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Come on, you're better than that... You can chose whoever the fuck you want but that's not the point. You claimed that men were asking women to lower their moral standard, I said that I seriously doubt that and so far, you were unable to support that claim. There is no need to derail the debate like you are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:51 PM
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For example men complaining that they have to approach and that women should instead. That's not looks. And that's the standard many women put in a place for a reason. That's not a moral standard, unless you consider that approaching someone is immoral for a reason. Men saying that women should approach more doesn't mean that they should approach anyone, regardless of any moral standard. I'm curious to know what is the "reason" behind that standard. I would say that the only reason women don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:55 PM
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Any example of men telling women to lower any moral standard? "I feel like everything women want is simply wrong in men's opinion, because every standard will discard someone." Well that exactly what a standard does... But the vast majority of men are totaly ok with moral standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:31 AM
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I don't think anyone is suggesting that women should lower their moral standards. It's quite the opposite actualy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:48 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:55 AM
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The poins is that vulnerabilty isn't what women wants. Its a weakness and it's definitely not "sexy" or anything. What's women trully admire is resilience and stoicism, just like you point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:18 AM
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Peak incel terrorism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:14 AM
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100kg? Perfect weight at 90? You must be massive! How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:29 AM
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Then it seems that she targeting a specific type of woman, right? Half of American women are legally married or living with a partner by 26. It’s almost 2/3 by 30. Seems like she’s French, so maybe it’s different there. There isn't much to say about people who are in an happy relationship Most people consider themselves single unless they’re in an exclusive relationship. Having casual sex doesn’t mean that you’re not single. I’ve been single for at least half my adult life, but I haven’t gone wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:49 PM
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Exactly. She keep claiming that she's afraid of men but have no problem bringing one home on the first date (confirming that you are not afraid of what you're attracted to)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:41 PM
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I spend some times listening to Leslye Granaud's podcast "C'est pas toi, c'est moi" (Litteral translation "it's not you, it's me). For a bit of context, Leslye is a french journalist, she is far left leaning, and feminist. This podcast is like a side project she have where she interview single people (almost exclusively women) to talk about their dating lives. Leslye is also a long time single and speak regularly about her personal situation. What's interesting about it is that she's smart, is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:10 AM
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wow 63%? That's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:51 AM
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Nexk tatoos are enough of a red flag if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:37 AM
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When did he get his face tatoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:23 PM
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For example wade wilson the deadpool killer had a prior rape accusation, the case never went to court and he said he’s innocent. So in a way he’s falsely accused. Should’ve women dated him or not? Yeah, nothing screams "totally not a bad boy" like nazi face tatoos"...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:51 PM
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Hilariously bad profile. I can smell his van from the picture he posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:35 AM
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I think the same, most of it sounds like denial. It's obvious about the first one: She's not that young, had numerous relationship but she never managed to get one of those top men to commit. She's not unattractive at all, you can't tell me that at 37, she never met a man that would be more than ok to marry her, but she probably never even consider those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:26 PM
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Listened a fun french podcast this weekend where 3 women (on the feminist side) were talking about there love life. -Number one: The older one (37), spoke about how she had been riding the dick carroussel and was now looking for something serious. -number Two: The more interesting case; She is in a "relationship" since 3 month with someone she's trully attracted to. They start as "non exclusive" for two month (well, She was exclusive, he was not...) and they are exclusive since 1 month but he do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:20 AM
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I have the same questions. It's not like she can even argue any of her stances (more rants than stances to be honest), she's just madly agressive and dismiss any argument that makes her look bad. At this point, I can't believe that any of this is healthy and it's kind of disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:15 AM
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"would you still love me If you where handsome" is hilariously evil. I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:05 AM
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The fact that there are people around who are stupid enough to still support that fraud of a president is baffling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:08 AM
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Combat are all right, nothing exceptional but they are fun. Animations are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:12 AM
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All 3 options are fine. My favourite is cyberpunk but if you want to go medieval, KCD 2 is amazing. I like Crimson Desert so far but there is a few things that are a bit rough, so waiting for a few patches can be an option. If you're really into massive open world, this is a solid choice: there is so much things to do and the map feel gigantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:20 AM
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Nope, I don't forgive and I certainly don't forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:06 AM
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I spoke a few days ago about a woman and her son that went missing in France. Her body was found in Portugal yesterday, with the body of the current girlfriend of her ex-husband. So this asshole killed those two women and confessed those murders. As dreadfull this story is, at least the two kids involved are all right and this man will rot in prison for the rest of his life. I said it numerous time and I'll say it again: Never date a man with an history of violence, NEVER. People change but I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:03 AM
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I like to talk about those subject and it's a good place to do so. Also that dog is hilarious, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:01 PM
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What does it matter what am I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:34 AM
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What do you mean "making everything about you"? How is that about me? Because I posted a meme that I found funny? Is that too personal to share ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:14 AM
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I hope those inmates send each other love letters between gay sex session. It would be so cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:31 AM
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We are only allowed to talk about people we want to date? Damn, we can close this sub allready. Bye everyone! It's been a fun ride!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:46 AM
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I ignore the violent man? Most of the post is about him, only the last sentence is about his current girlfriend. The main point of my post is to try to understand what makes him a "manosphere dudes" (I even mentioned that it was the interesting part). It's really you who is focusing on the last sentence of my post which is about his current girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:32 AM
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Yeah it does look like one but I wonder what makes it an automatic "manosphere dude". If shirtless pics and ranting about your wife is all it takes, then the manosphere is way bigger than what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:22 AM
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If that all you get from my post, then I'll have to clarify my point: First of all, we have no news on his ex-wife and, even if it doesn't look good, I serously hope that she's allright. I also think that this man is a serious asshole and I hope they'll catch him, but so far, his current girlfriend is suspected to be with him, if that's the case, that would make her an accomplice (at best) and also an asshole in my book. So I do think that this man is an asshole and I'm also dumbfounded that a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:17 AM
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<image> This dog cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:44 AM
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lmfao, why aren't you quoting the whole sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:30 AM
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Where exaclty did I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:04 AM
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A woman and her 13 years old son are missing in France. Her ex-husband is the prime suspect, he's also missing. His current girlfriend and the kid they got together are also yet to be found. This dude and his ex-wife both had been condemned for violence against each other, she stabbed him, he tried to strangle her. Yes, the whole thing is a shitshow. What's interesting is that some people on the Net (especially feminist author Stephanie Lamy) are putting him in the manosphere circle since he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:46 AM
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How that would make it hypocritical? It would if men were claiming that they are going for personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:34 AM
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Sounds staged but the way she's like "ok" and not even fighting it is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:31 AM
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How can gender be reversed in that situation? Ps: Her smile is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:25 AM
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Did the non Arab and African people knew they were committing rape then? Well, I'm not in their head but according to the judgement, none of them was acquitted so the rape or "atteinte sexuel" had been materialised for all cases. in that case, if they knew it means they still did it and if they didn't then in both case Again, I'm not in their head, most of the accused claimed that they didn't know they were rapping her, that was their whole defense (and the whole point of the trial since it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:13 PM
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No, the husband is fucked up. He's probably also a murderer, there is a strange case of a disapearing women a few decades ago where he is highly suspected. wouldn't you also say France's culture treats their women like second class citizens in that case? Difference is that he knew that what he was doing was fucked up: He was telling those men that she was into it, he was druging her, he did pleaded guilty and he never claimed that he has every right to do it since he was his husband and the one …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:09 PM
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Your link doesn't work for me, but: I didn't said they where the majority, I said they were over represented. For exemple, there is 15 name from an islamic background in those 50 rapists: that 30% of the total, while they represent only 7 to 10% of french population. Another side point: During this trial, some accuser pleaded as not guilty, some of the accuse from African or islamist background where the one using the "Since her husband was ok with that, It's not a rape since he's the one who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:29 PM
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I have a friend who work in data management for a fairly important dating website. The top users, the ones racking up the most like are the 1% of men. This are the user who get absurdly high elo rating and getting tons of like. The top user is an insanely hot rich dude in Paris who is probably fucking a different woman every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:43 AM
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Gisele Pellicot was european but african were overrepresented in the list of accused. Not saying that no europeans are fucked up but turning a blind eye on the fact that some cultures treat women like commodities isn't helping to understand the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:15 AM
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Because a drink is the best first date. It's in a public place so it's safe. You can easily wrap it up in half an hour if there is no attraction but you can easily turn it into more with a "wanna eat something?" If things goes right. I would say that it's superior to coffee, because it's easier to be a little bit more dressed up in a fancy bar, it's easier to follow up with food if you want to. Plus coffee is more of a "serious" beverage, it's like the number one corporate beverage, a drink in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:36 AM
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"she's his wife and he can control who he offers her sexually" What the hell?!! Are we sure deep fake porn was the only thing this asshole was doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:22 AM
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Can you please answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:06 AM
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And I don't see how any of what I said can be interpreted as "Short men can't be handsome". Let's make another analogy, one that you may understand: -I think that blue eyes are an attractive traits. -I think that you can be attractive with eyes that aren't blue. Do you think that those two allegation are contradicting each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:53 AM
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-I think this pizza is good! -Are you suggesting that any other pizza can't be good?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:41 AM
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The post is her being sexual with a guy she's attracted to because this man has attractive features. ONS has little to do with your personality, most women won't ever know if you are an anon or not (whatever that is). I have ONS with women who had no other info about me than my name. Her post is about her being sexual, it’s weird to use to counter her point, her being a sex haver or sexual has nothing to do with her previous claims IMO. It's totally valid to use that to counter her point. words …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:04 AM
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sigh... She can get throat fucked by whoever the fuck she wants, as long as she's not preaching those dumb "look doesn't matter" or other "I don't care about a dude height but my boyfriend is 6'2, it just happened" bullshit. The day Leonardo Dicaprio say that the only thing that matter for him is personality, he would be mocked endlessly. This is the same kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:37 AM
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She says he was incredibly handsome, disqualifying are claim attractive features (like being tall) don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:24 AM
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They are not judging her for doing the same. They are judging her for doing this while preaching that attractive features (like being tall) don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:15 AM
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Not gonna lie dating someone in that "all men are bad except you" mindset must be valorizing but also extremely stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:11 AM
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I separate in two categories, failed relationship and ONS for this reason, maybe that wasn't clear enough, my bad. I do agree that uneresolved relationships are far more concerning. In your first case, you can't really know if she had healed from this relationship or not but this is definitely something I would want to know before doing anything long term. I notice from experience that the more failed relationship you have, the more chances that one of them is unresolved and the more chance to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:35 PM
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It's not that women lie it's just that they are hiding a part of the truth. When they speak to men or in public, they will answer that they are looking for securing traits: Gentle, kind, caring, invested in the relationship. Those are good guys traits. This is the one that men hear about. When they are speaking between girl, this is not the same thing. I'm the token dude in a girl's gang so I can witness a lot of those discussions. What they are talking about are attractive traits: Tall, athleti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:08 PM
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You know Lilith is seriously out of thread idea when the pop the balloon video is back. I would really want to see the same action performed by a really attractive dude, I suspect we would not hear that much balloon poping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:16 AM
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This is just another example that women are actively trying to shame men into doing things that only benefit women. "You're preference are just insecurity" is just another "a real man..." : "A real man doesn't mind high N-count"; "A real man steps up for a single mother" ; "A real man forgive his wife if she cheats"; you name it. Always the same pattern, implying that a man is less of a man if he doesn't blindly follow those injunction. Here the mecanism is the same : implying that a men is "ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:33 AM
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To illustrate your point there was an interesting french video about two people who where discussing how their height was an handicap in dating: -A "too short" guy around 155 cm -A "too tall" girl around 180 cm After a few minute, it was clear that the girl was complaining because her height was shrinking a bit her dating pool while the guy had litteraly no dating pool. The best part was when she openly admit that she was rejecting short guys after ranting about how men shouldn't care about heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:26 AM
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A side piece of information, this is not the case in every country. In France for example. A woman can decide to "give birth under secret". In that case, she's letting her child into the responsibility of social services, her anonymity is guaranteed and she can't be held legally or financially for the child. Other european countries have similar law, like Italy or Germany. Two interesting point: -A jurist once tried to change the law to include the same right for the father, with the argument th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:57 AM
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Really interesting study. Men tend to have unhealthier way of grieving and don't receive as much social support. I wonder if this is a cause/consequence thing: Men are getting less support so they turn to those unhealthy grieving ways. The studie seem to conclude that way but it would be an interesting thing to test. I hope their will be some follow up, that's an interesting find.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:16 AM
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This is a massive tail! Looks like a half cat/half squirrel in Mewgenics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:00 AM
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It's very common. Chris Rock did a comedy skit about it: this is her house, not yours. If you think this house is also yours, try to put a framed picture of your mother on the wall of the living room and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:56 AM
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So "men bad, women good" but with extra steps. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:37 AM
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This is exactly that. If a wowan is really attracted, she will be very active on the dating phase. Go to tik-tok, You'll find videos of women complaining about being ghosted by an attractive dude and making everything they could to contact him back. It’s proofthat women don’t need to try in order to get attention. again, you are totally right. When the dating pool extend, women can be more selective and won't invest that much (except for a really attractive dude). I have a story about that. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:55 AM
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I guess it is a choice but it's certainly not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:10 PM
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It's the narrative. It doesn't matter if you or I agree with it. It's what women hear from childhood. It's what we hear on this sub every day. There's no magic way to remove what's been crammed into your skull since you were a toddler. Expecting it of others is equally unreasonable. Women are adults, they are able to think, to analyse things and to decide what is crap and what is a usefull information. I mean, It had been crammed in our skull that santa was giving you present at christmas if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:28 PM
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Society didn’t even get involved until she was married with two kids. It only got involved because he beat boys so bad that there was undeniable proof of abuse was happening. And yet society didn't normalized it, like you claimed before. Let me repeat myself: “You are asking people to detect that they know they have problems before the problems show themselves.” You are asking society to know that she have problems even if she doesnt report them? I mean how are we suppose to achieve that? 24/7 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:42 PM
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I would take it as a signs that it was probably a good idea to not post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:18 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I said. The narrative is that women should ignore the red flags they see. They cannot ignore the red flags, while also leaving/rejecting bc of those red flags. What? Fuck no, that the complete opposite, WOMEN SHOULD NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS. I can't be more clear than that... The process of creating and revising maps of ppl and situations never stops. Abusers contain their tendencies for up to 2 yrs. Then it begins slowly, overstepping boundaries a little bit at a time…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:14 PM
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Why are you assuming sex has already happened? You clearly explained that these men feel that their ego has been wounded because they aren’t having sex right away and they feel like a beta Billy for having to wait until they are in a relationship with a woman. This means that they view relationships as obstacles and burdens. I'm questionning your logic. If providing was really a burden for men, then no men would ever invest into a relationship once they had the sex. How would you explain that so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:57 AM
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Totaly: Two single individual spend, on everage 30% more in their every day life that two people living together. It's not an accident if the single lifestyle is praised and the traditional family model is described as outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:34 AM
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Sigh... Looks like we are up for a "If the sky is blue, then explain why it's cloudy and grey this morning!" Type of tread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:34 AM
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Translation: Men view relationships as an obstacle/ burden for sex Serious question: How can it be an obstacle to sex if the sex allready happened ? On top of what I said, you’re saying men envy men who get to ghost and mistreat women because men naturally view the ability to mistreat a woman as a sign of hotness and alphahood. Lmfao , are you trolling me or something? Men envie the hability to attract women. If an individual want to ghost or misstreat a woman, he have to be attracting to her fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:14 AM
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But how many women are sleeping with Ryan Reynolds? This is the part where you guys go off the rails a bit. You just seem to assume all these "average" women are out there fucking god-tier men. They aren't. In other words, you are sweating over a situation that is pretty rare. You're the one who brought the Ryan Reynolds comparison, you can't bring an example by yourself then complain because it's too extrem... We we'll get to a more reasonanle comparison in a minute And men here also seem to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:34 AM
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No I'm not. If you want to have a discussion with me, quote me on something do not invent thing that I didn't day and thought that I don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:48 AM
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"He also pass the bar for the LTR if he invest enough." These guys do have to cross the line to being relationship material. Well we're getting technical here but if we are getting technical then yes, this guy don't cross the line YET. The important part is that the decision to invest or not is his decision. It's true I've definitely met more women wishing that a situationship would become a real relationship, but I have also met a non-significant number of men who thought - mistakenly - that if…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:46 AM
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I've also been downvoted for saying that I have a girlfriend. I guess some people are miserable and would like everyone to be as miserable as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:39 PM
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I'm gonna hyper focus on this portion, because I think all of this is speaking volumes: So you're all out of argument for the rest, got it. Okay, so for everyone reading this, look up cults. Also, look up alot of laws in the Middle East and how old brides can be. She read Modern society in western countries, and she include the middle east. And I'm suppose to take anything you say seriously? How is she suppose to know that if that's all she knows? She doesn't live in a cave does she? I knew my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:59 PM
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But by your telling, those women also weren't first choice to the Chad she dated and had an ONS with either, so....? And they are all over social media complaining about it (Way more than men to be honest). To be fair I don't really see any problem in stating that you're not satisfied with your situation, it gets out of line when you strait up refuse any advice given to change those outcome. And if this Beta dude had a much better looking woman in his past who wouldn't marry him, does that make …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:27 PM
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As said by Mela_ninja, you are an outlier. It may not apply to you but it does apply to the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:15 PM
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Do you have any proof that the people that knew Cosby also knew he was a serial rapist and hid it? You're the one bringing Bill Cosby you're the one who should have some proof that those people had no clue about it even if they're was women calling him a rapist as early as 1965... Because people have also knew perpetrators of heinous crimes and thought he was a good guy. There was a case of an old couple that was considered the pillar of their community.... turns out they were living in the hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:51 PM
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Off the top of my head, there's a meta analysis from 2019 that's a good place to start. Pretty sure it comes up if you search something like, "do men lie more than women?" I'll look that up, thanks. By pushing narratives that devalue it. For example, insisting that men who are being clocked as creepy or sketchy are all just awkward and deserve "a chance." Or that a woman can't or shouldn't reject a man unless she can present an argument he accepts. Or that women who reject men for behavioral imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:11 PM
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Totally agree on that, I noticed the same pattern myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:14 PM
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I would, it would have some benefit and some downgrade but overall I don't see it as "worse" as being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:20 PM
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There are different requirements for LTR and hookups. Here is the thing: Most men understand that. We know that being attractive is the main thing driving a ONS for women. We also know that for a long term relationship, women are seeking investment from men (energy, time, money and so on). But here is the trick, we know that if an attractive dude pass the bar for a one night stand, he also pass the bar for the LTR if he invest enough. So to summarize, if an attractive dude can have a ONS with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:54 PM
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And then there's the disparity in the way we perceive red flags. Women are more likely to see nonverbal cues, and less likely to identify specific lies. Men are more nonverbal-blind, and pick out individual lies more easily. (That may be intertwined with the fact that men are more convincing liars, and are more likely to lie in general. Not necessarily maliciously. They're just more likely to think it won't matter in the end.) I'm particularly interested in that part since I was looking for a wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:48 PM
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Bare in mind, majority of people don’t have dark or dramatic pasts, everyone’s got a combination of little things. Indeed but to know that, you have to care about someone's past, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:43 PM
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I did get that but there is something that don't quite make sens in your reasoning: -In one hand, you tend to say that people shouldn't care about someone's past (Correct me if I'm wrong but I believe that's the premise of your first post). -Then you said that you can predict than an abusive man "is not going to be honest or he’s going to downplay it massively, and he probably going to act offended if (you did ask him about abuse in his past). So in one case you believe that people shouldn't use…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:41 PM
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I highly doubt that people thinking that someone's past isn't an indication of his future action is the majority. If that was the case "Are we dating the same guys", "tea app" or even any sort of online individual evalution would be marginal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:28 PM
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No you cant. Then prove it. Do you blame abuse victims, yes or no? No, I'm not. “We should all assume the victims are just stupid and focus on calling the victims stupid instead of being disgusted hy abuse”. So you can't answer a simple Yes or no question because it derail your whole logic. You could just admit it, there was no need of trying to twist my words like you are doing like that. This is low. Name them, because I bet most people have done similar things and not in a manipulative contex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:58 PM
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Ok so let me try to get this strait: If you want to predict someone past behavior, the past action of this person is irrelevant but past actions of other people are an accurate predictor?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:15 PM
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So you don't care about someone past. Thanks for the precision. I believe that this is a rather peculiar behavior. May I ask is you are applying this logic to every aspect of your life? For example, do you check for online review of a restaurant or do you also feel that your experience you'll have with this restaurant have no connection to what other people may have experienced? Sorry if it's seems inapropriate or to personal, it's just that I'm curious when I encounter someone who is having a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:07 PM
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First the CEO of McDonald, now this. Why can't anyone eat a burger normaly anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:07 AM
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So you're using past experience (aka learning) to predict how an individual will behave in that situation. Am I correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:06 AM
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That's not the question. The fact that he's lying or not is irrelevant, you can totally learn this information for a third party. The question is : If the man you are dating has made several sexual agression or beat up his girlfriend, would you want to know? That's a yes or no question. Since you claimed that needing to know someone past isn't ok, responding "no" would be totaly valid. but as I said, this is a bold choice. The question is how do I let him treat me That's indeed the most importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:03 AM
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So you wouldn't want to know if the man you are dating has made several sexual agression or beat up his ex girlfriends? That's a bold choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:43 AM
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Oh I see. i kind of agree with that actually, other's perception is a massive motor in that kind of behavioral change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:31 AM
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Here is the content of the link: that's a post i wrote a few month ago: I read a book a few months ago, about a woman who was in an extremly toxic relationship (verbal and physical abuse), survived it and wrote about it. The first part of the book, about how she met him, is very telling about some obvious red flags: -At first, she knew him only by reputation. He was nicknamed Yannis the terrible and was a notorious thug from her city with a long history of violence -> A man with a reputation did…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:04 AM
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(funny how other people made you do that, but I digress) Why do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:55 AM
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This goes hand-in-hand with the problem that a lot of good guys are not as good as they think they are. Normal people when they hear about women being abuse, their reaction is “holy shit how awful! I hope she’s okay and the guy goes to jail if he sexually/physically abused her”. However, “nice guys” have decided to react with “Well if she would have picked the good guy, she wouldnt have gotten abused! Its unfair that abusers get girlfriends and I dont!” Ironically showing how self-centered and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:51 AM
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that's a good idea to be honest. It doesn't even necessary have to be romantic. I'll would prefer to meet a stranger than have lunch with some of my coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:53 AM
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Damn, that was a nice move from your side. That should have worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:46 AM
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The 80s/90s were the peak period of steroids and PED: Massive progress in the pharmaceutical industry and testing weren't catching up yet. Just look at any heavyweight boxer from that era, dudes were jacked like bodybuilder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:14 AM
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wow a man who is trying to manipulate a woman and "unexpectedly" fall in love with her. Never seen that one before! Well, at least, this time, it's in Alabama, a refreshing change on scenery
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:33 AM
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Acting like adults? Are you new to dating? we don't do that here. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:30 AM
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I've been banned for a few days for "solliciting child porn" in a discussion with you, in a message where I wasn't solliciting any child porn. I never done that in my life and I never will. Coincidentaly it happened a few days after an heated argument I had with a mods where they weren't looking good. So I guess it was just the revenge of someone who was mad about losing in a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:27 AM
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<image> Modern problems require modern solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:03 AM
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Lmfao, mods around here are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:16 AM
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Does body positivity for men even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:15 AM
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What did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:10 AM
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I also agree with that. It's the best thing to do but it's not automatic and yes, some people are playing with an insanely nerfed deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:14 PM
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Excatly, efficiency doesn't justify using the dirtiest tricks in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:14 PM
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What authority are you talking about? What authority does a man have simply because he is a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:31 PM
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Here is a guy in Belgium who tryed to be labeled as "protector" while a women was getting harased by some dudes. So basicaly what men who do not assault women gain for that is permanent brain damage. What a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:28 PM
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The orgasm gap occurs because women are to quick to let sex be over before they’ve cum because they just want to move on with their life after the guys done, If women can't come back to there lives quick enough after sex with you, well maybe you're not very good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:33 PM
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It can works, especially on people with self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:57 PM
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If you have that kind of mindset, then it doesn't matter how attractive or ugly you are, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:09 AM
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I thought exactly the same OP must me trolling or something, that's the only way this post make sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:05 AM
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Didn't say it was automatic either. If your argument is that anything under 100% of success is not working, then yes nothing really works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:53 PM
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Totally agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:58 PM
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Because she makes the mistake too many women make: thinking that what she likes in a man are things that men are looking for in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:51 PM
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I became an attractive man because of self improvement. Self improvement is the best thing you can do to become more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:31 PM
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Women want simping (aka investment) from a man they are attracted to. If she isn't attracted to you, there is no amount of investement that could change that (except maybe in exceptional situations).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:29 AM
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In a previous thread, I argued that men are not analogous to the weather. You can only find that kind of phrase written seriously on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:22 AM
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Women generally are not impressed at all by a man being a slut. Most are probably not impressed but are probably not repulsed either and I do think that's weird. i mean, that would be a major red flag in my book if I were a woman but i rarely encountered women who were trully repulsed by a man whore. why would women think it’s amazing that a man has to work super duper hard to do something that’s trivially easy for her? And that's my point: I think we all know that it's way easier for woman to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:43 AM
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The mere difficulty of an act does not determine whether it’s worthy of praise or shame. Not always, I've never said it was automatic, but I think it does apply in the case of the perseption of high body count between men and women. and lol, it’s not even hard at all for hot looking men, yet you still praise them! The fact of being hot looking and being part of the most attractive dude is the difficult part. Sure, some gets it mostly by the luck of a good genetic. I also do thing that being a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:25 PM
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If you’re about to try to draw some equivalence between incest and women having casual sex that’s not happening. What the fuck. My point is the total opposite. Incest is not "normal" sex because we put a different values to it. Incest is not OK because no one trully think that sex is sex and assigning valor to it is weird. Sex is a social interaction and we collectively and individualy put value to it the same way that we do for every other social interactions. My point is, if a man and a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:34 AM
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It’s seen as something commendable if you’re a man that has a lot of sex because it’s harder to get laid. Whereas it’s deemed bad if you’re a woman who does the same. Exactly, we agree on that. The reality is, it doesn’t matter if it’s impossible or if it’s easily available. Sex is sex. People have it. To assign valor to it is weird and obsessive. Let's put your reasoning to a test. Do you think that most women would be ok with dating a man who regularly have sex with his mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:32 AM
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Is it a double standard when sex doesn't cary the sale value for both sex? Let's take one average men and one average women and ask them to find 10 persons, of the opposite sex, willing to have sex with them right away. The woman will win like 99.9% of the time. Racking up an high body count as a woman isn't something difficult, doing it as a man is an "achievement". No man end up with an high bodycount by accident. Now, those men with High bodycount could also be frowned upon but it turns out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:23 AM
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This sounds way too specific
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:04 AM
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The method is a little bit to much, I seriously doubt that most men would fall for the "take me to diner" part. But she totaly get the important point: Average men are starved for positive affirmation and compliment. Using it is crazy effective, I'm a man and I do it all the time to get people to do things I don't want to do at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:31 AM
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Nothing make sens in that post... "I'm fat as fuck but I want an attractive boyfriend!" "I tried to lose weight but no matter how much I diet, I stay fat" Next time, maybe try the effective way: changing your eating habits and start some physical activities. "I want to get married and have kids" Well, you didn't woke up at 37 one morning with an urge to get married and have kids. What happened from 20 to 37? Also, How brutal would it be for this poor indian dude if he knew that his message was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:34 AM
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He's abandoning his wife and kid in front of a church. Peak masculinity!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:35 PM
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Of course we do. lmfao I've been downvoted for that :-D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:12 AM
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Lol, You're not even trying any more, this is simply a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:20 PM
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I'm not sure autistic people are doing better IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:21 PM
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I would have bail out too. It's pretty rude to give that sort of dealine just a few hours before the date, it's not like she heard about that birthday party in the afternoon. Plus the fact that she see the date as something she need to "wrap up" is more than enough for me to know how she really felt about it. The fact that she's so butthurt about a (legitimate) reschedule demand confirm that she was probably looking for some free drinks before going to that birthday party with a little dating st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:19 PM
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Love the old school ones, not a fan of the direction taken by the series since 7. Gave Requiem a chance and I really like it so far: they took the best of the "remake" and the best of those "new" RE and it's working fine so far. Also, the game visual is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:14 AM
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Option 3 by far. I've been living on a tight budget before and I can make it works. The other options seems sad as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:59 PM
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>And no, I don't think there's a right to be upset in the situation. Because you don't have any facts. Just assumptions. That's an interesting way to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:38 PM
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:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:42 PM
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:-(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:37 PM
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>That's not a good analogy either. Do you care to explain why? >For all you know, those people were expected to arrive and that's why you were told it was at capacity. Because they knew a group was coming. True but that's not an information that you can know right away. so my question still stand : Do you think that I have no right to be upset about that situation because "It's nothing personal, it's not about me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:22 PM
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So, you're not treated differently than anyone else. Your analogy isn't confusing, it simply doesn't work, that's not the same. If you want a analogy that convey the same idea than having to wait for sex while other men didn't have to, here's one that work: I'm waiting in front of an high end night club, the bouncer tells me and my friend that there are at full capacity and they can't let us enter right now. A group of people shows up, skip the line and go directly to the door. The bouncer greet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:01 PM
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Believe in your dream, go date that Joe Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:43 AM
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Stop, that's not how it works! OP is the only one around here who have a licence to generalize people because she said so!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 AM
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When you have to wait for 5 or 10 minutes, do other customer also have to wait in line or do they just come in, grab a coffee and leave while you are just standing there awkwardly by the counter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:03 AM
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>Is Kim K a hoe yes was she married a bunch of times? Yes. That’s the answer to the question. And as said, even her get some drawback from "being a hoe". >I can name any other hoes that got married getting married is not difficult as a woman, the idea that if you’re a hoe you won’t get married is completely baseless and played out. I didn't remember saying that you can't get married when you have a tumultuous past. It narrows the pool of men willing to marry you. That's different. >The women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:47 PM
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It increases the likelihood, but it's not a guaranteed outcome. It's perfectly possible to have options and still treat women well. Exactly, this thread is just another one who lack any kind of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:29 PM
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You missed the point: Using her as an example doesn't work since she's in the top percentile of star power and attractivity. Maybe no other woman has that kind of asset and even with those assets, I suspect she's getting some drawbacks from her promiscuous past : remember when prime Shakira get single and almost every single famous men in the world where throwing themselves at her? It never happened to kim Kardashian. In dating it’s all about looks, status, and money for men and women the only d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:19 AM
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A "solid 9" experiencing ghosting, slow fades or low commitment on a regular basis doesn't make much sens so there is something that doesn't add up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:33 AM
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And those men get mocked endlessly for this. The most recent occurence being Lewis Hamilton with the hilarious meme of Him investigated by the FIA for ignoring red flag. From her 3 mariage, the one with Kris Humphries was probably a publicity stunt and the one with Kanye... Well was with kanye which isn't the most sane people around. She is a star + she's very attractive so i do agree that she kind of getting away with it and I suspect that even her get rejected by some (rich, famous and attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:22 AM
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Probably toned. Fit, skinny and Athletic are also good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:22 AM
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if online dating didn't work, ir wouldn't work for anyone It's weird how some people around here can't get the slightest kind of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:08 AM
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Men go after married women so they can have all the fun with none of the responsibility. Women go after married men because of preselection and the ego boost of being chosen over the wife. I agree with you, it's stupid as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:20 PM
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That makes sens, thank you for your answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:14 PM
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This is a pretty extrem take but I get what you said. I have a question: Since some of those women are addicted/self harming themselve through sex, do you think that men would be right to avoid those women for long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:53 PM
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Exactly, some women, just as I said...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:16 PM
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I did and I still don't get why you are coming at me. If you want to see enjoyement as a benefit. I'm fine with that. Then, there is a benefit to sleeping with a man before a relationship and it's enjoying yourself. Is that ok for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:10 PM
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I get it, It's unsatisfying, It's risky but some women keep doing ONS or hook up. Surely there mus be something they like about it, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:56 PM
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I'm confused, what are you trying to say? that women in general don't enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:53 PM
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You don't get it. People (women or men) who are having one night stand or hook up do it because they want to have sex, I highly doubt that they are trying to get any benefit from it except, well, sex. So I do agree that it's not "beneficial" because that's not the point of it. Same as most recreational activities, we don't do it for any benefit but because we are having fun doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:10 PM
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"there are no hot women anymore" Really? some people say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:31 PM
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Some women keep getting hook up and one night stand so it seems that "you girls" are the one intentionally ignoring this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:27 PM
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Well, the benefit is getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:13 PM
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I don't know your age of your life OP but if you're not trolling, this kind of thread you keep creating only indicates that you never been in a good, loving relationship and this is sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:02 AM
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Dating apps isn't horrible for all men, It was pretty good for me when I was on it. If you don't swipe right much, you'll only get men with high elo score. The tall muscular guys you are talking about don't have an horrible experience on OLD. My friend work for the european branch and there isn't much différence between US and western or northern europe.can't tell for traditional places
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:13 AM
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Even when they're not into me, or they have a boyfriend, and I walk up, girls typically go to extreme lengths to make sure they don't hurt my feelings. They soften the rejection so well that I sometimes can't even tell whether or not I've been rejected until after the fact. That might be because you are attractive. I've always had nice rejection but I saw some of my least attractive friends getting some really mean comeback. Usually, attractive people tend to be treated better on that aspect. Sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:50 AM
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I know a guy who's doing data management for one of those dating app. There is a reason why those company doesn't communicate much on their man/ (real) woman ratio: It's way worst than what you think. If an app was even close to 60 men /40 real women, they would brag about it non stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:30 AM
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Never heard of her. PS: Holly shit! 4 hours youtube video??? Seriously who have time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:20 AM
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Never heard of her. PS: Holly shit! 4 hours youtube video??? Seriously who have time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:19 AM
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My brain refuse to believe that those kind of message aren't satirical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:14 AM
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In a great relationship right now with a wonderfull woman, here are some of the thing that makes me thing she was great: -She was active during the seduction and dating phases. She was texting me and calling regularly, proposing dates and didn't acted like she was the prize. She made me feel that she really wanted to spend time with me, even if it was only for a few moments when we both had conflicting agenda. She value honesty and communication as much as I do and she didn't try to play games o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:02 AM
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<image> Male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:02 PM
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What is equal to what? I only ask what the problem was with wanting to be wanted. I get some answers saying that the problem was about being desperate about it, which I can totally get
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 10:31 AM
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So, basically, your main "argument" can only be disproven by showing you that "choose better" isn't always use no matter the context and can be a valid advice but, somehow, we are not allowed to do that, that's convenient for you! So , for you, situations where "choose better" is valid IRL aren't an argument. But those you read around there are valid arguments (even if you can't display a single example), that's also very convenient for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:11 AM
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What use of them? Well, when it's justified. I can present you with a few situations. I encountered IRL where the "choose better" argument was totally justified. We can discuss about them if you want but you'll have to promise that you'll do it in good faith: another redditor gave you a valid argument and your answer was "I don't give a flying fuck...". So I would want to avoid that. I’ve not seen one that isn’t some illogical bullshit excuse subtly disguised to do the inevitable blaming of “wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:42 AM
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I'm not making an argument, I'll not fight a strawman. You're not making any argument either, you're just using a rethoric technic. Note: I'm not saying that "choose better" is always said in good faith either, but discredit every use of it, like you are doing is plainly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:13 AM
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What's wrong with wanting to be wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:04 AM
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This is simply a strawman to discredit any "choose better" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:57 AM
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That's a lot of words to define prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:30 AM
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He's dumb, she's a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:33 PM
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This is not being proactive, this is textbook acting like a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:23 PM
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Exactly so I suppose that women dating 10+ years older men are attracted to them and not trying to estimate the probability of tacking care of them in 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:07 AM
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If you don't date anyone, you have zero chances of having to take care of someone. As I said : It's wild how some of you can only imagine a relationship being transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:52 AM
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I've dated 7 years older before. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:42 AM
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Serious question: What makes you think I was talking about women in my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:58 AM
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It's wild how some of you can only imagine a relationship being transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:47 AM
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The "taller than me" part is an almost universal preference so it's not really a surprise. I do think it's better to let it out of a dating profile. The "no young kids, no messy divorce" sounds like her kids and her are perfect and the problem only come from other people. The "educated/secure and generous" sounds like she's looking for a provider, not a relationship. Finally "anti-Maga", I think politic is better out of a dating profile. This is not the time to speak about it. I'm anti-maga myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:59 PM
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That makes way more sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:20 AM
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I would probably buy the "Hey! wants to check my gun?" if he had just purchased it? not "couple of years" later. Like the man wait for a couple of years before going like "Did you know I have a gun?". doesn't make sens imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:20 AM
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this seems as honest as Pistorius' testimony
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:02 AM
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So, just to be clear, you took a video about a woman mocking a man for being short and somehow make it about men? I'm not gonna lie, that's impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:44 AM
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Maga is a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:37 AM
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I guess that anyone agreeing with OP has never been in a loving relationship and it's sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:04 PM
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<image> Bro's playing Crusader kings IRL and trying to see if having the "strong" traits is worth taking the inbreed malus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:50 AM
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"hey guys! I had sex!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:11 AM
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Smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:10 AM
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Damn, I want to play Ico now. I got so many great memories of this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:13 PM
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Maybe, but I seriously doubt that. Otherwise she would have said it, like you are doing now, I would have totaly understand and clarified the point if needed (as I did with you).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:12 PM
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This one was peak nonsens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:50 PM
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OP have a problem with me and keep accusing me of lying for no reason. "But lot of women are very frank. Likewise, a lot of men are not straightforwardly about what they want. Lack of candor is not a gendered problem." I agree with you, lack of candor js not a gendered problem, but that is not the point of the thread so I wonder why I should have specified that. PS: since this thread is not available anymore on PPD, May I ask how you joined it this late?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:40 PM
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So thank you for confirming that you can't prove any of my so called lies and that you refuse to debate in good faith. Have a nice date ! that's a convenient excuse to exit a conversation when you are all out of argument. And it's totally not strange to launch a thread like that just before going out on a date. But I choose to believe you, see, it would be stupid to call someone a liar when you have nothing to back it up, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:58 PM
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And I didn't say dishonest, I said "not totally frank (or honest). Is the concept of nuance something new to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:52 PM
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to be frank: honest and straightforward in speech or attitude. a frank person. outspoken or blunt. to be a liar: To tell lies. This is not the same thing. When I say that "women are not really frank" what I mean is: When a woman say that she value kindness and want a good men, I'm not saying that they are lying. What I say is that they do want those traits but they are secondary to being attracted to the guy even if they are stating those traits as their main focus. If I was saying women are lia…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:37 PM
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Lmfao, your quoting OP's post, not mine. Thank you for confirming that I wasn't the one saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:21 PM
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As said, I agree with her on the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:19 PM
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You have contradicted yourself multiple times. This is just being in denial at this point And yet you never proved it, go figure. Then explain the difference. I will once you'll be ok to debate like an adult. "You think women can be pure and have a sex life and that most women can't be truthful" Once again, quote me, otherwise this is bullshit. What adult debate? I'm only replying because I'm bored. Is this a confirmation that you are not ready to debate in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:02 PM
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I choose my word carrefully for a reason, if I wanted to say "women are liars" I would have say so. Don't try to put word into my mouth, if you want to quote me, do it correctly. If you want me to develop my point, just say that you are ready to debate like an adult and not like a 10 years old and I'll gladly do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:38 PM
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Lmfao that is the dumbest shortcut I've ever seen. You're the one saying that women are liars, I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:31 PM
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It's never "Men, you should be watch out for manipulative women who'd cheat on you with some hot broke dude", it's "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks is a common dual mating strategy for women! If she wont fuck strangers, that means she's not attracted to them and only want to use those men for their resources!" It's never "Men, you should avoid women who fuck men that they know are terrible/felons", it's "Women say they want a good men but they always want the bad boys. They lie about what they want and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:15 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:29 AM
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I'm discovering this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:28 AM
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Wow, that's crazy. It's almost like the one complaining about their lack of options and the one complaining about the lack of quality of their options were different persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:22 AM
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Yes, it's not that common, most people are just ok but the outliers are frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:51 AM
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Because as much as people claim to be sex positive they still are beholden to purity culture. When they hear casual sex, they don’t think “Yeah, I wanna fuck, so what?” They hear “You’re a filthy slut with no standards”. It’s the problem of self image. This is an interesting point. Do you think that "purity culture" will end someday?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:32 PM
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need you to really gather your thoughts and focus on you're actually trying to communicate, because your writing has alot of contradictions, lies, and sometimes doesn't connect well with you point. Lol, you're the one going everywhere. You can't contradict me so you're going sideways and now you're making personal attack. I ask several questions you didn't answer a single one. I'll will gladly have a debate with you the moment you start acting like you can debate like an adult. No, you outright …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:31 PM
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It’s like you’re calling him mid for yourself lol What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:32 PM
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Mid ln a sens that he's body he's average. I think he's trolling about spending 8 years training with lifting "being a part of his personality". It's totaly normal to be attracted to relatively common feature, if we were only attracted by the top, life would be hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:12 AM
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This shit happened to me once. Was at a club and met a beautiful blond girl, we talked a bit and we started to be a little bit physical then I saw a guy who was looking at us with that mean face. -"Hey, do you know that guy over there? he keeps looking at us" -"Yeah, that's my boyfriend" I was like "Bitch what the fuck you're doing with me here".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:58 AM
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6'2 guy. I've been with women from 5" to 6"1. I don't care about height like at all. I would be ok dating a woman taller than me but I never met a single one in a dating mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:49 AM
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Ah my bad, you missunderstood what I was trying to say. In that situation the woman AND the man are both in the optic of waiting to have sex. So he's not rejecting quick sex, it was never on the table. In that situation, what the man is looking for in that woman is purity and a modest sexual past. The day he learn that she had some hook up, he's out of this relationship. This is why it's not completely independant from what his girlfriend has done, it's never the case, past always matter. As sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:57 PM
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"Are you sure about that?" is not phrased as rhetorical question in this context. It comes off more that you're backtracking after I caught the contradiction. Lol, absolutely not. What contradiction? "but learn afterward that she didn't wait with some other dudes." if he doesn't want quick sex, why would that matter? That has nothing to do with his own priorities. It matters because it means that 1- She may not be that attracted to him 2-She hide a important information about her past and he can…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:02 PM
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Yeah, the chance isn't zero, but most people aren't great deceivers if you know what you're looking for. I totally agree with you on that one. Most people aren't great deceivers, most of the time, people are showing their true color early in the relationship (including violent or manipulative men).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:52 PM
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What was the point of asking "Are you sure about that?" Oh, you're not familiar with the concept of rethorical question? my bad. Here's a link where you can learn more about it. confirming that I'm right. You do know that "No, I'm right!" is the kind of answer that doesn't fly past middle school, right? (that's also a rethorical question, don't answer it). Then they dont have to. It's that simple. That doesn't make any sens. Also, most men dont go around talking about consistency, so I dont know…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:50 PM
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Again, she can filter for older men, that's not the issue there. Prostitution is illegal or regulated basically everywhere, this is why her profile was shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:10 PM
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Problem wasn't the age range, it was about her bio being prostitution in disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:38 PM
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The reasonable part of my say that he should press charges, the unreasonable part scream for other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:55 AM
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"I've been sent to HR for that" Riiiiiiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:30 AM
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It infuriate me. They should be agressive as fuck about the whole epstein things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:08 AM
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You have every right to be attracted to him, It doesn't change the fact that his body is mid as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:07 AM
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Because most men here are adverse to asking women for a hookup, Are you sure about that? I definitely think that men who want "hook ups" would be very pleased if that was so simple as "Just ask and I'll get an answer", I know it would have made things much easier. Hook ups are about vibes, asking for it and making it "official" is killing the vibe and women hate that. Most of them would even find it insulting because deep down, they know that being "hook up material" isn't flattering for a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:05 AM
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This result after "making lifting his entire personality" and "start going 3-6 times a week" for 8 YEARS??? it's totaly normal that everyone is shitting on him, this morron is treading water and is blaming everything on his poor genetic and how instragram is lying. "I have a better physique than the general population", man you're mid as fuck and spent countless hours on it. he's the one who doesn't have realistic expectation, he should start lifting seriously instead of swinging 4 lb dumbells.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:20 AM
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I saw that movie, it's awful, really. There is a musical part in the middle which came out of nowhere and is trully terrible. It is written and directed by a woman, which is very obvious in the way the main character is always the one in control and how men character are so badly written. At the end of the movie, she came back to her husband and there sex life is better than ever because she "own her sexuality" now. I kid you not, this is that dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:32 AM
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This is a textbook example of a woman looking at the top 20% of men and making it the norm, ignoring every other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:58 AM
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What a bunch of NPC, they are dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:28 PM
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Well, I believe your post is sarcastic so I'm laughing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:23 AM
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"TradCath influencer Sarah Stock admits to cheating on her husband with married man Elijah "women are just a bunch of holes" Schaffer." Remember guys, it's all about personality/s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:01 AM
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This is indeed a great idea. Any man should avoid women suggesting this kind of dumbness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:32 PM
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Move on, there is nothing to build on at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:18 AM
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My rating would be pretty similar so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:16 AM
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Just pass my company formation for sexual harrassment policy. Not a single video with a hilariously dumb situation and bad acting, my day is ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:46 AM
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I'm ok to delay sex for the right woman if she is consistent whit it. I'm also into the assumption that if you start dating, you should be exclusive. Since this situation contradict those two principle, this is a hard no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:45 AM
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A guy who isn't filled with jealousy would be like "I want a woman who has morals and likes to time her time knowing a guy before sleeping him. I'm not a super sexual person, so I prefer if she's also a prude like me". That's a totaly valid answer, except the super sexual part. I can guarantee you that most super sexual men wouldn't want a woman with a super sexual past for the long run. So there must be something else than jealousy in play. But that's not what you care about, otherwise you woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:09 AM
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There was a woman on a french subreddit who was talking about how her boyfriend was leaving shit stains on the sheet every time they had sex. This was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:22 AM
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cm? Girl, you live in the shire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:21 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what's the average height for a man in your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:26 AM
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What do you mean by completely made up? aren't all the thing directly available on the DOJ website? Side note: the fact that some powerful men were into that shit and the only person in prison is a woman should put every feminists out there in rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:15 AM
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This is how I understand your whole thing about "Did you ask for a hook up?". If I mistaken, please fil free to explain me. If you do believe that fast sex can happen in a LTR, then we agree on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:20 PM
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This post is confusing as fuck, how does he know? I got to tell that one prerequisite for a a therapy to be effective is a trust in the therapist. If he feel that he can't trust her, he should definitely seek someone else. But I'm just confused by how he got this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:11 AM
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I could watch the video of Trump shitting his pants hundred times, it would still be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:53 AM
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It reminds me that I only date attractive girls but it's just because I like their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:04 AM
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Question for trump supporter: Do you still support him now that he's a certified pedophile?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:51 AM
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This is the energy she want from the attractive guys who dont' have to display that kind of energy to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:50 AM
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She's attractive, seems natural and genuinely nice. Does it deserve glaze? Probably not but I do understand where they came from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:56 AM
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Girls! When a man hurt you, this is the correct way to heal. Making 2 rant tread a day on PPD will get you nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:45 AM
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Probably true and I suspect this guy would put too much significance to any woman being nice to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:50 PM
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Physical initiation is the same as asking for casual sex, it's just the non verbal from. The type of sex being had is still casual, a hook up, because it's not happening in the context of a committed LTR. I believe that OP means verbal demand, otherwise her post doesnt make sens imo. Both the man and the woman were interested in a hook up with each other, because they literally agreed to have sex without commitment, that's what a hook up is. The fact that besides this both of them claims that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:39 PM
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Having sex early in a relationship is having sex in a committed LTR, it has nothing to do with hookups Totally, that's what OP doesn't understand. That's only possible if people approached you for casual sex, evidently then you never had to ask for it. Not really, as I said, It happened naturally. You start making out and one thing lead to another. Nah this is interesting. Continue what? Lets take a situation that happened to me a few time: meet a girl, she's looking for LTR, I'm looking for LTR…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:07 PM
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The truth of the matter, that you kept ignoring throughout this nonsensical wall of text, is that non of the men who fucked Lilly Philips approached her on the premise of an LTR. Exactly and probably none of them was interested in a LTR with her. The situational reality is that you have to ask someone for a hook up in order to have sex with them prior to a relationship. Asking for a hook up doesn't imply interest in commitment therefore, evidently no one who agrees to casual sex wants a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:40 PM
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Or they realise that this is only a marketing things and don't pay much credit into it, unlike OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:38 PM
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Agree to what? That rejection is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:33 PM
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Well, I which that this post never exist but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:28 PM
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You're the one saying they where struggling... I guess I don't really understand what you mean. If they are attractive to some women and are in situation of hook up, I wouldn't call them struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:25 PM
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And OP agree to this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:22 PM
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OP is backing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:22 PM
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Difference is that I don't recall any men saying that "rejection is hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:37 PM
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I love the fact that OP try to gaslight men into thinking that what's hot is the rejection which is plainly wrong and she knows that. What's hot for woman is the approach, with the condition that the man is attractive and doing it wright. The failure in that exercise isn't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:31 PM
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To be in situation of hook up, you have to be somehow attractive so I doubt that struggling guys have those kind of issues. But I do agree with you, my point was more against OP position who see men/women dating relationships as strictly hook up VS Long time relationship which doesn't make sens imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:24 PM
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A deodorant company told me that girls would sexually assault me if I use their products. It's a marketing campain so that must be true!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:47 PM
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I think that there is something you need to know if you want to understand men because you clearly don't for the moment: Men classify women into different category that can be summarize by (I'm using hoe_math relationship zone which is the most accurate support on that matter: -The one I could marry (aka the keepers). -The one I could have more a relationship with but I'll just see how it goes (aka the sleepers). -The one I could have sex with but I don't want anyone to know or see me with them …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:02 PM
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an hook up is actually a good way to start a relationship, a lot of ltr start this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:03 PM
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Exactly, most of the time, you end up dating people in your direct environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:03 PM
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It is hilarious. Guys keep saying that they don't care about degrees and the two women posting here are like "Nope, I know better".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:27 PM
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I guess that hot dude didn't text you back since friday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:20 PM
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This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:08 PM
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Your degree have little to do with your attractiveness, men Don't care about that. They care about kindness and hotness, a women braging that she's the bomb because of her degree is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:00 PM
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So dental school is basically reverse online dating. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:57 AM
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that's another option but going for those guys just for the sake off vetting them doesn't make much sens. If I had to bet, I would say that the most likely option is that she's full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:12 AM
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Yeah clearly not normal, I can't really see how you can encounter that many out of the ordinary dates except if she's dating a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:05 AM
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You are probably right, I only know a bunch of extrem feminists IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:37 AM
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You are right and I should have been clearer. I was speaking about what I call "extrem feminists", the one who are framing a narrative where eerything bad is caused by men and patriarchy while women are no responsiblity. I agree with "classic feminism": Seeking equality between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:28 AM
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This is a hilarious take. I’ve met more female feminists who are against porn, than men who are the primary consumers of it. Personaly, all of the feminist I know are on a shrodinger situation on porn and sex work. On one hand porn is bad, prostitution is bad and men should be banned for using them. On the other hand, women can do wathever they want, owning your sexuality is empowering and sex workers should be glorified, not ostracised. As you can tell, this double standard doesn't make sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:16 AM
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There is a little bit of variation from one person to another but it's far from 100% subjective. Also, I hate to break that to you but women saying that they are surprised that you have no girlfriend are probably just being polite. Saying something different would be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:29 AM
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There are hot men who are good men, I think most of them are good. But you rarely ear of them: Most of them are dating great girls and are in an happy relationship. What we ear about are those who aren't that great: The one women are complaining about. So it makes sens that the focus are on them on a sub like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:43 AM
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Both can be true but regarding the top tiers fuckboy, you have no idea how slumming they are. Some of those are fucking a different girl almost every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:36 AM
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Well a lot of men want a women who can vet bad guys and is able to resist the temptation of easy hook up. A woman that can do that show sign of determination, consistence and strong will. Those are benefic traits for a long term relationship. It's not weird, YOU think it's weird, it makes a lot of sens for most men, even if a part of it is trully subconcious, I'll give you that.this video explain it better than I would Its weird, it's like you sounds surprised that men and women aren't looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:49 PM
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Most people dont want to soothe the ego of someone who doesn't want to deal with their unhealed trauma. Yes, unhealed trauma is one of the reason why men tend to avoid women with a tumultuous past. Is that your point? Sane people don't obsess where other men's dicks have been unless it was something illegal. Why should a sane be with someone so filled with jealousy that they dont even vet towards the women they want? Dont even vet towards the women they want? i genuinely don't understand, what d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:27 PM
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His fragile ego is not her problem Well, usually, in a sane relationship, people tend to care about the feelings of their significant others. If he feels that upset he didn't get the wild sex her ex got, he should vet for women who want wild sex with them. That's an option, another one is to vet women based on their past and discard women who did hook up. I'm glad you're the one suggesting it, women around here tend to hate when men suggest on of this options. I wouldnt even be friends with peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:41 PM
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Also, DID YOU ASK FOR A HOOKUP? You dont get to whine about double standards and being used for resources if you never discussed your priorities and intentions. If anything, it looks like you wanted to lie your way into getting sex pretending you want a relationship. What is your weird fixation about asking for a hook up? I really don't get it. Do you mean that if sex happen early then it's a mandatory hook up and it can't be a long term relationship? That you are comdemned to wait for the relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:27 PM
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I didn't even know that red pill women was a thing. It's... Well... Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:00 PM
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I believe this isn't a "one size fit all" case, more a situational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:14 AM
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<image> Go get those badies grandpa!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:02 AM
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I've never seen a woman write like that. 🤷 Maybe I'm not in the right "feminine" spaces. Really? That is like a dead giveaway for me. That's not my reasoning though. The keywords from manosphere spaces are the giveaway. Not into manosphere much, what are those keywords?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:02 AM
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I do agree that getting in shape is way more effective, the halo effect is real. But in the same time, improving social skills can also be achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:18 AM
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I totally agree that you can't develop your social skills without actively socializing. Sure, some people are naturals but even them are practising a lot. But is empathy the same thing? I don't know, it feels more like something that you have or you don't. You may probably develop it a bit by being more focus on understanding other but that doesn't feel as responsive as socialisation (even if we can totally argue that empathy is a part of socializing) For this reason, I seriously doubt that an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:15 AM
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I'm not the guy in those messages. Even if she's broke, she doesn't know anyone who can watch the kid? The fact that bringing the kid his her best option is frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:12 AM
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I don't get it, why would they hate women if they were raised by single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:52 AM
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Being close to someone from a significant period of time is a natural way to create link, I would argue that it's even one of the most effective way to pair bond. Never been working with a girl for a while whitout feeling any attraction to her and someday telling yourself that she definitely have something? Women in particular are very sensitive to that but this is something that can't be achieved with OLD. Once this factor us gone, what's left is only primary attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:44 AM
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<image> Who the fuck bring their kids to a first date? Is that a normal thing in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:33 AM
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"Lilith is a breath of fresh air" Honey, are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:27 AM
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To be honest, some are suspicious but may I ask why this one makes you think it was written by a guy? The litle "sidenotes" that doesn't had anything to the point ("shocker, I know" ; "Drumroll") are very feminine. Some of the one he posted sounds like a man writting but I can't see anything that makes me raise an eyebrow on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:21 AM
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It's not a single entity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:48 PM
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Did you ask for a hookup? I said I was ok to wait, why would it matter? They're in the redpill. So it's the same group. I'm starting to see what's your problem. You can't understand nuance and since you are fusioning everything you read into one interlocutor named "The red pill", none of it make sens any more and you see discrepancy where there is simply multiple people with different ideas (Like you are doing with this post). With all due respect, are you on the spectrum? It woud explain why yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:27 PM
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It’s so funny watching guys here and in the red pill blame victims of abuse for not choosing better and how a lot of single moms didn’t choose better. But as soon as relationship minded women realize they should make sure the guy they’re dating is not a piece of shit before having sex with him, suddenly women are the bad guys, they’re accused of using men for their money, “they want beta bucks”, “they must not actually desire the guy”. Once again, it feels like you are forging an argument out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:11 PM
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Damn, that's brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:28 PM
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See this is why this is particularly painfull to "debate" with you. Saying that I lie make no fucking sens , I said "I don't think" THINK I'm not sure, I'm not stating anything I may be wrong, this is something I can't prove and neither do you, but we can discusse it in good faith. Instead, your acting like a 10 years old. If you can't discuss anything without being overly agressive for no reason, then maybe you should stop posting around here. I mean do you take any satisfaction in any of this?…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:32 PM
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The "ugly" version look more like the other picture we have of him. He always have that long face, the "good looking" picture is the only one where he has that kind of jaw. Plus the air on the good looking one look unatural, if I have to bet, I would say that the altered version is the good looking one. I seriously doubt both are manipulated otherwise, we would have a third version in between. Plus his smile in the ugly version match the one he has on other pictures, his perfect smile in the goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:18 PM
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I do agree that selecting the best picture to convoy the message is common. For example most media use an old picture of Renee Nicole good, one where she had air, not a recent one where she was objectively really unattractive. But altering pictures is a line crossed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:52 PM
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Wait, is it true???? If it is, this is wild!.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:36 PM
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For what it worth, I don't think there is any problem with your actions. But as I said, you are an outlier, it's interesting to analyse your action as an individual but there are any generalisation that can be made out of it. I'm pretty sure that situation with the crazy guy was dreadful but you get carried away and forgot to answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:54 AM
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I'm asking you because that's the kind of thing that rub men the wrong way. If on one hand you're claiming that hook up are terrible but on the other hand, you keep doing it, that doesn't make much sens. You can try to gaslight men into "don't worry being husband material is better than being hook up material. If you can't have hook up, you should be proud to be only the safe option. Hook up are bad but women keep doing it because fuck logic!". But you can't really blame men for not buying it be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:29 AM
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So you only had 1 hook up in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:16 AM
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Ok as far as Im concerned there is no passing from hookup material to relationship. For me anyway. You are the exception here. Nah I regret the hookups because they were bad at sex and came too fast. May I ask why you was still doing hook up then? I don't want to be in a relationship with hookup guys. Totaly fair and I encourage a lot more people to do the same. Men or women, if he/she's into hook up, you shouldn't date him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:59 AM
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There is the obvious point that people claiming that "being only hook up material" is a good thing. Most of the "qualities" needed to pass from the Hookup to relationship material are variation of "Don't be an asshole". Basicaly a fuckboy is someone with attractive traits, staying a fuckboy or being the "whole package" (an attractive guy investing in the relationship) are basically his choice to make. IRL, probably all fuck boys end up in LTR once they find the one they really like. Both men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:15 AM
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The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”. I got to tell tou, your threads would be much more interesting if you could post some exampld of that mindset instead of forging them. It looks like you have a deep knowledge of the redpill so I assume you are reading a lot of red pill rethoric, if you have link or example to share, that would make your post more consistant. Why would …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:50 AM
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I agree bar is in hell for certain dudes but clearly not for a guy like him. Once you are attractive, this bar is very low indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:04 PM
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One of my friends had tons of money, he tried a tinder account without showing any of it and it had the average dude experience with 1 or 2 like a week (mostly bot and trully unattractive women). Someday, he posted a selfy were the lamborghini logo on the car seat was apparent, he was getting 10 quality matchs a day. That was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:02 PM
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Which sub is it exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:53 PM
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No I wouldn’t agree they were man children beforehand, Well, that's not how it works. Functioning adults usually doesn't regress to irresponsible child so they were probably man childs before. You are giving me two great example: it’s simply everyone underestimates how much having children adds to the domestic responsibilities and how difficult it can be to keep up with it when your constantly interrupted by a baby. People who have babies in their surrounding does know that. If he/she doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:51 PM
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Wait I thought that Red Pill men were undesirable and no women would date them. They are married now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:31 PM
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For guys saying “but there are women who say “all I want is a nice guy” and they fuck pieces of shit! AWALT!” We’re assuming she knew he was a piece of shit and/or he showed obvious signs that he was one. With that assumption in mind, people who lack self-awareness exist. Men are also capable of saying one thing and doing things that contradict what they claim, even if it’s unintentional. I read your post, I really do. But sometimes you'll go on a rant and post things last the one right here. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:35 AM
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My guess is that those men were allready man-child before being dad. The one being off and dumping their kids on you is an obvious one, for the other I can only guess but I would be very surprised if they were functioning adults and somehow became man-child the moment they get a kid, it probably never happens this way. My point is that expecting that a man will somehow become an adult the moment he become a father is a very risky strategy. Instead of hoping that the guy will step up, a more effe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:56 AM
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quick questions: Did those men where doing there fair share in the housework before having a child and basicaly gave up or were they allready man-child? Were they pushing to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:43 AM
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My god what is happening today with those moronic post? Has the purge began? Well I'll take the bait "Women will change after becoming mothers, this is natural. She can't be your sex kitten anymore because she has to take care of a fucking baby." Well yeah, it's natural but what are you implying? that couple stop having sex after a child? Instead of being a mature adult and accept that this is normal and that they should step up as fathers and husbands, they cheat or even worse they join red pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:20 AM
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disagree with that, faking confidence without something backing it up will be interpreted as weird most of the time. The being confident while bad at your job stated earlier is a good example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:43 AM
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Since OP refuse to debate in good faith, I don't know why this post is still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:54 AM
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OP is so illiterate it hurts to read. it's not even a coherent post, it sounds like a drunk teenager trying to look smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:37 AM
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I don't think women says think that aren't true. What they do is saying out loud the socially acceptable part and keep the secret one for themselves (The secret one being the most important in the attraction process). this video is a good explanation of that By the way, I see that you have conceded that women do say that they want good men. There is no need to answer on our other discussion, I accept your apologies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:20 AM
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That's totally plausible, I don't see how harcore MAGAs, hardcore liberals and every sane person in between can be a unified country again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:50 PM
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I agree with you definitely more of a mistake on his side. Plus he had the licence plate, don't try to stop a car while you're a fucking pedestrian, let her go and go arrest her later if you have ground for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:45 AM
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For heaven's sake, at their wedding, she altered her vow from "I promise to be with you for the rest of my life" to "I promise to be with you as long as this lasts." Holly shit! this is brutal!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:04 AM
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I kind of get how you can "justify" that women shooting cause imo she made a mistake by moving her car at that very moment. I'm still thinking the ice agent also made a mistake (and it was a bigger one) and shouldn't have use his gun. But since the whole country have a weird boner for firearm, it's kind of make sens to see people defending him. But I don't see how you can defend ice agents in yesterday situation, the fact that some people are trying to do so makes me worried about their sanity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:37 AM
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Do I have physical attraction to other guys? No Can I tell if a man is attractive or not? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:30 AM
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About the man executed in Minnesota: The fact that the DHS try to play the "He wasn't doing any of it at that moment but we know he WANTED to massacre those ICE agents" card is another proof that this whole government can't be trusted for shit. If after all off that, you still take anything going out of this administration's mouth at face value, you might want to pass an IQ test, just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:27 AM
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He's not that attractive. He's all right but lack A LOT of masculine attractive features: bad eyes, no chin or jaw. He has "boy facial features", not "men facial features". (Boys facial features tend to work more with gays but most women aren't attracted to them by the way). He also weirdly look way older than 28 which, combined with those boys features makes for a kind of bad combination. The more I look at him, the more it weird me out. Plus, the mustang photo tells me that he's probably short…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:08 AM
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I don't know if it's that exhausting, we keep seeing people making stupid assuptions and they keep coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:14 PM
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Totally but I can understand where the hate is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:52 PM
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I don't have anything against women who travel, but to be fair, every time I traveled with my (girl) friends they were hooking up, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:47 PM
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Probably an extrem nurse syndrom
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:16 PM
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Damn, I have to admit I used the "work is crazy" card a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:08 PM
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I agree, there is no point in furthering the discussion, you just can't admit that you are full of shit and keep bringing the "debate" to the lowest point possible. Trying to focus on me not being able to know what a good or bad behavior is, like if I was 6 is so stupid that it doesn't even need a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:51 PM
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<image> Most accurate representation of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:34 PM
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Because we didn't discuss that yet... As far as I know, you are not the president of the red flags federation. Secondary "Those are just the women you guys go after..." is plain wrong. It's quite the opposite, men are looking for the others for LTR. Why do you think that men care so much about N count, past and all those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:31 PM
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This is your interpretation, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:24 PM
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Then you are not paying attention to what is being said here. I do and as I said, it's not common. Thank you for proving my point. And thank you for debunking your original claim Read those two sencentes slowly. Take all the time you need, you can put your finger under the words while you read if it helps you. Once you have done that, tell me the differences you have spotted. "all women want felons and had a bunch of hookups." "Most women would ignore red flags for a hot guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:13 PM
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These same guys hyperfocus on certain women, particularly the more sexually active one’s whose sex drive matches that of the stereotypical man and/or chases felons I don't think that men focus on that women particularly. It's just that the vast majority of women, the ones who are in happy relationships with great guys doesn't complaint about how all men are assholes. This is kind of logic that the main topic is centered around women making questionable life choice and blaming men for those choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:01 PM
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"learning to live" and "accepting" are two very different things in my book, might be some translation things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:33 AM
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No difference during the early dating stage since I usualy don't know how it will end up at this point. Once I know that it won't be that long it's simply less investment on my side: Less communication, planning less things, focusing on me and spending time with my friends over spending time with her. That kind of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:11 AM
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That's brutal, I don't think anybody can trully accept something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:10 AM
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No. I give my best when I trully like the girl, I'm coasting when I know it would only be temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:09 AM
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that's right. Men looking for ONS and men looking for LTR won't go for the same kind of women, It's kind of an obvious thing to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:37 PM
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23 years old??????!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:52 AM
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The whole "Since I didn't get the peace nobel prize, now I'm doing the exact opposite" is insanely childish. I wonder what is IQ trully is, I bet it's below 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:36 AM
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Then women should collectively stop to have ONS with guys with that mindset. Why are women expecting good men to wait for those bad men to get what they want and then accept to be treated like a less attractive option? Why women aren't going after women who entertain those bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:50 AM
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Even if your totally off subject since I never said that any women, should "rollover", let's spin the plate: if a woman really like me why would she give me an hard time of this? Once again, stop assuming that I don't care about women feelings or anything. This post is about men. I've been speaking about the women side of the relationship many times, it's just not the subject of that discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:35 AM
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And it's a good thing but there are still to many girls falling for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:53 AM
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It is kind of a dick measuring contest in a way, so you can't blame us for wanting peace and to build a life with a woman who offers the minimum of potential drama in that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:22 AM
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Because the subject of this post is about men....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:04 AM
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Then there’s the whole “I just want consistency” line—which is also bullshit. If you want a hookup, just say you want a hookup. Otherwise you come off manipulative, pretending to want a relationship when you clearly find dating itself tedious. You are not interested in a relationship if you see getting to know someone as an obstacle instead of the point. I'll answer to this part since we had this conversation. I do agree with you that if you want a hook up you should just say so, that work for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:01 AM
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Being OK being rejected is a good thing. Keep pursuing after being rejected is not, no one should do that and you should never entertain a woman who is playing hard to get. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:57 PM
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1-So you are saying that some women wants "bad boy, literally ... 2-so why are you blaming for telling that you ate saying exactly that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:18 PM
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You'll have to explain to me what "women who want terrible men" means to you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:13 PM
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"women who want terrible men don't give a fuck about moral" Your words not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:47 PM
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her exact words were "he was very nice and charming in the beggining and it was a really happy relationship when it first started" it only got worse after he knew he got her. Believe it or not but a man coming up to strong to soon is a major red flag, this is like the first page of the manupilative manual. Women hate when they are told that but a dude making expensive and over the top romantic gesture very soon in the relationship should be raising alarm. That not how a sane, reasonable man proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:45 PM
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No one told men this. I can assure you that any men had been told that many time while growing up. Mothers tell this to their little boys. It's not society's fault when men don't mentally/emotionally grow up. So they have been told that, thanks for aknowledging it. Why are you bringing "society" into it? It's not like guys who believed "I was told women found good behavior sexy" can handle complexity Exactly, they have been told this nonsense and are realising how bullshit it is, I'm glad that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:30 PM
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Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men. Hardly disagree on that. Women who want good men tend to find them, stay with them and (most of the time) are in an happy relationship. They aren't around here complaining about men, so there isn't anything to discusse about. How does that make sense? Because these men think being good means “not committing crimes and doing what is expected of the average man/person”. Neither type of woman is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:55 AM
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Not really taboo but not something you'll openly discuss either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:34 PM
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Correct. Nobody's affraid of someone they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:20 PM
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Well he's the victim, isn't he? Being afraid he can't get better is probably one of the reason he's staying with her. For the rest of your post, are you suggesting that this dude dating prospect is the same than this girl's?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:00 PM
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Totally agree with that. I would had that this also extend to the way "performance" in sex is treated: Sexuality is male oriented, therefore men are the one being held accountable for the quality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:26 AM
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You are raising an important point. Good sex has a lot to do with communication and knowing each other. Getting good sex from a ONS isn't that easy ( for both men and women)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:48 AM
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I think it’s not that simple. The orgasm gap comes from the way society centers piv and men’s pleasure / orgasm while looking at more female focused sex as something “extra” or a bonus. How is society centered on piv and men's pleasure? Is it by making sex a taboo subject and leaving this field to porn ( which is really male pleasure centered) ? Paradoxically, outside of porn I feel that society is evolving on that: I feel that variation on "men can't find the clit" jokes are trending.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:41 AM
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1) I don't really understand what you mean. 2)I think men are totally right for refusing to be settling with. To the same logic, women should refuse to be treated as cum dumpster and avoid those ONS situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:15 PM
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You want the honest answer? Even an unattractive girl can be an acceptable fuck in times of need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:06 PM
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This conversation really happens IRL? I mean, who talk about truecel or volcel? I didn't even know those things existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:59 AM
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I don't even understand what's going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:28 AM
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A few women are doing crazy amount but the vast majority aren't earning much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:24 AM
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Ok... You learn something every day I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:04 PM
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What's a cock sleeve?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:31 PM
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<image> It's really hard to fuck up your life when you have the beauty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:45 AM
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Great talk! Let's do that again sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:21 PM
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I am impressed with the confidence in which you say this considering how it doesn't contradict my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:21 AM
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How does it works? They are in an heterosexual relationship but without a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:20 AM
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"women know their worth and their league"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:14 AM
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Lol, women don't wait for sex when they are attracted to the guy, that's the main problem. If women were waiting for sex and veting men consistantly, this would be a non existing issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:15 AM
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Friendship and friendzone are different. A dude in the friendzone doesn't treat this woman like a friend, he treats her like a love interest. Internet is full of tiktok or short video were a woman describe how her "best friend" is doing the extra mile for her (while she isn't doing the same for him), where it's obvious that this guy wouldn't do the same for his genuine friend. This is why, once the painfull " I only see you as a friend" conversation happens, women are missguided to be mad about …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:35 AM
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Damn, I learned something today, I was using it wrong the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:14 PM
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Which one of my questions did you answer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:00 PM
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Fun fact from France: Boob jobs can be subsidized by the national healthcare if a woman have no boobs at all. A doctor should simply examine those boobs and basicaly wright a paper that said "Yep, I'm a boob expert and those tits aren't enough to be called boobs".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:43 PM
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Doesn't it mean Higher correlation? Does "higher correlation" mean "automatic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:38 PM
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Looks like we are not understanding each other, does "the more chances" mean "automatic" in English? It might be something lost in translation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:35 PM
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I'm confused, can you tell me where I said that it has a 100% correlation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:24 PM
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Before I reply to the other things, I want to make this clear. I first stumbled across MGTOW around 2006, seeing Paul Elam's video "Where Have They Gone". He proceeds to basically say "YOU WOMEN are the reason men are no longer good" and then proceeds to blame women for a bunch of typical MRA talking points. They were bitter unhinged misogynists back then too. I also found throughout the years Turd Flinging Monkey and Sandman. They were popular... and they were assholes. This is not new. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:37 PM
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1 in 6 boys love Andrew Tate. That's not a small minority. Especially with incels like Nick Fuentes gaining popularity and even last year Trump gaining support of young men by going on anti-feminist manosphere podcasts. They're a minority but they're not tiny. And I do agree that this is concerning but, playing devil advocate, having a positive view of Andrew tate (which is different from "loving" imo) is one thing, claiming that the dude in that video didn't do anything wrong is another. Commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:43 AM
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You're in the subreddit. We allready discuss that point, I'm not the only one saying that to you: Those people are the minority. They constantly downplay quiet nerds being assholes. Either by comparing him to felons, to cheaters, and blaming everything on his looks rather than his behavior. I dont know why we're pretending women cant read what's being said on this subreddit. I don't think anyone is downplaying it, it's just that nerdy asshole aren't typically the kind of guys who get all the gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:37 AM
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This is really the problem not just for nice guys but for the manosphere too. They only see assholes as dangerous felons or cheaters. They don't even see rude behavior or bigotry as a problem, such as men here not seeing the issue with this guy's behavior in the video. It's very telling that they tell women to 'Choose better' and then see women as unreasonable when they do choose better. To them, as long as a guy isn't the most obvious red flag, he's okay. Even if he's blatantly a bigot. Same di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:15 AM
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The "pop the ballloon" video is back! Also, didn't you made the same post like yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:47 AM
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I think that's a lot of word to say that some people are great, some are bad and some are fucking dangerous. For a relationship you should only go for the first category, ignore the second and get the fuck away from the third.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:19 PM
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Agree with that. OP describing men that act nice and turns asshole the moment they don't get what they want. I do feel that this is a very small portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:03 PM
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As I said, definition of chemistry is very personal. I don't know yours but I would say that, according to my definition, they had some chemistry in the first video and enough room to makes it grow in a second date. The important part is that she wasn't looking for "chemistry", she was looking for "the spark".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:43 PM
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My experience might differ cause autistic, but the chemistry I had with my partners on the first date was huge Didn't say that it doesn't exist, but I would not make a automatic correlation with the quailty of the relationship. Pretty sure that's a myth Then how do you explain this women reaction in that video? I think women are more picky than men but it's a good thing, she didn't feel the chemistry, I think a ton of men don't even know what chemistry is. The definition of "chemistry" in human …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:31 PM
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I don't feel that the man in the video is "just any guy". Most relationship aren't love at first sight and need some time to grow. There is a difference between knowing what you want in a relationship (which doesn't requires that much experience to be honest) and being so burned out by your preceding experiences that you'll pass anything that doesn't immediatly hit your dopamine production like she's doing. Granted we only see a small part of their interaction but you really feel that there is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:26 AM
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proof that romantic and sexual part is important He made everything right but she doesn't want a second date since she doesnt feel "the spark" and keep comparing it to her precedent relationship. The more past he/she have, the more chance you have he/she's burnout from her past relationships like this woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:15 AM
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You are that close to discover that attractive people are getting special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:32 AM
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I would say that the way you insult other tells more about you than the person you're insulting. For example, one day, someone told me I was gay to insult me. Being gay was a great deal to that person, in the opposite, I couldn't care less: I don't think there is anything wrong in being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:09 AM
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17 cows? Damn, it was about 15 cows a years ago, hoeflation is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:57 AM
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Slovakia, Bulgaria and a bit of balkan (Mostly Montenegro and Croatia)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:51 AM
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I do confess that my time there was about 3-4 years ago. It was way better than western Europe back then, did it change that much in such a short time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:36 AM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:07 AM
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No, there isn't any chopped epidemic, just western women notoriously inflating their attractiveness and deflating men's attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:22 AM
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"we know there is a chopped epidemic around there" this is the main point. That famous chopped epidemic video where that unattractive girl was complaining about chopped men is the ultimate proof that women in the western world are inflating themselves and deflating men's attractiveness. If you want to find places where the dating market isn't contaminated by that mindset, eastern europe is a good place. South east asia isn't contaminated and white people get the "exotic bonus" there, so men tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:49 AM
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What's the difference between her using a fraction of those beauty product and him using a fraction of the value of his car?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:43 PM
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To be honest, the only people around here that I saw using that "you're undesirable" rhetoric were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:13 PM
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The important part is about how attractive the dude is. I never met a woman who wasn't at least flattered when a hot guys confess some attraction. If the dude isn't attractive, that just doesn't hit the same spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:55 PM
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Serious question: Do you think women have free will or are they just an hive mind collectively following what society told them to do? Another serious question :I like your video. According to your video men have to pay for the whole product even when she used a fraction of it for the date. By this logic, does she have to pay for the whole car he was using when he drive her off to the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:39 AM
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Petty because it's just money for a date - get over yourself. If you're broke just say that. This argument doesn't work. If this is just money, then women would not be bugged about it and pay their parts. It easy to dismiss the importance of money when you're not the one spending it. Unfair because women already have to spend so much time and money on beauty products. Making us pay for half the date is wild (not to mention the gender pay gap) You can't have your cake and eat it to. You can't cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:31 AM
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Exactly, those women didn't understand that they were kind to them temporarily and that they'll be treated like everyone else in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:38 AM
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That exactly the point, women Dismissing obvious red flag about how he treats every one else and focusing on how he treat them. Failling to understand that they will join the "everyone else" category at a moment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:34 AM
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I allready mentioned it before: I came across dozens situations of domestic abuse in a past side job. The common denominator of all those situations was "He was an asshole to everyone but he was kind to me". You are also right with the specific type of victims. The fantasy of "taming the beast" and all the imagery that come with it is really armfull for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:17 AM
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They are public figure, it's not like Pistorius new girlfriend doesn't know that he was in prison for killing is ex-girlfriend...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:08 AM
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If tou can include it in your OP, that would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:50 AM
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I'm sure there are ways to make OLD a better experience for everyone (actually, nerfing women and top men dating opportunities will be needed so they won't like that). The unlimited dating pool filtered by algorithm and validated by swapping is definitely not the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:45 AM
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Not gonna lie, the grandma one got me laughing also
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:34 AM
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Tipping is mine, as said, it's about local custom, I would totally identify it as a red flag in the states. Sunglasses is probably the only interesting one, weird behavior but not necessarily a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:33 AM
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Fair enough, but I must say I don't really see the point on seeking opinions on situation that extrem, getting an overwhelming majority seems inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:29 AM
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Dating is fun when you're not doing it with OLD. You met someone in a random place, start chatting a bit, get her/his phone to grab a drink latter. It's way more fun because you don't have the stress of "what does he/she look like IRL", "Will he/she like me?", you already pass that hurdle. You don't have the awkwardness of first small talk since you allready met. And finally it feel way less of a job interview, you're just 2 peoples who happened to meet each other and want to see where it goes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:25 AM
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Really? I can't find a single comment where those behaviours are labeled as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:16 AM
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I don't get your post. Is the point to say something like "see, women aren't picky, men are just trash!" by using absurdly dumb situation? I'll play around, everyone of this situations are "run as fast as you can" situations for me (except the typing one since I live in a country where we respect waiters enough to give them a descent salary).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:12 AM
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Perfect illustration of the concept of enclosure: the more in contact you are with a person, the more you'll start seeing things in him/her. Women especially are very sensitive to that and OLD is totally killing what's probably the most effective way to bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:45 AM
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Since he didn't get the peace nobel prize, he's going for the exact opposite, just like a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:17 AM
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Some men will marry sluts, some men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:16 AM
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Unless she lives in a small town and doesnt want to move away, guys have no way of knowing a woman's past. The important question is: If he finds out about this past, would he care or not? If this was just a revenge fantasy and all of that didn't matter, why would she keep it secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:11 AM
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In a situation where a woman try to moke or disrespect a man. How many times did you see: -The woman saying "I'm sure you're fucking tones of girls!" -The woman saying "I'm sure you never get pussy!" That tells you what women really respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:08 AM
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I know a girl who used to do sex work, she told me that there are like 2 type of clients: -The horny ones who just want immediate sex, juste like you say. Those kind of men rarely come back, they are just here to fuck and they like to try as much prostitute as they can. Plus, you don't really know what you'll have with a one time dude: some are impulsive, doesn't see them as a human being, can be dangerous... -The sentimental ones. They are here to build a relationship and are craving for the fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:38 AM
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There is something really important you're missing: She was in a very vulnerable situation when they met. There is no lookmatch discussion in those situation, she was looking for a savior. It's clear from her post that she was looking for a father figure and he's fullfilling this role. Now the question is, would she stay with him once she will healed and grow up? From experience, probably not, those women tend to reject those father figure once they don't need them any more. His best chance is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:22 AM
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What's your point? You think that Tinder didn't have an impact on the dating landscape?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:17 AM
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Those are some solid advices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:10 AM
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What you have in mind is brand awareness. Or maybe what you meant in your first post was "there was some dating app before tinder but most people weren't using them. Tinder is the first dating app being massively adopted by the public". But it that case, I'm very confused that you worded it the way you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:55 AM
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had stigma but it was still mainstream No it wasn't. Mainstream meaning people knew about the idea, the concept, etc. Mainstream doesn't always mean everyone is doing that thing. Just that they know about that thing. Everybody knows that Ferrari exist, that doesn't make Ferrari mainstream. Being notorious and being mainstream are two different things. Suggesting that Tinder couldn't have happened without the ground laid by Match, EHarmony, Meetic is delusional. You are moving the goalpost there,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:45 AM
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I'm in France. Meetic was the first dating app back then but never been mainstream. Online dating still had some stigmatas back then and it never really catch with the younger generation. Putting it on the same level as tinder would be delusional. Iykyk That's what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:31 AM
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Mostly agree with OP. Except for the "women are complex" part. They are a bit more complex than men but nothing really that complicated. What OP describe is what hoe_math theorized in his relationship zone chart, with the "attractive traits" VS "Securing traits". This chart is the most accurate representation of men VS women relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:25 AM
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True. It's all about getting dudes they are attracted to invest in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:21 AM
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Serious questions: -What was the first mainstream dating app in your country? Can't think of anything really mainstream before tinder in mine. -what is the link between ignoring if they were a mainstream dating app before tinder and being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:07 AM
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What short guy? She's wearing gigantic heels and he's still taller than her and she doesn't look short to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:58 AM
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I guess it's a bit of an age things. Before 30, having kids might significantly reduce the dating pool of single moms. After 30, it become quite common and it doesn't matter as much, especially for guys who also have kids. There are other factors comming in, like number of kids, ages, that kind of thing, but it's more situational than a general rule at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:20 AM
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The fact that one of the richest man in the world married a plain girl kind of prove the opposite. I seriously doubt that the women equivalent of Mark Zuckerberg would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:49 AM
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1-Divorced, currently in a relationship. 2-I'll consider myself as partially redpill. I'm not into the "All women are like that" stuff for example. But my experience showed me that redpill is mostly right on the "become more attractive" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:27 PM
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Totally agree with that. If you're claiming things like "All Men/women are assholes", you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:15 AM
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There is this girl at the gym, I met her about 2 years ago when she was fat with a pretty face. She was dating a mid dude and it was obvious she was trying to monkey branch for a better boyfriend (note to men: If your girlfriend/wife goes hard into sport/nutrition out of nowhere, this is a serious alert). She lost some decent weight and became really attractive. She dumped her boyfriend, started dating an handsome dude and disappear from the gym for more than a year. Now, this is where it get fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:04 AM
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There is a lot of good men, I don't know if there in overabundance or not but I would say that the point doesn't really matter. It would be if women where collectively actively looking for those men and they were on a shortage What matter most is that kindness, sensibility or any other "good" traits aren't the one most women go for in priority. We have enough studies showing that "good traits" are overevaluated when preference are stated VS what women (and men by the way) are actually looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:33 AM
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All seemed like pretty normal dudes..? Lol don't make me laugh, most men sned nudes on the apps and want hookups. Even other men on Tinder say that it's a hooking up mostly. Well, none of the men on that "experiment" did any of that so I don't really understand what's your point. Plus most women also idk maybe worry about their safety that they don't use these apps or sometimes don't even meet out irl on these dates. But somehow men are supposed to get dates on these apps while there is nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:13 AM
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Probably. Since english isn't my first language, it could be something about not using the word right on my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:46 AM
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It's the worshipping part that sounds weird. I wouldn't want anyone worshipping me, I'm with someone who love me and want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:09 PM
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Average dumb feminist debating skills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:05 PM
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Some clearly does, OP is one of them, without a single doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:04 PM
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Disagree on that, 30s is like the best age to date. You're prime target for 30s women but can also go with the younger girl digging the older guys. If you took care of yourself: good career, athletic body, know how to dress. You're doing a killing with women who are getting divorced/going out of a long relationship with a dude who spend the last decade coasting and getting fat. On the other hand, if you were unattractive in your 20s, the 30s won't change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:38 AM
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Merry christmas everyone! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:06 AM
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You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:03 AM
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Because you are doing it wrong, "you're pretty" is a general bland compliment. Compliment her on something specific that she had put some effort in. Keep it simple, almost casual "I like your dress, it suits you well". There's no way you'll pass as needy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:32 PM
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Well, most of the times, guys will think that she's into him and doesn't imagine that she feel pressured. I do agree that if she clearly show that she doesn't want to but he still expect sex, that's horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:38 AM
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probably. Vast majority of guys would expect (or at least hope for) physical escalation during that trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:36 AM
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I also found it weird. I can't see how I would go on a 1 on 1 vacation with a platonic female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:05 AM
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Great, means you make more sense than a lot of women around here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:28 PM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:22 PM
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Claiming that women can sense bad personality or that women in toxic relationship get blindsided by perfect men that suddenly turn into asshole doesn't make much sense either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:21 PM
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For all I know, he is a notorious douche, had been reported as a potential SA agressor, made a few scams online, that kind of things. (Plus the twitch thing about filming a dead body in Japan)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:56 AM
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There is this guy in France who is being charged with rape by 3 of his ex-girlfriend. Dude is kind of a local celebrity in the city of Toulon for being around the rugby team. His face is half covered with a shitty maori tatoo, his clearly charismatic and display obvious dark triad traits. Funny how (at least) 3 women looked at this walking red flag and said "Yep, I'm totally going to date that dude" even with their notorious asshole detector superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:45 AM
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Women shot themselves in the foot with all that "we chose the bear" or "we don't want to be approach". What it really mean is "We only want to be approached by men we find attractive and we want them to do it in a cute and respectful way". Problem is, most guys heard the message: Respectful guys listened to it and are applying it, they mostly stop approaching women. Disrespectul guys don't give a fuck about what women wants so they keep doing it agressively. So basicaly, women have managed to dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:34 AM
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<image> That's a bucket list I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:47 AM
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smell like sweat and doritos powder This is oddly specific. who seem to have both a very low self esteem and a weird superiority complex over women Wait, how does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:43 AM
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If that could lead that morron out of boxing 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:51 AM
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I'm a decent piano player but I'm not confortable playing to an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:35 AM
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I love boxing, but the current scene is really concerning. The sport is on life support and those kind of fight aren't helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:04 AM
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I do agree with you: Women are into men, it sounds even silly to pretend the opposite. >So many women become some married man's mistress for YEARS. Some women will even sacrifice their fertile window chasing after some guy. If you ask some 45 yo childless (not childfree) woman why she didn't have kids, there's a significant chance she'll tell you "well, there was a guy....". That's a very interesting point. There is two women in my family who are still single and childless past 40 and both fit y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:01 AM
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I can't believe the Jack Paul- Anthony Joshua fight won't be scripted as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:48 AM
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apparently some women claiming that weakness and vulnerability are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:43 AM
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Agreed, and it turns out it repulse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:40 AM
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I don't know, that looks like textbook weakness and vulnerability to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:34 AM
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This is my point exactly. We have a man showing serious insecurity traits in that video and it repulse you as much as all other women around. In fact, that's probably the most repulsive thing a guy can do. It is not only about physical strength, but there is a correlation: Men know that if they act thought withouth the skills or muscles to back it up, they will get smacked, we usually learn it in school. You say that women protect other women, being less strong than men, I do agree but I suspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:33 AM
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I Will check my post history when I'll have the time... Have the basic human respect to read my message please EDIT: Here it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:48 AM
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I'm talking qbout it because we had that discussion a few month ago, raised by a notorious redditor around here. Will check my post history when I'll have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:44 AM
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At this point, you probably all saw the video of this couple getting mugged in Colombia where the dude is hiding away while his girlfriend/wife is getting attacked. It's interesting to see all the comments about it, I don't think I saw a single woman defenfing him, the main comment is "I hope she dumped him right away". Think about it the next time a woman is gaslithing you into the "weakness is sexy" bullshit. EDIT: For the record, I do think this dude is a pussy and she should dump him right a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:53 AM
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Another epstein news he needs to deflect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:24 AM
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"she deserves so much!! " Serious question: based on what exactly? We don't have much info about her in that short clip, I don't really see how we can say that she deserve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:53 PM
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As insane as it sounds, OP can do way worse, she's done it before!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:22 PM
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Wait, I thought that fuck zone was when you're friends with benefits with a girl who would love an official relationship. Other than that, good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:48 PM
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Well, a least he gave her a generous solid 4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:37 AM
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Confidence only works when you have something to back it up. Otherwise, you are just a creepy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:17 AM
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Ok, let's pretend that this shrodinger victims does make sens somehow. Quick question, do you think that single mother is an enviable position?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:44 AM
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You're making it even less clear. Just answer the question, it would be easier for me to understand: Are single moms victims of the society or are they helped by society? You are stating both things in your message.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:37 AM
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There is something I do not understand here: -Single mom get sympathy, praise and accommodation. Got it, single mom are getting a beneficial treatment. -Also single mom are proof of women being victims of society. Wait... Which one is it? Are they getting beneficial treatment or are they victim of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:56 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. But circling back to attractiveness - why is female attraction supposed to be demonized? I don't think that female attraction is demonized, you can scroll back to my original post where I stated what men really don't like. Women try to be attractive to their desired dating prospects all the time, why should it be a problem for men to make a similar effort to become more attractive? Excellent question. This is the red pill part I'm totally agreeing with : "As a man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:26 AM
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I think we are going sideways here. I use "attractive" for a reason, it' because it contains more than just a pretty face. A personality can also be attractive ; " Being funny is attractive, Being charismatic is attractive, Being ambitious is attractive... (See relationship zone from hoe_math on that subject, it's a really accurate representation of how man/woman attraction works). My point is that when attractiveness and signs of manipulative or dangerous personality are displayed together, tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:44 AM
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Is there any good sub to seriously discuss men/women romantic interaction dynamics? Purple pill is just a ranting place for retarded misandrist now. It's kind of fun but it's impossible to have a serious conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:13 AM
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You made some better troll, but I got to say that complaining that men see women as a monolith while calling all nice guys misogynistic is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:55 AM
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I'll take it as a win. Not so long ago, some women around here where calling Pedro Pascal as "mid". It's still dumb as fuck but we are heading in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:45 AM
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Daily reminder: a healthy relationship is a team effort. Threat it like a shitty business negociation and you'll have a shitty relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:48 PM
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No you wouldn't, and this proves my point. Women are people and people especially young people are feelings driven and nary make logical decisions. You're expecting young women to act with maturity and life experience that young people dont really act with. Youre trying to patholgize women for a very human behavior I don't feel that this behavior is that much age related. Some women are very good at selecting men with good personalities. Most of the time, you don't really heard from them since t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:46 PM
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Your post is pointing exaclty the contradiction that bother most men: In one hand, you claim that women learn from a very young age to aknowledge bad behavior from men and learned to navigate through them. In the other hand you say that it's perfectly normal that women are chasing attractive men. I would say that both point are true but the problem is that they get in conflict all the time. In a situation where an attractive guy display signs of shitty behaviors, you would expect that women woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:38 AM
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I'll leave the first one out since autism isn't something I'm familiar with. For the rest of it, yeah, sounds like how accountability should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:02 AM
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Daily reminder: a healthy relationship is a team effort. Threat it like a shitty business negociation and you'll have a shitty relatioship Ps: "free porn star performance" Just another proof that every women think they are good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:07 PM
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A simple question that you needed to "prepare" with a very oriented full oriented description of the video first? Suuuuuure. Most people are pointing that this video is staged. You were owned by a clickbait on a social media. I understand that you feel dumb about it but that's not that bad. Just move on, most people will forget that in a day or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:56 AM
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Script: some bullshit scene in a bowling made to generate some internet fame. Everbody: yeah, this fucking thing is scripted You: wow! This is so deep! Let's analyse that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:56 PM
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That's scripted as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:42 PM
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To be honest, it's probably a way to appear less shalow. Obviously, the guy was toast in the fist 5 seconds of the date because she wasn't that attracted. But he was nice, had a pleasant conversation and they even shared some common interest, so she couldn't blame him for that. Since admitting that it was only about attractiveness would have made her looks bad, I guess she focused on tiny detail that would justify an incompatibility between them. You can be sure that an attractive dude, same shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:59 AM
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My take is that they are picky, but not for the correct signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:43 AM
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Someone who just made you feel uncomfortable for a reason you can't put your finger on? I feel that this situation never exist. Did you seriously ever had an encounter with someone that made you unconfortable and you couldn't put your finger on it? Our brain is wired to screen the environnement and put you in alert (aka unconfortable) the moment your sens get an info truggering that response. If you are in a safe public place and someone trigger the feeling off unease, there is objectively somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:26 AM
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I have the opportunity to witness "vibe" many times. "Vibe" is a tricky mecanism. For example, an hot dude who showed some signs of hot temper passed the vibe check of one of my (girl)friend without problem. But a few weeks earlier, an dude not that attractive get the hammer based on "vibe" because he was wearing a shirt a little bit too colorfull and ordered (form himself) a drink that she didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:08 AM
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Probably not. Except if she is hot as fuck, in that case, I might go for a second date but her max contract is now an hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:15 PM
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Eyes are an important vector of non verbal communication, that's a fact. But an "half a second eye contact without a smile" is an very weak sign of attraction. I don't even see why you are denying that. There is nothing about being autistic or anything else, It's just the weakest attraction signal you can display. I had a longer eye contact with my male cashier yesterday, does that mean he's into me? Or that I'm into him? can't remember who started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:34 AM
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Not every eye contact is an invitation, otherwise, we would all be having sex 24/7. Eye contact is a weak signal and having more than 50% of success using this social cues is unlikely and would be an advanced reading ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:47 AM
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So now is "up to life in prison", not "up to death penalty? And it's "will", not "are given"? It might check this by myself, it's probably a better idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:40 AM
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I'm not from the US so this makes me really curious: What are the states where you can get death penalty for abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:25 AM
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Classic pinkpill: they'll claim the worst things about men but once you ask them to show where they see something like that, suddenly, they don't have access to reddit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:19 AM
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It's paintfull to see what PPD has become. We used to have some interesting post, now it's a rant place for extremely disturbed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:17 AM
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When men says they don't like make up, what they have in mind is a 19th century prostitute trash make up. Elegant make up is quite the opposite, it's a massive attractive boost. When women says they don't like muscular men, what they have in mind is the mister olympia on steroid body type. "Regular" muscular and athletic body type are a massive attractive boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:28 PM
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>But also, there is no virtue in obeying fake unstated societal boundaries, and believe me you won't ever be rewarded by anyone for following these rules. I'm not sure I understand what you mean by that. >Approaching will make some women very happy, you might even marry them, it will make some women flattered even if they reject you, and as long as you respectful at worst they might be annoyed for 20 seconds. This is true ONLY if you are somewhat attractive. This video is a great proof of how cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:18 PM
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Can't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:17 PM
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My first comment was in response of that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:16 AM
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Thanks for the link. That's a valid point, except we are talking about "giving a half second eye contact without smilling" (from the video) aka the weakest signal of attraction you can display. Real live grown men knows that this is a weak signal and will wait for more before engaging, respecting boundaries being a major point of being a grown up man. Fuckboys will jump on that no matter what. So if a woman want to avoid a fuckboy, using that strategy is basically shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:04 AM
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Can you define attunement? Sorry, english isn't my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:33 AM
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What basic social cues are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:15 AM
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It really shows how hypocritical the whole thing was: "I can't lose weight, it's just how I am. Hoops, turns out I just don't have any self control. Thanks Ozempic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:00 AM
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Really? Any case lately? I would love to read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:53 AM
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I know you are obviously trolling but lets reflect on it for a minute because there is something interesting behind that: Women reward men that know how to read women (basically the point of your video). Guys who can read women are way more pron of being fuckboys (1- because they can 2-because that's a very effective way to learn how to read women). Women complain that all men are fuckboy, failing to realise that they are actively selecting men displaying this kind of behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:49 AM
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Men dont put labels in dating, its usually always the women asking and making the decesions from the beginning of the interaction till the end. It's a little bit more complicated than that: The one who is the more attracted is the one pushing for a serious relationship. Put a sweet supermodel into any random dude and you'll see that he won't be affraid of commitment any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:40 AM
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I think you are missing the point here, you are almost there but you're making a mistake: it's not men who enjoy you VS men who hate women. It's men who enjoy you VS men who aren't commiting because they think they can do better. Let's be real for a minute. Men who hate women aren't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:36 AM
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So basicaly for a relationship to work, you have to date someone higher than you, got it. How does that work for that higher person? Is he/she stuck in a shitty relationship or do they have to date higher ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:20 AM
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Might be cultural, but this conversation sounds weird as fuck to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:18 AM
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I have to ask, does this kind of conversation happens elsewhere than in your head ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:39 AM
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I was speaking in general, not about that dude situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:04 PM
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She has been raped but she is the one going to prison? No, the first line doesn't provide enough context, your post is criptic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:42 PM
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What are you even talking about ? can we have some context?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:31 PM
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Maybe, either way, I'm glad that this "situationship" or "exclusivity" bullshit are pretty confidential around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:29 PM
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Sounds like a very US problem that, as an european, I don't really understand so I don't have any position on this, but there is something interesting though: >While I heard him go “Woe is me, heartbreak follows me wherever I go “ in his vents, he admits he has a hard time keeping up his social life. Also, he brought up “all the heart breaks I had makes me take longer to commit and its hard for me to say I love you”. That doesn’t sound appealing to most women. It's also not appealing to men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:16 PM
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They have their own creator. Mostly importing concept and idea from the US, basically copying what's working in the states. Fresh and fit or even Andrew Tate are fairly confidential around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:05 PM
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An interesting survey in France showing a bit of a backlash from the "metoo era": -52% of men between 16 and 59 year thinks that society is going after them. -36% think that being an man is harder than being a woman. -58% think that the media are biased against men regarding gender issues. -53% think that men are often wrongly accused of sexual abuse. This survey also point that red pill content are trending: -66% of men between 15 and 34 years knows at least one red pill youtuber and half of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:50 PM
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Lets settle this because this is getting nowhere: what are those signs that women have to learn by experience and that they couldn't absolutely spot before getting blindsided at least once by a shitty man? On my side, I'll will present you different situations. Those are genuine situation that women who were in abusive relationships encountered: 1-He was cheating with his girlfriend with me and he finally chose me. 2-He was a compulsive liar but he told me that he would never lied to me so I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:31 AM
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>And that's just unicorn. What?? you really think that a smart woman is a unicorn? Hardly disagree on that, that's misoginistic as hell. >We all know that abusive relationship are bad, what we don't know is how to spot them (just to be clear not asking your advice or lecture) And I'm not asking for yours but I still got it so allow me to do the same: It's not about learning to spot those signs, it's about not dismissing those signs because the dude is attractive. >So sorry for going through some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:03 AM
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Men love intelligent women actually. They have no complains with a woman smart enough to know that casual sex or abusive relationship are bad for her without having to try it out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:33 AM
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Definitely. My single years when I had regular hooh ups and knew that I could be in a relationship the moment I would try where really fun. Definitely more fun than any guy I know who were struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:57 AM
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I have to say, we totally agree on this point. I believe that no break up comes from nowhere. heterosexual men are just really bad at getting the signs that the relationship is going south and tend to minimise any point of friction they have in their relationship. There are reason for that, I would not call it childlish as you do, I just believe men and women are wired very differently on those subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:47 AM
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It's an important part, it's far to be the only part. So it doesn't make sens to say that, most of the time, it's just bitterness talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:32 AM
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Totally agree with you, I also think that men should show their interest quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:03 AM
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I don't act any different with my female friend that I do with my male friend. If they ask me for help, I'll do it. If I see them struggling, I would gladly help them. I don't threat them differently. I would do the extra stuff for a romantic interest, not for a friend and I do believe most men would do the same. I suspect this is why so many women are bitter that men in the friendzone stop carring that much once she made it clear that she just wanted to be friend: "He was just interest in sex!"…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:11 AM
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Saw an interesting youtube video about women talking about surviving a toxic relationship. First of all, kudos to them for including a lesbian relationship in the mix to avoid the "always a man" situation. Really dreadfull stories where we can see a lot of recuring patterns. Early love bombing, manipulation by playing "hot and cold", downplaying of her feelings, progressive increase in the abuse. All of them clearly have low confident issue, looks like the major weakness those guys were searchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:56 AM
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First of all, sorry that something like this happened to you. I didn't said that only good looking men can act like asshole, what I said was that attractive men (good looking men, men with status, men with money,...) don't face much repercussion when treating women like shit, therefore show a tendency to be more assholish than regular dudes on average. Many women will say that they avoid Womanizer because they are lying and manipulative (which is often true). You can only be a womanizer if you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:09 AM
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Sure but both of them seams like overly bad to me. It's a "would you rather drown or suffocate" situation. I don't want any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:42 PM
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I feel like that's a valid choice for that kind of dilemma where none of the choice really make sens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:47 PM
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"If a woman doesn't fuck me as soon as possible, then she doesn't find me attractive and I'm wasting my time." Obviously, this is a bullshit lie men say to pump and dump, but let's say some of these men delude themselves to believe that nonsense. So you dont care if she's having a fun time dating you, cares about your interests/hobbies, flirts with you, compliments you, actively listens, etc.? If her legs are not spread within two seconds of knowing you, dating her is a waste of time? You got it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:33 PM
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None of them looks like good options: The first one is disrespectful so the "madly in love with you" is questionable at best. The other looks like a very dire relationship. I would pass on both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:54 PM
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This is not my video. I'm not the one saying it as some deep meaning other than "a dumb dude rudely pop the balloon of a transexual girl". I don't see any need to draw more info from this. You're the one claiming it has some statistical value, go prove it. But since "a person explaining how it's tied to a topic" is enough for you, I guess it's way more convenient for you to process this way. It also kind of show how little material you have to push your claims since you keep recycling those rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:44 PM
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I don't know, you could say that since hypergamy exist, men tend to put more energy on raising there income to gain some advantages in the seduction market. Explaining, a least a part, of the gender gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:37 PM
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Off course you won't as usual, you.are chickening out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:44 AM
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"Things dont become dumb just because it hurts your argument" Totally, they are dumb because they are just random video about very specific situation. Trying to extrapolate anything biger from them, like you are trying to do, is irrelevant. "Because it showed the majority of guys here are quite fine with asshole behavior, so they're incapable of deciding who's a good man or not. You're calling it morronic because you can't counter." We've already cover this topic before and you chickened out, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:29 AM
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Looks like you are contradicting yourself with that wikipedia page. "In a 2016 paper that explored the income difference between couples in 1980 and 2012, researcher Yue Qian noted that the tendency for women to marry men with higher incomes than themselves still persists in the modern era."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:26 AM
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Can't agree more. Hypergamous women wouldn't be that much of the problem if most of them didn't ends up bitter and blasting "all men are assholes" around here. All men aren't assholes, hypergamous women simply tend to aim for a specific category of men who can act like assholes (and sometimes even benefit from it) cause women won't penalize them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:23 AM
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You don't have to be sorry, as I said, it doesn't have any bad effect in my life so it's quite all right. Never had any complaints on my penis size so I don't really care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:41 AM
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"you probably have self esteem issues." I would not deny it, most people have some. "Sex should be special, something that woman should build connection for" Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:31 AM
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Why would I have to since it doesn't affect my dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:14 AM
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You know what? i actually agree with you: Men don't carr about their virtue, because they don't have to. My high N-count had never been an issue while dating. I don't know a single man who ever had an issue with that. To the opposite, virgin men can get rejected for that. I trully believe that women should be more selective than that on that aspect: high N count men should be way more of a red flag for women, not a reason for pride because "he can have every girls but he chose me".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:06 AM
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Well you can try and you can actually succeed at that. But ut will be more difficult for you to achieve that than for a man: turns out that on average men cares about their partners N-count way more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:47 AM
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Serious question: what's exactly a pick me? What behavior define a woman as pick me? In France, I only heard it used as a derogatory term by hardcore feminist and adressed to any woman who weren't into the "men bad, women amazing" mantra. I guess it's more subtle than that in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:35 AM
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She's doing that all the time: taking a dumb as shit video and using it as "proof" for basicaly whatever cross her mind. It was that morronic "pop the balloon" video before that. At least we don't have to bear it anymore now that she's focused on that totaly random danish thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:31 AM
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"It has nothing to do with the woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:05 PM
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So, everybody, as you can see, I'm not making this up: this is the sorority effect in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:02 PM
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Well it's not made up, I'm not losing my time doing that. I only post things that happened to me and that I find interesting. I have some friends who own bar or restaurant so I'm going out a lot and, since I'm interested in men/women relationship, I like to spy on those interactions. I asked the question cause some women take the "women are wonderfull" bullshit a little bit too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:56 PM
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So now, it's not something I missinterpreted, it's something I've totally made up? Serious question: Do you think a woman can be an asshole or is it something totally unbelievable for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:48 PM
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There is an interesting phenomenon around here. I like to observe men/women interaction in my everyday life, I sometimes, post about that around here. I have posted stories where men were acting like assholes, no one ever complained about that. But if I post about women acting like assholes, I'm sure to witness the sorority effect in action. Happened again this morning, I post about a situation I encountered last night and there are women, who weren't even there, telling me that what I saw wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:39 PM
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She had heels so it's hard to tell precisely but she must have been around 170cm (which would put her in the medium to tall side in France)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:33 AM
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Really? I used the google tool to make the conversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:30 AM
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Honestly, I don't really see how it would have mean something else, especially because the dude looked genuinely taken aback and backed away imediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:11 AM
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I which I could have film this, it was really a "Holly shit, she really did that?!" Moment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:01 AM
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It was an high bar stool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:00 AM
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Girl seated on an high bar stool, put her hand up, above the dude height while making a little smirk, to let him know that he was too short for this ride. You get the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:50 AM
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Something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:40 AM
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Hard to say precisely since I never walked past him. He was definitely under 180 cm (5'9) probably around 5'8. EDiT:who downvote me for that? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:23 AM
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Was in a bar with some friends yesterday. There was two cute girls chatting at a table, the moment one of her leave the table to go to the toilet, one dude took his chance and approached the other one. She didn't say "hi" or anything she even kept her straw in her mouth , she gave him an up and down look then made a "too short" gesture. Poor dude took it like a champ but it was noticeably hurt. That was brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:51 AM
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I'll clarify me point: Those "without thinking" questions is actually a way to see how fast someone can process infos and experiences he has gattered through his life to make a decision. Recruiting process for high end job are full of questions where the answer doesn't really matter but they evaluate how the applicant get to this answer. I agree that bigot will be bad at it cause they're usualy replacing that reflection process by a set of undeviating rules. For the bear VS man question: I feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:01 AM
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You're not supposed to use research and statistics and think out the issue. You're supposed to respond based on pure immediate bias, That's an interesting point. I would add that being able to quickly weight risks and consequences accurately based on logical or statistical outcome is a sign of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:21 AM
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Holly shit! She really said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:00 AM
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Kinda agree with that. If it was really about performance, i don't see how it would still be in the "nowhere near the best sex I hever had". Only logical explanation would be that they are either pretty bad at it or she can't communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:41 PM
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Bold of you to try to put some logic and reasoning in a really stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:08 PM
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Depends where in Europe. From the info I got and the country I had tested, France or UK are on the same gender inbalance that the states. Spain and Italy are a little bit more easy. Eastern Europe (bulgaria, slovakia) are great. Croatia was like heaven on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:32 AM
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That's it. There is nothing more to say, that's all it takes to counter this weak as hell thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:18 PM
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Women get accused of doing that when theyre just criticizing men for shitty behavior, so thats a lie. I will, Lillth, I will.I can't tell for everyone else. I have as much power on everyone else that you have on me. Plus someone can totally think that those men have shitty behavior and also think that in the vast majority of cases, those women should have made some better life decision. It's not one or the other. Just like guys who swear Cuties wasnt a disgusting movie as soon as a woman says it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:41 AM
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Fair enough. What if you hook up with a guy and it turns out it's really the man of your dream, like the perfect match. You would still turn him down?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:50 AM
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I'm glad to finaly find a blue pill woman who have the honesty to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:48 AM
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"Say a girl wont do anal with you but did with an ex but didnt like it." No, I wouldn't break up for that, that's a totally different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:45 AM
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So N count does matter, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:28 AM
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Question: if a woman screen a guy for an hookup, she had sex with him. She spend some time with hil and it turns out that he's also long term relationship material. Does she have to reject any long term relationship with him since he pass the screening for hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:26 AM
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I would not be mad about it but it show me that she's not as physicaly attracted to me that she was to those guys. As someone who value physical attraction, that's not the type of relationship I want. Waiting for sex can however be ok if her intention is to makes it even better and if she's struggling to keep her hand out of me in the meantime. If she do it to "make sure I'm the one" aka trying to see if my securing qualities can overcome the lack of excitement or she gives me nonsens like "you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:22 AM
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I won't call him ugly but he has some bad facial features: negative canthal tilt, receding shin , round face without jaw... She is definitely above him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:58 AM
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I'm not your the one bringing it into conversation, I didn't start a thread. I will Gladly stop talking about this the day we won't have "men bad, women awesome" thread anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:42 AM
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Lol, you are the one who have nothing to say, you're message is literally STFU, as usual, you chicken out... Erase your message, go take a break, start again and make something toughtful. I'm not responding to your hysterical message because there is nothing to respond to that except "No! You STFU!" And you won't drag me into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:34 PM
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Take a break, you're obviously tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:24 PM
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A man being a deadbeat is not the woman's fault, a woman dating a guys that have signs that he will be a deadbeat dad has some responsibility in it. I trully think that any man who had walked away from his children should be an automatic incel for the rest of his life, no women should ever allow him to touch her. We both know that it's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:15 PM
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We don't think men are blameless, most men are not ok with other men leaving their family behind. But as dudes, what can we do? There are guys out there who have abandoned there former wife and kids and are still having relationships and they are not dating men... Again, we know that the vast majority of criminals are men (that's a fact), but what can we do? They are allready laws to punish them, police forces to arrest them... As men, we are not collectively responsible for their actions. A kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:08 PM
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You perfectly summarize the situation. Every conversation with her is wild as fuck since she switch to random subject when she don't have any clever answer (which happens usualy quite quicky). She usually chicken out after that while claiming she won the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:46 PM
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Diddy, R Kelly, and Epstein 100% agree. I rest my case. Lol, as usual, you don't make any sens and you chicken out... Classic lilIth. Youtube is fine with having songs about sex and drugs on YouTube Kids, btw. So I guess they are not ok with child pornography, that's what I thought. And what song about drugs have to do with that conversation? As usual with you, it's going everywhere... Please, focus, that's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:41 PM
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I don't know if that indefensible, Youtube is ok with that and you didn't get ban so far so looks like it's not that indefensible But, let's try to analyse it. You post something you are not supporting in a effort to show people that this thing exist and to make them unconfortable, am I right? A little bit like a director making a movie against child's sexualisation by filming child twerking to make spectators unconfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:45 PM
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If you want to quote someone, you'll have to put something he/she really says, otherwise that doesn't work. Also, why did you put a video of child twerking in there? You're into that? After all that braging about being moraly superior to me? That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:32 PM
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Lol and ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:23 PM
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please answer, did you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:52 PM
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Lol, Like you didn't know what I meant... Again, did you see it? I also want to know who allowed those people to film butts and crotches of naked underage actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:45 PM
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And Schindler's list show the corp of a child being carried around to be burned... The whole point is to make the viewer unconfortable about that. Seriously, just say you didn't see it, it will be less embarrassing for you at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:39 PM
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Wow. I'll be honest, I didn't expect anything clever coming from you but just WOW! Who the fuck likes France? Everybody can see that your rant on France is a piss poor way to avoid any serious answer but I will try to answer it seriously, even if it has nothinf to do with the subject. Theyre fine with CUTIES being made. Have you seen it? It's a movie AGAINST child's sexualisation. Netflix made a terrible job promoting it because they are dumb as fuck but seeing this movie as promoting childporn …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:45 PM
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Trying to use logic with OP? Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:06 PM
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I had this coworker when I was working part time in a factory while I was studying. The guy was past 50, waiting for his retirement. He was very nice, always smilling at work event if the job wasn't that interesting. We were chatting from time to time and I learned that he was single, never been maried and was living on his own. No kid, parents dead, and not a lot of friends. One day, we were talking about our free time and he told me something like "Sometimes, I like to hang around by the river…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:02 AM
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Mine did salaried work. But I'm referencing field work, that women didn't formally receive money from - their husbands as owners of farmland did They did receive money, indirectly, family is a team so money going in was helping the whole family. This situation was the common one in rural France: Men were doing most of the fieldwork, women were helping and doing the house chores. Everyone was doing something for the family. Women weren't keeped out of money, most of the time they were the one mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:41 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about. My grandma worked, as did her mother, as did most women in history. Even if that labour was often priced at 0$ I thought that talking about "work" and "house chores" made it clear that I was speaking about salaried work. I never say that women were doing nothing, I have much respect for what my grandmothers did back in the day and none of them had a salaried work. Apparently my and my peers' lived experience (and pretty much all statistics) isn't enough fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:46 AM
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An example doesn't prove much especialy with a totaly out of the ordinary situation. To counterbalance it, let me tell you about another scam that happened in France a few months ago. A woman was scam for a large sum of money by someone pretending to be Brad Pitt. Off course, there was a lot of people mocking her for being dumb as fuck. But there was some people to defend her, claiming that it can happen to anyone and that we shouldn't blame the victim. Those people where almost exclusively wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:30 AM
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Come on, a vast majority of single men knows how to take care of themselves... And if women don't want to date those PB&J sandwiches losers, they seem really easy to spot, so I don't see how it would be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:23 AM
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I don't think anyone is contesting the fact that previous generation had different expectation about gender roles. Our grandmother were probably the last generation were men were working while women were doing the house chores so this expectations kind of make sens back there. Our mother lived the transition and most of them had the rough deal of having to work and take care of the house. Plus divorce wasn't so easy and well received back then so they were stuck in that situation. Thing is, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:20 AM
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Lol, never said that only women are shallow and I can't wait for your "clear evidence" (You know that one post from some dude around here isn't a clear evidence, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:13 PM
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I'm not feeling bad for him. Didn't know the dude before the whole story and he has that cocky attitude that some ex-losers who, somehow, scored a hot chick have. Plus, he have every red flag in front of his eyes, he's ok with his wife disrespecting him, he should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:27 AM
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A man that only do leg day! That's a Legendary creature!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:23 AM
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Why do you not respond with the proper courting dance that we agreed as a society makes for a good dating experience for everyone? Did we? One goes on to say it's rare, but possible and in order to receive this kind of attention, you have to give off the "you are lucky to be in my presence" type of energy. Doing this will attract the right kind of man. This is like the worst advice you can give to a woman. Being pleasant is one of the top thing a guy with options will be looking for in a woman. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:11 AM
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It happened to me a few times. When I was single and interested, I knew I could make a move. When I wasn't, I just took the free ego boost and move one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:06 AM
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I will try yo say it as respectfully as I can: What the fuck?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:46 PM
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I had to google it also, I had no idea that this show exist. Seriously, who watch that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:52 AM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:59 AM
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It's not that simple, at least not in every countries. My ex-wife and I are coparenting. A few months back, my ex was having a rough time and it started to show on my son's education: he missed a few morning at school because she didn't wake up, his homework weren't done, that kind of things. His teacher notice it and made me a letter, stating that my son attitude and performance were better when he was with me. I was the one taking care of doctor's appointment and that kind of things, I could e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:40 AM
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Totally agree, that's why women should care way more about personnality when choosing that man and way less about dhat he brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:28 PM
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Never noticed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:53 PM
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Based on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:17 PM
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I could be fake, but if we start discarding as fake every story that doesn't fit our narrative, it will start to be hard to debate over there. I agree that the lenght makes it unusual but the situation of making a guy waits while others didn't had to is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:52 PM
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That's also my feeling: anything that isn't beneficial for women is labelled as toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:59 PM
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So I'm assuming it doesn't really happen, just some guys telling that it happens, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:38 AM
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Does a lot of men do that ? never read anything like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:24 AM
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Dude won the lottery: The important part here is "first ever date", which means she was new to dating app and wasn't burned down by it. Another proof that past matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:49 AM
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<image> Deep down, even women know and would tell the thruth when they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:45 AM
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And society subconsciously interprets this as “Men aren't killed for their gender, only women are." I do agree with that, there is this annoying trend in France when a woman is killed by her husband/partners to call it a "feminicide" (as opposed to "homicide") and to claim that she was killed because she was a woman. But she wasn't killed because she was a random woman, she was killed because she was in a relationship with a batshit crasy dude. This dude would have probably done the same if he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:43 AM
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I don't really understand what you are trying to say by that. They were trying to deny it so it makes sens to use the more logical argument or the argument the wife is more lickely to buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:43 AM
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Why would they be insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:36 PM
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translation: Action is masculine, passivity is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:21 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:48 PM
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It isn't me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:50 PM
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"See. Proving my point. Boasting about traits you dont really have and then twisted the definition to pretend it fits men. It’s the same thing with nice guys do to pretend theyre good people." I don't understand what you mean. I'm not trying to troll you or anything, I just genuinely don't understand what any of this mean. "Its childish to notice people’s personality flaws?" Looks like you didn't understand either. What's childlish is to see the world as bad shallow people VS good clairvoyant on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:54 AM
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"Dude, I made a post that had guys admitting they cant be honest because it wouldnt get them laid. If anything men will more likely boast about having traits they dont really have." Being honest about what you want on this sub and during dating are 2 VERY different things. Dating is like a job interview, nobody's honest in those situations... "No, SHALLOW PEOPLE will tolerate a red flag due to good looks. Shallow people cannot fathom people who actually can focus on behavior." That a very childl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:43 AM
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"Then stop asking for relationship advice. " Well, I don't. "I don’t know where you guys get this notion that men don’t do this too, that’s why I’m making these types of post to explain the contradictions." Men are way more honest about what they are looking for in a relationship. "Projection. Because you guys would tolerate an awful bigot if she was hot enough." Men would tolerate awful red flag if she's hot enough, I'm not denying it. But women tend to do the same. The fact that you are denyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:31 AM
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I use to do your "being assertive" way, now I'm using your "Being assertive and rude" way. Why did I change ? Because the second one is a lot more effective and most women preferes it. Your dichotomy about women wanted to be led and women wanting a team partner is false imo. We are not talking about buying a new car or making an important decision. We are in a situation where a woman can see what a guy can do for her. If he's confident enough to make the call and that the place is something she …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:40 AM
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To be honest, that's a very bad advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:20 AM
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A see this statement a lot but nobody ever define masculinity and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:19 AM
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Once again, your video don't prove shit. That's one dude in a trash video concept. I'm surprised that mods keep letting you post it. Most men, at least those who are familiar with women, know how women works. They are complaining about how being agreable doesn't do much in a fast dating environment. We know what women prioritize and there is a large gap between what they say they want and what they do. I would love to see the same video with a really hot dude poping that balloon, I'm willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:38 AM
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Might be a cultural or generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:48 AM
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I agree with you on that one . No break up come from nowhere and us guys are usually not good at reading that kind of things and , even worst, most of us aren't that interested in learning. Most of the time, it take an hard break up for a man to start paying attention to relationship dynamic (if he cares to learn from his mistake).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:20 AM
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I do. I know a couple like that. She has a good job in a law firm and since he doesn't really need to work and love to stay at home, he's just taking care of the kids ans stuff. It works because she is a smart woman, she isn't competing against her husband and she have appreciation for what he does for the family. There's a couple of funny things about that situation: -He got TONS of free time. Some people keep saying that being a stay at home is like a job on his own, but it's really not that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:37 AM
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Which sounds right, the way she handle this situation was moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:25 AM
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sounds awesome, which country is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:40 AM
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Totally agree. Whatever the reason, she doesn't want you or she's playing are to get, there is no reason to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:02 AM
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Good question, I don't really know how women in general are dealing with that kind of situations. It's ok in my book, but that doesn't mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:37 AM
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It's not "hmm, so he used to see sex workers, I have to keep that in mind and see what kind of client he was". It's "He used to see sex workers, I'm out". Which tells us that the problem for women is seeing sex workers, not about how he treat them. (I do agree that a dude seeing a sex worker should be treated as a red flag)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:21 AM
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Dog, without a doubt. Who the fuck want to join a street performance ? Also, I suspect that a girl like that could be a narcisist that love to be the center of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:12 AM
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How can a post like that pass moderation? There is nothing in it... No point, no argument, just OP having some weird conversations inside her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:45 AM
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I guess I'm agreeing with OP for once: Every hardcore, men hating, feminists I know have serious trauma (and it probably include OP).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:39 AM
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The frustrating part is that most reasonable women aren't that active compared to the handfull of very disturbed ones who create post like this 5 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:59 AM
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We had out share of dumb rant in the past few weeks, but I can't imagine this one being topped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:56 AM
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a lot seem to want to be desired for their virginity even if they don’t outright say it How can we know that they want to be desired for their virginity if they don't say it? they still insist on saying they’re virgin and still want women to fall for them. I don't see anything wrong here, wanting to be desired is, imo, something natural, being virgin or not doesn't change that. I would say that the probably want to be desired despite being virgins, not being desired because they are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:35 AM
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I'm really confused about your post. Do you seriously met that much virgin men with that mindset? Maybe it has something to do with religious background cause that's the only way I can imagine someone treating his virginity like a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:44 AM
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Serious question : what are those virtues and qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:24 AM
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Last time I post about that video, I saw some comments like that, I won't deny it. I also saw some comments agreeing with me, I had the impression that they were the majority but I can totally be mistaken on that point. An honest pole about that situation would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:54 AM
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Not at all, I allready comment in that video and I totally agree that the guy is rude and those women are totally right to ditch him. I have no trouble saying that he is an asshole (contrary to you that can't admit that a woman deliberately chose to date an asshole when I submit you a clear example numerous times, but that's another subject). But there isn't much more to say, he doesn't represent no one except himself and I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of men are sharing my feeling on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:41 AM
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This is a very niche video video from a trash concept, people willing to participate in that thing are weird as hell and people willing to comment on those video won't be much better. There isn't any wisdom to take from that anecdotale evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:18 AM
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Not gonna lie, I feel bad for her, she obviously have issues. For example, her fascination for that "Pop the balloon" video is weird as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:47 AM
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The first comment got me offguard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:58 AM
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Don't over pursue and don't over invest are very different from "doing the bear minimum".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:44 AM
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I don't see how a moron popping a ballon and some morons agreeing with him in comment proves much but it seems very insightful for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:28 PM
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I'm not gonna lie, how OP manage to milk that pop the ballon video is impressive. I swear I saw it a dozen times around here .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:32 AM
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Happened to someone I know. His wife left him for his brother then came back to him and this moron was ok with that. Crazy story, I sometimes wonder how family reunions are .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:24 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:34 AM
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The good old "The US are the whole world!" Last time I checked, we are good with those subject in non bigot western countries. But that's my fault, I should have been more specific when I spoke about islamic countries, you guys look like you're following the same patern. I got to say, I'm not keeping up daily with your lunatic administration, does they start to intervene in the dating market and forbid you to date whoever you want ? (That was your argument, we drift far away in that goalpost mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:33 AM
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You look upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:10 AM
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looks like men's accountability is more reliable than women's guts feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:15 PM
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How shit at analysing people must you be to have a child with that kind of dudes... As usual, ladies, choose better!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:19 PM
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Nope, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:01 PM
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What are we supposed to do exactly? We aren't the one dating them and validating their bad attitudes and behaviors... If they are acting like shit and they get the girls, there is nothing much we can do about it except tell the girls to choose better. You can say to me that "but we're talking about dating and her choices". Sure. But when a man says something like that ("i've dated a gold digger", "women suck nowadays") he is met with sympathy. Men don't scrutinize him, don't look for faults in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:05 PM
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The reason why we don't talk about women who make good choices is because there is nothing much to say about her. They are applying the two best advices we can give to women: -Be realistic about what's your conterpart. -Moral qualities and value are more important than look and money when it comes to choosing a man for a LTR. The women who choose awful men typically have a lower standards. They have lower moral standards, I totally agree with that, Once again, they have all the tools they need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:58 PM
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It is definitely a 1:1 ratio. It's just harder to see it when: -The sorority effect makes women judges any other woman positively. -You are wired to judge men archly on first look. -the starting point for "quality" start at someone being over you on the salary ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:02 AM
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This is it, we have reached peak PPD, nothing can top that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:59 AM
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I kinda see what you are saying but I'm not feeling part of any kind of "brotherhood" with every men. I highly doubt that all the men are defending anything, and even if they were, I'm still free to say the opposite, I'm not linked to them in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:59 PM
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I don't think men are automaticaly labelled has white-knights when they defend women, I feel that you can totally does that without being a white knight. But, imo, there are things that can be qualifies as "white knighting": -only being outraged when the victim is a woman. -Disqualifying all men because of the actions of a few: "I'm ashamed to be one of them". -when speaking about a bad situation, indicate that he's a great guy and would never do that. -being quick to show support to the woman s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:09 AM
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I guess, but i doubt that's a common reason given.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:27 PM
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I don't see them as the same, this is why I was asking. Difference is neither of them are insecure to me, it doesn't even make sens to me to say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:09 AM
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Serious question: Do you think that women who refuse to date fuckboys are insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:54 AM
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I knew this one would trigger you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:46 AM
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Totally agree with that. Just date someone you're compatible with. Don't insult women who don't fit your preference and don't pretend that men who don't want high bodycount are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:27 AM
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Didn't see it yet but it's on my list. Did you liked it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:37 AM
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Decided to go with "sinners" for our Halloween movie night. An ok movie but to similar too "From dusk till dawn" and "the faculty" to be accidental. And if you want to make a "from dusk till dawn remake, give us a prime Salma Hayek dancing moment, for christ sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:55 AM
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We had that situation in France a few days ago: A female streamer posted a long letter on X where she accused her ex-boyfriend, also a streamer, of a few horrible things (Manipulation, violence, rape, threat, the whole package...), without any proof backing it. Everybody jumped into the bandwagon, show support and spit on the ex-boyfriend. Two days later, the ex-boyfriend posted a video, with a lot of evidences (text messages, audio conversation, people backing him) that this was a toxic as fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:12 AM
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Perfect occasion for some slutty costume/behavior. Plus summer is gone so everyone is a little bit depressed and a quick fuck fueled by alcohol can help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:48 AM
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For a one night stand? Probably For a LTR? Hard no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:25 AM
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Agreed, Raw attraction is not what relationship and mariage are about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:09 AM
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Oh, we are talking about relationship? My bad, I thought it was about attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:09 PM
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I'm 40 and I had my fair share of 20 to 25 women in the past 5 years. As long as you're good looking, age isn't that much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:51 AM
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here we go again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:28 AM
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Lying about your sexual past? Women does that all the time... Problem is I don't see how it's possible to keep it a secret indefinitely, situation will occures, friends will slip some hints during some drunk nights... The day he knows, the relationship is probably over. Be promiscuous if you want to, just assume the consequences of your past choices and date men/women who are ok with that. Leave men/women who don't want any of this alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:18 AM
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My god, what a shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:48 AM
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So, do we have to call the suicide hotline? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:53 AM
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I'm not familiar with this whole streamer bullshit but does OP seriously try to say that a woman crying is a equivocal situation where she might be hinting that she wants things to escalate? If you think that going from kissing to sticking your hand in a crying woman pants, if you think that cuddling can't be without sexual correlation, then you're probably going to jail. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:50 AM
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Probably the most sane response. Picking a side in that mess looks like a very "bold" move, to stay polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:53 AM
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I said it countless time, I NEVER met a woman who wasn't more than ok with me being dominant and masculine in bed. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:23 PM
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My fault, should have been more creative to avoid triggering those sensible ass scripts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:39 AM
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Lol, i get a warning for speaking my mind on that subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:24 AM
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It never left. Some people were absurdly trying to push the nonsense that "everyone is beautiful". Turns out nobody trully believed it and now that ozenpic makes it way easier for women to be desirable, there isn't much reason to keep lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:17 PM
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I refuse to play this game. When I'm dating someone, she's the only person I invest my time and energy on. I except the same treatment for her, if I learn that she's entertaining other dudes, I'm out. Even if this multitasking bullshit isn't common in Europe, it may have cost me some opportunities but I'd rather have less higher qualities date than a tons of half assed dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:17 AM
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Kind of a general French thing, a lot of people there got the "If it's under 15 min, then it's not really being late".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:41 AM
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French do have a problem with punctuality, it's so infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:54 AM
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Becoming better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:30 AM
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As usual with that type of post, we can't really tell unless we see what she and those "sewer rats" look like. Usually, objectively very attractive girls are the most coveted demographic so the most rational explanation is that her beauty is probably on par with her shitty personality. EDIT: discovering the radfem sub. Holly shit, this is wild!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:47 AM
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To be fair, I'm ok with someone being charged for murder even without a body IF there are enough evidences. But this whole trial, "we don't have much on him and we did screw up the investigation big time, so please forget that we have neglect everything that didn't lead to him. Now, let's focus on how much of an asshole he is", was weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:19 PM
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Cedric Jubillar has been condamned to 30 years in prison for the murder of his wife. As I said earlier, this was the most plausible outcome. The trial showed how much the investigation had been a mess from the start but there was no way a potential female murderer would walk free from that courtroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:13 PM
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I'm ready to go toniiiiight!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:00 PM
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totally believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:59 PM
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There is this guy at my gym, we have a couple of friends in common so instagram algorythm ended up pushing is "relationship coach" profile to me. I was curious to see what it was and it turns out it something aimed to women with a very "you're a queen, men are assholes" vibe. Spoke to him yesterday and I asked him a few thing about it. Turns out it's kind of a side hustle for him. He tried to be a dating coach for men at first but the market is saturated and it's easier to aim women since "They'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:21 AM
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I wonder how they manage that but this is really fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:38 AM
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Totally agree, online dating is a very dehumanasing process and tend to turns the first date into a work interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:21 AM
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I would personaly save that for a 2nd date. Imo, first date from OLD should be about checking that everything's allright, no one get catfished and everyone involved is ok for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:50 PM
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I said it somewhere else: a first date with someone you allready know and a first date with someone you never met are different things imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:47 PM
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I feel like it's a valid point if you are dating someone you allready know. In that case, i don't really see a coffee date as a good first date. But, when it come to dating someone you never met and just had a few chat on OLD, i feel that coffee date is the best thing to do. In this situation, It's about getting to know someone, not evaluating how much this person is into you or how much tought they put into it. It's to early for that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:33 AM
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The fact that a quote you in my post should help you to answer that question by yourself. Come on, you can do it, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:45 AM
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So now, the reason why women don't like coffee date is because they carefully plan their meals 14 days in advance and have nothing to do with trying to see how much a man can provide? Suuuure Also, are we supposed to think that women are so helpless they can't even face that type or "challenge" ? If the coffee date is great, they can totally be the one proposing to continue with a dinner. If the coffee date is bad and her fridge is empty, she can totally get something to eat by herself, it's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:35 AM
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That's a good point you are raising. Men are also subject to the "choose better" argument. But once you say that you are evaluating the outcome of a LTR based on her past relationship, sudendly you're an asshole because past shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:12 AM
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Well, it seems that they are agreeing with the fact that "choose better" is for everyone dating questionable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:03 AM
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"choose better" is a totally valid argument as long as someone showed signs of dangerous or vicious behavior. I don't think there is any double standard on that: A man dating a serial cheater and getting cheated on will get the "choose better" treatment. Same for someone dating a know false accuser. I don't see what "gettting rejected" had to do here... "Even though thousands of women have clarified that they've dated the so-called nice guys, the nerds who "never got a chance" and said guys were…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:56 AM
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Investing on the fat girl at the gym is like investing in start up. You don't know which on will break trough but if you pick the one who does, you're hitting the jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:39 AM
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It's working fine. To be honest, once you have the exciting traits (motorcycle, boxing, that kind of stuff), you can have some nerd's hobbies on the side and they won't be botter a single second. Being a geek/nerd is a problem only if you are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:44 AM
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You're basicaly writting a tinder bio about me...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:17 AM
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There this recurring patern that you'll almost always find when women are making messages around reddit about dealing with their SO gaining weight. First there is the secondary but virtuous reason : "I'm concerned aboit his health" But then, you have the real reason, presented as something non significant: "oh, and also, I'm not that attracted to him any more". It always cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:39 AM
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What a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:58 AM
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Not approaching at the gym is not about resolving or worsening any loneliness epidemic, it's about avoiding potentialy unsalvageable reputation damages. We have countless numbers of videos were men are shamed for approaching at the gym, we even have guys shamed for looking in the wrong direction. Those women wanted their narsisist little moment of fame, they have it. Now, women can't tolerate this behavior (filming at the gym) and encourage men to approach there, you have to collectively pick a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:58 AM
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Somehow, she managed to be even more insulting to short men when trying to apologize for an allready dumb comment. I'm not gonna lie, I'm trully impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:48 AM
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One of my friend (girl) was complaining last week about how dating was hard because she was chating with that guy and he suddenly stop responding. She showed me his profil and, of course, the guy was the whole package: handsome, tall, athletic dude with a good job and money. Like top 0,05% of men. . She's all right but this was waaaaaayyyy out of her league. I was like "You really think that guy doesn't have 100s of girl at least as good looking as you in his backlog?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:48 AM
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I came across hundreds of cases of domestic violence while working on some professional side project. From all the cases I know, there were only one case where the woman was trully blindsinded by a normal guy turning into an asshole. Every other cases were about ignoring obvious redflags or strait up dating someone with an history of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:10 AM
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It is totaly normal that it doesn't match what you are witnessing: there is a whole part of the hook up world that happens in the shadow. Most guy who have a lot of sex had some with sub par girls because they were horny that day, but would never speak about it to anyone (aka the sweepers). I had my dark time when I pumped and dumped subpar girls but I would strongly deny it if anyone asked me IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:03 AM
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Why would't I date someone ambitious? I tried a few times and this was a nightmare. First of all, I'm doing more than ok, I have a good job with a great salary and, even more important, my "salary/burdensome" ratio is stelar so I'm not going anywhere. I don't really need more money, so my SO salary doesn't bother me, I can even cover for both if needed. I do want to date someone who likes her job, even if it's something basic, don't want to be listening to endless lament every day. The ambitious…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:47 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:33 AM
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That's not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:51 AM
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Totaly agree with that. But why are you posting things that totaly contradict that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:31 AM
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"Although it is certainly true that someone with a comprehensive film education may be better equipped to critically evaluate a film in terms of its objective value than a casual viewer." Exactly "You are certainly more able than the average woman to give your view on how effectively women tend to respond to male emotional expression" I am, but not because I'm a man. It's because I take interest in men/women relationship, way more than the average person. "To use your analogy, you are the viewer…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:30 AM
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If you want to believe so, be my guest, I don't care. That's a very poor argument but that's your problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:12 AM
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I totally disagree with that kinf of take. I've never directed a movie or even been on a movie set but I can tell what's a brilliant movie and what's not. You don't have to "be" something to have a level of knowledge about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:33 AM
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none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:27 AM
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Exactly my response has as much weight than yours, it's only a personnal take. The difference is that I said "I believe" while you said "This absolutely isn't true of most women".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:05 AM
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My experience told me otherwise. I believe it's true for most women unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:53 AM
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Thank you for admiting that weakness does repulse women instead of gaslighting us like some women around there do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:49 AM
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That's right. Women don't like weaknesses they like resilience and stoicism. The "why don't you open up more?" Is basically a shit test to see if he can overcome his problem by himself and show those qualities. If you want to speedrun repulsion from a woman, just say you're helpless facing some adversities or admit that you're giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:35 AM
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I like that Donald Trump visited the US ryder cup team to support them and they received an historical beating the past 2 days. This moron really breaks everything he touches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:58 AM
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What are they afraid of? It's not as frightening as encountering a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:28 AM
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I hope so. If the genuinely don't, I'm not gonna lie, this is frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:01 PM
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I just mentioned this post in another topic :-D PS: As usual when this subject is brought up, there are women to stupidly think that being called relationship material is the upseting part of what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:48 PM
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Same, hornet fan mostly because of cause of him and the cool logo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:08 PM
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Lol, I'm the spokesperson of no one except myself and I think Andrew Tate is a weird loser. I do believe moral values is one of the factor making the difference between a low value and an high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:36 AM
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Yeah, leaving his pregnant wife sounds like a reasonable decision made by a man with high moral qualities and totaly not like a mid life crisis. In a totaly unrelated topic, size have nothing to do with an individual hability to play in the NBA since Mugsy Bogues had a career while being short as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:56 AM
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I come from the same background, have dated a lot and I have the same feeling : There is a huge difference between what women claim they want and what they really want. -I use to invite girls out with a "Is there Somewhere you want to go?", it wasn't that good. I discovered that being directive was waaaaaayyyy more effective :"I'm taking you out tonight, You'll love it, I pick you up at 8, wear something nice". Women like a man with a plan. -consent. Most women will tell you that verbal consent …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:10 AM
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Solid line up. I'm on Silksong right now; fantastic game but the difficulty can be frustrating sometimes. Hades 2 is the next on my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:49 PM
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Remember the "chopped guys epidemic" where below average women were complaining that beautiful men were so rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:47 PM
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Good thing I didn't do that then. Reread your previous comment then read mine. You said "then say 'I want more than meaningless sex with you'" and I replied "the majority of men can understand context and don't need women to spell it out". What I didn't say is "men who don't get it aren't adults." Hmmmn, that's not really what you said. If your sentence was "the majority of men can understand context and don't need women to spell it out", then I agree with you on this point, but I would say that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:03 AM
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"They're descriptors, not categories for what you'll require of them. Hookup material is someone you're willing to have casual sex with but you don't care for anything else with them. He's not "with you", you just hook up with him. Husband material is someone with good qualities that you want to merge lives and have sex with forever. " That's an interesting point, you are (and most women does) making it sounds like both categories are hermeticaly seperated. From my experience it's really not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:37 AM
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Because for those women, bad boy are exciting. And as u/growframe says, "taming the beast" is a major achievement for those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:33 PM
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Strait from the Jubillar trial: "My sister fell in love with a bad boy and she was hoping he could change." A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:08 PM
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It's implied by saying "husband material" seeing as you have more than meaningless sex with a husband. It's kindof expected for the majority of adult men to be able to understand context so it doesn't make sense for women to assume it needs to be spelled out. I have no problem with being called "husband material" and I believe most men don't have problem about it either. I have a problem if the person I'm dating tells me "I wouldn't hook up with you" and I believe most men also have a problem wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:50 AM
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Someone being comfortable with themselves doesn't mean they aren't planning dates or bringing their A game. you're right but as previously said, the "I'm confortable with you" part is not the problem. My example specificaly describe a case where there is more than that. Same that a woman so attracted to a man doesn't have to have sex with him right away. Again, you're right, but I specificaly said "she wants to have sex right away is more exciting than being with a woman who have no problem post…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:04 AM
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You'll never see a tiktok post of Jack asking why he can't get a girlfriend. Adam, on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:54 AM
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What a fucked up thing to say at a memorial...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:39 AM
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I want him around and to be around him all the time. I want to build a life with him. See him every day. Smack his ass every day. Laugh with him every day. Ok, so now we know how you want to feel about him, but what are the traits or quality that you want him to display to feel that way? But they weren't more exciting. What you described was chaotic and unstable. The very opposite of exciting. I don't see how it's chaotic or unstable. Being with a man who always bring his A game and carrefully p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:33 AM
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Then say "I want more than meaningless sex with you" or at the very least says "I wouldn't just hook up with you". I wouldn't hook up with you" is literaly saying that the person doesn't meet your treshold for an hookup. It's like being invited to someone's place for dinner and when they bring a beautifully dressed plate, instead of saying "This is so beautiful, I which I could keep it intact" you says something like "There's no way I'm eating that!".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:45 AM
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That's different for every woman. Then what makes him husband material for you? So what's the point? What's causing the issue? Obviously the comparison set by explaining how things where different (and more exciting) with your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:35 AM
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Didn't you said that you would delay sex for the husband material? That's not really "whenever we want" then. Can you tell me what's make a guy goes into the husband material zone? "Yes. I'm glad he can be his self and he feels relaxed in doing so. That's exactly what I want my partner to feel." You are missing the point, the "I feel relaxed with you part" isn't the one causing issues. In a similar maner "you're a great boyfriend" isn't the problem in those backhanded compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:21 AM
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If husband material is more validating than hook up material, saying "You are not someone I would hook up with but you're someone I would marry" would be a great thing to say to a guy. If my girlfriend say that to me, I'm out of the relationship immediatly. Because I've been hook up material before and switching to husband material was only a matter of "Do I like her enough to invest time, money and energy on her?". Being hook up material means she's attracted to you. Being husband material mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:39 AM
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This whole hook up material VS husband material get some traction a few month back because of a social media post where a women said her boyfriend was drifting away since she said to him "you're not someone I would hook up with but you're someone I would marry" "I've heard women say that someone is husband material not hookup material, but being husband material does not preclude hooking up." That's true, any men would be delighted if his partner told him something like "I would definitely hook …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:16 AM
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I hate how it became nearly impossible to have a good discussion around here. A lot of most I made lately ended up getting moronic non-nonsensical replies like you are getting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:03 AM
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Same. I love when tatoos have meanings and it's so frustrating when everything they can say about it is "I think panthers are cool!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:42 AM
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Probably the 6'4. I'm tall and I never date a women taller than me, it would be fun. 4'9 is really short, I could ultimately date a girl this short but may be awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:39 AM
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Muscle is for women what make up is for men: -when a woman says she don't like muscles, what she mean is that she don't like mister olympia, roided dudes. Brad pitt in Troy is all right. -when a man says he don't like make up, what he mean is that he don't like extrem amount of obvious make up. Natural make up is all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:31 AM
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Where did I said the opposite? PS: This is the second time in a week that you make a post implying that I don't know what I'm talking about (and it didn't turn out that good for you the last time). I highly suggest that you stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:24 PM
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I totaly disagree, I'm familiar with dozens of case of abuses. There is only a single case I know where the abuser didn't show any red flag. As you said, every other time, red flags were there, the were just ignored. Of course, it is very uncommon to have an abuser claiming that he's a bad person that will fucked up their partners life. Believe it or not it does exist and some people still fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:03 PM
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I'm attributing value to it because we regularly have topic about women getting into toxic relationship because they are blindsinded by guys turning evil out of nowhere, which is, most of the time, a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:50 PM
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Did I forgot to write "some"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:13 PM
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Not that much. She stopped talking about the subject a few weeks later with a post about how they were still trying to figure all that. My guess is that they are still together for the kids and for material consideration but they are roommate more than a couple. She posted some stuff on instagram saying that she was into hardcore stuff now (BDSM, swinger club (without her husband), gang bang,...) so I guess, she isn't getting any better mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:56 AM
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I'm lowkey fascinated by the "Jubillar Trial" which is starting next week in France. I don't know if this case made in to the news outside of France but here's a quick recap: Delphine Jubillar disappeared during the night in 2020. Her husband called the police to signal that his wife went missing and he quickly became the prime suspect of a murder: His wife was having an affair and she was about to dump him, there is a bunch of indirect evidences pointing to him. Problem is, there is no crime sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:42 AM
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<image> He's on steroid now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:56 AM
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"When a person complains there’s problems in the relationship, its a good idea to not see their complaints as background noise you can drown out." I agree with you on that. There are too many men who aren't paying enough attention to their relationship and end up being blindsinded by the breakup. A breakup is never brutal or out of nowhere, there are always some events that led to it and most men tend to discard or downplay those signs. "“But there are guys who cant even get a first date!” Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:50 AM
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"Very attractive women probably do get approached less than “above average” women but I think that comes with the benefit" I used to think the same but I dated some very attractive women and they do get approached a lot more than average or slightly above average women. With dude getting out of there ways to contact them, offering things out of nowhere... There was this girl I dated for a while who was insanely hot, I couldn't leave her alone in a bar more than 2 minutes without coming back to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:50 AM
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I have the same exact feeling about a certain person around here who match your description (I'm pretty sure we are thinking about the same redditor). It got to be a troll, no one can be that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:38 AM
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Same, I'm also 100% positive that a gym body is one of the best asset in dating. The difference of treatment I got from women now that I'm athletic is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:34 AM
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"Why do women attack anyone who criticize them as incele or so called nice guys showing thier colors?" Because women respect guys who have the abilities to seduce women. Therefore, the most insulting thing they can say to a man is something about his inability to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:30 AM
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I like how it confirms that, most of the time, there is no "hook up material" VS "Mariage material" and they would happily chose the LTR with one of the hot dude. So the dumb "would you be the asshole who had only a ONS with her or the guy who end up keeping her for the long run?" should be "Would you rather be the one who had the choice and chose a better option or the one she end up settling with?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:27 AM
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I know what it is and I don't: If we were under the gambler's fallacy in this situation, we would say that a woman with a low bodycount as an HIGHER probability to cheat/end the relationship/divorce in the future: Since her bodycount is below average, she would be more likely to correct the trend in the future under the gambler's fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:57 AM
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Not what I meant. The processes make sense when dealing with a lot of people, they don't make sense on the individual level. You are not the single client of that insurance you are a number in a huge sum of people. The insurance company cant tell your exact actual risk of accident, that makes zero sense. But they can apply the same set of rules to a large number of people based on statistical trends, only then they can evaluate their financial risk. You are almost there. The company can't tell t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:35 AM
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Because businesses and insurance work with N > 100 000 number of people. But you only date one, or a few people at most. Insurance work with N > 100 000 number of people to determine that an individual has an higher risk of getting into a crash than an average person. Just like men work with N > 100 000 number of people to determine that an individual has an higher risk of getting into a divorce than an average person. If you think the statistical trend is a good predictor and you only need a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:09 AM
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You didn't get the comparison. I get it, it just doesn't work since their not on the same level at all. I'm talking about how misguided it is to use statistical trends to make conclusions about people. I would not say it's missguided, it obviously need a little bit of individual examination (and I do believe everyone does that intuitively) but it's still a good predictor. Avoiding men with a history of violence sounds like a good way to avoid violence, and avoiding women who have sexual experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:03 AM
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This comparison doesn't work. Men aren't avoiding any women, just the ones with high bodycounts. Women can totaly be friends with regular dude and avoid anty men with an history of violence. It would even be the reasonable thing to do because it does make since past actions are the best predictor of future behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:51 AM
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Later that night, most of them were in my bed :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:20 AM
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If your a hot guy and you are still willing to be a hoe, your a hoe. agree with that. They probably thought you had like 4 when really you had like 20 💀 Some of them asked and weren't judging my bodycount arshly, others didn't bother to have a precise number since, proving that they didn't care much about that info.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:01 PM
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sorry sweet heart, except one, none of them had a problem with my high body count so I wasn't judge that archly since they were ok to have a relationship with me. I honestly dont know where you guys get this delisoun from and this strange confidence that somehow your guys are the exception to the rule. Because, has explained, experience showed me that I wasn't judged that harshly on that subject. If your a hoe your a hoe, thats something you have to be a willing participant in. Being a hoe is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:23 PM
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I don't know about that. When I was single, a few months ago, and I was dating a lot, every women where asking about my past. I had the options to tell the truth ("yeah", I had hook up) or to lie ("Didn't had any relationship since my divorce"). -when I was telling the truth, women where satisfied with the fact that I was regularly pulling women and could get into relationship. I only met one woman who asked for a more precise answer and was disgusted by the fact that I had a high bodycount. -Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:23 AM
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Who speak about bodycount at a work related event with an almost stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:33 AM
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I hope so, I got that perfect picture where I'm handsome as fuck. If they don't put it in black and white for my funeral, I'm haunting those dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:24 AM
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He's not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:40 PM
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If you're both ok for a hookup, no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:36 AM
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I thought you were abou to say something about a bad trend, I didn't excepcted something so awful that it makes me cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:58 AM
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To bad, now I'm really curious about your awesome fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:17 AM
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Well, I got to say I didn't expect much about this conversation but someone trying to turns it into a bragging contest about who has the most badass fantasies was definitely not on my bingo card.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:43 AM
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"Well this is also to romance novels though so the main point in romance novels/fiction is romance" Exactly my point: the romance is the main point, the "power curve" is secondary. "It's romance so usually she doesn't overpower him and she doesn't want to she just becomes very ONE with him, where he fully loves and respects her( as a weakling and as a beast) and she does the same for him. They both are bad ppl but very good to each other ( they are each others only weakness)" Again, I see that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:40 AM
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"It's important in the contexts of relationships with men to be cognizant of this fact that they may become violent when dealing with recuring acute stress or chronic stress." It sounds just like a smarter version of a lilith post where she keeps claiming that women get blindsinded by their partners who sudenly turns into bastards out of nowhere. I read and heard a massive number of testimony from victims of domestic violence (women AND men). I can remember only one being a situation of "he/she …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:26 AM
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I'm a tall athletic dude and I have ten years of boxing. During my dating life, I encounter the following situation: -A woman saying that I was lucky to be physicaly impressive because I could be mean to anybody without repercussion. When I asked her why I would be mean without reason, her answer was simply "because you can" -A woman all excited that I have a suture strip over my eye, asking me if I have been in a street fight and being genuinely disappointed when I told her it was only a traini…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:53 AM
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I think a lot of men nowadays especially are suffering from an identity crisis and what does it mean to be a man and the expectation that come with it, a lot are having a hard time knowing what they want and how to fit in and even how to express themselves while also mainting the image they think they need to project to the world to still have value. Those are genuine and valid struggles and concerns. Agree with that. I have the impression that we are at a shift: -Men of my generation (let say 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:28 AM
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That's an interesting point you're raising. The "power curve" of the main female protagonist is probably important but if it was the main factor I wonder why we don't have more fiction where the main female caracter is the most powerfull one. This trop of the regular dude who is, in fact, a sleeping tiger is overexploited for the male audience (Nobody, taken, John Wick, probably half of Jason Statham career), yet the equivalent with a women protagonist are not common. I can think of Kill Bill fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:58 AM
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Fantasy doesn't come from nowhere, you rarely have fantasies about things you dislike. If you read books made about a specific fantasy, we can confidently assume that you like that fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:58 AM
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I won't put any % on it, but the "He's dangerous for anyone else but he's good to me" seems like a common woman fantasy. This trope is basically the core of popular softporn literature (Twilight, 50 shades, 365 days,...)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:49 AM
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Thats the problem. You guys arent really getting to know these women. I have. Theyre traumatized. Oh you were talking about my female friends? not the guy they were dating? Of course I know there family life and none of them have a traumatizing background. They are quite all right, except that sometimes they do ignore some problematic behaviors if the dude is attractive (I'm not talking about dating killers, just dudes who where treating them poorly). A lot of people does that unfortunately, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:08 PM
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I'm glad you bring that up since every time you bring that subject, I answered with the same example about this woman who wrote a book about her abusing partner. I'll try again, maybe you'll answer me this time. Do you think there wasn't any sign that this woman could have notice? I'm also glad you bring that up since it's a hot topic in France today: There is this dude, Jean Imbert, a Chef/TV personality who is accused by several past girlfriends to be an abuser (gaslighting, manipulation, insu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:03 PM
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Most women clearly have the Nerd stereotype in mind when they think about gamer. Most of the time I have the same "You're a gamer? Really? That's weird you don't look like one." reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:21 AM
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I would say Elden Ring but I believe it has also been release on PS4. Clair Obscur Expedition 33 was really good. God of war Ragnarok was also nice. Can't say there is anything that really blow my mind on that gen, I played way more inde stuff than triple A. The most fun I had in the past few years was probably Tears of the kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:18 AM
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True. The assertion that people turn out to be asshole is stupid. Life isn't a disney movie where a vilain is scheming a master plan to act like a nice person and suddenly turns into a dick while making some evil laugh. From all the assholes my female friends dated there isn't a single one who didn't show up his color right of the bat. But they were tolerating things that would have disqualify a regular dude immediatly. The "if she left the asshole then she doesn't like assholes" is the other wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:59 AM
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I'm reaching the 40s and I'm in the same boat. I have way more attention than what I had in my 20s. Being athletic at this age is a massive advantage, especially since most guys don't bother investing on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:19 AM
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My experience contradict that. I got exponentialy more attention now that I'm athletic than when I was just "not fat". It's like night and day, when I was not fat, the attention was almost non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:13 AM
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All the succefull and Happy marriage I know have the same mindset: They see themselves as a team, not two people competing each other and they have admiration and respect for what the other is bringing to the team. I do believe that people who see the couple has a way to take the most of the other while giving the least in return are completely lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:10 AM
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I don't think you could be more wrong if you tried. I work in finance and I like fashion. I have to dress well and I love to do so. My point is that it doesn't move the needle much about attractiveness. A basic jean and a 10€ black t-shirt is probably the outfit that brings me the most success. I use to be a skinny, well dress man, I was waaaaaayyyy less successful than being an athletic dude, whatever clothes I'm wearing. The "overall aesthetic" is mostly your physic and your face. Sure there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:20 AM
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I totally agree avout women having way more room to improve their attractiveness through clothes but we are talking about men here and it's a minor factor of attractiveness for them. I would leave makeup out of the discussion because it's a totally different matters: as you stated, men don't really have this options so it's not even comparable. I'm not contradicting your post because I do agree on most point. The only part I strongly disagree is the "fashion is about 60% of the overall aesthetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:02 AM
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"The problem is the male fashion subreddit is unironically fucking useless. If you want to see actual good fashion you go to instagram or something." They aren't that useless, some of the outfits out there are good. The point is there are some good outfits on unattractive dude and it doesn't change the fact that they are unattractive. Meanwhile, I've been approached while wearing a smelly football shirt. I checked those Instagram account and both guys are good looking, it helps a lot. "Also you …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:37 AM
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There is some fashion sub around, go look around and you'll find some unattractive guys very well dress. Turns out a well dressed unattractive dude is still an unattractive dude. Dressing well is probably the last thing to improve if you want to be more attractive. Getting in shape is like 100 times more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:40 PM
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Some men will cheat, some men won't. Some men love to chase, other don't give a shit about that. As usual: choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:21 AM
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No, nobody does that. "You're too perfect" is in the same ballpark than "Why can't I find someone like you?", translation : "you are nice but I don't think you're attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:17 AM
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what a morron.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:17 AM
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This is exactly my experience. Women keep telling that they want good, responsible men, yet being good and responsible won't take you far during the seduction phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:17 AM
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"Maintaining the lifestyle" isn't the goal of child support. 1M is more than enough to raise a child, I'm raising mine with way less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:38 PM
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If that was the case, my take would be that they would not marry, or at least makes it easier to opt out without spliting assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:47 PM
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It also shows how men are marrying for life since most of them don't do any prenuptial agreement even when they earn more, women are the ones seeing mariage as something that could be temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:04 AM
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Not gonna lie, this is one of the most hilarious Windmill's bait in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:57 AM
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That explains a lot, thanks for that clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:40 PM
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This is this old debate again. Men don't have issue about being the safe option, the issue is being only the safe option and not being the safe AND attractive option. I'm not going to say whatever a person wants to hear just to make them feel good. I only give compliments I sincerely believe. You're totaly right about that and I would personally hate to be in a relationship with someone saying thing she doesn't sincerely believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:30 PM
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I don't get why they can only be "valuable only for sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:05 PM
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agree. It doesn't have to be that direct but showing a man that you are trully sexually attracted to him is very powerfull.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:42 PM
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This one is a classic. Saturday night, Alcool,... You where a "What the hell, he's not that bad and I want to have fun" option. Problem is "Not that bad" on a saturday night can turn into a "What was I thinking?" the next morning. "Mistake" are made on the moment, so if something had to happens (from making out to bringing on off them to your place" it had to happen that night. Best thing to do to avoid that is to improve your exciting traits to pass from the "he's not that bad" to "He's great".…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:37 PM
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I do, I got tatoos to protect and I want to keep my skin in good condition as much as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:54 AM
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Same, I just don' get it. Gay dating and relationships are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:52 AM
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"You really are just reaching to make it seem like there is any real tangible difference in safety between a dinner date and coffee date. Any first date where you meet in a public space is likely to be very safe even a bar could be safe. It’s up to the individuals on the date to decide how much they drink and what they do after the date." You are avoiding to answer avout the two major advantages that coffee date have over diner: -Day time VS Night time: I would have to dig up some numbers but at…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:43 AM
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There is young women who have some kind of "fetish" for older men, I met some. Other than that, you're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:44 AM
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Might be something cultural, it might be less unusual in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:00 PM
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From a male perspective here's some of the things women don't seems to get: -Even if they say the opposite, I know that the vast majority of women cares about my muscle. I'm not blind I see how they react when I take my shirt off. And I see that they are more attracted to my personality now that I'm good looking. -N-count is important but not the way they think, it's more about the situations than an arbitrary number. A woman having a dozen of healthy past relationship is better than a woman bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:01 PM
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"I don't have time for this, let me write a full essai about how pissed off I am to prove it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:25 AM
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"No you didn’t you just declared that it’s safer. You didn’t explain how. Both are in public so I’m not seeing why either would be safer. " You just have to scroll a little bit in that conversation, it's not that hard... Since I'm a great guy, I'm posting it right there: Disagree on that one, diner doesn't have the same advantages: Nightime, alcool involved, way harder to cut off, If he's the one paying, you can feel pressured into making it transactional... It's totaly relevant and I stand by m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:47 PM
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Confidence is all right, it's way better than someone insecure. It's not something that most men will search for but it's a nice bonus. Overconfidence or arrogance on the opposite are some of the worst traits a woman can have, it will repulse most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:36 PM
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Many women are also boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:18 AM
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You have both extrems. Used to work with filthy rich people back when I was in asset management. Some of them are generous as fuck if they like you, to the point that it makes you unconfortable :"Hey, since I know that you like Scotch, here's an expensive as fuck bottle for you! Let me know if you want the Ferrari to hang out with your girlfriend this weekend." On the other hand, some of them where the most cheap bastards you can imagine and they were proudly telling stories about how they squee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:45 AM
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I saw the clip and I was confused as hell. If this is peak ugliness, I'm living in the middle of the Mordor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:09 PM
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Oh no he got suspended with pay and can sit on his couch getting paid £50-100k a week. And he can still play football on loan at Getafe and now at Marseille Well, he wasn't convicted, what was Man U supposed to do? They can't suspend his pay for that. Even if their charges don't get dropped, they can move to Russia, Turkey, Brazil, Saudi Arabia, etc, take a fat pay rise, and enjoy an early retirement Again, they were no trial , any club refusing to sign him and stating that it's because of the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:33 PM
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that's... interesting, but you do realize that bringing up cruise make no sens, right? Cruise are suppose to be temporary, there is no other way around... No one has is home adress on a cruise ship on no one ends up spending 3 years at the university of Wonder of the seas... You can visit Paris, you can also live there. You can have a short fling with someone, you can also have a long relationship with that person. In both case, the short option won't let you see much of the bad sides. This is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:20 PM
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That's a good example. Greenwood has received tons of shit in the press (including french one) and he wasn't autorised to return to Man U (cause of the media backlash man U faced when they brought him back). All the charges had been dropped which mean he can still play football. It was discussed how his former girlfriend was into influence when she requested the police to stop the investigation. I'm yet to see a single piece of media doing the same thing about Richardson's boyfriend. I'm willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:03 PM
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My observation were really similar, I could have wright the same post. I don't think that top men refuse to settle, they all do it eventually, and when this happen it's often with one the best girl they ever dated (the attractive and amazingly nice type of girl).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:04 PM
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It works even better: short fling and one night stand let you mostly see the good sides of those guys, not the boring every day life, the bad temper or the drinking problem he might have. Just like tourist in Paris end up visiting the usual beautiful tourist stuff and not setting a foot at the Porte de la Chapelle. Both ends up un idealization.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:16 AM
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Agreed. And she had been caught on camera: -lying about the situation -saying that "He's the man in that situation" implying that it's totaly ok for a woman to hit a man. A male star athlete doing that would be crucified on every media. The fact that she made some apologies and she's now off the hook is wild. The situation with her husband is also interesting, no one is questioning him for forgiving her. If the role where reversed we would see endless conversation about how Sha'carry is under hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:52 AM
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"How is a coffee date safer than a dinner date?" Allready answer to that question in that conversation. "one just cost more and takes more planning." Dinner date doesn't ask more effort planning that coffee date. Thanks for confirming that the important part is financiary. "Lol you’re acting like women are rejecting coffee dates and demanding men invite them over to where they live instead. " No, I didn't, don't twist my word and argue in good faith, please. I'm talking here about women rejectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:01 AM
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The same reason that so many unfit women claim that they aren't attracted to athletic dudes but are sudendly changing their mind the second they get hit on by one of them: Not meeting the base requirement for something can be hard to swallow so some people use the "I'm not even wanting it anyway" coping strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:42 AM
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"I don’t get it if they are over exaggerating wouldn’t the not be dating like you said? The fact that they are still dating suggests they aren’t over exaggerating nevertheless it is a risk that is much higher for a woman than a man" The risk is higher for women, I'm not denying that, but that doesn't mean It's not overexagereted. "I personally never heard a woman say that she wouldn’t go on a coffee date because it was dangerous. I thought some didn’t wanna go on those dates because they felt it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:36 AM
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You are missing the whole point... I'm not denying that rape exist or that a man (not men) is the perpetrator in most case, any person doing so would be arguing in bad faith. What I'm saying is: There is women over there that claims that dating for women is really hard since they're at risk of being raped in any date. If this was trully the case, and the risks were that high, hook up culture or dating app would be gone. At least, women would avocate for other ways to meet men, and we aren't seei…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:05 AM
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1-I'm not deciding anything, women does and they keep dating. I'm riding a motorcycle, a powerfull one, I know it's dangerous but the risk doesn't exceed the benefits I get from it. Nobody's forcing me to do so and the day I think it's too dangerous, I'll stop. I'm taking my own decision and I'm accountable for it. I'm not saying what's reasonable or not for women, they are making that decision themselves. But you can't keep saying that something is so dangerous that you're risking your life eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:31 PM
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I don't think that women are wrong for worrying about their safety, I do believe that the world can be dangerous for men and women and I totaly advocate for women prioritizing their safety. But I'll keep calling out women being inconsistent about it: -Women over exaggerating the danger by saying that dating is harder for them since they can be raped any time. Rape is a serious issue but if it was that common, women would have stop dating completely a long time ago. -Women saying that a coffee da…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:57 AM
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I know one "real chad", like the real stereotype chad, he is a regular at my gym. I know that, at least 2 girls of the gym had sex with him, and they were claiming they weren't attracted to that kind of guy before doing so. He's currently dating a instagram popular girl, she keeps making content about how a "regular dude body" is so much better than a muscular body. As usual, there is often a massive difference between what women claim they like and what they actually select when they have the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:27 AM
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When I get approached by women, I'm nervous as fuck. You want to know why? Because most of the time, it ends up in drama. I've been called gay numerous times, I've been insutled, I've been harrassed by a woman who tried to sabotage my interactions with other girls, I get a drink throws at me... If men were handling rejections like women, we would all been in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:10 PM
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It doesn't make sens for the majority of men, I can assure you that. others are LTR oriented, specially the ones that want to start a family Sure, but the majority of those dudes would also be ok for a hook up in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:31 PM
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When people ask "are you looking for a relationship or a hookup?" It's a general question, nobody is asking "do you want a relationship with me ?" This is why this question doesn't make sens for men. The nature of the relation (hook up or relationship) isn't general, it's totaly dependant of the person. So many guys and women are only into hookups, for whatever reason, and that's perfect too. Sure, In some situation, you can be franck and tells that you're fine hooking up and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:58 PM
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Men lie for sex, women lie for relationship. Doesn't mean that every men or every women has to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:20 PM
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I don't really know, I would never ask that question. By the way, it always baffle women that I don't ask it back when they ask it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:17 PM
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And it doesn't work. You'll filter the dumbest of the bunch but most guys are prepared for that question, we hear it at every first date. If you really want to filter actively, you should ask something like "Why do you like me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:24 AM
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There is something that most women seems to not get: Almost every men are following the exact same pattern: "I'm looking for something long term but I'll get anything in the meantime. How far I will want to go with you depends how much I like you". So on a date, asking something like "What are you looking for" is irrelevant. We won't answer frankly, we know that women don't like the honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:55 AM
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eggs, chicken, peanut butter, low fat yogurt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:04 AM
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Some dude are trully desperate and are taking the bullshit "be nice to women and they will like you back" waaaaaaayyyyyyyy to seriously. The hotest woman I ever dated was getting a ton of free stuffs and ridiculous discount. whenever I had something to buy, I would send her to get a deal. Once it was done, I would show up like "Wow honey! you get the employee exclusive discount? that's great! By the way, that's for me". The angry look of the salesman who couldn't back out without admiting that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:23 AM
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the whole thing is off but the "most people can do a backflip" is especially dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:26 AM
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You're right, confidence by itself isn't sexy. "Just be confident" works when you have something to back it up. I also know a dude who is acting confident way over what he should be, I don't know a single woman that doesn't call him "the creepy dude". You nailed it in that conversation and the answers you are getting are all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:22 AM
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True. Women who are into meaningfull relationship but giving themselves a free pass is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:51 AM
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Well, if your goal isn't to find the right ones, I guess it does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:02 AM
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So far, I'm on a perfect streak of guessing when my friends date questionable guys. No one is mindreader but lets stop pretend that women don't give free pass to attractive dude and are not attracted by traits that you can find on "bad boys"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:26 AM
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It's not that hard to see the difference, a woman attracted to you won't ger her hand out of you, even if she want to take it slow. If taking things slow looks really easy to do for her, she's probably not that attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:06 AM
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"The Tea App proved the vast majority of men are bad man, women have no choice but to accept polygamy/settle or stay single." No. The tea app proved once again that women are attracted to certain traits, other than physical (charisma, confidence, leadership,...). Men that display those trait are way more prone to be narcisist, manipulative,... "I can say from even my own personal experience my family members that my own father cheated on my mother despite her being the bread winner and also way …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:28 AM
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You don't. You just give good personality traits to attractive people, everyone does that, we are wired to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:18 PM
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You are overly generalizing and it makes you miss the whole point. On one hand, women are at fault for how assholes behave because “theyre incentivized by women rewarding their bad behavior!” I doubt that everyone in his right mind think that, everyone is responsible for his own actions. And on the other hand, when women turn to feminism and try to make programs ‘teaching boys to be ashamed of their masculinity’ (teaching them not to be menaces to society), refuse to date Trump supporters, wont …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:03 PM
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Well, it looks like some people are ok with that since giving a second chance after being cheated on is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:11 AM
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Maybe it's not the best idea to post here if you just been dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:40 AM
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I got to disagree on that. I know some girls who are satisfied with being one of the side chick of an extremely attractive guy. And I'm also suspicious about "the surprise at finding out", most of the time, if you have to check on an app, you have some elements to think that he's, indeed, dating other girls. I had a few "friends" who were on that situation and, every time I warned them that he was probably dating around but they seriously looked away (because he was attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:18 AM
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It might be true that 20% of dudes get 80% of women’s attention It is but I reckon at least half of that 20% isn’t your stereotypical gigachad Look is important but it's not the only thing that matter, it's obvious that some guys can have a lot of success without being a literal giga chad, they can have other desired qualities (charisma, eloquence, money, status,...) But even if they aren't all look, they definitely aren't unatractive. Those are the types of dudes who women are constantly compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:02 AM
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It's not necessarily about toxic relationship. Even if your girlfriend/wife isn't weaponizing it, showing your vulnerability will often make you less attractive to her. Therefore, showing your vulnerability is a net loss in a majority of time for men. resilience, being stoic and showing that you are in control is what will make a man truly attractive, not true vulnerability or hopelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:34 PM
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I also seen a few profil from the app, not cherrypicked, just browsed and in average i believe those dude where more attractive than getting random guys from browsing directly on tinder. I got to say that collage is close to what I saw on tea app. It would be interesting to take 100 random men profile from tea app, 100 random men profile from tinder and make a compare. Then make the same thing with tea user from the leak and women tinder profil.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:02 PM
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"Dude, Im read the other comments. NO THEY DONT. Keep in mind, you were still only one of three guy that actually guessed that the balloon popping guy was an asshole. That’s already proved you’re the exception, not the rule." I didn't make any count but I would have swear they were more comment critisizing his action than that. A pole would be interesting by the way. Ultimately, I have the feeling that there is way more people on PPD with seriously concerning take on that subject but it would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:25 PM
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"To truly appreciate being in the top 20% you had to have come from the bottom 80%." It does truly help but I'm sure you don't have to come from the 80% to have an objective look on the dating market. People reasoning like OP are just like a rich people saying "I don't know why everyone is struggling, things are going great for me". It's just a lack of honesty or intelligence at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:08 AM
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I pointed out that men were fairly attractive on the tea app (of course not everyone of them...) and some delusional woman answered that they look homeless...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:33 AM
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Yeah sure, we are all falling on male doxing women, doing revenge porn or whatever you keep claiming, everywhere on the internet... While women never does this... In fact, there is so few women into this that they manage to push that tea app at the top of app download ranking and as a worldwide news topic.... "That without strict moderation, those places often get hacked and doxxed and spammed" Tea app get "hacked" (more of a serious fuck up from the company than a hack to be honest) but teaborn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:14 AM
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I have no idea, how could I know that? I don't even know what you mean by "born wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:28 PM
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This is brutal and someone made a whole tread a few day back about how you shouldn't worry about being the second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:15 PM
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Lilith still going with her favourite subject, still making the same false statement. "Assholes can be ANYONE" Sure, you might be unlucky but I will still pose the same question that you keep dodging like neo dodging bullets in The Matrix. This time, I'll make it even more clear: You have two guys in front of you. Guy A cheat on his ex and hit her when they broke up. Guy B didn't do any of that with any of his ex. Which one present the higher risk of treating you like shit if you have to date on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:32 PM
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"Women don't do it in vanilla spaces because they can't naturally form social circles given that internet is male-dominated space?" You never heard of the "are we dating the same guy?" Facebook group? Do you know that you can find subreddit where women are discussing relationship situations 24/7? You never seen what an all girl what's app group looks like? Saying things like that is misoginistic as fuck, women do know how to use Internet. " fuck that, men are the noisier ones, they gossip all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:58 AM
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Shouting 😅 my bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:29 PM
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Can't read the article but from since the url is talking about Height, I can confidently says that being 6'1/6'2 and athletic had help me a lot in dating and that most women had display a sence of feelign protected around me. The fact that I got a good job and that I own a house was also a net positive that I identified as material and financial protection. they were also 2 distinct situations of dates going kinda normal until I display some sens of protection that increase their attraction almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:08 PM
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But men here claim that ANY woman who suffers abuse picked badly and should have known it, but they never hold men to the same standards. Someone like that is also a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:33 PM
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Some women ‏‎just suck ass at choosing. Some people around here would tell you that you are victim shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:43 PM
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his smart scale snitching on him is just hilarious. And for some reason, the fact that in French, "Scale" and snitch is the same word (une balance) makes it even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:41 PM
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No it doesn't prove shit since this is a single occurence. It's fun to talk about bit there is nothing to take away from it. Now, what would be fun is doing the same approach with a hot dude profil and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:18 PM
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Not gonna lie, posting a private conversation online without bluring any info on your contact is wild as fuck and a major red flag. Way more concerning that this dumb guy who read somewhere that you have to sexualize the conversation and does it right of the bat like a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:13 PM
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I wonder how you can conclude anything from basically nothing. The only thing we can say about her situation is that she's exceptionally unatractive. The best comment is spot on: I'll address the elephant in the room. You're exceptionally unattractive. And it's not because you're this unrecoverable beast of a woman, you just put literally no effort into your appearance. Do something with your hair. Put a little makeup on. Fuck, smile s little bit. If it comes across that you don't value yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:44 AM
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I believe, it's not that black or white. Sure, the easiest way to move on is to find someone new and having more options to do so does help a lot. But on the other hand, "women grieve the relationship before it ends" has some truth in it. Men will be more likely to end a relationship on an "impulse" and feel some regrets later on. Women are more likely to stay in the relationship longer, until they build enough resentment, the breakup seems less painful that way. Alternaltively, I believe that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:53 AM
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There is some poetic justice in that tea app "hack": People that wanted to dox on other get doxed in return. This is such a perfect karma situation that I wonder if the whole thing is some kind of artistic stunt. I mean, who is dumb enough to store that kind of data with no security ? Shit like this would get your company terminated in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:34 PM
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They don't have to, but then they sould also stop claiming they are attracted by a wide range of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:57 PM
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I did a little bit of homework about that app and it's hilarious how basically every men in the app are fairly attractive. The "women fighting for the top 20%" proven right once again. I'm pretty sure that it will also validate the fact that women close their eyes on obvious red flag if the guy is hot enough when will see things like "he was on the tea app but only for cheating on his ex, so that's not a big deal". i mean, if you have enough doubt about him to browse him on this app, you probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:33 AM
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Kind of proving my point by implying convicts arent a red flag. Lol , I like when you have no arguments any more and switch to distorting your interlocutor's words :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:22 PM
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I don't recal anyone saying that only convict chad are bad or that all convict chad are bad. Saying "if you dated a convictecd chad and he treats you poorly, maybe try to chose better next time" is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:19 PM
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"Choose better" is not victim blaming, you can keep repeating your nonsens and making your post with the same dumb video but it won't makes it right. :) "Did it ever occur to the reason this post got made is because redpillers regularly think women deserve rape, abuse, and murder because “she picked convict Chad”? :)" And people saying that are dumb, I believe that no one deserve to be rape, abuse or worse. well, a few people does deserve it but not for their inability to pick a bad partner. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:42 PM
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I didn't know that redpill teachs dudes how to pick other dudes. I'm a little bit puzzled by that revelation but if you say so. (I suppose you agree with me on the rest of my post)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:27 PM
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You are totally right on that, most of the time, it is very obvious. This is why those women don't confront those men, they deep down know that if they start a stand off on the wedding question, they are probably gone the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:40 PM
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For the record, OP doesn't answer when you give her example where "choose better" is legit. Since she keep bringing up that subject, we'll keep saying the obvious: Some men are bad, some women are bad to. Some are hard to spot but other display major red flags that you could spot easily if you don't choose to ignore them. For the people that decide to give it a go to those shitty people displaying major red flags, the "chose better" is totaly valid. I don't know if redpill is unable to detect ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:15 PM
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Since I posted something with education stats yesterday, here's my answer: Many times in this subreddit, I’ve seen men bring up statistics on gender imbalances that could be interpreted as being in favor of women, such as; Women receiving higher level education on a more frequent basis Women not dealing with as much unemployment Men taking on more highly physical and dangerous jobs and therefore being more at risk for workplace injuries It's not "interpreted", those are facts. The statistics you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:14 AM
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this was my answer the last time: For the record, not wanting to date a trans woman is ok in my book, the way he acted about it is out of line. But, I would not put that much thought about comment section of youtube of tiktok since you're garanted to find the dumbest people of the internet in those places. This video is a good exemple of "choose better", those women saw a dude acting like a morron and had the best reaction by opting out. Kudos to her. Now, what would makes it a little bit more i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:36 PM
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I have yet found a guy here who can tell me what this guy did wrong and why most women rejected him: That's bullshit and you know it, I remember this post you made about that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:13 PM
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This is going to be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:33 PM
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So to answer your question, Let me speak about my family, my anecdotal evidence being as valid as yours. My mother had an education, all of her sisters did, except one who didn't wanted to even if my grand parents urged her to go to college. And we are talking about poor rural France, they all get an education because they get scolarship from the governement (who wasn't trying to coerce them into traditional roles) If we go back a generation, my great aunt had a succeful career in a scientific f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:37 PM
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She didn't have an education or didn't have the RIGHT to have an education ? That's an important nuance. (I'll answer to the rest of your post later, it needs a proper answer that I cannot wright right now).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:16 AM
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This wasn't my question, you didn't answer to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:07 AM
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That doesn't make sens, my grandmother was alive during nazi germany, doesn't mean that they keep sending jews to death camps. Your mother can't vote or have a credit card? In a western country ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:55 AM
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I got a few friend like that: good job, tall and not overweight. They are not ugly, nor overly attractive, they are pretty mid on that aspect. You kinda have a point on the lame and boring, not because they are but because this is how women saw them. They are just normal peoples, without anything overly exciting about their lives but normality won't get you anywhere on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:53 AM
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Bad cold approach are so painfull to watch, this one is so bad i'm hopping it's staged. I really hope no one is dumb enough to try something so shitty in front of a recording phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:13 AM
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now this is the daily thread I like!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:51 AM
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The wnba is not profitable for now, when your company is hemorrhaging money like that, you probably start updating your CV instead of asking for a raise. Sure, audience are up and the league is finally getting some traction but it's mostly caitlin Clark doing the heavy lifting. If you apply the "pay us what you owe us" seriously, Clark should get millions, the other one should receive way less than they are currently having. Of course, it doesn't work that way in sport. I'm all for wnba players …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:49 AM
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Women: "We are sick of being arrased! Men, stop approaching us! Men: ok, we'll stop Women: No! Not like that! The equation is simple. If you want to chose the romantic interaction you get, you'll have to make the first move. If you want to be passive, you'll get whatever comes your way. Women collectively told men they didn't wanted to be bothered yet most of them won't make the first move but still expect the men they like to do it, go figure... Dating isn't ruined for women who are smart enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:34 AM
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I know a woman like that, her husband is cheating but she's just pretending it's not happening, as long as it's not in front of her and she can keep the lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:44 PM
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"If this guy isn't enough to be successful on OLD then societal collapse must be imminent." That's precisely the point: OLD is cursed for the large majority of men. EDIT: And this is his best pictures, he is not that good looking on the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:05 AM
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I'll put the line of success on OLD on getting regular (a least one per week) likes with women you are genuinely attracted to. And I don't think he's on that zone. Finding a LTR is a lot about luck, so imo it can be decorelated from OLD success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:03 AM
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I would say slighly above average but without any top feature (normal build, nothing really particular about his face) that not enough to be succesful on OLD. Granted he would score a few likes in a more populated area.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:50 AM
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Location + just being a normal looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:32 AM
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I met a few guys with that mindset and they were on the shorter side. Kind of compensating with an agressive attitude for there insecurities. Doesn't mean that every short men are like that obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:32 AM
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that sounds like a short and/or unathletic dude mindset. Anyway, this dude is insecure as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:30 AM
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I could not agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:53 AM
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Agree with that. The secret is to be pleasant, to master the small talk phase, to know how to make an armless joke... Doing that while you are giving the vibe that you don't really care if you'll see her again or not is basically all you need to know about "game".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:48 AM
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Dumb extrem feminist logic: If a dude is doing something awful, it's men's fault. If a chick is doing something awful, it's also men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:33 AM
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Expecting to find something insightful in the comment section of tiktok is something I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:29 AM
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Both are not exclusive: Women are desperate for commitment from the top guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:26 AM
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Aka 90% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:15 AM
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Agreed. It is so dumb I wish it's all made up and not a word is serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:09 AM
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A good therapist will urge you to be active and step out of your confort zone. Lets stop saying that ADHD is something that make you allergic to any kind of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:40 AM
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That's such a reddit thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:32 AM
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"But it doesn't even matter, men could change it if they wanted to. But you guys don't care about each other." It wouldn't change a bit. I saw women trying to guess a dude height by mesurinf the guardrail he was leaning on. As you said, male height was valued way before we started puting it on dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:29 AM
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"The height thing would go away if tall men basically told height queen to buzz off. " Nope, that wouldn't go away, those women would just stop saying that they only want tall men but would keep chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:40 AM
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I tend to think the opposite: Women do mind your ride. I used to have a sport car, women did notice it and used it as a conversation topic to break the ice. Even the one who don't care about mechanics like a good car. But nothing come close to a motorcycle, a sexy one is basicaly a chick magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:27 PM
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You are just proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:21 AM
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I'm very sceptical on that one. It might be something cultural (I'm french) but I rarely meet women who don't give a fuck about job and income. They want "the guy" but job and income are clearly a part of what "the guy" is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:58 AM
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I would say that the men VS bear was a (very dumb) way for some women to be vocal about that but I highly doubt that a large majority of women view most men as predators. If that was the case, those women would have quit dating a long time ago. Hell, even going out alone on the street would logicaly be a no go. Saying that some men are predators and that most men are predators are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:58 PM
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Define "being succesful". I would say that being succesful in dating means: "I have several options that are attractive to me" or "I would not stay in an unfulfilling relationship because I would have no problems finding another one". The fact that 70% men receive less than 3 likes per week on OLD prove that most men aren't at that level of success. I would say it has never been easier for the top 20% of men to date. They have plenty of options and face little to no consequences if they are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:35 AM
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Exactly, offline offers better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:38 PM
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Being "obsessed" with someone you barely met and show no signs of enjoying your company is not a normal behavior. If that woman wants to date psycho, that's a good way to start. I don't get that emotional labor burden things, why are you making it sounds like this is hard to do or unpleasant. You are having a good date, you like him and he likes you back, everything that follow should be pleasant and effortless. Why would you want to conceal that you want to see him again? what's the point? I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:28 AM
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"Saying “most men are fine” ignores that even one misunderstanding can ruin someone’s life, this isn’t about averages, it’s about risk." And what you fail to understand is that most men will never encounter a situation of "misunderstanding". Most men won't ruin anyone life, they won't jump on women, they'll go for a kiss (and would immediatly stop if this kiss were not returned). Some guys won't even risk a kiss even with a ton of signals leaning for it. Sexual predators, on the other hand won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:21 PM
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Well it does matter since it's the whole point of the discussion... The vast majority of women still view most men as sexual predators. Highly disagree, it does tell more about you than it tells about the majority of women. So this is something important for women to know. To know what exacty? I don't understand that point. Since women are the ones always telling men how they should know more about consent. Except around here, no women ever lecture me about consent. I guess it may happens IRL to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:58 PM
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The vast majority of men aren't sexual offender and have no reason to care about jail time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:22 PM
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No, saying that "Non-verbal consent doesn't exist" or "Men must ask consent at every moment" are terrible advices. I mean seriously: '-Can I kiss you? -I'm going to touch your arm, are you ok with that? -Is it all right if I gently squeeze your right boob?" Good luck trying that and not being mocked by your date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:38 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:09 AM
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Agree with you, I believe those kind of "commands" or wathever you want to call them are uneffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:56 AM
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Asking for consent isn't sexy, stop spreading that nonsens. It might be necessary if you can't read the room or in really awkward situations but most people are able to do that and most situation in dating are clear enough that asking for consent is not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:45 AM
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I'm not sure, I saw to many "a real man isn't afraid of a woman past" variation in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:31 AM
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Men want to be desired, we are not different from women on that point. If a woman tells she usually waits, and is consistent with it, most men looking for a relationship will be ok with it. If a woman tells a man that she used to have fun and puts out on first date but won't do so with him, most of the time, it will be interpreted by him as a lack of attraction. "What did those guys had that I don't?" If a woman pulls out early, some men definitely won't take her seriously, some men would be ok …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:28 AM
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there is this french quote that I like that basicaly says "A gentleman is a patient wolf". Delaying sex won't stop all of the fuckboys, but it will put away the dumbest and the impatient one. It will also give you more time to screen and find some inconsistency on what those guys want to show you. So I would not say it's a bad strategy, as long as you use it regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:36 AM
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People can do whatever they wants but they can't command other people to accept those changes. Also known as actions has consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:15 PM
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Exactly. This is not hard to understand: -"I tend to wait for sex, so I only had sex when I was in meaningful relationship and I would do the same for you" -> Good -"I had my fun, but this is over and you'll have to wait for it". -> Not good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:22 AM
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When I say attractiveness, I'm not talking about looks that's a very strong start, look is a major factor of attractiveness, especially for men. Maturity, wisdom, life experience, self-confidence, etc. These are very attractive traits! Those can be attractive traits, but mostly for women, men tend to not weigh them this high. It doesn't mean that they aren't usefull, but they are not very attractive. I would had that, even for women, self-confidence or maturity are attractive because they are li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:36 AM
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Same, this is such a dumb mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:23 AM
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Sounds good to me. The "wild phase" is worrying and I'll need to be extra sure about it. Context is also important, for example if all of her guy friends had a go with her, I'm out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:14 AM
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Yea I don't really believe people when they say "I have a high metabolism", after seeing some such people's eating habits" True. I used to think I had a very fast metabolism, turns out I just wasn't eating much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:15 PM
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Of course it's men using those extrem example, we are the one caring about bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:55 AM
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Because If someone say "I totaly don't care about X" it is fair to use that kind of extrem situation to challenge that assertion, otherwise you won't prove much. I also don't care about bodycount as long as I don't have to care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:46 AM
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Being manipulative does work, there is no doubt about it. That doesn't mean that you have to use all the dirtiest moves in the playbook. I would say that being in a healthy relationship is way better than being in a manipulative one, even if you are the one pulling the strings. I have seen many cases of women who waste decades of their lives with men who never marry them. That's on them for staying with someone who didn't wanted to settle for them. I doubt the best answer would have been to tric…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:35 AM
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I've never been more swiped on than when I have a mirror selfy shirtless photo, which is supposed to be a hard no when you listen to women. As usual, don't listen to what they say, look at what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:26 AM
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Both men and women tend to have sex within relationships, though the trend is skewed more heavily by women. Statistics back this up. I would love to see those stats, if a man have sex outside of a relationship, then a woman also have sex outside of a relationship, otherwise it wouldn't mathematicaly makes sens (If we are focusing on heterosexual relationships). I don’t know any man who would wife a woman who’s ‘slept with the whole town’. It doesn’t matter though because these women are merely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:08 AM
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I do not agree with that. I don't think that, for example, the pain you're feeling when you're being cheated on should be disqualified because "Its pain from your own mind that you created".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:03 AM
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I get it, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:59 AM
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What's unrealistic about my scenario? Imagine that your former sex worker had sex with your whole neighbourghood and all of your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:46 AM
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Avoiding something you dislike isn't being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:42 AM
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Congratulation, this is the dumbest post we have seen here in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:38 AM
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So, You really think that avoiding pain is being insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:37 AM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:36 AM
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Hypotetical question: You're dating someone and you learn that she have slept with the whole town, your friend included. Are you ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:35 AM
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You really think that avoiding pain is being insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:32 AM
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This isn't insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:29 AM
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haaaa, the good old "insecure" thing. I can promise you that almost every men cares about n count and purity, the acceptable threshold is personnal. There are some universal "no-no", for example "She slept with all of my friends before we get together". And women don't tell their prospective LTR about the kinda sex shes had with other men really Exactly, because they know that almost every men care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:25 AM
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It's not only about N count, the situation also matters for example : "I have a bodycount of one, I just fuck that homeless dude one night because he was hot" is above the red line for majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:13 AM
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<image> Usually, if you spend 10 000 hours on something and you are still on square one, you tend to realize that you are doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:04 AM
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"Men! Stop! The street, the gym or the workplace aren't space where we want to be approach." "Ok, we won't do it anymore" "No! Not like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:16 AM
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"this is a problem because there is a lot less of quality partners" You got it all wrong. If everybody is rich, no one is. If all men wakes up tomorow being 6'1 with perfect abs, it doesn't mean that every women will be satisfied. It means that something that was a plus before is now a given and other qualities will be used to determine who's part of the top and who's not. You can't really expend the elite, you just makes it harder to be a part of it. "Women are the selector" It's a little be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:36 AM
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Exactly. And this is what's wrong with the whole "consent is sexy" take: Asking directly for consent is a dead giveaway that a man is awkward which isn't sexy for a vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:56 AM
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whoever wrote this article should be fired immediatly, that is a painfull read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:45 PM
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I like how it is always said that the good old "Men are mainly jugded on their habilities to attract women" is pushed by the patriarchy yet, IRL, it's mostly women using that kind of insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:45 AM
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I agree, that was communication but in an ineffective way. It is a good example of something women tend to do a lot more than men: concealing a message under a vague or deceptive action or speach leading to unclear communication. That's obviously a terrible way to communicate a message. It is, however, a good way to test someone but imo that something you shouldn't do in an healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:25 AM
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Women: Men are bad at communication, women are way better at it Also women: This shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:58 PM
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Being generous and giving gift in the hope of getting something in return are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:02 AM
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I don't think I would buy anything for someone unless we become official, I'm already paying for most dates. Speaking on that video, any woman asking me for a gift like she's agressively doing so would be a massive pass for me (and for the majority of men i suppose). Edit: Video comment section shows that everyone think that this is some bad advices. Getting men and women to agree on something dating related isn't that easy. Kudos to her for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:52 AM
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