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DiscussionDownvoteMeYaCunt/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:17 PM
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CMVDownvoteMeYaCunt/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:33 PM
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Modernity is Lonely, emasculated, and sad for men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:26 AM
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All the good parts of men for women's benefit. And none of the bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:23 AM
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basically, a broken dating market is "harder-on" men since men needed more from women romantically than vice-versa
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:24 PM
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Yes, I can see how men's complaint doesn't make sense to women, since women get a lot from their female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:23 PM
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Generally, I feel like you can't impose one gender's value system on another but hey, that's just my hawt take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:13 PM
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If someone is unhappy with dating, dont have kids. passing on bad genes would be unfair to that kid, who'd similarly be unhappy with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:45 PM
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What's the most petty reason you've dumped someone? Boredom? A better option presented herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:45 AM
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yep women love to keep their options open these days After all, a better dick might come along any minute And we cant feel guilty if we havent formally commited to that 1 guy we live with who pays rent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:43 AM
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"I wanna keep my options open because I not-so-secretly hope I can do better than you" women just win dont they
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:39 AM
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For most woman, most men are willing to overlook most of her flaws and deficits But for most men, almost 0 women are willing to overlook even a few flaws Its unwinable for men. Whereas women win from the start. Profoundly hard for women to lose at life these days, because people just care about women, whereas that is simply not true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:11 PM
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men get angry when women have height, income racial, and body preferences, even if women say nothing negative about guys who dont satisfy that standard IMO this is because of how men were raised in the US. Society tells men to work hard and make good decisions. pay taxes. Be a nice person. Treat women respectfully. etc. IN RETURN, the idea was at least 1 or 2 girls would take interest in you and believe in you, be attracted to you. Not just to your money or the attention you give them, but to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:05 PM
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ya cus everyone cares about upvotes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:52 PM
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Life sans consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:50 PM
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do men have implicit communication? No. Fuck no. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:11 AM
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saving their own percieved value yep this is a key point Ego. Wanting to feel important, high value, etc. is the primary motivation for everything we do Ego makes us act so selfish, superior, judgemental, etc. Dating and sex are all about ego / self-esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:07 AM
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men will lie and cheat in the first place originally I hadnt planned on lying or cheating but between this sub, OLD, and Are We Dating the Same Guy, its abundantly clear that there's no point in being honest today as you'll get burned anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:58 AM
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from this subreddit, its clear women play dirty irrespective of how I act therefore it doesnt make sense to treat them honestly when they wont / wouldnt do the same for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:56 AM
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push someone who isnt interested how is a guy supposed to know if she's pretending to be interested because she is too scared to say "No thanks, pls go away"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:03 AM
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i can lie and cheat not asking for permission m8
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:43 AM
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sure then dont complain when the guys you like are dishonest, lie, cheat, date multiple women at the same time, dont disclose things you wanna know etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:35 AM
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but women expect ugly / unattractive guys (aka 90% of guys) to know that we're not good enough and therefore shouldnt even approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:17 AM
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reading this as a guy....., this almost sounds like a conspiracy No one talks about this publicly. Its like a secret girl code / system to subvert men the only rational response as a guy is to escalate and revert to dirty tricks like lying, leading her on, playing multiple women at the same time, pretending to care about her, pretending to be woke etc. guys can rightly justify any amount of lying, misdirection, pretending to agree etc. because its a fkn conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:10 AM
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pivot you mean like, to dudes? bois!!!! We were the answer to our problems all along bros, because you cant get the hos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:12 PM
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most ppl arnt worth impressing such as urself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:41 AM
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ya im anonymous sir idc if u think im a virgin ffs lol im not here to try to impress women there's more to life than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:59 AM
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somehow nothing is good enough for women these days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:38 PM
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orgasm gap ??? what a joke perpetually the victim lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:50 AM
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far more picky about everything tbh except maybe body count, not many girls care how many women a guy has been with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:52 PM
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since when should the happiness of women matter more than the happiness of men? women are not inherently more important and valuable than men or do you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:37 AM
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Women happy & Men sad -> unfair Women sad & Men happy -> unfair Women happy & Men happy -> fair Women sad & Men sad -> fair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:34 AM
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its asymetric he's not special she's not special but he's sad whereas she's happy call me crazy, but that doesnt seem fair at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:27 AM
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women like attractive men nah, the problem goes well beyond simply "liking" attractive men i like models. By "liking models", I mean that I recognize that they're hot and attractive But I'm not entitled to a model. More importantly, I dont deserve a model, because I am just an avg guy. I dont want a model GF because I know wouldnt be good enough for her. And that's fine. Call me insecure and lack confidence. I call it self-awareness and humility. Whereas these avg women want nothing short of Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:38 PM
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women are monsters for being attracted to attractive men avg women are cringey and entitled for not happily settling for an avg. guy avg guys would happily "settle" for avg women, but the opposite is not true, and that feels really unfair for these plain Janes, its Chad or nothing so cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:32 PM
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if Jim from the office is considered goofy looking and barely clearing the bar for facial attractiveness for most women.... then its truly over for 90% of men. Which indeed is OP's point. This commenter proved OP's point exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:28 PM
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of course they dont like me but not because of my personality, which admittedly could use some polish no, rather its because I'm not top 95% percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:48 AM
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loyalty by choice Guys want girls to actuallly like us for who we are, and who aren't chronically distracted / playing attention games with the 20 other guys in her orbit Do you like me, or do you like my attention and how having lots of male attention on-demand makes you feel? want a wife who hates you jfc no, pls see above explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:28 AM
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no not you, I'm talking about avg women who wont settle for avg men because they think they deserve so much better it's entitled and cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:21 AM
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its so cringe She thinks she deserves Chad but she's just avg plain Jane how can someone be so entitled its like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:17 AM
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Men want to not be alone Women want to be with Chad or, failing that, be alone Men will settle for avg women Women will not settle for avg men Chad will not settle for avg women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:05 AM
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woman who hates your guts I'm wondering how many 1950s women hated their husbands I guess a lot of those marriages were not for "love" or sexual attraction avg Women resent not being with high value men , but she's not a high value woman , she's avg.... Avg Women resent idea of "needing" avg men, e.g. financially/ social pressure for marriage etc. She would rather chase Chads or be alone than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:03 AM
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Women want sexual freedom (de-stigmatizing "slutty" behavior). Sex without commitment or consequences. Eventually she picks the best guy who'll say yes as her husband, until he gets boring or she otherwise finds a better option. Men want a woman who is loyal, who hasnt slept with 100 guys, and who lets him make the decisions / take the lead in the relationship These are not the same thing. Women want to be unapologetically hypergamous . They're picky. Very picky. Men want women who are loyal, se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:56 PM
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Feminism is to men as companies / businesses are to workers / employees Men are losing in every way these days, and are gaslit into thinking we're insane men -> employees simps -> loyal employees women -> companies patriarchy -> union / collective male interest feminism-> corporatism misogyny -> disliking employers / system that benefits them misandry -> lazy, ungrateful employees
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:41 PM
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Feminism has created brand new problems for men, because what women want and what men want are different and oppossed Feminism denies that it has done anything to ruin men's lives by gaslighting men into questioning our own self-interest. Advocating against feminism IS the "legwork" Feminism is the problem. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:34 PM
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Isnt the point of feminism making life great for avg women, hot women, and ugly women ? using male quality of life as a benchmark
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:29 PM
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what would feminist scholars say of the women who are drawn to the men at the top? like Jeff Bezos's GF or Elon Musks N ex-wives / GFs Is it merely coincidental that those women end up with high power, high influence men? Because those men have terrific personalities lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:27 PM
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not trolling, trying to make user realize how off putting their unreasonable standards are maybe they knew, but maybe they didnt. And now they do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:02 PM
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No, there indeed is something to complain about bc that one difference is leading to insane gender / sex differences in quality of life metrics Just cus its natural doesnt mean its right FFS
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:33 AM
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all the difference in the world right there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:30 AM
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who died and made you king stay in your lane, pls and thx
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:27 AM
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watch out guys, we got a badass over here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:24 AM
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dude, I could not relate more I hated my life as a SWE when I had my own "big boy" apartment, nice car w/monthly payment, laundry, utilities, cooking / takeout, etc. I was always at best kind of tired or utterly fatigued. I was working at a startup for realistically ~50-60 hours per week in San Jose I hated it. I got fat. I was so sad all the time. No energy to date or go out. Then i quit and moved in with my parents, and embraced the lying flat movement. Now I'm waaayyyy happier with my life. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:24 PM
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fair enough. that makes sense and is good that they were treated equally still, not hard to find examples of pretty women either not needing to work hard or, if they do work hard, making more money than other ppl who are working harder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:07 AM
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As an attractive woman, yep The money for the effort is a great deal for hot girls who btw dont do either of those jobs for long Waitress and sell until you meet Mr Right and then chilax as Ms Right Sounds like a pretty good deal to me But sure, for guys and unattractive women, its work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:26 AM
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+1 like, JFC people have to go to a target college , get a +3.5 GPA , and then work 70 hr weeks as an associate in iBanking. And most dont make it due to no name school, bad GPA, poor network, bad interview performance, burn out etc How on earth is waitressing harder than iBanking? fkn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:25 AM
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not my fault they're too proud to cash in on their InstaFans value But more importantly , its bc they dont need to publicly wh*re themselves out to make good money Work as a waitress in an expensive restaurant or in sales. Pretty women dont have to work hard if they dont want to and they can keep their dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:11 AM
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good post about the truth hierachy of the pills. Each pill has its pros and cons. Its kind of a "Glass is half empty or glass is half full" thing.... individual preferences for cognitive dissonance and where you focus your anxiety and ego....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:41 PM
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fair point. OLD feels like a video game that reflects your value and worth as a human being (at least as a young straight guy, this is how me and my friends feel / felt for a long time) And the conclusion is our value is pretty much 0... Hard to cope with that belief...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:39 PM
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this is definitely blackpill IMO (based on my experience since becoming aware in 2019) Redpill is more cringey, with more outright misogyny and the fake belief that Its just your behavior and mindset bro. Go to the gym bro. Money maxxx bro!! etc. Not that those are inherently bad things , but their unfounded overconfidence is just nauseating IMO ... its so much cope and self delusion with these 40 yr old dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:09 PM
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This comment is amazing, because at first it sounded pretty smart and insightful But after thinking about it for a moment, I realized that these are 3 seperate things: Sex - A decision requiring mutual consent Empathy / Sympathy / Compassion - In the same way you would for poor people, poverty, anyone facing pain and adversity. Dont be cruel Honesty - "I just dont find you attractive, I'm sorry." These are seperate things. Empathy and honesty are what we are asking for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:00 PM
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We want two things: sex OR honesty. If you dont want to do sex, then please be honest about why or at least dont gaslight / mislead / lie about our bad personalities as the main reason for your decision
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:52 PM
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But men ages 18-55 are all vying for a small pool of women ages 18-30 At minimum a 3-1 ratio, at worst more like 10-1 of DTF men to DTF women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:40 PM
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sorry, lost my receipt showing that water is wet you'll just have to take our word for it m8 unless you wanna cause a scene about how water aint wet LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:05 PM
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No, but you definitely do shame ALL men for "misogynistic" behavior Why? Because its good for you to do so. If more men act the way you want them to, then you get what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:03 PM
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lol men dont care about "valid" we care about getting what we want valid? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:11 AM
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avg women worked very hard to have access to top tier cock they aint gonna give an inch, since they love getting all the inches
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:14 PM
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oh only men can be abusive is it? lol women cant lie can they , silly me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:21 AM
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She wants to keep her options open , that's all Hell, maybe they both think they could do a lot better Let's say she's a 6 and he's a 7. As a 6 she has slept with , or could sleep with, guys who are 9s and 10s. So women tend to think they can upgrade more ao than men, because sex is on tap like water
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:48 AM
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1 to 2 new sex partners in a year -> Not a slut 3-4 -> very Sexually active more than 5? Hello, welcome to slutville So from 18 to 28, if she's had sex with fewer than 5-15 distinct men, definitley not a slut more than 20 men in her 20s? yeah kinda slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:44 AM
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Anti slander and privacy laws are gonna make these giant female FB groups go away How do you like it when men share nudes and amatuer porn of their exes? Or mention how many guys you've been to his friends? ya you probably arent happy with that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:40 AM
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lots of things have always been common place that doesnt justify them. And no, it doesnt make them inevitable There's an incentive structure for women to know about bad men, and gain social points for exposing low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:36 AM
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pigeonhole him into BF ya gurl, you might miss out on a better one you get that bag, queen such a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:29 PM
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bartenders and waitresses with high sex drives are untouchable The Triple Digit club and here most men never even get to the Two Digit club lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:21 AM
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egg freezing will be a human right in a few years here lol And I wouldnt be surprised if feminists lobby for compulsory steralization of low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:19 AM
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this confirms my worst possible fears caring, successful BF grows and supports his GF. At first she's amazed by him and his cleverness, resourcefulness, and general efficacy at life. He provides an honest mirror that she needs to be better. He gives tough but useful advice when it is for her long term benefit, despite her short term push back. He is patient, detail oriented, considerate, empathetic, and generous with his attention, bandwidth, and money. But then she meets his friends, and his fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:31 AM
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this is the correct answer the music stopped sometime during the late 1980s / early 1990s debt, old money, tech money, cheap consumer goods, and American real estate bubbles have masked the general widespread devaluation of the avg man and consequent lack of opportunity The train is already well on its way to the destination. No stopping it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:25 AM
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avg Janes want hot rich men to marry them and be super loyal / devoted to her its pretty cringe TBH like a spoiled kid who no one was ever honest with, never told him that he isnt actually special cue the entitled women of reddit exclaiming get that bag girl yass queen slay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:12 AM
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What is it? intuitively, you would think its your looksmatch but IRL , no avg women want nothing to do with equally avg men Avg women want only the best cocks who you can attract ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:03 AM
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are bad marriages good for kids? Depends on how bad. I have a lot of respect for parents who are unhappy with their marriage but nonetheless stay together, putting up a facade of happiness for their kids. Sacrificing your own happiness so someone else can have a better life is noble and poignant. when you see it, it can warm your heart like nothing else. but its unfashionable in a narcissistic world of independent baddies , yass queen slay, get that bag, girl and Epic Girl Bosses female empowerm…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:53 AM
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jfc... no. Its very much NOT OKAY to let marriage problems impact a kid. I meant I respect parents who put their differences aside and put up a facade of marriage happiness during the important years of a kid's life (idk, from age 0 to ~15 or 16 yrs old), so their kid has the best childhood he / she can have. That is huge sacrifice, and those parents deserve respect for putting their kids ahead of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:46 AM
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You sound bitter yes like coffee do you have kids / have you been married? nope and probably never will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:42 AM
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are bad marriages good for kids? Depends on how bad. I have a lot of respect for parents who are unhappy with their marriage but nonetheless stay together, putting up a facade of happiness for their kids. Sacrificing your own happiness so someone else can have a better life is noble. when you see it, it can warm your heart like nothing else. but its unfashionable in a narcissistic world of independent baddies , yass queen slay, get that bag, girl and Epic Girl Bosses female empowerment? looks a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:28 PM
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if you wanna put in extraordinary effort only to be rewarded with ordinary outcomes, by all means have at it m8 sometimes the only winning move is not to play the game at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:15 PM
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.... see that over there? that's my point. and here you are. .... jfc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:10 PM
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bad marriage for whom? (its a rhetorical question to illustrate my point, pls dont answer it lol )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:07 PM
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why be with an avg guy to begin with? correct. Lots of avg women have come to that conclusion. Avg man doesnt benefit an avg woman. So avg women dont marry / date avg men. So avg men are all alone and no one cares about them. So avg men play video games, smoke pot, get fat, and live with parents since there is no point even if he tried
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:06 PM
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possible states/outcomes for a marriage between spouse A and spouse B: Good for both A and B Good for A, bad for B (and vice versa) Bad for both A and B Today, most marriage are mutually beneficial which i guess is good for society broadly and is good in some superficial sense But marriages that only are beneficial to men are less and less common
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:58 PM
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marriage can be bad for spouse A and good for spouse B ideally its mutually beneficial but how often is shit ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:53 PM
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sort of fixed for women worse for men zero sum happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:50 PM
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good for who? that's the question most ppl actually care about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:49 PM
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Ya bc marriage rate has been falling ever since Bad marriages dont happen as much, because women are hyper picky and would rather be single than with an avg guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:28 PM
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stop gaslighting Address the claim implicit in OP's post: hot women have life so good, ... its almost absurd You're trying to redirect. OP came here to debate and have his view changed. So ffs, challenge OP's claim pls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:23 PM
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jealous he doesnt get to fuck as many men .... ... nope, pretty sure I dont wanna fuck men just so we are clear on that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:17 PM
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lol classic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:15 PM
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15 minutes / day as Chad's slut GF >>>>> 24 hr/day Avg Joe's wife
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:23 PM
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most men are unaware cucks or are in denial of being a cuck every time we pay taxes why do i pay taxes ? for all the single moms out there!! Everybody now, a toast to the single moms, this one's for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:20 PM
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If a good enough guy comes along, every girl is "single"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:17 PM
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jeez maybe its because we're mostly young single men with no kids that we kind of expected that we could / should also go for young single women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:46 AM
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lol your position is hypocritical ... and i guess that's okay with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:29 AM
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ya know what else? There isnt a double-blind placebo controlled trial to prove definitively if standing in the road might get you killed FFS man its pretty damn obvious if you just look around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:10 AM
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nah the better solution is to not give a F if you come off as creepy. Infinite confidence. Then whatever they say rolls off like water. Adopt the same dellusional mindset as women: "Yes I am a 9." Just make sure what you say, your body language, and clothes are not creepy. Only approach in the appropriate enviornment. Dont approach when she's alone nor if she's with a big group of girls. If she's with 2-3 other girls is best Also having a wingman who is in your league is helpful. If you with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:11 PM
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my comment above wasnt intended to engage with OP's question. "Does a hoe phase benefit women?" I was decribing what a hoe phase looks like w.r.t why she does it, what happens as a consequence thereof, etc. Is there anything wrong with chasing Chads all your life? Depends on who you ask (probably best not to ask that question in this sub lol) To OP's question: "Does a hoe phase benefit women?" Idk, nor do I particularly care. She's an adult and can decide how to live her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:19 PM
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oh and you did? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:23 PM
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...this comment is so out of place in this sub m8, this sub wasnt made for playing politically correct gender equality games
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:10 AM
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said the rich man to the peasants... lol good for you for playing out porn scenes IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:06 AM
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its a power move: Because she can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:01 AM
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in the short term, they get attention and validation intermixed with heartbreak and feeling inadequate when he doesnt pick her in the long term, they get a high body count and unrealistic expectations of what kind of guy they believe they deserve. Some think that, because they've slept with Chad(s) one night, they can have Chad as a BF or a husband, and he'll be just as hot and sexy but also much more kind, loyal, considerate, and financially together. Her future Chad husband might be only 1 swi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:57 AM
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This comment adds a lot to the conversation. Thanks for the deep insight m8
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:31 AM
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disagree. Confidence is a 10" dong. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:40 PM
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and they want to be in the C-suite too And once they're in the C-suite, they complain that no guy is on their level... jfc there's no winning with them ffs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:38 PM
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misogynistic is a catch-all term for any idea or thought where women aren't the protagonist, or that doesn't align with the interests and incentives of women, i.e. the pursuit of Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:36 PM
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LMAO let's fking go OP!!!! love you bro hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:35 AM
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not just the money. the time. not having a job while you travel, even traveling frugally, is not possible for many white collar professionals I'm lucky to get 2 weeks off, during which I just recover from the previous year of work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:19 PM
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because they cant get the guys they want because they want guys who are much better than they themselves are. they'd rather be single than be with a guy who doesnt deserve them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:08 AM
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your lack of empathy is astounding. What exactly and specifically in OP's post is delusional?? Delusional means inaccurate. How is OP wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:06 AM
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LOL its a matter of scale employed vs. unemployed is misleading its more like $250k/year income vs. $25k/year avg woman vs. avg man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:04 AM
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rich people have problems which is great, but i as a normal middle class person dont care to hear about their problems in fact, their problems kind of upset me like "Which Ferrari to drive today???" As i look for bread to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:02 AM
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but they dont cite dating because that would be hard to believe is there even one advantage a man has in dating over women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:01 AM
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terrible advice for men, most of whom want to be seen as attractive education is one of the few, miniscule things a man can control that impacts his dating life FFS please do think about what kind of life your field of study might get you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:41 PM
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What greed is to corporations, hypergamy is to women Its a good strategy. I'd do the same if I were a woman, because its the rationale thing to do But just as corporate greed means more expensive and lower quality products for consumers, hypergamy means less access to sex for avg. men So yeah you've got more choice. But men now have less. Its zero sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:41 PM
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...okay you might be correct But no one else here is operating with such a strict and narrow definition of hypergamy , as you've probably noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:21 AM
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OP's claim that female hypergamy is the defining feature of feminism: Better lives through Freedom from Low Value Men and the Freedom To Choose High Value Men You then counter that hypergamy is only applicable to marriage Even if this is technically correct, you're not engaging with OP's claim that feminism is a means of advancing women's interests, of which Freedom From Low Value Men and the Freedom To Choose High Value Men is one, and the Men's Right/Obligation To Simp another and you add in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:19 AM
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They dont seem unhappy. They're pursuing happinesss. The 50% of women who are all chasing those top 5% men, are very happy as they pursue that goal. IMO as a guy, from the women I've been with, a lot of them would be fine being single forever so long as they had their weekly dose of Good D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:03 AM
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How was hypergamy possible when divorce was taboo? If she didnt marry right on the first man, then she was trapped with him. Today women say "Thank you, next." In their perpetual quest for quality cock
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:00 AM
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short men whinning is that like Fat Girl B*tching? see what i did there. its not so nice, is it. so how about you show people some basic decency. TY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:56 AM
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oh its the objective. source? Natural Selection. Why would they pick an ugly guy to bang? Women are not dumb and most are not asexual, so yeah women like hot guys. Water is wet. CMV lol Whether women admit that they have strong innate preference for hot men, and that somehow every year they get easier access to hot men, is beside the point lol Or maybe consequence free female access to hot men is just a happy unintended side effect of policies that feminism has lobbied for the past 60 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:49 AM
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she can do that almost any night she wants (a 5 girl can go out and get a 7 guy for a ONS almost any night CMV) unless her standards are laughably unrealistic, e.g. a 4.5 woman chasing male 9s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:42 AM
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He claims that modern 4th wave Upper Middle Class White Feminism is about advancing women's interests , a consequence of which is making dating a better deal for them Hard to argue with his point TBH. Feminism is lobbying for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:39 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:54 AM
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Gangbangs. Everyday. Giant. Penises. Everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:54 AM
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most men are slaves to our sexuality. It f*ckin blows Whereas women almost couldnt give less of a shit about men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:15 PM
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This works for high value men. Does not work for anyone else though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:13 PM
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somewhat agree, but with online dating it definitley feels like 50% or more of women are indeed going after the same small set of men , i.e. the top 5-10%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:54 AM
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a top shelf man and a man she is truly attracted to are the same thing dunno how this is even debatable 90% of women are interested in only the top 10% of men. If they cant get one, they'll be fabulous and single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:15 AM
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Because now women have even less of a reason to want men: after all, women can get money by themselves So for a guy to be worth her time, he has to make * a lot* of money. Otherwise he's providing her with something she already has
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 AM
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fair points m8
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:28 AM
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sorry accidently posted this in the wrong place: never claimed it was socially acceptable, but was probably less socially unacceptable than it is today. Arranged marriage is arguably a form of sexual assault. Certain Islamic countries have Sharia law which kind of condones sexual assualt it was more common in Western countries back then, mostly because it was much easier to get away with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:53 PM
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never claimed it was socially acceptable, but was probably less socially unacceptable than it is today. Arranged marriage is arguably a form of sexual assault. Certain Islamic countries have Sharia law which kind of condones sexual assualt it was more common in Western countries back then, mostly because it was much easier to get away with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:36 PM
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lol sorry m'lord
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:14 PM
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....um social norms, technology, and law enforcement were entirely different in 18th century America / Europe dunno how this is not obvious maybe you were assuming 1950s whereas i was thinking 1750s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:08 PM
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yep that's what non consensual intercourse is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:32 PM
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common sense JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:31 PM
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Correct. In the 1700s, Billy Beta was a blacksmith, lived to age 42, had 4 kids, 2 of which died but NBD that was expected, and had a wife who was a 6/10 though she did not marry him by choice Today Billy is a fat bitter depressed 30 yr old virgin living with mom and dad playing video games, has no social skills, no job, only some college education. He'll live to 85, but will hate his life all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:18 PM
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non-consensual intercourse was more common back then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:12 PM
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six figures is really not at all impressive in coastal tier 1 cities. mid six figures is respectable 7 figures starts to be impressive call me out of touch, i could care less. A mediocre starter home by 1980 standards costs $1 million in my city. Desirable homes are $5 million. Most white collar jobs dont even pay enough for a guy to make rent without room-mates
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:11 AM
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he also went to one of the worst schools w.r.t hot men and women. UCSB is a breeding ground for hot people. If you're an avg looking, short or fat guy, you're gonna feel pretty out of place there unless you're inherently confident/oblivious AF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:12 PM
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if this is intentional, its hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:01 PM
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ER was not "attractive" IMO, but rather was not unattractive He was just avg to slightly above avg for 18 yr old men. Within UCSB, ya he was maybe a bit below avg avg and ugly men are facing similar dating and Tinder prospects these days. So if OLD isnt working for you, its not necessarily because you're ugly. You're probably just avg. And no one gives a F about avg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:58 PM
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LOL ya life is great when you pretend that a few hot guys arent getting all the babes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 AM
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I mean him constantly being kind, thoughtful, considerate and caring, doing the things she wants each week, etc Sounds like the early phase of dating when a guy is desperately trying to impress her and keep her attention Sounds f*cking awful and exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:53 PM
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Plantation owner: What's wrong with some folks working for free against their will? If you're a woman, its pretty awesome to have a guy "dating" you, i.e. desperately trying to impress you and who's secretly terrified that you might leave him and he'll have to find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:47 PM
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Redpill: some of their advice is valid and following it will make your life better. Bluepill: They're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:42 PM
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lol they just take it for granted. They do love the option to have hot sex whenever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:28 PM
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this makes women sound entitled, picky and impossible to please Women want Hot & Loyal & Kind & Financially successful What if I told you avg men usually dont get even one of those things in their entire lives??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:27 PM
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truly attractive women who age well and take care of themselves probably do not feel invisible until they are 45 or 50. Which is insane. 30 years of your life where sex with super hot people of the opposite sex is on tap all the time like water. A reality only for women. Even attractive men wont have such a long run in most cases. The avg woman has unlimited access to sex with hot men. This is insane in a world that preaches that women are at a massive disadvantage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:05 AM
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Correct, except its not late teens to 30, its late teens until 40-45. Hell even 50 yr old women who age well have waaaayyyyyy more decent options for casual sex than will the avg guy in his mid to late 20s Actually that avg guy in his 20s will struggle to pull a cougar on Tinder/OLD. That's how insanely asymetrical things are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:59 AM
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Lots of women are unapologetically fiscally progressive. Socialism and communism are cool when you're poor, after all. Laws and social norms that encourage avg Jane to settle with avg Joe, reduce Jane's casual consequence-free access to Above Avg Addam and Top Tier Tom, or reduce the number of Joes willing to give everything to Jane.... Heeeelllll nah. They want none of it. Simps give unlimited attention, validation and money. Manipulate and abuse them, they'll never leave. No adverse social con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:18 PM
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yes why was it reported?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:03 AM
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you dont think I'm a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:08 AM
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gay for pay i accept money from men so they can do what they want with my body
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:58 PM
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... tried that, didnt work. doing G4P these days. Its not as bad as you'd think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:35 PM
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yep, once the reward of women becomes too unobtainable for most men, societies destabalize look at polygymous countries where a handful of top men have dozens of wives. These are the least stable countries on earth, because young men have no future and therefore nothing to lose. so why not flip the table when its obvious that you cant win the game America is heading in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:22 PM
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by choice men dont have that choice and lemme tell you, we wish we did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:19 PM
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Pyramids were built, wars waged, empires expanded.... all just to impress women. unironically Its quite sad tbh... like I wish there were a deeper, more admirable motivation for everything I do, but alas no... its all just to impress some silly girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:18 PM
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Here are the stereotypes about what men and women want: Men want on-demand casual sex with a variety of hot women Women want 1 hot yet sweet and loyal man, her prince charming
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:10 PM
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I think you mean If women want relationships more than men do, then dont men have an advantage in dating? In the same way that men want casual sex much more than women do, so women can be picky with casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:52 PM
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Better yet, how about women stop being so picky and just let their hair down? like F The gays (men) have it figured out: they dont have absurdly high standards for casual sex, and they F like rabbits I unironically wish i were born a gay man. they look so much happier, not being p*ssy whipped and such....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:49 PM
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birth rate would plummet though lol imagine if both men and women had women's standards for casual sex and relationships No one would ever get laid Relationships would be impossible When one gender has sky high standards, the other gender must be weaker in order for relationships and sex to happen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:45 PM
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simps gonna simp cant do much about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:42 PM
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agreed we're our own worst enemy we (men) are the competition although women increasingly also like dating women, so that doesnt make things any easier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:41 PM
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You'd have to be top 98th percentile for men between ages 18-45 for it to really be a significant ego boost IMO being moderately attractive just isnt impressive to anyone these days. the bar for men to be attractive in casual interactions is insane today, even compared to 2015-2018
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:51 AM
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I think you mean Black pill, not Redpill Redpill maintains belief that by working on yourself, i.e. behaviors, you can attract hot women Blackpill dismissess that idea, instead claiming that facial and physical attractiveness are the most important determinants of being attractive to women Facial and physical attractiveness are not easily changed, therefore the blackpill mindset is inherently more pessismistic and bleak (Doomer meme)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:39 PM
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...isnt the problem with inc*ls that they have hateful or violent beliefs? which imply / incite violence etc. What's wrong with looking up to sexually succesful men? ... I guess you're trying to prevent guys from oggling over how much they want to be that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:34 PM
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i'm anything but a feminist, but even i admit that it was socially taboo to be a single woman in America back in the 50s It wasnt as easy to just get a good paying job to support herself as it is today, with all these Epic Girl Bosses
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:44 PM
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Honey, you should be flattered that I care about your loyalty and ability/willingness to buy stuff for me and the kids (whose biological father you are not...) Sexually? No, you're not attractive whatsoever. At best you're bland, at worst you're repulsive and I barely tolerate you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:35 AM
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weird how? asymmetric toes? ate pizza with a knife and fork? he wore crocs? cargo shorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:04 PM
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You know who else gets to do nothing and yet has the opposite gender worship them ? Women. yeah even and especially avg women, who now think their hot shit due to the Simp Army The lack of self awareness is baffling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:29 AM
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their actual goal is to have women prostrate themselves before them ... and what's wrong with that? Just as many women dont want a relationship: they're riding high on a wave of male validation and desire If one day all straight men just stopped being heterosexual, women would be amazed at how empty and disposable they feel when almost no one gives a shit about them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:20 AM
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Most men dont want to be happy. They want to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:44 AM
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and only from specific men JFC that's the most important point. Analagously, I'd be fine with a hot 10/10 model doing almost anything she wants to me without my consent. But I would not at all be okay with an ugly chick doing anything to me. Hell I dont even like seeing them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:36 AM
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that subtext is not at all obvious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:33 AM
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then dont be avg lol that's the plan buddy boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:17 PM
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if you were a woman, your husband could fuck someone else if he wanted to I dont think you appreciate how hard it is for an avg or slightly above avg man to have sex with an avg woman in her 20s and 30s... it takes an obscene amount of work and luck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:20 AM
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Why would I ever give someone that kind of opportunity to hurt me so deeply??? No thanks m8, would rather die alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:03 AM
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Her option to sleep with hot men whenever she wants is like an emotional/psychological gun that she could use against Adam at any point. You know how women dont like feeling physically smaller, weaker, less muscular and powerless compared to men ? Those are valid insecurities. Well this is the male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:00 AM
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Here's an employer-employee analogy to help you empathize. You know why I'm so terrified of getting fired at work? Why I'm bitter, angry, and jaded about my company and the broader job market? Not because of my performance, which is great. Its because my employer can choose to fire me at any moment, and the difficulty of finding another good paying job, that makes me angry to no end Q: Will my employer ever fire me? A: No probably not. Q: Will my performance ever slip substantially? A: No I care…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:49 AM
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You missed the point. It doesnt matter if she's slept around or not. (okay it kinda does as that'd be disappointing and it would validate male fear and proves my point) Its that she can choose to sleep around whenever she wants that makes men feel weak, powerless, insecure, less than, and constantly vulnerable Abandonment and getting cucked are just 1 bad argument, 10 minutes of Tindering, and a 20 minute rideshare away Nothing you can do about it as a man whatsoever. This is even a problem for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:35 AM
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If I'm a 6, then I'd only truly trust my partner if she were a 4, or 4.5 It has to be such a large gap that she aint never gonna do better LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:39 PM
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but its kinda humiliating and emasculating for Adam that Anna has probably slept with a few Tall, Hot, and Hung Henrys And even if she hasn't, she literally can choose to be getting plowed by a hot guy at any given moment. Every avg woman in a relationship is only a few tinder swipes and a 20 minute Uber ride away from pound town with a hotter guy In this video game of life, that's overpowered and needs to be nerfed lol Edit: Only thing stopping Anna is shame, if she has kids, or some stupid eth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:40 PM
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exactly. The avg guy in a club in NYC/LA/London/Paris is 5'11" - 6' 1" , and facially is a 6-7. Not only that, he's also got his life together , i.e. has his own apartment, nice car, and good white collar job. He can have a conversation, probably played a sport in high school, and is generally likeable. That is the avg young man in these yuppie cities. He's in the top 90% of all American men between 22-35. And he's still not exactly impressing any women in that club as he stands next to hotter, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:06 AM
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When men have high sex drives, willing to F anything, and women have low sex drives, baseline have 0 attraction to the bottom 80% of men, are financially independent, and are only interested in dating 2 points up, 3-4 pts up for casual sex.... its leads to the scenario that you and OP have described: women are single quietly banging hot dudes, or are in relationships with guys who are 1-2 pts more attractive and who's essy to control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:56 PM
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wow that's surprising libs in america act as if northern europe is some eutopian paradise , but evidently not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:57 PM
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fair point about obesity w.r.t older grnerations, but in California fat people arent a huge problem for gen Z and millenials
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:44 PM
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as OP pointed out, it kinda kills the mood if the woman had slept with like 10-20 guys and here's Mr I've Never Had Sex sitting in front of her with an awkward look on his face If it wasnt awkward before, its definitely awkward now that she knows he's a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:39 PM
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was also 23 coincidentally. Was still in college at the time tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:35 PM
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i wouldnt want to give a woman the satisfaction knowing its my first time. That creates a bad power dynamic... But ya, odds are you as a woman are much more experienced sexually than 90% of men you see day to day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:56 AM
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yep. that's how i got rid of my v card. Wont ever forget Brittany from USC... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:53 AM
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Americans aren't uniquely unattractive IME lol Badly dressed, stressed, and depressed than Western Europeans? Unquestionably. Less facially attractive? No not as far as I can tell. If Netherlands is normal then sure we're short, but the Dutch aint normal, govna
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:15 AM
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those metrics include old people they arent even playing the same game so they bring down the stats lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:13 AM
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tech bros are usually at worst avg attractiveness for their age group. Its hard to be a bro if you've never had any. And its hard to have ever had any if you're below avg.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:11 AM
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middleclass tech bro for the middle class tech bros reading this, your competition obviously isnt the bottom 40% of American men across all age groups... Your competition is a small set of hyper attractive/succesful men in their 20s, 30s, and 40s who get nearly all the desirable women / sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:08 AM
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her trust a ONS or her trust? jeez idk which i care more about LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:03 AM
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um Emily are you okay?? jfl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:33 AM
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Those high SMV men are banging a rotation of 50-100 women a year. Most of those women are avg attractiveness, and many are even in their late 30s so either you dont live in a coastal city with good looking people, or you're in denial of how awesome life is for women in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:46 PM
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the buck stops with you, doesnt it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:50 PM
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not a bad idea tbh...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:28 AM
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I guess this is a Debate sub and I'm saying that there's no point in debating bc ppl wont change their views...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:22 PM
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how is this low effort lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:21 PM
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IMO the labels define the sides of the debate pretty clearly most disagreements here boil down to differences in fundamental beliefs, personal circumstances, and desires that cannot be reconciled with debate Blue pill Naive, delusionally positive optimist. above avg attractiveness, usually top 30%. at least 5'10". life is a Disney movie. Confidence, Hard work, hygeine, and personality are all that matter. Lots of cope like Good things happen to good ppl etc. If woman, people literally open doors…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:43 PM
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if you dont like pills, why are you even on this sub? like jfc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:52 PM
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women almost never explain why they reject a guy. i mean why would they lol, they have nothing to gain by humiliating him lol If he's 5'7" and a 5' girl rejects him, its not obvious that height was the problem, since everyone pretends to be so progressive and equity/equality focused these days (which is all BS virtue signaling)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:43 PM
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good for you, but not every dude is blackpilled. these women who lie that height doesnt matter are perpetuating blue pill lies (although even a lot of blue pillers know and quitely acknowlege that height matters lol ) they arent toddlers, they dont need to be told tell that to the 15 yr old autistic guys reading this stuff who are trying to figure out what actually matters to women these women are gaslighting naive young men to believe that water isnt wet its fkn lunacy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:39 PM
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"progressive" take on men in dating: -Sympathy: avg men recieve almost 0 approval / positive feedback from the world, unless they put in enormous effort to do something extraordinary (which by defintion, avg men are incapable of doing...). Niether men nor women value avg men, whereas both men and women value women -Most men you see are sexless, are not at all desired by even avg/low tier women, and are generally viewed as disposable and taken for granted by much of society -Supporting long term …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:06 PM
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fiscal conservative -> its your job to financially provide for yourself. Food, shelter, etc. are all on you and you alone. No government assistance, no progressive taxation , no UBI, no welfare etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:59 PM
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ya lots of ppl in here are entirely missing the point and cant seem to awknowlege the hypocrisy of being a Progressive Liberal politically but a staunch libertarian in dating /hookups/marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:35 PM
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are you fiscally conservative? Or is it that you recognize that even if we wanted, there's nothing that could be done by society / the government to help avg men? e.g. tax breaks for heterosexual marriages that last > 5 years, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:33 PM
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it might not be your fault that you're poor, but its your responsibity to deal with it This is a political take. Some people support government intervention to help correct for unfair circumstances, e.g. progressive taxation and UBI, becuase they believe that there's essentially nothing that the avg person can do to meaningfully help themselves financially. which i think is true of the dating market: 0 chance for 5/10 avg Joe to sleep with a hot 7/10 Jane. Republicans, conservatives, and liberta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:23 PM
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The source is discontentment is how unbelievably challenging it is to be sexually and financially desirable to women Avg Jane these days is seriously not impressed nor content with avg. Joe. She wants a top 5% guy. And the women who are legit 8s,9s, and 10s? Its Elon or bust for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:17 PM
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that'd be a huge turn on for me tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:30 AM
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I'd wager that the hottest guy the fat promicuous chick has slept with is not too far off from the husband of some instagram supermodel So believe me, the gini coefficient for women is way less than it is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:10 AM
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If she had forced him to wait 6 months - 1 year of dating before sex, that would've filtered out any and all guys who would've ghosted her Guys like that dont have the patience to go on > 20 dates before having sex only a guy who is fkn crazy for her or who has 0 other options is gonna go > 10 dates with no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:00 AM
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so if a guy leads a girl on, implies that he wants a LTR and really cares about her etc etc... And then ghosts her after consensual sex.... He commited rape and sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:54 AM
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based and big-swinging-dick-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:16 PM
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but delta seems like incel speak so im not going to google it why do i even bother fkn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:06 PM
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LMAO delta is a math term meaning difference or change Delta is used when discussing graphing linear equations, e.g. "rise over run" aka slope of a line is a kind of delta More commonly its used in conversation as in "what's the delta between X and Y?" -> "What is the difference between X and Y?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:04 PM
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If she communicates that she doesnt want to do something, then nbd we wont do it But I can't read her mind lol. And if she lies and pretends that she wants to do something that she really doesnt, well how the hell am I supposed to know that ? Or do you think I'm still being unfair, and that we as men should just not ask if she's into anal, ATM, deepthroating etc? I guess we could let her initiate these things but idk if women ever do that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:54 PM
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Did you settle by choice? He had some other amazing qualities, an "X-factor" that swept you off your feet? Or because you were running out of time to find a good one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:48 PM
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What is your "type" and what is your husband? What's the delta between them? Let me guess, your type is the super hot male model, but your husband is just a slightly above avgerage guy who is in decent shape, but otherwise has a great career and is very emotionally supportive, shares values, is loyal to a fault etc? Btw, who is the more loyal, you or your husband? Who holds more power in the relationship? Who cares more about the other person? Who do you think is most likely to cheat or initiate…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:45 PM
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If a woman likes getting her ass eaten out but wont reciprocate, that's such a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:40 PM
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Consent is consent dude, idk what to tell you If you as a guy are hot and desirable enough for her to swallow her pride, then so be it lol Do you know how many things guys do in life that we dont want to do, yet we do them anyway because we have to to get what we want?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:37 PM
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extreme acts like anal? deepthroating? Rimming? what specific feat of sexual athleticism are we talking about here lol? I'm not asking her to do cartwheels on my dick lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:33 PM
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sex is to men as heroin is to a heroin addict... yes, technically he has a choice, just as the heroin addict does
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:32 AM
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its an explanation of male horniness, not a justification for sexual assualt jfc, I'll accept your apology now thx
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:30 AM
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right I forgot that fat, short, and uggo men are just innately creepy AF and gross lol Mom/Society: Its wrong to judge a book by its cover Me: um...mom...., how could you be so, so wrong...fml..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:37 AM
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Its like realizing that santa isnt real... Give the guy a break, the world just got a lot darker and more depressing for him oh this isnt hard mode I'm playing on... this is impossible mode... jfc And her over there... she's playing on tutorial mode...wtf...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:30 AM
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every guy needs to have this epiphany for himself. And when he does, invariably it hits pretty hard. he's forced to accept that something he assumed his whole life is wrong, and that life is even more unfair than he had thought Its almost impossible for this not to make you jaded for a few days, weeks, months.... years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:28 AM
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predatory men less than perfect men um excuse me but I think the 2nd one is the more common case. Predatory men exist sure, but I dont think they are the norm Predatory men is like 5%, maybe 10% Men who are anything less than perfect is like the bottom 90-95% of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:22 AM
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yep. They only want a guy who is: Top 5% in face for guys 22-45 6ft + Good physique Top 5% income/wealth for guys 22-45 Has lots of time to spend with her And is also super charming, charismatic, generous, loyal, competent, shares the same values, etc Yet these women wonder why its so hard to find a guy who meets this, eh hem, totally reasonable laundry list of standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:14 AM
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it doesnt last long, like I get over it after about 5 minutes but those 5 minutes are aweful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:49 PM
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idk its just something we're biologically compelled to want even if we hate ourselves and everything immediately after we cum
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:07 PM
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lol unrelated but yes you're correct about that although IIRC he spelled it Mac Truck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:46 AM
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Ever feel gross and sad after eating a really unhealthy meal? Like where the food wasnt even good but you ate it anyway for some reason? yeah, well now you know how most men feel after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:42 AM
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No one forced him to fuck her His biology did, actually. Just like your biology compels you to eat. Men didnt choose to be uncontrollably horny. It was just good strategy for spreading the genes: 0 parental investment: your bastard will be raised by a competiting tribe/male who wont even know the kid isnt his. It costs you as a man almost nothing to have sex with a low tier ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:34 AM
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post-nut clarity and shame hits you like a mack truck ugh what have i become
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:43 AM
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ya but the self disgust and self hatred men carry with ourselves lasts a long time... guys pretend its nbd, but it makes me shudder how low my standards get when im horny so many bad decisions made lol gonna need therapy in 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:42 AM
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women are more likely to initiate if they know you I tried this in high school and college, and it almost never worked , i.e. female friends never made a move 95% of the time I was just an orbiter in the friendzone. If I didnt make a move, nothing would happen Only time I ever got laid was when I made the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:56 PM
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the upside is that you might get to put your penis inside of her thanks coach, this is what i needed to hear jfl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:52 PM
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TLDR if you believe in fairness, you should take issue with female privilege : avg women are not entitled to better live than avg men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:53 AM
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yes Female indifference doesnt mean that women consciously hate men. But the side effect of their indifference coupled with men's inherrent desire for women means that women enjoy much better lives than men on avg. If you think that racial and economic inequities are wrong and unjust, then it follows that you'd also agree that societal gyno-centrism is unjust and wrong. Racial inequities are wrong not just because they were originally motivated by hatred and prejudice, although obviously prejudi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:46 AM
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Female privilege is very real. And it exists because men want women so badly that we will do anything for them Do you know how many women's lives are awesome simply because men like them? A lot. If those same women were men, their lives would be shit because no one would care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:53 AM
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At least half of the bottom 50-80% of men will spend their lives simping for women as beta buxx The issue is that women achieved "equality" for themselves but maintained all their gender privileges, i.e. that men are desperate fools who will do anything for women Meanwhile in 2022 men are still stuck as involantary slaves to women I guess having male slaves is a form of "female empowerment". True equality would mean that no one wants to sleep with you, no one holds open doors for you, you get 0 …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:48 AM
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The first 3-12 months of my relationships are AMAZING!! Why cant guys just be like that forever??? Because its mentally unsustainable and exhausting trying to be Prince Charming 24/7... The lack of empathy is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:07 AM
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lol I think you mean that the relationship gets more equal after the 3-4 month honeymoon phase when the guy is putting on an exhuasting facade of dancing like a frantic, obsessive monkey desperately trying to make the best impression possible. god forbid he lose your attention and you get bored of him because in truth he's only human So when he finally feels comfortable with you, i.e. that you wont leave him the instant he lets up a bit and goes back to his more relaxed baseline self, ... this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:03 AM
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Women want the best guy they can get who also meets their lofty, ever-higher standards Anything short of that is by defintion settling Girls like to size up their pursuers on dates. Dating is a like a job interview process. Girls dont like to be super specific about what's wrong with a guy, but they have this lingering thought: He's nice but can I do better?...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:55 AM
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bc they like feeling flattered, wooed, oggled, treated like a princess etc. Free food is nice too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:52 AM
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hm yes you're correct if indeed all adult men are chasing the same small pool of highly desirable women I think its also because women are most sexually active between ages 18-30, i.e. that's when they're horny AF and their sex drive drops like a rock past 40 So if only women between ages of 18-30 want to have sex, and because men want sex from 18-death, then all men are trying to have sex/pursue young women, which indeed would create an 80/20 rule The root cause of this 80/20 problem therefore …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:46 PM
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If > 40 yr old guys really are all chasing women < 30 yr old, yeah that is a big problem The thing is, the 35 yr old avg women is just as entitled as the 23 yr old avg women these days. Actually the 35 yr old avg single woman might be even more entitled with unrealistic expectations since she has been with so many men and knows just how hot and successful the truly top tier men are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:25 PM
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Most guys just want a GF who is within +/- 5 yrs of his age, who has a similar level of physical attractiveness, similar income, similar life values, etc But all else equal, yeah women between 20-28 are usually the most sexually attractive to men. But just because those women are the most attractive doesnt mean a guy isnt also attracted to a 37 yr old woman who otherwise meets his pretty low and reasonable standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:20 PM
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agreed its not institutionalized sexism against avg men But its akin to a mild racial prejudice of a majority group, women, that holds most of the power against a large minority of people, i.e. the bottom 50-80% of menn Over the long term, female indifference to men and male simping culminate in avg women having better lives than avg men So the macro effect of hundreds of women not caring about a man is that man's life isnt great
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:59 PM
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the solution is to make men indifferent to women take away all the simps and casual sex with hot men, and what do women have left?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:56 AM
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yeah lots of things are unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:52 AM
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it wouldnt be such a bad thing if everyone just stopped having kids tomorrow then almost all of our problems would be gone in ~100 years If only covid made everyone sterile lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:45 AM
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gay men look so much happier too... the grass is always greener i guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:40 AM
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Based as a mtha fka
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:32 AM
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It seems like women today really can "Have it all" Education, career, partying /sleeping around in teens, 20s, and 30s without any consequences, having children (surrogates, maternal preggo leave and PTO), a boundless supply of male simps ready to financially and emotionally suport her at a whim ... the only thing left that they dont have is Elon musk, Brad Pitt, and Timmy Chalamet throwing themselves at these avg women lol Just wait, avg women will find a way to frame it as a patriarchal injust…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:30 AM
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hm idk man, bisexual/lesbian women who date/marry women look waaayyy happier than any straight guy I've ever met Maybe I'm biased bc I know a lot of single, inc*l, and divorced straight guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:21 AM
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Does no one else see the obvious analogy between racism, classism, and female-hypergammy driven sexism? The bottom 50% of men will live with their parents playing video games because these avg women wont give them the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:19 AM
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"Poor people shouldnt shame rich people for rich people's visceral disgust and disdain for the filthy, dumb poors because those are biologically and culturally driven preferences. But rich people shouldnt deny that they hate poor people"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:06 AM
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I disagree. Just because their preferences are innate, that is, women didnt consciously choose to be uber picky and selective, doesnt mean that their pickiness doesnt have terrible consequneces for 40% of society Their innate indifference to the bottom 90% of men is akin to prejudice against an ethnic group: even if they didnt consciously choose that preference, that doesnt make the preference any better for society or even morally okay Sexual attractiveness to women directly translates to a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:02 AM
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When women say "Men have unrealistic standards" , they mean "The Men I'm attracted to, i.e. only the top 5% of men, have standards that are out of reach for me as an avg woman" An avg man would be mostly happy with an avg woman, assuming she wouldnt cheat or constantly neg him for not being a top tier guy But its abundantly clear that increasingly the avg woman in developed western metropolitans would rather be single forever or date another woman than date and marry an avg man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:51 AM
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Hopefully with VR, robotics and AI , there will be alternatives to women available in the future that will make life better for men What artificial sweeteners are to sugar, this technology will be to women. We will reduce our dependence on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:44 AM
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Either we need to make men inherently want women less, or make women inherently want men more Women take for granted that men are wiling to do almost anything for them, becuase men want women 10-100X more than women want men This asymetry sucks in 2022, and couldnt be further from gender equality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:16 AM
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how exactly do men benefit more from relationships with women? like specifically, what parts of my life are so much better? And how is a woman's life worse/not as significantly improved with male relationships ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:01 AM
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eh hem, i am unapologetically asking women to settle. After all, men can settle and be happy, and they did that for a long time until recently, when it became much harder to find a woman willing to settle for you I want women to settle because I support gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:03 AM
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[you want] women to settle? actually ya, that's exactly what i and a lot of guys want. if women could learn to settle and be content with mediocrity, so many mens lives would be waaayyy better As a guy, i learned to settle and be happy with an avg GF, an ugly ONS, etc, a long time ago. I'm perfectly okay with not having a model wife women unwilling to settle for a guy at their level is exactly the problem here IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:59 AM
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Implications: The number of non-white students is positivley associated with the number of hookups for white and black women. Summary: white and black women like hooking up with black guys, and asian women like hooking up with white guys
/r/BlackPillScience11/10/22 07:47 PM
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Entitlement is believing you deserve something just because you're you and you want it. Often its accompanied by feelings of anger, bitterness, and indignation when you are denied that thing you expected to have Children are often the most entitled kind of people, but obviously lots of adults are entitled as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:06 PM
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This is correct... If Brad pitt was a virgin at 25 yrs old, yeah that'd be surprising but wouldnt stop any woman from poping his cherry lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:32 PM
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Along with D size, income/wealth, status, charisma, IQ, muscularity, and facial attractiveness, ... height is one of those desirable traits that almost everyone wants "more" of, and its the most quantifiable and non-debatable: there's literally no hiding it. Even blue pillers admit that height matters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:45 AM
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This is spot on. Unpopular obviously, but the truth doesnt give a shit about popularity
/r/BlackPillScience30/09/22 03:24 PM
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dont give people false hope If she wants a grey fox to find her hot, that might not be possible false hope is a cruel blue pilled gift
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:00 PM
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While I suspect we wont see eye to eye, this is a good question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:15 AM
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Men pushed back on female independence becuase the less women need men, the more irrelevant men become in this world And that's exactly what happened. Men are quickly becoming borderline irrelevant today. Once the boomers age out of corporate America, women will have nothing holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:06 AM
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Correction, men caring about having sex with women was necessary but not sufficient for the feminist movement. Other factors were at play. Why can women vote? Because male politicians wanted to get elected. Why can women work? Because corporations wanted to pay lower wages for the same labor. American corporations wanted cheap labor, so they marketed the idea of a woman at work. Women then wanted to work, so they told their husbands that they were going to work. And their husbands said "okay hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:03 AM
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I have. Its a beautiful film.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:11 AM
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On a deeper level, life is extremely hard and dissappointing for the bottom 50% of men these days. Therefore I do not think a boy should be born unless genetic tests confirm that he will be smart, handsome, > 70" tall, charismatic, and hard working. IMO life is too cruel as a man to be anything less. Not being born is the most compassionate thing that can be done for the ugly, dumb, lazy, awkward, short men who are so, so fking invisible, forgettable, and undesirable today. Frankly they should n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:32 AM
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fortunately I have a father. He's far from perfect, but he did the best he could all considered. lol being dead is totally different than never having been born
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:26 AM
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My comment above assumes that my mom had me , even though my dad financially aborted me early in the pregnancy. She knew I wouldnt have a dad but she had me anyway. That being said, if she did a good job by herself, that's great. But if I felt like I had missed out on something critical to my development, yeah I'd blame her for her hubris and whatever consequential psychological problems I have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:23 AM
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I would blame my mother for having me without a father in my life. She was irresponsible to have the child without a father in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:14 AM
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I actually like the language because it cuts through the crap: Men shouldnt be enslaved to pay for a kid that they never wanted. A woman shouldnt have the right to make that decision on her own when it impacts 2 other human lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:10 AM
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Doesnt the data show that men of some ethnicities have a harder time with online dating than others? idk how acknowledging the existence of that data, and the lived experience of lots of men, is r*cist at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:02 AM
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its just a nicer way of saying the same thing Men are mad about the preference, not how that preference is expressed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:42 PM
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why would they? When they say things like "I just cant find a good man" it sounds like they'd be open to tips on how to get the men they want, that is, women should care about the preferences of the men that they themselves are chasing Those men that you want? They arent gonna lower their relationship standards just bc you want them too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:39 PM
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Women dont care what men want in a relationship TBH Women want what they want: 6 ft, hot face, good career, funny, caring, outgoing, likes to do stuff, common interests and hobbies, loyal, etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:30 PM
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lol this is a distinction without a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:08 PM
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They only made progress because men care about women. If your wife or GF gets into the whole feminist thing, and she's got your balls in a vice, then is it really so surprising that men gave women all that progress? No its not lol Women ask men for something, they get it. No one, including men, care about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:06 PM
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For men its not "Oh you cant get a woman? Nbd, you can just find a man then." because most men who like women are heterosexual, not bisexual True bisexual men are quite rare compared to bisexual women AFAIK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:20 PM
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yeah Im aware that lots of lesbians dont like men lol and that's totally fine Bisexuallity is way more common with women though, and I'm explanaining why that makes things harder for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:16 PM
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agreed, but unless your dad is based AF, its hard to know that as a 13 yr old dude in middle school Hell, I didnt even kind of start to suspect that something might be unfair until college because I was too autistic and blue pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:21 PM
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Women were blessed to have an innate low to almost non-existent attraction to all but the most attractive, charismastic and accomplished men. Conveniently lots of women find most other women attractive, so if they cant find a guy who meets their standards, its not a big deal, just find a good woman then. Men are an optional accessory in life anyway. Just wait for Mr Perfect and bide your time with cats, dogs, girlfriends and fantasies while you wait
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:28 AM
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Men did not choose to be slaves to women... And most men would, in that brief moment of post-nut lucidity, choose to be asexual if they could. But they cant change their biological impulse short of intense medications that usually also kill any and all motivation to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:24 AM
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another explanation is that this girl isnt as hot as I had assumed from your comment Do you agree that that the avg woman is much more attractive than the avg man? Or believe that "All women are beautiful" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:13 AM
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wtf is this comment.... Flip the genders in this hypothetical news story. Your comments sounds utterally f*cked up now: you are downplaying sex with an underage minor. JFC, that's not okay irrespective of whether that story happened or was hypothetical , or if it happened to the other commenter in this thread Dunno how you can downplay that with so much support "Well, if it didnt happen to you specifically, it probably never happens and is irrelevant and I dont have to engage with your argument"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:15 AM
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then she loves controlling him, she doesn't much like having sex with hot men, she's actively cheating, or he's into cucking, or some combination thereof Cant think of another explanation Also what do you mean by "survived lots"? Like has she gotten fat? Did he get even uglier? Job loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:00 AM
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Strongly agree w.r.t value equivalency of couples. Also yes, most relationships end because of value divergence, e.g. she becomes hot, he becomes ugly, she gets super fat, he loses his job, etc. Erybody got weak hands in 2022. Diamond hands in marriage is a joke. Your relationship with your current car is likely going to be longer term than any romantic or employment relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:53 AM
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Likely wont work out for Mr Oofy Doofy in the long term, i.e. no "And they lived happily ever after" Sure he can keep her attention for a few months, but he cant dance like that for year and years. She'll likely get bored and her other options will look too tempting to pass up Cant blame her either. But good for him for having that, even if its only temporary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:49 AM
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yeah I missed that too its like a really smart person variant of /s and will go over the head of like 90% of ppl who read it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:20 PM
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ya exactly, he is the platonic ideal of masculinity its supposed to be an exaggerated symbol/Caricature of a valid idea dunno why some people are so offended by this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:28 PM
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dude this is literally The Goal™ for like 95% of straight men in their youth Ya some might get bored and tired of it, but its more about having the ability, the option to do that if you wanted, than actually doing it literally every Friday and Saturday night Men just want to not feel completely invisible to women, and also want to have easier access to casual sex that is predicated on their desirability in the hookup and dating market. It feels really good to be desired by others. It feels terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:25 PM
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From a subjective POV, its just weird knowing that your mom got around a lot when she was younger. Especially if you are still a virgin as her son in your early 20s, then its very emasculating Imagine your mom had wild uninhibited sex with lots of Chads in her 20s, but married and had kids with a beta guy once she aged out of the Chads, and you're her short ugly beta male son Hard to say what it is with any more specificity... its just off putting that your mom was sexually promiscuous, ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:01 PM
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ya this is far worse IMO lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:30 AM
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I think the hot women of Instagram and Tiktok might have an inflated belief of what an "avg" guy looks like. Some people who read this sub think that those women represent the views of IRL avg women, which they do not The avg guy on InstaTok with +10k followers and whose social circle is all on InstaTok is a lot hotter than the avg guy IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:00 PM
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I guess she means "LA average" lol Basically a guy who, amoung a group of self-selected hot guys, is avg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:38 AM
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Get that bag, guurl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:35 AM
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But the avg is 6' in the progressive Scandanavian countries, where women have had the most choice to date hot men for the past 4 or 5 decades
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:29 PM
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A world without porn but that still has online dating is perhaps the biggest "F U" to the bottom 70% of men that I can think of.... Its like cucking on a gov policy level lol "Listen, while we agree that you are Uggo and no sane woman would wanna be anywhere near you, we will not let you watch Porn. That would just make you realize how bad you actually have it." - Feminist lobby
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:24 PM
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But lots of women obsess over dating and finding Mr. 6' 2" , handsome, 7" fun stick, 200k income, nice personality but kinda a bad boy So why is it so wrong of men to want a GF whose at their level?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:18 PM
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Women dont care if a man is over or under 6' This is just wrong, flat out.... idk even know what more to say lol Like denying that water is wet...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:12 PM
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so virgin men should what... use their immaginations? And that's fair and just and right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:01 PM
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yes, the "Obviously porn is unethical!!" argument never made sense... like, can you explain why its "obviously unethical"? If two informed adults consent to being filmed on camera, then its fair game. Anti Porn seems like gatekeeping these days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:59 PM
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why would you think that? I never see a 7 girl leave the club with a 4 guy. I never even see guys who are 4s in clubs actually, because they know the have 0 chance of picking up girls Ugliest girl in a club is usually less attractive than the ugliest guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:41 AM
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Women have insanely high standards like unbelievably high not all but like 95%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:39 AM
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average might be enough for a below avg girlfriend but not for a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:38 AM
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why does someone dying of thirst think about water? why is the man dying of thirst so obsessed with people who have access to entire lakes of drinking water? why are the people swimming in the lake of drinkable water confused when they see the men dying of thirst off in distance? "what's his problem? why doesn't he shut up already." maybe you feel that way because you've had the privilege of even hot men giving you attention, complementing you, and telling you you were pretty even though... you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:22 AM
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This is like saying poor people should just accept being poor after all, being rich is a choice lol unless you want to deny that being perceived as attractive by the opposite sex impacts quality of life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:15 AM
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Karen is a name, not a slur Isnt Pajeet a name?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:27 AM
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Men who are desperate for sex are just sad. If men had the same inhibition and high-as-the-sky standards as women, at least the uggo land whales wouldnt have proportionally large egos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:56 AM
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Cope. Copium. Yes I'll have side of cope to go with my main course of Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:54 AM
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lol I see your point But it isnt a casino or a paper bag.... its the primary mechanism for dating in 2022. So sure while its working as the Tinder Product Managers intended, it sucks balls for 95% of men who try to use it for dating. Dating and romance are very fundamental to a good quality of life for most people. It sucks being lonely and unloved forever It isnt even Tinder's fault. Tinder is just amplifying natural hypergamism on an unprecedented level because that's a good business model. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:31 PM
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lol go check out r/truerateme and then tell me a 1.5 point diff aint a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:59 PM
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Broken for who? Is the question you're asking. Obviously OP and most heterosexual men are pointing out that its broken for straight men. Literally no one cares about whether the company is making money, except the company and some autistic investors. But ya you're right, from their POV, it aint broken
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:56 PM
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lol yes I'm aware. Its a hypothetical FFS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:52 PM
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would it be wrong of me to reject her though because she's just a 4.5? Or am I entitled to reject whoever I want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:46 AM
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Should I be happy if I'm a 6 and she's a 4.5 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:22 AM
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This analogy is laughably misleading. Casinos dont discriminate, they f*ck over any and every dumbass who plays the game. Casinos are thus an equal opportunity fcker-over of dumbasses. Tinder is a game where the avg. woman gets to pick from a menu of good-great men, but the avg man has a 1:1000 chance of matching with at best an okay woman This dating experience asymmetry is very much at odds with the conception of fairness and equality many people were raised with, and also contradicts the Blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:11 AM
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