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I love childish, competitive date ideas--bowling, miniature golf, laser tag, an arcade (preferably one that serves adult beverages), etc. Very easy way to get them laughing, having fun, losing their inhibitions, feeling flirty, etc. Plus these are fairly inexpensive if you do it right, so you're not buying $80 worth of expensive cocktails every time you take a girl out.
/r/seduction29/08/16 05:35 PM
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I like this. I'm going to use it. Thanks!
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:04 PM
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When she becomes unresponsive/gives one-word answers to texts, etc...NEXT! I've got too many other things to do (not even usually other women, just friends, hobbies and responsibilities) to sit here and worry about this grown-ass woman's disinterest or head games.
/r/seduction27/08/16 04:20 PM
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Netflix and chili.
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:53 PM
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I have a friend for whom this has worked on multiple occasions. However, by the time he says it, he has inspired interest, gotten her on a date, and built attraction for at least an hour. Then when it's VERY clear she's vibing with him, he waits for a lull in the conversation, looks her in the eye, and says, "So, are we going to fuck tonight, or what?" Usually she is so shocked by what just came out of his mouth, that she doesn't say "yes" immediately--it's more like a "Hahaha what?!" But if it …
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:27 PM
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This is absolutely the best answer. I've seen very, very few people, men or women, who would still be a 2 after a decent haircut, some basic skincare, and a new outfit, let alone some diet changes and a workout. I'm a firm believer that our physical bodies, for the most part, are a direct reflection of our own self-image and self-love, with very few exceptions.
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:02 PM
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Sure, I know people will generally know what you're talking about when you use that descriptor. Just make sure you're viewing every person (before you know them, anyway) as an opportunity to add positivity to your life. You'll have a much better time. :)
/r/seduction24/08/16 04:17 PM
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I don't know, man. Even though the book is written with a comedic slant, it's based on actual dating site data, and he coauthored it with a celebrated NYU sociologist. If you read it, the shirtless thing was not meant to be a joke.
/r/seduction24/08/16 04:13 PM
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Read the online dating profile section of Aziz Ansari's "Modern Romance." Apparently the perfect male picture is one in which we are...1) Not smiling, 2) looking away from the camera, 3) doing something interesting, 4) NOT a selfie, and 5) shirtless, if your body type is athletic.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:56 PM
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FIRST: Before you write them off, just realize that some of those cute nerdy girls 1) look WAY better naked. It comes as an awesome surprise when it happens. And 2) are usually down for some seriously weird stuff. I'm not saying don't expand your horizons, but don't write them off as not worthy of some furious boot-knockin'. SECOND: One of the hardest lessons I ever had to learn was to stop looking at other guys with different interests from mine as "bro dude man"/"douche bag." Trust me, as some…
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:49 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I have been running 5 days a week and lifting 4 days (not always on the same days). I agree about the runner's high. I did a half marathon a few years ago, and got to experience it many times while training. I'll try to work some HIIT training in as well--that's the one thing you mentioned that I'm not currently doing.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:33 PM
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Thanks! That really puts it in perspective. I guess I'm just looking for a magic pill to feel better now, lol. It won't be long though.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:30 PM
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I'm hardly an expert, and not even much of a novice, but it sounds to me like you were the Hot Guy ONS With No Strings Because He's Leaving Town In A Few Days. Classic 3-strike rule: If you've made 3 attempts to get together, let it go. The ball is in her court if she changes her tune. Just appreciate it for what it was and look elsewhere for a soulmate.
/r/seduction23/08/16 09:05 PM
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Dude, you're psyching me up so much, you have no idea. Thanks, truly. Believe me, I'm not naturally guy-pretty, lol. I do have a very specific style sense that I'm so comfortable in that I wear it like a second skin, which probably comes off as confident. Also, my biggest attractive quality (I've always been told) is that apparently I'm pretty funny. I just learned to tone it down or channel it a certain way because my ex always accused me of flirting with everyone (which may have been a little …
/r/seduction23/08/16 08:52 PM
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Thanks, man. I appreciate the pep talk and the kind words! I've been calorie-counting and hitting the gym pretty hard for about 3 weeks, and the beginning progress has been encouraging. I know I'll get back in state when I'm back to my pre-relationship weight. My buddy who I've talked to about this is convinced that 90% of my roadblock is in my head right now, though, and I'm inclined to agree. I was just hoping for some tips to get back in the seduction frame of mind now rather than waiting unt…
/r/seduction23/08/16 08:32 PM
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"You don't know 20 different ways to make me call you Big Poppa," 'cause I don't, yo.
/r/seduction23/08/16 03:22 PM
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I just don't keep pushing a conversation with someone who is not responding at all. I like confident women who will engage. If she's mousey or quiet, I next her.
/r/seduction01/08/16 12:59 AM
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This is the right answer.
/r/seduction31/07/16 05:32 PM
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Nice, man!. You did really well by just going with the flow and not doing anything weird to throw her off. The moment of truth where you could have been stuck with blue balls was when she said "You need to go," and you just sat there. I think saying "No" could have been risky, and leaving was definitely not the right answer. Great job, man! Glad you have a fun night and got some action with a girl you clicked with.
/r/seduction31/07/16 04:54 PM
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Whatever I like and am really stoked on. Could be Drake, could be Dragonforce, could be Irish folk music. Listen to what you like--that's what women want to see, in my experience.
/r/seduction31/07/16 04:23 PM
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ShitMyDadSays on assuming attraction... "Out of your league? Son, let them decide why they won't screw you. Don't do it for them."
/r/seduction31/07/16 03:14 PM
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Instructions not clear, finger stuck in goat's bum.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:55 PM
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They think you're a righteous dude.
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:51 PM
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If you want to have sex with another girl more than you want to remain faithful to your girlfriend, be a man and respectfully leave your girlfriend first. Don't be a cheating sumbitch.
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:13 PM
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As someone who is also somewhat of a gifted conversationalist, these days I'm not so sure the ability to talk enjoyable ad infinitum with women is always the greatest thing. My ability to converse with just about anyone for seemingly endless streaks has caused me to rely on it as an attention-getting crutch, and has caused me over the years to have ignored expanding my ability to escalate physically. A woman clearly throwing off cues that she's enjoying talking to you is a form of validation, sa…
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:54 PM
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Nicknames are a good sign, not a problem to be avoided, dude. I'm seeing a Mexican girl right now who calls me Papi, and I owned that shit from the beginning, even though it felt kinda weird. It means she has invested enough thought into you to want to give you a special designation that nobody else has for you. Sit back, relax, secretly hate your nickname while loving the blowjobs that come with it.
/r/seduction10/04/13 05:30 PM
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Girls you haven't seen in quite awhile will be like shooting fish in a barrel if you have really made all those improvements. I've found that, after losing 45 pounds, shaping up, shaving my beard, etc., running into a single girl I haven't seen in months or years is a likely lay (or a guaranteed date, at least). Think about what goes through your head when you see a girl you haven't seen in a long time. Maybe she was kind of chubby or frumpy before. Now suddenly she's been hitting the gym, she's…
/r/seduction10/04/13 05:25 PM
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Someone call the Cyber Police.
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:27 PM
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I think I'll have a Coke and Bacardi.
/r/seduction09/08/12 02:54 AM
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What's harder, trying to pick up girls solo, or trying to pick up girls with these 2 "wings" actively getting in your way?
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:40 PM
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"Occasionally."
/r/seduction27/04/12 05:38 PM
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I believe it is "Every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man." FTFY
/r/seduction26/04/12 09:56 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?feature=chclk Watch some of this guy's videos on the more basic stuff, like jeans, shoes, shirts, etc. He can sometimes be a little cheesy, but he generally has good advice that I think is useful for most guys. I personally think /r/malefashionadvice tends to feature primarily very hipster-ish styles. While these generally work well for guys with really slim, slender builds, they often look ridiculous on guys with average-to-stocky body types (myself …
/r/seduction26/04/12 09:52 PM
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Doesn't feel awesome to land somebody you met online in a couple hours? My first time sleeping with someone I just met was about 3 weeks ago, and the escalation was very similar. I didn't run a routine such as the cube, but my escalation and conversation tactics were very similar. You are right, it's really cool to see the effects of your actions clearly coming through. Good job, buddy!
/r/seduction21/04/12 12:35 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQfW1G6Me5E Best way to remember people's names.
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:48 AM
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That's why you are leading the reddit revolution.
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:43 AM
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Gotta catch 'em all!
/r/seduction19/04/12 06:39 AM
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Rather than cologne, recently I've been using American Crew's amazing smelling body wash. It's powerful, masculine, and not overbearing like a lot of colognes.
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:32 AM
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Recently, when asked to buy a drink for a girl, I'll just say I will if they do one of 3 things: 1) Buy me one. 2) Kiss me. 3) Flash me your tits. The first one works almost every time, the second one worked a couple times, and the third, shockingly, has actually worked once.
/r/seduction19/04/12 02:12 AM
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I am still very, VERY new to this whole seduction thing, so I don't claim to have any expertise, especially not on technique. All I know is what is working for me seems to be stuff that I would imagine is pretty widely applicable. Basically, this is what I've gathered through the few battles I've won and lost: Always have a good time, regardless of the scenario/venue. It's infectious. If other people, especially women, see you having a better time than everyone else, they will want to know why, …
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:23 AM
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Lawlz.
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:04 AM
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You can't count how many fucks I didn't give that night. Or really any night at this particular bar. Met a girl for drinks I hadn't seen since middle school at this place, turned her into a casual sex partner in 3 hours. Keep in mind, 3 months ago, I hadn't been laid in 5 years. :?
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:04 AM
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Feelsgoodman. Thanks for the encouragement! :)
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:02 AM
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This. This is exactly what I set out to do. I have felt like it's working, but it just felt awesome to get real confirmation by the person who is probably closest to me.
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:00 AM
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I looked directly at my buddy's date, whom I had never met before and said, "So, HB8.5, what makes you you?" "What do you mean?" "Tell us about yourself. What makes you you?" That's all it took. I just wanted to know what she was all about, and I asked her right there in front of everyone. I didn't think anything of it, but apparently it was a " totally alpha" move, according to my buddy.
/r/seduction18/04/12 11:58 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/seduction18/04/12 11:55 PM
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"Whatever, you know damn well that you're funny. It's one more thing that makes you super hot." Sex followed. "What, you're 26?!...No, nothing's wrong, it's just that I don't ever, EVER like younger guys." Said after messing around the morning after I met her. She's 31. "Eh...I'm married-ish." Followed by leaning all over me and grabbing my thigh during conversation. Old high school friend I hadn't seen in 9 years, after hanging out for 2 hours. A friend's date, who I had just met an hour and a …
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:14 AM
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Is Dallas your closest big city? I know UTD just recently got a dorm, but that campus still feels more like an office park than a college. UNT and UTA are both 45-ish minutes away from me, so I'm just curiously triangulating you. :)
/r/seduction11/03/12 12:32 AM
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You must be a fan of the Presidents of the United States of America.
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:37 AM
1

Hmmm...that's actually an interesting way to look at it. I had to reschedule for Saturday because I came down with a monster stomach bug today, but I will def do an [FR] afterward.
/r/seduction01/03/12 09:35 PM
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We are on good terms. She's a friend of a friend and we saw each other a couple nights ago and it was cool. But I just wanted to make it clear I'm not looking to hold someone's purse while they try on clothes in Forever21.
/r/seduction01/03/12 09:34 PM
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Touche.
/r/seduction01/03/12 09:31 PM
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Spoken like a bro.
/r/seduction29/02/12 11:56 PM
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In my (limited by growing) experience, I've found that my favorite openers are observations or opinions. Observations like a quick aside about the karaoke singer onstage to the girl next to you when you are buying a drink at the bar, commenting on an interesting piece of clothing on a girl at a coffee shop, etc. I also like the "Settle a debate between me and my friend" opener. I've found I have the most trouble with the very direct, "Hi, I'm so-and-so" introduction. Situational openers just see…
/r/seduction29/02/12 11:55 PM
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Thanks for the specifics, man! This is incredibly helpful. I'm comfortable with building rapport and attraction through conversation and verbal flirting, it's just the kino and physical escalation that has repeatedly stifled me. The list of particular cues is very useful.
/r/seduction29/02/12 11:43 PM
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Yes, I made it clear, so no worries there. Thanks!
/r/seduction29/02/12 11:40 PM
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This actually happened to me recently. I girl who I had spent some time gaming and thinking I was getting somewhere acted kind distant the second time we hung out. I sent her an email diplomatically acknowledging the less-than successful second date and she told me that, for certain extenuating circumstances, she was only interested in a friendly relationship with me. I loved her frankness. It was so refreshing. I thanked her for her candor, told her that I'm not looking for a female friend, and…
/r/seduction29/02/12 08:51 PM
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I think going out together would be a good thing, but just make sure he doesn't end up playing Runkle to your Moody. If he really wants to improve, he'll be willing to crash and burn as much as necessary, but just make sure to wing him, and not let it slip into the other way around. If he's a close friend who has seen you in action, he probably feels comfortable winging for other people, but he may not know how to be winged for. Put in a good word where it's helpful, but he won't learn unless he…
/r/seduction29/02/12 08:16 PM
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Dallas. Freebirds is bitchin'.
/r/seduction29/02/12 05:48 AM
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Thanks. I have one buddy who is a master with getting laid, short and long game, although he's not part of the PU "community." I've gone out a couple times with him and he's winging me very well (almost too well, to the point of where chicks end up wanting HIM, haha). So maybe I'll look for more like-minded guys to practice PU with, and still hang out with my long-time buddies once every couple weeks or so.
/r/seduction28/02/12 10:48 PM
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Lol.
/r/seduction28/02/12 10:40 PM
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Thanks. I guess I hadn't looked at it that way. They are just such a huge part of my life (I've been a groomsman in a few weddings, etc.) that it feels weird to just not hang out with them. I'll do a test run for a couple weeks.
/r/seduction28/02/12 06:35 PM
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This is awesome advice, thank you very much for the long reply. They have no game, and they aren't interested in starting. Most of them married/are still with the first girl they ever seriously dated. I'm not avoiding nerd stuff because of the stigma, I have no shame there. I just am not into it to anywhere near the depth they are, which makes it very difficult to be a commanding presence in a conversation that refuses to go elsewhere. I used to care a lot about what they think of me, but I'm no…
/r/seduction28/02/12 06:33 PM
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This is going to sound lame, but if you've got it bad, then I'll tell you what helped me. Go out to fast-casual restaurants, coffee shops, and clothing stores outside of rush times. 2-4 PM, or 8-10 worked very well. Go alone, and just talk to any semi-cute sales girls/baristas/burrito rollers. Notice something about them out loud; a scarf, cool earrings, whatever. It's great for making conversation. These girls are great training wheels, since they are paid to talk to you. Obviously, don't overs…
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:50 PM
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If she friendzoned you and you cut ties, but then she persisted, my logical assumption would be that she re-thought the friendzone situation. This means that her prize is you kissing her. That kind of playful flirting should mean she wants it. And if she rejects the kiss or your advances, tell her to peace out, and call you when she changes her mind. Girls play games. Women don't.
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:31 PM
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I love the "tag along" angle. Makes it less of a big deal in her eyes, probably. And also, it keeps you looking self-validated. Thanks for the tips!
/r/seduction19/02/12 07:34 AM
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Haha, thanks. I wish I could take credit, I actually saw that in another post a couple weeks ago. It makes sense, that way, she is offering you her number instead of you asking for it. It seems like semantics, but I think it really does change her perception a bit.
/r/seduction19/02/12 07:32 AM
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I know he's not looking to seriously date anybody, as he is super focused on his career. He's actually agreed to act as kind of a mentor for me this year, as I've been a perpetually friend-zoned AFC for years, and he's always had more women on his jock than he knows what to do with. I'll talk to him about it. I guess that's why I should be approaching lots of women, though, huh? Just in case something like this occurs, it won't matter if I can't drink from that trough.
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:51 PM
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Thanks. This friend and I had a girl come between us several years, too, but that was a much different scenario. I just don't want to take any chances.
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:45 PM
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Try not to crap your pants.
/r/seduction18/02/12 06:45 PM
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Yeah, I guess so. When they were interviewed in the news video, they all talked about how their mission is to help guys get over approach anxiety, and see how "simple" PU really can be. Then they go out of their ways to look garish and ridiculous, which is not simple or realistic to guys' everyday lives. I don't know many guys who would go hang around a college campus on a Saturday afternoon dressed as the Statue of Liberty just to hit on 20 women per hour.
/r/seduction16/02/12 02:01 AM
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Upvote for troof. I'm not denying these guys are good at pickup. They clearly are from this video. But I watched several other videos of theirs today with titles that make it seem like they could be useful, and each one ended up being a "funny suit of the week" thing. The wheelchairs, the Mario costume, the "nerd" getups, etc.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:55 AM
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Am I alone in thinking most of these guys' videos are more funny than they are helpful? Just seems like they want to wear goofy suits and be attention whores rather than legitimately approaching women. I could be wrong, I am brand spanking new to this community and PU in general. Just my humble observation.
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:35 AM
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Try using Gillette Clinical Strength. I am a mega-sweater, too, and it controls it for me. I still sweat a little bit sometimes in the armpits, but nowhere close to what I was doing before. It runs $8ish, but it's been totally worth it.
/r/seduction04/02/12 05:42 PM
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