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Can you send it to me too please
/r/seduction03/06/24 05:59 PM
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If there's one thing to take away from your story, it's this sentence: I had this realization that no one would love me if I didn't love myself. This is such an important lesson that I also only really realized and internalized recently. The only person you will have around for your whole life is yourself. You should never be ashamed to ask for (professional) help if you have a twisted relationship to yourself, it is the first step towards happiness!
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:49 PM
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Definitely, you can also start to call if you're comfortable with that if meeting is restricted
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:06 PM
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I feel like you just shouldn't force it, a lot of times it's fine to just be silent for a moment, especially if it's a date and not just pick-ups. Finding out when it becomes "awkward silence" is key here, you can definitely get on with these questions quickly though especially early on Also remember to not come across as an interviewer and share something about yourself!
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:05 PM
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Reminder that your interests don't need to be the same to "vibe with someone", getting to know others interests is a great way to spend time and widen your own horizon
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:58 PM
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Honestly, when it comes to escalating, I'd say you shouldn't read too much into it and just do what you feel, if they're already interested in you and you're cuddling you can always start with mirroring her to make sure she's comfortable with what you're doing. If you just read too much into it you'll just end up mechanically repeating steps and she'll notice that as not natural. It's like if you read about dancing steps, it'll only bring you limited results in comparison to trying it out. Every…
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:19 AM
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Grest advice, cool story, but ultimately useless if you just read it and try to gain some serious insight. Gotta get out there and do the thing to get better at the thing Congratz on your journey though!
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:45 PM
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There will be a point where you say "fuck it" and just go out alone and not care about it. From there you can start. Use every dating opportunity as a finding a friend opportunity as well. Get some hobbies that involve social stuff.
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:11 AM
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Always remember, passion is not something you "discover", rather something to build. Also, you don't even need to go out if you just want hobbies, you can easily do things at home (depending on where you live)
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:01 AM
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I know that fear, and I hate it
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:59 AM
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If you actually think you have social anxiety, check out "How to be yourself" by Ellen Hendricksen, it offers a lot of knowledge on how to handle it better and deal with it Another book for social/communication skills that always gets recommended is "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie You can also always check the sidebar of the relevant subreddits like here or on /r/socialskills
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:00 PM
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!remindme
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:04 PM
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Treat it like falling off a horse. If you fall and don't get back on immediately, it will be way harder later on to rebuild that trust in yourself to get back on. Same here. If you get rejected and think about it too much, don't. There are around 500 million girls in your age, she's not "the one and only".
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:42 AM
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If you take this thumb rule out of context you could still make fun of her clothing choices and weight though, which is not a great idea. I never really got a bad reaction out of teasing for height
/r/seduction17/01/19 01:33 PM
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So call or are there any alternatives here I fail to see
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:48 PM
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Nice read, two questions from a beginner though: What's a "set"? And the second question is What kind of breathing exercises? I know inhaling deep and holding it in helps when needing to speak publicly for example but what do you recommend in such a situation?
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:34 PM
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Can you make an example for 6.?
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:18 PM
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It's funny how approaching Women is something that didn't change in all the years being civilized , since at the end it all comes down to instinct still (if i get this correctly)
/r/seduction24/10/17 07:15 PM
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I already pictured this, and a wise man once said "If you don't love yourself, how can others love you?" This was for an interpretation of this bible verse: "Love your neighbor like you love yourself" And I think it kinda makes sense, especially when comparing to your post again, because if you aren't content with yourself, your Charisma sinks by a lot Sadly my main problem is approaching "that girl I like" or getting her to notice me (as more than a schoolmate) in the first place, since this on…
/r/seduction13/10/17 01:53 PM
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