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| 1 | See GF less often?Thanks for reply. Very useful. I was very clued up but slip a bit. I moved to a foreign country and im still learning the language so i admit i depend on her more than i’d like especially at the start. At first i was like “its gotta be this way and she must understand” but now i think i gotta make huge efforts to not need her help. Anyway. I literally told her i want to se her weekends only from now on and maybe 1x in the week. She wansnt happy but accepted. I know she’ll try push for more thoug… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | See GF less often?Well coincidentally she just texted me. She was complaining that i dont talk when we walk he from Gym etc. I said im not a jester basically and i said its just what happens when u see each other daily. I then said we should see less and said weekend’s only now and 1x in the week. She got a little triggered and said what about if we live together. I laughed to myself and thought then yeah we’d be fucked. Anyway she’s probably gonna try push against this and see me more but i gotta stick to it. To… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | See GF less often?I dont react. I dont get irritated by it and usually i just roll with my idea still in a “i think its fine/good/i like x” kinda way. Sometimes if shes being bitchy like tired i’ll give her a choice to sit and wait for me somewhere if we are shopping for example, so she can rest while i do x which she always kinda backdowns on. Im really not sure if i should be actively telling her off instead. Im kinda leaning towards distance | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | See GF less often?Hmm. I like the idea but not exactly the problem i have. Its more, she just reacts bitchy when we hang out suddenly lately. Like if she doesnt like my idea or something i said. Before she would’t have reacted this way. Feels like she is pushing how much she can get away with when it comes to her natural “temper”. It was hidden before. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Do women lack smv self awareness?This. When the SMV differences is big enough, women are extremely simpy. They do it because they think it works. They have a huge dissonance when it comes to guys doing it to them and them not finding it attractive because the women only imagine if a hot sexy guy did it they’d like it(initially). The simps are invisible. They are also pragmatic and know they have to be obvious and more aggressive for any hope | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women lack smv self awareness?Bullshit. Women are very aware how they stack up. They just know or think men have lower standards so a 10/10 man might fuck a 6/10 women so they hold out for it, but have to try reallly hard to get his attention. They are very obvious and realistic about their SMV and chances with a higher SMV male so they will be more obvious. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Do women lack smv self awareness?In my experience depends how hot they are and how hot you are. If its clear you’re SMV is 1 or more points above theirs they will be more blatant about looking. Scaling ofc. If the same or you are slightly above, they will be way, way leas obvious. In fact a lot of girls will try harder to nt look interested here imo. Stuff like immediately looking in another direction after eyes meet and lifting head as if to say “oh it was an accident” they wont look at you again till they are sure you wont no… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:19 AM |
| -2 | Plate isn’t interested in sex sometimes. How to turn her on and make her horny?Dont | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Getting bored of sex something wrong with me?Yeah. Lifting for 8 years. Sleep 7-8 hrs. I cant really imagine sex daily without it turning into basically masturbation inside her snd finishing it quickly. You’re bullshitting if you’re saying you have sex more than 4 sessions a week and do it enthusiastically enough to do all kinda shit, fuck for hours and want more. You’re either on steroids or very high TRT. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Getting bored of sex something wrong with me?What are signs of low T? The way i feel now is im so busy i just want to focus on my life and deal with it, and when im with her sex wise just nut and fuck 2-3 times a week and be done i dont want to waste the literal minutes i get to myself a day thinking of ways to make it interesting for her i just want to have a drink and chill on my phone for. An hour before i sleep and do it all again | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting bored of sex something wrong with me?Maybe. But idk man. It sounds cringe but I actually just like her in general and spending time and doing shit is fine. I like to fuxk her too but im not like i only want to have sex every time given choice. Maybe my libido is not normal right now. I think my life is really busy and i guess its stressing me out and i just cant prioritise her i have no mental energy left. It sucks. It wasnt this way before. I felt like i could come up with shit and definitely be excited to fuck more often but this… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Getting bored of sex something wrong with me?Its sad. I like her. I think it may he because im so extremely busy nowadaya that i dont even have the mental energy to think of ideas or things to do like that. I get maybe 1 hour a day to myself in the week. No way in spending it imagining up dates, researching shit or thinking of ways to keep sex interesting for her. I wish it wasnt this way. It sucks. I guess having a busy life really is a relationship destroyer... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Slow Sex. Is this book any good?lol. whores will literally do anything to not feel like a whore while getting sex and attention. tell me more about these orgasm cults | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Slow Sex. Is this book any good?Thats my thought. I looked through and it was obvious shit like fucking a g spot or moving the fanny flaps out the way to see the clit. like... duh? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | My GF is always super annoying a week or two before her period. why?It's so much less hassle with plates... Thanks. Im kinda curious why i only get this after ovulation time though. I know its all talk and watch what they do not what they say but she seems to have this fucking crisis each month lately wanting someone who will give her stability and shit then suddenly all is fine for two weeks once period starts. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | My GF is always super annoying a week or two before her period. why?ofc. but we are all her at TRP to understand | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with beta fucks? Apparently a woman revealed she had a BF and lost most her followersi mean did they really think they had a chance for sex with some e thot? It's obvious its both impractical, a waste of time, and that she's thriving on the attention not on the chance of one of he awkward fans proposing to her | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is wrong with beta fucks? Apparently a woman revealed she had a BF and lost most her followersYes, with my on GF. it's quite funny and revealing | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 11:54 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is wrong with beta fucks? Apparently a woman revealed she had a BF and lost most her followersIf it is a fantasy then why the fuck does it matter. they can just play pretend or something | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Update : LTR wanted to rent out her room to fat beta martial arts instructorOP just dump her already. why the hell are you wasting time thinking about it? There is no discussion to be had. the coach moving in proposal could have been dealt with, but then she stared causing crazy drama and baiting you with intense jealousy plots. thats fucked, and frankly she sounds extremely immature and not LTR material. Don't root around in the gutter to fix this. PLEASE. like seriously. I dont want this to fall on deaf ears bro, but don't give that disgusting woman any more attention… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I seem to be attracting post wall women exclusively2 possibilities: You are passive and only noticing them as they are more forward. they have less options so have to be. Young women dont have to make any effort, they get the best from existing. So if you are not being proactive then no shit you are only attracting post wallers. second is you give major BB vibes. maybe you are a little dorky but wear expensive clothes etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shittest? (asked about her ass)Yes i need to sharpen my edge | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?You are maybe relying on your looks/status or whatever to allow you a huge margin of error on your game. That only gives you so much and eventually it will make you low value. She may self regulate a while based on that but if your game as this off then its gonna lead her to disrespecting you, seeking others attentions and basically cucking you - at your own allowance from not setting the frame and just relying SMV advantage. She will quite happily think she can have her cake and eat it, and may… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 12 | A male coworker of mine just asked my girlfriend (friends) to go to a concert with him and didnt say anything to me. How can I handle this?You already fucked up with the stripper comment to be honest. That's basically communicate to her that: You don't mind her seeking male attention You wouldn't have a problem with it, nor get jealous You are comfortable with other men engaging sexually with her(stripping) You would support such an effort You would allow her to do it while remaining with her and supporting that attention seeking of male behavior. It may not have been your attention, but you basically became a Beta saying that. Tha… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | My LTR said i dont make her feel secure in the relationshipAgree with everything you said. But personally I don't really take it all that seriously. I'm not looking for kids or marriage or anything, but if i was i wouldn't do it with a post wall woman. If I'm enjoying someone and feel like they are a good person, i'll just go with it for a while in a relationship. So far all has been very good, just a shame about the age. I dated much younger women before and its fun in different ways. definitely very different. But yeh... keenly aware of the dynamic, m… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | My LTR said i dont make her feel secure in the relationshipWell I struggle with getting that at the right times. Like sometimes a LTR just wants comfort, but If they come at me from some weird manipulative or dramatic way to get it then no fucks given lol | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | My LTR said i dont make her feel secure in the relationshipI think this chick did indulge betas most her life, sometimes I kinda noticed this from little things i know. I think she can also sense that i'm ready to walk away if it comes to it just from my general communication and attitude, and i wouldn't fight for a crappy relationship, but i'd stay in one i'm enjoying. To be honest i think that is the most important thing I learned from TRP | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women say he's just a friend when they see someone they fucked how do you react when she says that and how to stop feeling disgusted if she is your wife cause its really gross to shake someone hand knowing he fucked your wife before youkek, you are literally never going to find a woman without an ex these days unless you marry an extremely messed up or fugly woman. Good luck finding a woman over a certain age without male friends or orbiters either. in fact, i'd call it a red flag potentially as any good looking socially adjusted woman with a career is going to inevitably have a few, and it's very strange if she doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone used Jungian/MBTI types as red/ green flags? Which type is worst?This is where it gets into the grey zone i suppose. I wouldn't ever say that Jungian types are objective or even all that useful or applicable. I wouldn't say ANY psychology truly is, its borderline pseudo science in its entirety. however, I DO think it is interesting, and, at the very least, has some interesting and very observable patterns and consistency. The issue is whether these are as you say objective, or if their is a big iceberg beneath which brings it there. I have gone back and forth… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone used Jungian/MBTI types as red/ green flags? Which type is worst?The basic premise is that there are 8 filters or lenses we filter information through and process it via (ti, Te, Se, Si, Ni, Ne, fi, Fe). We all have 4 "default" ones, which we are comfortable using and in times or stress or whatever, or even just in general we use these 4 without effort. for example, you may have noticed you are a rational person, where as a lot of people seem to have to work much harder at it, or how you may be socially awkward, but others are not but they have to work harder… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone used Jungian/MBTI types as red/ green flags? Which type is worst?I thought this place would have mostly ENTP/INTP/INTJs lol. I think that may be your bias there but I cant say I have experience dating an INFJ. I'm assuming from the theory, like most feelers they are prone to womens hamstering and irrationality on crack and vulnerable to the gina tingles. I agree with ESFPs and ISFPs exactly lmao. ESTJ women and ENTJ women i'm actually mixed on. I think they would actually be quite committed and not so vulnerable to their tingles and irrationality women innate… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone used Jungian/MBTI types as red/ green flags? Which type is worst?Nah. I read the Jungian types and i'm just theorizing which type would be better for LTR, which type better for a fuck buddy, etc. There isn't really anywhere else on the internet I can open this discussion so i'm literally just having a stab in the dark here on the off chance anyone else has read it a little and thought the same. funny, i would imagine most guys here are the INTP or INTJ type | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone used Jungian/MBTI types as red/ green flags? Which type is worst?Yeah I think MBTI is horseshit, but If I didn't include it in the title I wasn't sure people would recognize it. Jungian psychological types, which MBTI(bs) is derived from is interesting. Which is what I'm really talking about. In all honesty, i dont think any of the popular psychology types are valid, even Big 5 or whatever meme dipshit Jordan Peterson is talking about, but its still interesting to think about anyway. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 12 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?The problem most is that many chase “6 figgies” as a means to get women which imo is a huge beta signal too. It all depends on the motivation. Know plenty of losers and betas in Finance who earn big but are so bad with women. You can tell they chased status or money as a means to an end | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why are woman more status conscious than men?I think men are status conscious too but Nowhere near the same extent. A lot of succesful guys throw themselves at what they are passionate for and see where they go. Not the same for a lot of women. They chase after whatever route promises status. However i do notice a trend where the most status driven guys tend to apply a form of beta game much more heavily. Like you said, leverage it for sex | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are woman more status conscious than men?This makes sense. Its a provisioning thing. I suppose men evolved to hunt and gather to get their needs and women depended on the stronger sex. Status was important to ensure an abundance of resources for offspring. I used to think it was solipsism because they find it attractive in men but it goes much deeper imo. In thay regard i noticed beta men( bad looking and no game) tend to flex status as much as possible and chase it. I suppose its their onky access to sex, which makes sense. Good looki… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Does hypergamy apply to Beta Bux too?No. Thats the full package. As you said. The other stuff is arousing but money is only attractive. If tou have a beta with money they are attractive for provisioning but they dont want sex from him ever because he isn’t arousing just attractive. This is redpill 101: AFBB cmon. Obviously if you have the arousing shit together money is a plus for your SMV but it doesn’t make them wet its the other stuff that does. If you took away the money they’d d still be aroused. Youd just fget less women who … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Does hypergamy apply to Beta Bux too?SMV covers a broad aspect of female Nature as far as i understand? Its AFBB in one package. Money = attractive but not arousing. Good looks = arousing and attractive. Game/behaviour = arousing and attractive. Status = attractive but not necessary arousing(preselection is arousing and status can sometimes come with it) So you can bolster SMV with money but it wont make them wet. This is kinda what im getting at. Does hypergamy cause them to seek an upgrade even if its purely in terms of more prov… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Lol wtf. Eating tinder sluts is one thong but eating out a fat slamhog u admit is 5/10 so really means 4/10. Wtf | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Does hypergamy apply to Beta Bux too?Im not worried about it. Im trying to understand the theory. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy an Evolutionary Failure? TheorySearch polyandry tags on his site. There are a few | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy an Evolutionary Failure? TheoryMaybe. All that can logically happen is that equilibrium eventual returns. Whether that is after huge social change, a big war that wipes out many and causes that social change in order, or depopulation through negative birthrates and hypergammy(honestly look at japan for an interesting example). It will return eventually. Evolution is only a failure once extinction occurs. Hypergammy could end up saving us through depopulated and more reaources to go around. Impossible to say. All we know ia th… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Is this threesome a shit-test?Shit test would be if too act too eager. Be nonchalant and let her make it happen. And its a way to rope you into doing a MMF later with her saying “but i let you do it”. Bear this in mind. You know the context. Stick to your boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Ltr trying to make me gain weight etc?I thought about 3. Last one particularly. However, i have maintained this look since the day she met me. And she asked for a relationship several times before we got into one. So, why would she have pursued from the start if she didnt like my look? Not changing shit anyway but it would be convenient if one of the former as im doing things right if so. Im at my natty maximum btw. Thanks for response | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Ltr trying to make me gain weight etc?Plenty more out there that do | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Gay guys hitting on me?Lol. It's when you are not bulked out but lean and muscular. Basically what people who don't take steroids look like when lean. Zac effron in the Bay Watch for example, vs Arnold at his peak | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Women trying to fix you?Dont take those examples too literally. I've never seen a woman who is happy with their partner. They always have something to complain about. even if his game is perfect. Even if she is good and works out too (my gf does and is in great shape). It seems from my understanding of Redpill, that if a woman DOESNT complain about a guy ever thats a much, much, much worse sign than if she does. It typically means she has emotionally checked out of their relationship together, usually the result of a g… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Women trying to fix you?I've seen this in so many relationships that its almost the norm. Funny how that happens. The way i saw it if they cant match our SMV, they'll do their best to try bring yours down rather than raise theirs to eliminate competition anxiety | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | LTR getting too involved in my career?I think there is this element to that. but is it that bad? All women want an ideal life right. as long as they arent control about it and directing the ship it is literally irrelevant though. I'm simply doing what I want to do, and she can help me do that or not at all. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | LTR getting too involved in my career?hmm that sucks. Luckily im red pilled and its all been fine till now. Wouldn't let myself be betaized. thanks for the warning. Its funny ho they try to "fix" you over time. its been a theme i noticed. the day they stop trying to "fix" you may be the day they lose all sexual attraction. Anyway. I take simply help like this because its genuinely helpful. I was glad to support her in being helpful, we want to encourage this right? I'll just watch out for what you said from now on. I think it may ha… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | LTR getting too involved in my career?Interesting. I can see your logic here. Pretty much i'm just doing what I already wanted to do. If she made a suggestion that helps I wont ignore it, but I'm not changing my path at all, if you know what I mean? I pretty much communicated that I'm doing it my way with my future vision or not at all. she can help me with that or not. She seemed to go with it, and started imagining life or how she can be part of that instead of what she was dreaming up. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Lower Body Fat Percentage = more vitality?Maybe they got a tan. Like people tend to when lean | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Is this a comfort test? LTRWho knows. There is A LOT of womanese in here. Just carry on doing it right and be willing to walk away if she fucks it up. Keep it simple | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 09:58 AM |
| 1 | LTR suggesting im psycho or aspergerI'm only 230 lbs | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Is the middle class the most beta existence of all (United kingdom)Im talking from a blue pilled conditioning. Obviously a red pilled guy who make middle class money isn't going to fall into that. But in terms of the blue pilled world, that described in the OP seems to be what is going on. Middle class "goals" seem to self sort themselves towards pleasing women and working towards being as good at it as possible. basically grooming each other towards beta bucks or being a provider rather than an arouser. They'll sort themselve into middleclass opinons or hobbie… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 0 | LTR suggesting im psycho or aspergerI'll stick with rational male | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Why are some decent looking guys extremely beta?The way i see it they are more likely to cultivate those traits. Strange when they don’t. Also, the looks are a bigger buffer for beta shit. Dread will be higher etc. I cant imagine just how beta you must have to behave to completely eradicate that natural edge | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | LTR suggesting im psycho or aspergerNo. I read the rational male about 6 times and a lot of his blog. U recommend those books too? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 01:27 PM |
| 0 | LTR suggesting im psycho or aspergerIm aware but im newly pilled. I tend to veer on the side of not enough comfort rather than too much. If in doubt i assume shit test. Easier to recover from that than giving too much comfort imo. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 01:08 PM |
| 0 | LTR suggesting im psycho or aspergerI feel like i give enough attention by my standards. Maybe sues just super needy? I feel like you should give comfort on your own terms right? Instead of doing it when they act up and try bait you or manipulate you into it. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Honest question for long time red pillersBecause they have so so so much more options than you. Young women who are 9/10 change their minds at the drop of a hat. They cant commit and know what they want. Its just reality to expect it suddenly with those types | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 02:00 PM |
| 3 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?No it wasn't an insult. Im just calling her crazy. I only ever had one plate that was content on being a plate forever. they all push for exclusivity or break eventually. that one was definitely not normal. I mean you are doing the right thing not being in a relationship with a woman like that as its a red flag if she is content on being pumped forever in all honesty. Usually i think the only time that really happens with normal mentally stable women is in polygamous societies, like small middle… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:00 PM |
| 6 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?We do. Sorry, but its the difference between a fat unmuscular beta, a man who doesnt achieve anything and is expecting a woman to love him and fuck him for "who he is" vs a guy who is red pilled and works out and achieve the best he can. Your example is typical of this too. that was your performance bro. she enjoyed it. However im kinda skeptical of what kind of mental state that woman must be in. is she young? Its good you are not committed to her. any woman who happily does an open relationshi… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do Asian women love weak, white, beta males?Good point. A low SMV partner, in the case of a twig or fat beta man is not a threat. especially if they are beta in behavior too. It means she can let her hair down. she can stop putting out, or she can make demands. Essentially there is LOW risk of him leaving her or divorcing. perfect as a divorce or a cheating man is shameful for the woman to have in many asian countries. the it just goes to the keeping up with the jones stuff with her girlfriends, showing off their status from their betabux… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do Asian women love weak, white, beta males?I cant tell if this is a satire or not. But i'll address this serious anyway. yes it is a trend. The reason is that Asian women are looking for beta provider from a much younger age than white women. The wall in many Asian countries is literally 25. Im not kidding when I say that even a woman approaching the wall is in trouble. the pressure is insane from family and society. Men dont go for women over that age in these countries. not the good catches anyway. why would they if they dont need to? … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 07:34 PM |
| 3 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?Cheers bro. I think i got very deep in this red pill stuff, and i never had a LTR. my mind is filled of stories of men whos relationships fell apart because they went beta. I know the Red pill, so i hold myself to a really high standard. Kinda like, be perfect with game or SHE WILL stray. I'm perhaps too obsessed with having perfect game and feeling like I need to be a top 1% percentile in game. Then i realize.. most guys are insanely beta but it still take months to years for their relationship… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?I do new things all the time with her. we are very active. I agree this is important.... But as its my first LTR i really dont know what to make of this. once i read something about infatuation stage or something like that, perhaps its ended? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Going to JapanJust go to popular tourist districts, drink there and hit bars or clubs there. The women there will be specifically looking for foreign men, which is why they hang around there at tourist areas instead of where japanese people go. So you will find something easily, a lot of women who like to sleep with foreigners who are passing through will be there. You can install tinder for same reason. English language app like that will have women who are already looking for foreigners. Now if you want to … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 06:16 PM |
| 4 | LTR and girls holiday to party islandWhile i agree, most guys here are ott... zante is not exactly somewhere to go to have an innocent party. Its like a guy going out with the lads to a brothel and wondering why his gf is being weird about it. I’ve trusted my gf to go out with her friends plenty. She texts me and goes home early and doesnt join them for the whole night when they hit the club etc. Cant expect and normal and socially functioning women who isnt a stay at home to not have a social life. But if you have extreme jealousy… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 10:03 AM |
| 3 | LTR and girls holiday to party islandHow old are you both? To be honest if you are 19-26, and especially 19-22, there really is little point to being in a relationship with her. Most women that age especially these days cant do them. They naturally want to have fun, experience these things and their friends influence them a lot at that age. Its pretty much everything to them. And at that age women especially dont know what they want. They will test and do things and only figure out when its too late. Like cheating but not liking it… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 09:45 AM |
| 29 | Girlfriend cheated on meShe wanted her cake and to eat it too. AF/BB. She can Love her beta or boyfriend/ long term companion while getting hot sex on the side. She wasnt lying about that. And often there are no consequences in this day and age. Many men are willing to forgive this especially the first time. Its pathetic. So they never really learn. You are doing humanity a service if you break up with her forever. Any unlucky future man who gets her might be better off as she learns a lesson. Or not. Women cant handle… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women date younger men?I remember her having a few beta orbiters who would shower her in attention and expensive shit like dinners, but were obviously not so good looking. She kept them in orbit. At that age i cant understand why she chose to go with young guy and not settle with the relatively wealth betas | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Keep or delete instagram pictures with an attractive ex?“Another chick who thought I was still plating my ex stopped giving me sex when I accidentally blabbered out that I don't fuck her anymore.“ Girls like this are the worst. Idk how you said it but if it was this simple doesnt surprise me. Usually young bimbo women are like this. They have no idea what they want. They desperately want u to only fuck them but if you do they are repulsed. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Is this really how betas think?Yes. It is interesting because it exposes your red or blue pilled lens that you develop without noticing it. Where else is my red pill lens now making me misinterpret? I disagreed with it, but then agreed for a different reason. I didnt really realise my reason was very atypical( red flags). The guys reasoning, when i thought about it, was very blue pilled and beta in the sense that they can only go for a chick if they can provide or operate in her frame, if they cant they filter themselves out.… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Why do women love nightclubs?I think that is one aspect of it. but the environment by nature offers them so much validation and attention that it must have appeal there too. Then it appeals to their social status desire by being able to sit with the "rich" or "cool" people, signalling status to other women. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | She always wants me to explain my opinion and “why” etc (help my hamster)do explain. i need all the help i can get | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | She always wants me to explain my opinion and “why” etc (help my hamster)Yah, do the curveball every now and then and then she baits me with something like "you always agree with me". Lol. I'm starting to think this chick is just manipulative and looks to create drama anywhere possible. maybe she feels like she has control when she does it. Or if I just shrug my shoulders and say "it's the way i am/ it is", "no big deal" or something else like that she will say im being defensive(lol) another trigger work do bait me. This is why i dont generally do debate with her. s… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CONSTANT shit testing, is this bad? (career woman)I guess so. As soon as i red pilled i went out and found the bitchiest woman i could so i could have a chance to practice in a difficult context and gain massive experience really fast. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | CONSTANT shit testing, is this bad? (career woman)exactly. dick sucked without the bullshit. but i think too many people here think the bullshit is avoidable. I've been with women less shit testy before. it exists. but shit tests always come, and they are a good thing. if they are not doing it its actually a problem imo. I used to think that a perfect situation with perfect game was when a woman would no longer feel the need to shit test you, as you proved it. that is not reality. they constantly need reminding. So i have been dating this chick… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | CONSTANT shit testing, is this bad? (career woman)I think shes the latter tbh. It definitely comes in waves though, there is some pattern to it. Pass a shit load, good for a while, barrage of shit tests, good for a while etc. But as a red pill newb it has been very good frame practice, soon i'll have had enough | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | CONSTANT shit testing, is this bad? (career woman)It's become so expected that i pass them without even thinking about it now. Its good banter but it feels like im talking to a guy sometimes in the verbal back and forth. Maybe that is just how career women are. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Do popular movies irritate you since you Red pilled? Most "chick flicks" are basically Porn for womenTrue. I dont really have anyhting against the movies as such. Is what it is. a symptom of society. But How so many women i know predictably love these predictable movies is slightly....idk. boring? Like... they fall for the red pill truths in action so predictably its kinda makes everything into a process. This extends to red pill too. Act jealous towards a woman? lost attraction. flit with a young pretty woman while your gf is near? suddenly on best behavior. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 12:04 AM |
| 14 | Do popular movies irritate you since you Red pilled? Most "chick flicks" are basically Porn for womenI noticed that while watching it. I hated that movie. They neutered thor and the hulk rather intentionally imo. Cape Fear is a good red pilled film | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | talking about past boyfriends etc?Yeah I suspected that it was just trigger words. Good call. Makes no sense otherwise lol. In fact im generally pretty good at detecting bait like this ever since reading rollo tomassi's The Rational Male. highly recommended book, must read for all people here. LTR really is hard mode though. People arent joking. I felt like the day i entered one with her comfort levels increased dramatically and it became more difficult to have the attraction high with same effort. She used to get very nervous f… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Is this a comfort test? (talking about how she doesn't want me to feel obligated to her)Very true. I disagree with the dread part though. female version of dread is more like trying to make you jealous though. This is fairly established. Nexting reveals all. I guess it really should be down to the guy to figure it out if he isn't a complete blue pill. its fairly obvious. The good old gut check. Personally what I always look for is a change in behavior. Anything from being TOO lovey or TOO distant. You can be an ass and make her feel these things but ultimately she will come back an… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Is this a comfort test? (talking about how she doesn't want me to feel obligated to her)Don't they usually just do it and try to hide it if they are cheating? I mean usually women operate like that. They try have their cake and eat it. When a woman tries to dread a guy its a desperation move. its all to gauge where the guy is at, and what level of commitment he really has(does he get jealous? needy?). | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Is this a comfort test? (talking about how she doesn't want me to feel obligated to her)I forgot that here on TRP every girl is cheating on you every day no matter what. Of course it's possible. But, that isn't necessarily what i'm asking here. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Is "stubborn" a problem with RP?Yes. Behavior is key. In a LTR... RP gets rusty if you dont sharpen it. hence the thread. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Is ignoring an LTR effective when they make demands?Yes! I noticed this shit. She opens a dialog but i never bother taking it seriously because she will always move the goalposts. so i just do the fog, tell her to stop whining or just change her mood usually. Ty, that last phrase is something to consider too. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Is ignoring an LTR effective when they make demands?Sure. Still learning. I guess i struggle to draw the line. I want to do it on my own terms. I fail comfort tests often, but imo she comes at me with them in such an accusative manner and a demanding change way that if i give in like that it's onyl going to do more harm than good in the long run. I dont mind giving comfort esepcailly on my own terms. waht do you think? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Is ignoring an LTR effective when they make demands?Used to agree. no longer do. some things yes. Hanging out with other guys one to one especaily without asking? obviously hard next. somethings dont need to be stated. General behavior? Often yes. You can give examples of friends or waht happened before. You can straight up say it "no gf of mine does xyz". Honestly, some women NEED to be trained or given some rules or they just dont know. especailly if they have never had anything but betas before. I had chicks ASKING me for guidelines on how to … | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Is ignoring an LTR effective when they make demands?This is good advice for early stages, or a plate or fwb etc. Or to completely newly red pilled guys. But i think once you are in a LTR or have some RED pill knowledge texting can be fine. It's just very dangerous when you don't have that knowledge base. There are certainly things i just flat out wont discuss or engage in via text. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Is ignoring an LTR effective when they make demands?Thats it. I was gonna do AM, or AA but tbh I wanted to state a boundary this time. That it's not ok to come at me in such a fashion with a problem or i wont listen. I don't think i deered or entered her frame. All i said among the paragraphs of bullshit was "that makes you think you have an excuse to behave like this?" and that is literally it. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Is ignoring an LTR effective when they make demands?I was going to say something like "You know where the door is, go find one" or words to the effect. Or just a shrug emoji. But i havent bothered to respond, i am not sure if that was the best way. I already communicated that she should know better how to approach things and thats enough in my mind. Always looking to learn more because im definitely still new to RP | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting out the anger phase?Im lazy af. I take 5 minute breaks between sets. Thats how i like | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Getting out the anger phase?There right now lol | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Forex trading?Btw half the time their social media is bullshit too. Misleading people into thinking they made gains(if they even really own that car or if that watch is in fact real or just a fake pic from the net) with their trading, when reality is either they make fuck all, on averge lose money if trading, or at best made money from selling signals which they dont even use. It is very easy to tap into the mass of ppl who easily spend 100 bucks on the signals as they sell the idea of working for yourself et… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 04:35 PM |
| 9 | Forex trading?Its trending ever since forex and stocks became more accessible to regular joes. Social media has people capitalising on it. 99.999% of the fuck heads on instagram dont make any money at it when you look at their track record in a 3 year period for example. Or they simply match the market. They make their cash from idiots who buy into the easy money meme, and pay them for “signals” based on TA. They collect income from this instead of trading. There are plenty of suckers who will pay. Trading is… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Are some women extra resistant to control?Holy shit. It is constant. It got to a point where dealing with shit tests is so automatic now i dont even think about it. It’s like a bull with a fly bouncing off of it. I think it has been a good experience in building an iron frame. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Are some women extra resistant to control?I get the sense that she is extremely used to controlling guys in her personal life and in office with manipulation and controlling the frame. She has dropped hints here and there that previous guys in her life all supplicated to her. Strange. I guess she cant not do it. It is hilarious. She’ll battle over things like dates initially but if i tell her what to wear or anything sexual its instant compliance. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Senior contributors, how has this sub changed over the past years?Been here a while. Was way more helpful 4 years ago. High quality comments. People who had actually consumed the side bar, let alone just read it. Now its just a bunch of high school kids, people who havent read the side bar, women haters, incels and people learning from each other here giving shitty advice. Even a few of the badged contributers seem like women haters. There are still good comments here and there. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women test frame more than others?I see. I see less of that with her, she is generally respectful and holds back. But she tries to get me to conform to what she has come to expect of men she dates(betas from what she has disclosed), which i dont care for. Things like showering her in compliments, paying her way, supplicating to her wants and needs, being at her beck and call, etc. Just last week she moaned that i dont reveal enough about myself and things im up to to her, she isnt sure if i have friends or what( shaming tactic?)… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do some women test frame more than others?I thought that the shit tests and frame tests would lessen over time if she stuck around? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | What should I believe from her? She potentially had sex with another guy last night.You are looking for closure yourself bit wont find it. Been there, its normal. Fact of the matter is: a woman knows good vs bad in a relationship. A woman who respects you wont do 1 on 1s with another guy sex or no sex. Thats grounds to next her. She doesnt have a fucking clue what she is doing, a big fucked up manipulation attempted which she changed her mind on as the dynamics shifted based on ur reactions. Dont make sense of it. Just look at her actions and not her words. In all likelihood sh… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 12:12 AM |
| 4 | What should I believe from her? She potentially had sex with another guy last night.do not turn back. Dont do it. You know shes not worthy, stop making concessions for her. This is a loaded situation which you dont quite understand. Fair. First, she was a virgin. Eventually they will want some strange. This is natural in this day and age. I think the chances of locking down a virgin and keeping her from straying is lower than finding a better woman with a low count. She is going to move into her “party years” and trying to prevent it is frankly, foolish and beta. Secondly, this… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Do some women go their entire lives without seeing Alpha Behaviour?Not sure I understand your post. I do none if these things, she has just made comment on it a few times. And while talking about other people she said “things tend to end when the sex gets bad” which is just female solipsism of course, which means that was how many of hers probably ended. This chick has dated very high earning guys but clearly all beta and it turned her off, but she cant even realise that. Here i am justing doing what I want first, and she seems like its never happened before | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience with Japanese wallers?Would have thought even in that society there will be a few cads in top 5% completely cleaning up everything. But maybe casual dating is more taboo too, no idea. All i know is over here older women have no trouble finding fun if they looked after themselves. Maybe Japan has an even bigger beta problem | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Attention on Instagram with girlfriend... social media and attention buying in games.Usually you start how you intend to carry on. You can change this now but gradually. Break the pattern. If she doesnt like it tell her to stop whining and set the frame yourself. Dont entertain it. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Attention on Instagram with girlfriend... social media and attention buying in games.Why are you following her on social media? Guys are willing orbiters these days smh. She gets your attention and validation already. Make her come to you for it. Dont play on her social media shit. Are you a thirsty little beta? Thats what social media is for with women, collecting them and having a network of them to validate her at will | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 08:18 AM |
| 27 | Plate I’m talking to brought up a guy she’s interested and wants an LTR withTrying to force you into committing or just being very open. Do what you want, but not what she wants. If she is trying to gain commitment from you just soft next her for a week | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?They know what they are doing. Good in some ways(sexually) but annoying in others. But ime they are manipulative more... but in such obvious fucking ways if they are used to dealing with beta husbands/exes. That shit is obvious as fuck but clearly they are used to it working. But i think u gotta remember they are trying to keep shit on the down low so they probably need control I suppose when married and they want something on the side they want that only. Show a hint of beta and they dont want … | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?I see where you are coming from and it all makes sense according to the rapid decline in SMV. This goes especially for more plane looking women or ones that were career focused imo. At the same time AWALT must apply. Push pull is like crack for women. Anything too abundant simply will lose value. The BB/AF spectrum is always gonna exist, and AF behaviour will always be arousing. I mean i had one that went off on one because i didn’t validate her enough before, saying she is “used to being basked… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?Lol that sounds hilarious. I think it is highly dependent on the woman though you are right. Some are more open about it and flattery even works. Some are more shielded and push/pull works for “validating their legs open”. Thats how I interpret shit anyway | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?Different strokes for different folks. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?I find that they are even less subtle themselves with manipulation attempts. Essentially they are VERY used to beta/blue pill conditioning and guys who are that way, so they use the same obvious shit that works on them. What do you mean by that? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Anyone dated older women red pilled?Both, yes. Not bf/gf shit. These women offten have money and dont mind spending it especially to be seen in public with a young good looking guy. Due to their experience they are interesting to talk to. It changes shit up a bit. Obviously i dont mean slumwhores, im talking educated women | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:49 PM |
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