DrRonnieJamesDO Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Guys 5'4 and below who get laid without a social circle, how do you do it? Have a fascinating life and personality, and offer to share it.	/r/seduction	30/05/26 02:16 AM
14	Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women. He's on her 'bench', he better not switch teams!	/r/seduction	30/04/26 12:12 AM
65	Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women. Kinda works both ways but it's wild how much having a partner will attract more people to you.	/r/seduction	30/04/26 12:11 AM
1	Just finished watching ''DON JON'' movie (2013), and now I'm curious: How common are real life men like the main character? My ex wife was like that.	/r/seduction	04/04/26 11:37 AM
1	The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why? You sow your wild oats with the bad boy, then settle down and marry the nice guy. A lot of men do basically the same thing.	/r/seduction	20/02/26 09:41 PM
1	BEING A DORK IS A SUPER POWER Yeah, just chat with a lot of people and follow the chemistry.	/r/seduction	20/02/26 12:56 AM
2	Those of you who don't get rejected... Don't make any huge moves. Women are "rejecting" you with body language, facial expressions etc long before you approach them. Step 1: Does she respond positively to your attention? Step 2: How does basic conversation go? Do you have chemistry, things in common? Do your jokes make her laugh? etc. etc. if a girl isn't a clear yes to step 1, keep looking.	/r/seduction	30/01/26 12:27 AM
1	I feel so jealous of all the guys women choose to have sex with Bartenders meet a lot of people. The more people you interact with, the more chances to find chemistry with someone. Mostly, you need a personality and a plan for your life that she can learn about and decide to get into. A guy with nothing going on means that she has to be the cruise director, the carnival ride, etc.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 09:50 PM
4	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? When they were casting The Graduate, Robert Redford was really interested in the Dustin Hoffman role bc he was tired of bland leading-man roles, and wanted to show he was a serious actor. The producers tried to explain to Redford why he was wrong for the part, saying, "Robert, have you ever struck out with a girl?" Redford replied, "what's that?"	/r/seduction	09/10/25 10:04 PM
1	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? It's also possible 4B humans don't think and act like a monolith	/r/seduction	09/10/25 09:41 PM
5	How do YOU hookup at clubs? But the point is not to be cheesy, but good enough to not draw attention	/r/seduction	27/09/25 11:34 PM
3	How do YOU hookup at clubs? Is there something better that is as simple to follow?	/r/seduction	27/09/25 11:11 PM
5	Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired? "you're so good at this... if we ever break up, you need to fuck as many women as possible so they know what it's like." "I thought I was bi, but you give me all the things I thought I could only get from a woman."	/r/seduction	27/09/25 10:33 PM
38	How do YOU hookup at clubs? The secret to 'good' dancing: figure out a rhythmic way to move your lower body that's not gawky or unnattractive, then find one for your upper body, then do them both at the same time in rhythm. Raise both arms slowly from time to time.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 10:26 PM
2	Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it? Missed the point: if we're talking about randos, there's not any great way to know who has an STD without testing, but condoms when used properly prevent nearly all STDs. So sex with condoms is quite safe. The one they don't prevent, genital herpes, is extremely common and not hard to manage. Some would say the reward is well worth the risk.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 08:28 PM
12	Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it? Condoms work, and herpes is nbd	/r/seduction	06/09/25 09:00 PM
14	Have you ever met that average-looking guy who’s insanely successful with women? My best friend in college was 5'3", balding and pulled bc he was confident AF*, funny, and could carry on a conversation with anyone for hours. He also always had a plan - for his day, his evening, his life - so I think a lot of girls were intrigued by "this guy is going somewhere he's excited by and won't get stuck in a rut or expect me to figure things out." not cocky - he knew what he liked and disliked, and genuinely liked himself, even with his "flaws," which he openly acknowledged and didn…	/r/seduction	06/08/25 11:09 AM
0	Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships? That's an amazing story ... I can imagine what her reasons were, but you would know best.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 03:51 AM
1	Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships? Thanks! You make great points. I also meant that a plan to "become friends with women" is misguided; you make friends with a woman, and perhaps another, and so on. Noone wants to be treated as just a category.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 12:48 AM
8	Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships? 1) One woman at a time. 2) Being a good friend.	/r/seduction	19/07/25 10:57 PM
3	Being good at conversation sets you apart from 90% of guys — and it’s a skill you can actually train Many women say they value a good listener (hint: this means most men suck at it), but listening extends into a lot of things: going in without preconceptions, using welcoming comfortable body language ("listen with your whole body"), pausing to really think and process what was said, knowing how to respond in a way that moves the conversation forward (instead of just explaining/ performing) etc. More to the point, your goal shouldn't be to score, your goal should be to get a good conversation. T…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 09:37 PM
44	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men Sex appeal is based largely on looks for most humans. More news at 11.	/r/seduction	08/07/25 09:23 PM
11	What’s your single biggest most important “the one thing” that lead to a change in success? Not wasting time on dates as a first meetup. Grab coffee or a drink, if there's no chemistry, don't progress.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 01:36 AM
2	I Quit Using Pickup Lines and Focused On This One Thing. Here's What Happened Real conversations	/r/seduction	02/04/25 05:29 PM
1	What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results? Saying what you want is 1000% sexier than asking or hinting.	/r/seduction	28/03/25 12:18 AM
3	3 Texting Techniques That Consistently Get Me Laid From Tinder It's from how I met your mother, if either of you aren't feeling it by 5 minutes, end the date.	/r/seduction	14/03/25 02:04 PM
4	3 Texting Techniques That Consistently Get Me Laid From Tinder Don't date - get drinks, see if there's a vibe, use the 5 minute rule, and go from there.	/r/seduction	13/03/25 07:13 PM
14	The Mindset That Attracts Women Instantly What attracts women is knowing who you are and what you want from life, and making that happen for yourself. If you have no plans for your life besides, "be this girl's boyfriend" you're going to bore them very quickly. But if you have your life in an amazing place and have amazing plans to do amazing things, women will flock to you, and gladly take you up on the offer to join them. This is what "work on yourself" means. Create a life for yourself so awesome it's worth sharing.	/r/seduction	27/12/24 04:18 AM
1	Is Bowling a Good 2nd Date? It's usually what I plan for but idk? V funny typo in your last sentence.	/r/seduction	26/12/24 10:25 PM
1	How to get a threesome Cast where the fish are? Some thoughts: 1) If she's bi, she should go to a dyke bar and see if she vibes with another girl who's bi or bi-curious. A decent number of lesbians will be open to having a dick present if the vibe is appealing. 2) Go on kink-friendly apps like FetLife or Feeld. Again, life being how it is, you'll have much more success if she's the one seeking the partner.	/r/seduction	13/12/24 03:04 AM
2	Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins? Be open minded. Start by identifying features you find attractive, focus on those, then move onto to ones you find less attractive and see if you can find them appealing. I used to be only be open to skinny women, and once I opened my mind to loving larger women it's been amazing. And charm is charm, you'll only get better at it with practice and building up confidence. But it also doesn't require hooking up to develop charm. It's much harder to cold approach, strike up a convo, get a number, ge…	/r/seduction	12/12/24 10:05 PM
2	Women don't want to meet up because "They don't know me enough" It's OK to use apps, but focus on using it to arrange meetups, drinks are ideal bc you can bounce quickly if there's no vibe and you haven't committed much time / money	/r/seduction	10/11/24 08:27 PM
1	Tell me I’m wrong Oh, make no mistake: I don't condone it (have had my heart trampled by it a few times), but I understand it. Men are not all that different: they'll try to bang a stripper or a "slump buster" in their younger years, then start to get serious after enough time passes.	/r/seduction	25/10/24 05:28 AM
12	Tell me I’m wrong I think part of it is that dating is very much wrapped up in perceived social value, and showing a willingness to commit to someone is seen as indicating that you think this person is the best you'll ever do, hence you think they're out of your league. The other part of it is that I think some people, but especially women, go into dating consciously thinking that their lives will have a Wild Phase in which they flirt outrageously and date lots of hot and dirty boys who look like an unmade bed fo…	/r/seduction	25/10/24 02:41 AM
4	Tell me I’m wrong People in the dating world are very sensitive to social status: am I "settling" for this person? Did I "get lucky" matching with that person? So making a sudden serious commitment can be seen as a sign of low status. I'd argue that people who see it that way have some deep-seated self esteem issues, but people be like that. Another aspect of it is that people, especially women IME, have a much more conscious awareness of "my life will have a Wild Phase in young adulthood where I'll be a coquette…	/r/seduction	25/10/24 02:35 AM
12	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified All very true. Next to safety, I'd add trust. Trust and safety are the bedrock of most all human relationships. The trust things extends to being honest, reliable and on time, doing what you'll say you'll do, etc	/r/seduction	07/10/24 07:56 PM
8	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified "It's not what you say, it's how you say it" is especially true with women, who are typically far more attuned to tone and nonverbal social cues.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 07:52 PM
2	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? 🙏	/r/seduction	24/05/24 07:43 PM
8	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? Someone who is: --Well groomed, smells good, nicely dressed. Women obsessively inspect their skin, hair, nails and clothes. They will notice dirt, smells, skin issues. --Comfortable with who they are and what they like --Socially adept: pleasant to interact with, capable of holding a conversation with genuine curiosity about the other person, able to pick up on nonverbal cues* and respond appropriately. The last one is critical. Women's biggest concern is always safety. Is guy isn't respecting h…	/r/seduction	24/05/24 07:11 PM
3	Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him I'm convinced there's 2 kinds of attraction: wild primal instinctive instantaneous lust, and the affinity based kind the rest of us have to settle for.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 05:39 PM
3	Update: Ex Wife Showed her True Colors So f'in true...they also hate fairness, the idea they don't always deserve special treatment, accountability...	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/24 03:24 AM
6	What i learned I don't know that there's so much to learn there. Some people sre only looking for raw animal attraction. Its not like there's some Open Sesame out there that's going to magically make her gush.	/r/seduction	26/12/23 07:20 AM