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Hey, it’s ok, I’m confused too but I’ll explain what I know about this sub. We are traditionalist I guess in respect to a woman being a woman in that woman’s roll, and respecting her husband/partner in a more traditional way. I want to be a woman and I want him to be a man, we are different, we are yin and yang. I need him to be a man. BUT HOLD UP! Let me give you my quick story and what led me here...I come from a family of nags. Like extremely annoying nagging women. I can hear them all now, n…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 09:29 PM
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Reminds me of Ani DiFrancos song “32 Flavors.” It goes, “God help you if you are an ugly girl, of course too pretty is also your doom, for everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room.” I’m sorry things are like this for all of us, but there is a core self inside of us, and we are true to her, the rest can just evaporate. Read a lot, meditate. Good luck girl
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 02:08 PM
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I had a very influential aunt growing up who was a severe liberal and also a lesbian (who I love and adore to this day). But she was very anti-man. It hurt my feelings because I had a great dad, I didn’t get it. I tried to understand the celebrate diversity movement back then but I just kept seeing excuses to bad mouth men. I liked men. So as I got older, I became less of the feminist everyone said I should be and started respecting the roll a great man played in my life. Also, I saw the nagging…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 10:02 PM
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This book is a game changer. I wish I found it years ago. You’ll be league ahead of the game having read this early in your marriage:)
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 12:20 AM
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You are a goddess to him right now. I know you don’t feel like one but girl, you made his baby, own that and use it, it’s power. I know you feel like a Mac truck ran you over, I know, but it’s a short moment and it will pass. You have some great advice from everyone here,you’ll come out the other end of this tunnel more of a woman, and more of a force in this world. When I was in your position, my husband loved the milk that happened during sex, so don’t make a big deal out of it and see if it t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:06 PM
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However you do it doesn’t matter as long as you do it. And often. And if you give him tons of blow jobs he will literally be yours forever. Hot sexy blow jobs. Men want to be wanted, they don’t just want us laying there hoping it ends soon. Ok, gonna get graphic...he wants you to want his dick, and you have to act like you want it (eventually you will, till then just fake it till ya make it.) I’ve been married for almost 20 years. If I wasn’t a sex goddess (lol, I’m being light hearted but hones…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 02:27 PM
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Athleta! I just can’t afford it but I LOVE their stuff!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 09:37 PM
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You are?! Perfect. You are so on your way!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:37 PM
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Dumbbells are all you need! YouTube has so many top quality people, if you need a free coach, watch a bunch and pick one to really focus on. Also, exercise alone won’t do it (believe me, I thought if I did loads of Pilates I could eat anything I wanted, nope)...head over to the intermittent fasting sub, check it out, that’s how I did it. A note about Pilates—they kick ass. On days you’re recovering, look at Pilates. They really shape you insanely fast. And remember, everyday you get stronger. Ev…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 03:27 PM
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This is beautiful! In my mind your story played out like a movie and the lady’s face was a monk/nun named Pema Chodron, who I adore. That lady got on that bus everyday as your teacher, and you were an excellent student!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 11:11 PM
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Lol I’ve read it 3 times over the years! When you start slipping, go back. It’s our net!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 06:49 PM
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Yes. It’s hard to explain. Let go, you’ll fly scenario. When you respect your man and let him be a man, you’ll be a true partnership. Once I Surrendered he involved me more in conversation and our entire life, it was so opposite of what I was taught. I’m actually a little bitter that I had to figure this out on my own and no one ever told me, showed me how to lay down my destructive weapons. I feel sorry for my grandfather who put up with such a nagging wife.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 02:51 PM
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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again...I come from a long line of nagging women, but thanks to The Surrendered Wife, I left their ranks and have created a happy marriage and a happy me. He’s happy too. This book is a lifesaver!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 02:47 PM
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/r/RedPillWives23/04/20 01:42 AM
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Exactly right! Do less, he’ll do more. He was programmed by nature to protect and provide, let let them do it. He is much happier, and I fulfilled and happy too. Lucky us to have discovered this. I come from a long line of nagging annoying women. I refuse to be one of them!
/r/RedPillWives22/04/20 06:36 PM
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My husband is not afraid to move full steam ahead into some very expensive and intimidating business ventures. I became scared and started to hold him back, say no to things, let fear motivate me etc while he was moving forward with XYZ. Then he stopped including me in conversations about essential our life, business, because I was nagging and resisting. He’s a good smart man, I had to learn to trust him! Once I did decide to apply Doyle’s philosophy, I got my husband back but also was (this see…
/r/RedPillWives22/04/20 02:35 PM
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I felt very early, like when he was 10, that I had to respect the man he was becoming. I had to treat him, at least a little bit, like he was already the man he would become. This probably applies to girls too, but I’ve only had boys. He’s 17 now, and Im sure he has everything he needs to be a great husband someday, and man overall. Respect his manhood.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 12:23 AM
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I’ve tried so hard to be atheist but god keeps knocking those ideas down! Religion doesn’t matter here! We’re all women trying to do our best!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 11:50 AM
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No nagging. Period. Ever.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 07:32 PM
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Agree
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 09:17 PM
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I’m in this boat too. I don’t drink (much), do drugs, steal...but I swear. And I love it sometimes. Lately though, I really want to stop. I think it’s just one of those switches, on or off, for me. I’m heading towards off but not there yet. Good luck. Let’s stop. It’s just negativity
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 09:16 PM
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I feel like Eckhart Tholle’s book A New Earth helped me (speaking about not everyone’s cup of tea). It helped me to stop playing the “sad story if me” over and over in my head.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 12:16 AM
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Good reply:)
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 11:17 PM
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You’re right. It is very much an emotional valve that gets released, that’s an excellent way of putting it. Now when I start the nag, I can feel the regret I’ll have when I’m done way before I’m done. It’s like regretting eating the whole cake while you’re eat it. Sometimes that makes me stop, most times, but not always. It’s a constant effort and one I’m proud to undertake.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 03:22 PM
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We can overcome that bullshit. We don’t have to be that way!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 03:37 AM
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“Raised to find the negatives.” That’s really accurate and really sad. I do a lot of stopping. I don’t just blurt anything out when I know I’m in that moody mood, when I’m a little annoyed. If I’m happy I blurt away! But when I’m feeling annoyed with him, I pause and breathe before I say anything or else it will be negative and naggy. It’s a struggle, but I never want to sound like my grandmother.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 03:36 AM
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This makes me think of something perhaps lesser which is nagging. I think nagging comes natural to a lot of us, but why? My grandmother was a nag, and I vowed to never be one and I’m not, but it’s a conscious effort. I work at it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 01:22 AM
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It’s so endearing. I love the characters development, the setbacks and how they overcome. It’s a beautiful series
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/20 08:57 PM
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Everyone here has book suggestions and mine is The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle. Don’t cringe from the title, I swear it’s a game changer! Give it a read!
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/20 04:08 PM
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Call the Midwives! Netflix. Love it
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 05:44 PM
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My mom was great. She was a nurse but by far we were her priority. I was so lucky to have her as an example.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 02:48 AM
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I didn’t want kids as much as my husband did, so being young (23) I just said “fuck it, why not,” with no further thought. It really wasn’t a big deal to me (sounds horrible) but let me tell you, it was the best thing I ever did, and I’ve done some cool shit. My sons are now 17 and 15, and we’re looking at an empty nest sooner than later. My experience as a mother was amazing. I was so blessed, and I’d do it all over again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 11:53 PM
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When I was a little girl in the 80’s, I had to get up in front of the class and tell everyone what I wanted to be (we all had to do it). I said I wanted to be a waitress. The teacher laughed at me, then made a snarky comment about getting my butt grabbed by guys. I learned quickly afterwards that I had to be an astronaut, lawyer, or scientist. I’m none of those things now but...
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 12:50 PM
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I love coconut oil. It makes dry hair (especially the tips) look great. It’s moistureizer, make up remover, anti itch and bite medicine, I bet it would help nails, and it whitens teeth pretty well. Olive oil is great too! Cucumbers on your eyes actually works to de puff them.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 03:31 AM
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Great job Stephanie! I think you did a great job clarifying RPW!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 05:03 PM
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Ok here’s what I mean, i don’t expect too much love here...but my husband is a man and he needs sex. I am his wife, and I might not need as much sex but by god he’s going to get it from me, and no one else. So even if I’m exhausted, I’m going to fuck his brains out because I want him and I want him to want me. Only me. We’ve been married 19 years. Sometimes I feel like it’s another thing I have to accomplish at the end of a long day, but I do it anyway, and honestly a few minutes into it I’m int…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 03:12 PM
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I’m very pro-sex, as in yeah sometimes it’s a job and let’s just take care of our men and do this thing! BUT holy hell 3x a day is way too much to ask! My husband, and most men, would never ask this!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 02:39 AM
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When he wrestles 7 of9???? Really??? No I didn’t know that! Yeah, hugeJaneway fan here too. I’m always thinking, “what would janeway do?”
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 04:58 PM
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It’s the book that most changed my life and our marriage, for the better of course. It saved us, completely. I can’t recommend it enough
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 03:24 PM
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Omg I just watched this episode last night!!!!! I watched Voyager years ago, and last night started it again!!! Weird!!!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 03:23 PM
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I have no idea what being red pilled means. I’m only here because I like being a woman and I like my man being a man. I am a feminist in this way, that I love being a woman and I act that way. Most Things I’ve read here makes sense to me, and that’s about as far as I go with understanding the whole thing, but the replies to your question were great:)
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 06:27 PM
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Be a body builder! I’ve always wanted that! And if I’m going to do it I need to do it now!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 05:21 PM
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I’ll get chastised for this but little tattoos or none at all. I’m older now, 40, and some of those early tattoos aren’t holding up great! We’re so beautiful as is. I know I’ll get downvted:(
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 08:08 PM
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Sorcery!!?? I need to read this book! I’ve read The Surrendered Wife and that little book changed my marriage and turned me into a fucking goddess in his eyes! Cheers to us girls!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 02:03 PM
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Maybe you don’t need to talk to him at all, maybe you just need to show him, in the moment. Maybe he isn’t a verbal person, at all. It sounds like you believe in your sexiness, and that is a high form of communication in itself..use it!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 03:05 PM
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My very cool-hipstery-awesome and VERY Catholic neighbors have done this for years! I’m fascinated by it but never brace enough to try it. Yeah, it can be done apparently!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/20 02:22 PM
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It’s about your breath. You have two women inside you, one if a fierce fighter and the other is the calm wise one, graceful and serene. You call them with your breath. Short shallow breath calls up the fighter, deep slow breaths call up the calm one, who can hold her emotions in check and influence everyone around her. Try it!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 10:10 PM
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I say, “Do try not to stain your apron.”
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 06:01 PM
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This is strange but when I was little and saw the old Beatrix Potter/Peter Rabbit cartoon (British), I wanted to live in her kitchen, which was a rabbit hole, and be the Mom like she was (in retrospect she was bossy and annoying but I wanted to be that). My kitchen now reflects that carton kitchen.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 05:27 PM
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Yah, the face! If you’re happy inside (congrats on that), think of the Mona Lisa. A little smile:) all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 11:18 AM
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Yeah but ya keep trying and fail, then keep trying again and fail again, this is normal! Do not fail at the keep trying part!
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 03:42 AM
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This woman you spoke to was certifiable, don’t listen to her. Do men want sex? Yes. Do they also want a good woman who will respect and care for their needs (food, clean house, emotional support etc). Yes. Do women want sex? Yes. Do they also want a good man who will give them security and care for their needs (a provider, a protector, emotional support etc) Yes. Men and women weren’t designed to be the same, so sometimes our desires don’t line up but that doesn’t mean the design is flawed. Read…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 03:45 PM
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Right, I forgot what sub I was in, it would be accepted here. I really love this sub. I had to get a new user name a while back because someone found out my name (probably wasn’t a big deal, but I got a new account). I can’t remember where I got some negativity about it , it was so long ago. I want to shout it from the rooftops about this book!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 09:28 PM
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It does have a chapter or two about past sexual trauma
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 06:08 PM
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Me too, it’s fabulous.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 05:22 PM
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Yes to regret/baggage. I’d recommend reading The Surrendered Wife. I know I’ll get hate but listen, this book addresses this and is a quick read. It’s helped me a lot to treat my husband right, and myself right.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 04:33 PM
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Get a tub that will hold like 5 cups water (plastic). Fill it with water and put in 1/2 cup salt give or take. Put in fridge overnight. Stir. Next day throw in a few chicken breast’s, let them soak in the salt brine overnight. You just brined chicken, you just turned plain ole Chicken into something better! This is a magical thing, brining. Now take those breasts and cut them so they open up and look like angel wings (you could skip that and leave them whole if it grosses you out). Now dip them …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 01:09 PM
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Not all men are like that! That’s total balls.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 01:11 PM
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A leader holds you up, never tears you down.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 01:10 PM
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This! My friends laughed at me when I had my first baby in my early 20’s, now they’re 40 and having their first one while mine have mostly flown the coop! I’m not saying the way I did it was better, but for me and my husband, we’re happy we did it this way. And my new baby friends too are a bit jealous of my freedom.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 01:09 PM
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I was a stay at home mom, raised two babies into respectful and responsible young men. Had a college degree but never used it because I got married and was pregnant right out of college (not my plan, it just happened). I was (am) a good wife and mother, it was hard frickin work and the whole time I did this (with my amazing supportive husband), I felt bad about it. Like, I should be having a great career on top of managing a home, a husband, 2 kids, 2 woodstoves, and our whole lives. I look back…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 01:04 PM
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Instant Pot meat loaf and mashed potatoes. Amazing. Takes 22 minutes to cook, then I throw the meatloaf under the broiler while I mashed the potatoes. Done.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 12:10 PM
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Amazing reply!!! I’m going to read it again:)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 05:46 PM
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God I’m sorry for all this. I know men have so much to navigate through and no one ever talks about it. Well, to give you hope, I’m a woman and my husband and I have been married for 18 years. We are 40. We’re happy. So it happens. Good luck, chin up.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 04:54 PM
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This is bleak dude.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 01:18 AM
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Yes!!! This:)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 07:07 PM
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My husband and I learned early on that I’m a woman and he’s a man and if we act like those two things we’re happier. I’m happier when I trust him and let him be the leader, but ironically when I do that well, he looks to me more for advice and support and wants all of my opinions etc. it’s one of those things where if you can let go, you’ll grow wings, like faith. I came across a copy of The Surrendered Wife long ago, and started reading it with contempt. What was this bullshit? I was so closed …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 05:05 AM
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Of all the women I’ve known well, only 1 has cheated. That’s one out of an easy 50.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 03:27 AM
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Yes! Limiting phone time!!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 04:40 PM
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Do you get nervous (in a good way/butterflies when he comes into the room? That’s the fire. Are you excited to see him at the end of the day? That’s fire. It’s just butterflies in your stomach, a slow burn.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 08:07 PM
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I can only speak for myself but my now husband of 19 years really needs to be cooked for, I saw that early in our dating that he liked that and I ramped it mega up! I could cook for a king in a castle now (and I do). Second was sex, sure, but what really made him want to keep me forever is really just an unexplainable fire that is still there after all these years! Weve done other things together, like starting 2 successful businesses yeah, he sees me as super smart and capable of course but at …
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 05:38 PM
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I’m married to your polar opposite but YOU sir may be my new obsession! What kind of man is this??? Awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 06:08 PM
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