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| 11 | I've got tons of confidence...till I don't. Trouble reading signals and reacting to cold responses | DrYaklagg | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 07:43 PM | |
| 3 | How to draw a girl to hang out via online. In person interaction currently impossible. | DrYaklagg | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:21 PM | |
| 0 | Not bad at actually talking to girls and being social, but never really approached a girl out of the blue. How do I actually do this the first time? | DrYaklagg | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 08:08 PM |
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| 0 | Being a bigger girl (23), I always feel like I can't get a guy to stick around and get to know me because there are so many better looking options.There is some good advice on here...There is also a lot of shit advice. Don't focus exclusively on losing weight and becoming attractive to men, it won't work for a long time. The people telling you to focus on you have it right. We are attracted to many things (men), but physical appearance is the most obvious and most easily displayable factor a person gives off, so naturally, it is the first stage of attraction. It's definitely not the ONLY factor. You need to look at your life and look at wh… | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 03:59 PM |
| 2 | I've got tons of confidence...till I don't. Trouble reading signals and reacting to cold responsesIs there a way to improve your small talk skills? It's something I generally lack in any social situation, and it just gets worse when approaching a girl. | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Not bad at actually talking to girls and being social, but never really approached a girl out of the blue. How do I actually do this the first time?Do you suck at small talk? Because I don't really do small talk well. It doesn't help much in those situations. | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Not bad at actually talking to girls and being social, but never really approached a girl out of the blue. How do I actually do this the first time?Ok, I see where you're going with this. There are a couple of girls on campus I'd like to talk to I see often. One I've seen working around the buildings and used to catch my eye a lot. I talked to her once when I was working on something, but now she usually gives me the cold shoulder. Not sure if it's because shes shy and/or awkward or doesn't like me...so not sure that's worth it. Another girl I caught her eye last semester a couple of times, but the only times I ever see her she is on her co… | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Not bad at actually talking to girls and being social, but never really approached a girl out of the blue. How do I actually do this the first time?Well, I haven't. That's what I'm afraid of. I'm trying to work myself up to just talking to random girls. I get the basic premise, the theory, but I'm still a bit shy of just walking up to a complete stranger. I'm getting better, today I talked to a girl in a lab I was working in who I'd never seen before, but a complete out of the blue approach completely boggles me. I also feel like my sense of humor is often lost on people I talk to as it's so dry. I feel like I may have turned off a couple o… | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Not bad at actually talking to girls and being social, but never really approached a girl out of the blue. How do I actually do this the first time?The problem is talking to her without freezing after introducing myself, more than anything else at this point. | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Sexual energy "he said hello like he could fuck me through a wall"This is more likely to result in you actually saying "I'm going to fuck you" to the inexperienced. Maybe 5% success rate. | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!)I've learned more from my failures than any success I've had dating. As you said, for every lesson there is a price, that's really the way it is, and it doesn't change as you get older. However, the rate of success and the payoff when it occurs increase dramatically, so don't let it bother you. The more times you fail, the less likely you are to do it again. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 02:40 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)How do I get over feeling I'm not attractive to cute/attractive girls (even though I generally am)? (very tall skinny guy) | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 10:11 PM |
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