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82	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise	CMV	DrTheeporiThirumugam	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:10 AM

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1	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him I don’t see how staying fit and working on your character is a red-pill thing. While I agree some minor things like these on the surface level, it’s all pure shit underneath. Tate makes his money by selling you this dream of owning a lambo and pulling chicks. What makes you think people who are vulnerable enough to pay him are rich enough to buy a Lamborghini?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:46 PM
3	ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that. Men HAVE TO be strong because they are meant to be. We live in a society where brain creates more resources than brute strength. Personally, I make a ton of money which I'll never make if I'm not sitting behind a desk most days. I agree that everyone in general should be fit but expecting all men to be built like cbum is unrealistic. Some of us have careers and poor genetics restricting us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 03:20 AM
1	Guys. Would you date someone who is boring, timid, and not funny? Ladies, how about you? I consider myself boring so yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 03:29 AM
5	Do men even enjoy dating women? Aside sex, I love the moments we spend together say cuddling and watching a movie, traveling together, doing fun outdoorsy activities together, etc. That said, one thing that I quickly learned after I started dating was that having a gf is completely different from having a friend. Anecdotally, they require a lot of attention, drama, certain male expectations, etc that annoy me. However, I'm pretty sure my girl has some masculine traits that she finds annoying in me which she puts up with. I gue…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 07:42 AM
0	This sub has made me feel better Hey, if you can find happiness being alone, by all means, go for me. I didn’t go on my first date until I was 23. I was insecure and was telling myself I didn’t need one anyway. Once I worked on myself, I felt it made me happy, so I did it. IMO, if being insecure and scared of making a move is your issue, maybe you need to work on yourself too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 09:23 AM
1	This sub has made me feel better Come brother, don't chew the blackpill. For sure, men has to put some extra effort to start dating, but as you find the right one, it's a great feeling. I've been in two relationships now and I wouldn't give that experience back for anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 08:29 AM
8	Women who insist that getting a paternity test is an accusation of paternity fraud are gaslighters I have mixed opinions on this. I can clearly see how one might consider this as an accusation if two the couple are in a loving relationship for a while. Other the other side, there are so many narcissists out there who would pull this off without a hair of a doubt from their partner. I can live with being cheated on but I can live with being fooled into raising an other man’s child. Having this as a general procedure post birth helps with the issue. I personally would get one done even if I hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 09:20 AM
9	Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia? Why are talking about women like they are some separate species?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 12:27 AM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise Well, a lot of women claim to denounce all gender roles but they actually want to denounce theirs and want men to be men. That's the major point behind this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 03:05 AM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I agree with you. My major point for this post is to give an unbiased opinion on women wanting traditional gender roles in men but not for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 12:03 AM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise Doesn’t this exactly prove my point? If you make $80k, a man who makes $60k would look less manly to you since you’re baseline has moved up. If you can fix your own car, someone who can’t afford I’ll look less manly to you than someone who can. The same doesn’t apply for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:49 PM
1	What is the equivalent of the 666 rule (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack) for women? I thought it was 6 feet, 6 inches, 6 figures. Damn, now I miss 3/3 :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 09:12 PM
1	Do you guys think there will be a "bachelor" Tax in the west at some point due to declining birth rates and men opting out and breaking the social contract? Exactly, and married people reap more from those taxes too hence increasing the amount what singles pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:16 PM
6	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise idk why, reading your response made me feel good. Story time: I have always been a soft, fat, nerdy kid in school minding my own business. I look below average so I don't have to say I never had any women attention and I never bothered to get some. I was just happy with my books. When I graduated and grew out of that phase, I started working out, having hobbies, worked on my confidence, etc and I started getting dates and relationships. I'm not saying no one would like the school me, but I had t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 07:47 AM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise You just explained why older virgin men are at a all time high. Among the rest, the one's are show any trace amount of these qualities get laid with women who got no other options. Also, I never claimed all these are inter-linked. You might be fat but be pulling in 6-figures as a lawyer. You might be a paycheck away from homelessness but you look handsome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 07:39 AM
3	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I see red-pill men hating women for not being subservient and on the other hand, blue pill women claiming everything is plainly equal. My point was somewhere a middle-ground: Well, equal doesn't mean she doesn't want a man but only that she doesn't want a dick. No one thinks beating your wife is manly. No one thinks screaming and losing your cool is manly. I was just stating traditional masculine values have always been and still is, attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 07:33 AM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I use "prefer" here as a term to generalize all women. My point is this "prefer" turns into a "requirement" based on a women's options. Say a women makes $60k and most of her dating pool is filled with men making $80k, she will "prefer" a man making >= $80k than a man making $60k, how much ever she says money doesn't matter. How much ever she says she wants an equivalent man, she's always going to pick someone who is dominating if it's even an option. That's basically my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 07:28 AM
4	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise Sure, here a couple of the top of my head: Being a provider. This could translate to anywhere from buying her gifts, paying for dates, etc to making more than her. Not saying women are gold digger but women find this attractive. Being dominant. This doesn't mean talking down to or devaluing her opinion. This would cover everything from initiating dates, handling situations, etc. Being emotionally strong. This doesn't mean being numb to everything but not throwing a tantrum for every single incon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 07:13 AM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise My point is "prefer" is a strong word here. I use it to generalize women. When she prefers something, if she can get it, it turns into required. If a women makes $80k and most of her pool is at least making $80k, she is not going to prefer someone making $50k unless all the other things work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:59 AM
12	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise Being hardworking, putting extra effort into your relationship, getting gifts your partner likes (including flowers if they like that), are all good qualities, for any gender. I don't disagree but this is always expected more from one side than the other. Even when men date equivalent-looking women, they are expected to put that extra effort as a man. And if they don't do it, there is always someone els who would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:46 AM
2	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I consider myself as someone in-between. Those extremes are just to prove a point. I might not be a gym bro but I thrive to be fit. I might not be made of stone but I thrive to be emotionally strong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:38 AM
3	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I'm never claiming you need to master all the traits. It's just a set where if you aren't a bum, you're already following a couple to an extent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:37 AM
6	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise Most men don't meet "traditional gender values" Who are these most men? IMO most of these men who get laid fall into my masculine bucket -- masculine looking (strong/tall/fit/handsome/etc) or masculine acting (dominant/confident/opinionated/etc). I don't think fat guys living in their mom's basement crying over the internet are getting laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:35 AM
13	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I think I didn't make my point clear. I believe most women might say they want an equal relationship but they will always prefer a man who puts that extra effort -- say initiating dates or getting flowers or paying for a date. Most women might not want to obey a guy but they'd still prefer someone benevolently dominating. These are all traditional masculine attributes imo. I thought this has to be said because I see a lot of men here lacking these qualities and complaining about not getting wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:31 AM
8	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise I think I didn't make my point clear. She might say it's okay to cry as a man but if you keep crying, it ain't okay. She might say it's okay for her to date someone who makes minimum wage but she either does not or finds other reasons to not to. It's okay when all the other options click however it ain't attractive though. Same way she might say she's not into gym bois. She might believe it but she'd definitely more attracted to one than a lazy bum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:24 AM
7	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly No it's not an opinion that there is a decent percentage of people, more women than men, who are not actively seeking any job. Where are you getting these numbers from? Are you suggesting men should have to stay with a woman who has his kid? No, but if your complain is men paying for this welfare, it is part men's problem too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 11:05 PM
13	When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid. I laughed too hard at this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 10:54 PM
5	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly mostly single mothers It takes two to create one single mother. It's not like these women are popping out kids out of thin air. These women aren't trying to get a better job, they don't want any job, they want to live off the gubbment. Sounds like your opinion. Women have been fighting to get good jobs are years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 10:53 PM
5	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly Like I already stated, if you believe men are inherently more intelligent than women, this conversation is already over. If not, you already know there are movements where women are trying to get an equal stand on jobs. With that said, the more women get good jobs, the more taxes they are paying. It's not like we are only taxing men. Women don't pay enough in taxes as a group too offset how much they take in terms of welfare What are these welfare that you are talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 10:17 PM
7	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly There are always exceptions but the point is most of us dependent on the society for protection and infrastructure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 10:14 PM
9	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly Glad you admit women are fighting for power in those industries and not actual equal representation or equality there. Because they aren't allowed to get those positions? They are kept away from them that they have to fight to show their equality? If you're someone who believes men are inherently smarter than women, then this argument is already over. No woman is fighting for the lowest position of such industries, even when nasty jobs pay better than most jobs women prefer. Why would they fight…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 10:12 PM
27	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly The issue is that the government can tax what men used to provide but it cannot tax what women provide I do not understand where this red-pill talking point stems from. It's not like we don't tax women. Even if you're argument that men mostly do the high income jobs, that's what women are fighting to get their foot in. Women depend on the collective of men for infrastructure, protection, most welfare, and safe environment from natural disasters. Doesn't that apply to men too? When was the last t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 08:06 PM
7	Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women. Exactly, complaining about this in the real world will only make you look less attractive to women. World is unfair, deal with it like a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 05:12 AM
10	Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women. This is not just about getting random compliments. It’s about feeling desired by women. Say being approached in a bar or the way they look at you. I’m not saying you’re ugly if no women random compliments you in the streets but that ugly men never get to know how it feels like to be desired by women. The only time I’ve ever felt that is from my partner, where I was already proved my worthiness. I’m very grateful for the awesome partners I have had, but my point still stands. Average and below me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 02:14 AM
31	Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women. Most average-and-below-looking men are probably never going to get compliments from women that they don't know. The hard truth is you gotta play the cards you been dealt with the best. Keep yourself clean, dress better, eat clean, hit the gym, pick up hobbies, etc. Add some qualities that make you desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 09:19 PM
1	Reason why men with high need count isn't seen as red flag is bcz women don't care about it The more women want you, the better a women feels about keeping you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 09:11 PM
7	The dating scene Yep, we men are just desperate. If I break up with my girl today, she can have another guy by tomorrow but the same doesn't apply for me. I wouldn't blame women. It's just how our species have always worked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:43 AM
15	The dating scene I have seen how many matches my women friends and my exs have got. Dating apps are just highly competitive and filled with desperate men. If I had that many choices, I'd be picky too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:15 AM
3	Would you marry a woman making significantly more than you? Yes, more the money, the merrier. I wouldn’t really look into options where I’m having a easier job than completely staying at home but I wouldn’t mind doing it. I really don’t believe in choosing a partner based on how much they earn. Until they got their life together, it’s all good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 05:20 AM