| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 50 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" | Discussion | Downtown_Primary_821 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Suddenly Want to be Led?? | Downtown_Primary_821 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 04:52 AM |
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| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I mean, just based off the answers, most agree with me and it seems to be a new phenomenon with trad accounts grifting that masculine/feminine nonsense. Just because I have a well paying job and prefer a partner instead of an overlord doesn't mean I'm masculine. But you're right, it's a preference thing, I guess. Enjoy being told what to do and what you can or can't buy, I'll be over here enjoying my freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:27 AM |
| -2 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?If I could give an award for this comment, I would mine thee gold for your medal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"🤣🤣🤣 I have interacted with less than 5 actual minutes and have enjoyed exactly zero of them, why would I care about your fee-fees or your opinion? Good luck trolling others, all you've done for me and mine is provided us someone to laugh at. ✌🏻 May the path rise to meet you going forward, you apparently need all the help you can get. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I think you are completely missing the point of me saying that it never mattered at all to me. If he had brought it up on date one, I would have been just as sympathetic to his crappy luck (it really was an awful freak accident that even his surgeon called a "one in a million injury") and just made a mental note that white water rafting and ice skating were off our possible date night idea list. I specifically didn't ask about his disability payments or what he made or how he made his money beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 08:01 PM |
| 0 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I'm asking why the recent uptick in a trend on social media, my dude, and your condescension is nauseating at best. I've received pretty solid answers, some well thought out that I had kind of been leaning towards, others were fairly obvious (ie: social media grifting). Your answer was neither one of those nor inspired. Thanks for playing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"He didn't lead anyone, he and my grandmother led their family together and made joint decisions. You're confusing masculinity with sole leadership. Real masculine men are not afraid or intimidated by strong women nor do they look to lead. Your partner should be that, your partner. Your equal. And my grandfather would have laughed at the assertion that he led his wife instead of forming a plan WITH her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I assumed he was on disability. I don't go into first dates planning my 50th anniversary, that seems more than a bit strange and codependent. Him being disabled didn't stop him from knowing philosophy, art, history, or Mel Brooks quotes so I enjoyed my time getting to know him without any pressure or high stakes. When he officially asked me for exclusivity and titles (boyfriend/girlfriend), that's when I asked more long-term questions about his injury. Some women don't really care about monetary… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Ah, I see that wisdom is chasing you but you seem to be faster. Good luck with your misery, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I knew he was on disability when we first started talking and once we started actually dating, I felt like it was an appropriate time to ask about his injury. He was honest and told me that even though he writes occasionally, he will probably never be able to work again. I told him I didn't mind since I was financially independent and comfortable and I mean that. He provides me things I cannot buy myself and that is truly what is priceless. Some women don't care, others do decide after a while, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"You don't read the newspaper or history books, do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:49 AM |
| 0 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"How very funny you ask that, who do you think taught him that a good man finds a PARTNER and not a servant? And why do you think my mother chose my father over the literal dozen suitors who wanted her time? Your spouse isn't your subservient, they are your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Not at all I'm what I've seen from the most successful marriages. My grandfather considered my grandmother's opinion in all matters and highly valued her input, my father learned well from this example. My grandparents were married for over almost 60 years before my grandfather passed, my parents have been married 40. Integrity, morality, these are good qualities for any leader, not just men. My mother handles all the financial dealings for my parents and sets the budget, my grandmother did the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"You must be a ton of fun at parties. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"My brother in Christ, seek a therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?I like shy guys, mostly because when you crack the exterior, you can find some of the most amazing people you'll ever meet with worlds of interest and knowledge hiding inside. Shy doesn't bother me, besides, I'm a yapper so I can fill the silence. What CAN be a drawback is the lack of experience. I like a bit of kink (okay, a LOT of kink) and when someone tells me their craziest fantasy is lights-on missionary, I immediately grab my coat because I know the sex will not be compatible. There are l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:19 AM |
| 6 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"He is by no means a saint but if nothing else, he definitely showed his daughters what good men act, how good men take care of their families, and how good men treat their wives. 10/10, no notes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I feel like that is a bit of a cop-out. Most people love who they love and if you love someone enough, you make it work. I work in a STEM field and my LTR boyfriend is disabled and I have absolutely no problem at all being the breadwinner. Household chores are pretty evenly split, he does pay for his own phone and the internet bill while I cover the rest, and we're very happy. I don't see him as "a dependent," he's my boyfriend and he provides me with things money can't buy, things I can't get/g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Suddenly Want to be Led??It is a very, very common phrase nowadays on social media, including reddit, Facebook, dating shows, dating websites, ect. It is a neutral question asking women AND men on this forum why there is a sudden surge in wanting to be lead/leading women. I cannot control how you interpret a question but the question itself is a neutral one in every sense of the word, your only feedback is "I don't think women feel this way" when you yourself are a man. Do you understand why I'm not agreeing with your d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Suddenly Want to be Led??It is a neutral point of view, I am asking a question on a subject I do not understand and want perspective from others who may have more insight. I believe that even if "many female users" agree with me, they may have answers or perspectives and insights they've heard from others. I believe this is within community guidelines and would like another review. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?I don't mind a cold approach, in fact it's sometimes a huge ego boost. One of the best cold approaches was when I was out grocery shopping and a man walked up and said, "excuse me, miss, I just had to say, when you smiled at that associate, it lit up this entire store. Your smile is like the sun and I wanted you to know that." I couldn't stop smiling after that! I thanked him and he introduced himself and after a few minutes we exchanged phone numbers. He was relaxed, respectful, and the convers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:30 PM |
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