DrInfinity Archive

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3	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... First: totally false. You know you're a nice catch. What you "don't believe" is just the instinctual human fear of rejection. What you don't believe is that other people can believe it, too. So what you need to start believing is that other people will recognize that in you. If you get rejected, it's because that girl hasn't even had the time to get to know that side of you yet. Second: if a girl walks up to you and gives you all the answers to the questions you're asking, it won't change a thin…	/r/seduction	05/02/16 05:55 PM
4	"A Rant Against The Pickup Community - Must Watch For All PUAs" - What do you guys think? I think he has it all wrong. A big point this guy missed about becoming "actualized": Maslow's heirarchy of needs, which leads to self-actualization, requires you fulfill all of the lower tiers before you can progress higher up the ladder. These lower tiers include love/belonging and esteem, which is why guys get into PU in the first place. It's easy to say what he's saying when he's gone through this already, but to say that PU didn't help him is total bullshit. Even Mystery and Neil Strauss have wives now, but they went t…	/r/seduction	24/01/16 06:06 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15 Approach confidently with direct openers. The "Hi, I thought you were cute, and I wanted to come talk to you," line works amazingly better than anyone expects before they actually try it. (Note that this may still require practice.) Expand your social circle to involve more girls. Do social functions that involve girls. Clean up your look. Not sure what you look like now, but being confident in your own looks shows in your body language.	/r/seduction	17/05/15 07:28 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15 Someone posted this in seddit a year ago, and I found it incredibly relevant and accurate. Dating Is Over - AskMen	/r/seduction	17/05/15 07:16 PM
2	How to tell if your attractive Since nobody seems to want to answer the actual question I'll give it a go. (Yes, I've been around long enough to know that "confidence is key," blah blah blah, but that doesn't answer this post appropriately.) Facial Attractiveness Facial characteristics approximate 90% of someone's physical attractiveness, while body shape/size/etc. only account for ~10%. While this may seem like a high number, it's accurate in any scenario that people are not actively judging someone's looks (think about how …	/r/seduction	08/05/15 02:34 PM
34	[FR] Approached a girl at a club, kissed her and got her number in under 2 minutes. 5 minutes of nonstop making out, and you still got her number in under 2? Alpha male confirmed to grant time travel powers. Seriously though, congrats! Don't ever lose this feeling, lol.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 03:18 PM
6	Being nice is cool. Being a man is better. The terms "douche" and "gentleman" are a simplification of what's really going on. When we say "be a douche," what we really mean is avoid behaviors that elevate the status of the girl above yours. Attractive women are not better than you just because they are attractive; there is no reason to suck up to them. That will cause you to fail. On the flip side, behaviors that lower a women's status beneath your own can create attraction since you become the object of desire. That being said, women fe…	/r/seduction	27/11/14 04:51 PM
2	I hate the way I sound when I speak...any tips for having a calmer, deeper, more confident drawl? Pretty sure it's just an old wives' tale, but there are stories about singing helping fix a stutter. I think more realistically the answer is to be confident despite your stutter. If a girl can't see past the stutter, she's not worth your time.	/r/seduction	31/05/14 10:48 AM
5	Models by Mark Manson vs. The Game by Neil Strauss- which book on seduction is more relevant for today? Is The Game outdated? Expertise needed! As everyone here is saying, The Game is a narrative, not an instruction manual, but I wanted to touch on something else you asked: Is The Game outdated? Answer: yes, and no. One thing you'll learn more about as you delve deeper into the world of seduction is that it's not a set of techniques you use. Seduction is about a personal mindset. Every "technique" you read about has a lifespan of the entire interaction in which it takes place; every interaction is going to require you to adapt and chang…	/r/seduction	28/04/14 05:12 AM
19	At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me? This. And you'll notice everyone else is saying pretty much the same thing: it's gonna suck, but try to be productive with your life in the meantime. Sedditors of all people should know that emotions can't be stopped easily once started, but knowing that will help you ride it out.	/r/seduction	14/04/14 03:09 PM
2	Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide Intro Rewrite Not a sale. It's an open forum of sorts for the PUA community. Here -> Fast Seduction 101	/r/seduction	26/03/14 04:24 AM
2	How to have fun anytime ? It sounds like you've made these behaviors into habits. The best thing to do is break the habit. Next time you go out to meet women, don't focus on getting numbers; just focus on breaking these habits. If you think of a great joke after the conversation ends, find the girl again and tell her the joke. Sure, it may not be as funny out of context (and she may be confused), but the goal is to train your brain to realize you should say those jokes out loud. Eventually your brain will speed up. (I re…	/r/seduction	20/03/14 05:45 PM
1	The paradox of sex Q1: Your paradox is based in presuppositions about the definition of "intimate." It seems to me you consider having sex must imply some emotional connection even on the most basic of levels. You also assume everyone requires the same extended length of time to get to know someone before being willing to take off their pants. And you're forgetting that sex releases multiple hormones that are essentially the human body's innate form of morphine and other barbiturates. Q2: Condoms and the pill. You…	/r/seduction	20/03/14 05:39 PM
3	Really don't know what to do about my AA This is completely accurate. I just recently "got over" my approach anxiety, and by that I mean I still get that negative voice in my head when I think about an approach, but I ignore it. Here are some things that might be useful to think about: Step 1: realizing that you're only human. You didn't approach a girl. So what? My guess is you haven't been approaching girls in situations like that your whole life. The difference now is that you're consciously trying to become better, so you're alread…	/r/seduction	27/02/14 10:48 PM
66	The 3 Second rule and why its so important to follow it. The 3 Second Rule is a rule that defines the amount of time you have to approach a girl after first seeing her. There are two main reasons that the length of time was chosen as 3 seconds: The girl does not see you hesitate. This communicates confidence. You don't give yourself time to start an internal monologue and bring up all of your limiting beliefs. The link gives a more in-depth explanation of the rule and it's purpose.	/r/seduction	02/11/13 01:43 PM