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I partially disagree. "In nature" so like 5k years ago, men were clearly the ones in power. Providing provision and protection which was a necessity. A woman without any protection of a man or tribe would just have been raped or killed. Evolution just led to that situation, where one sex is more powerful than the other and has a strong sex drive, but the other one is under pressure to choose and has also compete for mates. Today, society in western countries provide a solid, but not fully suffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:50 AM
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Good question, I would say quite a bit, but not all. Many men without sex/kids/wife/LTR in their 40s and 50s lack purpose and thus get depressed. Not sure what would happen to someone that would grow up and live completely isolated on an island. Would he get depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:04 PM
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Men are wired that way. Men get depressed and more often commit suicide when they cannot find a partner or casual sex. It's just evolution that for men reproducing a lot is our goal (vs. finding quality genes for woman). If you can't get sex or a relationship it means your genes are crap/you fail at life. Woman do better when they have at least a social circle. For men it is quite humiliating when people get to know that they can't find a woman or when they are mocked of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:54 AM
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Ha well, I didn't worded it properly. I meant that today you are more successful in live if you make well thought decisions. And decisions are much more complex as the world is more complex. Woman's selection is still based on that older criteria that meant success 10k years ago. So being confident, dominant and muscular still brings casual sex. ​ Educated people tend to wait longer, have less kids and use protection. So, yes, educated people also wait longer and usually get kids when they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:26 AM
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It's natures process of selection... If you can't get laid, it means no one values your genes. It basically means you failed at life. However, the criteria "that is evaluated on" haven't really been adapted to the modern world as evolution doesn't work that quick. Today, education wins, thinking well about decisions gives you success. 10.000 years ago (not so much time in evolution) shouting louder, intimidating other males and a muscular body were signs of success. https://www.youtube.com/watch…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:28 AM
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The drive for/focus on sex just isn't as strong in women, ime. Women tend to derive more validation from men WANTING to fuck them than from the actual fucking which I think is an important distinction in this instance. The actual physical act is not as important to women as it is to men and their very very different hormonal profile. Totally agree. This is why there are so many woman in OLD/Instagram/other social media that just enjoy the attention without really looking for anything. It gives y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:45 AM
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He may be referring to skinny fat women? There are quite a few women/girls that don't do any or only really easy sport and starve themselves/don't eat protein. That leads to lower bmi while still having high body fat. There are also fit women that properly work out, eat stuff besides salad and look really good while having a bmi above 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:29 AM
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Bmi should be 18.5 at the most Bullshit, that's not slim, thats scrawny and unhealthy. Just avoid being skinny-fat, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:20 PM
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That's actually the dilemma. In general, woman just prefer more aggressive and strong guys that take what they want and don't ask nicely. Typically against others, but sometimes also against their wife. Guys that are more hesitant and polite are typically seen as less manly and weak and are thus less attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:36 PM
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Well, I meant stuff like Game of Thrones, Netflix, etc. It is also just non-social entertainment, but there are also plenty of woman doing it and I tend to say that people spend less time on it in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:33 PM
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Disagree pretty much. Video games are low-status, because they just satisfy typical desires of guys without making them achieve anything. It doesn't do much beyond entertainment. Also many people who spend a lot of time playing video games lack social skills and often aren't very fit. That makes it low-status and unattractive for women. Doing sports can also be very cheap, e.g., running. Still it is not seen als low-status. I would say that watching series is rather neutral/slightly low status. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:02 PM
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My experience is different. I did martial arts/self defence at university for about 5 years. There were plenty of woman joining each year. What was quite obvious is that most beginners, but especially women, have no clue at all how to defend. Most of them just try to push the attacker away, i.e., competing with strength, or throw halfassed punches against the upper body. I think proper self defense courses instead of competitive rule-based martial arts can help a lot. Knowing some proper vital p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 10:26 AM
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So maybe it's their choice of male partners. That's quite a big point I guess. And proper communication between people helps immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 06:40 AM
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Single men make the largest group of homeless people. They are the largest group, because no woman would marry a homeless guy. Married men make more money than single men. Same here. Men with low salary = low market value, they don't get married. It's not the men that benefit from getting married (in these cases), it's the men with good status/values to offer that get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:53 PM
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Studied, worked, did my phd and now I'm working again in STEM ;) But in Germany & France, no idea if that makes a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:55 PM
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To elaborate further, most men in stem are sexually unattractive because 1) stem fields pay you well and 2) sexually unattractive men's only hope in their dating life is to make more money than the average man. So they go for stem, making the stem fields saturated with sexually unattractive men. Sorry, but that's just inverted logic. People don't go for stem fields, because they are ugly... STEM fields mostly rely on logic and determinism. There is barely space for creativity at least during the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:11 AM
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That's actually something I check for. If a girl has linked Instagram in her OLD profile and mostly pictures of herself... its in instant reject, don't waste any time on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:48 AM
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Could also be something with their body language. Maybe, their behavior appears disinterested or dismissive to others without being meant that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:21 AM
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I would say it depends on how you cry. If you cry like a kid you display your inability and desperation. If there are just some "silent tears" of sadness, e.g., because a good friend or relative died, that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:47 PM
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There is no type of woman that is noticed by "literally every dude", no matter what she looks like or behaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:54 AM
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A woman defines her standard by the amount of validation she gets. So if she doesn't get any messages, but only one "loser guy" messages her, he has a chance. But if she is overwhelmed by hundrets of guys, she raises her standard. If you're cute enough for her to fuck, you have a shot, but it only takes 1 guy who's better than you for her to fuck him instead. The 100s of losers validating her has nothing to do with it. Sure, this is still true. Most woman just seek one guy, not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:00 PM
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I tend to agree with you. I think men gain validation and self-confidence in achieving something and in getting stuff done. Women are evolutionary "the weaker gender" and therefore more dependent on validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:26 PM
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I would say couples married at a younger age back then. A 20 year old guy wouldn't marry a 10-15 year old girl.... But when marrying at 37, the range of 27-32 seems less weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:14 PM
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It's hard because of their standards not because of lack of options. And this is the reason for it. In online dating it looks like you have a great choice. And as man are less selective and 'like much more', average woman are overwhelmed with matches with 'top guys'. And just naturally they raise their standards... Well, they also raise their standards as they are earning more money than before and are less dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 09:08 AM
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because women who want to date are told that if they don't have sex early, they will be replaced. That is actually a great indication that a guy is looking for casual sex and not for a relationship. A guy you date wants to have sex quickly before spending much time which each other? dump him...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 08:56 AM
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