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Let me paint you another picture. You were struggling with your business and that put you in a negative mental space. As a result of being in that negative space you put on some weight, probably using excessive or unhealthy eating patterns as a coping mechanism. You go out and bomb with girls because you're in a negative mental space, not because of your weight. They picked up on that negativity and didn't vibe with it but you probably weren't even conscious of it. As far as you were concerned t…
/r/seduction06/04/26 03:26 PM
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Well think about it for a minute. On OLD women have so much choice that they hike up their selection criteria. What this means is that they end up selecting only the very best men. However, if all women are doing this it means the very best men are getting picked by nearly every woman. This essentially means that after selection the roles are reversed. Most men have been filtered out, seriously reducing the supply, whilst the remaining men are selected by most women, increasing the demand. She m…
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:30 PM
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It's all about supply and demand. When it comes to OLD there is a massive surplus of men meaning women are in high demand. Girls can casually flick through hundreds of men on apps like Tinder, bin off about 95% of them and still have more men hammering their DMs than they'll ever need. It's massively skewed in favour of women and allows them to seriously hike up their selection criteria. In reality though, that same girl will probably have a handful of interactions during the day that have sexua…
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:38 AM
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I think calling her friend rude probably put her on the defensive foot. When you first attempted to leave you probably should have just mentioned that it seemed like her/friend were overdue a catch-up and you'd meet her again another time. She's always going to jump to the defence of a friend over a stranger so better to just avoid any potential conflict there. Calling the friend rude and complaining clearly came across as pouting/sulking to her as well. Not leaving the first time also put the c…
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:06 PM
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Having read your original post and all your subsequent responses it's seems pretty clear what the issue is - you don't love yourself and you don't accept yourself for what you are. Look at these comments: I gave up on pickup, when I realised that I was too ugly to sleep with normal girls I am an unattractive guy and very inexperienced sexually. I am just too unattractive for a regular girl to fall for me and the only woman who will truely love me is my mother. These are not the comments of a con…
/r/seduction31/01/21 11:45 AM
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Seems to be a lot of comments asking what the woman is bringing to the table. Do people understand this is a list of qualities that most OP believes most women might want in men in general. The qualities that a woman should have for any one man is entirely dependant on your own personal desires. If you have the above qualities you should be able to attract women that possess the sort of qualities you find attractive. If you don't know what they are then you need to have a word with yourself. As …
/r/seduction04/05/19 11:42 AM
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I think the way point 6 has be written is misleading and slightly over the top. The 'awesome' life described above with super cool friends, loads of hobbies and lots of money is a celebrity lifestyle that doesn't apply to 99% of men. What you do need is an 'awesome' life that you have filled with hobbies that you enjoy, good friends and some level of financial security so that your whole World doesn't revolve around the girl. Imagine if you had no/shitty friends, no hobbies/interests of your own…
/r/seduction04/05/19 11:20 AM
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I don't doubt that voice messaging works, texts are so easy to misread because there's so little context and emotion. I just think there are some girls that might find a voice message a bit off putting (seems like there is one in the comments). Personally I prefer to ring a girl up rather than text her because, as you said, you're far more likely to have success if she hears your voice. I still disagree with messaging a girl. I've had girls where there is a legitimate reason for not replying (fa…
/r/seduction24/12/18 06:53 PM
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I agree with your first three points but disagree with the next two points. I think some of the messaging tips are quite situational as well. I can see some girls liking a funny meme or a voice message but others might find it cringy. I'd maybe add the caveat that the approach entirely depends on what sort of girl you're dealing with. In terms of sending a second text if the first one goes unanswered, I don't really see the benefit of this. It's a percentage game for guys and in the overwhelming…
/r/seduction24/12/18 06:24 PM
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TLDR - Don't be silly, wrap your willy
/r/seduction27/05/15 07:43 PM
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So this is the girl that works at a bar you went who told you effectively 'I don't shit where I eat'. I see you mentioned you were going back to that bar again in the future as well. My advice is don't ask her again. She made her position clear the last time you saw her, asking her again is just going to annoy her. If you are going back to that bar you are going because you liked the food/atmosphere, not because you fancy the waitress. The only way you get her number is by not trying to get her …
/r/seduction17/05/15 09:13 PM
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Yep, the stuff i've seen would be considered sexual harassment in the UK/US (I saw some guys in Sardinia pull up to a woman, chat to her for a minute or two and then try to drag her into the car). I would say as well that the aggressive way men chase after women in Italy means that the women in Italy have ultra high defences. Italian guy comes over here and he cleans up because the women are so much easier. Honestly I would say just follow all the advice that is laid out in this subreddit and he…
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:58 PM
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Why don't you have an actual conversation with her then, call her or meet up for coffee or something like that. Don't have a text conversation.
/r/seduction14/09/14 05:46 PM
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Personally I wouldn't be revealing your age to women. If they think you're older then great, go with it and keep your age as a little mystery. If they think you're 18 though and you then reveal you are 16 I think you're probably just cock blocking yourself. Older women do like a younger guy but I think for most older women 16 is a little bit too young. With regards to that second bit, it will be coming across to some extent even if it isn't obvious and even if the woman isn't quite sure what it …
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:15 PM
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Not unfounded but yes they were assumptions. Firstly, he's 16 and I can remember what being 16 was like. Ridiculously horny and desperate to fuck anything. On top of that he has decided to create this thread despite the success he is already having and despite his mentors telling him not to worry about it. For me that is a good indicator that he is hung up on losing his virginity and, given how much more perceptive women are, it is going to be obvious to them. The advice to relax, stop worrying …
/r/seduction30/07/14 12:29 PM
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Firstly, dude you're 16. You are barely over the age of consent which means your peers are also barely over the age of consent. In many other countries you'd have to wait until you are 18 for legal sex. My guess would be that you are having success with a lot of girls that are a similar age to you and guess what, they are most probably virgins as well. As you well know, losing your virginity is a big deal and it can be quite daunting for some people. There are quite a number of girls out there t…
/r/seduction30/07/14 12:12 PM
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Second the physical exercise idea. I started kickboxing, met new people, got fit and now I literally kick ass. I did two sessions week and always had a big shit eating grin on my face at the end despite being exhausted.
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:00 PM
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This is good advice. I would almost be tempted to suggest a trip to Amsterdam and a quick visit to red light district. That virgin tag seems to be weighing him down and I know from personal experience how getting that monkey off your back is such a relief. That and working on his fear of rejection and all the excuses that are holding him back from escalating with a girl
/r/seduction28/03/14 02:17 PM
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Just for the record I was responding to his comments where he indicated that he'd text her on Friday about a date on Monday and she had ignored him. To me technically she hasn't flaked yet at that stage and i'd still pursue her with one phone call. However, I just checked out OP and this is one of three posts on this subject. Going on the info in the other two he is chasing a lost cause and has definite oneitis. Fair play, you called it right on this one.
/r/seduction30/06/13 05:31 PM
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Likewise if you think every woman that's attracted to you is going to reply to your first message then you're very much mistaken. Abundance mentality is great but if you can't recognise that some women might need a bit of coaxing then you're going to miss out on a lot of great women. It's entirely possible and quite likely that you're right, she isn't interested and he should move on. However, looking from another perspective it's also possible the attraction is there but OP has failed to make h…
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:40 PM
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It really annoys me how that word gets thrown around so easily by some people. He's texted a girl once and she hasn't replied, it's not oneitis to ask what his next move could be. There are a million reasons why she might not reply that aren't connected to her being disinterested or high maintenance and lets face it, if you don't think a girl is worth chasing up after one text then what were you doing starting an interaction with her in the first place. I'm not sure what the full situation is he…
/r/seduction29/06/13 06:38 PM
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This sounds like an issue i've had. Are you by any chance quite a laid back kind of guy? I'm extremely laid back, nothing really bothers me a great deal which is great in that i'm very calm and chilled out most of the time but I find it very hard to get passionate about something. For me I came to realisation that I'm not a passionate sort of guy and came to some sort of acceptance over that. That's not to say i'm some dullard that sits around all day twiddling my thumbs and has nothing interest…
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:00 PM
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