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DouglasPR/r/askTRP07/12/16 10:20 PM
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If you can last longer, past the point beyond her first orgasm, chances are she gets more orgasms and some women even have multiple intense ones. I heard from hot women that guys normally get off very quick on them, because cant control themselves near a beautiful near perfect body. When I manage to hold longer I got them really interested in returning for more and some became plates naturally, admitting they only agreed because sex was above average.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 02:23 AM
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teu inglês é muito bom, that is, if you speak portuguese as your native language, since you mentioned you are from latin descent. Congrats men, Red Pill is the way. Valeu!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 05:06 AM
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Im guessing OP is more rigorous at estimating smv, and a 5 for him would be a 7 to other guys
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 04:12 PM
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Improve yourself. I've been to the both sides of this equation. Before improving and being smart about looks, dress and gym, I had girls cancelling dates on me on the stupidiest excuses or no excuse at all. After I got my ducks lined up, lost weight, got muscle and proper clothes, hair and beard, I see them cancel stuff or find excuses to be with me, even in short notice. And I'm not even that hot, Im just a little better than average and way better than the guys in my social circle
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 03:20 AM
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Another good tip is to help people shine. Dont claim the work of your subordinates as yours. Tell people who did what and how important their work was for the success of the project. Dont fear management will replace you, on the contrary, they will see how well you can lead, and your staff will be motivated to perform even better next time.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/20 10:57 PM
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When I hit 35 I was fat and unattractive, women ignored me and none respoded well to my game or flirting. I got my shit in order, lost weight, went exercising, clothes now dress better and altough I still dont like as good naked as I wanted, the female attention is back. I didnt blame them, I was a fat uglyish guy, dressed in slack clothes to hide my belly.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 08:25 PM
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A false dilemma here. Focus on your mission and abundance mentality is how to solve it. Not gonna go into the case in question, but when you have your ducks lined up, your life sorted and in track, maybe a relationship and one or two side plates, it all puts in perspective the validity of such invitation, to say yes or no.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:09 PM
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Another complementary aspect of this is that when they take initiative the window is always short, she is afraid of slutshaming, and of someone she knows see that she chases guys, means to lose face, to lose value. When you feel she is ashamed of colleagues, friends or family a good move is to invite her to join you in some activity, not a date itself, it will provide her with plausible excuses and the results are the same if you know your game and how to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 10:46 PM
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Sharing and spewing your problems, fears and feelings to your girl is a great risk. I've used it once to actually end one relationship that was creating me problems. She bailed real quick after I showed how "tender and emotional" I could be during our "trust and sharing session". Branch swingued to a more "determined and secure" guy. Chad sent his thanks
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 09:34 PM
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43 year old here: my young friend, dont wait up until you have your degree on something to start earning, dont procrastinate. This is your front line, yes, but you should outflank and blitzkrieg the fuck of all financial opportunities. Find and develop things you are good at, no matter how small, take any chance of earn a few bucks at a time. Learn things (learn editing, producing, monetizing, how to open a business...), buy and sell things (even a garage sale can be a start). Speak another lang…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 04:20 AM
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My friend, Im far from reaching red pill nirvana and wisdom, but I can share my experience with you. If you need to vent your issues, cry your traumas, whatever trouble, you better hire a therapyst. Women will be nice and understanding, will confort you and say its okay to cry. It is, and its nice at the moment, but she will start to see you as problem, not solution. Problem is that AWALT (yes, again) they are nature wired to connect with success, to seek stability, reason and strength in men. I…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 04:13 PM
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Regardless of her mental stats, guys, please for the love of you use protection. Dont go for any of the "oh my hot stud, fill me up with you cum, make me yours". Its hard to say it and its really not their falt, its awalt. From experience, this is the kind of leverage you dont want to give. Psicologically first and financially not far behind. Be extremelly, surgically, bobby axelrod's wagsly mindfull of with whom and how you have a child. Its supposed to be God's greatest gift and it is, but it …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 11:18 AM
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During pandemic: Do work outs at home, many tutorials on that on line. Improve your cooking skills, chicks dig that you can cook healthy. Dont stop gaming your plates or prospects. Im currently lining up my ducks for when the quarentine is over, so I can be back dating sucessfully as soon the restrictions are lifted.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 09:25 PM
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In my country bald guys dont have problems getting girls. Some have issues with their own self esteem. There is even a legend and popular songs praising that women prefer bald guys. Maybe from elevated testosterone levels
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:08 PM
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Not speaking only of the situation of the post, but, in my experience, if the girl is not enthusiastic in kissing and foreplay, just stop, dont go ahead. The sex will be lame and you expose a flank to a "no means no" accusation later
/r/askTRP27/01/20 07:03 PM
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Remember that they don't want you to solve their problems, for a number of reasons, and some people runs on this kind of fuel, and don't want their problems solved. If you play nice guy you will get what nice guys always get (and its not pussy).
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 07:19 PM
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Relax and be happy, you are young and single. Lift, focus on your improvement in areas you are lacking, read, talk to people, practice your game. You gonna be fine
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:33 PM
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Deep leg press can be bad for your lower back
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:10 PM
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In my country women do cosmetic surgery left and right, even for minor "imperfections" that no one notices. If they can enhance their bodies, why cant we fix our hulls too?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 05:59 AM
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I like the the way how in the end he just hand his mug over to some woman in the audience, and she drinks from it. Celebrity life...
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 05:06 AM
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Be vague, don try to be logic and rationalize, doesnt work with them. They are attracted by silent and misterious, and above all, they want to be led and believe they will lock you down, even if they already know you wont cave. Dont say no, but never say yes, get silent, she will try other tactics and this will buy you time before the plate ends. If the sex is good and there is no other alpha on her sights she will keep going for a while even after it gets clear you wont commit.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 03:27 PM
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"if you are the only alpha male in the room, women will settle for you": exactly! I know I am far from my ideal shape, frame, money... but I win most of comparisons in my environment, only by adopting red pill and looking after the basics, lifting, grooming, focusing in my goals and not falling for every shit test. Its start and a boost to stay in the path
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:09 PM
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not sure if someone already mentioned it, but changing venues on the same date really works, helped me succeed in more than one occasion. TRP theory says it creates the impression that she's been in multiple dates with you already, she wont feel like a slut. Normally I greet her in café or delicatessen place, we have coffee or a shake, then I invite her to a nearby place to eat, from there I invite to a trendy bar for a drink or to my place. Important to have the conversation flow going and keep…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 09:04 AM
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the feeling of accomplishment after a nicely executed workout, felling tired tired but in peace. Its addictive
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:38 PM
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I think I got what OP has in mind. We just need to translate to our different realities and environments. Mutatis Mutandis. In my case means to be in a corporate meeting room with 5 to 8 other men in suits, plus 2-3 women, understand that dynamics and power plays and apply TRP to it, have frame and mastery of your area, be part of the solution, not the problem, and so on. Physical appearance, money and grooming is still a factor, broad shoulders under the well fitting suit, a nice perfectly trim…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 06:58 AM
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agreed. The more you invest on yourself, the less you have to invest on them. The more care you take about your lifting, grooming, game and career, the easier it gets. You develop abundance so you dont care if she denies sex on date 1 or 2, you just call a plate and get to have sex. If she is interested and sense that you "whatevered" her, she will come around.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 06:11 AM
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So true, OP. I have this on/off plate that has dumped me twice, always for textbook beta bucks. She is post wall, a 7-8 in a good day and very good sex. By now she already understood that I won't commit, so when she finds a prospect she ghosts me. First time the guy bailed after three months and she came back for D. Second time she even told me before hand she was fishing for a recent divorcee, loaded and sexually frustraded guy. Lets see if this one lasts... I hope so, she is not a bad woman an…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 06:01 PM
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not to mention attract beam for chicks
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:33 AM
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I guess you are allowed to cry if your mother passes, and it will not damage your LTR. When guys advise you not to cry in front of women they mean dont show weakness in situations your masculine frame should master, like if your team loses superbowl, or if your boss is an asshole with you for no reason, etc...
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:37 AM
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Research on internet, there is lots of exercises to do alone and or with your girl. Exemples: Edge and Manual manouver (when you are about to burst hold (pinch) your glans with two fingers to close the channel (nothing strong, just cut the flux). First times you will make a mess, but it will help you know your timing and learn the series of things that happen together in your body so you have an ejaculation. And of course, go see a doctor. He will help you or direct you to a specialist in sex re…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:09 AM
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I set my tinder location to cities around 300-400km off my area, to avoid matches with local women, it can be compromising in my line of work. I was surprised on how many of them agreed to take the trip to meet and most came back for seconds. The one time I agreed to do the trip for one date, I didnt fclose. Also I always make clear beforehand that if they are driving this far for a date, its not for talks and drinks, its for fucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:37 PM
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To clear my mind from testosterone driven weakness, I switch genders on the subject and apply the same criteria. "do I want to be seen with this guy? Do I want this guy and his friends in my life?" We tend to make lame judgements when thinking with our dicks and cut a lot of slack when judging carachter of women.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 01:05 PM
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Dont get into polemic issues, listen more than talk, dont argue, dont bring up TRP, not even indirectly. Be assertive, give commands and not pleas. Read everything on the side bar, specially how to deal with shit tests. Stay calm, ignore, extrapole, flip the questions or state that the question is disrespectful, etc. Get your own set of masculine interests and activities, dont be ashamed of it, demand time for it and request silence or to be left alone when doing them. A strong frame is not easy…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 03:14 PM
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Thanks OP, its nice to see some of the stuff I use on your list and in the comments. The parfum you use is of great value on game, specially after you got the conversation going, the chicks will go "ow, he looks good, dress and smell nice too", it makes you start ahead of many clueless guys already. There is a guy on you tube called Jeremy Fragrance. He gives nice tips on perfums and how to use them.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 11:44 AM
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is 3some an option here? ticks all boxes!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 11:53 AM
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You dont have to outrun the bear, you just need to outrun the buddy next to you. I'm not saying to conform to mediocre, far from that. Start being top 5% in your area (workplace, school, social circle), thats a boost in confidence and will already grant you female attention, maybe not 8-9's but enought to make you feel the abundance mentality. Keep improving relentlessly, lift, no excuses, fix some goals for your eating habits, gym routine and weight loss, dress better, trim and smell nice. Beco…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 11:48 AM
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Agreed. If I visit a woman and her dog(s)/cat(s) has human privileges (allowed to sit on the couch, sleep up on the beds, etc) or is spoiled like a baby, its a red flag for me. Multiple cats or dogs everywhere in the house are also a big nope for me.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 11:48 AM
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true, I once tried to help a friend out of the mess he was making for himself and disclosed TRP to him. At first he coped, than he went straight to his old SJW's den asking for validation... poor soul. Today he hates me in a passive agressive way, is still imprisioned in a lousy marriage with an unstable woman and I got labeled sexist, machist, the lot. NEVER AGAIN
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:29 AM
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yeah, I just switched my profile to: Not as nice as my pics make you believe. BDSM..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 06:49 AM
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Hey, Thank you everything! Have you considered writing a fiction (ish) book or a novel, in the line of Mario Puzo's 'Fools Die'? Mixing your experience and RP insights? What a book it would be, and what a movie!
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 07:24 AM
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change your perspective and you will have your fantasy satisfied. Tell her 'if you blow my cock the right way, maybe you'll earn a foot massage, I'm a specialist'.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 08:19 AM
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true. Carma is carma, man. In my country we say a guy must date his share of ugly women so the universe gets its balance and reward him with more hot girls
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 10:41 AM
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Compassion is a genuine quality, where you expect nothing in return. "nice guys" can fake compassion or other qualities expecting validation, sex, attention, etc... thats the covert contract the book No more nice guy talks about in lenght
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 09:38 AM
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OP, nothing related personally to you or judgemental, but guys, never, never leave evidence around, photos, cellphones, laptops where it can be acessed by your SO, plate, girlfriend, ONS, even innocent or old pictures can be used out of context to picture you as a perv, cheater or worse. Ask advice to some tech guy on how to hide apps, create private laptop profiles or partitions. Keep your personal life protected, even from your current "love of your life". Women have this self destructing wish…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 10:51 AM
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I've shared this here once but i think its worth it to share again. guys with low Testosterone, check the internet and see a doctor (endochrinologist) about the use of Clomiphene Cytrate to stimulate your body to produce testosterone. If you take testosterone directly your body will stop producing it. With Clomiphene your body is induced to produce it. It worked for me, my T levels went from 200- to 700. If you want to know more, PM me. All OP's suggestions above are also good advice, I use inte…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:02 AM
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agreed, even nutritional advice. I lost a lot of weight, people around me refuses to accept my method (Keto oriented) works, even when they can see clearly my progress. They normally start babling about calories and exercise, healthy grains and other hamsterizations. I just gave up and say now "I work-out a lot"
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 08:24 AM
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at least you are doing on your own volition, for reasons you see will benefit you, not as an infant, for reasons of others.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:12 PM
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I took the time to read something about this matter. Some things I found out. The foreskin contains hundreds, if not thousand nerve endings, so sensitivity during sexual activity (sex and masturbation) is diminished with the cut. Some surgeons even cut some nerves to reduce the glands sensitivity. In America some states have 50-80% of men circuncised (!!!). The penis was designed by mother nature to perform various tasks, every part has a function. Washing and keeping the innards of the foreskin…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:05 PM
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make no mistake, its up to us to avoid pregnancy. When chicks are really "in the zone" they give zero fucks if you cum inside them, and many times they beg for it. Thats the true primal need to get the genes of superior male (you). So, rubber up and beware of loosing control over your ejaculation.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 10:54 AM
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human behavior explains. People are always optimistic (hamsteristic) about their income in the future, so they sign on the hope they will earn enough to cover the payments. 9 times out of 10... they dont.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 10:39 AM
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True, if she decides you are the chad that will fuck her tonight, husband, fiancee, boyfriend... nothing matters, panties will drop, maybe she will regret later, but she cant help herself
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 10:32 AM
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this comment is spot on! with high smv and keeping frame you can have her in a "unicorn-ish" state and postpone awalt and branch swinging for as long as things keep that way. Then, rinse, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:04 AM
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If you are not looking for a LTR, one scratch and dent I dont mind is age. A 38-42 woman, still hot and experienced in bed can make the perfect plate, doesnt want your money, have kids of her own (doesnt want to go throught it again) and likes a good sex session with a younger man. I just enjoy quality sex, without having to teach or show how to during the 3-6 sexual encounters on average thay I normally have during the span of a plate. Maybe thats difficult in America but in my country some of …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:59 AM
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I've noticed more success when I state thinks than when I ask things. Like, "I'll be at xxx place tomorrow at 8, meet me there" normally works better than "what are you doing tomorrow? Want to go to xxx with me?" also the negatives are more honest when you make a statement, not a question. like, "sorry, cant make it at 8, can I show up at nine or ...." better than "oh, I have to (...lame excuse...), maybe another time"
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 06:34 PM
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I've been rejected by a 5-6 in the same night, with more or less the same game lines I applied on a 8 and was sucessful. I think if a woman is attracted to you, thats half the way, the trick is not screw things up because she is hot and you become insecure, therefore losing frame. So if you have a good smv, and a 8-9 woman is attracted to you, just dont get her looks get under your skin. I guess thats op's idea. I came to this conclusion after realizing my tinder dates had a much highers sucess …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:25 PM
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yes, you said it all, sir, specially nr.1- having broad shoulders and look fit keeps bullies at bay; and nr. 6- my friends were taking karate lessons, became pricks and got their asses kicked by a pissed off dude.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 06:05 PM
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I got dumped in similar fashion. While I was keeping frame and abundance mentality, reading her actions not her words, I was worshiped (I mean, really treated like royalty). The moment I showed how important she was for me, things went belly up real fast.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:26 PM
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Virgins are boring. And tend to fall madly in love with you, if you fuck them properly, to the point of need restraining order to get rid of them in some cases.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:17 PM
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Many times in my youth a cute girl agreed to let me drive her home from the bar, showing signs that the ride home included some kissing and maybe more. At the last minute: "can you also give a ride to my friends? they live in my block" At first I cave like the blue asshole I was, only to be left alone in my car, normally in the middle of nowhere, a kiss on the cheek for my "sweetness". Later I learned to greet this kind of proposal with "Hey, a Foursome! Why not, bring them along! I just have to…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 08:24 PM
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men got weaker. they, awalt as always, since the dawn of time
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:59 PM
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on this matter you can google this: The use of clomiphene citrate off label. It induces the male body to produce testosterone without shrinking the testicles. worked for me. really well.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 09:45 PM
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So true. We are talking LTR, so even if you have good sexual chemistry with a less than attractive woman, for how long it would last? For a plate, ok, its fun and contextual, but for a LTR, its everyday reality. I'd add that, inside the HB5 head, she considers herself a 7(!), and can fuck Chad just as easy. And also, be seen in public with a woman with lower smv can lower your smv as well. When we are seen with a hot chick, other women pay more attention to us. And for last, if I have to wake up…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 05:51 AM
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after interactions that can be twisted into false accusations, I always try to record her actions by her own hands. The next day, or hour, I send a text giving feedback on how nice our interaction was. they normally reply with text proving that indeed they were willing participants and consented on whatever happened. That can be very important later.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:24 AM
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With all due respect, Op, but this is the kind of post that will end up getting us banned from reddit. No lesson, no message, just venting, just like they love to do to us in the bluestream. Also the timing is not good, pitch forks are up and knights are gathering wood to incinerate us. Lets not give them ammo, please.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 09:47 AM
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If you like somebody or something, and someone tries to to put said thing or person down you react and refuse to accept that and continues to like it. So, the first step to be confident is to like yourself, in a way you can continue to like yourself even when someone or you try to put it down. You like what you see in the mirror? (fit, groomed, well dressed), you like what you see when you check your achievements, hobbies and skills? So dont let yourself put it down, convince yourself of your va…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 01:30 PM
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I like it. Timeless truth. If OP did one in deep outer space, year 2489, only the spear would be laser, the rest would be pretty much the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 06:12 PM
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I've did and seen my friends doing women that had boyfriends, fiancees, husbands. They gave absolute zero fucks about the sucker back home paying the bills. AWALT, I have no illusions in my LTR, she can cheat, or may have cheated without me having a clue. This is specially true when they travel alone or with groups of female friends.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 10:24 AM
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I agree, in principle. But her resistence to act slutty in front of people she knows is an act of rationalization. So, if you play your cards right, the 'feel before real' (awalt) will easily overcome rationalization and act in your favor. If you keep tension high, keep teasing and kinoing her, your chances of success are bigger.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 06:01 AM
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I could not help but thinking of it being thrown into a contra-rotating double propeller of a TU 95 Bear
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 06:21 AM
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just be careful on putting assets on someone elses name. You may trust them, but they also die, divorce or get in debt. Imagine you trust an uncle with your house. He dies and his kids (and his kids wives!!) doesnt give a damn, they want to heir your shit, because its legally theirs.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 09:03 PM
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Solid post. How Churchill prepared himself for speaches and presentations, how McNamara avoided negative questions from the press, how Stalin dealed with his spy masters, how Reagan went from actor to president? Reading (and introjecting) biographies is very useful to me on professional life. Learning and training (via audiobooks) a foreign language put me on the position I am today in my career, working abroad and making good money.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 04:42 PM
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man, put a rock over it and forget it. This will lead to you leaving her if you pursue this old issue now.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:44 PM
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you nailed it. When in similar situations I could point the girls that were up for cheating within minutes of knowing them. They showed clear signs they were not LTR material. Some were devious enough not to cheat with us in the group, but with strange local guys, reducing the possibility their boyfriends back home would find out.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:34 PM
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just dont think for a minute that, in the political reality of most countries, the alocation of resources from a ministry are determined by the personal choices of the person that sits on that chair. More often than not thats just another pawn. The proof of that is when you put a well meaning and experienced specialist in charge, he will do absolute nothing different from the master plan, his hands are tied just the same.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 06:11 AM
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is it possible to find middleground here? My plates always give feedback on how turned on and awed about how I can turn into an animal sex machine in bed, only caring about how fine my dick is feeling, changing positions at my will to find the best way to me to cum. But I also go an extra mile, do 10 minutes more of foreplay, and fuck her the way I know she enjoy the most so she can cum hard and elect me better than the last dick that rammed her.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 05:04 PM
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If your frame is right, you will tell her "baby I dont want you to go out with your friends without me". And she won't, and wont resent it, she understands its not the right behavior if she wants to keep you. If she does it anyway you must be prepared to accept a possible cheat or the possibility of leaving her, because that's the start of the end of a relationship
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 03:05 PM
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yep, when you are better out being a young male in Brazil, Poland or Russia than in America it makes one think
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 06:04 AM
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Good post, but may I intervene? Catwoman is NOT cheating on Batman with Penguin. yours truly, The Joker ;)
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:06 AM
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Great. please post the follow up after the meeting. July first is too close to make proper travel arrangements, Ill try to make it for the second meeting
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 01:49 PM
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Indeed its very easy to give up power and frame when in a stable relationship, she is blowing you left and right and fucking you on demand, its easy to stop doing what attracts her and start doing what repells her. LTRs can be tiresome, knowing our "unicorn" is just another mare in heat...
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:51 AM
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we must get used to it, its very common behavior. I have a plate that is almost 40 but can be very childish.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 09:54 PM
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sorry, I should have said that in my post. Yes, after showing her the milk way we drove back to my place. She was eager since we left the bar so, when we got to my flat we went straight to bed, I mean almost straight to bed, she was embarassed to ask but I figured she needed to pee (so did I). It didnt break the mood as we laughed about it and carried on
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:00 AM
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About the non-sexual dates, sometimes do such nice work or they are so desperate that they rush to the sex part of the date. Once I had this night all planned, including a drive under the stars. After we left the bar she ask me to take her to my place. It felt good but I resisted the temptation and did a risky move, took her to see the stars anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 05:51 AM
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Maybe a book will appear a little nerdy to me (40 years old, hair getting gray), but a cup of coffee and a folded newspaper can be a nice idea. I'll test that next time
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 05:42 AM
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that's it, Im going full "Hall 9000" in my place asap. Ill put camera even in my car.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:46 AM
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I had knee surgery some years ago, my physical therapist made me work out other muscle groups and stretch/move my legs the hole time. It made me recover faster
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:48 AM
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To explain better what my doc said, you must do 55 min (to a 35 year old guy, if you are younger can do even more) of exercise tha makes you sweat or feel expent (good tired feeling). thats the intensity required. Does not need to be solely indoors, at the gym, pool or park, do something physical for 55 minutes every day. your body can take it and its 55 minutes more add to improvement, on top of other positive activities, like reading, working, networking, grooming, meditating, and all other go…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:45 AM
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My doctor said the human body can stand (and needs) 55 minutes of high intensity, high output exercise every day. Thats a small amount of time in 24hours, and your body can take it, was build to take it. Not exercising everyday is a waste of physical resources. Of course you will vary the muscle groups, cardio, weights, swim, bike, run, etc. All it costs is less then 1/24 of your daily time. the benefits we all know well.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:51 AM
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I learned the hard way that is better to walk out when she is different, fatter, older than her pictures show. The first two times it happened I was polite and excused myself with a "baby, I'm about to have a migraine just showed up here not to be rude with you, but I need a dark room and some zomig asap, bye". And took off. The last time I lost it. Called her on it, politely and friendly, but I just told her we were not a match anymore and that was her falt for making me assume she was 10 years…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 07:14 AM
4

Also, quality schools, ivy league if possible. Not just the level of education, but the conections you stablish there will be useful networking later
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 09:08 PM
1

can confirm: living abroad with a great job. Besides working my ass off, one of the reasons I got this job was because my competition didnt speak the f*ing language.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 05:05 PM
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unless lotery or heirdom, to build a sucessuful life from scratch takes 10 years, more or less, depending on your country of birth. The sooner you realize that and get off your ass, the sooner your dreams, money, chicks will happen to you. You get every single textbook success story, it always have a long period of studying and working hard before the "lucky strike" or "genious idea" that made that guy famous take place.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 05:01 PM
5

I wish I could upvote this twice
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 06:11 AM
3

Stephen King says in his book Christine that "some pussy have teeth". Get a hold on a nice guys dick and that dude is doomed
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 06:03 AM
1

Agree with most of the post. The average kind of woman that is attracted to me in real life will never pick me in a dating app. The matches I got were disappointing, and mostly from delusional entitled women.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:11 AM
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can't be friends, or expect friendship traits from women. Superficially it will look fine and dandy, because society and emulation of tv shows, but they will bail at first sign of hardship, need for support or loyalty. And its not even their falt, its just awalt
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 05:27 AM
3

In my country girls are terrified of letting us go on hollidays without them. They know we will chase pussy from the gas station on
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 05:18 AM
17

The moment is now, if America doesnt change this laws under Trump, it wont do it ever again
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 05:51 AM
12

Once I was being bullyed at school, complained to my mom (yes, beta, hum?). She said: "stop whining and fight back, doesnt matter if he kicks your ass". I kicked the sucker in the nuts the next day. Never got bothered again.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:22 AM
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More like "unattractive guys are invisible to me". This is typical, she's not getting attention from guys she consider ideal matches. So she ignores the legions of non chad guys that approach her.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 10:40 PM
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When I'm well dressed, groomed and confident I get away with most silly things I say, I get them giggling, laughing and interested. So be attractive and confident. When I'm bad dressed or insecure for some reason I get turned down by hb5's and uglyer, doesnt matter how witty or smart my opening is. If a hollywood movie star goes to a girl and say "baby I have diarrhea" he gets laid.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 10:12 PM
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I have a coleague that almost lost his job over a cheating woman. The husband saw their texting on her phone, she claimed she was being harassed. Luckly he had witnesses that she was all over him earlier.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:43 PM
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next morning I usually text her: "baby, what was your favorite position last night?" or "lets do it again sometime?" or any kind of question that requires her to give proof of consent on her answers.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:40 PM
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I've been there. I was cruising in life, money ok, job ok, chicks ok. Then I got a completely unfair lawsuit, labor related (in my country labor justice automatically punishes business owners) for a insane ammount of money, so high that it was cheaper and faster to settle than to fight an uncertain and costly battle. So, after seven months of hell, the settlement ammount put me back two years financially, and no personal money for anything not essencial. So forget vacations, new clothes, the lot…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:24 AM
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Also, the gym is a place of improvement, and its good to frequently go to places like that, same as a library in the old days. the alternatives: bed, couch, porch, alley, surrounded by losers? In a gym people are there 6am lifting, swimming, working out, improving their lives in many positive ways. Its good to be with people that are moving ahead, not backwards. Last but no least: some hot girls at the gym, game improving possibilites too.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 10:40 AM
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and because they are beta orbiters, waiting for crumbs that will never come their way
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 11:20 PM
3

I wouldnt do the schedulled work. I'd call her parents as clients and explain that I'm not able to deliver for private reasons. If there is a signed agreement, pay the penalty and move on. If there is nothing on paper and it was all "a favor", just walk.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 11:16 PM
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I dont know if I'm doing it right, but after some particularly good sex or try a new position or location, when the innevitable "did you do this with someone else before?" is asked, I retort "yes, of course, how do you think I got so good at it?" So far they responded well and stop asking, since they know the answer
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 10:44 PM
12

once, on a date, this girl said to me she could go anywhere in the word, even the most exquisite countries, and be safe and well, thanks to her witty personality and respect for other peoples culture. I didnt even try to debate that, thought she was kidding. Time passes, and she is back from one of these forsaken countries, with stories to tell: She was abducted by a cab driver, who wanted to show a western woman to his family. They fed her, showcased her to the neighbors and asked to cut a piec…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 10:33 AM
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I was concerned about the part "date down in the hierarchy", In my country this could lead to a labor action on harassment grounds, if she rejects your moves or regrets after dating/fucking you. To be safe (as safe as someone can be dating at work...) you better date people the same level or higher. The woman can fire you but its better then a law suit for harassment. At most if she's under your paygrade, she better be in other department, not directly under your supervision.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:56 PM
2

In my case surgery would not eliminate glasses, so, I deal with it. Most chicks dont mind my glasses
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 07:05 AM
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I took care of the glasses issue having them rimless, very discreet and fancy. I get compliments on it, its like an accessory. There is a way for everything, we just must apply harder
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:35 AM
2

I'm from south america, where nice clothes are expensive. Still I manage to follow OP suggestion to dress well always. When I visit the US I was appauled by the ragged way most guys dressed, sweatpants, baggy jeans, old decaying tennis shoes, the kind you can get a brand new one in walmart for $15.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:33 AM
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lifting again! Also, went to friend's child birthday party, all I had was two glasses of water, didnt touch the junk food there. Got checked out by a hot cougar, that was a plus... too bad couldnt do anything, to much snitches around.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:31 PM
1

actually he was in a lose lose situation. go along and be a cuck or rock the boat and get cheated and divorced
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:10 AM
3

I bedded a very beautiful blond, bikini model type, before and after she's on antidrepressants. She used to orgasm in every position we tried. After the meds, it was very, very hard work to make her come. To the point I only visited her for the visual of that gorgeous woman naked, but sex wasnt as good as before.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:29 PM
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Respect for your self control. Once a chick is my place, eager to undress, chances are we will have sex unless she has one visible std. And yes, if they're on meds, get the heck out is the safe route
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:23 PM
1

he's not rock bottom yet. He will be blind until then. Chill and wait, if he is a bro to you and deserves your friendship, when he's done with her you hang out with him again.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 07:23 AM
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I've always sucked at video games. Really, I always got killed in the first 30 sec of most games, and had no patience for redoing fase after fase of the long ones. Now I know how fortunate this is for me. Some friends spend a lot of time and cash on games.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 07:51 AM
1

mornings are my most productive time. I use them to write new essays, analyze complex data and for talking to important clients, bosses. Its my 20-80 pareto, where 80% of my results are done. Afternoons are for mine social interactions, networking, to listen to the gossips of office environment, etc... Evenings and Nights are for gym, sports, dance, club, sex. There is nothing like going for a run or to the gym after a productive day, in wich you accomplished your planned goals. Every fellow is …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:50 PM
1

I do that sometimes, its a good icebreaker. "hey, you look exactly like....... from the ....... series/movie." Better than "are you from......school/city". Even when just dont look anything like it. "Me? they confuse me with ........... all the time". Thats it, she's laughing and open for game. Once a girl really resembled a porn actress, I went to her and said it. She didnt know who the actress was by name, so I said look it up, its uncanny.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:26 PM
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Advice from experience: lift at home, yes. But don't stop going to the gym, for 2 reasons, You learn from more experienced guys and you get to be around girls that also lift.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 01:12 PM
2

pop a champagne cork! your life reigns are back in your hands
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 11:56 AM
1

what is "motorboat her"? Old timer here knows shit about today's lingo
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:30 PM
2

pictures or you got it from ikea.... just kidding, have a nice v day
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:26 PM
2

You may benefit from a pause, not necessarily monk mode, but meditation and self knowledge. You work in a area most people consider leisure, but it can be demanding. You may be stressed, strained and this underlying cause is affecting your judgement in the relationship area
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:12 PM
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once I did this and relationship improved. I acted chad (yes act, because sadly I'm not chad) and she responded better, really made me think...
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:44 AM
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Yes, I'd suggest you pick something out of her confort zone, to thrill and tingles. Something that your good at and invite her to come along. Don't ask: "you wanna (.......) with me? Instead say it: "I'm going (.......) saturday, wanna come along?" If she can't or say she wont, go anyway and afterwards tell her how nice it was, she should go next time.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:37 AM
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Porn is like any other treat pleasure or vice. Explain: In my country (not Mexico) tequila shots are associated with teenagers getting drunk real fast with cheap tequila, its frowned upon. It happens that Tequila is my favorite liquor. Straight or in drinks, I drink good expensive 100%agave tequila. I never drink to forget, only to celebrate, and is very rare for me to get drunk on it. Even so, when I tell people I drink tequila they associate it with excess and inadequate behavior. I have to ex…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:42 PM
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after I find the red pill I looked back to check my mother`s behavior during her marriage with my dad: Textbook awalt.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 11:20 PM
2

yes, oneitis is just like other vices, you cannot put reason in a person`s head, not until he reaches rock bottom and seek help for himself
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 11:13 PM
1

I`m lucky I had an Alpha father, but mother and society bashed him so relentlessly that only after I found the red pill I could recognize his valour and understand his actions. Glad it was not too late.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 06:21 AM
1

You dont have to outrun the bear, just outrun the other guy. I'm no big deal and still far from my goals in looks, weight and money. But I outrun most guys in most environments I currently belong to. I get proper validation from bosses, females, etc... But when I'm at the gym I know my place in the tree---not very high
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 01:56 AM
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also, it seldomly works. I tried to debug some friends and coleagues, failed miserably. If they didnt reach rock bottom yet, they will hamster back to bluepill mindset
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 01:34 AM
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have you ever been to a 3rd world country? I live in one that has good areas and bad areas, very bad ones. Ive been to america several times, multiple cities, Its not even close to resemble 3rd world, not even the good parts of my country. Chill, man, your country is alright, of course you will complain about what you find wrong, but it`s not down the drain, please take my word on that.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 08:36 PM
1

America wont be "turned" into anything.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 07:26 PM
3

For posture: In your car tilt your center rearview mirror slightly upward. Thank me later
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:04 PM
4

Brazilian here: one does not simply turn anything into Brazil.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 11:20 AM
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I live in a town where blue/green eyes are common, also other european features are easy to see. When I travel north in my country, what a difference! Once I went up north for work, checked in a nice hotel and was swarmed by local women (at the place for an event) that confused me for the owner of the hotel (!), they did it solely on my exquisite looks compared it with the local men, and I had an upgraded suite due to my travel club. It was like fishing in a barrel. Total RP field trip. Awalt, H…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 10:50 AM
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Other bad thing of this: you trust a guy, tell him something (not just to brag but sometimes to unplug his head from his ass), about RP or a plate or whatever. The poor beta goes right to his wife or gf and spills the beans. Presto! She tells everybody else and you're tinted forever in that group/corporation/unit.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 07:38 PM
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LTR here, implementing red pill: can confirm, it works. Not easy, not quick, but gets easier and easier as results show. I changed for the better, she did too. I watch for blue pill relapses, constantly check the side bar and posts here.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 06:56 PM
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Shaving: every guy knows the growing rate of his beard, if you know aproximately when is show time, shave in advance, so you will have the "right beard" at game time
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:50 PM
8

Doesnt matter, had threesome!
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:27 PM
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I'm the big fish in my little pond, all right. Work/Friends/Family (Was literally called alpha already, in a annual family reunion, and one sister in law coudn't take her hands off me, almost got me in trouble). But when I go to the gym I see how little my pond is, I have miles and miles ahead of me in the self improvement road.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:53 PM
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From my humble experience, having even a single plate improves a lot your LTR. It's a constant self remind of abundance and that you have to take no shit from your gf. That boosts your self esteem, therefore making you more attractive for your own girl. A virtuous cicle.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:05 PM
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I lost 16 kg (35 pounds). Can confirm: Female attention/quality increases in direct proportion
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:44 PM
5

actually, after you consolidate the technic its no sweat at all. If I describe all the actions to back up a car from a garage it will sound boring and tiresome (open cabinet, remove car keys, point your feet to car, walk....) But in reality after you automat the behavior its actually no big deal.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:30 AM
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I use these truths as a pilot uses a flight manual when I'm entering uncharted terrytory/pussy. "awalt?" check, "frame?" check, "AF/BB?" check, "shit tests shields?" ON, "beta traits?" OFF ... and AWALT is the first warning I give myself everytime. Also I read the side bar before dates and other interactions. It works.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:37 PM
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c'mon, guys, dont let yourselves be tracked, our fathers werent, why should we accept willingly this leash? One day you will need to be scarce and what then? Also, whats the point knowing everybody's whereabouts? It will only make us insecure for nothing. You think she's cheating? thats another matter. Make arrangements to catch her then. If my girl tries to pull this on me I would go "no, babe, there is no tracking this guy, you trust me or you dont".
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:27 PM
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Can red pill men be ronins in this scenario? Samurais with no master, living by a code, battling secret wars? Thats cool
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 08:56 PM
1

a poet you are, gentleman sir
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:06 AM
2

Last time I had a burguer with processed cheddar I got a migrane. There is nothing like home made hamburgers, quality meat, seasoning to your taste and healthy for your growing muscles. Also preparing food is protagonism. More than one lady confessed they got the tingles watching me preparing a nice meal or cheffing her while she do it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:28 PM
2

Also lifting environment/gym is useful to remember you how a desirable female body should be. Entitled lazy girls will try to lure you into submission only because they're girls ( = anger). If you see real hot girls lifting the saggy ones lose power over you. Girls in the gym I go are hot, and seriously lift. Helps a lot to not validate the smartphone-couch-potatos that my late beta condition worshiped.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:15 PM
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I'm uncut, almost had the surgery because my dick was prone to candida infections and my doctor recommended cutting the foreskin off. I went for second and third oppinions, also reserached the hell out of internet about my condition and possible non surgical solutions. I like my penis whole, my gland is sensible and I dont want it desensitized during sex. Luckly I found a very old school doctor that made me a liquid talcum formula (water, talcum, glycerin) with desonid for after sex or hurt and …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:36 PM
1

There, you made me google Candace Swanepoel.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 11:50 PM
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revenge text is overkill. The guy is toast already. You have nothing to gain sending pics, au contraire. Later, if she changes her mind, you will be the one who sent "unauthorized" pics of them. Avoid this trouble.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 10:36 PM
1

You did a pretty good job in the maturing department, OP, I'm hitting 40 and still got some juice out of your post. Also refreshed some stuff, always useful. So we could say you are ahead of your years.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:38 PM
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so how do you explain when they fuck complete losers and even pay for their shit? Ive seen them trade good male material for a total disaster of a man, outta looks or because said guy had a band. Hypergame can make them do irrational things. Whores are cold and logical (give money, take sex). Thats where I think you mix these concepts, expanding one facet of hypergaming and using it to explain all female behavior.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 01:56 AM
1

agreed, clubs are shit test temples. one must act accordingly
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 12:39 AM
1

if makes you eager enough, I guess op warns us to go out eager for pussy, not "meh" for pussy
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 11:45 PM
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Also, there is a part that called my atention: "I tried to call him after, but he just texted me some bullshit about how this was for the best and that he wished me no ill will and hopes I'll be happy. He turned his phone off after whilst I bombarded him with texts and voicemails." After he held frame she went humble as hell.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:23 PM
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My question is, can he downgrade her to a mere plate and do her a few more times?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:15 PM
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Great story, bro. If I may: 1- cheap places equals bad experience. The good thing is expensive but rewarding. You did right. Wait to have some good money and get the real deal. 2- Keep using condom for oral sex, be safe. Herpes is real. 3- Keto diet may help you on weight problem. It helped me get under 200 pounds. 4- Empty your nuts with professionals calms we down, diminishes the power hoes have on us. Your game is gonna be better once you start to see theire so entitled and not all that attra…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 08:28 PM
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Also the next girl you fuck without payment will not have power of life and death over you. It was going to be the case if you were the previous inexperienced guy.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 08:01 PM
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