DoubtsShadow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	I married a single mom. Did I screw up? u married someone your mom's age? I coudn't get past 1st paragraph, but get out asap at all costs. Take an Ayahuasca trip, move to SE Asia, do something drastic to reset your brain so you don't continue making really bad choices in the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/25 03:35 PM
0	STXW Family why do u women lurk and comment on a Men's divorce support forum?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/25 03:23 PM
9	Wife left me but kept some posts. IMO: You will prolong your suffering by keeping these attachment feelings to her. She likely kept the marriage photos since it was a part of her past she can acknowledge as a milestone, but the rest is just unnecessary and meaningless to the life she is choosing now. Sounds like she was able to compartmentalize the wedding but has let go of any of the attachment for you that you have for her. Once you get to that place it will be very easy to move on and find a better match if you so choose. You…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/25 01:51 AM
19	45M, Law Firm Partner, $350k/yr — Planning Divorce, SAHM Wife — What Does My Future Look Like? Bro not every lawyer practices family law	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/25 02:33 PM
4	My wife wants a divorce and we’re still living in the same house. I feel like I’m losing everything. Nope👆Don’t leave the house until D is finalized otherwise she’ll get it and more custody since you ‘abandoned’ them. Like others have said you’ve got to stop beating yourself up and start working to improve yourself in every way. As hard as it is don’t be moping around the house or telling her it’s your fault anymore, let her own her part too as she’s definitely not perfect. Let go of the outcome and start working on yourself while living with her , that’s the only chance she may find you attrac…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/25 02:13 PM
6	What are the next steps? Yo!, chasing/pursuing her with this level of rabid obsession and desperation will only make her more resolute in leaving you. You’ve got to find a way to let go of trying to control or manipulate her with the right words to the outcome you desire. You’d have a better chance at salvaging it by just being cool as a cucumber not desperately needy, be strong and rational. Like you said if she is wants the divorce you can’t stop it so try and keep your dignity	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/25 01:50 AM
1	Finding love at 40 with 4 kids? u hit the nail on the head, this is the way	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/25 06:32 PM
1	Business transaction How many years were you married? why did she get more of the home equity?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/25 04:00 PM
7	Who is she? keep photo evidence and document all that in case she gaslights the kids to turn them against you, you can show them the truth one day if necessary or use it to put her in check to stop the lying. It's great insurance	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/25 10:23 PM