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| 1 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?Hahaha! I missed that little detail. Everything else applies, all about escalation. In this case what I typed is meant for the more “dominant” or “masculine” partner. OP, if you feel you have the role everything applies ☺️ | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | how to escalate to casual hookup without being sleazy?I hope I’m not too late. Horrible advice in these comments. First off, don’t have any expectations. Don’t go in there thinking you are going to get laid and what it might be like etc…stay present and enjoy the time you have together and focus on creating a CONNECTION. Physical escalation - Take natural opportunities to high five, arm around back, slight tough on knees, hold out your arm, play with hair, etc… Verbal and mental escalation - set the imagery. Tell her what you would like to do to he… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | A random encounter and some key takeaways from an experienced manThank you, that’s what I was aiming for. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I have a second date tomorrow and could use some help with physical escalationPic for reference https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRcvUjKMLDChdLZhQhXyqjqWYC8vwis-GXtmw&usqp=CAU | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 04:25 AM |
| 2 | I have a second date tomorrow and could use some help with physical escalationOk dude, 32 male here. The most effective, respectful and gentleman like way I’ve found to break the touch barrier is when you are walking simply hold out your arm, elbow out, hand relaxed by your ribs. It’s not that intrusive, it’s a gentleman’s move (especially if your walking down stairs or rough terrain but not even necessary) and it naturally says “I like you and I enjoy your company enough to want to lock arms with you. It’s not as intimate as holding hands, it’s quite innocent. With the m… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Have you guys ever shot your shot at a red light?Always wanted to, every time I see a person selling flowers at a red light I always look at the cars around and see if there is a cute girl around so i can buy flowers, put my number in there and have the person take it to them. Also might do that for just any lucky older lady just to make her day (without my number lol) | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Coffee, Movie, or Dinner? Or a combo?My rules on first dates is always go somewhere where you are not being forced to be together for a long time. A movie or dinner would not be a good option because it forces the two of you to spend time together. What if somewhere along the way you realize you don't like this person and you don't want to continue the date? What if she feels that way? Always start small and leave it open ended. This is return will make the other person feel more comfortable knowing they could be out quick. Once yo… | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | how do you pick up on a dancefloor/ club type enviroment?Then you need to learn to channel your emotions. Try meditating and reading about mindfulness. I recommend the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Think about it like this...Let's say there is this girl you want to approach but then you start thinking about how bad your past experiences were, this makes you feel in a negative way and now you have let your thoughts control your emotions. Thinking of past experiences causes depression Now, let's say that's not the problem. Maybe you want to approach bu… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | how do you pick up on a dancefloor/ club type enviroment?So our stories are pretty similar. I too had a girlfriend my first 3 years of college. It wasn't until my senior year that I started to practice and get better at my game. First step is to stop what your doing and analyze your lifestyle. What are you doing for fun? What are you doing to better yourself? Are you working out? Playing sports? etc...You have to realize that before you start attracting you have to build an enriching and fulfilling lifestyle. This isn't something that is going to happ… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | how do you pick up on a dancefloor/ club type enviroment?Roam around, walk like you own the place. Let me ask you, are you going to clubs alone or are you with friends? Social proof plays a huge role. | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | how do you pick up on a dancefloor/ club type enviroment?Next time you're in a club get up and start dancing by yourself or with your friends. Don't worry about dancing with any females. Concentrate on being in touch with yourself, come up with some dance moves, forget about the people around you and have fun. Seriously, close your eyes and have fun. I promise that your positive and entertaining energy will radiate and be picked up by those who surround you. It's this kind of positive energy that females look for and are attracted to. When you start f… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 03:39 PM |
| 2 | That one piece of advice....what was it for you that made seduction easier/better/more fun?Working out gave me natural confidence. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Good deodorant / cologne mix that you've had success and compliments from?Aqua di Gio - Perfect for everyday use and cansual hangouts. Lasts a long time and has a pleasant refreshing manly scent. It's like catnip for chicks. Armani Code - More of a formal cologne for when you wanna suit up. Go to the mall, ask for a sample and see what you think. | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 08:46 PM |
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