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Hopefully soon!! Hopefully just in time for summer
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:02 AM
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Haha it sounded like you haven’t seen your friends in decades! Haha I know people hate unsolicited advice but, if i could give anybody advice in college would be take time to network and make friends! 1) people in your major will get jobs in your area and can hook you up later. 2) its your last chance to have access to so many people about your same age group and similar interest,m. It gets progressively harder after you graduate!
/r/seduction24/04/20 04:05 AM
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How about coworker, are they excited to see you? That counts
/r/seduction24/04/20 03:57 AM
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Yep! Agree. Cheers mate!
/r/seduction23/04/20 11:01 PM
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I don’t let go of some of my exes because they are good people with their own relationships and fun to hang out with. One in particular, I known for more than a decade and she is friends with my current partner too! A couple of them I don’t see often but I’m happy to be growing old knowing them. They have marriages and kids and they are happy. I hanged out with two of my current partners exs. She still talks to them but albeit not as close as I am with some of my exes. I 100% trust my partner an…
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:33 PM
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You argument is that you are afraid of the sexual attraction that you feel towards your ex, because you could potentially act on those feelings, so that means, your partner should limit the interaction with people she finds attractive. My advice is, find that one partner that you can trust, and you won't be needing to shrink his/her circle of friends. This goes beyond their ex's.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:46 PM
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Upvote because you answered made me question my own existence and believes!... like it is almost true that green flags is what you actually "like" about that person, and it will be unique to each individual. But almost!...... i'm waiting for all replys to find the most universal green flag haha
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:37 PM
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The amount of friends that actively enjoy hanging out with that person. The oldest and more diverse his or her circle of acquaintance that actually make time to hang around with them. A plus, when they greet a friend or acquaintance and other person gets supper exited to see or hear from them.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:28 PM
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I respect your feelings about the issue, but I think it comes from insecurity and lack of experience. You may not be friends with any of your exes, but if you date a high quality partner the chances the he or she is still friends with one or two is high! Sometimes you date someone, and it doesn't work out. You can still have them around in your life because they are good people.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:23 PM
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I beg to disagree, kids and and animals will be attracted to well groom, well dress, good posture, self assure people with tons of red flags. It reminds me about Part three of Talking to Strangers, (Malcolm Gladwell's book). Kids and dogs will be more attracted to transparent people, doesn't mean they are good people.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:17 PM
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You are a pushover. You want to cause the least amount of trouble. You don’t believe you can handle a situation if the person decides to abandon you. Abundance mentality will solve it. If a particular person doesn’t like you, move on.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:56 PM
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Rehearse telling an anecdote about yourself that serves as introduction of who you are, and what person you are and puts you in a positive way. If the people in that apartment have similar interest as you then can be the beginning of a friendship. Also, keep in mind that they could have different interest that you and therefore not be completely compatible. In that case, just be nice and enjoy the time you get to spent with other people. An example of a story about yourself, assuming you are int…
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:39 PM
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Try to keep in touch with as many as your friends as you can. Even just acquaintances. Make sure to give them a call once in a while just to say hi and catch up even if you have them in any social media. Be nice to everyone.
/r/seduction06/07/15 03:03 PM
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I agree in your two points, they hurt the beginners more than anything. Yet at the end, when you find a girl you want to keep around, you need to be well rounded. Working in personality and to be well dress it always helps.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:30 AM
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Not for dating, but for regular life in general... When you talk, try to connect with the person you are talking too. As you talk, watch what you are saying, and what their reaction is... It takes a lot of practice but you can improve.. Ask these questions> are they liking where you story/joke is going to? Are you engaging them?.. Are they going to understand where your joke or story is coming from? If they dont, find something they would like, try it out... Keep in mind you cant please everybod…
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:47 AM
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Love it, please never leave us...
/r/seduction20/03/12 04:05 AM
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jaaa!
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:14 AM
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Are you guys interested in long term relationships?
/r/seduction31/01/12 03:07 AM
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I really want to say, say it with confidence and it will be ok but the truth is that I'm in engineer and I gave up on telling girls (or people in general) what do I do for a living. I just dodge the question and keep going. It always lead to a really boring thread.
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:47 AM
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HB: Where are your friends? ME: They are hiding from you... you have rejected every single one of them and I have come here to avenge them!
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:26 AM
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Just do it. Go talk to beautiful women and try to pick them up. You will realize what you don't know once you are out there. Try to mix reading seduction material with practice. If you read a lot, without practicing it, it doesn't work.
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:15 AM
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Upvote for the hardwork self promoting!
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:14 AM
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haha I know... want to hear a funny story, I graduated sometime around five or six years ago from Engineering school. A couple of weeks ago, I was reminiscing with my engineering class mates in a dinner reunion we had. One of my stories when something like "and that Humanities class was the best class I took all semester, I was finally able to socialize with girls, and not those abomination beast from our engineering classes"... for a moment I forgot there were two girls from my engineering clas…
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:07 AM
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Agreed,..alternative "I bet my hands are colder than yours" grab hands without waiting for permission. Hold her hands. That way, maybe her hands will warm yours at the same time.
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:00 AM
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For me, I tend to freeze up at new venues. Once I have been there for a couple of nights, I'm a little more relax.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:46 AM
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Agree, I also thing they bring tension to a long term relationship. I think as the relationship progresses, girls keep using them out of boredom and/or to try to man up their partners.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:45 AM
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Solutions are known is an understatement.. it's like you know how to play football but that doesn't make you a professional player. It is interesting to analyze them, to get better at passing them.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:43 AM
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why are you holding back from approaching cute girls in class?
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:40 AM
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Love everything about this post. Also it has been clinically proven that a clean place reduces depression. Question, I am a lube and condom guy, that is the ONE main reason I always think of my place first (Specially the lube.. love that) Any tips on how to carry condoms and lube in a handy, concealed way, for those out of my place kinda situations?
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:36 AM
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I would be more concern that you are loosing your confidence. In my opinion, confidence goes way further than penis size for attraction (and love!). Plus your penis is only part of the sexual experiences, you still have your tongue, and fingers and toys you can buy.
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:38 AM
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I think you have a bigger problem and it is this > "I'm not witty enough to make a joke out of it". With all seriousness, If I had to choose between limping after a good day of walking, or loosing my "wittiness" to pick up girls, with no hesitation, I will pick the limping because that is not as bad. Not making people laugh, that's bad..
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:33 AM
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Realize that you are mortal and one day you will die, what ever errors of stupid mistakes you do, any screw ups, fuck ups, won't matter after that..
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:27 AM
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Take her for a beer, to a nice bar!
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:24 AM
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If you find them staring at you just say "Hey, you seem cool/interesting/party girl, wanna hangout later on?"..
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:19 AM
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"no, you are skinny... oh wait nevermind"
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:17 AM
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Sucks... but it is not the end of the world. I've been reading the other comments, where they tell you that you forced conversation and that she showed you cleared signs of not being interested... many of my hook ups, and make outs started this way, and I worked through them and convert into success stories... just throwing that out there...
/r/seduction22/01/12 11:21 AM
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I would text her some random fact funny thing, and see if she answers... then text back, with more funny things... after this try to get her on the phone, call her if possible, and tell her some high value stories, calibrate... listen to her reaction... if everything is positive, make plans to meet again.
/r/seduction22/01/12 01:20 AM
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My best tip for good eye contact, Pay attention to the conversation! Don't day dream, don't go into inside monologues in your head, live in the moment and the eye contact will be naturally!
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:44 AM
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I agree with everybody here, she is probably involve with someone else, or if she doesn't, she is not into you, and she doesn't want a relationship. (I think is the perfect situation for you to get laid, and move one!). I think you showed signs of wanting a relationship with her, or showed to be too emotionally involve. She is being honest when she tells you to not give too much thought to what you too have, it is just a fling. In other words, she is telling you "enjoy the ride, it won't last fo…
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:39 AM
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Interest or Fear? If I only have those two choices I will go with fear... If I have to take a quick guess in the field (to calibrate), I will say it is her personality, she could be shy and socially awkward. If she doesn't show up, don't think she is not interested, and if you see her again don't be afraid to approach.
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:31 AM
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You my friend, speak the truth, upvote!
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:05 AM
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Man that one I have struggled with. I'm not going to bullshit you with the typical "it depends on the situation blah blah blah" I say tonight go direct, tonight you tell your target "you and me, my place, ditch your friends now!" unless (and this is a big exception to the rule) her friends are pretty hot and maybe and DTF too! hahah.
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:03 AM
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Yes she is interested but remember that feeling don't last forever (specially if she is a girl of value).
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:43 PM
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You are youuung!...soo much for you to learn. Meet tons of girls, build up relationships. The girls that you meet right now will linger for a decade or so. Do future you a favor and meet girls that you may be banging five years from now! ;-)
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:40 PM
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Not risking things is the fastest highway to the friend zone. I agree with kissing her. If she doesn't want to be kiss is not a big deal as it seems. Continue interaction, try again later. MAN UP my friend! EDIT: Don't just kiss her, sorry, grab her hand first, escalate, hug her, escalate, then let go, and then repeat. And then kiss her!
/r/seduction21/01/12 09:54 PM
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Be confident, go well dress and you will be ahead of the curve. Remember that you questions have to be congruent with your personality, now my questions: Why are you so attracted to me? *smirk(be playful!) *I like you...you seem like you would do my homework for me, do you have good grammar, nice handwriting? (or what ever is useful for the class) *(if she says something that make you laugh)... "ooh look at you...see I don't think you and I would do good study partners (or what ever the intervie…
/r/seduction21/01/12 09:47 PM
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Start a Lair! (leadership opportunities!)... as in inspirational story, the guy who started the only lair I have truly be part of, was a total AFC (even when I met him) and he blossomed into a social butterfly with threesomes and everything... In my personal opinion, he did'nt get good at pick up, he got good at socializing, and that got him laid like crazy...
/r/seduction21/01/12 09:19 PM
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Nothing new, women have complain of these for centuries. "Good men a really hard to find" cliche comes to mind.
/r/seduction21/01/12 09:04 PM
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Just practice your game endlessly with these interaction. If you feel that after 5-10 minutes it becomes uncomfortable, out of nowhere ask for her phone number, you can practice some routines. Practice a story. Practice kino. If you are feeling adventurous, kiss her on the cheek. With time you will become more aware of what's going on in the interaction and now how to move forward. Question though, do you find it hard to do small talk at work/school?
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:59 PM
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Did he get caught lying on his books? Something about about a radio interview where he contradicted himself and he couldn't come up with obvious proof.. can't remember the details.
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:47 PM
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Ask away!, one of my favorite parts of the game is to come up with things that make girls laugh!
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:43 PM
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I know! haha.. I'm one of the least confrontational man of earth, and to be honest they irritate me a lot from time to time... It just something we had to put up with. I go with the mind set of that it is an impulse reaction of them, and that I have to put them in their place, with jokes.
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:41 PM
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JOIN A LAIR! Those guys are always great and are always open to hang out. In a related note (not too much for pick up but for life in General) you need to grow your circle of acquaintance, your network. Believe me, the success in life is 33% who you know. A side effect of knowing a communicating with people in a regular basis: the invite you to parties and social gatherings. Learn how to build and maintain a network. Joining a Lair, even if is for picking up, can lead to great business partnersh…
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:23 PM
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Didn't know this, I'm trying it tonight, thanks!
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:00 PM
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I think you need to work in your End Game. It may be a mixture of LMR and that you went to fast for the sex and she lost trust on you. Maybe there was some connection missing, maybe she needed to pump up the attraction a little more?... this will only get better with experience, keep working hard, and soon enough there will be zero chance this will happen again to you.
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:44 PM
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no
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:41 PM
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Try this a couple of times and let me know if it works for you: Start a conversation with someone (preferable someone you are attracted to) and try to assume the a role of listener as much as you can (meaning ask questions and instead of offering your insight just listen, then ask more questions). Every time is your turn to speak, leave a long PAUSE of silence (even to the moment that it becomes awkward). Then speak at what ever you believe to be a retarded slow speed. Then let her talk, listen.…
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:38 PM
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I agree with thelostfox... read too much into it. Facebook game (and text game) is only an accessory. The real deal is face to face.
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:26 PM
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Do what ever feels right for the moment, conversation and girl personality type. Don't make it awkward, if you go for the kiss on the cheek do it confidently and without hesitation.
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:18 PM
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Agreed! this should be the only answer to the questions.
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:16 PM
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"Oh you are turning me down, that's a laugh!" hahaha
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:15 PM
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I think the only part you got right was the game is about you making yourself a better person. The better person that you are the more attractive you will become. I can say I'm ugly and I date cute girls. They are not models, but they are attractive enough to get hit on a lot. I do have a good job though, but people that I just meet, they don't know that. I think my job gives me sense of purpose that translates into confidence. You don't need a good job for that, just a sense of purpose. I dated…
/r/seduction21/01/12 12:09 PM
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If these are your friends, they are douchbags and don't hang out in that circle anymore. In a set, a random Amogs have done these to me: I'm talking to a girl, they get between me and the girl, the Amog facing the girl and I'm left facing the Amog's back. Joining in a conversation pretending they are my friends. Push me around. I don't find Amogs to be a problem as much as I find annoying girlfriends pulling their friends away from me.
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:56 AM
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I will just say "naah" with a smirk in my face..
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:54 AM
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I think you are rationalizing your inaction by thinking "it's going to be awkward afterwards". Just go for it, stop putting excuses.
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:47 AM
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In my experience you can't truly become outcome independent... you can only grow you confidence until your confidence is bigger than your fear. The fear will always be there, but you will pay less attention to it, and with confidence, it won't affect your actions, or cripple your life progress. You will be living in the moment! With regards of pick up and the approach, you just have to out and do it enough where you stop thinking about the fear, and concentrating on the situation at hand, your o…
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:44 AM
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I agree, have fun!! but if you go with the Pick up mentality, remember to put some effort to it too.. do some hard work!
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:37 AM
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It's her choice not yours. You can only be there and she will take you if she wants... but don't be that guy...
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:36 AM
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I go out alone more often that with company. Yet I found out to be more fun when I get girls to get out with me, and they automatically give me social proof... nights are more fun, and there's a lot less work.
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:33 AM
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Join a group, get people to push you to do it. I bet once you get the hang of it nobody will be able to stop you!
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:31 AM
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Thus failing the shit test! haha...
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:29 AM
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I have a Coachella shirt... I have been approach a couple of time by girls when I wear it and they asked me I went..
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:27 AM
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My response will depend in the moment, in the initial attraction stages something in the lines of "you are not going to your mother/friends and tell on me, are you? smirk" during the connection stages "I know...smirk" while making out "Bad never tasted so good.." keep kissing hehe
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:03 AM
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If unsure of the meaning, just ignore, keep going. I personally will be careful, either she may be really horny (which could happen) or she may be testing you.
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:51 AM
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Exactly! What I found out sometimes is that people don't actually listen to what their girls are saying, just day dreaming and I do believe that's a turn of for them... I pay attention to the conversation (once a solid connection is made). Two things come out of this 1) I decide if the girl is interesting enough to keep going or she is just going to bore me to death or 2)I get ammunition to create inside jokes between her and I!.
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:48 AM
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Sometimes I stare at their eyes way too long... I don't know if it works for attractions.. but I love the feeling! (oooh the tension)
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:43 AM
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How I see it, many people have problems with attracting women because they are lacking one thing in their life.. call it confidence, self-worth, grooming habits, social skills... an AFC is a boy growing up.... he learns, he falls and he raises again,, he focuses, he gets his shit straight... if he succeed, he becomes a Man!... the two levels of the game.. the boy and the man..
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:41 AM
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I agree, pics or it didn't happen! haha
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:38 AM
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I have the same feeling. You are not alone my friend! My scumbag brain even told me one time "she will never go out with you, you don't look good in pics, she loves facebook pic, you are not in her life plans! haha" Anyhow, this just happened to me (hope it helps)> I was in a bar three weeks ago (right before New Years) with this beautiful girl (a little bit out of my league in the looks department I would say). I met her through friends, made her laugh, got her to go out with me for drinks. We …
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:35 AM
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Everything works, if is said in the right way... I think it is how you say it and not too much what is said.
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:13 AM
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Funny thing, I don't get as hurt as much when I'm rejected by a women and I think it has to do a lot by the fact that I got rejected for A LOT for jobs that I really cared about. FYI, now I have a dream job.
/r/seduction21/01/12 10:10 AM
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