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Objective truth is a difficult concept, especially when it’s reliant on human memory, which is extremely flawed, subject to change based on emotional state, time, etc, and even then the truth of it is based on opinion. When you think about it consent is a mindset, so how can you objectively prove or disprove a mindset? Unfortunately sexual assault is a crazy nuanced subject in which one person can feel they were raped, the other can feel it was consensual, and they’re both right. Part of crimina…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 12:14 AM
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Dumb people mistake things that violate their personal views on morality as illegal acts. This is a list of how people view specific examples and if they “feel” it could be seen as rape, it’s entirely subjective opinion not in anyway grounded in objectivity or the law. Defense of Mistake of Fact to Consent literally exists for half the shit on this dumb list. The real problem is that stupid people can’t conceptualize nuance, in that a person could feel they were a victim of a non consensual sexu…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 12:02 AM
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Thank you for an actual reply. Do you have a link of the texts? Have they been confirmed with the whatever carrier and phone records for time stamps etc? With how easy it is to fake everything these days, and how well documented telecommunications companies have of texts calls etc, I’d be interested to see everything.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 02:45 AM
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I read about it when it first came out. His explanation was plausible and believable. And when he was told what it was similar too he had it covered up. I’d hate to be judged today for a snap decision I made 20 years ago, in ignorance, and have openly discussed, explained, and apologized for. It’s not all that uncommon for people to get tattoos that they think look cool only to find out later they have meaning you weren’t told in advance. I also posted this from a men’s rights perspective. This …
/r/MensRights09/07/26 01:48 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you, but my advice as someone who’s suffered as well, don’t let your anger get pointed at women as a gender. Family court is notoriously bias against men, and there’s near infinite examples, but who wrote those laws? Who has allowed it to reach the point where you had that much taken from you? Given law makers have been historically overwhelmingly male, you prolly shouldn’t blame women on this one. This sub is about the growing disparity of the treatment of men vs how …
/r/MensRights06/07/26 06:08 PM
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It’s almost like random memes without source citations found on the internet shouldn’t be trusted. I also fail to see what this has to do with men’s rights. Even if it was true, what argument is being made here? Women couldn’t even have their own bank accounts in the US until 1974. Going from that kind of cultural and economic treatment to being able to generate billions in 50 years at the same rate as their male counter parts isn’t really even feasible. Theres self made female billionaires, the…
/r/MensRights06/07/26 06:19 AM
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Lived in Scottsdale, AZ for many years. It was and still is a wannabe Vegas. The amount of times I heard girls talk about moving to LA and Hollywood to be models can’t be quantified. The link between them all was that they were all extremely attractive. They never waited in a single line to enter a bar. Never paid for their own drinks. Would fly to Vegas for a weekend and was able to work it so they spent no money outside the air fare to get there. They weren’t wrong. For Scottsdale standards th…
/r/MensRights19/06/26 06:48 AM
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You might not like this, but this is said with genuine good faith cause I’m trying to help. I read that whole thing and it’s definitely some manosphere incel viewpoints, and I have to ask what media you are ingesting if you think the generalizations you just made are accurate. They’re not, and worse, the entitlement is crazy. Please understand, I say this hoping you’ll objectively view this mentality, ask questions, and break free from it. I say this because I was you. I worked very hard to get …
/r/MensRights13/06/26 08:06 AM
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I’m sorry but presenting data like this is disingenuous to say the least, and makes us no better than feminists that claim shit like all men are rapists. These graphics show two sides, convicted and false. There is a HEFTY middle ground of cases that don’t go to trial for lack of evidence, and cases with evidence and one can even concede the event may have happened, but not beyond the standard required for conviction. Just because a conviction isn’t secured does not mean it was a false allegatio…
/r/MensRights08/04/26 12:58 AM
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Thank you. the kind words are appreciated. It's a process. day by day.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 06:40 AM
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Remind them about Emmett Till. A 14 year old black boy who was tortured and lynched in Mississippi in 1955. A woman named Carolyn Byrant fabricated a story of him being inappropriate with her that she told her husband. The husband and husbands brother abducted him out of his home, tortured him, and lynched him. An all white Jury acquitted them and they openly admitted to torturing him before lynching him a couple years later in an interview since they couldn't be charged again. Byrant wouldn't a…
/r/MensRights07/04/26 06:36 AM
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There were quite a few comments in response to this that seemed to have missed my point and you hit it perfectly. Sam Altman doesn't sound like a good dude to me, but that doesn't mean he's a rapist. The point is there should be evidence beyond character that shows committing that crime is probable before making statements like that publicly.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 11:06 PM
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I'm not taking sides. I openly said I don't give a fuck about him. To the point I didn't know much about him at all until reading a lot of the comments. Doesn't sound like a good dude. But that mentality is the problem. You're expected to take a side. My side is Justice and truth. Meaning I will wait for evidence of a crime before I condemn someone as guilty.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 10:58 PM
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yeah. I came to that conclusion after. What bothers me is that its front page for some reason. I certainly don't subscribe to it. So when it popped up I thought it was news and went straight to the comments and was like .. wtf. but you're right.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 10:57 PM
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It’s the worst knowing others suffered like me but also kinda comforting knowing I’m not the only one. It’s weird. Sorry to hear about that man. Hope you’re doing ok
/r/MensRights05/04/26 08:06 AM
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17k texts over a year showing she was my abuser. She threatened me dozens of times over text. Literally documented evidence of her saying she’d get revenge on me for any perceived slight. Even had texts where she sexted me talking about how much she loved rough sex and demanded I choke her and was mad at me I never did rough sexual acts. A year later claimed I SA’d her and that she didn’t like rough sex and I did and I refused to accept her boundaries. I was charged and the legal shit took almos…
/r/MensRights05/04/26 06:50 AM
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Falsely accused here. Destroyed my entire professional life. Investigation and prosecution lasted four years. Charges dropped two weeks before trial when my attorneys submitted motions to allow my text messages at trial as evidence. Literally proved she lied dozens of times and that she was the abuser and I was the victim. We would have had her either on lying to law enforcement or perjury if she kept her story up. Did they charge her? No of course not. I was told to be grateful it’s over cause …
/r/MensRights05/04/26 06:41 AM
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Mind elaborating ....
/r/MensRights15/08/20 02:49 AM
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I'm honestly not sure why you got downvoted so much. Your questions are legitimate. Unfortunately this is an on going case and I can't give any detail or really discuss anything that may be used to identify me. Especially to convince internet strangers. There's nothing wrong with a healthy amount of skepticism. If i had been shown that, I wouldn't be in this situation.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:15 PM
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Thank you. I'll be looking up those names later.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:12 PM
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Because it's ongoing I can't discuss specifics are say too much that would make me immediately identifiable.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:11 PM
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I've done all I can for the moment legally. Thank you for your words. I have actually spoken to my ex. When i say she hates me its because how our relationship ended. She was honestly in it for the long haul and I just didn't feel the same. She didn't hate me because I'm a bad person. I don't think we'll ever be friends but she doesn't believe for one second I'd ever rape anyone. She's a good person.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:11 PM
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evidence is not required in sexual assault cases. Not to prove your guilt anyway, only to prove your innocent. They have zero evidence, yet here I am.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:09 PM
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I stated in a comment above, my ADC is actual great and I like them, but you hit the nail on the head. They are overwhelmed with cases. The fact is I haven't been charged with a crime. My ADC is currently defending no less than 4 members undergoing court martial for various things. I'm not a priority. I agree. It's sad I can't speak to a female subordinate alone. I don't even trust two females together. I refuse to address any female without another male within ear shot.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:07 PM
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Honestly, when I scrolled this far down I had no idea I'd find such great advice. Thank you. I knew some of this information, but the actual articles and regulations you cited are spectacular and I will look into them. They've essentially terrified me into filing anything against anyone because it would make me appear guilty. That's what I'm told anyway. Because I haven't been charged with anything, my attorneys all feel if I file something now JAG will choose to press charges, even with lack of…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:04 PM
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Even I am guilty of not knowing how bad this was until I found myself in this situation. Most men think the way we are treated is just how life is and part of everyday life. Things may be hard from time to time but when you get used to it, it is what it is. Not until this situation did i realize how terrible things are for us.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:57 PM
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thank you. You just described me. Just a regular dude going about his life. Never been in any trouble, just doing my job and trying to be happy. Never saw this coming.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:56 PM
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If I get charged with this crime it will forever show up on my background check as well. I'm medical and have spent over a decade getting degrees, certifications and building an extensive resume. I will never get hired again in the medical career field if this goes to trial. Even when I'm found not guilty it will be show up on my background check. When I was in my early 20's I got a driving citation for having the wrong license plate on my vehicle. The DMV fucked up and never transferred the rec…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:55 PM
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That's a very good way of putting it, I'm totally stealing that and using it from now on. My career field is female dominated. Dealing with female concerns/issues is a huge part of my job. I regularly do the work of two to three people because of pregnancy. I'm not even talking about maternity leave. I have multiple pregnant members in my section and they have various appointments to go to every couple of days. Medical check ups, family advocacy etc etc. It's never ending. I have to pick up thei…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:49 PM
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Getting convicted and spending time in prison is my worst fear. Sexual assault has such a stigma around it, even when there is zero physical evidence people go to jail. It comes down to emotions, not logic. If I go to trial and there's a bunch of white knight men and angry women on the jury I'm fucked, regardless of how easily I can disprove her claims.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:45 PM
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Agreed. This whole bullshit about giving the accuser a blanket pardon for any wrong doing is one of the most sexiest, horse shit things I've ever experienced.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:44 PM
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Thank you for the offer my brother, it is appreciated. This rant was partially my way of venting. It's still an ongoing thing so I'm incredibly hesitant about talking to anyone about it, even those whom I'm close with, but the offer was kind and appreciated.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:43 PM
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This is exactly what's happening to me, and more than likely I'll have the same outcome as your friend.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:42 PM
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I'm very purposely seeing a military therapist because I want everything I've gone through to be properly documented by the military. This has given me an anxiety disorder and PTSD. If they are going to railroad me like this I'm not taking any chances. I will get what they've done to me documented so someday I can get appropriate medical benefits and compensation. I am also extremely careful about what I say to them because their is no doctor patient confidentiality in the military.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:42 PM
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I appreciate the thought, thank you.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:40 PM
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My worst fear is going to court martial simply because they can. Sexual assault is such a hot topic they literally keep track of numbers like how many allegations there were, how many went to court martial and how many convictions they got. It's not about justice, its about public perception that they are trying to be "hard" on sexual assault. JAG doesn't care I'm innocent, they only care if it looks like they are doing their best to prosecute the accused.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:40 PM
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I did not know this existed. Thank you. I've been lurking for awhile and its helping.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:37 PM
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You hit the nail on the head with several things. The "move on" and "man up" people can go suck a fat disease ridden dick. They have no comprehension on how badly this has fucked me up. I AM A VICTIM and everyone is acting like this is no big deal. I read recently that a study conducted by the military showed that around 28% of sexual assault allegations hold zero merit. A fancy way of saying a huge portion of the accusers lied. Those are ones they COULD PROVE. How many times do you think a guy …
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:36 PM
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Thank you. I'm glad to hear from someone who knows what they are talking about. My defense attorney is great, but they are completely overwhelmed with current court martials and I haven't gotten much of any help or attention from them. I don't blame them. I haven't even been charged yet so not much they are capable of doing. Unfortunately, they aren't going to put in much effort to assist me until I'm actually charged seeing as they are already dealing with other members who have been. I'm simpl…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:29 PM
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This is still an on-going case and investigation so I can't discuss specifics. I did not have a girlfriend at the time. My assumption that one of the reasons she targeted me is because she had no current contact with me, I was at a different base, and in a different career field. This meant her chain of command was completely on her side. They didn't need to mediate or choose between two co-workers causing massive morale issues and other things that may have come up. There are very specific reas…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:25 PM
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That was very kind of you to say thank you. I am grateful for the support I have gotten. When I said no one cares I meant the military in general. While I do have some emotional support from friends and family who are aware of the situation, my issue is that nobody with any power to put an end to this farce gives a shit. The few people in authoritative positions have taken an entirely neutral stance. AKA they are covering their own asses. They dont' assume my guilt but are refusing to do anythin…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:22 PM
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I've already consulted with several attorneys about it, and I will probably do just that. We can't file anything however until this investigation is over and my attorney is granted access to every single statement that was made during this investigation. I have every intention of going after her. Even if its just to show the world she is full of shit.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:19 PM
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Honestly, that's the problem. Being patient does nothing for my mental health, or my career. I've lost a year of career progression. I am missing huge opportunities, on top of the rumor mill. After this ordeal I'm going to be forced to PCS to a base where nobody knows me at all just to get away from what I'm being called behind my back. I know I will be exonnerated, but that doesn't help what I'm going through now. I'm trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I'm sorry you had to go thr…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:18 PM
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I discovered MGTOW a few weeks back actually. When I filtered the posts by best of all time as I normally do when finding a new subreddit I saw some legit good stuff about mens rights. After awhile the posts started going down this "fuck all women they're the devil" mentality. You're right, i started seeing some huge MAGA, alt-right propoganda and I just stopped going there. Sorry to hear about your subreddit. It sucks what it got turned into.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:15 PM
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That's honestly the hardest part of all of this. I put my life into the military. I have never once been in trouble for a single thing my entire career. The speed at which the military as a whole turned their back on someone whose put so much into it makes me sick to my stomach. Everyone says the same thing, try to look past and forward to what is to come. It's incredibly difficult to see daylight when your inside of a sealed box. I'm trying tho.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:12 PM
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That's exactly what I've been doing. Everything I'm going through is being documented. Including keeping a personal journal discussing my feelings each day as well as how badly this has effected me. I'm hoping I'll get to use it.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:10 PM
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A lot of it is politics. The military as a whole got crushed a few years back after numerous investigations proved they were absolutely atrocious at handling legit sexual assault cases. I mean massive fuck ups which lead to cases with overwhelming evidence that sexual assault did occur being dropped entirely. Now, everyone is attempting to show "things have changed". All that's happened is now we immediately believe any accuser no matter how ridiculous the story and people who haven't even been …
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:09 PM
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My god, my sincerest condolences. No one in the military takes the mental health and well being of men seriously. The only time they act like they care is to cover their asses. Their excuse of not knowing he needed to be on suicide watch is such a cop out. Fact is he was charged with a serious crime which could destroy his life and no one through to ensure he received mental health counseling and an avenue to vent his frustrations about the process. His death was 100% service related. The polici…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:06 PM
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Thank you. The anger for me builds everyday. Someone further below stated it best, the process is a punishment for people who haven't done anything wrong. I hope I can get some justice, but its doubtful.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:02 PM
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Thank you for the sincere reply and offer to help. I googled Michael Waddington and dude looks legit. I have been in contact and done consults with about a half a dozen law offices who specialize in military law. As of right now I haven't even been charged with a crime which is the only reason I haven't retained a civilian lawyer yet. Each one wanted anywhere from 5k-10k as a retainer to begin the process. The cost for each varies depending on if the case is dropped, if we go to Article 32 heari…
/r/MensRights08/01/20 10:01 PM
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