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I get what you're saying here and think it is overblown online but I'll die on the hill that in my two years working Walmart in a college town I never saw a hot college aged woman with a not hot man. After 30 y/o? Wayyy more common if not the default the woman is more attractive than the man. But this places skews young let's not get ppls hopes up too high
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:53 AM
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How am I supposed to feel bad for women in their mid 20s who "can't find a man" when all but one of my software engineer male friends earning 120k+ in their mid 20s can't find a woman? Yes, they all look the part you could say, but they're not ugly or autistic and have been good friends with me for a while. The only "getting out there" they do is dating apps which isn't good but really that's my only salient point of criticism against them. There's gotta be tens of thousands of thousands of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:48 AM
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Sorry we're less enthusiastic about our male friends dying a premature death than women are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:55 PM
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i have for years, its really hard finding a therapist with anything worthwhile to say on this but the one im with now seems more engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:41 PM
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Maybe masking is the better word. Idk that's what it really seems like and I've just never done that so it seems off-putting as hell to start now. Seriously tho I think I might just be the opposite of autistic in my refusal to mask who I am for the sake of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:22 AM
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but most men I know are able to step into a softer version of themselves when we hang with cups of tea and chit chat (in a platonic sense), Just a total non starter for me lol fuck this I really just gotta make myself asexual somehow. What ur proposing is essentially "code switching" but for women and I'm just nah. I can be myself with no reservations around my grandmother but I gotta put on a "softer" version of myself for women my age? Shits bleak man, I really want nothing to do with this...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:05 AM
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This is just too complicated for me to ever consider confronting. I'm instant friends with nearly every dude I meet but I need to change this obviously fine personality with another that's more palatable to women? Fuck me man this is insane (not mad at you I'm just yelling into the void)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:43 AM
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Sounds self absorbed but I really am the funny one or maybe 2nd funniest and typically I'm the one who goes above and beyond when helping with something (buying pizza while helping a friend move in to his place stuff like that)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:43 AM
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I've hated every birthday since about then so that checks out ig?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:41 AM
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i have been for months with a therapist and nothing she says is ever gonna make me comfortable around women like that lol and all my friends make minimum 80k+ a year thats a valley of difference (not saying money matters above all but it does matter, a lot)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:49 AM
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ur heart's in the right place but im not doing that lol like id never even dream of doing that even if you put a gun in my face and said do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:34 AM
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no not really all my friends are normal in this regard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:24 AM
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You're probably right tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:28 AM
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So I'm officially at the "just get it over with a hooker" age huh? Bleak, should have off'd myself years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:22 AM
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Both just make me antisocial sadly. Also I have not a fucking clue how people even get prescribed Xanax? Like I've been on three different anti anxiety meds over the years and Xanax is never suggested and I'm scared to ask for it by name
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:12 AM
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Is it not good to give up hope in a hopeless endeavor tho? Like was I "giving up hope" when I canceled my hole to China when i was four?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:51 AM
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I have an American passport and I'm not afraid of using it if those are the options
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:50 AM
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Noble and probably the best reply I'm gonna get but I'd get hooked sooo fast I don't even fuck around with alcohol cause how i am
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:49 AM
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So if you're boring, irredeemably unattractive (lifting wont save me), poor, have a noxious personality (cynicism is my ultimate sin) and most importantly never had a female friend ever at the age of 25 its all a wash right? Like theres no chance of entering the "dating arena" and being even remotely successful? Like im doomed to a lifetime of "professional pursuits", "charity" and "volunteering" if i ever want anything that remotely gives my life any sort of meaning? Like a relationship feels l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:22 AM
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