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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Does it ever really get better/easier?		Dphilli42	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 02:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Keep the faith. I'm moving on. Life gets so much better. You’re in attachment trauma still man. You feel abandoned and you can’t get past it. You need to retrain your brain. Look into neurofeedback therapy.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/26 04:38 PM
2	Does it ever really get better/easier? Yes. I actually just talked about this yesterday. There is no reason why I’m reacting the way I am to this. I’ve struggled with panic and anxiety since I was 10 years old. The fire was already burning, this has just thrown gas on it. I’m seeking neuro feedback therapy to help the baseline issues. Fvck her.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 11:56 AM
1	Does it ever really get better/easier? But that’s honestly me just being a little bitch and thinking that maybe she’ll have a change of heart before she gets everything filled out, or if I file she’ll never consider reconciliation, etc. I fucking know this is weak, boys- I’ve just been so fucking attached to this stupid ass bitch that I can’t think straight.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/26 11:34 AM
2	Does it ever really get better/easier? I’m struggling with filing myself. I was verbally abusive to her at times in the past, and I do understand, sadly, if she would have wanted to leave me for it. Now this other bullshit she pulled is different. The state I live in is a “no fault state” so I guess it really doesn’t matter who files.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/26 11:19 AM
6	Does it ever really get better/easier? It’s over. I gave her the ultimatum tonight and she refused to abide. Divorce incoming.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/26 05:19 AM
3	ChatGPT I won’t lie… ChatGPT has been a de facto therapist for me. I talk to that MF’er 25x a day I bet. It actually helps, especially late at night when you have no one to talk to	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 10:43 PM
1	Does it ever really get better/easier? Holy shit man. She did all that? That’s crazy. Sorry you had to deal with that.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 10:28 PM
1	Does it ever really get better/easier? How long did it take you to get over it?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 10:19 PM
1	Does it ever really get better/easier? Is this shit normal to feel this fvcking anxiety and panic ridden? I can’t hardly sleep, I’m constantly calling and talking to people about the situation, I’m clinging to slivers of hope, I’m disrespecting myself. At least I quit drinking a little over 2 weeks ago because I was drowning my sorrows nightly for months.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 10:09 PM
2	Does it ever really get better/easier? Honestly? I’m not sure WTF is wrong with me. I’m disappointed in myself that I’m at where I’m at with all this. Like I’ve said, I’m so attached to her that it feels impossible to move on. I fight urges every single day to call and text her. We’ve been together since we were 18 years old, and it’s just fvcking heartbreaking.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 10:01 PM
2	Does it ever really get better/easier? I know right… her doing what she has done should make it easier for me to say f$CK it and move on, I’m a tough guy in about every other phase of my life but this has completely mind f$cked me and I just can’t let it go yet..	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 08:09 PM
6	Does it ever really get better/easier? Is it normal to feel this distraught? This hopeless? This fearful of the future? It’s like I have a low to mid level anxiety rush constantly running through me.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 03:41 PM
3	Does it ever really get better/easier? It’s more that I have attachment issues with her. I know what I need to do, I’ve just not been able to rip the bandaid off. I’m barely sleeping, barely eating, it freaking sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 03:29 PM