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Can you describe what you look like? If just fat and bald/balding, those are easily fixable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:53 PM
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<image> Waiting for the flair upgrade on r/truerateme be like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:35 PM
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Tom Morgan And by the way, it's that they're more likely to be in many ways uglier (and not just men either from my observations, but autistic people in general). Not that they're ugly by default, and considering good-looking autistic guys exist (as rare as they are based on what I've said above) And wrong on the other font: 5'9 is actually average for men (at least in the west)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:44 AM
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What are your opinions on r/truerateme? (Setting aside the guides that I'll admit are shitty, and as someone who's judged a couple of faces on there)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:49 PM
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6.5-7/10 facially, so sort-of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:52 PM
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I also feel like this post in some way violates the rules, but I'm not sure yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:49 PM
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"All you need is to be 6ft, have 6 inches and a 6/10 face" (Top 20%) ^ Are these the standards? Or was it something else
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:45 PM
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When you're that ugly (enough to where you would get mocked on subreddits like r/amiugly), i'm not sure if even that would work. Maybe it would for someone that's of European descent and is willing to run numbers in places like asia or smth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:26 PM
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I'm not sure if this is really true (but if we were in the 60s, then it might be believable. But things are completely different now), because women nowadays can simply work for themselves or rely on government grants for money. Not to mention, there's also dei and gender quotas for them that men (to my knowledge) don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:36 PM
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Give a reference as to what he looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:49 PM
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Now you know what I would give r/truerateme credit for (specifically this sub. There's also r/trueratecelebrities and r/trueratediscussions, but a lot of their users can't rate at all. Unless it's either the trusted raters, or the intermediate ones like myself) -- That they judge your face based on objective factors on what's generally found attractive in men. As harsh as their ratings are, I find most of them to be quite accurate actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:25 PM
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There are a few I've seen that were decent. Not too many, but a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:22 PM
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Well to fill you in on a bit of a secret, most people that are neurodivergent can actually be sorted out from how they generally look (even aside from style). I'm not sure if I can think of any ND people (if specifically autism) that are in the slightest good-looking outside of maybe some models and my cousin because of this. At best many that are average, and even they're not as common as you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:29 PM
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He's sort-of decent looking from what I can imagine, and we all know how much the better looking men are adored. From what I've seen from LOTS, many of the others were very below average looking. Well, some have potential (why are they never fit?), some just overall unfortunate.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 04:25 PM
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It's a known thing that things like autism could basically kill a guys dating life, meanwhile women effected by the same condition aren't affected all too much from neurotypical women Setting aside this is besides the point of the post: It wouldn't really affect a guy too much either if he were to be good-looking (but admitally it would still be tougher nonetheless). But it must be taken into consideration that people with autism are usually uglier as well (something you've ignored conveniently)…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:03 PM
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Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:49 AM
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I rewatched funkytown to cleanse my soul a bit. Dis shit still makes my skin crawl from watching it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:46 AM
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Damn, that's just tough man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:15 AM
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💀💀💀 But jokes aside, most people on this sub have no idea as to what makes a face attractive or what facial dimorphism is (thus leading to takes on how the trump shooter from july WASN'T ugly and that Elliot Rodger was good-looking although I will admit that he wasn't ugly.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:30 AM
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Press F to pay respects
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:04 PM
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Sub5 tries to jestermaxx at club
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:06 PM
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Strong HTB Also congrats on your transformation into a chadlite. Is this starting from sub5?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:35 PM
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Not masking deffinitely doesn't help, most people won't accept you and even those that do usually just pretend in order to be polite. https://www.nature.com/articles/srep40700/figures/1 ^ The ones you should pay attention to the most in this are "Static Frame" and "Audio Visual." That implies it has both a look and a voice (and it's not just monatone - I notice this in ND women too on some occasions) Those autistic men that somehow found a partner are in my opinion a rare exception. Based on ane…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:50 AM
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I'm not sure if this really makes any difference, since it must be taken into consideration that most men aren't found attractive by most women. And doubled this for sub-par looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:40 AM
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You have the tism and sub5 looks don't you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:24 PM
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They're more likely to have unattractive and nasally sounding voices (which == Mouthbreathing, which we all know affects the facial features) and physically odd looking faces, though. Supposedly, the behaviors/traits are why they're hated (as suggested by the other user who replied to you); but that sounds like BS to me considering these two issues above.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:33 PM
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Physical attraction is what gets your foot in the door. You can’t be a complete sperg, otherwise they won’t bother with you. Just ask Elliot Rodger. That isn't a very good example. Elliot wasn't even decent looking if that's what you're implying (weird mouth area + looked way too young for his age). And not to mention; he had a lot of other mental problems ontop of such (and setting aside where he lived at the time). The face at best you can call a 5/10. But an average at best face doesn't help …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:57 PM
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For a select few, this is more of a personal choice as opposed to being a forced choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:24 PM
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Women are allowed and should be encouraged to have high standards. Women are allowed to want career men and men who are educated and ambitious and make more than they do. And what about the sub5 girls? Not that i'm complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:54 PM
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Dude even looks like someone who would post here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:53 PM
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<image> Even I know I'm not sub-5 How do we tell him (I'd say even sub 3)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:32 PM
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There's four instances where going to the gym won't help you. (There's two I have: horrible bodyframe and a 3.5/10 at best face)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:48 PM
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You can still look good bald, long as your other features are good. There are people I've rated as 6s that were bald You can't determine someone to be below average based on just one feature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:39 PM
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Sub5 tries to Surgerymaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:26 PM
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autistic man who doesn't or can't mask Phrenology is a thing. In most instances, you can actually tell someone is autistic from looking at their face (and by description, is very unattractive) even with masking. Like how you can with everything else that's supposedly mental. Social skills are highly important, but when that's lacking AND you have sub-par looks? You're done. Anecdotally, the few autistic men I've met besides my cousin to have had relationships were all either good-looking or at m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:00 PM
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Bad genes come in a package. Other users here are ignoring the fact that autism is visible in the face via features (phrenology is real) and that often results in a highly unattractive face. But despite that, they want to think their behaviors (which is part of it i will admit) is what's wrong. ^ I've posted links to this here already. What I'm getting at is that if you're neurodivergent, there's a high chance you're gonna be butt-ugly as well. Attractive autistic men do exist (these are the mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:51 PM
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He's good looking though. Most autistic men on the other hand, are often significantly below average looking (and not to mention, have health problems equal to that of men in their 50s due to comorbid conditions) And I kind of find it funny how legitimately ugly guys like Thomas Matthew Crooks and Adam Lanza didn't get the same attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:40 PM
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There's other things he didn't mention as well. Like this for instance: https://www.nature.com/articles/srep40700/figures/1 ^ The one you should pay attention to is the "static frame" one. That implies it's visible from one's facial features (despite what people on this sub think)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:36 PM
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Setting aside this is besides the point of the post: Women aren't attracted to legitimately ugly men (which is actually what the majority of autistic people are when you think about it) no matter what they do. Which can explain why guys like Adam Lanza, Thomas Matthew Crooks, Cho Seung-Hui, and etc. didn't get the same attention (they're all 3s at best)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:19 PM
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You sure? Becuase I've posted links in this thread to back up my claim, and they line up with my own observations of autistic people (yes, even the "High-Functioning" ones). There are exceptions yes, but they are rarer instances and often are statistically insignificant in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:05 PM
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Does it matter if ur genuinely ugly like how I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:50 PM
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The attractive ones often do just fine with women, and I got to see this firsthand myself (not just from my cousin). But it must be considered that aspergers/autism on average has proven to make your face look ugly and different from NTs, thus can explain why there's so very few people with HFA that are actually good-looking. I've already posted links here backing this up in another comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:44 PM
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An attractive one sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:41 PM
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That's not entirely true though. As I've told others: good-looking autistic guys (as rare as they are because of aspies being far more likely to be physically unattractive anyway) still do well with women. It's only the mids where it makes that much of a difference, not the true sub5s like myself or the +6-7 guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:28 PM
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You never met a good-looking guy with autism? Most of these guys can get interest in women just fine. Most autistic guys can't hope for that, because they're all chopped af and have facially abnormal features.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:19 PM
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https://www.thetransmitter.org/spectrum/facial-features-provide-clue-to-autism-severity/?fspec=1 https://www.thetransmitter.org/spectrum/clinical-research-facial-features-can-help-diagnose-autism/?fspec=1 3.https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1750946715000744 (Nasal Voice = Mouthbreathing ----> Looks are affected, as we all know) ^ These studies confirm it. Autists are much more likely to be ugly af (like how I am for instance, but in a different regard) and have weird sounding ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:58 PM
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That isn't entirely true though. Good-looking autistic guys (as rare as they are due to aspies being far more likely to be sub5 or even sub4) still get accepted by their peers. It's only the average man with it where it becomes the most of a make or break.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:50 PM
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It doesn't just make you socially awkward, but physically ugly as well. And yet the traits they have are the reason they're hated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:41 PM
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Thomas Matthew Crooks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:40 PM
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Not even a week and already another thread on this topic.. That out the way, people here don't even realize that the latter actually is visible in the face (and is highly unattractive) while the former isn't. You don't even need studies to know this, as you can go to any SPed classroom and you'll notice how even the best looking one is at most a sub 4. Now in the case of a good-looking autistic guy? That would be a rare case and statistically insignificant since there is plenty of information on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:31 PM
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Specifically the sub5 ones (which might even be the majority)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:03 AM
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I believe the data would say that 90% of autistic men never have kids. 75% actually. Also, autism is the number 1 reason why men become incels. But these men largely falsely believe it's because of their appearance. Which on average has proven to make your face look different than NTs (and not even bringing up all the looks impacting health disorders that come with it), and not to mention can affect the body development too. Which means it's rare for an autistic person to be attractive or even d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:14 PM
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How many more of these threads do we need? And is that even a real condition (or rather, a host of conditions) or is it just highly unattractive people that are unaware of their ugliness. Since believe it or not, the only people that "underestimate" their own looks are the ones that are already attractive to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:39 PM
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Unconventionally unattractive, but is far better looking than how he did before-hand. He now as a bit of a niche that gives him appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:35 PM
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Could be worse. I get called ugly by gay men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:30 PM
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The host of mental illnesses he had was probably the only thing that stood out about him in anyway I can judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:20 AM
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Now switch Elliot around with this man and you've got it (as the former is at best average looking as opposed to being a sub 3) https://nypost.com/2018/06/20/teen-who-bragged-about-murder-on-facebook-gets-life-sentence/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:40 PM
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Say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:30 PM
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Every single woman is either specifically attracted to violent men who dominate other people or is more than happy to date and marry one as long as they meet the criteria for attractiveness. Oh yep. These things I found are a good example. Unironically even the CHUD looks better than the trump shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:40 PM
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Although it's a bit late, I'll just start by praising you a job well-done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:07 PM
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In the case of incels, they usually have both that and poor looks as well (atleast from what I've seen so far, and hence is why you won't find many pictures of them online). I mean, I've seen incels that were at least average looking but that's just about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:03 PM
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In which case for that first bit, there's more problems you have than just the tism (Ex: Ugly face, height at an extremely low end, physical health conditions, etc.). My cousin too is autistic, but he still manages to get girls interested in him just because he's good looking. And I've got to hear similar experiences from users here as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:00 PM
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He didn't account for the fact that it's a physical condition (or rather, a host OF physical conditions) and can be visible in the face, which is something basic about it. Just google "autism comorbidities," "autism thin slice judgements," and "autism low muscle tone, thyroid, heart disease, life expectancy" etc,. to get the point. So what should you do? Just be attractive and don't be unattractive. As rare and statistically insignificant of a case it would be (specifically men since they make u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:57 PM
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I think I've made all the takes I've wanted to make on autism. There's other negative traits that come with it that people here are ignoring (and I know this much because I have people in my family that have autism. From my uncle's side) Now, I will agree that even if autism wasn't a physical condition (or host of physical conditons rather), it would still be a make or break for the average man considering it impairs communication through body language
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:52 PM
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That already exists. It's called the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:10 PM
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Well no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:48 PM
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Bro wut? I never said that. And for this topic, how would it be an opinion if it's an objective observation? (and one that we've seen time and time again at that.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:16 PM
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Neurodivergent people are very often physically unattractive as well (Specifically autistic people. you don't even have to look at studies to know this). Something the other users here are ignoring Before anyone shoots me: Yes, I am aware that exceptions exist. I myself have met attractive neurodivergent people, although they are very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:08 PM
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I'm getting the feeling that neurodiversity (specifically autism) is overrepresented here. Like it is amongst the manosphere I'm willing to bet. And I find it amusing that people need a diagnosis to know what they are considering you have instances like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:04 PM
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And looked like a middle-schooler taking that bodyframe and height into account (not to mention his face). I'm also a bit skeptic on that last bit considering autistic people very often look uglier and/or weird and have physical health problems as well. Atleast from what I've seen so far Now I'll agree that: even if autism was not a physical disorder (which it is; as this suggests), it would still be a make or break for the average man since their social skills are what helps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:21 PM
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Hm, gotta admire how much of a difference rhinoplastry surgeries make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:56 PM
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There's a reason why you won't find that many pictures of them online (Hint Hint: Ugly people usually don't show their faces online)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:55 PM
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"I don't care about being young. Aging is beautiful" (Male) *Freaks out when he reaches norwood 3* "I don't care about being young. Aging is beautiful" (Female) *Freaks out when she sees wrinkles*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:53 PM
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Men that are average will at-least still have some good facial features (although combined with flaws, thus putting them in what I would call the "subjective" range). Which is still different from ugly men because in which case they often don't have any - thus creates a wide agreement that they're unattractive. Closest thing you could use to suggest that the majority of men are sub5 would come from dating app data (and even that isn't very good proof)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:51 PM
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Just like another user said: If all women actively approached men then sub5 guys would have no chance of getting a girlfriend. And a reminder: Most men aren't sub5 (and from first-hand experience, the only sub5 guys I see often are aspies and some indian men). At best maybe about 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:49 PM
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You claim to be at-least relatively decent looking if i'm not mistaken. Let's just say given the other negative traits that come with autism (that were ignored by the other users here. And to simplify it: Autism is not mental, but physical), that by itself would make you a bit of a deviation from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:39 PM
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Idk man. Nearly every autistic person I've seen (or atleast met) in general was chopped, considering the fact that it's is mostly physical. But seeing your post history, I suppose you're a deviation from that ^ Now I'm not denying that social skills are important, but aspies ontop of it from what I've seen are much more likely to be ugly af and have bad physical health (not because of the autism itself, but rather the stuff that comes with it)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:47 PM
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By redpillers, you mean sub5 manosphere autists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:21 PM
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Yum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:17 PM
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I mean, does one really need to be good with approaches if they're looking? 🤔 (Now in the case of severe aspergers i might see it. Buuut from what i've got to see first hand, hardly any neurodiverse people in general are good looking) From a few observations i've seen IRL and in videos (like with Tom on this show called "the undateables"), it didn't even matter how they approached since their appearance made it excusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:26 PM
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Wouldn't it be better for the brows to be low set? And in my case, I have very highset eyebrows and it makes me look uncanny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:51 PM
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Objectively? 5.5 at the most, 6 at best. Subjectively? "who cares?"/10 since I am not into politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:37 PM
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To make it more brutal, the same kids even are much more likely to be ugly too (and I can confirm this from first-hand observations too) Older dads have less attractive kids? This fertility debate is getting ugly | Holly Baxter | The Guardian Influence of age on sperm characteristics evaluated by light and electron microscopies | Scientific Reports I believe this is as a result of the mutations in the sperm. The way I see it: the more mutations the sperm has alongside the spoiled eggs of the mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:38 AM
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Sub5 tries to approach at gym (No need to know what the guy looks like. The reaction given says it all)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:10 PM
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Children born to older parents are more likely to be uglier too from what I've heard. Which brings us to some of the takes I've made on how neurodivergent people are usually worse looking on average and are more likely to have physical health problems as well Want an example of the latter? Just go to any SPed classroom and you'll see what I mean (often the best looking one is like sub4 at the most if not sub5)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:41 PM
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So basically ugly, disabled, etc.? When I think of birth defects, they're usually the combo of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:38 PM
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Don't be physically unattractive, overly short (below 5'5) and mentally challenged. Seems like a low bar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:23 PM
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The second two would be putting it loosely. Because from observations of my own? These men are almost always physically unattractive Like this one post I saw on r/amiugly of a "shy" 25 yo that's never had a gf. But the way he looked? I have to give my sympathy considering even they were calling him ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:13 PM
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And often have poor looks ontop of it (but tbf, there's a correlation between these two things for men). Hence is why you won't find that many pictures of them online (and the best looking one i've seen was a 5'2 guy from Turkey) Now I won't deny that social skills are important (as this is usually how the average man is able to have relationships). But when you're poor in both social skills and physical appearance, then it's game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:12 PM
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CTRL+V of what I've said in another reply chain: In other words, women don't want to be approached by sub5 men. And if you do before you even open your mouth, they’ll assume you’re a creep. Just like you assume a homeless person is going to hound you for change before they've even spoken a word to you. Come to think of it, the only physically unattractive men I see IRL are aspies and some Indian guys. Everyone else is just "nothing bad, nothing good stands out about how I look" or better. A brig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:05 PM
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you mean like him? (he looks like what you would expect any of the mods here to look like)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:30 PM
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In other words, women don't want to be approached by sub5 men. And if you do before you even open your mouth, they’ll assume you’re a creep. Just like you assume a homeless person is going to hound you for change before they've even spoken a word to you. Come to think of it, the only physically unattractive men I see IRL are aspies and some Indian guys. Everyone else is just "nothing bad, nothing good stands out about how I look" or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:18 PM
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Even autistic men (of which I am not) found wives back then. Now 80% of autistic men are sexless. Idk. Whenever I meet or see HFAs, like half of them look chopped af
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:16 PM
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They look like people that would post here icl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:21 PM
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I actually got a bit of my saliva on my keyboard as I was typing this from the drool. It looks.... good?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:20 PM
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wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:42 AM
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Do you mean specifically just overweight or morbidly women that would look drastically better after losing weight? (Provided they don't have generally unfortunate bone structures)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:37 AM
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Mufasa mogs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:15 PM
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You mean, like this dude for example? (Dude is so ugly that unironically even the CHUD guy looks better than him) Also 3/10 is very bad too. That's almost as low as you can get without looking deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:58 PM
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It does in a sense if you pay close attention. Just refer to the clip I posted here earlier in the form of a hyperlink (I myself couldn't stop cringing at what I was seeing xD) On many occasions, the guy didn't even get his first word out before the girls rejected him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:09 PM
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better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:02 PM
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Well, one of the worst that could happen: There was this thread I saw from a now banned subreddit. The guy said a girl called security on him after he asked her out and had a 4-hour long interrogation (as soon as I saw his face, I couldn't help but laugh)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:58 PM
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Just pay attention to the reactions they give you, duh. No online face ratings needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:39 PM
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He looks good in-spite of being bald, not solely because of it. Same goes for everyone else that looks good bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:06 PM
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This would be tough to gauge since we don't have a frame as to what you two look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:03 PM
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Edit made. And of course this would be a minority because most men aren't physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:01 PM
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POV: Sub5 trying to cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:27 PM
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Ugliness and Mental disabilities often overlap with each other actually. Something I'm surprised the other users didn't mention (unless, they didn't know this)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:30 PM
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I don't like where this is going.. Or maybe I do? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:40 AM
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That doesn't look too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:08 AM
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What does she look like based on this chart might I ask: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:15 PM
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I thought it was sub 5 / MSTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:13 PM
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Double standards I guess *shrugs*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:59 AM
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I don't see why not. I kind-of already look low trust in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:54 AM
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Tell me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:45 AM
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Jomon looks better to me overall imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:36 AM
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Passible. I barely know any spanish tbh. I mean, I had some classes in HS but I barely remember anything from it now. At-best I know certain phrases like "Buenos días" for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:32 AM
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Good Job
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:38 PM
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Ahahaahahhah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:26 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:28 AM
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Q4A: How well do you think we'd get along (be truthful)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:48 AM
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Not really considering I see this all the time. It's that nearly everyone I see around here that's young looks much better than he does (And FYI, I commute from college and I go on hourly long walks in my city)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:02 PM
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You don't necessarily have to look disfigured to be considered ugly. Just look up the 1st guy who shot trump for a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:54 PM
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Just came back from one around where I live half an hour ago. The only people I think he'd be a stud in comparison to, were the elderly (but only because he's young). I can say this much because I look like a slightly less ugly version of him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:46 PM
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I wouldn't say ugly by choice for some people, as they just have generally unfortunate skull/bone structures (which very few people do)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:13 PM
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What if you're about this ugly, as shown in the example here below average looking guys I do see in stores. But never have i seen anyone (outside of some disabled people) that was this bad looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:11 PM
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So in other words, looks matter (as much as I hate to admit the blackpillers are right about, although they put far too much emphasis on it considering they'll say you have to look like a model to be treated as human)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:59 PM
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Maybe if you have Jeff Bezos & Mark Zuckerberg (this is a meme considering both of these men are solidly sub5) levels of status & Giga-PUA Charisma, then you could compensate. Also inb4 delete
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:57 PM
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And there you go. You can't always expect men to be the ones to approach when they have bad physical statures (especially if they're as ugly as the guy shown in the example above. Many aspies i've seen IRL even look like him). That is social suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:48 PM
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But what if the majority of men looked like this? Dude looks like someone who would post here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:41 PM
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Well, that would assume I have a bias (when I don't. And considering I have a cousin who's professionally diagnosed). Me pointing out physical differences between two groups of people doesn't equate into me "hating them" i'm just going off of phrenology. But I will admit, the negative feedback loop I got from my appearance made me autistic (lol) He is autistic. It's called sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:33 PM
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Not entirely true though. You still have the good looking aspies (as rare as they are since again, due to them being worse looking anyway) that still get forgiven for it. Most people wouldn't know this for sure, since they've never even seen an attractive guy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:20 PM
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That's the thing though, if you're speaking of autism -- they're much more likely to be ugly af, and I can confirm as someone who assisted at a school from "special needs" children (many of them even looked different from the children you'd typically see)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:55 PM
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Most autistic guys are really ugly (some I've seen IRL were even uglier than me, and I'm objectively a 3), so there's that. I assume you've noticed this too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:52 PM
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and the rise of autism No, it's just more undiagnosed people with it getting diagnosed for such. And that out the way, am I the only one who's noticed how these "autistic" people are almost always physically unattractive? (Self-Explanatory, just go to any SPed classroom and you'll see even the best looking one is at the most a sub4). The other issue is the rise of autism. It’s going to be hard to socialize when you have a disability that hinders your social skills. Even when someone is considere…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:51 PM
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This isn't entirely true though. The good looking male aspies (as rare as they are due to autistic people being worse looking anyway) still manage to do well with friendships and dates. It's only the average looking men where it really matters to them, not the models or true sub5 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:46 PM
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Well off the bat, this is some of the stuff that's comrobid with autism (you'll find certain diseases in this too) Not to say it's 100% physical, but it's mostly physical. Now other things from my dorm roommate who's autistic and reads a lot on it: -Sometimes certain facial abnormalities that even AIs can detect (such as asymmetrical faces, short and often upturned philtrums, flat noses, large & wide foreheads, thin upper lips, sometimes too far apart bug-eyes, etc. etc.) Bear in mind I'm aware …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:09 PM
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You can't be confident when you have nothing to be confident about. That's arrogance. All of this only assumes you're at-least normal/average looking to begin with (Which I'm not). But in the case of being physically unattractive, you're much more prone to having long term negative reinforcement and that just knocks your said confident out of your hands (Can confirm this from experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:30 PM
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It's not the autism itself. It's the PROBLEMS that come with autism (and they're usually physical). From my experience, most people I've met with autism were often unhealthy looking due to the physical health problems that are often comorbid with it (the list of them is very long.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:26 PM
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I'm aware. Doesn't impact what I said above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:19 PM
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"69% of high functioning autistic adolescents want relationships, but almost none succeed" https://incels.wiki/w/Asperger%27s_syndrome#69%_of_high_functioning_autistic_adolescents_want_relationships,_but_almost_none_succeed Kind-of a nuanced study considering other things aren't controlled for. Like particularly physical attractiveness since from experience, it's usually the better looking guys with it that manage to get into relationships and etc. And speaking of physical attractiveness on this…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:35 PM
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I'm going to assume they were all good looking (which from what I hear, is very rare for people with aspergers -- Most I've seen were very below average looking, with the only two that WERE good looking being my cousin and a recently married neighbour of mine)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:34 AM
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Well let's say someone who looks very similar to this (this honestly is a good example of a genuinely ugly guy) do what you've described above And then you have someone who looks like this (Not even using an attractive face here. This guy is a fairly average at best looking guy - I more-often than not see guys who look similar to this IRL given I go to university currently) also does what you say here. If you'd ask me, i'm a bit scared of what would happen in the interactions he'd get. But the 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:37 AM
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1 and 2 sort-of contradict each other. What if ur a Thomas Crooks lookalike but at-least have a charming personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:02 PM
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I hear this a lot, but I find it to be a coincidence that men on the spectrum from my experiences are almost always physically unattractive. Seems like that could owe into the study being referenced here. I've even asked others if they've seen even a slightly good looking autistic person, and most of the responses were negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:05 PM
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I wouldn't say 100% since you'll still have the good looking aspies (as rare as they are because of aspies being worse looking anyway) that do alright with women. Can confirm from my cousin's experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:14 AM
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That's because most autistic men are sub5, and at times have facially abnormal traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:50 AM
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I don't quite agree with this having that I've met a number of autistic guys. Trust and believe, maybe 70% of Autistic women could mask. But Guys? From my experience, they can't mask it at all (and often don't anyway). Their behaviors just reek of it (and i'm talking about specifically the High-Functioning ones). More-over, they didn't really talk much and the ones that did either had extremely bad social skills, and/or had a monotone sounding voice, and/or more commonly - looked ugly (coinciden…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:57 PM
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