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HEALING YOUR ANXIETY > chicks
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:03 PM
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Dude, just because it’s called “Bangalore” doesn’t mean……Uh…….. Nevermind……….
/r/seduction27/07/26 12:02 PM
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Only read the title — Move on.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:42 PM
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You can’t force a vibe/vibration. It must happen naturally (even before “the date” happens, which is on You) or you’ll get resistance.
/r/seduction21/07/26 02:27 PM
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No, it’ll seem normal since speed dating is weird all by itself.
/r/seduction21/07/26 02:01 PM
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Legal prostitution ;-)
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:44 AM
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If you dither, she withers…… All your “first dates” should be straight to your house “for dinner” after you both “properly vibe” on the phone. I had a two year period right after Covid where every woman I met up with gave it up on the first meeting. In my overall experience, over 90% did it on the first meet up (Not “date”) and only 1 did it after the 3rd meeting (she came straight over on the 1st & 3rd and did it on the 5th — A virgin.) That said, of all the women I’ve had sex with in my life, …
/r/seduction18/07/26 10:24 PM
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Compliance. (And peace………)
/r/seduction16/07/26 03:44 PM
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VIBE/TELL HER IN > talk/ask her out
/r/seduction06/07/26 04:29 PM
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There’s no “go to for keeping the conversation going” — That’s called dithering. Be genuine and talk about what you *really* wanna talk about while asking her what you sincerely want to know. It’s really that simple.
/r/seduction28/06/26 04:24 PM
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VIBE/SEDUCE/HOME/CLOSE > dates
/r/seduction27/06/26 12:07 PM
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“Confidence & Lovely Conversations” don’t close the deal, “Contact Information” and “Logistics” with seduction and compliance does.
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:04 AM
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Dating Coach here — Your last sentence says it all. (“The One?” WTF?) Despite your boner, you were still giving “Nice Boy/Relationship Energy” instead of “Seductive Man/Sexual Energy” which made her give you a BS phone excuse (Always Secure The Number Regardless) as if it’s never gonna turn on again…….. I’ve been in a similar situation before, and even though I was meeting her for the first time in front of the restaurant (One of the Rare times it wasn’t a “Straight To My House” first date), I f…
/r/seduction24/06/26 05:38 AM
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Dating Coach here — “Game” is important, but so is not looking lower than a 4.3210.
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:38 AM
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VIBE/SEDUCE/HOME > dither/date out
/r/seduction20/06/26 06:15 AM
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Most people think it’s “Date/Vibe/Date/Kiss/Fuck” when it’s actually “Vibe/Kiss/Fuck/Fuck/Date Optional….”
/r/seduction19/06/26 08:23 PM
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INSTAGRAM > your post
/r/seduction16/06/26 09:46 AM
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Dating Coach here — I’m guessing you also hate clubs…….. No biggie, just do Day Game & Online Dating mixed with finding women through your Social Circle and if you have decent charisma and a keen sense of logistics, you’ll know exactly what you’re “supposed to do.”
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:19 AM
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VIBE/INVITE IN > dither/ask out (NOTE: This is *Before* any “dates.”)
/r/seduction09/06/26 05:00 PM
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Regardless of whether you go direct or indirect, when it comes to seducing women, the “Endgame” is always the same.
/r/seduction09/06/26 12:45 PM
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The purpose of his post is letting us know that his Username checks out.
/r/seduction09/06/26 12:36 PM
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Your original response completely misunderstood and misinterpreted my entire post and you totally failed to grasp the last sentence. That said, were you referring to your *own* life?
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:43 AM
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READING COMPREHENSION > you Edit: Actually, I let your first two “disrespectfully incorrect” comments slide, but you struck out on the 3rd one.
/r/seduction08/06/26 11:16 PM
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WANT > need
/r/seduction08/06/26 08:36 PM
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Short Version: Briefly Vibe on Hinge—> Vibe/Seduce *Verbally* on the phone——> At a High Point, invite her to your place for dinner——> Frontal Hug at the door-> Light kiss on the lips 2 seconds after the hug break—-> Deeper kiss immediately after……. Thank me later.
/r/seduction08/06/26 11:14 AM
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TELL HER IN > ask her out
/r/seduction06/06/26 02:44 PM
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Upvoted for mentioning my favorite band 🎤
/r/seduction06/06/26 12:05 PM
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Dating Coach here — If every woman in the world wanted to fuck you and some average looking woman with an average personality approached you and said that she *also* wanted to fuck you, you’d tell her to “Join The Club” and get in line by repeatedly saying “Maybe” too.
/r/seduction06/06/26 11:46 AM
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Actual phone conversations or “text only” where you’ve never heard her voice before?
/r/seduction05/06/26 06:19 PM
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Breaking “the barrier” is your job, not theirs.
/r/seduction05/06/26 05:16 AM
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The “fundamental breaking point” when it comes to hanging out one on one and even pulling is that you’re using the juvenile phrase “hanging out” and not “pulling” them back to your place for a 1 on 1 “dinner” followed by a 1 on 1 “dessert” and a 1 on 1 “midnight snack.” TELL HER IN > ask to hang out :-/
/r/seduction02/06/26 08:08 PM
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KNOWLEDGE OF SELF > chicks 🐥 (Then KOS/Passion & Purpose *Lead* to 🐣)
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:08 PM
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TELL HER IN > ask her out
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:26 AM
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Casually speaking, money is irrelevant when it comes to charisma, logistics and closing the deal.
/r/seduction22/05/26 01:20 AM
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Dating Coach here — No intros, just GO. Me: I’mma guess what book you’re reading — Hold up……. Her: You’ll never……… Me: Shhhhhhhhhhh! I’m scanning your brainwaves! Her: What? (Laughing……) Me: 🤔 Her: You’re crazy…. (Smiling) Me: Aww damn, you’re one of those 50 Shades of Gray fools…… Can’t even do it…… Later…… (Walking off sarcastically…….) Her: Wrong! Wait! (Laughing…..) Come back! Me: 😎 (The Lesson? Stop being an NPC dammit! No typical “Hi, how are you/How’s your day” type bullshit. The “frame” …
/r/seduction20/05/26 09:30 PM
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TRULY DOWN WITH YOU > “likes” you
/r/seduction20/05/26 02:20 PM
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TELL HER IN > ask her out/dither asked/chatted/“nice” twice = DONE.
/r/seduction07/05/26 10:09 AM
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Dating Coach here — The Highest Levels of Men understand that there’s no such thing as “rejection” (It’s either “getting” or “knowing” over “wondering”)
/r/seduction06/05/26 11:11 PM
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Mating Coach here — If she’s at my place and it’s “already Pre-established that we’re gonna fuck” then why do you need a ”plan?” Do you know where your dick is? You know where to put it, Right? 🤔 Look man, she’s “Already Ready” and in your face. If you’re Advanced, you should be making out at the door once she comes in. Otherwise, kiss her in 9 minutes or less before shit gets unnecessarily awkward and take it from there.
/r/seduction04/05/26 11:38 AM
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She could tell you were the kind of guy that types the word “Cuddle” multiple times in a Rejection Reddit post and it dried her up like Phoenix in July.
/r/seduction01/05/26 05:36 AM
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Think hard about this question — Why do you Really want a ”date” with her? NOTE: I didn’t notice Smitty’s response when I wrote this, but that’s a pretty good sign that you have your answer.
/r/seduction26/04/26 10:16 AM
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”Pretty Busy/Not Looking/Stay In Touch” = DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Dating Coach here — Your only hope at this point is to pull back so damn far that your silence catches her off guard while your absence leaves her questioning her own self worth to the point where it creates a boomerang effect that psychologically forces her to come back to you outta sheer ego & curiosity.
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:44 AM
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Dating Coach here — Writing with charisma and “Tradition Breaking” on Dating Profiles/Messaging (Never typical or predictable) is one of my specialties and why women usually write me and my clients First (with enthusiasm!) — Btw, regarding your question…………. GIRL: (Randomly sends sexy selfie……) ME: Nice pic, but let me know when you’re free to show me in person ;) SUBTLE MOVE: No question marks (“When are you free?”) so it doesn’t look like “I’m Waiting” for her response, and comments over quest…
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:59 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong, but are you saying you haven’t had sex in 18 years?
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:10 AM
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Dating Coach here — My personal definition of “Game” is being able to turn an introduction with a woman into intercourse with that woman as smoothly and as quickly as possible and then maintaining her in your life exactly how you want her after you fuck her. Presentation, vibing, seduction, logistics and most importantly “Knowledge of Self” are the Key Elements of Game.
/r/seduction18/04/26 01:25 AM
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QUOTE: ”I really liked her….” — (Did you hit it right? You sure?) Sometimes women pull back and even run from men who ”show that they Really Like them…” (Dumb, but true……) Don’t initiate for a while, only respond (mainly when she’s DTF), focus on yourself and your goals, and start seeing other women until you’re monogamous (which you should’ve been doing anyway) so you’re not so fixated on any particular girl.
/r/seduction17/04/26 10:09 AM
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”Envy is ignorance, Imitation is Suicide.” ~Emerson
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:54 AM
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Do nothing — No calls, no texts, no looking at her stories, no looking at her face, no making plans, no smoke signals, nothing at all except for Responding to her when she comes to you. You are to do ZERO initiation (That’s her job at this point) — That said, make all of this subtle and start seeing other girls to avoid being “fixated” on just one. ”She needs to think about it….” So let her think about losing you. PSYCHOLOGICAL COLD WARFARE — REASON: Now she’s thinking about you and wondering wh…
/r/seduction14/04/26 08:48 AM
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Dating Coach here: There was never any need whatsoever to put any titles, definitions, or “future expectations” on anything at all — Especially with a damn coworker (No comment on that.) You should have stayed quiet, kept fucking the dogshit outta her, and left all the talking and “verbalizing” (“Feminine Energy”) for her to “express” towards You. So unless you Totally Dominated her in the bedroom, expect her to start drifting away from you in 5, 4, 3, 2……
/r/seduction14/04/26 08:20 AM
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Well — Among about a dozen other contradictions in this thread, let’s start with the one where you irrationally dodged one question (Approaches? 20,000! ”Estimated” Lays? “I don’t count! I’m a Silent Monk!”) and completely ignored the other one (Fastest Lay? Five Minutes! What a Freak! Worst Rejection? Crickets…..) in an “Ask Me Anything” post.
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:53 PM
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Respectfully, every sentence of your reply completely contradicts your entire “Post Title.”
/r/seduction13/04/26 06:51 PM
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How many lays (Exact Number or Estimate) came from those 20,000 approaches and what was the worst “Blow Out” (“Rejection”) you encountered?
/r/seduction13/04/26 05:53 PM
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Dating Coach here — Bottom 5 places for one night stands. Antarctica (Frozen dick!) Lorena Bobbit’s house (Missing dick! Google it!) TIED: Sea World/Atlantis (Soggy dick!) Diddy’s House (Oily dick!) 1. Iran (Drafted Dick?!?! WTF!?!) SOURCE: Trust me Bro.
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:32 PM
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Dating Coach here — Be specific and tell us what your definition of “Successful” is. Regardless, you said “text” 99 times, so you definitely need to be more “Logistics/In Person” focused and a lot less “text/chat” focused — You should not be aimlessly running your mouth at this point (or at any point for that matter.) Invite her over for dinner. Tell her to bring her favorite wine/dessert. Take it from there.
/r/seduction12/04/26 02:01 AM
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QUOTE: ”Constant chatting/calls without agreeing to go out….” Dating Coach here — You’re not taking charge of the vibe with a fun/flirtatious banter before the calls nor are you leading with charisma & seduction during the calls to where she’s actually excited to see you and the “logistics for sex” are in your favor after the calls. Kill the “harmless friend” vibe and be bold and charismatic enough to go after what you Really *Fucking** Want.*
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:35 PM
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RIZZ > looks/money = This Post 🧐
/r/seduction11/04/26 06:12 PM
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Dating Coach here. Solid Pictures + Unique Bio That Makes Her Excitedly Message YOU First + Messaging Charisma—> Phone With No Filter—-> Smooth Vibe/Private Logistics = ”SUCCESS” 🐐
/r/seduction06/04/26 07:08 PM
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Mating Coach here — Despite your username, your “Confusion” is not “Realistic” and you need to stop lying to us and most importantly, to yourself. You know exactly what to say and what to do because you know exactly what you want — You’re just too afraid to say it, and too afraid to do it. You know damn well if you were “The Best Looking Man on Earth” that you knew every woman wanted, your words and actions would be automatic. (But Mating Coach, I’m NOT the best looking man on Earth……) True, but…
/r/seduction04/04/26 12:05 PM
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“Normal/Average” guys rarely get approached, hence my original “Expert/Advanced” comment.
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:03 AM
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Autistic?
/r/seduction02/04/26 11:45 PM
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Mating Coach here……….. EXPERT/ADVANCED GAME: Have A Passion You’re Great At + Let The Whole World See Your Greatness = She Approaches YOU. 👑
/r/seduction02/04/26 10:53 PM
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PRE-DATE VIBING/ADVANCED GAME: TELL — HOUSE DATE IN PRIVATE FIRST 👍 >>> ask — first date out in public 🛑
/r/seduction01/04/26 04:45 PM
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Q: Can just making intense eye contact and saying I find you really attractive work? A: Dating Coach Here — No, No, NO. This is possibly the worst thing that you can do for one simple reason — What. Do. You. Want. Her. To. Do. With. That. INFORMATION??? Say ”Thanks?” Say it back to you so you SAY something else? It is HER JOB as a woman to EXPRESS HER EMOTIONS VERBALLY to You. It is YOUR JOB as a Man to LEAD WITH CONCRETE PLANNING AND DIRECT ACTION. Don’t “Say” Anything. BE A MAN AND KISS HER DA…
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:02 AM
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No offense, but that’s because you’re used to below average women — Or you are one.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:03 PM
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Dating Coach here — Physically speaking, the instant epiphany you get when you first make out with a Ten (when you’re new to it anyway) is that it automatically feels like it’s “Your Birthright” — Meaning, it feels so natural that you can’t even feel her lips on your lips, or feel your tongue on her tongue. It’s just one motion, like “The Universe” is saying ”It’s supposed to be this way….” And yes, the sex is even more surreal — You can’t believe you’re fucking her even while you’re watching yo…
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:11 PM
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Be the version that you both accept.
/r/seduction27/03/26 11:46 AM
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COMPROMISE: Be her Serious Friend With Benefits — Problem solved.
/r/seduction27/03/26 10:16 AM
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If you’ve already kissed her, then why didn’t you ever escalate to inviting her over to your place “for dinner” and then close the deal?
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:52 PM
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(I can’t believe I read this entire post.) DO. YOU. HAVE. A. DICK????? 🤔
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:17 PM
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Dating Coach here — SEDUCE her before meeting up (This Is KEY!) No coffee. No park. No throwing random pieces of bread at random ducks at random ponds. Average Guys: “Wanna go for coffee?” ADVANCED MEN: “Come over at 8.” Below Average Guys: (Can’t understand this concept.) Your “second date” should be your “first date” minus the movie excuse and the “cooking together” invite. Tell her you’re cooking dinner and that she should bring her favorite wine or her favorite dessert if she’s under 21. Onc…
/r/seduction24/03/26 05:19 PM
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Dating Coach here — Get over your damn ego and get in the damn gym. That is all. Thank You, Management
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:41 PM
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If you illustrated some of these experiences in a dating app bio and had at least 4 pictures that could pass for a 6+, you could lose your virginity (F*ck a “hug”) before summer — Why haven’t you done that already?
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:16 AM
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You’re asking all the wrong questions, so I’ll redirect — Tell me all the “cool” things about your life and what you “absolutely love” the most about it, then tell me why you’ve been dateless for nearly 30 years.
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:36 AM
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I didn’t say you were needy, I said you “give off needy/clingy energy” and your last sentence (along with the first paragraph in your post) proves that.
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:09 AM
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Dating Coach here — That’s because you give off needy/clingy energy (“Friend-zone”) and say “I like you” instead of living your life so enthusiastically For Yourself that she would think “I like Hlm……”
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:04 AM
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Thanks — And yes, feel free to message me and tell me your story.
/r/seduction18/03/26 01:12 AM
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Dating Coach here — I’ve done that in Texas (White, Black, Asian, Latina, Mixed, Etc.) in the same calendar year (2022) all on the first “meet up” with women in every age “decade demographic” (20s, 30s, 40s, etc.) from 19 to 52 without leaving my city or spending a dime (Straight to my place for “first date dinners”) — And the Age/Race/Same Year “diversity aspect” was completely unintentional (Now that I think about it, that’s probably a “First” in human history) — So you shouldn’t need a passpo…
/r/seduction17/03/26 05:33 AM
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Dating Coach here — QUOTE: ”I flirted, made her laugh a lot, teased her, got to know her, etc. We hugged at the end of the date.” Aside from the first clue of things taking 10+ days to start and her not even acknowledging your phone number, everything you said was one-sided. ”I flirted, I teased, I made her laugh, I got to know her, I….. I…… I…… Etc…” The “We” only came with the polite “hug at the end” that probably ended with a platonic pat on the back. VERDICT: Not to be rude, but her initial …
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:40 PM
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There’s a time and a place for sincere compliments that aren’t rooted in a man’s overexcitement due to his inexperience. That said, YES — I would definitely consider paying a man a million dollars to fuck his wife ”doing something wrong.”
/r/seduction14/03/26 02:27 PM
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Dating Coach here: If you treat her like a celebrity, she’ll treat you like a fan, so you shouldn’t be in “awe” — You should be in Action. No verbal “compliments” needed. Let your seduction, your logistics, your tongue and your dick do all the talking.
/r/seduction14/03/26 04:06 AM
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Dating Coach here — You’re denying your true nature and “socially apologizing” for your genuine desires as a Man by psychologically pretending you don’t have a dick. You’d never admit that you really want to fuck her (Not even to yourself) because you think it’s rude and you don’t want to “make things awkward”, so you “Romantically Disqualify Yourself” by “Staying Platonic” just to keep the peace — Even though the proverbial “War” is entirely in your head. GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD. WOMEN LOVE SEX! I…
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:58 PM
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ACTION/DOING > talking/words KISSING HER > “can i kiss you maybe?” (Okay, now that I’ve actually read the post…….) LONG DISTANCE GIRL W/ A BF = 🛑 Unless you’re both making concrete plans to meet up in person (preferably when she’s single), you’re basically wasting your time, so “saying anything” is irrelevant. That said, The Woman is the one who should be “Expressing Her Feelings” to The Man — Not the other way around.
/r/seduction13/03/26 10:11 AM
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Dating Coach here — Whenever a woman keeps throwing glances at you from afar, smoothly motion for her to come to you without saying a word. If she doesn’t, then chill and continue doing whatever you were doing like nothing ever happened. But if she does, then say ”I just thought I’d make it easier for you to keep staring at me — I’m John by the way…..”
/r/seduction11/03/26 11:58 AM
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You didn’t close the deal, so she closed the door — You do realize that “making out” is foreplay Right?
/r/seduction09/03/26 08:17 AM
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Dating Coach here — Most men in your age range want commitment in the long term and sex in the short/immediate term, so they’ll focus on the “Immediate Sex Women” now and put the “Long Term Commitment Women” off to the side. The question is: ”What do you Truly want for your Life?” — To be dicked down and dismissed? Possibly pregnant and then ghosted? 👻 Because that’s where you’re headed. Don’t do the wrong thing for the wrong reasons simply because the wrong “men” showed you that they were Wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:21 PM
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The “Bad Boy” doesn’t care what anyone thinks and lives by His Own Truth. “The Nice Guy” cares too much and agrees with whatever “Truth” will gain him the most acceptance — This is repulsive to people, regardless of gender. Keep in mind that the Highest Level of “Game” (“Dating/Mating” with women) is not caring or being indifferent, so “indifference” makes all the difference in the end.
/r/seduction20/02/26 01:57 PM
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What are the specific issues with your confidence?
/r/seduction16/02/26 12:49 PM
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You have to be Grounded Within Yourself before you can be “romantically successful” with anyone else. Regardless, can you screenshot a few pages from your dating profile or at least show us a few excerpts from your bio?
/r/seduction13/02/26 09:42 PM
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Let her go.
/r/seduction12/02/26 02:49 PM
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Non-Transactional Dating = HER EMOTIONS FOR YOU > your money Transactional Dating With 9s & 10s? (A combination of cash and clout…..) 100K+ followers on IG The Appearance of 7+ Figures Annually Be on Rogan or in Wikipedia Be a “Trick” (Not Recommended) NOTE: I’ve had 8s & 9s approach me online and fly themselves in to my city simply based on how I carried myself in writing and over the phone, so you’ll never evolve until you realize you’re asking the wrong the questions when you avoid “The Inner…
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:02 PM
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Sincere indifference makes all the difference.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:03 PM
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Hell, “Advanced Game” is no ”dates” until after sex, so……..
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:54 PM
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AUTHENTICITY > vulnerability
/r/seduction07/02/26 01:28 PM
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Incorrect/Irrelevant, but I digress — “Just Be Yourself and Don’t Improve.” is just as nonsensical as ”Just Be Iron Man/Thor or You’re Cooked.” — And if you can’t understand that, you’re either autistic or you’re trolling.
/r/seduction04/02/26 10:23 PM
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Needless to say, rare exceptions (0.0002%) don’t make The Rule.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:32 PM
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No, your post would have a 600 pound man thinking he doesn’t have to get in shape (which should be for himself and not a woman) because “there’s women out there who like 600 pound men” — Even if those women are only 0.0002% of the population — It’s as Ass Backwards as the people you’re criticizing saying that you have to be an Alpha Chad Multizillionaire just to pull a 6 — You’re both grossly exaggerating the extremes.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:18 PM
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You will only evolve when you understand that your post is as bad as theirs for completely opposite reasons.
/r/seduction04/02/26 08:49 PM
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Your real question is “How do average guys sleep with 9s and 10s without tricking or doing something transactional?” — Answer? Have other things about you that are way above average and make those things as public as possible — Even if it’s just your natural charisma and sense of humor on a dating app or social media (which would be even more magnified if you put it in a book or a song — If you build it, they will come.) Speaking from experience…. ;)
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:26 PM
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METHOD: Silence……. ✌️ (You “tame” an unruly woman with your absence, not your actions.)
/r/seduction30/01/26 10:20 PM
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QUESTION: Is it ever worth tolerating toxicity just for sex? ANSWER: NO. EDIT TO YOUR EDIT: There shouldn't BE nonsensical "arguments" -- If so, train her how to act right with your ABSENCE.
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:05 PM
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Texas.
/r/seduction17/12/25 02:45 AM
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It takes decades of experience to truly become "stoic" and indifferent with attractive women. Impossible to do before 20. Highly unlikely to accomplish before 30. Stoicism with women only comes with decades of being jaded by the many ups and many different levels of downs -- Causing you, as they say, to "not get too high or too low" -- If you still wanna get "excited" however, in my experience (I'm a dating coach btw), don't start the party until the 4th separate occasion that you fuck -- The fi…
/r/seduction16/12/25 09:13 AM
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My "dating prime" was age 38 to 46 (90+ dates/Most in their 20s/30s) -- Stop thinking about "age" and simply keep improving/evolving.
/r/seduction16/12/25 06:01 AM
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I'm a dating coach. Do the opposite of 1 through 5 and call me in the morning. You're welcome.
/r/seduction15/12/25 01:58 AM
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SIMPLY PUT: Most males give women endless attention, so you stand out in her mind when you're "indifferent" to her existence and "pay her no mind." -- She's thinking: "Why isn't he like the others? Is he seeing hotter women? Am I even his type? Is there something wrong with me?" -- And wondering/insecurity breeds interest.
/r/seduction13/12/25 05:18 AM
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Dating Coach here -- And respectfully, it's not about "flirting." It's about having a Spark with a woman that you're able to vibe logistically towards the best place to make out/make love (Which is definitely not at the typical "coffee shop" during the day.) Most men's problems are rooted in the fact that they're insecure about their physical appearance and they don't have a Spark or Unique Personality/Charisma/Energy that allows for Vibing/Vibration, so they end up being "too logical" with wome…
/r/seduction12/12/25 12:18 PM
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It depends on what you specifically need/want (Feel free to message me......)
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:31 AM
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1) NEVER say the word "Beautiful" or use the same corny ass emojis (Or any) as everyone else. STAND OUT. Everytime she sees your name on IG, she should have a slight adrenaline rush. 2) Have something that Sparks her interest on your page (Great pics, unique bio, etc...) 3) Say interesting things to her Publicly (at least 2 or 3 times spread out over days/weeks without DM'ing her) that are relevant to her posts and have nothing to do with sex, love or beauty. 4) Then DM her on something recently…
/r/seduction03/12/25 11:55 AM
1

You do what Michael Jordan did.
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:13 PM
2

How many "meets" on average do you think it takes most women before they have sex with a new man? (Especially with a "dude" that knows what he's doing?)
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:02 PM
2

7-UP: An attractive girl who's above a 7 on the 1 to 10 "Looks" scale.
/r/seduction30/11/25 02:48 PM
2

Books are cool, but it's better to get direct advice from someone who's already thoroughly experienced with "seducing" women. The right mentor can help you go from first time matching/speaking with a new woman, to her moaning in your bed in under two hours without even leaving your house. BTW: Over 60% of "new lovers" met online. The key is having zero "personality filters" on your profile or in your messages, then talking to her (Yes, with your actual "No Filter" mouth/voice, although I know y'…
/r/seduction30/11/25 01:18 PM
49

DON'T "SAY" ANYTHING. KISS HER DAMMIT!
/r/seduction29/11/25 09:12 PM
1

Never. Be the best version of yourself. The same unfiltered version when you're around your best friends. The guy that speaks from his soul without fear. Give that to her -- In person and on your dating profiles. Then thank me later...........
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:34 AM
0

I heard this guy's pretty good 🤔 https://www.reddit.com/u/DrBarackPendergrass/s/v2ZZY2MSAu
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:25 AM
1

Progress will only come once you all realize that being "Seductive" isn't about "doing some technique" or about "saying that thing" -- It's about who you are. Unfiltered. (That's when she chases after You.)
/r/seduction25/11/25 07:32 AM
1

"Dating" and "hanging out" and "flirting" aren't phrases that men who are successful with women even think about. A "date" is not a "gateway" to sex -- A man's "vibe & logistics for seduction" are -- And the best place to make out and make love is almost always at his place. Not a coffee shop in the daytime. Not a restaurant in public. Not some random park at noon. But being a damn Man and taking her where you Really Want To Take Her. "I'm cooking us dinner and you bring the wine." Spark. Vibe. …
/r/seduction24/11/25 01:03 PM
2

You know where "the hole" is, Right?
/r/seduction24/11/25 04:04 AM
-1

You don't seem like a very good human being slandering facts and honesty as "judgment" like that, so I guess we're even...... 🤔
/r/seduction24/11/25 12:50 AM
-4

I recently counseled a 32 year old virgin (I'm a dating coach) and thought I'd heard it all, until now. You're a 35 year old virgin who's depleting your savings because you quit your job just so you could "focus on" the most difficult method for getting women (Cold Approach) while acting like the easiest way for getting women (Online Dating is how 60% of couples meet) doesn't even exist -- What could go wrong? :-/ Please tell me you're trolling.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:51 AM
4

QUESTION: At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with? ANSWER: The quickest way to lose a girl (especially in the beginning) is to "confess your feelings" to her because the "confession of feelings/emotion" is HER JOB as a female in her feminity, not your job as a man in his masculinity. Hang out. Have fun. Hook up. THAT'S IT. Then she'll eventually "confess her feelings" to you. Period.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:01 PM
3

I TEACH THIS. QUESTION: Do you worry about what to say or how you sound around your best friends? ANSWER: NO. Why? Because you're speaking from your core and you have no filter and everything just flows naturally........ WHY? BECAUSE YOU DON'T FEAR THEIR REACTION. Here's a thought........ What if you spoke freely with no fear and didn't give a hint of a fuck about anyone's "reactions" and gave that same exact energy to the girl? (Hmmm......) 🤔
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:28 PM
1

Knowledge of Self/Spark/Vibe turns into Logistics/Sex which evolves into a continuation of Logistics/Sex with a specific woman, evolving into a Mutual connection that becomes that "Relationship" that you're clearly yearning for. But the problem is that you're putting "The Cart" (Relationships/Relaxing In Love) before "the horse" (Developing your personal Spark/Vibe that only comes from Knowledge of Self/Belief in Self and Self Respect/Passion & Purpose). This makes you seem extremely needy which…
/r/seduction11/11/25 02:16 PM
1

How does it feel that a 12 year old is way better with women than you?
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:30 PM
2

I TEACH THIS. BTW: 93.1% "First Date/Meetup Lay Percentage" overall and a perfect 100% "First Date/Meetup Lay Percentage for two consecutive years. Of all the women I've "mated" with, only five happened past our first meeting: Two on the second, two on the third, and one virgin on the fifth. Let me tweak your brain for a second....... QUESTION: If someone told you that you had 30 minutes to have consensual sex on your first date or they were gonna blow your brains out with an AR-15, where would …
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:15 PM
3

No offense, but I only read the title and immediately said outloud: "That's because you were 'Mr Manners' and didn't fuck her by the 3rd date......." But let's keep reading........... 🤔 EDIT: After just reading the first sentence -- You tried to set up a "FIFTH DATE" for wine at your place? Dude, that shoulda been your "FIRST DATE!" Dinner at my place and telling her to bring her favorite wine is ALWAYS my textbook standard first meeting, let alone my first "date" -- Stop being a coward. EDIT: A…
/r/seduction30/10/25 11:51 AM
1

When I read: "I had a thing to go to after so there was no chance... (CLUELESS)" & "I'm not really looking for that anymore (LIE)" & "Ran some good flirting (BETA)" & "Asked her what her intentions were (WEAK)", I knew you were cooked. ABC. ALWAYS BE CLOSING. You're the Leader. She wants to be led, so stop following her away from the place you really want to take her. Logistics. Logistics. LOGISTICS. I don't think you're completely dead in the water yet, but you're definitely wounded and bleedin…
/r/seduction29/10/25 05:40 AM
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You wanna flirt/date, so you get on the app. You get on the app, so you can make an exciting profile. You make an exciting profile, so you can get excited matches. You have excited matches, so now you have Leverage to briefly vibe in their inbox. You briefly vibe in her inbox, so you can quickly get her on the phone. You quickly get her on the phone, so you can gradually "Vibe Her Up" into seduction (Yes, with your actual voice/vocal cords into her actual ear.) You "Vibe Her Up" into seduction, …
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:59 PM
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It's "plausible deniability" in order to let lames down easy after the expensive dinners:"Sorry Skippy, I know you want a kiss after spending $3,987.68 for steak, oysters, truffles, virgin lobsters and wine mixed with imported Unicorn tears, but I told you I was only looking for friends....." 🦄
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:26 PM
2

Judging by your pictures, I'd say that's accurate, but just make sure you're mentally ready because he will do it again.
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:19 PM
1

Hmm....... What exactly did he tell you to do? (And be very detailed and specific.......) J/K? But seriously...... He's employing Psychological Warfare against you. So, unless you like having your mind fucked along with all your other orifices, I'd say he definitely did you a favor by leaving.
/r/seduction28/10/25 10:50 AM
1

I'm a dating coach and currently have a client who's a 32 year old kissless virgin. You're not alone.
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:51 PM
-1

Read my comment history if you need any clarification 🍀
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:19 AM
4

Here, hold this----> 🍀 (You're welcome.) But seriously, stop "asking girls out" and start "telling chicks IN" -- And your results will skyrocket.
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:00 AM
1

Where did you go on your third date?
/r/seduction24/10/25 11:42 AM
1

Rule #1: Stop saying the word "date", seduce them before you even meet in person, then set the logistics for the first meeting to be at your place. Rule #2: Re-read Rule #1. (This is my standard first "date.")
/r/seduction23/10/25 02:42 PM
1

(You have an "asking" mentality......) TELL > ask TELL HER IN > ask her out LET'S GO > do you want to go? COME WITH ME > do you want some company? (WTF?) LEADING > permission seeking BOSS > employee INDIFFERENT > hurt feelings/need to heal/buy her a drink (WTF!?) 🛑
/r/seduction16/10/25 11:24 AM
2

Spoken like a true virgin.
/r/seduction15/10/25 07:16 PM
1

You wanna get sex faster, so you get on the app. You get on the app, so you can make an exciting profile. You make an exciting profile, so you can get excited matches. You have excited matches, so now you have Leverage to briefly vibe in their inbox. You briefly vibe in her inbox, so you can quickly get her on the phone. You quickly get her on the phone, so you can gradually "Vibe Her Up" into seduction (Yes, with your actual voice/vocal cords into her actual ear.) You "Vibe Her Up" into seducti…
/r/seduction15/10/25 09:57 AM
1

Aside from what I said with number 1, your voice message was so "fraudulently reactive" and fucked up that silence is your only option, but you can always throw all "pride" aside and say: "Forget everything I said and let me know when you're free to get together......"
/r/seduction15/10/25 02:17 AM
2

Stay away from chicks who have boyfriends/husbands and don't even consider going to their place for any reason (Do I really need to explain this one?) -- There are too many single/available women out here to go through any unnecessary bullshit with one who isn't. Here's where you really fucked up -- LOGISTICS. YOU: "Hey! Let's have a date on Monday! No? Okay then, let's have a date on Tuesday! No? Okay then, let's have a date on Thursday! No? Well whatever! I'm clueless and completely indifferen…
/r/seduction14/10/25 10:44 AM
1

Just because someone's chill, calm and grounded doesn't mean they're not confident. All "confidence" means is your ability to move more effectively based on endless repetition of positive results. So no, confidence isn't overrated in seduction, in fact, it's essential.
/r/seduction13/10/25 04:22 PM
1

Move on, you're done. Introversion doesn't mean bland, safe, boring and indirect -- And please stop using the words "crush & rejected" (She's Above/You're below/Lower mentality) and learn to have a Spark that instantly turns into a Vibe (The core of attraction......) Your results will change once you realize this.
/r/seduction12/10/25 06:40 AM
5

The difference is their mentality. Regular guys ask women out for "safe" daytime dates at coffee shops (even if they hate coffee) and nervously hope it goes well while sticking to typical weather/work topics so they don't risk " offending" her. Men who do well with women effortlessly "vibe them up" over the phone with no filter before they've even met in person and tell her to bring wine for the dinner they're having in his living room Saturday night -- Then she texts him: "On my way. I'm nervou…
/r/seduction11/10/25 11:30 AM
1

Self explanatory. Click my profile and read my comment history.
/r/seduction10/10/25 08:23 PM
1

LOGISTICS > sexual tension TELL HER IN > ask her out
/r/seduction10/10/25 06:54 PM
19

When you told her that your GF of 8 years cheated on you (Stop "Over-Sharing"), it created two dynamics in her head: 1) She saw you as someone who's potentially not over his ex -- Which threatens her "belief" in you. 2) She saw you as a "weaker" version of yourself since "a woman chose another man over you" -- Which, at least subconsciously, turns her off. This is why, at least verbally, she "took sex off the table" -- Because she lost sexual attraction for you and put you in the "Just Friends" …
/r/seduction09/10/25 11:47 AM
1

(There's too many to count, but click my profile if you wanna know the "Insider" shit....) The Subtle Ones: Women stare at you. They "Colgate Smile" at you. They touch your arm. They linger or brush up against you. They blatantly bump into you. They bend over in front of you and look back at you. They laugh at everything you say. They flip their hair around you excessively. They pick imaginary "lint" off your clothes. They ask what you're gonna be doing later. They text and call you excessively.…
/r/seduction03/10/25 01:02 AM
4

Irrelevant. A 10 can be a virgin and a 1 can be a whore -- And vice versa -- And yes, regarding your request, I'm definitely "qualified" to respond to your post. The only difference is the "Level of Entry" required to ride that particular ride, for lack of a better phrase -- But 100+ "body count" (or zero) is possible either way. It's her integrity, not her looks, that matters in the end.
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:08 PM
2

Because "actively pursuing" to Them = "Neediness", which = "A lack of options/No women want you" which = "An indirect warning to ALSO stay away from you." (And yes, it's that serious to them -- Even if they're totally wrong about you.)
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:40 PM
1

She's waiting for your next payment. But seriously, what did you expect her perception of things were gonna be in a story beginning with: "I met a woman at a hotel......?"
/r/seduction29/09/25 11:12 AM
5

1) NEVER say the word "Beautiful" or use the same corny ass emojis (Or any) as everyone else. STAND OUT. Everytime she sees your name on IG, she should have a slight adrenaline rush. 2) Have something that Sparks her interest on your page (Great pics, unique bio, etc...) 3) Say interesting things to her Publicly (at least 2 or 3 times spread out over days/weeks without DM'ing her) that are relevant to her posts and have nothing to do with sex, love or beauty. 4) Then DM her on something recently…
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:10 PM
1

I've had many "Best/First" declarations and even a professional erotica author who based a whole character on me, but the two comments that stick out the most are "You should get paid for this" (during sex) and when a woman left around 2am, then called me at noon saying "It feels like you're still fucking me....." One that's a mixed bag is when women immediately after sex (and sometimes during sex) ask you to be their boyfriend -- Very flattering -- But I apparently never get the "Polite Turn Do…
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:15 AM
2

(The previous comment was brought to you by Hallmark.) PS: Pretty ironic, since "Everything" in your post history is porn. 🤔
/r/seduction26/09/25 02:37 PM
-3

Unless they're letting you indulge in their "Good Features" -- It's irrelevant. BTW: What's the context where "5 different women" would recently tell you that you have "Good Features?" -- It kinda sounds something like this....... YOU: Can I have your phone number? GIRLS: We all have boyfriends. YOU: It's because I'm ugly, huh? GIRLS: No! All 5 of us think you have really good features!
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:35 PM
1

A magazine actually said to take a woman to a coffee shop in the daytime because "Saturday Night is too big." -- No joke.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:52 PM
14

Unless you can go from first time matching/speaking, to her moaning in your bed in under two hours without even leaving your house, I think my "Online Vibing" has the club beat. This isn't the 80's, Jack Tripper (Which I literally lived through) -- Use your damn technology The Right Way. The key is having zero "personality filters" on your profile or in your messages, then talking to her (Yes, with your actual "No Filter" mouth/voice) like you've known her for years and "High Vibing" her logisti…
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:16 AM
1

I've spoken about how to do this so many times that, at this point, I really feel like telling people to just scroll down my history (which is extremely long) and read. I'm a dating coach and "women coming straight to your house" is The Core of what I teach, along with all aspects of "Online/Phone Vibing" and most importantly, Mastering Yourself -- Which, if you're completely clueless about (Knowledge/Belief of/in Yourself), you'll be "Mastering Yourself" in a totally different (and much more fr…
/r/seduction21/09/25 07:01 AM
1

Finally, some good advice in this thread -- Especially sarcasm and talking to her like you've known her for years (Like you're already "Playful FWB") -- No "choppy" introductions needed. Another guy in here said something about the phone being Key -- Meaning actually talking -- And that's extremely important as well. "Male Voice to female ear" is undefeated in seduction.
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:45 AM
8

Funny, there's actually a song called "IJustWannaFuckYou" by a rapper named Chase Swayze that shows you exactly how to do this. No joke.
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:21 AM
1

"Dinner dates" are definitely "first date things" when they're in your living room...... (My routine "first date" btw.....)
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:06 PM
1

Totally agree -- But then why not just make the first "meet up/date" at your place?
/r/seduction16/09/25 09:57 PM
8

Because "many men" never thought first date sex was even a possibility, so they play everything "polite and safe" and ask women out to daytime dates at coffee shops and use phrases like "gentleman" and "get to know" when they don't even like coffee in the first damn place.
/r/seduction16/09/25 09:17 PM
1

So did the "date" start at your place?
/r/seduction16/09/25 10:29 AM
1

It's not about their looks since your "average perception" of their appearance, for better or worse, will most likely differ from their own. It's all about who approaches them and most importantly, how he's approaching her.
/r/seduction15/09/25 05:29 AM
1

Completely delete any simplistic thoughts of "complimenting" and ground yourself in her "Best Case Scenario Endgame Response" to your hypothetical compliment. This post is the type of fear based thinking that has y'all up in coffee shops on Wednesday afternoons when you don't even like coffee. In other words, you don't really want to say "You look pretty tonight" do you? No -- You want her enthusiastic response to your "compliment" to immediately lead you both to "Making Out" and her ending up i…
/r/seduction14/09/25 11:43 AM
1

DELETE THIS WORD FROM YOUR VOCABULARY. There's no such thing as ____________. It's either Getting or Knowing. You either Got your desired result....... .......or you stepped up and now Know it ain't happening. But "NO" is always better than "Never Knowing....." NO > wondering (The only "Rejection" is when you fail to act and "reject" yourself because your fear of "Knowing" defeated your Love of Getting.)
/r/seduction14/09/25 11:08 AM
13

Congratulations on "getting back out there" -- Give us an update on how tonight's date went. Btw, you've already made out, so her coming straight to your place tonight "for dinner" is hopefully how you played it.
/r/seduction13/09/25 02:21 PM
1

Coulda sworn you said you sent more, but no biggie -- Don't text her anything else if you genuinely don't care -- But if you do care (and I know this is "rule breaking" but fuck it), then don't contact her at all (give her room to respond) until Thursday night -- Then, you will call her around 9:30pm and actually use the sound of your voice (TALK > text) to speak into her ear, ask her when she's free to get together for dinner at your place (and fuck her good this time), and tell her to bring he…
/r/seduction10/09/25 07:20 PM
1

If you have to ask, then you're not. How many "ignored texts" did you send her?
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:30 PM
1

Never ask a woman "Where do you see this going?" Can you show us the exact texts you sent that she ignored?
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:22 PM
15

Not. All. Women. Are. Like. That.
/r/seduction06/09/25 05:11 AM
1

Stop listening to what women say. Stop watching what women do. Start finding out who you Really are...... ..... And then show that to so many people..... ......That "She" has no choice but to find You.
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:20 AM
0

No, you need a "Life" and Self-Respect first -- Using a "partner" as a "cope" is needy AF and the literal definition of Codependent.
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:02 AM
3

But isn't it fair to say that if you get sex on a regular basis, you wouldn't have even felt the need to "keep trophies" (especially used condoms) and if you don't get sex on a regular basis, it would have been virtually impossible for you to pull/close 3 new women in 48 hours in the first place?
/r/seduction01/09/25 04:04 PM
13

How rare would you say it is for you VS the average man that all 3 women initiated the pull (Convo, drinks, number) while 2 out of 3 initiated the close/sex?
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:34 PM
2

Your post is like a teenage LeBron James skipping college and going straight into the NBA, making All Star Teams, taking the Cavs to The Finals, making hundreds of millions of dollars by the time he's 21, and then randomly thinking: "Damn, I missed out on all those college parties and endless chances to hang out with a bunch of people my own age who don't know who they are or where they're going in life -- Fuck the NBA -- I'm going to college!" NO. Fuck "hanging out" and "kicking it" and "partyi…
/r/seduction28/07/25 01:53 PM
431

It's not about "her world" -- It's about you actually having your own world and having the ability to "Vibe Her Up" to the point where she's excited about being in it -- Even if "Your World" is simply your bedroom.
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:09 PM
1

Do/Think the opposite of everything you're doing/thinking. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:33 PM
3

What other people think of me is none of my business. No offense, but people who ask questions like this and care so much about "odds and percentages" and "what a woman is thinking or saying or doing or whatever" will only see "romantic limitations" in their reality. Who cares what "They" think or what their "tastes" are? "They" are literally a billion different people. The same guy who one chick sees as "just a friend" can also be seen as a lifetime sex partner by another woman. The same dude w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:23 PM
2

I agree with the grifters part, but I totally disagree with surgery (Unless you're a Sub 3), especially since your inner self will still see yourself as what you've always been before the surgery, so you'll still act in a way that repels women -- That's partially why most people get multiple cosmetic surgeries over and over again. In addition to being a 9 or a 10 in looks or status, your words and your demeanor that turn a positive vibe into a spark is how men attract women. A guy with 8 looks a…
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:03 PM
1

Tell us about your dating life and what you specifically need help with.
/r/seduction17/10/24 04:39 PM
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