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| 1 | Wow, I really don't know how to talk to girls (or people in general)yeah, I'm 99% percent I have social anxiety, it's not like cripling level though, but it's there, I definitely notice it when I talk to absolute strangers (not like cashiers or shit but like random ppl on the street). I force myself to overcome it, but it varies, and maybe it influences me subconsciously (like in my OP when I said it feels like during convo esp. w girls I can't process any other information other than logically what's being talked about). Like for example the other day I saw a d… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Wow, I really don't know how to talk to girls (or people in general)What sort of stuff was he saying? It's been over a year and my memory is very bad (plus I'm sleep deprived atm). Also we were out having drinks when this happened, but it basically was texts playing on her emotions, I was very impressed, like a specific line I very vaguely remember was "I don't know who hurt you, but I want to make it right,for you" some shit like that. Basically the whole thing was the dude playing on her emotions, stringing on, manipulating the chick, and she was eating the wh… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Wow, I really don't know how to talk to girls (or people in general)Sorry, english is not my main language, so I don't really understand your comment, but I assume the point is to go out and practice even more? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | My plate lied to me about her job in massage. Turns out she does more than just massage. Am I suffering from onetis or something else? Advice appreciated.It's nice to see that at least my post served as a reminder for some. If I'd have any more advice, I'd be happy to share, but I'm pretty stuck on how to go on with my situation. I'm still heavily in the self-tormenting, constantly thinking about her phase for some reason, eventhough it's been almost half a year now, that's why I'm considering a therapist. But admittedly I did ignore some red flags, and didn't bail in time, eventhough I felt like it multiple times over the relationship. And natur… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | My plate lied to me about her job in massage. Turns out she does more than just massage. Am I suffering from onetis or something else? Advice appreciated.plus she's a hooker. Don't ignore red flags man, they're there for a reason. It'd bother the fuck out of you, and you know that she's broken for good. All I can see is ruin for you if this goes further, again, I'd nope the hell out, but I really fucking know that heroin feel you've described. That's why I'd get out as early as possible. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 09:30 PM |
| 10 | My plate lied to me about her job in massage. Turns out she does more than just massage. Am I suffering from onetis or something else? Advice appreciated.jeez sounds like me and my fucking ex. I was doing so well in regards to TRP and plates and shit, then she came around and ruined me emotionally, by giving me a connection, and the time of my life, then completely destroying it by cheating with 2 other guys... Based on my experience, I'd get the fuck out before you make a bigger connection or more good memories with her, it'd crush you in the long run, ruin you. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to see a therapist over this breakup?Thanks man. Any recommendations on meditation that helped you? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Do I need to see a therapist over this breakup?That's an interesting thought. However I very highly doubt I'd even consider getting together with her again after the disgusting shit she pulled. Better get over that shit some how some way or else no other female is gonna be good enough for you. Yes, that's the reason I wrote this post, I'm looking for any advice on how to get over this, as I've overcome oneitis multiple times before, but this feels like a way different beast. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Feeling cuckedSeems like its impossible nowadays. it increasingly does doesn't it. And the good ones are locked down hard. Still, what /u/Pluglord is saying is absolutely true, don't spend time on her other than fucking, don't catch feelings, seems like you already have | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 04:45 AM |
| 4 | My boyfriend says he doesn’t want any birthday gifts, what do I do?yeah make him one, the bathrobe sounds nice | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How to start a conversation during a Festival?what country she's from, what bands is she here for, something interesting/wacky in your immediate environment, her cute outfit, does she want to tag along for a drink, how many days is she there for, why did she chose that festival, who is she here with... There's like limitless things you can talk about at festivals, it's like the easiest place to talk to girls, everyone's open and there for the festival | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever promote a plate to a LTR if she posts regularly on Instagram?this. If it's just a pic of coffee she's having with her friend, everyday shit like that, occasional normal pic of her then it's fine. If it's teasing, revealing, sexy shit, then you don't want to LTR | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many women getting their nipples piercedfucking ew | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Where to start if you have zero social skills?work on your relationships with other guys. this is my main goal, do you have any ideas, tips on how to achieve this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less emotional?What the others have commented are pretty good, but I'm going to also recommend something, that is often overlooked: if you're taking anything check the fuck out of it, whether it's a supplement for lifting or medicine or whatever. I was taking a supplement for lifting, specifically testosterone boosting (mine is on the lower side), it was DAA Pro to be specific, and fuck it made me so emotional, I got randomly depressed, I totally lost control over my emotions. Then I looked up forums, and saw … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How should I deal with this absolutely disgusting breakup?lol fav comment. sadly this isn't the US.. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How should I deal with this absolutely disgusting breakup?you should have just said nothing Yeah you're right, I knew this in retrospect, that's just the extent that I could contain my emotions at that time. I hope you see how much you overinvested. You made YOUR LIFE dependent on someone else's good behaviour. You're probably right. What bothers me rather is the stupid thought that she chose these 2 dudes over me, one of them clearly being lower SMV than me (haven't seen the other1). Now obviously it's stupid to dwell on this, and clearly it's all the… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 05:24 PM |
| -1 | How should I deal with this absolutely disgusting breakup?she is/should be dead to you. oh she is as I've said. But I don't see why I shouldn't/couldn't use her as a cumrag. I did it with my past exes. (as for the STD thing, I'm not sure, because her gyno tests came back clean, but I'm gonna go get myself checked out just incase) > Block her everywhere. Wouldn't that just make me seem like I'm having such a hard time getting over her that I need to block her? I haven't blocked her anywhere, I've hidden her, and I have a strong enough discipline that do… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Do females do all this stuff subconsciouslyI now directly ask what they're offering, openly criticize subpar offers Could you explain? It's interesting, and would like to know how you do it. (and like how do the offers sound? are they regular wife stuff or sexual stuff or what?) | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:30 PM |
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