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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Need some advice on a girl who's also a friend.I’ll just echo what others have said, don’t vomit your feelings like ‘I really like you’ and all that heart felt warm shit but instead just be like ‘let’s go out for drinks sometime when I’m back :)’ | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I get A LOT of first dates but can never get a second date. What am I doing wrong?I agree that talking too much might be a bad thing but man, some of these girls just don’t talk at all. Some girls are so bad at having conversations sometimes it’s unbelievable. Also, kissing on the first date depends on the vibe and the person. Some girls might not be open to kissing on the first date for whatever reason and other times she might see you as a coward or pussy if you don’t do it | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Working out and eating healthy has changed my perspective on life for the better. If you haven’t started lifting weights, do it nowYou understand this sub is about giving tips and advice? You’re gonna get a collective of opinions on seduction, it’s the whole point of this sub, to help people interact with the opposite sex. People are going to provide their recipe for success and it’s up to you to take this information and utilize it or throw it in the trash. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 09:20 PM |
| 15 | Working out and eating healthy has changed my perspective on life for the better. If you haven’t started lifting weights, do it nowWorking out has shown to be helpful for dealing with depression, but with this in mind, I agree you have to learn how to develop yourself socially and take risks. Gym isn’t going to solve all your life problems, it’s just a tool to help you become more confident on your outlook in life | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Working out and eating healthy has changed my perspective on life for the better. If you haven’t started lifting weights, do it nowI’m just sharing personal experience, take it however you want, I’m not putting a gun to your head and forcing you to lift weights and I’m not saying this is the solution to XYZ | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | There is no fucking difference between cold approaching and swipe right on tinderSo what is the alternative? Just hope everything magically falls into place? Or download multiple dating apps and have a false illusion that they’ll all find girlfriends on apps designed for hookups? Telling someone they’re pretty is not annoying or uncomfortable. If they are annoyed they can just express that and all guys will fuck off | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | There is no fucking difference between cold approaching and swipe right on tinderGood for you, your experience represents less than 1% of the sub. Stopping a women to say hey I thought you were pretty, I wanted to introduce myself’ is not harassment | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | There is no fucking difference between cold approaching and swipe right on tinderHarassing....found the guy who gets laid | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Update: I got rejected by co-worker yesterday and everything has been totally normalI don’t know, truthfully I don’t like to think about the ‘what ifs’ of a potential 2nd Chance, people really aren’t shit, there isn’t anyone (besides your wife) that is worth investing emotional effort into. You don’t know people’s intentions. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong if I don’t want to continue being friends with a girl who rejected me?Unbothered, I will get myself to that don’t give a shit level | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong if I don’t want to continue being friends with a girl who rejected me?You have a point. Man it’s gonna be hard not to be bothered a bit but it’ll manage. I went into it knowing the potential consequences so I didn’t over calculate the stupidity of the risk | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong if I don’t want to continue being friends with a girl who rejected me?To be honest, I tried making this as smooth as possible by asking to grab drinks after work. I know they said don’t shit where you eat but I at least wanted to experiment in a way that was low risk. She’s going on vacation for a month so it will be a distant memory thank god | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong if I don’t want to continue being friends with a girl who rejected me?I agree with this but a part of me just feels like I have a bruised ego by being friends with someone who rejected my romantic advances. In a sense, I’m not gonna be over dramatic and stop saying hi/good morning or smiling, but I also don’t want to do the fun shit like send memes, joke around. One thing I wanted to do was make my intentions clear and I hope I did just that by asking her to grab drinks with me | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Is it wrong if I don’t want to continue being friends with a girl who rejected me?Ya I figure I’d go down that route | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Will I ever get used to the feeling of blowjobs?You’re nervous, it’s a normal feeling. As you get comfortable being naked around women more, it will go away and you might even encounter a problem of Cumming too quickly lol  | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Making a move with your crush advice?In person, don’t be a coward | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Making a move with your crush advice?Man, you have to grow some balls and ask, it’s the only way. You might potentially ruin the relationship but who gives a fuck, this isn’t your end goal anyways | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Got bitched out on Tinder for saying something that I didn't realize was wrong.One time I was explaining something To a girl as a joke and she accused me of ‘mansplaining’. For those who don’t know what mansplaining is, it’s a term that means a man explains a simple concept to a woman in a derogatory manner or condescending tone. I know for a fact that it has nothing to do with her being a woman and everything to do with telling the joke. Don’t get me wrong, there are victims of assault, and vile/disgusting behaviour from men, but people of the kind you and I talked to are… | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Are most of the dudes on here Asian or Indian?I think most of us come from ethnic backgrounds and live in the USA or Canada. Honestly I’m not asian or Indian, but I’m also from a culture that has strict conservative norms to dating/sex. On top of that, the dominant culture which is filled with white girls are either not into something as unusual as an Indian/Chinese/middle eastern etc or just view cultures from their pasty white perspective... with that being said, for every girl that isn’t interested there is someone that is. The other thi… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveHow many times are you asking our girls on a date? Are you flirting with them and making your intentions felt? | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveMan stop making excuses and keep talking to girls. I promise it has nothing to do with your looks. There are guys here that risk rejection with at least 10-20 girls a day, you have to literally ask a hundred before someone says yes | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveIt has a lot to do with seduction, there is beginners like you who always complain about women not finding them physically attractive, when in reality it has nothing to do with that and you were just too scared to walk up to the girl and tell her she’s pretty and ask her out on a date. That’s the difference between the guy who gets girls and doesn’t. One person asks them out and the other person doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveIt’s 500 pages | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 07:01 AM |
| 8 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveFear is an illusion | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:59 AM |
| 2 | How can I continue my journey with a girlfriend?https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/how-to-flirt-with-your-wife/ And I remember Chris Rock had a comedy special that the reason his divorce ended was because he stopped ‘dating’ his wife | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 01:13 AM |
| 2 | How can I continue my journey with a girlfriend?From what I’ve read in multiple articles, you don’t stop dating your significant other, be it your girlfriend or wife. Even though you build a level of comfort over time with your partner, they still appreciate being hit on, complimented in front of others in a group and most importantly, you let them talk and listen to them, like you would on a first date. More or less, you’re still hitting on them like you want them in your life Also don’t stop socialIzing with others. From experience, taken g… | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I determine good places to talk to and meet women.It’s ok to not be into nightclubs and bars, a lot of people aren’t into them either. Go to an extracurricular activity or join a club you’re into for the sake of your interests, and not just to meet women. Or you can do what I do, and simply come across a cute girl you like in the street and tell her ‘hey, really random but I happened to think you’re really pretty and I would regret it if I didn’t come over to introduce myself. Hi my name is Drake’s Son.’ Shakes hand | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Best spots for Daygame In Washington DC during SummerHoward University, black girls are the easiest to approach | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl ghosts me after giving me her number and having decided to meet up.You’re overthinking this way too much. There could be a million reasons why she ghosted and from the sounds of it, it has nothing to do with you. You didn’t do anything wrong, it’s just she decided to ghost for whatever reason. Assume she’s not interested and move on to the next cute girl, there’s plenty of them. One loss closer to victory. Also, fuck the 3 day rule. I don’t know who made this shit up. Text the same night you get the number. 3 days gives her plenty of time to meet other guys | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Girls keep track of a lot of stuff fellasHere’s the trick to all of this, just don’t give a shit | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pics?You’ve made 7 different accounts asking the same question and you’re getting the same answers every single time. What are you trying to accomplish here? | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Older guys on hereI know a guy who will be 39 this year and he pulls all the time. He told me as soon as he hit 30, his dating life improved like crazy. Statistically, women find men in their 30s to be a lot more sexy, for a variety of reasons (maturity, full-time jobs, priorities are fixed on something besides getting laid.) I should also add that join fitness clubs or some kind of hobby where you can do group activities. My 39 year old friend (whom I work with) also plays soccer regularly throughout the week wi… | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | A bitch shaking her ass at the clubHell no. This is assault and your ass can get both sued and or arrested, and maybe even get your shit kicked at the club by the bouncer. Unless there is chemistry between you two or you have permission, your ass is going to jail. Talk to the girl and hit it off with her, don’t do this creepy shit | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceLol. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceNo. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 01:30 AM |
| 7 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidence100% agree with this. Don’t go into incel territory. Never go into this territory. You are not owed a relationship or sex. You approach 1-2 girls in your life and think you’ve met all women. Buddy, approaching a girl and getting rejected puts you ahead of 80% of the guys, who did not have the courage to do it. You walk out of rejection a winner regardless of what happens. Keep approaching and someone will give you a chance. You’ll get better with time. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 12:11 AM |
| 9 | Fuck dating apps, we need to instill the concept of cold approaches and building confidenceFirst of all, don’t listen to the people on the other subs, including r/women and r/twoxchromosomes because they really have no idea what the fuck they’re talking about. Think of it like this, we all start off as strangers, so even the girls you hang out with in your social settings were complete strangers at one point. Want to know why guys end up in the friend zone? Because these losers are waiting for the perfect moment that doesn’t exist, mean while their dream girl is about to get plowed by… | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Tinder honestly seems like a waste of timeThis was a really good article and honesty fuck online dating. This guy is telling us the same advice that gets passed on here, cold approach and embrace rejection. Awkward experiences are going to happen. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?You sound like such a sissy, you’re validating your entire existence from your looks. Grow some balls and be confident in yourself regardless of your circumstances. I’m not saying this to be mean, but strangers on the internet tell it like it is. Man up and own your flaws partner, or work on the things you can control. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Give me some suggestions..Step 1: get off Instagram and go cold approach. Seriously, social media is a cancer. The girls who validate their existence from IG are not the ones you want. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?you are coming off extremely insecure with these questions. Just relax, you’re fine, and if you keep thinking about it you’re gonna fuck up and she’s gonna smell you’re a pussy on the date | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?I’m not gonna lie, I used old ass pics from 4 years ago (from undergrad and I’m now working full time) and no one says shit. Just as long as you display confidence on the date that’s all that matters. | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Are there any girls in this sub?This same advice applies to guys as well. As a fat guy, lose off the fat for the sake of your own confidence and sex appeal | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Being a fat guy fucking sucks for datingWhat’s your diet? | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to have sex with a girl you don’t give a shit about?Why are you on this sub if you’re not here to give meaningful advice? You talk about entitlement, but your first post is ‘am I the asshole for having expectations on tinder?’ Could you imagine if a guy you Matched with on tinder set high expectations, expected sex, expected a relationship with you? Is what you’re doing not considered entitlement? I wanted to raise a discussion about some 2nd thoughts I was having because in my gut feeling I knew what I was doing didn’t feel right but then I reme… | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Being a fat guy fucking sucks for datingI will take your helping hand if you’re offering | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Being a fat guy fucking sucks for datingI agree with the roast vegetables and quit sugar part but I hate nuts man. They’re not filling and a large quantity has too many calories and fat | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Feeling depressed idk why?It sounds like what I went through in my early 20s. If I could be your age, I’d keep approaching and building my character through rejection. This isn’t suppose to be easy, sometimes it’s embarrassing as all hell but that’s the difference between you and the incel, you took chances and they didn’t. That’s the difference between anyone who does get laid and anyone who doesn’t, it’s just reality. As for depression, don’t think of it as a bad thing, you’re still really young. Hell I forced hookups … | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 07:30 AM |
| 2 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolThis comment right here...everyone progresses differently in life. Some people finish university at 22 some finish at 30 and some go back to finish at 40. Don’t let these people bully you with their timeline of success. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:27 PM |
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