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| 1 | Can you “love” and “lust” after the same person?That's okay! The internet can be a valuable resource, especially for asking a large sample size some fumbly questions. The answers will be more general at times, but they're still Solid diving off points. What are the questions that need to be asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Can you “love” and “lust” after the same person?It is a bit random, though definitely common, and definitely both shape and size in my case. It felt relavent because of my take that most people have approximate needs, wants, and deal breakers in a partner. Big hands with thick knuckles happen to catch my eye, particularly with the example being in a gamestore environment, where there is no implied romance and the majority of patrons are men. Edit: approximately ->approximate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Can you “love” and “lust” after the same person?That makes so much more sense! Answering this version of the question: I figure it would happen more often to people who show other positive traits. It seems like most people have some level of list for the needs, wants, and deal breakers for partners. For example, I was recently very attracted to a 5'4" fat guy at a game store. He seemed put together, had a bright smile, and had big hands. We ended up being randomly assigned to a game together, and he played group-hug, a tactic that requires ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 10:45 PM |
| 6 | Do you experience attraction to men on a binary "attractive, not attractive" way or on a spectrum? "He's a 6 but the other guy is an 8"As much as I wish there were a scoring system, it's normally a list of needs, wants, and deal-breakers. For example, I found it important to see how potential partners conduct themselves without assumed romantic interest, so I kept an eye out at my LGS while playing Commander during the semester when I didn't have time to date. I Needed a playful, patient, and communicative person who could keep up with me in conversation and seemed emotionally stable. I wanted a natural teacher and peacemaker w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 01:21 AM |
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