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mental healthDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/MensRights16/04/25 10:04 PM
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DiscussionDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:51 AM
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ConversationDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/seduction05/08/24 11:08 PM
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DebateDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:09 PM
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DiscussionDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:03 AM
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DiscussionDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:20 AM
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DiscriminationDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/MensRights15/05/21 08:23 PM
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DownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:50 AM
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Question For WomenDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:49 AM
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Question For MenDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:51 AM
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Question For WomenDownvoteIfYouWantMe/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:32 AM
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What're you talking about? I'm literally American lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:30 PM
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lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:07 AM
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Yeah that makes sense, but I feel it's mostly about protecting the gf from something like debris flying from the road or bumping into someone or maybe predatory stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:03 AM
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In Asia, it's a common thing to step between your girlfriend and a male stranger in the elevator, just to prevent any sort of unwanted touch that could occur, that's where that example was inspired from
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:42 AM
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I haven't heard of it in the context of children, but yeah I guess a lot of the ways parents guard or protect their kids is sometimes carried over into the protector role of a traditional relationship, maybe it has something to do with some women wanting a man they see as a good father in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:21 AM
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lmaoo the only part that truly bothered me was that I was being cordial "I definitely should've clarified that I meant protection beyond defending each other and looking out for one another. I meant something like unilateral protection" trying to be very soft with my tone and taking accountability for the phrasing and she still went on to accuse me of lying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:19 AM
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I'm not sure if it's my examples that suck or what it is, but I just mean protection in the form of prioritizing the girlfriend's safety. Such as if a big vicious dog ran up to both of you barking loudly and looked like it was about to bite, he would put his body in front of you to make sure you don't get bit. It's not about the single act in isolation, rather about the type of person he is to show his love for you in that manner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:55 AM
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Sidewalk rule is just gen z speak for walking on the side of road closer to traffic (which isn't really a reliable way to protect someone anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:51 AM
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I am mentioning it because you seem to think that just because sometimes men complain about things that are reciprocated it means every man that complains about something, it's done despite the thing being reciprocated when I literally specified that I am talking about a man who is the sole protector. So just because women complain about things that ARE reciprocated I take it that you complain about needing to protect women even when the man agrees to protect you? What I am doing is using your o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:47 AM
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Women complain about a lot of things that are reciprocated as well though, that type of thing is not exclusive to men. It is weird to do. I don't really care what you believe about me, as you are only proving my point about talking out your ass with your preconceptions (you know almost nothing about me). It's just a bit weird to think that you need to have the unilateral desire to protect someone to love them (when they literally won't do that for you). Your anecdotes mean nothing. Plenty of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:35 AM
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I think I mean protector to the extent of like a guardian. Like how a parent protects their child, but doesn't do the whole sweeping the area and having weapon training or whatnot. Whether it's done for a reward or (preferably to most I'd assume) just as a gesture of love. Small acts like let's say a dog runs up on both of you, a wild and big one, and he puts his arm in front of you while stepping in front of you so that if anyone is bit, it's him. Just overall prioritizing your safety over all …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:30 AM
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Sidewalk rule in particular is like Gen Z vocabulary. It's not exactly about those exact actions in isolation, rather about either having a guy who puts himself in front of harm's way to shield you whether emotionally or physically while not expecting you to do the same for him, basically treating your life as more valuable, versus having a guy who would choose to instead prioritize both of you at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:20 AM
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Men complain about pressure to protect BECAUSE it's not reciprocated. If it was a two way street, it'd be weird to complain about it. You are taking a discussion in good faith and turning it into an argument using your own preconceptions that have nothing to do with myself as an individual... You're being overly pedantic about the wording. Protection in this case as meant by me and many others when discussing the concept is specifically a one-way street. If you don't even believe what I am sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:04 AM
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sidewalk rule is just slang for when you're walking with your partner, the guy is meant to be on the side of traffic whether it's people or cars. The elevator thing I don't even know what I was talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:11 AM
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I definitely should've clarified that I meant protection beyond defending each other and looking out for one another. I meant something like unilateral protection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:09 AM
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Sidewalk rule is just slang for walking on the sidewalk and the guy walking on the side closer to the cars or to other people. That and the elevator thing were just examples indicating that he wouldn't be very chivalrous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:04 AM
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ah, by spending on each other, I just meant in terms of putting together money for groceries and rent when living together and stuff like taking turns paying on nights out and stuff. Similarly, not expecting either person to spend more on gifts for birthdays or the like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:38 AM
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I know, it's just a question for each woman though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:42 AM
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Well what's the basis. You have a different basis for men and women in the exclusionary phase, but at the same time you also impose the limits of what can be used as considerations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:49 PM
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You marked the post as a debate... there's no such thing as reading too much into a flawed example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:39 PM
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The issue is that the elligbile group's existence is dependent on knowing whether or not they are eligible, which isnt the case for the women filtering out any guys based on anything except appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:34 PM
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But how is the girls supposed to even know who's elligbile and not when you can't even tell if someone has a job or not or if theyre stable or not just by glancing at them? This isnt anything like the comparison or guys automatically excluding other guys, because 99.99 percent of the time, you can tell within less than a second of looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:25 PM
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What you're saying just isnt accurate because it relies on the girl knowing a lot of information about the 50 guys in the room. To know all this about the guys, you'd have to actually talk to them. The most interesting guy they wanna talk to most will be the one who's best looking. Regardless, being clean and stable is the expectation guys have for girls too. Why do you think guys wouldn't reject a girl who's not clean and stable when there's pretty common discussion about how guys often don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:18 PM
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Romance anime is like the only type of romance content predominately directed towards men, but in popular romance animes, the ML and FL are often fighting together side by side and stuff, or if it's really 100% romcom like Horimiya or something, there don't seem to be those dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:58 AM
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How am I blaming women at all here? I'm not pointing fingers. This in itself is a debate. Not all people agree that this is a harmful thing to society. I'm on the side that it is. Thats all. Idk what your last sentence has to do with anything but ive been 18 for many years already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:30 AM
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Whataboutism again in this thread, how exhausting. This is a debate post yet youre moving the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:54 AM
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Do you realize that sexual health, performance, and how men view sex and women is literally mental? When did I say "mental health?" I said "mental." This conversation is exhausting considering you're not debating in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:59 PM
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Why would I go into depth about the effects of porn on men's mental when thats literally not what the post is about at all? I already concisely implied what needed to be expressed. You criticizing me for going into this topic is under the basis of men being mentally impacted by porn? Do you realize that's just straight up whataboutism? How many posts are there talking about the effects of porn on men? Now how many are there for the topic of my post? You expect we don't focus on issues where wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:55 PM
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It's not restricted to simply being a waitress. In this plots, the women are often workers in a company where they take a business trip or something. Or it's with their boss. If you think it's as fake as a car turning into a robot or something, what do you say about the cases where things like this have happened in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:36 PM
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Clearly it's not rare enough for research and data to back my view. And secondly, you say you read my post, yet you literally just told me what I already have in my original post about men and porn. Needless to say, that doesnt actually counter my point at all... if anything, it supports it. Not to mention, there are plenty of males who have and will quit porn for that reason. Theres also male influencers who urge other men to do the same. If you think that women are somehow perfectly able to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:35 PM
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I understand what youre saying, but the difference in animals talking is that there is a clear line that differentiates that stuff as fantasy or fiction, meanwhile romance dramas and movies are realistic enough that people have their mindset molded by it, as research shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:28 PM
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I'm really getting that you didn't read the post at all. These dramas don't promote getting flowers and being taken out on reasonable dates. They promote high variances in power between the couple where the guy is some rich young millionaire who has time to be the perfect guy physically, intellectually, and socially, all the while sacrificing his own professional and social life for her while being given nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:26 PM
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Did you even read the post? There are studies showing that this "fiction" isn't seen as just fiction by the subconscious. Women being allowed to like romance versus most romance content delivering a message to them that makes them have unrealistic expectations and standards is very different. Love isn't about what you deserve but in these dramas or movies, what women supposedly deserve is exactly what the content targets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:22 PM
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Yeah... my girlfriend was only my friend for a month or two before we became more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:54 PM
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Saw this clip earlier today where the dude goes a bit beyond just being an asshole. https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/s/mNiZMky7cg What this clip also doesnt show is when he was asked to rate the girls, he gave all of them super low ratings, yet they all still rated him highly afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:27 PM
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Hmm makes sense. I guess it depends since usually I see guys calling one a dad bod with girls calling the other a dad bod hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:58 PM
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Ahh that does make sense, got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:56 PM
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Hmm, I think 4 is typically the one associated with the term dad bod and 7 is the usual athletic build with 6 being chubby and 5 being bodybuilder. The difference is 9 is skinny athletic while 8 is just skinny since it has no abs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:55 PM
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Thanks, it was extreme for sure, but now id rather be bulky and eat good than only once every two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:50 PM
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Got it, my girlfriend also said 4 with 3 in second place, but I'm surprised 4 isn't optimal fat level in your opinion, seems to be around 20 to 25 percent bodyfat to my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:48 PM
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Completely understand. For me it was even to a point where when I was a bit overweight and I saw how some of my female friends reacted to abs, I started doing ADF (eating only one day every two days)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:16 PM
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Would you mind giving an example? Like from this picture which is your ideal for a physique given they all have the same personality, can still make the same amount of time to see you, like you just as much as the other body types would, etc. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:14 PM
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That's never been my thing really but I guess it appeals more to the people that do it as a sport rather than a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:07 PM
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What percent bodyfat would you realistically say youre at? Sounds like 15 percent ish? Or more like 20? (Seeing Jeff nippard's new video, it becomes apparent that 20 percent is actually still pretty lean if you have muscle)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:07 PM
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Thanks for the input! Super appreciative of it! I've just been contemplating between like 5 different hobbies and each of them would have me end up with one of those physique from the categories and I'd be totally okay with any of them, but since i was a kid I always had a (maybe unhealthy) obsession with being as attractive as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:06 PM
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For sure, but I also think they're extremely rare in comparison to the rest. Even someone like Alex Eubank has a physique out of reach for most people without steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:03 PM
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Where do you think the feelings of pleasure stem from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:47 AM
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"Weraring the pants" in the relationship isn't appealing to me whether I wear it or my partner does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:50 AM
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What you're saying makes sense. I can definitely agree about the numerous man-children that there are who expect everything to be done for them. They basically want a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:23 AM
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Hmm that makes sense. I am happy for you both! Maybe the part of finding him paying on dates is attractive for some subconscious reason. For me, it'd mostly be about the fact that if I was the only one to pay for dates and I maxed my date budget out, we wouldn't be able to go out as much since we'd be going off one person's budget rather than two, which wouldn't bother me if she did end up investing her date budget of the money back into our relationship or into gifts or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:13 AM
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Well for men, there's factors they can't control that matter too, most infamously, height. As well as wealth. It's the fact that the acceptance of and engagement into these norms digs the hole deeper. You don't have to find a partner that cares about age or body count. I am not sure what expecting the man that already doesn't care about such things does to promote inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:28 AM
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I do understand the part of gauging his interest with if he pays and I definitely respect alternating on dates. For the food bill, in a relationship, I tend to pay a bit more often since I eat a bit more. I just dislike that I don't get to find out until the 2nd or 3rd date how they feel about finances in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:18 AM
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Is it about attraction? What part of it causes it to be what you prefer? Not having to worry about finances on leisure days? Also, do y'all share mortgage costs/rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:15 AM
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I feel like accepting a man's offer to pay and expecting it is a bit different. I offer to pay on the first date, not because I am a man, but usually because I'll pay on the date since I plan or initiate it. If they don't offer back on the second date and also the third date, I'll probably be turned off of that person. I feel that expecting the man to pay does reinforce gender norms which in the end is an oppressive patriarchal social structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:46 AM
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I find that some women will claim that they're feminists, but they will still want to enjoy some of the benefits of the patriarchy. Things such as the man paying for dates with the justification that women are pressured to take significant amounts of time to look like a woman or because of pay gaps, or being attracted to gentlemen, but it just sounds like an excuse, especially considering the importance of being the change you wish to see in the world. They're just feeding into the toxic norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:16 AM
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In life yeah, but this question was specifically designed for something a bit more objective than happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:23 AM
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That is true, but they have no control over anything as far as what is done to them in regards to plastic surgery, steroids, or anything else toxic. They're basically a Ken play doll
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:56 AM
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That sounds disgusting. I can't believe such workplaces exist. Can you tell me the name of some of these disgusting organizations so I can never go there?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:46 AM
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The men aren't winning if they're not winning the competition. How are they winning if they're not getting the highest N count? The reason that the question is asking what a man needs to have sex with many women as the benchmark is because typically men who are good looking and charismatic enough to have a lot of sex, don't struggle to find relationships and probably have a higher overall social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:45 AM
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Then why comment at all? Just to put yourself on a high horse for being better than the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:09 AM
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How is it even disgusting in the first place? One is bacteria ridden food that is extremely unhygienic meanwhile the other is a question about real world occurrences and hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:09 AM
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Yes... that's typically how a competition works. People compete in races, MMA fights, the Olympics, and many other things without ever reaching their goal or succeeding. How is this asking for advice to con women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:06 AM
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It was clearly implied in the post that the 100k was meant to be used to glow the guy up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:04 AM
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And therefore not actually disgusting since no one is hurt. Yall take things too seriously. The whole focus should be on maxing the guy's sex appeal and women also want sex. No one is being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:03 AM
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The question isn't about making him happy, the whole point is about performance. This is like asking who would win between batman and superman and then answering by saying that they wouldn't fight in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:02 AM
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He has a year. The amount of progress you can make in a year starting from 0 isn't even close to the ideal male body meanwhile steroids will get you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:01 AM
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You wouldn't and that would mean you lose, which is going against the entire point of the question. If you wouldn't even try to win, why comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:59 AM
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The issue is that maybe he'd sleep with one or two women there, but then, especially if he was already rejected by now, he will get a bad rep as a fuckboy there and not be able to succeed anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:58 AM
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Then your argument is limited
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:55 AM
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By not demonizing the very people who supported and voted for your side by grouping them indiscriminately with people that share the same genitals as them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:49 AM
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Most people are shallow to an extent. Your post isn't about avoiding shallow people, it's about women not being into "bad boys" because fiction isn't an indicator of reality, but the difference is that you're comparing a show directed to children which is animated versus a movie depicting real people acting which is directed at women who want to watch romance related stuff and so the character they give the actor matters. Most men also feel pressure to be more masculine. Most users of porn, only…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:25 PM
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You're right about the second part, but the thing is, a large portion of women are shallow. As as men. Studies will back up the fact that women will care about height, eye color, and of course, masculinity. Bad guys and seen as the most masculine, especially the ones from 365 days or 50 shades
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:39 PM
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You said you love her, are you already in a relationship with this girl? If so, the advice you need is different from getting with a girl like that in the first place
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:14 AM
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Wow this is a really good explanation. If i catch my future girlfriend cheating on her diet I'm insta dumping her. Seriously though, this explanation of it puts it into perspective
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:19 AM
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Hmm the last part of what you said; do you mean that as in they will not like skinny guys despite saying they will or that they will like skinny guys even if they say they like muscular guys?
/r/seduction06/08/24 12:05 AM
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Actually this helps me understand much more. I also experience romantic and sexual attraction separately. A girl with a big butt and defined lower back and a toned upper body will make me feel the "DAMN" feeling in my stomach, but a girl with soft features and a slim feminine build will make me feel soft in the heart.
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:39 PM
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Well I just mean not up and not down by significant amounts. If I was a 6 I'm cool with a 5 6 or 7 but not 7-10 or 1-5
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:35 PM
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That's why one of my biggest issues is trying to figure out if any given girl is more or less attractive than me. I don't wanna date down because then I lose the perks of having a more physically attractive girlfriend and don't wanna date up because i don't want to be the one feeling insecure and nagging.
/r/seduction05/08/24 11:23 PM
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Give up all my friends and family here just to risk my odds of liking a whole new country with people I can't make the same jokes I do in the US because they barely speak the language? Nah I'm good.
/r/seduction27/07/24 01:25 PM
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If she doesn't want to get fit it means she doesn't share the same values as me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:22 PM
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Personally I think it's because of society. The patriarchy viewing women as the prize and men as the ones that need to be "man" enough to win that prize. And then on top of that, sex being something men conventionally pay for and women are paid for. So basically, just socially ingrained outdated things. On top of all that though, social media for men going and finding women seems to be to work on themselves in the gym and make money and make more friends, expand their social circle, while for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:18 PM
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Ahh, thanks for letting me know. The responses are understandable in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:47 PM
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I just don't understand how everyone in that comments section is somehow picking up an implication he never made. They seem to think he's saying that the ladies won't be happy if they're single or that they have to get into relationships with men they're not a good fit with. He just said that some people will have to settle. Not "all single ladies will have to settle." It seems obvious that he is addressing the high expectations of people in the dating market, which commonly on social media has …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:53 PM
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No shit it's more complex, but for straight women, a penis is how they will get sexual gratification in the best way possible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:08 PM
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This is not data for sex drive differences within the bounds of a relationship. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/citedby/10.1080/0092623X.2011.606877?scroll=top&needAccess=true This one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:23 AM
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I don't think that's all women have to offer at all. That's what people in this thread are saying in response to me asking what women offer than men can't so I was saying that. I don't want kids though and am fully prepared to cook and clean, except I'd be doing it half as much which is great since I'd have a partner and not a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:30 AM
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Ironic considering that data backs up that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:12 AM
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They literally say it's because they have a high value by just being themselves. He's also being himself yet he has to pay... it implied she's better than him in her mind. In the first video the girl said she brings her feminine energy to the table... the man brings his masculine energy as well, so where's the balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:09 AM
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Marriage data just doesn't support the claim that men make here. It's just coping. Yes money is a part of the smv of men, but the things that are offered by women such as sex don't compensate for the men providing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:03 AM
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They're more interested in paying for sex. That's a much different concept than interest for sex within a relationship where the sex drives are often much more equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:44 AM
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No, that's not the basis of this post. It's because of the reason given when asked why the women expect men to pay on dates, and its because they believe their value is high implying its higher than a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:44 AM
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Men don't go "fuck that guy. At least my biceps are bigger than his" because of a girl they're dating any less than women think "I hate that bitch, he's only with her because he doesn't know how ugly she is without makeup." We can argue baseless things like this as much as we want, but the way society works has changed very much. What part of egalitarianism would only be on my terms? How is wanting a woman who doesn't view a man as unworthy of her because he won't spend his hard earned money on …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:39 AM
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It's not really a big factor to invest your youth, beauty, and fertility in him. Men are using up their time or youth as well for dates, they're using up their handsomeness as well, and many men don't even want kids anymore. As for the risk of being harassed, a man also risks being harassed or humiliated. There's less risk for rape, but with many dates being in a public location, it makes less sense for that to be a factor for a date, especially if you know the guy already. I don't see the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:31 AM
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Seeing a penis is much different than feeling one. Women have been sexually suppressed for centuries, yet now that they're becoming more independent, hookup culture is getting more rampant and women are having more casual sex... go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:26 AM
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There's countless scenarios like this where a woman will be dating someone 6'3 ripped with a full head of hair and a sharp jawline and her friends will giggle over that man with her. Yes. I want an egalitarian woman or else I would much rather be single. There are far too many things that I could spend money on for enjoyment for me to want to spend it on someone else because they feel they deserve to have something I worked for just for dating me when I'm dating them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:24 AM
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That is way too unrelated. Men are more prone to be interested in casual sex, they have more safety having casual sex with a prostitute, and if they're just looking for a quick fuck, it may be cheaper to go get a 40 dollar bj instead of going on a date and maybe getting laid after
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:21 AM
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Women are not valued for their fertility. Many men don't want to have kids in the first place and besides, men are valued for fertility as well. Not only that, but women also value youth for men nearly the same amount as men value it for women considering that average age gap is about 2 years in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:17 AM
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But a man brings a penis...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:06 AM
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Hotter man = more status as well though. If the women aren't settling for a guy who is less attractive than them, why would they need to be paid for on top of that? This topic isn't dumb. It's not just about certain women wanting a guy that pays for their meals, it's about women placing a value on themselves higher than that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:06 AM
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Haha of the disadvantages you listed, I don't have a problem with any of them, so it's nice to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:19 AM
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But then men that don't view women as sexual objects are also punished for just existing just as women who don't see men as secondary wallets are punished by men leading them on for sex with them and calling it off. Besides, I don't think seeing whether a guy will pay for you or not is a good indicator of if he actually wants you or just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:16 AM
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Hmm I respect your perspective, but for me, I enjoy some independence and self-reliance for my essential stuff, id just have to find someone that's more introverted or something maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:28 AM
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Why do you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:27 PM
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Ideally, we'd share chores like cleaning the house, washing our separate laundry on our own, and we'd buy our own groceries to cook for ourselves or occasionally make meals for both of us which would be a rotation thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:04 PM
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Wouldn't it be immoral to join something like that with the major intention being to meet girls to potentially date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:18 AM
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Haha gym is not somewhere girls want to be approached from what I've seen on reddit and tiktok. Gym and grocery stores seem to be a no. The issue is for college I have all online classes and my main gym is a BJJ gym anyway, so 95 percent are males
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:24 AM
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Honestly I'm not really sure what other ways to try since I don't drink so bars aren't a thing for me and as for social clubs, well my hobbies are all solo stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:13 AM
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What I'm saying is vaccines have scientific evidence that is objective and doesn't need to incorporate subjective mental experiences. Also, those are studies on porn addicts. The majority of people are not porn addicts. Regardless, such tests are not proven to directly and completely reflect one's emotions. Even those psychologists against porn would admit that porn by itself isn't harmful, just like sugar itself isn't harmful. Most people don't get addicted to either one, yet it could be someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:10 PM
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There is a big difference between vaccines killing people which can and has to be proven to be useful and accurate. The stakes for believing such things at face value are also much higher. There's no scientific tests that take into consideration how one truly feels after such periods of nofap except subjective evidence which is exactly what is being given on reddit as opposed to objective yes or nos to people dying from vaccines. I mean there's really no reason to limit porn intake unless you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:24 PM
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You can see on reddit there's many posts about not even just no porn, but nofap itself having no effect on people. Unless your addicted, this sort of thing isn't a big deal as people say. Regardless, I don't think that most people couldn't quit porn if they wanted to. Most people aren't addicted. Most people just don't see a reason to quit. If they're not seeing negative effects in their life from porn, why would they? Lastly, sure porn activates sexual arousal regions, but so does one's own ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:10 PM
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That percentage has no basis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:50 PM
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Honestly, I've done no nut for 6 months because I had 0 free time during those months, and I was always on the edge waiting for the moment to hit where it was like "This was worth it. I have improved," but such a moment never came. The only difference there was, was the few minutes of the day I saved. My view on women didn't change, my standards didn't increase, and my confidence didn't fly up. I think lots of people have this same experience. When watching porn, I believe the majority of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:50 PM
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But it's not about reels. It's about the comment sections. I can find plenty of reels where the post itself is hateful and ignorant. What you're saying is that at a comedy show, if a joke is told and someone in the crowd reacts to the joke by yelling a slur, it'd be invalid to say people of comedy shows that speak are disrespectful and bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:00 PM
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How do you think you're going to get "serious" material on such an abstract and arbitrary issue? There's no statistics to put to a subjective question like this and secondly this is not a debate either. It's a discussion post on people's views of instagram comment sections with is entirely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:04 PM
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They're not joking though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:19 PM
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Yeah, the comments are just gender wars in dating related instagram reels I find. The first 3 comments I see on the reel when I open it all have over 4,500 likes and are "Bring masculine men back PLEASE," "Sissy men era, I mean sassy men era," and "But why didn't you text me first?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:19 PM
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Did you even read the comments? They were completely serious and if you read the replies to their comments they defend their viewpoints fiercely. This isn't the best example for content nor comments nor did I claim that it was. Regardless, if you don't think those comments were toxic, then the only things that would be toxic are things that negatively impact women or minorities?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:41 AM
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Why are you adding a negative connotation to him acting like a woman? There's nothing wrong with a feminine man just like there's nothing wrong with a gay man. Plenty of women love feminine men anyway. Regardless, is masculinity not about being independently powerful? If you're so masculine you should have women chasing you, not you chasing women. If you're going out of your way to hold the door for women, buy them gifts, etc. then you're being a "simp" and therefore putting yourself in a submis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:37 AM
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Yeah the video isn't the issue though, the comments are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:55 AM
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It says men prefer, but doesn't say they're more attracted to. For women It's about attraction, but I bet for a lot of those results on the man's side, the prefer a shorter girl because they will feel more confident in their attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:16 AM
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But that's about morals or beleifs in the context of ethics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:45 AM
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It isn't hypocrisy. It's not hypocrisy to want a trait in someone that you don't have
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:15 AM
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Finding the trait attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:08 AM
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Most people don't find women so easily. Maybe you're just very attractive or rich or something. Most people literally complain about how they're unable to find a single person in their life they connect with from their teenage years all the way up to 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:00 AM
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Usually in the US (not sure if you're from there, no offense if you are), we move in before marriage anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:56 AM
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A lot of times I’ve seen men open up about any past sexual abuse experiences, some women go and call it misogynistic lies because “they make real abuse appear as less important.” It’s crazy how often it’s assumed that women are the only ones that can go through sexual abuse.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 02:07 AM
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