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Preselection is the same as caring about brand names. Why do some women spend hundreds of dollars on a purse or a pair of shoes when they can go to Walmart and get the same thing for a quarter of the price? Because those brands have a reputation for being high(er) quality. So too works preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:42 PM
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Not your social security number, credit score, banking information, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:34 PM
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Have fun with that info sold to the highest bidder, with them taking out loans and racking up debt in your name.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:01 PM
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It's a status thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:12 PM
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This could get dangerous, really fast. Especially with the deep fake technology getting so advanced. I could see alot of jilted people making fabricated profiles, manually submitting fake criminal records, and then mass distribute. Even if Tinder does take that step to verify the records, that takes time, and the damage could already be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:18 PM
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That's not justice, that's caving to PC bullshit. I hate companies that do this so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:38 AM
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If she was extremely attractive and not fucking other dudes, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:11 AM
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Lol yeah, I didn't say that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:17 PM
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That's just not true, plenty of women want relationships on their 20s. With the guys they have casual sex/FWB situations with. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:07 PM
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Yup, we all know this. But unless you live in a big city and are popular, OLD is all you've got, especially after college. It sucks, but this is what women demanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:43 PM
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Disagree with a woman or a BP enabler? They'll call you an incel and dismiss everything else. It's like a barely formed gotcha that persists because women like to use it to shut down conversation and "win" by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:33 PM
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Lol nope. And this thread will be deleted because women always circle the wagons Edit: called it. Only took 13 minutes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:20 PM
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Well I’ve heard from a number of corporate guys that being seen as a “family man” is hugely beneficial to your success in those types of organizations. Like they’re more likely to promote a guy with a wife and a kid than a guy with “just” a girlfriend because having a wife and kid connotes certain values to them. Somewhat. "Family men" in America are seen as more dependable and harder working. They have a family to take car of after all. These men work their asses off because they feel obligated…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:08 PM
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Lol in affluent "progressive" areas, I'm sure you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:35 PM
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And I'd pretty much agree with you lol. Many men would love a sex doll/maid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:18 PM
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Women don't want equal partners. They want partners that are "better". Hypergamy all the way down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:48 PM
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I'm sure some men do, but I believe it is women who're the driving force behind ultimatums and having kids. I do think some people like the “status” that comes from being married more than the actual marriage itself. This is the reason. To many women, being married is a huge status symbol. Not so much for men though. They would be fine with forever girlfriends. By “don’t want to be wives” do you mean like not wanting to stick to their commitment/stay loyal? I mean they like being married, but do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:32 PM
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I totally agree. Thing is, women are the ones pushing marriage and babies. They are the ones refusing to be "forever girlfriends" and throwing out ultimatums. They also happen to be the ones that initiate most divorces, because they want to be married but don't want to be wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:48 PM
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I totally agree. But by making marriage harder to exit, you're "oppressing" women. Women will take the easy way out unless there is significant consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:02 PM
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You answered it already. If/when you get divorced. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Not to mention. If you have kids, namely sons, learning about women's dating privileges and habits will give those boys a headstart in life, and allow them to navigate those fucked up waters safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:51 PM
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Why not? It's a debate sub and people indulge in all sorts of shit to avoid doing work. Men of all relationship statuses have a vested interest in women's dating habits, as women tend to have the power in relationships and marriage. Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:38 PM
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As does mine. Just because a man thinks poorly of women in general, doesn't mean he can't have LTR or get married. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:28 PM
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Bullshit. Anytime men disagree with women or their sackless BP enablers, they're called an incel. Plenty of men here are in LTRs or even married, but are called incels regardless. It's a lazy way to disregard anything that person says and declare yourself right by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:15 PM
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That leagues are determined by women and they don't have to approach. Those aspects give them an astounding advantage in getting relationships and marriage. How I would change it is against TOS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:58 PM
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The ghettoization of culture can be blamed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:54 PM
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Depends on where you live. The average person in Miami or LA is leagues more attractive than the average person in Montana or Arkansas, generally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:16 PM
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Cool. I like subs that help women find good men. Hope it does well. Then again, I live in a large urban area, so we have a lot of nightclubs and restaurants with large bar areas, catering to different types of people. I'm always advising both young men and young women, to move to the "big city" if they can, both for social and economic reasons. I think a ton of these debates and arguments are so geographically contingent, it's almost borderline impossible to discuss. If you're young and can cut …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:02 PM
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Simple, the places where it is appropriate to approach and pursue women is getting much smaller, while the consequences of a botched approach is much steeper. Outside of college, it's unfortunately sparse. At work is a no go, bars are very hit or miss depending on geographic location, and women aren't keen on inviting single men to join in their social circle unless the guy is "pre approved" by a current member.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 04:34 PM
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Not in the US. The amount of unkempt obese women "walking" around is staggering. A lot of women here don't give 2 shits what they look like, at lease not enough to change. They just get to rely on having a vagina, since it's easier than putting in effort
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:25 PM
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Then we need to level the playing field, as women have this genetic advantage. Men were forced to give up their inherent advantage hundreds of years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:22 PM
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Nothing wrong with relationship sex. It's some of the best, if not the best sex people can have. It's the fugly women portion that is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:30 AM
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Blain Cooper. Good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:38 PM
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Maybe it is an older issue, but thanks to cancer like social media and OLD, it's metastasized exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:22 PM
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Yup. And women wonder why men have a problem with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:21 PM
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Lol welcome to the modern age, where integrity and character have been replaced by looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:03 PM
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I'm america, both are above 6 just by not being obese lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:01 PM
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Lol we don't agree on some things, but that was funny as fuck. Have an upvote 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:59 PM
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What's not to get? It's not moralizing, it's a cancer of delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:52 PM
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Fuck hard work lol. I'm glad you have some happiness out of RP, but the easy path is the better path IMO. Why would you want to work hard for something if you don't have too? Makes 0 sense. I want to be there from day 1, so when someone brags how they achieved something, I'd laugh at all the extra effort they had to do. Basically revel in my "privilege" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:44 PM
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It's true. Look it up. Hot people are treated better, get better jobs, have the biggest choice in partners, and a smorgasbord of other benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:32 PM
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Of course. I envy everyone who has a better deal in life I do. The less they worked for it, the more envious I am. Welcome to America lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:59 PM
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Guess it depends if you want people to envy you. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:56 PM
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My own eyes. I see men who are more fit than the women they are with on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:54 PM
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In america, you'd clean up anywhere that isn't like LA or miami. Being thin makes you an auto 6+
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:51 PM
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Being physically attractive is the most important thing someone can do to have a good life. Hot people have better lives across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:48 PM
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It's terrible advice if the guy cares about how he is perceived by his family, friends, and the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:41 PM
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You in america?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:37 PM
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Chad isn't approaching women like that now. He hops on Tinder and other OLD sites and orders them over like pizza. Easier for him and he doesn't have to be seen hitting on a uglier woman in public. Most men would feel shame about going for something that easy, we need at least some chase to feel it was worth it. It's shame because she's ugly or fat, not that she is easy for him. Men don't need "some chase", we're just forced too because women want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:42 PM
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The amount of effort required is different, depending on how attractive the woman is. Chad has to put in effort for a 9, because that's Stacy. Chad doesn't have to put in much effort for a 5-6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:29 PM
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Yeah, less attractive women are more likely to do so. Chad can get attractive women, but he actually needs to put in a bit of effort. With less attractive women, he can order them to his place for an easy hook up like one would get a pizza delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:22 PM
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Relationship sex with unattractive women no less
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:11 PM
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Ugly women are just as picky as attractive women, just with less attractive men. They aren't easy, unless you're Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:10 PM
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The more attractive the woman, the better she is treated by everyone. Those good men with unattractive women are only with them because they couldn't get someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:20 PM
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Or I'm not blinded by Chad's looks and status, so it's easy to see their shitty character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:11 PM
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And I see the exact opposite of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:05 PM
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LOL if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:58 PM
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When some man puts an effort to date this unattractive girl (dates, gifts, favours, attention ) he probably actually likes her, not just wants to use her for sex, otherwise he would choose someone prettier. Hahahahaha wrong. He's only with her because he can't get someone thinner and prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:51 PM
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Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:47 PM
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If you're unattractive, you are at a constant disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:22 PM
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The difference is only physically attractive men can be players. Any woman can be a slut trying to get a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:37 AM
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It's just going to get worse. Either we completely separate from each other or enough men get pissed and start some good ol' fashioned brutality. Either way, I hope my future kid can survive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:32 AM
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So you chased a potentially wealthy Chad in HS. Yup, that tracks. Just don't get fat and look better than his friends partners and you'll be fine until ripe old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:03 PM
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Men have the privilege of having limitless time to raise their value despite their genetics. If they work hard and start making 6 figures plus by the time they're in their 40s they still have a chance of finding a young woman who is to their taste. Women? We can't raise our value in the same way. No matter what we do our values steadily drop after 30. We live in a instant gratification world now. Working hard and making a lot of money usually takes patience and dedication, which people of both g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:33 PM
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Like how tall men are perceived to be more confident and competent, without any other data to determine whether that perception is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:20 PM
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I'm something different, which will result in a ban if I go on lol. Have a good one 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:05 PM
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As long as you don't get fat, it's the single best advantage a woman in the US can have. Look at how many fat women there are here. Even if a woman is older, being thin provides more value than being young. If a thin woman wants a life long partner, she has her pick of any guy who isn't Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:59 PM
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Imo guys are shallower when it comes to LTRs. So many guys just want a young & beautiful gf and the rest doesn’t matter so long as she’s not unpleasant to be around. But most men can't get one of those women. Doesn't matter how shallow someone is if they can't get what they want. If men could afford to be shallow, nobody but the mentally ill would be with a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:36 PM
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Welcome to the flyover states of the US lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:29 PM
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Lol just wait. This place is far from a sanctuary, but it is a little bit better than other subs/sites which are completely overrun with leftists and SJWs. Certain ladies here are borderline beyond reproach, and a ban will happen if you cross them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:27 PM
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Lanky is still noticably fit, just not beefcake noticable. But yeah, close enough. same as being thin will never be enough in all cases for women. I'm going to strongly disagree. Depending on geographic location, just being thin means you're a borderline celebrity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:22 PM
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Oh, yeah, misunderstanding. I thought you were saying who cares if women get pretty privilege, men do too. My bad. Tall men just happen to have more of the halo effect working in their favor but not to the extreme OP is suggesting. Just being tall won't cut it though, a guy needs more than just height. For a man to have pretty privilege, he'd need to be tall + noticably fit. Where as women just need to be thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:11 PM
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Yeah, so they're bragging essentially. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:43 PM
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Lol depending on geographic location, women don't even need to do that. The more effort they put into those things (especially being thin and pretty), the more sought after they are. So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:42 PM
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Never heard IRL men say that shit, but you may be right. My only thought then is that such a term is them bragging. Like "I'm so attractive I can get laid as easily as a woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:40 PM
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Men who describe themselves that way tend to be gay. Being a "bitch" or a "slut" doesn't really apply to straight men. The closest terminology would be a fuck boy or a douchebag/asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:36 PM
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Most men can't do it, that's the issue. Women think most men are unattractive, so the "men do it too" argument falls flat. Only hot men can get pretty privilege, where as any woman who isn't fat gets it automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:30 PM
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Be thin and you can pretty much wrote your own ticket, as a woman. It's astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:27 PM
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Way to humble brag, usually it's women who do such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:30 PM
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Women aren't going to fix anything and quite frankly it's stupid to feel any antipathy toward them for enjoying a good thing. I beg to differ. Antipathy towards them is completely justified. Just like antipathy towards the wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:06 PM
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Most men aren't players. They can't be. If you're thinking a guy is a player, you're probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:58 PM
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Women like you are incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:55 PM
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It's expensive as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:36 PM
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Yup, but as we can see with all the downvotes, that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:34 PM
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Basically same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:23 AM
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Exactly, so you can't get rid of the transactional angle of men doing the bare minimum. Much like a shit job you don't want but need until something better comes along, you'll put in the bare minimum to not be fired and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:14 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you said, with the exception of: with a relatively similar in attractiveness woman Problems arise when men don't get to decide who is similar in attractiveness. Everything falls apart when you take into account women find most men to be unattractive. In order to negate the transactional view, men would need to be the ones who determine who is in their league. Unfortunately, women would rather go it alone than give up that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:04 PM
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They think, much like mediocre guys, that if they act like the hot people of their gender, that will make them attractive. Both parties are wrong. Actions and demeanor are secondary to physical attraction. Acting shitty, without being hot or rich, is a losing strategy for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:44 PM
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Personally, compromise is incredibly important
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:26 PM
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Ghetto post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:13 AM
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Desperation does crazy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:17 PM
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Most men just want a woman who isn't fat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:35 PM
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So ghetto men in the projects. Not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:27 PM
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Lol guys easily fall for this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:00 PM
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Honestly, it's the easiest thing. Whoever you choose, butter them up regarding their bedroom skills and size. Flattery and acting will get you everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:16 PM
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However even within this climate, non-chad men are still able to find fulfilling relationships with women. So what is it that sets these two groups apart? Money, looks, and geographic location. Like all things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:47 PM
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You don't support your competition. Camaraderie is great, but it withers if any attractive women come into the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:42 PM
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Social media mainly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:35 PM
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A) Have you experienced any of the following during childhood?; Just bullying usually, the ghetto guys liked to cause issues and play the race card if you stood up for yourself. B) Have you experienced any of the following in adulthood?; Not particularly C) Do you currently experience low mood, feelings of worthlessness, (social) anxiety or depression? Yeah, but that's life as a average guy. You just keep trucking, since nobody is going to stop the causes. D) Do you feel socially isolated/ unabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:23 PM
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They're aware, but all think it doesn't apply to them. That they're special or different
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:06 PM
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Men being honest in there preferences is deemed misogyny now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:01 PM
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Lol FDS's take on self improvement: giiiiiiiiiirrrrrrllll, have another chocolate. You're a Kween and don't need no LVM. Don't forget to go to our website!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:37 PM
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Sjws haven’t won anything. There has been massive backlash against them that lead to election of Trump. If sjws has any true power he would have never been elected. Yup and they kept crying and whining, daily, for years until they won this last election. The democratic party needed them, and made sure to use their massive media outlets to make sure there was enough "representation". It’s hypocritical when you complain about other people playing the victim but then do it yourself. Who determines …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:12 PM
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Bravo sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:51 PM
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Lol arguments with you are pointless, nothing more than attempts to get people who disagree with you banned for some "ism".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:50 PM
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If you can't beat them (since it's a prison sentence to do so), join them. It's not hypocritical, it's playing to an audience. Keep in mind, trying to argue anything conservative gets censored. It'll look like the SJW won the argument, when in reality the opposing viewpoints were deleted by leftist administrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:47 PM
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Lol calm down Kathy Newman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:40 PM
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I'm aware, that's why I said it. Fuck this country, it was better off before
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:36 PM
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Ditto!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:46 PM
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Have at her buddy, I'll take the second one in a millisecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:42 PM
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Wrong. The woman in the second picture is way more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:39 PM
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It's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:26 PM
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Lol argument? We're just pixels calling each other names. Tough talk when you can only do this behind the safety of an anonymous reddit thread, and under the protection of men with badges IRL. Let's see how you fair without those advantages...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:05 PM
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Found the fat lesbian 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:52 PM
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Me and any man who isn't mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:48 PM
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I'm not dating men, so I don't give a flying fuck. I see fitter men with ham planet sized women anytime I walk outside, and that is way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:45 PM
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Lol that would require responsibility and effort to address the situation. She'd much rather use it as an excuse to be lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:21 PM
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Yup, she just blames depression and anxiety on everything as a scape goat to avoid responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:13 PM
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The amount of fat women in america is so prevalent that it's an affront to mens happiness. That is our business
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:20 PM
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That doesn't mean I'm walking out of the house without washing my face and taking care of myself, of course. Well she does. She will walk out of the house in PJs she hasn't changed out of in 2-3 days (she works from home), hasn't showered in days ("taking care of my hair and skin is such a process and I just don't feel like it"), and every red blemish on full display. She doesn't care and doesn't care I find it gross either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:50 PM
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I'm sure you do. I find it revolting, since I like to look decent if not good at all times. I hate the lazy "nobody but you will see" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:39 PM
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Better hope you're rich, powerful and have abs, or not in the US. Any thin woman here is only interested in those 3 things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:31 PM
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Oh yes, the classic "men are too!". Who cares, a fat woman is way worse in every aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:08 PM
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Laying down, both on your sides, spooning style. That way it still feels good and you can cover up all her fat folds with blankets to pretend it's someone actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:07 PM
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My wife has been thrilled about the pandemic masks. Means she puts even less effort into her appearance because "now nobody (but you) will know!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:00 PM
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Yup, and entire country of women ballooning up because they can and know that most men don't have a options but to take their obesity or be incel. What a country /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:57 PM
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Nope, because of desert rose syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:51 PM
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Again, you're in Russia. It's way different and worse here in the US, the women are landwhales unless you're rich enough to live in a affluent coastal city.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:33 PM
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Average american woman gets up, uses the restroom, then sits down to stuff her face with food. Then, once the meat sweats subside, she throws on yoga pants and a shirt from back when she was younger. Oh, it's too small and her gut hangs out, oh well nobody is going to see her except her husband and she doesn't care about being attractive for him. Then she walks over to her desk and signs on to her work from home job. She spends the day barely working and mindlessly browsing social media. After a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:15 PM
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Yup. There is a time for bedroom fun and a time when there isn't. It's just a hot addition to the person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:41 AM
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Social media is way more prevalent now. Half of peoples relationships are on the woman's Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:58 PM
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Combination of people sweeping uncomfortable truths under the rug to make themselves look better and lazy parenting. I have seen lots of men who are not very attractive, are broke and don't have any social status but still getting laid. with attractive women? I doubt that very much indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:05 PM
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OLD is a huge net negative for most people, where as for a few people it's a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:19 PM
62

Makes sense. Men are the gender of extremes. There are far more male virgins, and there are a few men that get what the want. Everyone else is somewhere along those 2 extremes. Just depends on geographic location, wealth/status, and looks to find out where any individual man falls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:13 PM
2

Every woman I have been with I have cared about their pleasure. Most of the time, more than my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:05 PM
11

She would be disowned
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:08 AM
3

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:14 PM
2

Spoken as a woman who takes it for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:20 PM
1

They ameliorate the symptoms of low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:19 PM
1

Hahaha with enough money and status, life can be anything you want. Just look at elon musk, who's able to effect crypto stock prices by tweeting his opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:47 PM
0

Have you not seen those starry-eyed women talking annoyingly about perfection of their boyfriends/husbands? If they're thin and attractive, I envy those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:52 PM
1

He's fit and tall, all else isn't as important. And that makes sense, he isn't American and neither are you. Can't relate to non American people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:50 PM
2

This is standard American. If it wasn't for his crazy antics and mental deterioration, dude would probably still be in the White House. If you're hot and rich, like young Trump was, life is actually good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:48 PM
1

Yeah, having a really good face is also key. Especially if you're looking to get a non fat woman. But come to places like oklahoma or some shit, and you will be the fittest best looking dude around. Granted, you're mostly be getting fatties, so that's the significant draw back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:43 PM
-2

Lol fat ugly women have the Fat acceptance movement and OLD. They don't have low self esteem. Not by a long shot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:33 PM
2

Happiness comes from being better/having more than those around you, even better when you didn't have to work for it. Working hard and learning is a very poor substitute for having things handed to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:27 PM
4

Totally agree with them. I'd easily give up a portion of my years of it means my remaining ones are fun and easy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:17 PM
1

Dude is 6'3+ and is definitely not fat, at least not American fat.lets see him be successful with that caliber of women while being actually overweight. He'd be destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:16 PM
1

The dudes he referring too are all ripped. Obviously they're going to have Easy success. Height is always a plus, but having abs and toned muscles is really all you need. Unfortunately, that shit is genetic too, or you have to start in your childhood years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:13 PM
-1

Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? No, but the attractiveness of my partner does. is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness? Yes, and the hotter the people who find me attractive, the happier I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:41 AM
2

Stuff like electrolysis is fast. That's key. If anybody could lose weight as fast as something like hair removal, I'm sure fat chicks would have more into them, although I don't know why they'd want to be fat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:32 AM
1

People rewire their brains all the time. Our media does it. Our government does it. With enough force, we can do basically anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:45 PM
-1

The fact many women in america are obese, just being a healthy weight shows you care about how you're perceived and how you're SO is as well. In a way, being a healthy weight is a way to show how much you actually care about your partner. If my wife lost weight, I would feel so much love and appreciation I'd probably burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:01 PM
2

Of course it matters. If men could do to the height/weight/hair equivalent to what this hypothetical hairy chick could do, it would be a billion dollar industry overnight. This hypothetical woman being held up as a "you can't lower standards" example doesn't work. The thing that makes her unattractive can be fixed quickly and is relatively affordable. Once that is complete, she's good. Men don't have such avenues. Height can't be fixed like that, nor can weight, or hair growth for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:58 PM
3

Hairy women can shave/wax. Electrolysis is also an option. For a small area like a upper lip, it could be permanently gone for only a few hundred dollars, depending on how prominent the facial hair. Height, on the other hand, can not be fixed permanently. False equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:37 PM
-2

The worst part of being a woman I imagine is having so many options you don't know who to choose. It's the definition of a privileged problem though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:42 PM
2

The hotter the woman, the more important or more valuable a guy is. If you're with an ugly+fat woman, you're basically garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:40 PM
3

Take what you want, and cut it in half.if that still doesn't work, take the remaining half and cut that in half. Rinse and repeat. The only caveat is weight, which doubles instead of getting halved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:34 PM
2

Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:14 PM
2

What? Reading that was difficult... If what I gleaned from the poor wording is accurate, you're asking why men have issues when women partake in porn/Onlyfans but men don't have a problem with themselves or other men being a customer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:53 PM
1

We are enemies in a sense. More like rivals with varying degrees of animosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:47 PM
4

1.)Have you ever been catfished? Yes. It wasn't really that bad. I showed up and she was about 50lbs heavier than in the pictures she sent, and she wasn't very fit to begin with. That's desperation for you. Anyway, still a ok evening and we left on good terms. Nice person, the weight plus her sexual background grossed me out though. 2.)Do you think one gender is more susceptible or likely to be “catfished” than the other? If so why? Men are more likely to catfish I would say, but that's purely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:42 PM
7

Why do people tend to ruin it? They have too many options and have the power to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:15 AM
9

Because few things humiliate a man more than being not being chosen by women, especially attractive women. Since men have to complete, it's a easy and effective shot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:06 AM
3

No, what's the point of marriage then? Just suck it up and do whatever the partner who has more power in the SMP wants. It's the only way unless you're cool being single for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:12 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:23 PM
2

Was she fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:55 PM
3

Simps are the guys that buy belle delphine bath water and watch hentai
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:51 PM
8

I see the exact opposite, with fat women hooking up,dating, and even marrying men who are more fit and attractive than they are. A thin woman literally has her pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:45 PM
6

Depends on the differential. If she isn't getting treated how she wants, lower the attractiveness. In the US, that usually means fatter, but it could be different other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:39 PM
4

Women are incredibly valuable to men. The more attractive, the more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:34 PM
2

They do, just depends on the margin of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:23 PM
3

Yup, that's men with options. The more options, the less any one particular individual matters. It works in reverse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:13 PM
14

Bc men act like women are disposable. The men you want treat you as disposable. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:03 PM
14

I'd say men understand the average woman's experience more, but due to male sexuality, they process it differently. Basically we each have a lens through which we view data, and that lens is going to showcase different dimensions. For example, if the atrocity that is social media and OLD has taught us anything, it's that the average woman in the US has an almost unlimited amount of options, especially if she is thin. Men view this one way, and women view it another. We're looking at the same dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:57 PM
3

And many many other places. Any place that has a population of poor minorities will become ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:04 PM
5

Waiting in the age of instant gratification doesn't sit right with many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:01 PM
5

Section 8 is in the ghetto. It's for poor people, and poor people are ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:58 PM
13

When you act like this dude, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:58 PM
7

Who the fuck wants to be in section 8? Ever been to one? It's dirty, it smells, it's loud as fuck with all the other people crammed in+their kids. Not to mention it's a hotbed of crime. Fuck that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:53 PM
20

Of a dude who was gifted an entire fucking house + farm? God damn right I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:47 PM
3

A pandemic for starters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:40 PM
25

So... You're privileged and a braggart?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:36 PM
2

Because the more wealthy you are, the better you are. In the US anyway. Money = Power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:21 PM
1

Anything. Sex, relationships, marriage. A lot of men will take whatever they can, just to stop the torture that is being single and sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:32 PM
2

I've been on both sides of the hiring table. It was so much better being the one interviewing others. It was far easier, way more fun and relaxed. If I didn't find someone that interviewing day, oh well, I have 40 more on the docket that week alone. People are desperate, and it allowed me to be picky. I loved it. You seem like a good guy and (hopefully) you settled with someone you enjoy even if they aren’t model material. I hope you two are happy. That's really kind. Thank you. She's quite happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:30 PM
0

Because most men are desperate and impatient
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:24 PM
1

I couldn't cheat, so it's a moot question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:23 PM
0

Just the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:15 PM
5

Has nothing to do with assertiveness and everything to do with them not having other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:14 PM
0

Nope. She knows that would righteously fuck up the good deal she's got going on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:56 PM
1

You're right, I totally pedestalize hot women. Can't help it, I've always wanted to be in a relationship with one. I failed every time I tried. So I gave up. I like to think of the initial meeting as something similar to applying for a job. You don’t stop applying if one company says ‘no’ and a bad interview doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. If you two are a bad fit, move on. And you're right! It is a lot like the job market. Now, expand that thought out. Who's in the most favorable position? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:51 PM
2

I'm married and it's a healthy one. My wife has great internal qualities, including having stupidly strong morals. It's one of the things I admire about her and am simultaneously flummoxed by it at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:38 PM
3

I have plenty of black women friends. They're great people and I enjoyed hanging out with them (prior to covid).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:34 PM
2

That's awesome for you! Unfortunately, just as many women would cheat with a guy who did those same things you deemed creepy, as long as he was hotter than her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:32 PM
-3

They're physically attractive? The goal is (or was. I'm married now) to be with a physically attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:26 PM
0

Easier to be less bumbling and awkward when you have a trump card to play at any time. It also helps them tremendously when they have positive stereotypes to work with/play off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:24 PM
-6

Every rejection is personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:16 PM
4

it’s more about how you make women feel than how attractive you are. Thanks to the halo effect, women tend to feel more positive towards a hot guy, even if the conversation is bland. The point is, they don't have to try as hard for a much better result. Think about how many failed approaches attractive guys have to make before they’re successful too. Few. Every guy gets rejected at one point, but it's much easier to blow off if you have way more success than failures. If a man is rejected the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:11 PM
3

It's called cancel culture. All it takes is one mistake and the entire (edited) conversation plus your picture are on her feed, for all the world to see and use as they see fit. This can result in getting brigaded by white knights and other pissed off women and even result in getting you fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:01 PM
5

Bullshit. Many a man have been called creepy for nothing more than asking questions such as "what's your name?". All it takes is one paranoid chick to loudly call you creepy around other people and you're SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:48 PM
3

She still wants him to think that, just with a side effect of supreme thankfulness she chose to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:45 PM
4

When women started using it for attention and popularity points online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:42 PM
9

Don't bother arguing, it's just a shitty attempt to obfuscate the truth, even though she admitted it. Physically attractive men have a much lower bar to achieve success and are less likely to be deemed "creepy" by asking her out on a date or for her number. All the other bullshit is just that, bullshit. Sure, an unattractive guy can avoid being creepy pretty easily, by showing no interest and assuming she's too good for him. After all, that what women want most men to think about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:34 PM
2

Even if men went the relationship route, most men can't get attractive women. At least not in the US. 80/20 is true IMO, it just means 20% of men get to have sex and relationships with 80% of thin attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:22 PM
4

Men would do basically anything to be with a physically attractive woman. Most are so desperate, they'll hold on even while being abused. Having a physically attractive partner is the by far the most meaningful thing in a man's life. Being unable to get someone hot is shameful. I can totally see why they would opt for such a relationship. If it's that or nothing/ that or being with a fat woman, it's not even a choice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:41 PM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:34 PM
31

Being called creepy is just having an interest in a woman without being hot. That's really it. They're offended you thought you had a shot. Approaching doesn't work unless you're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:30 PM
4

Get out of here with this " if you want ___, just be an Ubermensch!" Nobody, of either gender, wants to work for shit in modern times. If it isn't instant gratification, most people will give up. Find a way to provide instant results for these issues, and then things might change. Until then, it's just the rich and hot who get to enjoy life, the rest of us have to suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:23 PM
2

A man with options won't do shit for you unless you're on par with IG models. A man with no other options will at least try
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:12 PM
2

Bad girl or good girl, as long as she hot. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:22 AM
3

Love can be, but it has to be both parties borderline simping for each other. And that, unfortunately, can only happen when people get someone they perceive to be better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:18 AM
4

A sure fire way is if all his ex's are fat. Another is if the guy isn't hot in general. If you threaten to leave and his response isn't "there's the door", but instead says he'll change or something, he has no other options. There are others, but those are 3 off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:34 AM
0

It's pretty easy to spot who those guys are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:20 AM
3

Men will wait just to say they “fucked” that woman. Again... Men with options are more likely to do that and leave. You can be the one to sort them out since you can spot them for a mile away right ? Yup. Not really that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:12 AM
1

I completely agree! Tell that to single moms who fuck men who won't be dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:31 PM
11

No man with options is going to wait 6 months. He might say he is while banging other chicks on the side though. But it's pretty easy to tell what men are users and which ones are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:30 PM
4

I agree they should. But they won't, because the few men with options want sex immediately and women will give in if it means a chance of getting one of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:08 PM
1

There are a ton! They just aren't hot or rich, so they don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:35 PM
5

I would have committed suicide if I hadn't met my wife a month prior to the date I had it planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:02 PM
2

Those trials are far more preferred IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:01 PM
2

Would you rather be hungry and hold onto your "standards", or settle and be able to afford a meal? Again, it's real easy to say those things when you have a buffet of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:53 PM
-1

Only because it's illegal to do what they want to do to people who disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:45 PM
1

If that utility is easy to accomplish? Most men are fine with being valued for that. Only when the utility being demanded is outside the realm of the average guy is there an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:44 PM
2

In general it may be more on the man in the very beginning to plan and be fun but for a LTR, its more on the woman to have a better personality. The very beginning is the most important part of the whole relationship process.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:30 PM
1

Much easier to prove yourself to the patriarch or the tribe. Those men don't care what that guys looks like, as long as he is a contributing to the collective good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:29 PM
5

Lol sure there is, it's called reality. Nothing stopping someone applying for a entry level position to demand C-suite pay, but they won't get the job. The employer will just laugh, throw that resume in the dumpster and say "next". Same with women. Most men can't demand anything, since women have far more options just by being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:21 PM
-3

Free speech (for democrats and liberals only). They left that part out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:17 PM
5

Correct, there isn't a "rule". But those with more options demand more. Women have more options, thus are more demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:13 PM
-2

Snarky and inflammatory commentary is the preferred method of communication between people of opposing viewpoints. Women tend to do snark very well, combined with their calls for censorship if someone responds back negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:48 PM
2

Whose fault is that men want women’s genitals more than the reverse? Nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:43 PM
4

This is neither gendered, unfair, or illogical It's all three. It's women demanding it of men, because men want women more than women want men. You're only saying it's fine because women benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:33 PM
1

It's not really encouraging it, but it's definitely not discouragement either. It's mainly "whatever you decide Queen". Birth control just allows for women to get maximum fun out of their 20s before baby rabies finally kicks in, once again exacerbated by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:22 PM
1

If I let myself go, like stopped watching what I ate and stopped exercising, and she didn't like it, I would want her to tell me. Maybe even help me by making sure I stick to a exercise routine or cooking us healthy meals. It would make us both happy. My wife would absolutely despise me if I did the same. If I said she was letting herself go, she'd cry, use depression and anxiety as a scape goat, and would throw herself a pity party that lasts days. I have to treat her with kid gloves, because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:41 PM
3

Pick me women are the absolute best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:30 PM
1

Popularity and scarcity determine value. Anything else is simply window dressing. That's why Walmart can't charge you 50k for an average flat screen. Wrong. Walmart and other retailers can't charge that much because the market is flooded with them. When they were brand new, flat screens were much more expensive. Supply and demand. When it comes to relationships, it's completely normal to want the best for yourself. The problem arises when one party wants something from the other and feels that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:20 PM
2

The golden rule doesn't work really. You have to treat them how they want to be treated. I know I can't treat my wife how I wish to be treated, she'd divorce me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:46 PM
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