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Probably not very common, but I remember reading a long post in bestof one time about how the whole thing happens in the NBA. He added how there was a big uproar about players having it written into their contracts that they are supposed to flush condoms down the toilet after sex. In the average population I would say its uncommon, but for major earners and particularly celebrities, I am sure it is part of their regular day-to-day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:31 PM
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I honestly thought the whole thing was ridiculous, until I had a friend make a claim that pursuing a certain woman for him was dangerous because she may file some sort of a claim against him and ruin his career. So there is definitely some reaction among men towards the current state of media, but I doubt it's large enough to make a cultural impact. I think it's just a temporary fad that gets them views and it will pass just as any subject matter does, and once it passes the spotlight people wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:13 PM
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I feel like this is more of a manifestation of media at this point. Someone out there needs to write an article to generate views, ad clicks, or subscribers. They know this is the flavor of the month topic that gets people to talk about it, share links, and discuss creating a powerful incentive to publish these types of articles. This claim seems outrageous, and is a bad date at best and a good learning experience for her. Too much of it seems like the writer/publisher trying to shoehorn this po…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 09:11 PM
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7: Isn't it awkward when these rich men hook up with these awesome "world class" women? I don't really understand the sexual transaction. But these men know damn well that if they weren't rich then the women would have nothing to do with them. And the women know that if they weren't ultra-hot then the men would have no interest in them, at least when it comes to supermodel-types. (Maybe that's a callous thing to say, but the conspicuous thing about a supermodel is her looks, and it seems like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:52 PM
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It has to do with status, they are extracting status. People often think that simply by being associated with someone successful they will get a boost out of it. There is some truth to it, but as a rule everything has to do with your own competence as a person first. Any opportunity an intelligent person can give you can only match your own competence. I think I have a pretty good amount of experience to answer your question because two closest friends are both in the 100M+ net range. 1: Is this…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:52 PM
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Would make it a lot tougher for women, I don't think they would want that. The whole reel them in with sex and he will fall for you strategy is pretty good, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 03:09 PM
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I think it's just indicative power in the relationship - the person clinging on for dear life is clearly the one with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 12:58 PM
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Couldn't agree more, the impressions you create always matter. If I find out you had a tough time in college, that's quite normal. If I find out you had a string of suicide attempts, probably going to be a negative on your record. It sucks, but other people do not date you because you bring extra problems into their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:52 PM
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I think some differences in the SMP can be ascribed to biological differences between men and women. These differences manifest as the experiences of the genders in the market. Men have higher testosterone resulting in higher sex drives and greater propensity to risk taking, on average. For men it seems harder because it is harder to satisfy their sex drive which in turn puts them into the pursuer role. Women have less desire and therefore are less likely to be in the pursuer role. In reality I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 02:15 PM
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It's a bit of both. Most likely your perspectives have shifted - you either have shot up in the income bracket or you have moved into a very different social environment. The observations are however true, I studied a bit of this due to a health craze that is sweeping across the upper class of America right now. Drugs and vacations are on their way out and health and juicing (not steroids - although sometimes due to a rise in popularity of youth clinicians). Upper echelon of society is obsessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 03:48 PM
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Anecdotes are more indicative of the man and the development of his perspective than dating culture at large. It is very common for us as humans to project ourselves all over the place and people. I am happy to see that a lot of men's lives are improving as times goes by and they find themselves feeling better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 03:37 PM
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Women are more likely to be judged for their physical appearance and being overweight is a very obvious physical flaw by popular aesthetic values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 01:46 PM
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I think it depends on individual attitude and use. Too much of anything is bad for you. There are people that drink too much and there are people that can have a drink socially without being unable to function the next day. I think it's unfair to shift the burden or responsibility away from individual. I know a lot of college men that were successful with women albeit their pornography use. I've also known losers that used pornography. In the latter case I don't think pornography was the largest…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 11:15 PM
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I would like to elaborate on what attractive versus unattractive vulnerability in men looks like from my experience. Being vulnerable in an attractive way means sharing what you really think/feel. For example: "Yes, I do think you're slightly overweight and you losing those last 15 lbs. would make you a lot more attractive." Most men know that saying something along those lines to a woman generally does not end well. Hell, saying that to one of your guy friends does not end well. People become a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 06:08 PM
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Casual sex/dating is more appealing to me because it feels like a lower level of investment for me. My reasons are as follows: If I had to move to advance my career, I can do that without a second thought and don't really need to create a compromise for the girl. Similarly if she had to move I am 100% free to make my own choice. The need I feel to make a compromise is much smaller, especially in areas where I find very important to me. I keep all my friends, all my hobbies, and do with my time w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:41 PM
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When I date girls that are in my league I constantly get told that oh she's a keeper and that I should be careful not to mess up this relationship. I find there is a lot of outside pressure to "treat her better" because people like to project their attraction and give advice where they really shouldn't - it adds up over time. I also feel that pressure myself because attractive women are less common, so I am more invested in the long haul. I have friends that still try to convince me to get back …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 03:07 PM
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I view it kind of like a resume. It is something your prospective employer sees first and gets a first impression. You may look great on that paper, but if you bomb the interview it doesn't matter. However, the thing that's great about candidates that do look good on paper is having those opportunities to begin with. Looks is necessary to create those opportunities, but it is not, solely, enough to to capitalize on it. How you look is the first thing that people perceive and it will contextualiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:43 PM
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1) I don't think it's inherently unattractive, it's not really a big deal for me in terms of attraction. To me it signals how much the woman is investing in herself or this particular interaction. Also, tells me something about the type of person I am on a date with. It is largely a social construct, it's all about where you live and the type of demographic you participate in. 2) It's not really a turn off, but I would be less invested. She would have to charm me that much more with her other qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 05:01 PM
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This is the same thing about how girls like nice guys, but chase after Chad - muh self-esteem. Only difference I see is that you're a girl so your journey is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:53 PM
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It is very obvious, though, that he is responding to real entitlement from the girl, which will naturally instill an (unconscious) sense that there is an underlying transaction If a guy is paying because he believes the girl expects it he's going into the interaction with an incorrect mindset that will only make him more upset later. If a guy genuinely feels that way towards a small expenditure for drinks/dinner then he shouldn't be dating or taking his dates to a park or something. Your friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:42 PM
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To me it's about how the other person feels individually. You as a guy have no idea whether she plans to pay for it herself or what - so just get to see how things play out and simply burden the social expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 04:09 PM
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That is a story, albeit a short one - I am not sure how common of a scenario it is, but I do have a friend who will only take girls out for drinks and on numerous occasions would throw away the menu when she attempts to order food. It's similar to how covert contracts function for nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:36 PM
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I bought dinner therefore you owe me sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 10:10 PM
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Prostitution is such a silly matter. How can something that is legal to give out for free be illegal to sell? It's legal to fuck me and it's legal for me to give a random girl money. But all of the sudden, it's somehow illegal for me to give her money FOR her to fuck me. The problem arises when different people participate in the system. When sex becomes a commodity that people are willing to pay money for it builds a whole industry around it filled with people that individually determine what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:30 PM
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It all depends on the kind of sex. If you are having sex because it's fun and you are attracted to someone. Probably a good thing. If you are pursuing sex to be validated. Probably got a little more work to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:06 PM
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I think it's because of the views different genders have of post-divorce world. From what I have experienced women kind of glorify post-divorce single life for each other whereas men generally focus on discussing how painful the process is. I hear quite often women egg each other on about how crappy the current guy and how much better off she could be. Whereas men have the approach of dude you need to tough it out and quit messing up because you don't want to have that shitty experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:20 PM
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I think it's like anything you believe in - you chose a side and you align yourself with it. I think the other side of the coin would sound like: "men only want one thing". However, I have yet to hear someone say that it is incorrect to generalize men and that is an anti male sentiment. In my view it represents an anti-female sentiment because you are ideologically lean more towards those set of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 07:46 PM
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Attractive people get away with a lot. Chris Brown is doing it on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:32 PM
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People are a lot less bored. The concept of having free time where you don't have anything to do no longer exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:32 PM
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Men have a hormonal cycle as well, except it's daily. I am sure there are numerous studies describing the change in behavior of a man over the course of a day. The peaks and troughs of hormones experienced by men and women are drastically different. Over the course of a month a healthy woman will exhibit a rather drastic change in her hormonal profile (multiple hormones). One interesting example: at a point in her cycle the role of estrogen actually switches. Around the 14th day of the cycle, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:03 PM
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Struggle will always exist because competition exists. It is a biological drive to compete against other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 03:25 PM
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I believe this is picking a very particular demographic of women, and thus not necessarily a problem for everyone. I don't know about other areas, but this happens a lot in academics and medicine. There are some very educated and successful women that are around 30 years old and they have a lot of difficulty pairing off. I think it's a combination of their standards becoming higher (less suitable partners), their age (harder time to find single people to mingle with), and that it's socially acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 04:07 PM
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Liberalism is closely associated with academia in North America. The post-secondary institutions often have a culture with strong opinions on both feminism and liberalism. Berkley in US has a strong reputation for this culture, similarly McGill in Canada. That is why people exposed to this demographic or a part of it will associate the two. Personally, I grew up in the Eastern world. Feminist values weren't very strong because everyone grew up with the idea that women and men are equal - collect…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 11:28 PM
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Oh men complain about it, I am pretty sure we had a song called Gold Digger on Billboard in the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:46 PM
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I have heard of a lot of guys of color struggle with dating white women. However, they have no problem dating within their own race, so I think they will be just fine. There is a stereotype about asian girls trying to lock down a white guy, but it doesn't really happen for them. Other than that interracial difficulty I think everything is fine in their dating lives. There are stuck up people, but I don't think color affects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:29 PM
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I do prefer taller women. Dancing with shorter women is often awkward. However, I don't think it would affect my dating choices too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:09 PM
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Sure, I agree with that. However, how can that be the case in this context when this woman has made many decisions for a majority of her life that are not in concordance with her gender role; including moving away from her family to pursue her career. However, as soon as she does something that lines up with this belief it's because gender roles finally got to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:54 PM
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Most of my opinion is formed on this podcast here, it's an interesting listen so if you want to give a shot here: http://freakonomics.com/podcast/the-true-story-of-the-gender-pay-gap-a-new-freakonomics-radio-podcast/ The wage gap does exist, however it is not nearly as large as stated in popular media. It is my personal opinion that today people push the sexism/racism discrimination issues too far in North American Countries. Also I feel that the systemic policies this type of approach creates h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:10 PM
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After I read this it kind of clicked for me. One of the reasons that married men are healthier is probably because no one wants to marry someone who isn't healthy. This behavior creates the correlation and not an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:50 PM
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It's wrong to do it if you are aware of your intent not to marry this person. It doesn't really make sense to go down this path because you are wasting your own time. However, sometimes people get cold feet and change their minds that's not a problem at all. Everyone men and women reserve the right to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:46 PM
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Convincing is another word for "seducing". If you don't try to convince, you're not getting any fish from that sea. There's a breaking point where you should maybe stop trying, of course. Seduction is being able to convince someone that already likes you to take things to the next level. Attraction itself is non-negotiable. I am saying that you have to become emotionally invested in the person in order to build a relationship. You can't constantly emotionally protect yourself form getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:21 PM
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Keeping tabs on this type of thing is what creates fights and disagreements. If you ever find yourself in a situation where you are keeping tabs, you likely already have built up resentment and this is just another thing to get at the other person. Truth is if you don't like to cook, find someone who does. Both of you will be incredibly happy. I am a man I love to cook, my mother doesn't cook, most women my age can't cook either. I have never kept track of how many meals or whatever I have cooke…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:57 PM
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What if we reverse roles, what would TRP tell to a dude that says >"it is possible that a 10/10 girl change her minds and accept to have sex with you, however that is going to be extremely rare"? They'll say you need to improve. I think the answers will be a combination of abundance mentality and attraction is non-negotiable. As in; there are plenty of fish in the sea, find someone who actually likes you instead of trying to convince someone that they should. What people say to women? They say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:26 PM
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It's like being told you're a very good artist by someone who can barely draw stick people. Their comments are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:08 PM
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Sometimes, displaying good beta traits is an important part of game. However, as a result you also create an idea that something more is possible. Guys know that in order to secure a lay sometimes it is important to play this game. Up front most guys know quite quickly whether they find the woman attractive enough to commit. It is possible that people change their minds and fall in love, however I think that is a rare occurrence. The situation becomes wrong due to the nature of male game, and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:58 PM
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why ISNT any mans FIRST impulse to ask men who are "good with women" Firstly, because the type of guy that has this problem in the first place has a frail ego. His own insecurity stops him from learning to be better. That guy who is more successful than him can't be better; he's just a douche/asshole that gets women. You have to be an asshole/douche to get women, but he's not like that he is a nice guy. Second, they are often not in touch with the inner masculinity, they overthink everything ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:45 PM
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You are way over-estimating how much effort guys put into online dating. Most of my friends would sit there swipe without looking when things are slow while we're out, whoever matched they would send a canned opener/joke - literally copy and pasted to any girl. If the girl responds then they would check if she's hot or not and then answer. Girls that are getting validation from Tinder based on how many guys message them are very wrong about what guys actually do. Feeling good about someone copy-…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:24 PM
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In this case people are likely calling you shallow because they are jealous of your effort and success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:41 PM
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The disadvantage is huge from the male perspective, and probably even larger for women. It is the difference between being passed over for a promotion and getting it. It is the difference between having an inferior resume and still getting a job because you are "more personable". It is the difference between wishing you had somewhere to go on the weekend and choosing between different options. For guy it is the difference between being an orbiter and having female orbiters. As a man you get some…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:14 PM
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Pretty much this; to any of my less experienced friends I always tell to always look for girls with a healthy self-image and emotional stability. Those are the number one thing I look for even in people I plan on regularly interacting with. After reading No More Mr. Nice Guy I realized for all the problem behaviors I exhibited in my relationship, and why it was such a roller coaster. When you are in a giving mood this everything will be great, but when you are low and need something yourself the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:03 PM
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I am also curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:34 PM
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People don't like anyone aggressive and stubborn. People like assertive and persistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 07:13 PM
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These characteristics are unattractive in everyone, except the likes order and planning. Planning is a huge plus for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 06:50 PM
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I have tons of female friends and I do not mind it at all. Every once in a while even if someone is a 100% selfish ass, their interests and your interests will align and you end up having a great time without anyone feeling like they have been used. The key for me is to have a large enough of a social circle as to have these types of opportunities always available. In my view even that girl that asks you to go to a wedding and pretend to be her boyfriend so she doesn't look single in front of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 06:10 PM
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I agree 100%, everybody can be motivated. If you do not know how to motivate the person you have spent years with then may be you need to start looking outside the box for strategies. People can be very smart, and when they know you for a long time they know exactly how to make you tick. Think dread game rather than overt manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:49 PM
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Well you know, working on cars and skateboarding is basically a gateway to hookers and blow. I am 100% being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:44 PM
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It is much about being yourself, however a lot is about appropriate expression; be the best version of yourself. Both genders go through a learning process for the correct expression of their respective behaviors. Expressing how you feel is important, doing so in a contextually appropriate manner is, in my opinion, even more so. For example, tampering and appropriately expressing aggression for a man in an appropriate way is a life-long learning process. It often makes the difference between the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:57 PM
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I have been told that most of the women I am very attracted to are fairly masculine. I do not really notice many differences between masculine and feminine women, may be something superficial like whether she follows sports. The only outright masculine thing I find as a turn off is when women swear, or talk like one of the guys. It is perfectly ok to be a girl in a male dominated setting, you can still be a girl you don't need to act in a way to be one of the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:01 PM
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I have taken different kind of approaches, and what worked best for me was to be flexible and understanding towards the needs and wants of the other person. I don't have a particularly hard set of rules for how things should go down, personally. When I meet a new woman I get a good sense of what I want and expect from that person. Gauging my attraction towards different women has also been pretty simple. However, I definitely subscribe to: "You have to be at least this hot for me to consider dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:11 PM
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I think both have things they have advantage and disadvantages, it's just in different areas. However, I am learning there are a lot of men out there that wish they were women. May be it is because they weren't raised with the concept of male pride, or don't yet have fully aligned themselves with their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:38 PM
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Exactly people become upset because they actually care. Dude's become upset because they want to be better or believe they can be better, for some reason this desire is not coming to fruition. It can be frustrating to face your own shortcomings and humanity, particularly ones that are very much within your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:27 PM
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Exactly this, I don't understand how men can ever be upset about dating. It's basically like having sex with someone while having one foot in the door and not really having any serious consequences in case the relationship needs to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 05:13 PM
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These men don't want to cheat; they simply experiencing attraction to another woman. However, they are also showing understanding that in their context that would become cheating. I think most people do not deliberately choose to cheat, but instead choose to have sex with another person that they are attracted to. Cheating is the consequence of their choice, not their intent, and most men show a pretty clear understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:57 PM
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It is two different sides to the same coin. People that aren't as competitive complain that the game is unfairly advantageous for people more attractive than they are. People in general get butt hurt over things they care the most about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:49 PM
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I think people are often missing the context of when such, "don't be so emotionally expressive", situations occur. Men make fun of each other and shut each other down for being whiny, negative, or annoying. That is, if you're being a bitch to your male friends or being negative you're going to get shut down. Conversely, if you are being extremely happy and expressive of the positive range of emotions it's highly unlikely you will get called out for being too emotional, unless it's by some pissy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:03 PM
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I hear this all the time, I heard one brilliant retort one time. If that were truly the case, wouldn't companies simply prioritize hiring considerably more women because they would be able to pay them less while they do the same job?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:13 PM
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Evolutionary we are all beautiful and biologically built to be the best. Strictly as a sack of biological matter it is incredible what the human body does and how efficient it is at accomplishing it. However, there is also a behavioral aspect to beauty. Not just in how you behave towards the opposite sex, but the type of life style choices that you make. Statistically good looking people are considerably in better health than their uglier counterparts. From my experience, it is quite rare to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:57 AM
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I think it is easily summed up in the attitude of win/lose or win/win mentality. If you believe that in order for you to win someone else has to lose, then you likely will be labeled an asshole. If have however you possess the creative capacity to find win/win situations then people will like you a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:08 PM
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The exact numbers of the proportion are not relevant. It is a good way to summarize concepts strongly tied to life experience. Sexuality is a competitive market with sometimes ambiguously defined losers and winners. And much like in many other areas of life the top competitors get a disproportionate amount of the spoils. Alphaness is part of you, it is part of everyone. Every man and woman knows inside themselves what they believe to be good and bad qualities. There are some qualities that are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 08:15 AM
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It is hypocritical, but I have come to the realization that people react to it in ways that are polarized, just any political agenda. The one element I do like about it is that it raises the bar little bit when it comes to dealing with people in modern day social situations. The people that are openly saying that they wish not to be shamed for being fat, slutty, or whatever it is change the way we communicate with each other and be more careful about what we say to each other. On the contrary, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 05:22 PM
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