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Yeah. During my 1st week here I saw one that almost made me leave, but I commented on it and others made me aware that it's just a loud minority that are really toxic toward women. Trust me, r/dating_advice contains just as much of it. This sub is good for tips on how to start and continue conversations with new people. Anyone can use those tips, regardless of gender or sexuality. It's when the approaches become about just getting laid that obectification, generalizarion, and generally nasty gen…
/r/seduction20/04/21 10:18 PM
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I'm a woman and have been on this sub for a while. It is more male dominated, but a lot of the advice can be taken by anyone. Just be aware that not all the advice is good (here or anywhere else) - lots of gender stereotypes floating around that are not helpful.
/r/seduction20/04/21 09:50 PM
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I was getting ready for a date with a guy and I asked him "is this shirt too small?" He said "yeah". That's sexy. I know he's not shy to speak his mind. Not worried about offending me (I still wore the shirt, though)
/r/seduction09/04/21 07:37 PM
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It's sexist to dismiss her experience just because she's a woman. It's sexist when you think that because the average woman has a certain type of experience that all women (in this case this individual woman) also must have had that same experience. People are individuals and you don't know about their life just from their demographics.
/r/seduction16/03/21 11:22 PM
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No. Dating is challenging for a lot of people. Just because you have it worse than someone you don't get to dismiss them and their challenges. If you change the attitude you have toward women (everything is so easy for them so they need to stop complaining), dating will become much easier for you. We can sniff out sexist assholes pretty well.
/r/seduction15/03/21 03:37 AM
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There definitely is a goldilocks sweet spot when it comes to approaching someone. I used to sell clothes, so I'm going to use this as my analogy. You are the salesperson (S) a.k.a. the person who is approaching. The person you're approaching is the customer (C). Too hot: S: smiles Hi. What are you looking for? C: I'm just looking S: We just got these new shirts. Come see. C feels pressured and uncomfortable. S seems desperate. Too cold: S: makes eye contact Hey C: Hey C isn't sure if S is intere…
/r/seduction10/03/21 08:48 AM
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He lost me after number 1. My first impression of this sub wasn't much better than yours, but there are some good posts, too. I'm a woman, btw, so these types of posts are borderline offensive. 1. Shower 2. Wear clean clothes 3. Lie about who you are ... 6. Save money in case you fuck up and need to give presents instead of being a real human ... barf. But #1 is solid solid advice.
/r/seduction26/02/21 12:53 AM
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That's good news. I originally came on here to get some tips on how to get dates. I'm a woman, but dating is tough for us all. Most of the posts here seem to be sex related, so I wasn't super sure I'm in the right place. At least I can offer a woman's perspective sometimes
/r/seduction22/02/21 04:06 AM
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Quality over quantity. Yeah, exactly. 1 date maybe won't tell you much, but 1 woman could if you build a relationship with her. I thought the point of seducing a woman was to get her to have sex with you more than once, but the OP makes me wonder. Never mind, he's "not like the other guys," so maybe other guys tend to want more than a just a lone quickie.
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:52 PM
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Yeah, they probably just want to hang out to see how things go. On OLD if I ask someone to hang out it's because I'm interested. I imagine it's similar IRL.
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:37 PM
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I couldn't say what's going wrong for you, but if I don't do a 2nd date it has been for only a few reasons: after the date the guy gets weirdly controlling, it is clear that he's only into it for sex (which is fine for some people, but not me), we have a weird awkward date and don't like talking to each other, we try to talk after and the conversation just doesn't click. I might be super old school, but if I've had a good date I 1) don't discuss 2nd dates on the 1st date and 2) thank them for th…
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:06 PM
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youll be happier in short and long term with healthy people The message you're sending is good and wholesome and hopefully helpful. I'm not so sure it's about masculintity, however. More about humanity. Think about it. You'd want to date a person with these qualities (regardless of the gender(s) you are attracted to). All this Greek letter talk is cringey, though. Mostly because incels have ruined it for the majority of us, but also because I was a math major and some of them Greek letters are h…
/r/seduction04/12/20 10:04 AM
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This is a pretty cynical way of looking at it. There is a fine line between wanting to talk to people and being needy and it's possible that you used to be on the needy side (your tone makes me think this is the case). Having a full life is an attractive thing to other people. You have more to talk about and that makes you more interesting. These are probably just normal people who want to talk to you, not nasty jerks who only like you now because you're not giving them attention.
/r/seduction23/11/20 05:01 PM
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I guess you're right. They're just going to think they did nothing wrong and they'll continue their controlling crap with the next person. How do you feel about just sending a 👻? Then it's clearer
/r/seduction20/11/20 07:54 PM
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I've ghosted more than I probably should have. The only reason for me to ghost is when I don't immediately respond to a text (or call, ugh!) and they get pissy about it. Like others have said everyone has a life. If your first response to me being busy for a few minutes or even an hour is anger then I'm just going to ghost you. It's a nasty thing to do, I know. And clearly these are the people who are most sensitive to it, but I can't see a conversation about it going well anyway. I've tried tel…
/r/seduction20/11/20 05:44 PM
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Right. People who are dating are like cats. Maybe not all people, but I am and I treat anyone I date like they are. Pressure just pushes them away, but some attention is ok.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:17 AM
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It really does work. Having zero creep vibe makes me comfortable talking to a guy. And if I find out we actually have fun conversation, sign me up. I have a friend like this and both me and my best friend want him. To the point that I asked him out and she had a sex dream about him. He friendzoned me, but it's ok. We can still be flirty friends. Point is the friendly approach works.
/r/seduction14/10/20 08:34 PM
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I second this. I wanted to add that nonmonogamy is a choice for some people and an identity for others. So there's no wonder that there are mixed answers to the posted question. Check out r/nonmonogamy or r/polyamory for a look at how these relationships tend to work. I've felt like my nonmonogamous relationships are healthier than my prior monogamous ones because everyone has the freedom to get certain needs met elsewhere and it requires us to communicate (a.k.a. bond) a lot. There's nothing se…
/r/seduction14/10/20 03:43 PM
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Best answer ever! You don't have to trust my opinion, because I don't do monogamy, but I am a woman. Quit putting pressure on new relationahips. If you choose 1, the rest all go away. That would be catastrophic!
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:38 AM
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Oops. I replied to the post, not your comment. I'm just saying personality IS more important than crappy profile pics. For some of us, at least. Not you, maybe. I'm dating 2 dudes right now. 1 is ridiculously hot and a selfish lover. 1 is 12 yrs older than me, not super hot, but fun to hang out with and also fun to fuck. I don't close my eyes. I'm not an asshole. Attratction is a thing, but personality is what makes atrraction happen. Don't deny it
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:19 AM
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I'm telling you I dated a guy for over a year that wasn't a 7 according to his dating profile. Profile pics aren't what you're getting.
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:08 AM
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Wow. There's no rule that women can't be on this sub. And that comment was CLEARLY meant for men (and particularly incel men) only. Eew.
/r/seduction13/10/20 09:19 AM
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Ha! Yep. Somehow this post has lots of upvotes. Feels extremely similar. I guess I'm just part of that 10% that like real life messages over garbage bot sounding "let's take this off the app" messages. I've admittedly only been on here a few days and it seems more for guys who can't get women than for women or guys that actually go on dates with women. Not judging you in any way (you seem like you get the same vibe I do from this sub).
/r/seduction13/10/20 09:10 AM
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I think quirkiness is super sexy. "Normal" guys are boring. So I'd say be open from the beginning. Even if your date doesn't share your weird interests, when you talk about things that are exciting to you then you become fun to talk to. Not to mention the fact that the whole point of dating is to find relationships with people that like you. If you don't show who you are, they can't ever like you. Don't just tell us what you think you want us to hear.
/r/seduction08/10/20 05:53 PM
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