We've dated for 7 years and we're approaching 4 years of marriage. For 5 years she didn't work and I supported her and was faithful the whole time. For the past two years I've asked her to work and assist. She said I just wanted her as unhappy as I was, but I was happy. 6 months back I discovered she had opened a tumblr page taking requests to preform sexual acts alone. I also discovered that she had been doing so for 18 months. In this time she had found 2 different guys she discussed leaving m…