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| 1 | How to make guy friends?Same here. I don't think this is rare | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend thinks that I haven't grown as a person.I got ya. Well I'll work on the job and my hair style | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 05:02 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend thinks that I haven't grown as a person.What about after I get a job? And I like my hair long :) | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 07:34 AM |
| 1 | So I've fcked up and let my gf see that I'm insecure, how do I reframe before it's too lateYeah I try, but I always come back down. I can't keep myself built up for long, until I get insecure again. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 06:22 AM |
| 1 | The 20 Lessons to Learn in Your 20s About Women and Dating or Be Single ForeverIs there any shame in it? I have horrible inner game right now and I have got some boots that make me feel really confident. They aren't too over the top, but when my gf wears boots too it gives me a nice boost and I know she like the man to be taller. Were only a couple inches apart. Just for some reason I feel insecure that I get this confidence boost from my boots. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 05:16 PM |
| 7 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeThanks! Fuck so guilty of this need to check this vid out later | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 06:18 PM |
| 2 | has any woman ever seduced a gay guy into sleeping with herSo you're saying you would let a guy fuck you if he gamed you well enough? | /r/seduction | 21/09/13 05:32 AM |
| 1 | How should I make a girl I'm in a relationship want me?This is a very interesting idea | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 01:06 AM |
| 3 | How should I make a girl I'm in a relationship want me?I definitely agree. Thanks a lot for your opinions and advice. I just need to step back and calm the fuck down. | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 11:49 PM |
| 5 | How should I make a girl I'm in a relationship want me?I am guilty of putting her on a pedestal and putting myself down. I've recently jus started working out again. But I'm having a 40 instead of working out because I'm still sore, but I'll get back on that. | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 11:33 PM |
| 23 | Confidence, Feeling invincible: can't choose when I want to feel that way.Yep, I seem to feel this great confidence when it is of no importance to me. Ex. When I'm by myself or just sitting on the bus. Hell, yesterday I pumped myself up while taking a shit over the toilet, but that didn't last. | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with haters?Thanks man, you're great. | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with haters?But I have to deal with my girl being reassured of my flaws Isn't it also important for a girl to be with a strong socially accepted dude. Not one that gets openly ridiculed | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 08:37 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with haters?Nice | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with haters?That's funny, I do skateboard | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with haters?That's what I saying. This came from a guy though. Pretty tall, and handsome, the whole deal. I just want to know how to deal with it if its brought up | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with haters?I didn't. But I did leave a comment saying how handsome the people in the photo were | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it a DLV to let a girl know that you had a dream about her?I feel like it could only be detrimental or neutral. Unless you're a modern day rendition of Michealangelos "David," I don't think it'd have such a big effect. Unless you've already had sex with her or are in an exclusive relationship, you should just focus on her trying to win your attention rather than you just declaring that you're thinking of her outside of interaction. I suggest instead of telling her you had it, maybe joke around after she does something you like and say she's making you f… | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Encountered a past love interest of my girlfriend, started to AFC a little how can I bounce back?My gf didn't necessarily want to talk to him but she has this problem of being irresponsible with time and listening until the person is done talking. In retrospect I shouldn't have got these emotions and I was in a bad state of mind. I'm thinking that my gfs perspective on what happened included just being polite and awkward with excusing herself out in a conversation (and she's done this often, and we've talked about it), and she's late to everywhere she goes. My perspective was coming from a … | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Encountered a past love interest of my girlfriend, started to AFC a little how can I bounce back?What do you mean it was a shame to act this way. She was meeting me and we had less than an hour together at that point and she was talking to this guy for over 5 min instead of a casual hello (sounds short but isn't when you're waiting around for someone). Was I supposed to wait around until it turned into 20 min? My gf has problems being assertive and would have just stood there until he had nothing to say (and he loves to talk) for the next 15 min along with the other girl who stayed when we … | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Encountered a past love interest of my girlfriend, started to AFC a little how can I bounce back?Thanks a lot man. Going to work out tomorrow | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?Why do you say to hold off on the sex? This is contrary to the most dominate advice I'm getting which is to bed her ASAP. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?Good pointers. I've already begun to see her flaws and Im accepting and moving past them. Can you elaborate more on pacing myself emotionally? I do not feel like she is here to solve my problems only enhance this super cool life I've been building. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?This seems to be the most popular suggestion. I know that when we have sex it will be great! And we WILL have sex I'm not even doubting it. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?I know she wants to be my girlfriend and have sex with me. I will have sex with her for sure. We have great communication and I know she sees me as long term. But things change and that's fine, I just want to remain the best option at all times. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?I didn't really convince her. When we started kissing it got really heated from there. I started off small. I had my hand at her side and gradually started touching her belly. Then I created a rhythm that alternated from her legs to butt to side to belly to legs again. While throwing very little inner thigh into the mix. She then started to caress my side, lifting up my shirt occasionally. I then wanted to touch her chest, so I would rub her side then belly and I would swipe my hand in a fluid m… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:47 AM |
| 5 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?I checked it out, it was exactly what I was looking for. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?On the first date we were kissing like crazy, on the second we got physical and she gave me a hand job but when I reached to unbutton her pants she said she was on her period. Not to sound cocky but I'm sure I will have sex with her. She's very attracted to me right now, I'm just wondering how to keep the attraction strong. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/4/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I introduced two girls together and now they have become great friends and we occasionally hang out. There has always been a sexual tension between us 3. I've pursued them both at previous times but I never cut ties because you never know what will happen. Girl 1 met a guy that happens to be an old friend of mine and she wants to drink with me, him and girl 2. Girl 2 seemed enthusiastic about the idea. I am interested in girl 2. We also have some history. We drank together one day and we got rea… | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How to get the quiet girl?She's seen me around other attractive women. I even introduced her to a this one really beautiful girl who proceeded to complement me and call me cute. As of lately she has been asking me to hang out before/after class and we see each other 2-4 times a week. She knows I can get other girls but what happened between you and those girls where it shifted? Did you try to kiss them again? Do you tell them your feelings? Do they tell you? I'm having a hard time understanding when you say make your int… | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How to get the quiet girl?Can you elaborate more on the reversal? I was coming into this girl and she gave me the "I'm not sure how I feel about you" speech because she's super indecisive. Right now we flirt and hang out a lot but the friend zone isn't where I want to be forever | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 01:01 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I know this but I needed to hear it again. I repeatedly get sucked into this mindset where I get offended that a girl doesn't want me; mostly because I am genuine in my relationships and am disappointed when it isn't reciprocated. But then I remember that I have things that I love to do. And that people aren't always worth my time. Time to sack up again. Armor +5 | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 03:44 AM |
| 2 | the only response to getting blown offRoger that | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 03:40 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Girl I met was extremely into me for a week, then the next she is cold and distant. Over the weekend she texted me a happy valentines day and called me while she was drinking. Today I called her to meet up before our night classes but she hasn't even replied and I doubt she will. What's going on? Do I just suck it up and reinitiate? | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 11:46 PM |
| 3 | the only response to getting blown offCalled a girl earlier today to meet up before our night classes. She didn't pick up and I don't think she's going to call back. What do | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting the attention of a girl that knows shes wantedI can see from your perspective, and it wasn't a big deal to me but I can see why it appears this way from an outside perspective. I guess in the trash it goes | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Getting the attention of a girl that knows shes wantedI understand. I guess I'll just drop it and just try to not bring it up anymore. | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Getting the attention of a girl that knows shes wantedshould indicate that she's expecting you to prove yourself (jump through hoops). Yeah she straight up told me she that she used to enjoy that. She's very honest. She didn't tell me she's interested in other guys exactly, just that she's known to bounce around from people she thinks are cute. Which is understandable. I don't think she's playing games. You're already lying to prove yourself, which is a step in the wrong direction. I didn't paint the picture for her, it was just lying around. I fig… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Success Causing Outcome Dependence...You don't have anything to live up to. You will be at your best if you're I'm full control of your emotions. It's ok if you break your "streak." Do you honestly believe you won't ever break it? Know that failure is a possibility. Being in control improves the odds. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Troubles with maintaining a solid stateYes! They're killers though.. Too much for my beginning armor. But it's all good, I'm hanging out with her again today. This time I'll bring my chain mail. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Troubles with maintaining a solid stateYeah she's seen me talk and flirt with other girls often. I'm pretty sure I've demonstrated high social value and all that jazz. It just took me off guard for a bit. Usually I'm OK at gettin rid of these thoughts but this one hit a little too close to home I suppose and I wasn't able to shake it off. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Troubles with maintaining a solid stateGood advice about the removing yourself from the situation. But unfortunately I wouldnt have been able to do so. We were on campus late in the day so there was nowhere to go and nobody to talk to. While at the student shop, I should have totally just walked out instead if waiting for her. Guess I have to bite the bullet | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Troubles with maintaining a solid stateI'm actually really disappointed in myself that I did care | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn't think about it too much.Yeah I thought so. I hear the friendzones one tough place to break free from. I think I'm just going to let it stay as it is | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Why you shouldn't think about it too much.Same here, or so I thought. The reason I ask is because I've known this girl for a couple of months and when I kissed her I guess I came off as too bold because I startled her. I assumed my attraction wasn't built enough for her to want to make out with me. Now when we hang out its platonic but it's unclear because there's been a little attraction between us. Perhaps it's one of those cases where it takes a long ass time | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Why you shouldn't think about it too much.In your opinion, when is the attraction "built?" Abstract question I know, but what are your thoughts? | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 06:20 PM |
| 13 | Why you shouldn't think about it too much.This hits the nail on the head for me. I did the exact same thing (kiss out of nowhere). And I've read somewhere that those "imaginary relationships" are like an addiction. Your brain releases a chemical that makes you experience these intense loving emotions and you get hooked on it. It's a vicious cycle. What would you suggest to do before the kiss (build up). | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Billy's Guide to LooksSame here... Except I'm an inch shorter than you are. I was about to approach a girl that was looking at me in my classroom but I noticed we were about the same height (her maybe being an inch taller) and I just didn't have the heart.. Although I'm not stressing it as I will be seeing her again and I know I'll end up introducing myself; but its such a trial that shorter men have to go through. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:53 AM |
| 2 | [FR] rejectionThe Swiss army post | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Pooks 15 lessonsOne of the most effective posts I've read. Although the style it was written in was rather too flamboyant and cheesy for me, it was entertaining and I was able to get the main ideas which is most important. Going on a date tomorrow with a girl and I've been STRESSING. This girl has been put on a pedestal and it's about time I break the base with a sledgehammer.This is exactly what I needed. Going to hit up some friends, jam on some guitar, listen to good music and continue the fight! EDIT: Calle… | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I always put the woman I'm attracted to most on a pedestalAhhhhh you're right!!! It's going to be tough I'm going to have to man up | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 06:59 AM |
| 1 | I always put the woman I'm attracted to most on a pedestalYeah I'd very much like to do that. The thing is, is that we aren't even dating. I want to get to know her on a deeper level. We have about 2 weeks until classes are over and I'm unsure of what to do during those last few couple of meetings to get her to hang out with me and get her attracted to me | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 06:27 AM |
| 1 | I always put the woman I'm attracted to most on a pedestalOk so I'm probably going to see her about 2-3 more times at school before our classes are over. Should I act casual until after classes are over and then text her to meet up, or do you recommend asking her out sooner? | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I always put the woman I'm attracted to most on a pedestalThat's very good news. Do you think I should just ask her out or just casually plant one on her if I'm by her and the place is right | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Confidence for BeginnersThat last asterisk is key! I dwell far too much in areas I have no control over | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 08:08 PM |
| 9 | 3 second rule: I think I finally understand the reason for it, and why it is so important.Analyzing is your worst enemy. In my experience I've been able to apply an analogy that's helped me out in timing; I'm assuming you guys stay active or engage in some activity that involves being in a constant state of awareness (if not you should.) For example, I play music and skateboard. If I over analyze something I will miss a beat or face plant concrete. So what I've been doing is working on getting into this relaxed but totally alert mind set in which I'm constantly flowing. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Overcoming Oneitis: Or How I Saw My (Old) Oneitis Make Out With A Dude And I Didn't Give A ShitI've been struggling with oneitis for about a month and recently have been getting better but it's a tough thing to overcome once you're in! Respect | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 11:56 PM |
| 1 | “The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.” Friedrich NietzscheI have this motherfucking book. Time to get to it | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of subconscious approval seeking?What about insecurities you have no control over, for example I'm insecure about my height | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 11:09 PM |
| 2 | A great advice a friend gave me to help me to stop over-analyzing girls.Si penises por ellas | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had success with a woman who wasn't into you at first?Oh god what a terrible fate. Yeah, I'm just axing her from my life at this point. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had success with a woman who wasn't into you at first?Damn you're right, so right... I'm gonna take your advice about giving no fucks at all. I stop trying to talk to her at this point!!! How empowering.. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had success with a woman who wasn't into you at first?Care to elaborate on being an asshole? I might want to be an "asshole" to her. In a non mean way of course. I would, but she told me she isn't going to drink anymore. Which is bullshit, it just means she isnt going to drink around me anymore! FUCK | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Being assertive without coming off as needy or clingy.Thanks, its a fine line im having hard a time understanding. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:33 PM |
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