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From between 16 to 22, I would say I was not very successful. I was good looking and skinny but always had trouble in dates or staying attractive long enough for women to sleep with me. At 23 I started working on myself. Going to the gym, eating better, reading books and I pursued a purpose. I believe l what made me successful and able to find my wife ( i am now 33 and have been dating for 5 years) was actually treating women like people and not putting the pussy in the pedestal. Genuinely, tryi…
/r/seduction19/11/25 09:48 PM
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You are thinking like a man. Not like how women thinks. You need to understand the female psychology. Women lust over feelings of anxiety, its weird but its true. You need to give women a bit of anxiety, in a good way. Giving them space, not being needy. But having a purpose is always king. It makes you less available thus more attractive, and brings confidence. Being attractive and well-groomed is very important! But being able to get in their head its key.
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:24 PM
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It will take longer for a girl to warmup than a guy.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:40 AM
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The style of online interactions changed, and also how heavily one can rely on it. Getting a girl's number has always been gold but back in the day I would ask a girl for her email (I would use MSN messenger) as having a texting plan was expensive for a high schooler. I have even read old books that guys would ask for a girl's beeper. How heavily one uses the internet to date has changed. Yes, I would add random girls on Facebook and at times get a date. But, the amount of dating apps and how he…
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:07 PM
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Give her space. Do not push it! She will come to you.
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:03 PM
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Men are seduced with their eyes, women by their ear.
/r/seduction07/03/24 11:09 AM
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I was thinking the same as you, lad. Just ask for their number. Showna strong character
/r/seduction21/10/20 11:22 PM
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I do not think you can anythint about it but eat earlier. Try intermittent fasting
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:05 AM
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Keep it light. Take your time. Let her develop feelings for you. Do not worry about what to say, but focus on ruining by saying something stupid. Men fall in love through their eyes, women through their ears. The human eye is more sensitive than other senses, that is why men fall in love within 5 seconds. Women fall in love in maybe 3 weeks to 3 months and the way to it is through their ears. Overall, show confidende. (Don't be needy)
/r/seduction15/06/20 09:52 PM
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Also, what do I do in this scenarios if she were to text me again? "Hey, sorry I forgot to reply" "Hey, why haven't you texted me?" Idk.. or any bs response?
/r/seduction09/05/19 06:11 AM
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Thank you! That really helps. Now, what if she is mad.? I got mad at her for wanting to leave with her girlfriend over the weekend instead of spending more time with me (because we hadn't seen each other in 2 weeks; I know I was needy). She changed to cold again after this..
/r/seduction08/05/19 04:05 PM
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Why not?
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:31 PM
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I would answer: "I understand. Let me know if you are ever available in the future." THATS IT. And never text her again. Even if she answer something. The only time you can text her back in the future is if she contacts you first first. But only answer in a cool headed way. Have a small conversation of like 3 texts and then ask her if she wants to meet. If she says, Yes.. go ahead and go meet her up. If she says, no.. just say alright let me know when you are available. Repeat until she wants to…
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:36 AM
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Well she did this once that we didn't text for three days. Last time I was so busy that I didn't text her. I told her this too. I think it is a shit test too. I am just pissed. Now what should I do when she texts back?? Or looks for me??
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:03 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Do nothing. I dont have to explain myself. I already told her why I didn't send her a message.
/r/seduction22/04/19 03:30 AM
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Best post ever!
/r/seduction15/12/18 08:30 PM
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Then don't chase her at all. Let her come to you
/r/seduction14/12/18 09:12 PM
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She was probably busy. (That's what you have to think.) Ask her out in a week. Do not chase her no more. Ask her out once. If she says "I don't know, check with me next week." Say this :If you are not available it is okay. We can try another time, let me know when you are available." If she says, I am am available on this time and date, say "great! Meet me at bla bla place at a specific time". Do not contact her to confirm. If she says, I am not available. "Say ok, let me know when you are, I wo…
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:37 PM
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Yes, they contradict each other. From experience 3% is better in the beginning of the courtship. And Models is better in maintaining the relationship, to be honest. Vulnerable and true. But in both books, they teach to approach a girl without caring for rejection. I learned to be okay when a girl rejects me. I am the own king of my own life. But, I also learned to speak up without caring if I would be rejected or not.
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:04 PM
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Hey! What do you mean by stage 2?
/r/seduction29/10/18 07:57 AM
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I highly agree. Dont use it
/r/seduction11/09/18 08:21 AM
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You have to approach women. Be confident. If you are a janitor, own it. If you are a doctor, own it. But, you need to work on yourself. Focus on your purpose in life and girls will come. Buy a car man, that's a good first step
/r/seduction11/09/18 08:20 AM
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I mean she has been texting me, but I feel it is to keep me in the loop.
/r/seduction10/09/18 06:00 PM
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Try just talking to girls.. do you feel you have some anxiety when approaching a girl?
/r/seduction10/09/18 05:59 PM
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Also if you would like more success in tinder.. just keep swipping, its a numbers game
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:49 AM
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I would focus more on real life interactions. Just approach any girl you find attractive. Say hey. Ask her out with confifence. If she says no, thats her loss. You are in grad school. You are smart, girls digg that
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:48 AM
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Depends where you live.. mostly anywhere except bars and casinos.. I would say a coffee shop or college student union
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:46 AM
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Be more aware of yourself. What I mean is, evaluate your body posture and body language. What are you communicating? Do you have an open-chest with arms out (confident)? Or are crossing your arms (close body language).. the more you are aware of the things you do, the more concience you will be and you will make adjustments. Also, think before you speak. What you say, may not have such an impact as "why" you say it..
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:44 AM
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Any response is the right one.. as long as you do it with confidence and make it fun. Good one!
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:40 AM
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Hello mate. So first off, lets go to the point of your desire. Which is to succeed with women. You have to approach and be confident. There is a book called "How to be a 3% man" which really helped me. It shows you to understand women. There is also the book "models: by Mark Manson. Both books are available online for free. Now, you have de-centralize yourself on this thought of being with a girl. When I say work on yourself, work on yourself.. try to be a better man for you and no one else... g…
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:39 AM
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Late to your post but.. what I would suggest is next time you are interested in a girl and she tells you "let's just be friends" tell her.. your intentions. "Look, i am not looking to be your friend, I feel attracted to you. So give me a call or text, if you would like to hang out", then never contact her again. If she contacts you, you will know that you have a chance. If she doesn't, oh well its her loss. This saves you time and energy, mate. Also, men should look for what they want. If you do…
/r/seduction10/09/18 07:51 AM
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