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DrGandu/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:13 PM
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DrGandu/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:16 PM
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DrGandu/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:00 PM
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Has a lot to do with what you eat. My roommate very carefully watches what he eats and preaches “You are what you eat”. Guy never smells bad, even after workouts.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 08:57 PM
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Well the BBC trope certainly doesn’t hurt your chances dude
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 08:49 PM
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One reason for not lying could be: you never know when you're going to slip up. You have to be constantly on the lookout to maintain the web of lies - one blunder = loss of face. Now I'm not advocating sainthood. Lying, deception, and manipulation are a complex set of skills that have to be exercised with extreme caution. Be sure to conduct a cost-benefit analysis prior to conjuring up a particularly big lie. It's ugly when they backfire.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 03:55 AM
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Women were never given this much autonomy and power anywhere throughout history on such a scale. Only to me will unfold what lies in store for us. So far a tragedy don’t you think
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 02:29 PM
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While I think the death toll is certainly exaggerated (guy committing suicide contracts COVID on way to hospital and dies before reaching is labeled a COVID death), I’ve got people on the ground in the worst affected area in NYC telling me how the ambulances howled day and night and thousands of coffins emerged
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 02:25 PM
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Crazy how this shit went down with the prenup in place
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 11:23 PM
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Such is the toll of postmodernism. No longer do developed countries have to fend for the basic necessities in life and worry about disease or mortality. Order and chaos follow each other in each of the instances you’ve mentioned. After a long period of order from prosperity, these developed postmodern nations are falling into chaos. The generations have lost touch with reality and need. Once the nation burns in flames will we see a resurgence in order. Good post
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 02:58 PM
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Update: Guy claims to be trans woman so I am calm now. Thanks for advising me to talk things over guys. I knew we were soulmates
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 07:55 PM
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But but he trains his Fornite character’s stats 6 hours a day!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 05:51 PM
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It’s probably more about them feeling more feminine from being led by a real man than hoping to make them Betas one day
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 04:57 AM
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Never against women. Society has always had the “be kind to women” rule built into its fabric. Back when they wouldn’t hound men’s asses that is
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 03:12 PM
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I see a lot of valid comments from wise trpers, but here’s my personal quirk: having even the slightest bit of alcohol in my system let’s me have a boner, but a very insensitive one. I’ve ducked for half an hour straight without letting anything out until eventually getting tired. You could try it.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 02:31 PM
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Agreed. Idk if this ones in the sidebar but “What Every Body Says” by Joe Navarro is an eye opener
/r/askTRP14/06/20 02:26 PM
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Stop giving so many fucks. You are coming off as controlling. Communication needs to be covert, not overt.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 01:10 AM
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You play with the cards you're dealt with. Gotta work on all other aspects of your life. That means sidebar, gym, diet, self-care etc
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:53 AM
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As much as I value your input, this sub is for asking questions for the most part. I'd suggest posting in the main sub. More traction and insightful discussion over there
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:27 AM
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Ironic he ends up being the world’s biggest simp
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 06:28 AM
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Personally, I don’t poison the well because there’s a Law of Power where you should refrain from doing somebody bad in case you ever need them later on. I try to live that. Ik short term it’s not gonna affect me at all but somewhere down the line I’m gonna have to cash my favors and connections, so I’d steer clear of any public scuffles.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:21 AM
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Went to hs in NYC. Black school cop on Facebook keeps calling out “coons” and “Uncle Toms” for not pledging full support for protests including riots and looting
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:07 AM
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Works the same with unplugging. It’s impossible to unplug someone who hasn’t already come to a realization
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:03 AM
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I’m a sophomore in college. Haven’t joined a frat but boy have my friends and I burned our desire to party from all the parties the last 2 semesters. We go to nightclubs now cause frat parties seem dumb at this point. Point is, wait to party till college.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:57 PM
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Reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:42 PM
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Can’t trump that
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:41 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:40 PM
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This. Rollo Tomassi pointed out (in his book or his lecture I don’t remember) that he was very careful not to associate trp with a political stance or religion so as not to be demonized by a certain side and incite more hatred towards the movement. We get enough negativity already, what’s the point of adding onto it? I agree with this. As for the left, the radical side put feelings over facts and breed Feminazis to hate on us. Conservative women don’t ignore biology and submit to leadership over…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:54 PM
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Username checks out. Don’t be a cuck OP
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:14 PM
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Agreed. He admits to agreeing with the wife on everything just to avoid her wrath
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 02:27 AM
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I can’t believe something so similar happened to BP me less than a year ago... Ah the blissful ignorance of the blue pill...
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 06:21 PM
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EC in the making
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:31 AM
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I agree with the points, but these pertain to the original definition of the profession. These days, journalism is made of alt-left soyboys, snowflakes and Feminazis. They all run on emotion and scarcely any logic or pragmatism whatsoever
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:15 PM
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“Attention is the currency of the feminine realm” - Rollo Tomassi They can’t handle when you give their “hard-earned” attention to some other bimbo
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:11 PM
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OP lives in Fantasyland with “exclusive FWB” and crippling scarcity
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:10 PM
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Time to ditch these "bros." In contrast, my bros are fuckin bosses. One of my homies is the most RP person I've ever met, without him consciously practicing anything. Despite all that, they've seen me at my best and my worst: me being a party animal to a complete simp (during my disillusion with the "matrix"). Point is, online bros will go to a certain extent, but you need solid group of bros. I tried with girl friends and it simply didn't work out. Sure, they're very sympathetic; but in the end…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:06 AM
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The mods should add a rule wherein before posting, one has to go through the search with keyword with their "findings" before making a post. That would greatly reduce this repetition in my opinion
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:57 AM
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This hits the spot. But for beginners, to sum it all up, it means not putting girls on a pedestal. Always keep in mind that they have nothing special to offer. AWALT
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:26 PM
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Why keep overinflating a girl’s ego like a simp? I’d destroy her ego telling her I don’t wanna do it anymore. For me it’s about being strong enough to bring her down like nobody else will
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:03 PM
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If she isn't getting that pleasure from you, she might as well get it from another guy with the real thing, right?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:01 AM
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What are you talking about? Girls dream about 8-10 inch cocks. You hit the back of her pussy with that monster she gon roll her eyes back
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:51 AM
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Rollo Tomassi talks about this as a good thing: she's doing it to keep the Alpha happy. Nothing to be embarrassed about. It's the Beta's job to worry about pleasing her in bed when he hasn't got much more to offer.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:49 AM
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Are you serious?? What pussy is worth faking pleasure for wtf
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:48 AM
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I second this
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:39 AM
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Are you straight out the seduction subreddit?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:30 AM
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Pull attention away and focus on yourself
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:29 AM
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Yes if it's a vibrating dildo
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:27 AM
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I feel what you're saying. Depends on what you want. Ultimately, you gotta have enough going for you to be able to work on one thing or the other. I've got multiple hobbies, so I would work on one if that's what I want. I'm also involved in multiple social groups, so I can also hang with one if I want. You gotta come up with things you enjoy doing and ask yourself whether you wanna work on them yourself or a group of people. Finding like-minded people to do that shouldn't be a struggle. Plenty o…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:11 AM
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Stuck in the childhood role of "pleasing mom" or in this case, a mom figure. They like to see all their hopes and dreams reflected in this "dream woman" aka Unicorn, a title the BP men confer upon the woman regardless of her actualized value. Being BP is to put pussy on a pedestal. Whatever twat they get is whatever worked for the woman in that time. The scarcity makes them overvalue whatever is thrown their way; most of the time being an Alpha's sloppy seconds. The fact that you keep your prior…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:03 AM
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The guy put out a disclaimer after that sentence that he wasn't
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:52 AM
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Your mistake? You mentioned it. She knows she's fat: she isn't gonna lose it for you. That's not how inspiration works. You can give her a reality check and insult the fuck outta her, hell even break up with her, claiming it was because she turned fat. That'll give her angry bitch energy to start getting fit. My advice: Let her say she's fat, and don't disagree. Don't bring it up yourself. When she asks if you'll cheat on her, say that you inevitably will. Today's society full of Billy Betas wil…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:42 AM
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OP, you can't claim to understand AWALT yet blame society or upbringing. Sidebar and top posts will empirically break down how women's attitude and behavior we see today are genetically coded. You can't blame women for their behavior; it is up to us as men to keep our women in line. Now, I am in no way condoning or encouraging domestic abuse in any shape or form. I am talking about using your strength of character and speechcraft to exert your influence over a woman. Emotional domination, nothin…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 10:08 AM
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Idk if anybody pointed this out already, but you can start with not abbreviating the word insurance like a regular human being
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:28 AM
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No point in blaming the "bitchy friend." Girls will be girls. Personally, one such encounter (actually even cringier) kicked me on the journey towards pimping, which led me to find RP. Throughout most of the journey, I was mad at the girl in my encounter. Not now. I'm thankful she crushed me when she did. I needed my ego to burst to build myself from the ground up. With regards to his post though, the guy could either end up here or delve further into BP and end up becoming Mr Nice Guy from thin…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 05:11 AM
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I second this. OP you're young and clearly shows in your posts and comments. My advice: stop stressing the small stuff and micromanaging actions and behavior. "What should I do when she looks at me 25 degrees clockwise" and "What should I say when she speaks at 25 decibels" are micromanagement questions that better belong to the "seduction" sub where fags reside to analyze step by step and rationalize. Lurk, lurk, lurk. More on the parent sub than this one.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:56 AM
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This. Bitch exerted dread and won. You getting upset and going so far as to "let her know" was a serious loss of Frame. Idk how you'll recover from that but judging by your girl's patience to stick around, sounds like she's low SMV and feening for just a guy in her life. Compared to both you simps, I feel bad for her lack of options. Judging by the type of replies you're responding to positively, seems like you should be taking your "problems" to the relationship advice sub, where simps and manc…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:30 AM
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Joe Exotic does meth and marries multiple guys. Please don't ever compare anybody to him smhh
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:39 PM
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In his book 48 Laws of Power, author Robert Greene warns the readers against being "brutally honest" because there simply is no justification behind it. You can claim to be honest for "their good" or "just being yourself" (JBY archetype coined by Rollo Tomassi), but you wouldn't be doing anybody any good. You'd end up hurting their pride and their sense of self. If you really want to make a positive change, put an effort to reward good behavior and ignore bad ones. If you can't do this, then you…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:31 PM
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I’m not married but here’s the thing: SHE’s THE ONE WHO’s PUSHING THE MARRIAGE You marry her on your terms when you feel like it, if you ever do. I’d defer to sidebar’s material on dealing with “the talk”
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:52 AM
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TL;DR: You're holding yourself down. Patrice O'Neal: "If you're an ugly motherfucker and you're walking with some type of swagger, a woman can look at you, and everybody can be laughing going, "Look at this hunchback motherfucker," and think, "How can this motherfucker with a hunchback look like he could be fucking me?" There's other things that make us attractive to women." The voice in your head is what you need to eliminate. There's no guarantee that even when you're jacked as fuck, that you'…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:07 AM
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I scream at the top of my lungs while I lift the weights ever more heavily. I know this is me in my Anger phase, which I visit every once in a while, and eventually get over. The cringe never stops. I scream at my past misdeeds in the shower, grunt when around people, tighten my jaw in classes, etc.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:17 AM
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The pace at which you're exhibiting symptoms of ONEitis seems faster than COVID-19. The benefit of preselection aspect is gonna prove ineffective because you'll still be drooling over her. Forget about that single benefit. Time to cut losses and NEXT. Fastest way to get over feelings. You need to continue gaming other women. If you exhibit higher SMV, she may or may not come back. That's not the point. You need to actually build SMV so the next girl can't say no.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:17 AM
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Male bosses won't hate you for your gender, unless they're a simp, in which case that company is already on the way to the gutter. A boss needs to be practicing some Dark Triad RP stuff to be handling a company well. One boss I work under over my Summer and Winter breaks is like that, and we have a brother-to-brother relationship despite him being 37 and me being 19. I'd suggest you learn working under female bosses to learn to apply RP principles and practice DT in the long run. Look up the pos…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:03 AM
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Generally: inner confidence. In this context: being in control of the situation. Details: sidebar
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:59 PM
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No, they’re “trained professionals”. Mine was a 58-year-old woman.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:39 PM
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It’s a service offered by my college free of out of pocket costs. Students aren’t allowed to pick and choose
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:32 PM
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Her: Why are you here? You moved out for a reason. My friend: Why don't you move in? (To my room, which was a boys' hall) Her: I'm not a boy. Me: Really? The evidence clearly seems contrary. Queue her hysteria
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:30 PM
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It was a service offered by my college, and I didn't have the option to choose. I'm going to do everything I need to get a male one.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:20 PM
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This
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:14 PM
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He was considering FWB, not LTR
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:14 AM
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This answer is gold
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:41 AM
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Now pull attention away. Don't contact her further and let her crawl back to you. You don't just kill the LTR for this reason, but it is a massive red flag that it's not an LTR worth pursuing. Prepare yourself to demote her to FWB then plate. You've established a boundary that should've been obvious to 8 years old and above. Regardless, time for you to check out and move on.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:30 PM
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You create an Alpha widow by being the one to leave first. That makes women have a much tougher time moving on. Still, it doesn't take away their Alpha and Beta males on speed dial. They can hit up an AFC and they show up in a heartbeat.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:06 PM
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I’ve been here just 2 months and keep my original for college stuff. Appreciate it tho. I try to not stop learning
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:04 AM
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TRP is anti-LTR when you're younger than 30. According to Rollo's SMV graph, men peak at 37. You've got a decade to mature and game younger chicks, instead you're investing so much time and energy into a relationship that isn't gonna last longer than an Asian boy's endurance in bed. Continue working on yourself, check out of the relationship and keep reading RP. If you stick to the LTR, you've caught yourself some class-A ONEitis.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:59 AM
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Look up the post entitled "Talking With Women - Always DARE Never DEER" Women do not communicate overtly; they don't look for exchange of content or information. They communicate covertly using emotions and context. You're witnessing a shit test, and if you give in, you lose frame. I can see how fragile yours is from the hamster in your head sprinting its life out. Stop overthinking, keep doing your thing, and maintain frame. You pass the test from not giving her a conclusive answer.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:56 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Regardless of who had been the dumper and who'd been the dumpee, anxiety remains. The dumpee fears getting dumpe…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:51 AM
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That's what he is also saying: find out through escalation whether they are true IOIs or not instead of pondering. Remember, rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:46 AM
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Same experience I've had with my LTR in first semester of college. I was just starting to swallow the RP. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Your r…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:43 AM
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When the Manosphere refers to Hypergamy, it usually points toward women's dualistic sexial strategy i.e., Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. Women have evolved to mate with the Alpha male of the tribe who she would surprisingly find to not be a very good provider. The Beta males shower her with all their attention and resources to win her love, which is what she takes advantage of to take care of her children. Men don't require a dualistic sexual strategy. We evolved to find a woman's fertility and capabi…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:31 AM
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This is not something you need to take personally. Look up Rollo's "War Brides" essay. Simply put, when early human tribes were conquered, women were preserved to have the conqueror's babies. So they evolved to get over their feelings much quicker than men. It's what evolution made them: no matter how much of an impact you think you might've had. Also, I suggest looking up Briffault's Law and Rollo's connection to it with relational equity: there are none. Women define the outcome of the relatio…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:22 AM
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Keep yourself busy with work, hobbies, etc. Instead of thinking about approaching, do one as you’re reading this. No better time to start than right now
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:54 AM
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See this as a major step forward. Your journey just started. Don’t sweat over the details cause the first step’s overcoming social anxiety. Don’t bother with the details until you get a grip on it first.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:13 AM
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