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DebateDraager/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:14 PM
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Ya but hear me out. If he wasn’t struggling with these women on some level, he would not be changing up so often. His struggle might be that women date him for his money and look great but are boring in bed or never actually available.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:08 PM
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All men are struggling in this dating market. If they don’t appear to be struggling now, it’s because they were struggling, but refined their approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:18 PM
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The whole Sigma male thing is dead and buried. Lone wolves are creepy mamas boys who are always jonesing for validation and control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:05 AM
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No, there is no chance of finding romance if you have no friends. It's very unattractive to have no friends. It is attractive to have lots of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:04 PM
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No it’s good advice. Sometimes you’ve done all you can do to make dates and be social, but nobody is available. Can’t just keep hammering away at dating apps, better to get out and do some activities that have nothing to do with dating, are just fun. Hell you may actually meet people into the same stuff as you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:07 PM
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It's something they are taught by their mothers and older family, to make every interaction into a power struggle. Everything to them is power and mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:01 PM
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Ya I’m looking for first hand accounts actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:19 PM
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I’d like to hear some details as to how Lesbian relationships end. What the dynamic is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:59 PM
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Half of the reason for this is that women are wanting disposable men now. They have fear of commitment and don't like the pressure of having to reciprocate nice behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:25 PM
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Oh ya lol I have all those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:58 PM
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But also there is a very stereotypical manic pixie dream cougar that is now dominating the dating pool. She likes being dominated by her man, but she has adhd, low trust, daddy issues, bratty kids, evil parents, addictions, felon ex boyfriend, lots of random tats, smokes a pack a day but only eats organic, can't hold down a job, is trying adderall. If her man ever does just 1 thing that is loserish, she instantly loses all attraction to him. When he tries to communicate with her about it she get…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:11 PM
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As a guy, I am better at detecting when a woman is genuinely attracted to me or not. One weird giveaway is how she responds to my smell. If I offer to have a shower before we have sex, and she says no way, she likes my smell.. that is a good indication that she is very attracted to me. If she is constantly putting off being near me, but not not leaving either, she has ulterior motives, is taking advantage, not actually attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:37 PM
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Since women destroyed dating apps, online dating in general, it's no surprise they are now abandoning them en masse. Like a massive home that is now wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:47 PM
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Besides being more physically attractive, eager, willing, impulsive, submissive, initiating.. They actually have time in their week for a man. No kids, dogs, job, etc to tie them down, so they can go on trips and generally hang around for a few days in a row. Older women always have places to be and other people in their lives demanding their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:22 PM
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I'd like to qualify this as being only true for women with "Daddy Issues." ie did not grow up with a reliable father in their life. There are plenty of women who love and respect men how they actually are because they had loving and dependable men in their lives AND appreciated that, and are looking for that in a partner. Mainstream dating girl instagram culture is very divorced from this for sure, but does not control all women. Good women who love men are definitely out there but there is a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:54 AM
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When a woman is feeling very strong emotions, I believe you can almost always trace that instability to there being some offence to her idea of herself, her self created identity. If you remind a woman exactly what she really is, refuse to believe her version of herself, she is going to go ballistic in ways where she may actually become a danger to herself. Nothing is more important to her than what people think about her being exactly what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:52 PM
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lol, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:08 PM
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It's not a hostility really, more like amazed wonderment. It never ceases to amaze me how dry and uninteresting beautiful looking people can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:50 PM
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Conversations and interactions require effort. It's easy to spot matches with no brain cells because they refuse to move past that passive, worship me phase. Paper clip and breadcrumb their way to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:49 PM
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She got exactly what she deserved. No effort = no results. Perfect. Totally correct outcome. Glad she did not waste any man's actual time on a date with that extremely entitled emotionally avoidant, game-player mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:45 PM
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Men don't want to either, but we DO IT ANYWAY!!! As evidenced by the need for Bumble to change its policy to survive. If we did not the Earth's population would crash to zero! Humanity would cease to exist if it were not for men shooting their shots!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:09 PM
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JFC. These apps really need to put women on notice who are not messaging. Let them know they actually have to make an effort because every day you're looking older etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:25 PM
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Yep. Women are realizing that they actually don't want to be in charge of things or make decisions. It sounded like a good idea, but then they actually had to make a mental effort for once and that proved to be a daunting roadblock all interest was lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:23 PM
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You'll get the same reaction from a Red Pill sub if you suggest that women like nice men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:40 AM
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Oh ya amazing women are out there, but they are no on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:32 PM
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Narcissistic females will never do anything they are told to do. For a few years my crazy Ex wife refused to file her taxes. The more I bugged her to file her back taxes, so we could get the tax rebates, the less likely she was to do it. Eventually I had to divorce her because it was clear she was just not ever going to file her taxes, or anything else for that matter, out of protest against my constant nagging. Was totally crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:29 AM
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If you let things go this way in any relationship, you have only your self to blame. Women will take advantage only if you let them. Pretty girls do actually go soft for an assertive and controlling man. They are bored of compliments and prefer strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:01 AM
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IMO the issue is that (most) Women really have no actual interest or appreciation for Men as they actually are. They are ok with entertaining men on THEIR terms, but you are really hard-pressed to find a woman these days that actually enjoys the company of men without having all her meals and accommodations paid for. For men to get any time with a woman, we have to totally accept all of their faults, it's a given. We deal with all their trauma dumping and inability to navigate life without throw…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:27 PM
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Yes and No. It depends on the girl. If she is NOT very into the guy, he is chasing her for time, lavishing her with gifts, trying to convince her to be interested, she is ok with getting free stuff but not putting out for him. Total waste of time, probably always was. When a girl is very relationship and marriage oriented, traditional, demure, respectful, good person etc. I believe every act of chivalry will be paid back 10 fold with her care and attention, total commitment. She loves with her w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:23 PM
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Fact remains, the ONLY acceptable mode of Polyamory apparently is MFM. It does not work the other way because men are horrible etc. If it's MFF, it's a harem which is disgusting etc. How do these people not see the hypocrisy and double standard there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:14 PM
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You are exactly correct, but this is the 3d rail of Polyamory and modern Dating. Women are not judging other women with several boyfriends, even multiple sugar daddies. But if a man wants to date multiple women, he is a "harem collector" or myoginist, predator, controlling pervert etc. The only acceptable way to be polyamorous is for a woman to have 2 boyfriends, because men are pigs. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:59 AM
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Ya that'd be fine too. 5 is an even more stable number.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:22 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:44 PM
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Ya I noticed this when I made poly post M4FF which they promptly took down. They call that "harem building." Also they don't like Unicorn Hunting, so literally the only acceptable form of poly relationship is FMM, so women are special and in control. Not having to compete with another woman etc. Glad I got to the bottom of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:13 PM
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Things are trending in that direction. Kids growing up today with poly parents are going to push things even farther in that direction rather than submit to the blandness of just 1 partner for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:11 PM
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IMO educated working people in industrial nations are having less children, having a poly or queer child free lifestyle, 0, 1 or 2 kids at most. So the net effect is a shrinking native populations, requiring immigration to keep the economy growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:10 PM
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No doubt. Right now I am still marvelling at the weirdness of our times that it's kinda no big deal to be inside a person, but rare to be bedded down in jammies to just snooze.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:47 PM
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Women demand to be treated like children. Also women refuse to be treated like children!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:17 PM
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I'll never forget the time an obese woman on my work team was literally crying over the breakup of Brad Pitt and Gwyneth Paltrow. I did not leave out the detail of her weight because I believe it to be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:38 PM
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Not Women in general. This is true. about "Broken Women."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:48 PM
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You can be all in for yourself without necessarily hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:36 AM
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There is still plenty of Gold Digging going on. Some people do not pay for sex and need to be romanced out of their money. The Baby does a lot of dry begging and sympathy games to cajole the man into forking over that money willingly. It's a long con.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:06 AM
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Maybe in your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:57 PM
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Fuck'n pedo passport bro was caught red handed in a hotel room with 2 minors. Worldwide fucking manhunt for this cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:33 AM
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Given the news coming out of Columbia this week, it's fair to say the majority opinion of passport bros is quite low at the present time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:12 AM
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Not a good situation. Not your fault. Some might say it's porn, but also the issue is he may have an EX who gave really good head and really enjoyed it, dominated him with it. When a guy gets fantastic head, he is really vulnerable and letting himself get milked. It's a really sublime experience and is indeed a bit of submission. She should act like she is greedily taking something that gives her powers. Tickling his nerves and making him beg for mercy gives her a feeling of power and control. L…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 04:35 PM
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They love to show the clip of the shirtless man savagely manhandling a drilling rig. As if that’s even a good way to go about your job. Big women could do that job but they’d probably do it without the agro attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:49 PM
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I am not talking about the women in stable relationships. They have it figured out. This thread is about DATING. I am talking about the serial monogamist daters on dating apps. Who are never ever ever going to find a stable relationship because they actually don't know how or even WHY to empathize with their man. Do ask some of your friends who are single what they like to do to make men happy, you might be shocked by their answers or lack of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:05 PM
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I'll boil the problem down to one question.. As a dating woman, what type of things do you like to do to make the man in your life happy? I think you will find that they simply do not have an answer to this question, never even gave it a moment's thought. The answer that goes unsaid is that her company alone, just her existing in the man's presence should be enough. No attempt to listen to what the man is saying or interested in and try to build a rapport based on those revelations. As guys we a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:41 PM
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My experience with it has been that you can look at the career of Justin Trudeau as how we've come to regard nice guys. When he was elected, he was much loved for his very nice romantic handsomeness and candor. He was the walking epitome of a nice charming man and the country was in love. Women who had just met him could be seen gushing like they just met a rock start. It was still IN to be nice. But looking back, we can see that his niceness is just an act, a white knight virtue signaller with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:52 PM
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People are often saying accurate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:09 PM
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I guess I am not a Red Pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:31 PM
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You’re not wrong. Seem smart and are probably a happy and healthy person who makes a great partner. Some guys have had a string of bad girlfriends who became housewives but have daddy issues. So we have a skewed perception and deep mistrust of women. … similar to the way some women had a string of abusive boyfriends. Trauma makes people selfish and distrustful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:43 PM
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When women are taking care of business and doing great, nobody is trying to control her or tear her down. We wish women lived up to that. But what we find is that many women were simply not cut out for the world as it has become, where their fate is in their own hands, need a man to survive, so should respect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:47 PM
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No. Rather Men and Women are equally flawed but in different ways. When we ignore this fact everyone suffers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:59 PM
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As a man, I’m about to go visit my GF who works and lives by herself. You can be sure that I will respect her rules and household as a guest. I will obey all her demands about the toilet seat and compost etc. because her house, her rules. Women don’t respect things this way when they are in the home of her BF. She leaves big messes and re-arranges without asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:57 PM
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Wrong. I’ve noticed that feminist single moms who don’t work have absolutely terrible mental and physical health. Autoimmune disorders, heavy smoking, fad diets, dietary issues stemming from their bulimia. Women who are healthy have good relationships with their fathers and husband and avoid getting in over their heads with responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:53 PM
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If the woman wants to be protected and provided for by a strong man, stay at home.. yes she needs to be obedient or she can go live by herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:49 PM
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But those are all true facts. Belief not necessary as it’s very observable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:47 PM
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IMO woman hating runs at the same rate as man hating. But not all Red Pill men hate every aspect of women. Imo most are simply exhausted with modern day feminist ideology and the anxiety and unhappiness it causes in women who adopt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:46 PM
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I don’t think Red Pill men HATE women. The feeling is respect for when people act their gender and not try to take over roles of the opposite sex. Feminist seem to want to erase the differences between men and women, Red Pill aims to celebrate the difference and respect them. A red Pill man is happy to take advice from a woman on a subject that she is proven knowledgeable on. Not just because he has to. Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:56 AM
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Nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:32 AM
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Don’t be so concerned. Sometimes as men we can get into a rut of only meeting toxic women. We know they don’t dominate the field but it can seem that way often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:06 PM
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You sort of hit on it. If you are a woman or person of color, there is a long list of external reasons to explain your lack of success. You are forgiven because of systemic oppression etc. If you're a single white man with problems, you 100% own them, and it's worse because you should know better, sad that you can't work the system that leans in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:28 PM
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