low value"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:35 PM
4

Never mind Lilith....... you clearly just want to argue with someone. I'll just wait for someone less exhausting to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:23 PM
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I didn't say anything about manipulative behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:10 PM
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Ehhh I will say it's probably best for the woman to shut this behavior down and establish a few boundaries. Unless it's your birthday or holiday I wouldn't accept gifts from somebody you know is into you. I would also limit one-on-one time with that person. If you still hang out then hang out in groups
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:58 PM
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new branch of logic that only the red pill understands It follows the same logic as red pillars listing all the ways in which men are treated as disposable and including child support in that list. They complain that they can't make the thing they're complaining about worse lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:25 PM
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Oh look another red piller pretending to believe abortion is murder when it's convenient. What a good faith way to engage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:32 PM
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Nice. Enjoy that nice fat ban lol btw you are doing the worst job imaginable at showing yourself to not be emotional haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:04 AM
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Still shaking your fist saying nothing. Don't be so emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:01 AM
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I saw you wedged in "masculine". You know exactly what the issue is lol. Pull your pants up and just say what you want to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:36 AM
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There aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:50 AM
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You have absolutely no way to know who had an abortion unless they actually told you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:38 AM
5

People can lie about being married or having relationships on the side and it can be months before you find out I think it's more about when it feels right to have sex and less about a specific time limit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:49 AM
1

It's not automatic and greatly depends on what the criticism is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:47 AM
5

Read the first paragraph again please....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:43 AM
4

Guys who are looking for a relationship tend to be want to spend more time with you and sharing more about themselves. If there's an incompatibility this doesn't typically cause them to just immediately drop off. They just gradually start spending less and less time with you. Guys who only want sex typically just ghost and don't really try to hang out outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:29 AM
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Lots of guys have women on the side who don't know they are in a committed relationship. Lots of guys will pretend they are in a committed relationship with a woman just so the woman will agree to have sex with them. I get that you're not like those "other" girls or whatever but try to think critically about this. I view sex the same way you do and really don't find this concept difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:10 AM
1

Which is what a hypergamous person would do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:27 PM
5

I have only ever heard men think this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:23 PM
4

Shows up and gives a useless non-response like "hur hur you don't know!" Par for the PPD course
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:25 PM
-1

Sure I do. I don't think you know what a false equivalency is though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:10 PM
-4

What I'm saying is they're going to get different reactions because one is a critique and the other is a false statement. Men are generally more violent. That's a fact. Women generally are not hypergamous. That's a fact. If you want to compare the examples 1:1 then they both should be true or they both should be false
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:55 PM
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The issue is one of these things is fact and the other isn't. Trp dudes don't know what hypergamy actually is. Hypergamy is leaving your partner as soon as someone "better" comes along. Refusing to date men they don't find attractive is not hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:54 PM
3

Which video has millions of likes and ALL positive comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:44 PM
1

You know what I didn't think about this and you make a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:03 PM
-1

Okay so I'm asking questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:33 PM
0

"Global decline"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:30 PM
0

The women are wonderful effect isn't real in a sense. Guys as a whole just do a lot more messed up things so women are only wonderful by comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:21 AM
3

It's because you guys call literally any kind of criticism hatred then in the same breath you're just fine discussing your fantasies about women losing their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:19 AM
2

That's the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:10 AM
-5

If he's really in the gym that much why can't he eat out a few times a week or have a few drinks? Most built guys I know are basically human garbage disposals
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:44 AM
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I don't think it's the case. He and the people around him may have just gotten older and stopped finding clubs appealing. I stopped clubbing years ago but went back once for a friends birthday and it was just as lively as I remember
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:28 AM
3

What is this question? A 1:1 comparison to a sex doll for men would simply be a sex doll for women which is also weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:34 PM
3

No one cares about men using sex dolls. No one would even know unless you told them and if you did most would I think you're weird and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:24 PM
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Nobody wants to think about people they don't find attractive fucking..... idk why you keep changing what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:17 PM
-2

Did I say unattractive or did I say average to less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:33 AM
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Most people in general are grossed out thinking about people they find unattractive having sex. It's not much deeper than that and no we don't care about your sex robots lol. Hell I might go get one for...er...my research...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:03 AM
1

I find it interesting but don't care much. Depending on how good they are I would probably get one for myself tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:53 AM
9

There was a guy here the other day who said he didn't like music. I would say that's about as close to "objectively boring" as you can get lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:05 AM
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I don't think it really says whether he's sexually desirable or not. Just like how some people have friendly eyes or sad eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:14 PM
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You might have the biggest persecution complex I've ever seen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:00 PM
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Its a bit more nuance for me. Porn is fine as long as he isn't neglecting our relationship. Liking photos is technically cheating and I would simply ask him to stop. Something like sneaking off to a strip club is technically cheating and we would have a serious talk about it. Meeting up with even the intention of having sex is absolutely cheating and grounds for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:04 PM
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It doesn't matter what you "can do". It's about what people actually do. Most people have sex before they enter an exclusive relationship. If it didn't progress past a "situationship" then it wasn't going to progress anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:48 PM
9

Your missing my point, she was going to dump and cheat on you anyway. sure sure preemptive strike. That's the spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:42 PM
2

1) I’m sexually inexperienced that You just....you just are lol.... 2) umm yes they do see you are doing exactly what my post says when you have sex early on before establishing a relationship you are already putting yourself in a position to be in a situationship most normal relationships don’t start off on sex but more so on friendship and shared interest. You are exactly the woman I’m talking about And you're grouping everything into these little boxes where everything needs to be mutually ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:37 PM
11

Okay well enjoy getting dumped or cheated on then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:27 PM
3

1) outside the club of what? Exactly Essentially you aren't sexually experienced and don't have a strong grasp on what you're talking about. 2) most relationships start out as FRIENDS. Not friends with benefits being friends with benefits means that your are already establishing a boundary of not being nothing more than that so I would believe that is just false No they don't. Most people have sex before they start dating monogamously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:22 PM
12

What does this even mean lol? Aren't you both supposed to make sex enjoyable for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:16 PM
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Well enjoy getting ghosted and cheated on then lol 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:15 PM
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1) Essentially you're talking from outside the club. 2) Most long-term relationships start off as friends with benefits or "situationships". Sometimes they work out and sometimes they don't. I don't think that really says anything about the person other than they're just not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:11 PM
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Ask my permission before you write fanfiction about me next time.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:41 PM
2

Nope I'll stick with my husband who isn't afraid of pussy and you can stick with being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:38 PM
2

Cute little buzz word tantrum. Anyway good luck with whatever comes from this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:36 PM
2

Then your stamina and finger game better be way on point otherwise you're going to really struggle relationshipwise(if thats what you want). Personally I used to ghost guys like you so good luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:32 PM
2

It seems like you just want to argue with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:09 PM
2

It really depends on the woman. For me I can get a bit irritable and just need a bit of space.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:07 PM
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See? That was a very well thought out and well written response and all you can do in response is flail your arms around and treat it like an attack on you. You don't actually want actionable advice. You just want to complain and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:42 AM
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They're not concerned about birthrates lol. They want to express their anger at women for not wanting them and low birthrates is easier to justify. It's like those people who obsess over their "property values" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:18 AM
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Specifically what do women need to hold themselves accountable for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:10 AM
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Why even ask me anything if you have all the answers? I answered your question and added a bit onto my point and that's all it took for the delusional rant to start lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:05 AM
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No actually. You may be asked follow-up questions though and receive advice based on those answers but I would bet money you'll just cover your ears and say they're blaming you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:53 PM
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her quote of being a perfectly acceptable statement will receive pushback. I don't agree with this. When men voice their dating issues here they are almost never framed that way so that's not really the statement I was addressing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:44 PM
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I mean those are legit rebuttals though. You guys frame these issues as if they are issues most guys have which is demonstrably false with those examples. If you need personal advice I would head over to the relationship advice sub. I'm not going to validate false beliefs and delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:32 PM
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The troubles themselves are not invalidated. The reasons they give for the trouble are invalidated because they're usually conspiratorial and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:53 PM
1

And why are my taxes being used to make sure you receive prompt police response when I live in a low crime area? Why are my taxes being used to fix the right drive on when I work from home and barely drive? Why are my texts being used for homeless shelters when most homeless people are men? We could literally play this game all day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:05 PM
-2

"See! See! There it is!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:10 PM
0

I think you responded to the wrong person. This is essentially what I'm telling him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:51 PM
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checks all the boxes except didn't carry the excitem Then he doesn't "check all the boxes" No I think a lot of you guys need to understand that just because you're not abusive and don't cheat doesn't mean you're a good guy or a good partner. Imagine being excited about a trip to Disney World just to have it all ruined by a partner who acts like they would rather be literally anywhere else the entire time. All that will do is breed resentment. Everyone should be with someone who makes them happy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:37 PM
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And women should also keep "nice guys" like you in mind who think the only metric to being a good partner is not being abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:02 PM
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Well if you want to date women that's how it works. They're not going to date you just for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:57 PM
0

I think a lot of it is them treating women like they're basically just men without a penis and assuming women are doing what they would do as women if that makes sense. Like if they had just as many options as most women then they would only go for the most attractive ones so following that logic Chad would be monopolizing all the women and throwing off the "sexual marketplace" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:48 PM
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Okay so you don't have the emotional fortitude to even discuss the topic. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:42 PM
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He's not in a sense because it's a name typically used by incels to describe basically anyone whos not them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:36 PM
0

I think people should complain about what they want to. Men are not either ugly boring virgins or "chads". Most are somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:31 PM
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Like who tf doesn't like music?? Tf??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:28 PM
2

Nope you should go with your desirability match
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:23 PM
0

Chad isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:07 PM
-1

I think she can still chastise such a guy and I don't know why so much if you were hung up on that "boring" part. She gave multiple other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:06 PM
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Empathy is putting yourself in another person's situation fully and understanding exactly what they're going through. I don't know why you guys keep saying this. I have not seen a single take here that has been unique or difficult to understand. Honestly manosphere dudes are some of the simplest people to read I think it's more you guys say a lot of things that don't warrant sympathy. You don't understand why what you said doesn't warrant sympathy so you think you're not being understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:56 PM
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Yeah when I saw the word "shit test" I rolled my eyes thinking he was going to get into another red pill conspiracy theory but as I read on it got me thinking a bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:33 PM
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Then it's unfortunate that you don't value your dignity that much. I quite literally would rather die
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:12 PM
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'd take the women's role over that, no hesitation or second thought about it. Even if your partner were allowed to analy rape you whenever you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:46 PM
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It's even more funny how you label anyone you disagree with a feminist and can't seem to grasp the concept of different people saying different things. Also I didn't compare anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:22 PM
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Oh it's one of "those" posts again 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:30 PM
1

The law can prove rape accusations false..... We literally have a dude who wants to "grab women by the pussy" as president
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:08 PM
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K well it's greatly exaggerated. Bring it up outside of a gotcha to womens issues and then we'll talk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:38 PM
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Are you one of those people when asked to elaborate on something you said you just repeat exactly what you said but louder?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:35 AM
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"This means that about half of all single men in my dataset are effectively not approaching women for dates in person ." Okay? The discussion wasn't around whether men are afraid to approach. Its about the percent of men who are genuinely afraid of being falsely accused. And it's measuring a super specific demographic of men not all men who are dating. "By far the top reason given was fear of rejection , social consequences and legal consequences (70% ig)." Okay? None of these things mean being …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:34 AM
1

The law can't unassault anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:23 AM
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"Sorry no lol. I have to point out hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance whenever I see it." This is all your reply was. If you're going to edit your reply that much after I already responded you should make a new reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:15 AM
-2

Okay project away then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:09 AM
-1

Okay so then stop whining about it happening to you......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:05 AM
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Then stop bringing it up in response to womens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:59 AM
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Gay. Considering he's done absolutely nothing to indicate he was into men and we've been together almost 7 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:49 PM
1

Where is the 90% figure from? It was rectally acquired
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:42 PM
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I just don't think they attract women at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:28 PM
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Perhaps. I just think a lot of people on this sub are a little too preoccupied with rules and fairness. Dating and attraction just doesn't really work that way imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:55 PM
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But if he can find someone who meets those standards and will accept him what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:41 PM
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If you can get someone who meets those standards and is fine with you not meeting those same standards I don't see what the issue is. I know lots of muscular guys that are into heavy set women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:30 PM
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Why not? There are also standards I hold myself to but not my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:18 PM
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ehh I don't necessarily agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:02 PM
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Why does she do that then lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:55 PM
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None of the examples you gave were incompatible with each other. You can be a hard worker but work a normal amount of hours. You can go 50/50 but not 50/50 on every single thing. And contrary to popular manosphere belief extremely attractive men can love just as deeply as everyone else lol.... Most people's standards exist on a spectrum so people already make trade-offs and compromises
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:51 PM
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It gets easier when you actually like women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:09 PM
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I mean those things can definitely help but I don't think men need to be those things at all and I think on some level red pill men know this but pretend they don't For me generally my ideal good dating prospect would be someone who's average build. Not too thin but not fat. At least about 5'7. Assertive but not rude. As for income they should just be able to support themselves and live comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:04 PM
1

So no proof hmm.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:46 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:17 AM
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Nope not concern trolling. Just pointing out a logical inconsistency. will spend much more time as men than as children, I don't think that's relevant to the discussion. Children who grow up in poverty and single parent households tend to have worse outcomes. They are more likely to continue living in poverty, suffer from mental illness, less likely to go to college, more likely to resort to crime, be sent to prison, be murdered, have more kids with the same outcome, etc. You don't get to stand …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:42 AM
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You aren't even smart enough to figure out that women don't like you because you're a bitter little man and not because you're boring..... well actually I guess that is pretty boring...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:29 AM
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This is why it's always amusing to me when guys here go on and on about how many disadvantages men have in society and include "financial abortion". I guess those male children don't count. They're whining because they can't actively make just about every male issue significantly worse lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:16 AM
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What exactly do you mean by the passion is still lacking? What are things she can do to make relationship more passionate and where do her exes come into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:22 PM
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If you feel the relationship is not passionate enough then I'd say you should break up. No one should stay in a relationship they're not satisfied with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:28 PM
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Is she loving and does she otherwise meet his standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:15 PM
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Husband material guy is doing something bad by deciding for her how she feels instead of listening to her. People grow and learn from their mistakes. If her last relationship failed why would she go about her new one the exact same way expecting different results? That's the definition of insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:45 PM
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Husband material guy is not husband material if he's jealous of some guy he doesn't even know and cannot grasp the idea of people learning from their mistakes. Really it sounds like both people in this situation just need to take a break from dating and heal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:24 PM
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I just want to say it's never not hilarious when you post the most paranoid schizophrenic sounding bs and then go "waaa don't insult me!" at anything that even remotely sounds like an insult towards you. You do it a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:22 PM
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As someone who grew up in the church, churches are about as misogynistic as you can legally get. I think this is your persecution complex getting to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:47 PM
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For the love of God yes....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:41 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:37 AM
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You already gave up when you tried create a melodramatic backstory for op to justify him comparing rape to loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:29 AM
0

Then give up and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:34 AM
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"But that poor guy! 😭" Just excuse after excuse. There is no justification for that comparison and you're making men sound pathetic. Loneliness is not something someone did to you. It's how you feel. Rape is an act committed against you. Comparing it to loneliness absolutely minimizes rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:28 AM
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We're talking about the top percentile of IQ. Source? And if the only proof is that men invented more things or there are more male CEOs I'm going to laugh at you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:07 AM
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There's not. The average males IQ is about 4 points higher than the average womans. That's not a significant difference. I don't think the extremes of either end really matter in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:50 AM
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Testosterone makes men much more prone to violence than women.There's no significant IQ difference between men and women. 😂😂 So 🤡🤡...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:44 AM
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And that self same movement demonizes anyone that goes against anything feminism ever does No it doesn't. The fringe examples of feminists that do are not the majority. And lmao they didn't erase anything. The proof doesn't exist because it simply isn't true. The majority of all rape victims are not men nor are the majority of domestic violence victims. Keep scouring the globe for hyperspecific context and fringe examples all you want. Just like most crime statistics men make up the majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:53 PM
1

Except that feminism has a stranglehold on political discussion on the left, What does any of this even mean? Feminism is a movement that advocates for womens equal rights and freedoms among genders. In the US laws and society was built on life liberty and the pursuit of happiness and marginalizing a group of people has no place in this. Men literally voted to give women Then do you believe white people gave all non-white people their rights? If so do they owe them a thank you now? And regardles…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:54 PM
1

So basically men can't get together and organize anything because they'll get called names. Imagine being able to derail feminism by calling them ugly blue-haired bitches. First of all no one gave women the right to vote. No longer oppressing someone is not giving them anything. It is collectively agreed upon that marginalizing a group of human beings is not how you run a prosperous society. Male suicide victims get plenty of empathy and sympathy from women. Other men are the ones refusing empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:16 PM
1

Well when men on here talk about mens dating struggles they are usually referring to themselves as "most men". This is very relevant to the conversation because it changes what the common denominator is. It's annoying because it derails their entire argument but their entire argument started on a false premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:49 PM
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I get the intent however for me it just makes me not take your issue as seriously. It's like those snowflake white guys who compare their every inconvenience to slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:50 PM
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You are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:38 AM
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And yet, men are half the rape victims, No they aren't. You've had this proven wrong in your face multiple times yet here you are again knowingly and purposely spreading this misinformation. You should be ashamed but I know you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:28 AM
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What's with you guys' obsession with comparing every mens issue to rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:25 AM
1

nope. I admit that if women have to consider men they arent attracted to as options then so do men so men can stop bitching about not having options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:29 AM
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nope. Just like finding unattractive men unattractive isn't a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:28 AM
1

Doesn't matter men still have a lot of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:21 AM
-6

Then admit men have plenty of options just like women do if being attracted to those options doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:30 AM
-8

Lmao incel “just date someone you're not remotely attracted to” logic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:15 AM
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No that desert sea analogy is bullshit. Men have all the options in the world because they can date other men. They just treat it like a buffet and go for the lobster.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:46 AM
7

You don't have to be an utter piece of shit. Just not compatible. It's not up for you to decide what a decent partner is to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:13 AM
0

If it means anything my flare says pink pill just because I like the color pink lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:59 PM
1

In other words, men have always to change something of themselves to be seen as human beings worthy of attention That's for everyone. You need to be a likeable person for people to like you. It's called the human experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:58 PM
1

violating the whole "the man should lead" evolutionary programming, that which I believe is subconscious for both women and men. lol sir I assure you this is not really a thing and if I were off put by it I would say I was. There is no "if I think I wouldn't". I've had sex with inexperienced men before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:26 PM
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Also, it’s typically TRPer men telling us women in here that our personalities hardly matter to men, and that our looks and youth are being underestimated, so…Lol. I glowed up and became good looking as an adult. I still have a lot of the same awkwardness I had when I was younger though. When it comes to dating and friendships I definitely attract more people but it feels like when they meet me they expect my personality to be one way. Then when it's not I can just sense their disappointment and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:11 PM
3

Yea same 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:59 PM
3

I personally don't mind telling a guy what I want as long as he listens and it doesn't feel like he's doing it begrudgingly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:49 PM
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Funny story but when I was a kid I used to bite my nails a lot and leave them on the floor. My dad got pissed and told me that I can get a tapeworm from biting my nails and then showed me pictures of tapeworms. Cold turkey never bit my nails again hahaha 😂 Now they're long and healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:43 AM
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Yea it kinda is in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:31 PM
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Bruh she's just putting it out that he could have a medical issue that should be looked into. Everything doesn't need to have a victim. Calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:58 PM
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Why do you guys call it opting out when the issue is women aren't dating you? Aren't you already out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:06 PM
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Nope it's true. The source I gave you is the collective conclusion from multiple sources and works just fine here. So I guess we doing feelings over facts huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:20 AM
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It's not true. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:02 AM
2

What is female circumcision?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:22 AM
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With female circumcision you literally have your entire clitoris removed. A better male equivalent would be having half your dick cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:22 AM
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So you actually know what female circumcision is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:20 AM
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I think for the most part this would be the case if this also meant those men somehow had significantly less testosterone than women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:21 PM
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I'm driven by both. There is no contradiction. No one is being forced into anything and he's absolutely within his rights to refuse those terms. Since you didn't choose to live off the grid do you think your boss should be allowed to withhold overtime wages from you? I don't think any of this is complicated or "wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:55 PM
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It greatly depends on the context
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:42 PM
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lmao you are so angry over nothing 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:38 PM
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they just THINK “disgusting clubs” are the only option then give up preemptively I also think nightclubs are shit on more than they should be. I know tons of older couples who met in nightclubs and have good marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:26 AM
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See? You've just proven her point. Nobody can even engage with you guys because y'all are like landmines that just blow up and start screeching misandry at really innocuous things. You just shut down all dialogue and start swinging your arms. Nothing she even said was misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:40 PM
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Nice dramatic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:54 PM
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Men have rights because more powerful men gave men and women rights and I don't think those men would appreciate you lumping yourself in with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:46 PM
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Removing a spider from the presences of someone with arachnophobia would be psychological protection. Bahahaha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:39 PM
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That's a lot of off topic rambling....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:46 PM
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It makes you a lot more likely to act on any violent thoughts you might have had. So more prone to violence.... Murder and violent crimes are higher because there are no social support system's men can turn too unlike women who can rely on prostitution or sugar dating. Okay this is still men committing more violent crime regardless of if you think they have an excuse lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:21 AM
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Testosterone gives men a higher propensity for violence. That aside murder and violent crime stats alone prove this as well but I think this is common sense to most people including you. You just don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:14 AM
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What if the traditional aspects you choose to fall back on are based on inequality or sexism? What specific aspects? Saying you want equality but at the same time wanting the choice to fall back on inequality when it benefits you e.g. men being providers for men, is a contradiction This makes no sense. Equality is having the choice to be traditional instead of being forced to. Noones forcing men to date these women or put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:03 AM
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She understands this and responded accordingly. You're the one misunderstanding her. Equality is having the choice to fall back on certain traditional aspects and there's nothing contradictory about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:30 AM
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It's not at all and you're bad at logic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:45 PM
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I....edited my punctuation because I thought that's what you were on about.... Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:19 PM
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Um be literate please lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:14 PM
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What exactly is misandry to you? From the example you're giving it looks like you're saying a father is misandrist for warning his daughter about boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:10 PM
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Most women in general aren't misandrist. You guys just have this weird thing with assigning malice to everything they do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:56 PM
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Broad stats in male and female perspectives on male sexuality and studies on corrective rape of boys are isolated situations say what???? Yes and most of it is perpetuated by straight men. I never even talk about dating what???? That's always what this always boils down to with ppd men. That's why you have to lie and rely so much on correlation vs. causation. I can prove my point without this. No point in getting stats because you seem incapable of critical thought and reading; but the primary s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:28 PM
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Oh great you found random horrible situations on the internet. That doesn't change the fact that most of the crimes you're blaming women for are primarily committed by men and usually to worst degrees. I didn't downplay anything. You're here using a serious issue as a dog whistle to complain about your dating woes. I love men and am married to one. If you feel like people hate you then stop being I hateful person who knowingly pushes false narratives. You can talk about it anywhere. Just don't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:56 PM
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You're using the word "often" to make your argument unfalsifiable. Men commit all of those crimes far more than women do. Pretty much the only demographics this isn't true for are the demographics they aren't around as much. There are places where you can literally be killed(by men) for being gay Why do you hate other men so much that you can't argue in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:21 PM
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Women whoop kids more because women spend more time around kids....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:14 PM
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Maybe it's because I grew up in the bible belt but I knew a dude who was beat up just for having a high-pitched voice. What generation are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:27 PM
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It’s kinda like how the nazis started spreading hate about the Jews in hope the common people would see them as less human Yup. They decided from the beginning that they were going to hate them so they create impossible goal posts where if there's even a single instance of feminists hating men then the whole group is a hate group. Of course this does not apply to them or any other demographic they don't want to demonize. I would go as far as to say most guys like this don't even believe the thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:25 PM
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Then you're either lying or don't care enough to notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:17 PM
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I remember being a kid and getting an awesome dollhouse for Christmas and being threatened with a belt by my dad if I let my little brother play with it as it would "turn him gay" Things like this are not uncommon for young boys growing up especially in the south. You're hijacking a serious issue and using it as an excuse to whine about women. It's evil and reductive and you should be ashamed. No one hates men more than manosphere men I swear.....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:02 PM
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I mean they have the choice to not marry and live on the streets and die from exposure or violence because most decent paying jobs won't hire them because they're women. You're being pedantic. Use your brain not your revisionist incel fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:15 AM
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When women approach dating looks as well as most other standards exist on a spectrum. It's not that looks don't matter at all. It's that looks are on different parts of the spectrum for different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:50 PM
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I've noticed a consistent thing on this sub where any solution to mens issues that isn't men putting in absolutely zero work is "victim blaming". I've given genuine thoughtful empathetic responses before just for the dudes here to ignore everything and start screeching about victim blaming. It feels like you just can't establish any dialogue with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:20 PM
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"Objectivity" has nothing to do with it. Objectivity has everything to do with it. Most qualities people look for in partners are not objectively better than other qualities for everyone so building off this premise is faulty from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:14 PM
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Then you should be able to say what it is. "Hur hur you know...." isn't an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:11 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:34 AM
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People generally don't preoccupy themselves with how their choices and behavior affects society. They just do what they want as long as it's not breaking the law. Most men prefer healthy loving relationships and polygamy is not compatible with that And no the majority of women are not okay with sharing a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:32 AM
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No because men collect, women select one. Huh? Hypergamous reflects women’s choice to date higher up on social hierarchy and dominance. They can only pick one so they pick the best. Everyone picks who they deem to be the best for them. That's just normal dating. Hypergamy would be leaving your partner as soon as you found someone "better". That's not how most people operate. And no. Men overwhelmingly prefer monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:14 AM
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Doesn't matter because none of those things are objectively better qualities for everyone. That's like saying my husband is hypergamous because I'm thinner than him and have longer hair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:06 AM
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Women aren't hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:58 AM
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No I speak English fine. I just struggle to interpret things the way you do because I'm not stupid. Is this you trying to be racist or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:16 AM
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Not what I implied and you know it. Way to show you don't genuinely care about the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:24 PM
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No clue what you're on about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:23 PM
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Not a thing 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:21 PM
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What even is status?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:19 PM
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Maybe some dude punched him in his head a couple times for staring 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:17 PM
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No one cares what you deem to be whore dress. If you decide to treat them like "whores" be prepared for how they treat you right back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:12 PM
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No. Stare if you want. Just be prepared for the consequences. My gym actually has a rule against it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:11 PM
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And time for me to record and blast you online. Hope it was worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:09 PM
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No one cares what you deem to be inappropriate dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:26 AM
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No one cares what you deem to be inappropriate dress
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:07 AM
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yawn 🥱 So anyway yeah red pillers are a fringe minority and always will be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:19 AM
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I will and if it becomes a big enough issue women can just start getting them charged with felonies more that way they can't vote. If we're going to throw ethics out the window let's throw ethics out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:01 AM
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I missed the part where I or anyone else was advocating PUA behaviors 💀 I missed the part where I said you were and I've seen what passes as credible to you so thanks for the compliment love 💀 And yes I am very sadistic towards misogynists and think they deserve the worst in life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:59 AM
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So men are inherently evil after all then huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:25 AM
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Anyone else notice how touch starved losers think they know more about how to get women than women and men who actually get women? I'm here for entertainment because you guys tend to be pretty hilarious. It's like watching a compilation of people stepping on rakes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:21 AM
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I just don't believe women can tolerate being around him even as a friend honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:56 AM
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Okay it sucks that they're lonely. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:01 AM
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What is the logic behind guys saying this? Why would most the women here virtue signal on an anonymous forum whwre noone know anyone from a can of paint? Why is it so hard to even consider that you're simply wrong?? If you have all the answers why even bother asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:08 AM
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Look but don't stare. I truly don't know what's so hard to understand about this...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:56 AM
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Haha no. No it isn't and most the ones who happen to stumble upon red pill content laugh and call them whiny bitches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:40 AM
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My doctor gave me a plan B when I had my IUD removed and I was on my cycle for almost a whole month. Made me wonder if it would have been better to just get an abortion if it turned out I was pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:24 PM
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You know he doesn't. He would just get beat up and thrown in the trash can by somebodys man lmao 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:20 PM
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You're so angry lmao. Not very Chad like if you ask me 😅.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:19 PM
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Honestly as a freaky woman yes I agree 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:58 PM
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In my experience women who shit on other women for wanting luxury things are insufferable unattractive women who aren't used to having men buy them expensive things or put effort into them. (Not like other girls) We have different goals in life maybe try not letting peoples opinion on the internet bother you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:20 PM
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Then I've got bad news for you about your clothes, food, in the electronic device you used to type this reply.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:59 PM
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To you. Maybe that adds to the niceness to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:25 PM
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I'm not even someone who cares about expensive name brand things but I find women like her sooooo freaking annoying. Like we get it you're not like those "other" girls. Date people you couldn't convince to put effort into you. Just stop acting like it's a virtue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:15 PM
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It's not shallow and vain to want nicer things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:00 PM
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Frankly I would hate to be considered marriage material to that sort of man. That would almost feel like a personal attack
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:50 PM
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None of this has anything to do with what I just said.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:42 PM
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Thats....honestly such a self burn 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:14 AM
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Sounds like they're irrelevant to this discussion then huh lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:52 AM
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And? I don't date either men. Some socially inept men get laid. Most socially adept men get laid. Noone knows you exist if you act like you wanna blend in with the wall decor. Play with word all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:42 AM
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Prove it. Most men marry though so good luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:58 AM
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"You may have seen otherwise but accept my anecdote anyway" 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:57 AM
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What women? I don't date murderers or socially inept people and neither does anyone I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:47 PM
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Worse in what way to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:35 PM
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Nothing to do with anything I just said...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:24 PM
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Socially awkward people can be awful people too. Most of the socially awkward people I know who are perpetually single are also awful people. Oh famous people have fans?? Wonder why most of the guys on your local sex offender registry don't get that kind of attention.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:24 PM
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Men: women only want men over 6 feet tall! women: Actually we're fine with men shorter than that. In fact most men eventually marry and most men are under 6 feet. Men: W-well they're just....SETTLING! Yea they're just settling and I will not stand for being settled for!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:21 PM
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I've never met a perpetually single guy who wasn't socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:14 PM
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But when a woman decides to terminate an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy, that’s exactly what abortion is I dont agree. They still have to go through the process of having an abortion or giving birth while men don't have to do anything. Sure you could say it's because of biology but it's because of biology men can't give birth. And just fyi in places where abortion is illegal I still feel the same way. Both parties knew and accepted the consequences I don’t think that the subjective views of pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:36 PM
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Wasn’t that your opinion too a moment ago? Im saying it's your opinion that women get protection from the consequences of "recreational sex". I don't agree that that's what abortion is. Again, biology makes the consequences of sex and pregnancy differ for men and women, but I still don’t believe that differences in biology should translate to different rights before the law. Exactly and what constitutes equality to women giving birth is subjective to women who give birth. The only way to have ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:12 PM
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They both knew the consequences That's your opinion. For a lot of women abortion weighs on them mentally and the process itself can be traumatic. Men can just pump and then fuck off into the sunset. If anything men are actually getting the better deal Objective equality is both parties being aware of the consequences and having the ability to choose for themselves how they move forward knowing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:48 PM
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None of this matters. You both knew the consequences and accepted them. The only way this can be objectively equal is when men can also give birth and have the same responsibilities of raising children
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:37 PM
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""Good thing you don't make the law" is not an argument." is not an argument since apparently every single response here needs to be an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:29 PM
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Arguments you don't like are still arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:25 PM
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Oh lord 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:19 PM
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I haven't said whether I'm for or against either. Just you both know the consequences and agreed to them when you had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:18 PM
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Your brain isn't even fully developed yet. Get on somewhere lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:00 PM
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So what's the minimum income a man should have to be eligible for sex with a woman? That's irrelevant. If you can't afford to care for a child don't do things that could result in you paying for a child you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:36 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:32 PM
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And women aren't like "hmm this man will abandon his own kid if he accidentally gets me pregnant" See the logic here? If women need to "choose better" then so do men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:31 PM
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Well good thing you don't make laws on equality then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:28 PM
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And the man having sex with a woman who would do that knowing the consequences made a conscious decision
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:26 PM
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Yes and since abortion is already legal then that's part of the terms you both accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:19 PM
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Then we're not agreeing. Both of you understood the potential consequences and agreed to them. In that aspect you are both objectively equal. Abortion versus paper abortion is subjectively equal. No what's less economically feasible is having a bunch of fatherless kids living in poverty because the dad couldn't accept the consequences of his actions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:17 PM
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Nope assuming both are consenting adults you know the consequences. Don't have unprotected sex if you can't accept them. It's really that simple and that's as equal as it can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:11 PM
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Hmm it really depends on the reason. It's a red flag or deal breaker if he's not working or contributing anything to stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:10 AM
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I'm 20, Oh psh girl! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:43 AM
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If they can be pressured out of dating you they didn't really want you in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:14 AM
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Because horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:18 AM
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? The sky is blue...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:49 PM
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Okay because when I read "slay" I was like 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:28 PM
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Wow men are pretty irrational then....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:19 PM
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There's not really a limit to this because this is not reasonable. You remind me of an ex I had years ago. I've always been someone who constantly gets compliments on my appearance. He ended up developing some sort of complex around this and decided I was too good for him. Everything was just a game of having to prove my love to him and nothing was ever enough. He would do weird things like leave wads of money out to "test" me. Then he cheated with someone who was 300 pounds just to prove that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:08 PM
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I don't think the time frame really matters here. You don't decide for others how they feel. I would say don't date people you think are liars but sounds like that's what you're doing already but irrationally and to your own detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:42 PM
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I think you need to step back from relationships and take time to heal from whatever has caused you to think this way. Approaching a relationship assuming everything your partner says is a lie is already a terrible foundation to start with. Dating someone you constantly have to prove yourself to will get exhausting real quick for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:20 PM
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I mean consider as in it maybe crosses your mind every now and then but isn't really a factor in anything you do. If you're being treated well I don't see what the issue is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:11 PM
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We do understand. We just think it's a silly thing to obsess over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:00 PM
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Hey if you believe grifters that's on you. This is called confirmation bias. If you touch grass you'll realize most people are just worried about themselves and their own lives not about you or your height. If you keep watching that content more of it is going to pop up in your algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:04 PM
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Who knows. Ask them. I don't see why it matters anyway tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:58 PM
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Why is it never the most rational conclusion for dudes here lol?? Why do you think you're important enough to Reddit randoms for them to make up lies for you? Like....why even engage at all if you're just going to assume everything you don't like is a lie? You've got all the answers clearly so why are you here??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:54 PM
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I don't care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:45 PM
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Most men eventually marry or get into long term relationships and most men aren’t 6ft, making six figures, with 6 packs. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:36 PM
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This is your reasoning?? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:32 PM
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Yes the do. That's another chronically online take The women here whine constantly. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:44 AM
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I clarified that I meant men on this sub not men in general. 99% of complaints on this sub are dudes whining about womens standards and hypergamy. Women just stay single and content if they can't find people to date
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:42 AM
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They absolutely aren't. That's why it's called male loneliness not female loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:40 AM
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Nah they definitely aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:29 AM
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Men in general not necessarily. Men on this sub? Absolutely lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:28 AM
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This just makes you sound even worse because I'm actually not following you. I just see you literally everywhere I go in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:22 AM
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Shyness isn't insecurity, a I never said it was. Dont make everything about you 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:20 AM
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Bruh like....."recovering incel" where?? I've been seeing him do this on a couple different posts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:45 AM
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He lost me at hypergamous. No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:30 AM
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A civilization that subjugates half of its population deserves to disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:28 AM
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Here I'm just going to see if the mods can deal with you. You just spam the same black pill bs everywhere. Go be miserable in a corner somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:24 AM
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This is pretty much why I stopped giving insecure shy guys chances. Tad off topic but I think if a lot of guys here could get girlfriends they probably just end up ruining it and creating their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:21 AM
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Whining makes you even less attractive....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:15 AM
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No that's just that 666 incel fantasy bs. Ideal is about 5'7(I'm 5'3). Now that I think about it the only dudes I know who are shorter than me are dwarves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:11 AM
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Exceptions don't negate the rule. You are much more likely to be robbed by a man. If it's a woman you have a reasonable shot at fighting them off. Or are we pretending women are just defective men again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:22 AM
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I think in general men and women understand each other pretty well. Just red pill men don't understand women or really other men either. They are very easy for others to understand though. They just think because you dont validate their irrational beliefs you don't understand them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:50 PM
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And I wonder where they're even getting these experiences with women if they're married 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:34 PM
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exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:31 PM
0

huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:30 PM
11

Okay that's understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:27 PM
7

"men want the hottest woman they can get" and "women want a comparable or better man they're attracted to". These two mean the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:08 PM
2

Uh yes?? Tf is this question??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:38 PM
1

Actually a lot of makeup contains SPF which can end up making her skin look better but I guess that's not the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:36 PM
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"waaaa I "shamed" her and she "shamed" me back!😭"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:34 PM
2

Where is the fucking six pack, the 8 inches dick and the good job and paycheck AND THE BMW 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:31 PM
10

Ehhh as far as I've noticed they're not fine either way and call it prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:27 PM
4

So it was fine for the guy above me to say it but when I follow up with him and use the same word it's "something I made up". Imagine that....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:26 PM
12

I said it's what a "hyperfeminine" woman would want. It adheres the traditional gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:02 PM
6

That has nothing to do with femininity. Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:58 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:50 PM
5

Agreed it's not a trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:42 PM
0

This is a strawman. The only example I gave was men paying for dates. If you wanna bitch about golddiggers make your own post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:39 PM
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TOO feminine. An example of this would be women expecting men to pay for dates and dudes here HAAATE that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:20 PM
12

I mean being on the extreme end of anything is typically a bad thing. People are going to have to learn to understand nuance Also just because you got rejected doesn't mean there is anything generally wrong with you. It could just be an issue of compatibility. Now if you are constantly and consistently being rejected then that's something worth looking into
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:13 PM
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You've pretty much perfectly described my ideal man. My husband is pretty much all these things. I'll grab my popcorn for all the bitter dudes who are going to come in here acting like this post is a personal slight against them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:02 PM
1

By your own logic men and women having separate bathrooms is also prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:47 PM
0

So I didn't know what I needed to specifically tell you but yes you're wrong. Better, muffin pop lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:43 PM
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If you have to completely remove the context of the point you're arguing you probably have a shit argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:38 PM
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I fear and resent that ceo who was killed. I fear and respect cartel leaders. The headspace they have to be in to do what they do is something I can't empathize with or understand at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:28 PM
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Um I think I decide for me what a flex is to me. And yup I praise a murderer who murdered a mass murderer over a whiny incel who licks the boots of ceos(even when said ceo has a body count comparable to the worst drug lords). Oh well I'm not taking it back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:46 AM
13

Women generally prefer older men No they don't. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:00 AM
2

You know it's super telling that simply being able to read the room and pick up on social cues is such a foreign concept to you that you think it's mind reading
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:48 AM
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Okay he had the balls to murder a mass murderer. Most guys here don't even have the balls to talk to women or take rejection gracefully. Stop flailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:16 AM
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I don't think I've ever heard anyone claim womens intuition was infallible. You guys just seem to think because it's not right every single time that it's completely useless. They do listen just a lot of mens complaints here as far as dating are just entitled whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:08 AM
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My husband actually wants me to have colorful hair but I hate how unnatural hair colors look on me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:20 AM
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So are we going to pretend there's not a daily bitch fest on here about women's standards lol? Also younger women are mostly creeped out by old men hitting on them so there's that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:40 PM
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Essentially this is a you problem. Gen Z women are not nice to creepy old guys who try to hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:41 PM
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Well for me I work from home and my husbands at work so I'm just bored most of the day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:11 PM
2

As long as he treats me well I think I'd rather not know tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:03 PM
2

Bruh I already said I agreed. Why are you still here crying over me using the word "ick"? I'm not taking it back. You're starting to tell on yourself lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:26 PM
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I said I agreed. It's not my job to say things in a way you deem digestible. That's your partners job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:59 PM
7

Well the way you explain this gives me the ick a bit but I do overall agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:47 PM
20

lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:42 PM
6

That's why I said attracted instead of just physically attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:13 PM
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Not a desirable guy if you're not desired A girl can be attracted to you and still have zero interest in anything more, Thats.....called not being attracted.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:55 PM
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Imagine voting against your own best interest because hot women won't fuck you 🤣🤣 Y'all make men look so pathetic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:49 AM
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No and I would be suspicious that he's already doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:41 AM
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Nope you gave your neurotic interpretation of them without linking the post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:21 PM
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Hm so still no specific examples of that "hatred" that sub is supposedly "full of"? Just you deciding what people think for them lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:17 PM
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Go get real problems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:08 PM
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Okay then you should have no issue providing a link to this "hatred". And as soon as a women is the victim of a man they deny the existence of it or rush to come up with an excuse as to why it wasn’t assault. Okay show me specific examples of this Men also kiss women uninvited and don't consider it assault so...idk lol. Maybe they are dumb? Don't see how that's hatred Men are unwilling to acknowledge what sexual assault/sexual violence actually is Okay let's see examples of this They acknowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:07 PM
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yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:51 PM
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Okay if it's full of man hating let's see some examples. I keep asking and no one ever post any. Someone disagreeing with you is not hatred either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:47 PM
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Okay let's see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:42 PM
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So men are responsible for the election results after all lol? Guess all that whining you guys were doing about that was a lie. Go figure....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:40 PM
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I'm still not seeing how this is hatred. Where is all the talk of men losing their basic human rights and being forced to fuck people they don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:34 PM
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Whine about male horniness...er I mean loneliness....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:28 PM
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This you over a silly flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:23 PM
2

It doesn't matter and you're moving goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:18 PM
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What other feminists?? When was I supposed to vote on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:58 PM
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Who decided these people were leaders?? So to be clear you're wanting feminists to call out every single instance of feminists doing something men don't like right? Are you okay answering for the guy who honor killed his own daughters for dating American men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:38 PM
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example, if you were to debate that not all men behave in the manner that is being described, then it will likely result in a ban. I need to see a specific example because a lot of posts there are simply women talking about their experiences. If someone's talking about their experience being sexually assaulted as a child, chiming in that it's not all men would be absolutely tone-deaf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:34 PM
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Yes......if you're against feminism on a sub dedicated to profeminism you're going to get banned🤯.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:23 PM
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That's because I'm not talking to you.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:20 PM
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No it isn't. If you go to a place that scours the globe looking for examples of toxic feminism and compiles them all in one place it's going to look like that's all feminism is. If you scour the globe looking for all examples of men being sexual predators and compile them all in one place then it's going to look like all men are sexual predators. I get the sinking feeling you have an issue with that though lol.... And a list of contextless phrases aren't hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:19 PM
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Because when examples from twox or feminism are pulled up, it’s always “thats a minority of women”, “thats just Reddit”, “they probably had trauma from men”, I mean even if this were true how is quoting things from r/toxicfeminism the solution around this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:12 PM
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Mainstream feminism isn't a hate movement. r/feminism as a sub exists and shows you what actual feminist typically talk about. If mainstream feminism is so hateful you shouldn't have had any issue getting examples from there. Instead you chose to ignore that one and go to a sub that specifically looks for examples to toxic feminism to confirm your confirmation bias. You could do this and call pretty much any group a hate group That does not prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:00 PM
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It made me think a tad worse of white and Hispanic men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:23 PM
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In general no but if he's my husband I would expect him to protect me. Especially since he's a 6 ft 5 240 lb man. If he wants to protect another woman that's fine too but I don't expect it of him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:27 AM
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Yeah I was waiting on someone to question that. I wonder what exactly is conservative about showing your ass and tits for money lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:19 AM
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You are and it's a red flag. You should probably stay away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:14 AM
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I think people who obsess over being falsely accused of sexually assaulting people are red flags at best
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:02 AM
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If you think about it your example kind of proves the person aboves point. They had to dehumanize him by calling him a "Witch" to justify starving him to death. They at their core knew what they were doing was wrong. This is the same way most other horrific crimes against humanity are justified. People don't inherently want to harm others. They always need an excuse to ignore this inherent want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:34 PM
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Ehhh I'm not sure I agree with this. Even babies and animals are typically caring and avoid doing things that hurt others. I think most people by default don't want to do things that harm others and they usually have to be conditioned to not be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:28 PM
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I mean I'm a woman and I would have at least tried to help anyone I saw this happen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:15 PM
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Convictions can be wrongful Convictions can be wrongful but random polled accusations can't 🤣 I demonstrate a bias against people who make assertions they can't prove. Conviction rates would objectively prove your argument but you can't find any because your argument is bs lol. Pick me!! Choose meeee!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:07 AM
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Surveys. Not actual convictions that went through a court. You said you had proof not evidence. They are not the same thing. There's evidence of life on Mars but not proof. Show actual proof or just admit you're full of crap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:48 AM
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Aaaaaand neither of those same repetitive articles prove your point. Proof and evidence are not the same thing. There's evidence of aliens on Mars. Men commit the majority of violent crimes. There's no reason for domestic violence to be the one random exception lol Guess you'll have to just use common sense for this one. You can do it I believe in you muffin bun ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:38 AM
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You can be literally anything on the internet. I've engaged with several red pill women here and most are pretty chill and reasonable. I've seen you post here and everything you say reads like what a red pill guy thinks a red pill woman is. I suppose I can't really prove that but just figured I'd point it out anyway. Nah all your silly talking points get beat to death daily here. If you're still delusional enough to believe them you're a lost cause lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:11 AM
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Me! Me! Over here! Pick me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:02 AM
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Because most men don't care enough about those issues to do anything about them. The only time they ever really get brought up is in opposition to womens issues. Also a mans lack of sexual partners is not a societal issue lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:01 AM
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Because ops stance is only correct in certain contexts. If half the population disappeared that would obviously be detrimental so in that context women need men and men need women. If we're talking individually no individual needs another individual regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:05 AM
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Ask op. I don't. I'm just responding to the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:48 AM
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When I was a kid my mom used to keep me and my brother from my dad to "punish him". So yeaaa it's definitely a thing unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:31 PM
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You're pretty much doing exactly what op is describing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:17 PM
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Okay we get it you're jealous of hot men. You don't have to wedge it into every conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:17 PM
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what a non response lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:40 PM
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For me how I look correlates with how I feel. When I look good I feel good even if I'm not leaving the house
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:34 PM
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I probably wouldn't marry and just have a harem of hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:09 AM
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No it's because they have likely had the same experience. ( like guys who lie about their jobs for example lol) and I don't know what "choose better" has to do with any of this. Most women don't choose men they're suspicious of so problem solved. Well, most people have something online, they just might not be willing to share that information with you. Or they'll do what I do and give you a "public" profile but keep the sockpuppet account that they actually use on the down low. So what's your po…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:57 AM
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I don't care and am giving non answers. Are you mad and deflecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:30 AM
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From personal experience most of the people who claim to not have social media have things to hide. (like their jobs 🙃). To be clear I don't mean they have it and just don't post on it. I mean the ones who claim to not have any. I mean good luck I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:29 AM
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Yes that was my reaction to this post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:25 AM
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It's not womens fault you didn't know they didn't have naturally blue eyelids 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:17 AM
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Yup. Always whining about misandry but in the same breath they haaaaaate attractive men and reduce all mens issues down to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:05 AM
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Longwinded rant pretending to care about the draft, child support, and circumcision incoming lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:01 AM
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Noones denying that misandry exists. You guys just call anything you don't like misandry(ex women not dating you)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:57 PM
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Are cases of rape with lack of proof the same thing as false rape accusations to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:51 PM
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I understand it is suggesting infidelity and who would do such a horrible thing. Then you understand why.... A better comparison would be having my husband take an std test which he would be justifiably hurt by. My husband has shown me nothing but love and care and I would essentially be telling him that part of me believes none of it was genuine. I love my husband and could never bring myself to do that so the fact this is so hard for men here to grasp says a lot. If you think it's more importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:28 PM
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Yet you couldn't do it.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:03 PM
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Hm so no link. Guess you pulled this out your ass like I thought lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:55 PM
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What studies? Link them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:50 PM
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He probably thinks they're the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:48 PM
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No you're not lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:44 PM
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Bruhh you just be reading tf out of them and I'm here for it lmao 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:28 PM
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Be fun to be around and easy to talk to. Pretty much the same standards I have for women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:33 PM
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On an individual level men don't need women or vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:32 PM
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okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:26 PM
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I would agree those are all pretty average looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:41 PM
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If the two of you are cohabitating there's no way this would work unless you're dating a moron and Im generally suspicious of people who have no social media presence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:08 PM
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This is why I roll my eyes at dudes who claim women don't care about personality. Like you know because you the person calling women shallow bitches have a "good personality"? You can describe your personality however you want to describe it but if that's not how you come off the others it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:20 PM
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Men have it rougher but it's still not easy for women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:27 PM
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" you have pedophilic views but it's okay we can still hang out" All your opinions are silly and giving "pick me" and should be shamed. The person above me already demolished your "arguments"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:58 AM
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Me! Me! Over here! Pick me! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:17 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:10 PM
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Stop being friends with him or break up with him. If he's part of my friend group I would still be cordial but I wouldn't go out of my way to be around him. If people ask me why I will simply say why and what they choose to do with that information is up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:49 PM
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* Only looking for sex, will say or do anything, including pretend to be someone he's not, if it means he gets sex that night. * No concept of fashion or style; messy hair, bad hygiene ect. * No impulse control, violent, aggressive, unable to compromise ect. I would say these three things are really the only things I've observed in men a notable amount of times. The part about no concept of fashion is the most common. SECOND QUESTION: *What do you think you're doing differently that's produced d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:50 PM
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Now now don't be hysterical.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:49 AM
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I'm not deflecting. You are. You should stop all this talk about assaulting women and children too. You cant fool me I read that between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:47 AM
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Oh so we're making up stories about each other? Okay I'll try. You need to stop going around assuming all men are lying cheating pigs that abuse the kindness and benevolence of women giving them second chances. You're being very hateful and misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:44 AM
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We get it. You're jealous of "Chad". You don't have to wedge it into every conversation though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:42 AM
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Nope. Answer mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:16 PM
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What aspects as far as their sexuality do you think they did control back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:08 PM
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Contrary to what this sub says I think a lot of women give men the benefit of the doubt a lot more than they do other women. They will keep giving chance after chance to the man who cheats on them, lies to them, and overall makes their lives more difficult but will cut off female friends over simple misunderstandings without even trying to talk things over. I've seen guys get into fist fights and then be friends again the next day. Most women I know wouldn't even talk to each other after that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:43 PM
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I thought we were just discussing sex and dating. What do you mean specifically by sexual revolution? I think they also say that standards for men have gone down somehow overall. As in there aren't as many men women deem as good partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:45 PM
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No. People should have complete control over their own sexuality and dating lives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:09 PM
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So what is the point of engaging if you're just gonna respond with some variation of "only for Chad" to every piece of advice? Why are you even here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:05 PM
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Tf?? No most people don't assume that....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:36 PM
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How would someone just never find out where their partner works?? I'm convinced y'all actively TRY to sabotage your dating lives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:33 PM
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No pill. I don't like the way blue pill tries to blur the lines between typical gender norms. Women like masculine men. Men like feminine women. Red pill is wrong about almost everything and tries to bend and stretch everything women do into something malicious and disregards common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:37 AM
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Funny enough this comment is actually a straw man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:24 AM
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As a man I know you think everybodys life needs to revolve around you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:53 AM
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Well I met my husband there so I would say positive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:25 AM
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Should I expect an emotional tirade now or are we done here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:40 PM
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You can't actually have self awareness this low. I refuse to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:35 PM
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hahaha I always love your replies 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:32 PM
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Most people in general are indifferent to most people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:58 PM
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"I know you said what you mean but let me tell you what you REALLY mean"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:58 AM
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Yeah I have a mental list of like five people I automatically ignore because they aren't really interested in discussing anything and tend to just go on repetitive, long, off topic rants. He is one of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:25 PM
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You're so dramatic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:42 AM
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Okay and if she tells you if she doesn't like something you're doing just pull out a psychology book and some smut novels and tell her why she's wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:16 AM
0

Ive ghosted good looking guys for being bad in bed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:07 AM
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Best advice I can give, you know that like hour before you take a girl home when you’re still at the bar/date? That’s foreplay. lol okay x to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:05 AM
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I was so close to agreeing with you until you added these three paragraphs of incel logic It's like a compulsion for y'all or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:58 PM
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Right so again to be clear what you want is for people to just start ending their relationships and marriages if they have to repeatedly ask their partner to do anything? What's the alternative to asking repeatedly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:33 PM
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What is your definition of nagging?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:57 PM
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Yep and I'm sure if she had left him for pulling crap like that he would have been "blindsided by divorce" too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:50 PM
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I used to live with this couple and the wife asked the husband to do the dishes once. He only washed the front of all the plates and left the backs covered in food then stacked them in the cabinets together. I realized this days later. I had to rewash all the dishes and scrub the inside of the cabinets Trust me there is absolutely a wrong way to do dishes 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:43 PM
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lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:38 PM
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So to be clear what you want is for people to just start ending their relationships and marriages if they have to repeatedly ask their partner to do anything right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:28 PM
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I mean my husband wouldn't have started going to the doctor for annual checkups or started taking his health seriously if I hadn't nagged him to do it. I guess I should have just divorced him according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:10 PM
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On todays episode of "Its so unfair that I can't abandon my own flesh and blood!" "also women hate men and the system is against them!" "but about half of those abandoned kids are boys who grow into men..." "er...um....they don't count..."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:45 AM
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Bruh I brought this up here a while back. Literally the first man to ever exist couldn't even take responsibility for his own actions lmao 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:45 AM
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So it doesn't matter to you if your argument is illogical. Okay that checks out 😆 Then all you need to say is beggars can't be choosers. Not use irrelevant hyperbolic examples. You're like those right-wing white dudes to compare every inconvenience they have to slavery. Go get real problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:04 PM
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No it's not. A home is a necessity and a girlfriend is not. The argument cannot continue past that because it's illogical Grounded adults should be able to survive and live a rich fulfilling life without a girlfriend. Just in my state alone hundreds of homeless people froze to death or died of heat stroke last year. Comparing your chronic dry dick to this goes beyond lacking empathy to honestly being pretty evil
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:56 PM
1

Focusing on things you can't change and not things you can is giving up and doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:44 PM
2

So then it sounds like your solution is really just to give up and do nothing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:42 PM
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And if you focus on the ones you cant change and fix them then what? This is a contradiction. If you can fix them they are not unchangeable. Why focus on things you can't change?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:31 PM
1

But why focus on them instead of the ones they can change?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:24 PM
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hm okay sounds reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:21 PM
-3

Are you someone who believes anything that can't be statistically proven isn't true?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:18 PM
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I mean she can be a bit hyperbolic sometimes but for the most part she's generally pretty spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:56 PM
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k be delusional then. Good luck or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:47 AM
1

Why do you believe grifters and refuse to think critically or use common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:57 AM
-1

Got more than you. For example: A point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:12 AM
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Do you believe Obama is the antichrist and that the frogs are gay too lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:16 AM
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People like Steve Irwin and Mr Rogers could pull a bunch of women as well but I guess those archetypes don't matter to you. You are blatantly showing yourself to not have the mental bandwidth to even identify what a good male personality is so I don't know why you always have such strong opinions on this topic. It sounds like you're just big coping lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:29 AM
1

Oh don't ever speak for me please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:58 PM
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You seem a tad bitter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:37 PM
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It is absolutely objectively not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:00 PM
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I'm surprised the mods haven't gotten rid of him yet. Doesn't that count as advertising?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:51 PM
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Ryan Reynolds seems nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:53 PM
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Where is this happening? And most of these cases I've witnessed the dude just cheats then the woman finds out and divorces him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:36 PM
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No. You don't. Okay? "Sad backstory" so she should have pity fucked him?? You added a whole lot of irrelevant details that added nothing to this conversation. Your friend and the girl were not dating and there was no agreement to have sex or "give him love" if he bought snacks. ACTUAL nice guys understand this. Your friend chose to simp and people please instead of becoming someone women like and that's on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:02 PM
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Yup! I'm surprised I even have to argue this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:19 AM
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Then show the data. I like how you low-key moved the goal post there. Your stance was that the average sex worker can't get a committed relationships or get married and you're wrong. I think you severely underestimate male lust and desperation. Some sex workers can get men to fork out hundreds and even thousands for sex and you think they can't get committed relationships or marriage?? A lot of those women men are bringing from the Philippines are actually sex workers As somebody who knows sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:18 AM
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But......you're either having sex or you're not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:08 AM
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it's just not the average Yes it is....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:56 AM
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It's not because they literally do get married and find long-term relationships. Especially if they're hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:51 AM
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This too. The men likely overestimate their own attractiveness. So when they see someone who's "below average" like them all the money and validation seems unwarranted since they don't get anything close to that from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:45 AM
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For the ones that straight HATE sex workers I think it's jealousy. They're sexually deprived themselves then they see a woman not only getting way more sex but being paid for it. Something they(incorrectly) deem as pretty much no effort. That would be an incels wettest dream if the roles were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:35 AM
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What sex workers are pretending to be virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:27 AM
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Sex workers get in long-term relationships and married all the time. Some even to rich men 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:24 AM
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Nah it's more that a ton of men think if they put in enough nice coins they will get sex. Turns out he couldn't exchange snacks for sex so he should just eat the snacks and go talk to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:22 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:46 AM
0

People who know you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:45 AM
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The discussion is about calling yourself a "good person". Saying you are a decent or okay person or as you said someone who tries to be a good person is literally not calling yourself a good person. You don't listen. You just wait to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:01 AM
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Yeah I don't think your main issue is calling yourself a nice person lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:51 AM
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This is the same sentiment I have for these dudes who keep insisting good personalities don't matter in dating then proceed to rant about how evil women are. He's probably thinking he's checkmating me but the whole time I'm just like "And you know all this because YOU have a good personality??" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:46 AM
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If asked I would call myself an okay or decent person because that's what most people are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:40 AM
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Women don't evade men because they are nice......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:34 AM
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Women are inherently feminine. There! Take that!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:53 PM
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These dudes have just got to be people who don't work out. I follow a lot of different female influencers to learn new workout ideas and food recipes. They understand this when men do it but for women it's always something nefarious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:49 PM
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This you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:41 PM
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They are. They're just more masculine than you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:36 PM
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I frequent a lot of influencer Instagrams and most of them are thanking guys who compliment them in the comments. Maybe change your flare to Red Pill lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:36 PM
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I genuinely don't see what's wrong with this outfit. She looks comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:32 PM
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As somebody who works out almost daily I have never in my life seen that in public. She would likely get an indecent exposure charge if she wore shorts like that anywhere besides maybe a pool. You're being hyperbolic because you know you're full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:30 PM
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moo point 🐄?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:24 PM
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Pretty alarmed since he had real testicles yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:20 PM
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Yea and your friend absolutely 100% would not have had sex with her if she wanted it. Yea lol. You guys just need to get over yourselves lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:06 PM
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This why good guys/nice guys do so poorly with women This is already wrong so I don't think I need to read further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:45 PM
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I mean probably the same amount of people with a lower than average Iq. Even elementary schoolers can put together the difference between fictional entertainment and real life. Do you think people didn't date before TV and film existed? For most people when they initially start dating it's just a matter of trial and error and learning as you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:32 PM
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Yup exactly correct! It's basically the male version of "Im not like those other girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:59 PM
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You already said this a few comments up. Someone replied and proved it false and you had no response to them. Now you're copying and pasting the same thing here. You already know this isn't true so why are you purposely spreading misinformation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:36 PM
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Most men are attracted to most women And this is another chronically online take. No they aren't. They tend to be less selective than women but most men are absolutely not attracted to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:20 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:56 PM
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nah they are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:03 AM
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And don't sphinx cats have peach fuzz rather than fur?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:38 AM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:30 AM
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I was almost going to agree with you until you wedged in the incel talking points
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:19 AM
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Yeeeeah he looks just like a ferret to me but he gets a lot of good looking women so I'm sure he's a really cool guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:18 AM
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Women are inherently feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:07 AM
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Right?! I hit this kid who stole My Game Boy Advance and he didn't even drop any cash or weapons. The audacity! I was annoyed for a while but then I turned 12....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:56 AM
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They still eventually marry and most of them are initiated by women so the ones that want to be alone chose to be. And you have no proof their weight plays a factor in any of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:43 PM
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Nope. Most (american)women are obese and most women eventually marry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:40 PM
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You don’t dictate whether men see someone as a Madonna or whore. And neither do you. Most men don't group women as Madonna or whores. Some of the ones who don't are even on this very post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:30 PM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:13 PM
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Then red pill doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:10 PM
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Great so she can have blown some dude then kissed you on the mouth right after but since your child is yours what she did isn't cheating! when women themselves do just as much cheating if not more. I mean even if this were true what should women do with this information? Because some random woman she has nothing to do with cheated she should be cool with her partner cheating on her?? Do you think you have to answer for any bad thing any man anywhere has ever done?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:16 PM
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Well there's lots of women that are just as into cucking as you are. Why not just marry someone like that? Then you never have to worry about any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:47 PM
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Alright so your partner can tell you she's going to go fuck another dude and then leave to go do it and that's not cheating right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:24 PM
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Okay and if you leave the house a mess and refuse to pick up after yourself she's free to go cheat now. Wife isn't entitled to a clean home= husband isn't entitled to marriage or loyalty!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:19 PM
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Oh so it's the op trying to justify doing bad things without being considered a bad person as per usual Imagine that lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:15 PM
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When you say upfront do you mean the other partner agreed to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:07 PM
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Well first of all if you visit the dead bedroom sub here a lot of them are women whose husbands won't have sex with them as well. Anyone who is not satisfied sexually in their marriage should discuss why and work on a solution, consider opening the relationship or they should divorce. Staying in a marriage you aren't satisfied with will cause resentment. This is coming from someone who grew up in a household with parents who hated each other and should have divorced a long time ago. Also althoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:06 PM
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Yes y'all are....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:57 PM
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So y'all aren't constantly here screeching about population decline lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:41 PM
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Whining about ad hominems is pretty unmasculine low value male behavior just sayin.... It's even worse since there weren't even any ad hominems lol. Toughen up a tad sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:05 PM
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It did in this rage bait video a while back but this isn't how most women behave and she was rightfully dragged for it. Of course that's not enough for redpillers though. She should have been publicly tarred and feathered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:46 AM
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Did I say it did? It doesn't matter who you want when you can't get either option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:03 PM
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"Teacher! She's being mean to me!!" 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:15 PM
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A 14-year-olds only job should be making good grades in school.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:51 PM
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Alright. That's what I wanted to know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:22 PM
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People with bachelors degrees make more money and again that can take about 6 years. A lot of guys don't want to do school for 6 years. The average trade worker makes more than someone with an associates degree and they both take about the same amount of time. Well your situation was unfortunate I still believe that happens to a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:20 PM
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Alright just so we're clear your right to not have to pay $400 a month to support your own child takes priority over everything I just mentioned right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:11 PM
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Because why would you want to when you can learn a trade and begin making the income you want in about 2 years? Lots of trades pay more than jobs you get with a degree. Hell if I had known more about trades early on I would have gone that route myself. You can earn a degree and still have to work sweatshop hours like that too. It depends on the company. My husband's an engineer and used to have to work those hours. There are also many who only do it because they don't have another viable option …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:00 PM
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Alright then I guess growing up in poverty and living in the streets isn't a mens issue. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:54 PM
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I disagree and think that's a minority. Most men I know who went for trades specifically chose to go to trade school because they didn't want to spend 4 to 6 years in university. Personally I think degrees are overrated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:45 PM
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So are none of those abandoned kids boys who grow into men? Or do those boys outcomes just not matter in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:40 PM
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That's because more men pursue trades and jobs that are generally too labor intensive for women but pay about as much as a job that requires a degree. That's why men generally still out earn women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:33 PM
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Personally I don't think anyone should be jailed or imprisoned for anything marijuana related.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:25 PM
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Because younger women don't want you..... Especially if you're struggling to even date your own age range why would more desirable younger women want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:09 PM
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X to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:55 AM
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Where are all the messages agreeing to meet up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:32 AM
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I mean.... she attracts more people than you so she is by definition more attractive than you. It sounds like all you can match with is people you aren't attracted to and this whole post is just you coping that it's not a reflection on your own desirability lol It is btw...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:29 AM
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Most men I know who are friends with a bunch of women are pretty effeminate themselves. They can even often come off as gay. Women tend to like dating more masculine men. Do with that info what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:43 PM
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Just want to chime in that you are perfectly demonstrating their point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:04 PM
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No. True. Scotsman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:34 PM
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Okay I guess you asked out every single woman you saw on the internet right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:52 AM
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I don't think they are necessarily. Most women don't hook up with men who don't meet their standards as far as looks. They have higher standards for personality and other things outside of looks for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:13 AM
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yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:49 AM
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Overall I think social media has been a net positive. It's an easy way for people to keep up with their friends family, current events, and has helped broaden peoples horizons. As far as dating the people who struggle are people who would have struggled with or without social media. Same with the ones who do well dating. There has never been a time in history when there weren't groups of undesirable people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:00 AM
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Doesn’t this apply to everyone? You know it doesn't 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:41 AM
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Unattractive men abandon their kids too. I think people need to do away with this mindset that unattractive men are just angels. When they get women they are often just as insecure and abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:12 AM
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That's so hilarious and specific 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:08 AM
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Yeah I wanted to say that but didn't know how to put it into words lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:04 AM
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I wonder who started the rumor that it's only "Chads" who abandon their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:03 AM
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I think you need to understand just because there's anonymity online doesn't mean you can literally just claim anything about yourself and people have no choice but to believe it. You showed you matching with people not people actually messaging you and agreeing the hook up or whatever. You're very obviously full of crap and getting angry you're being called out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:52 AM
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stop loading me like a baked potato. Haha I like this 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:32 AM
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They have access to billions of women all around the world with the internet. They objectively have more options lol Not having as many as women doesn't mean they don't have ANY more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:08 AM
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I'm just trying to figure out how this makes things "uneven" when men have the same social media access women do. I mean they don't get the same results but that's how it is in real life as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:41 PM
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Too uneven dating market values: Women can now get tons of compliments online on a daily basis and have dozens of guys sliding in their DMs. That said, those DMs are lower quality and more non-committal than if guys still had to ask girls out in person. Now they can send the same DM to hundreds of girls. Okay but how exactly does this make things uneven? Are those fake people complimenting and dming them? Men also have the same social media access women do. They just don't get the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:39 PM
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This is the most delusional perpetually online take I think I've seen here in a while lmao....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:45 AM
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If absolutely no woman is willing to date you it's a skill issue regardless of what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:54 AM
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if the bare minimum for women is a man has to be appealing / interesting, are most women appealing / interesting themselves or are they not and therefore they are hypergamous? What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:46 AM
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I will never understand why people here act like this over such a grade school insult. Y'all have clearly never been roasted so bad you felt like you got hit and it shows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:26 AM
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Okay then do nothing. Maybe that'll work someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:58 AM
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First of all nothing I've said is sarcastic lol. I'm just being blunt. I listened to and read everything you said and I've heard it all before. None of it refutes anything I said. If you want to meet women you're going to have to do away with that victim mentality and acting like someones boot is perpetually on your neck. Women are not going to come knock on your door and ask you to come out so you are going to have to get out and actually socialize. Most men eventually marry so if literally no …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:56 AM
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Most women aren't even consistently on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:43 AM
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Well women aren't going to come ring your doorbell and ask you to come outside so lol 🤷‍♀️......
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:42 AM
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Ohhh yes they do lmao. I can dismiss excuses and lies without providing any logical pathing because no logical pathing was used to come up with them. There are no hot guys sitting in their mansions twirling their mustaches while they hoard all women from you(general you). Get out and learn to socialize and talk to women or stop whining about no one dating you(general again)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:39 AM
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Because they don't have the emotional bandwidth to get out and develop better social skills or they're just lazy. And like I said everything you just mentioned is a bunch of cope. Very melodramatic cope at that.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:27 AM
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Nope. it's absolutely the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:21 AM
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They're socially inept and barely leave their homes. Most things outside of that are just a bunch of cope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:15 AM
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Why would you know this???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:44 AM
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All right so let myself be used since some random woman I have nothing to do with plays men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:20 AM
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Nah lots of men will keep women around to use for sex instead of just rejecting women they're not into. You're sounding a little naive here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:04 AM
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Keep social media. He can go. And you can stuff all this weird stuff about validation or whatever. I use it for keeping up with friends and family, exercise routines, cat videos, recipes, and when I feel like I need a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:53 AM
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With force or coercion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:49 AM
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Conversely, men are almost universally sick of women’s entitlement and delusion. Completely mediocre women feel owed top tier men, viewing even men more desirable than them as inferior, it’s gotten completely out of control to the point that western women’s entitlement is a worldwide meme. Everyone is absolutely entitled to decide what their dating standards are. What's it to you if you deem their standards delusional? It's not up to you to decide who's mediocre, top tier, or inferior. Why does …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:08 AM
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