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| 1 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimWell that’s just unrealistic and also doesn’t negate my point. You’ll never end all violence everywhere, that’s just straight up impossible and illogical to make your goal. And it doesn’t change the fact that women can in fact organize and induce change if they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimSo you’re only oppressed in a very specific scenario that you overwhelmingly have a choice in? Wouldn’t that logically mean you aren’t oppressed 99% of the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimYou literally did change the systems, remember? When women organize for something it tends to gain traction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victimAh, there’s that infamous arrogance that is costing the left elections lol. Who are you to tell other people what their best interest is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 06:08 PM |
| – | Feminists and redpillers comes to same conclusion.Feminism and feminists love to claim they don’t hate men and are for helping men when their actions and other rhetoric very clearly contradict this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Might wanna go take a nap and come back with arguments of substance lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.I’m a different dude that’s just calling it as I see it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.That was a mighty big list to be “cherrypicked” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.And what are they actually accomplishing with any of that and how is it positively affecting the perception of feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.So did you dawg, that was the whole point that went sailing over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themWhat? Where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Well then if you don’t like the negative perception of feminism that only keeps growing and growing then take your own damn advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Misandrist lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.I’m gonna counter your “nuh-uh” with a “yuh-huh” on the women are wonderful effect. Absolutely delusional take to not believe it’s real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Damn, what an excellent fuckin comment, I’ve never heard of half of this stuff. Really eye opening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.If that’s all you got from that comment then you didn’t read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Nah, false equivalence. There is no lack of social criticism of religion, but there is a lack of widespread criticism of the faults of feminism. The above post is an excellent example and I give them kudos, I hadn’t heard about most of these things. I wonder why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Nah the sentence makes sense, but you can still disagree with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themThe existence of men who sometimes play the victim where they can is not the same as the majority of a gender engaging in that behavior specifically to help them with survival, or thriving. Self-victimization is the realm of women, just because some men dip their toes in that realm doesn’t make it men’s domain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themFinancial abortion - conveniently leaving out all the, y’know, details around this. Like how alimony was to make up for the fact that women couldn’t work. Now they can, so why must a man keep paying for a child he doesn’t want? Especially if he was up front with that woman and she lied? Not wanting to have a huge chunk of your earnings go to a woman who you aren’t even with and a child you never wanted for the next 18 years isn’t exactly a “victim complex”. Nice Guy’s Finish Last - I have a feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themSounds like most women I know, actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themUnfortunately not, she’s been around for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themLmao ergo it couldn’t possibly be inferred, god I hate this sub sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themIt’s women because victimhood status carries societal power by triggering people’s protection drives towards the victimized. Women are masters at portraying themselves as the victim in a situation because emotional manipulation is their domain, much more so than men. I do not say this with vitriol or anything, I see it simply as an “is what it is” thing that women evolved to have for survival. I genuinely think this is obvious to anyone capable of not reflexively defending their “tribe” here. Bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Your own argument applies to you too so who is wrong? 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?There truly is a “mid-wit” epidemic in this country. People who were smart enough to get good grades, but not smart enough to think critically. Its why they can only point to the books and teachers that taught them instead of being able to critically engage themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?No I’m saying it’s a very common and well documented phenomenon to lie about/hide your true beliefs. To believe this isn’t common is very naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Aight get back to me when you can explicitly explain how you can remove ALL bias (even the people conducting the study) from a study. Then go publish your incredible insight, you’ll make a ton of money. I’ll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?No its more like the whole “pigeon playing chess” analogy, your strutting about like you successfully dismantled something when you just shit all over the game board is what is annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?But the study must take the bias into account in some way, no? They can’t entirely strip bias out of any study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Not at all what was written but then again when have you ever consistently been genuine in that regard lol. Nah, you trying to pick it apart doesn’t mean it can be, you assumed your success where it was absent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?How do you know they themselves labeled the toys as masculine and weren’t simply using the social perception of masculine toys to define them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?They answered it with their first sentence, then elaborated. You shifted to trying to pick it apart because you don’t like the very simple and straightforward truth of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Outwardly maybe, but typically no one knows what online rhetoric the people you know digest or spread. Either that or they need to do a better job of policing the rabid misandrists that make up too large a portion of your vocal members. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?They really do, its mind boggling at times. “Well I’M not like that/don’t do that therefore I don’t believe it happens at all/at a big enough scale to be a problem”. Folks have never heard of anecdotal evidence, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Don’t bother, she’s a dedicated troll that is committed to the bit of her username. Hilariously she thinks she’s “always right” when in reality she is often wrong, but just doesn’t accept it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Some things don’t need to keep being replicated because it’s so consistent, like gravity. What about it is biased? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?They answered your question, why the weird pivot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Doesn’t really change the fact, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future?Absolutely not lmfao they can’t risk losing their ironclad grip on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itWhat does that have to do with the point at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itLmao you cry source and then when someone makes a long post with breakdown and links you give a tiny little whiny reply that demonstrates you didn’t actually read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menNo? He appears to be saying “women don’t like to date down, but “down” is an ever expanding pool and “up” is shrinking as women start to make more money in general than men. And OP is asking what to do about that, which doesn’t de facto mean “force women to make less” if you’re not insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 08:59 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menThat’s not him saying “women are earning too much”, that’s him saying “when women who are earning a lot won’t even look at average men in their league, what is the recourse?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyYep, the younger folk struggle with this and I’m not even old lol, I’m a dude and I’ll be 30 in about a month. Sad fact is that, typically, there IS something off about someone who has been wholly unable to have ANY sort of romantic/sexual activity into their mid 20s. No, it doesn’t mean they’re some sort of heinous monster of a person nor is it them just being “ugly”. They can be and often are “good enough” people. But there is almost always SOMETHING to them that is a general turn off to the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual history100% correct, every woman I’ve ever met who was still a virgin in their mid-20s (and I’ve met a surprising amount, weirdly) was off in SOME way that was unappealing to men. They weren’t necessarily bad people (some kinda were) but I “understood” why they were struggling. These weren’t “I’m not trying to get in a relationship nor do I want to” women either, these girls desperately wanted a boyfriend but were just….off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyThis topic isn’t a binary, it’s a sliding scale. Lying, in general, is wrong. There are some circumstances where lying, despite being wrong, is understandable and forgivable. Honesty IS important but it’s not an absolute. Most things aren’t and we only have a metric shitload of media exploring the lines and boundaries of morality as well as countless hypotheticals designed to stress test those concepts. What we’ve arrived at fairly collectively is what I outlined above. That there is no absolute… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"Ahhh gotcha, yeah I agree. As somewhat edgy and elitist as it is to say, a good litmus test for intelligence is whether or not people understand this concept lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"Lol not sure if you’re agreeing with me or not 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"I think the issue there is the perception of what “improving oneself” means and why it translates to self improvement. Being in shape is one that I think is both common and a good example. People go “oh you don’t NEED to be in shape to find someone” as a form of comfort either for themselves or for someone out of shape who is lamenting. This is true, but lacks proper context for what it actually means in the overall picture. What people don’t say is the truth, which is “yes you don’t NEED to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn"A lot of them had probably never thought about it that deeply before and started looking at it from a new perspective for the first time and it likely broke a few brains. Just exposure to ideas can get people thinking about things from different angles and coming to new conclusions, it’s why people in power push for censorship constantly. A single new piece of information can create a domino effect in someone’s brain, after all. Exposure to undeniable truth triggers that effect very strongly, so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Just making sure you’re not being a hypocrite 🤷🏻♂️. I’m sure there are plenty of people who believe they are “more than ok” when really they’re average or below in terms of what they have and bring to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Anyone who tells you that men “only” care about looks and weight is full of shit. When it comes to what makes a woman attractive to men and what makes them more likely to commit to a man, its more like sliders than any other form of measurement. No one thing is the “end all be all” of attractive, but different things have different “weights” and impact. Looks and weight are MORE important than career and education, but not many men want an incredibly dumb bimbo (some do sure, but there are men t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?I mean if think holding up your hand and shouting “stop!” at an unfortunate reality is going to change it then I’ve got bad news for you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.You’re justifying a form of “ism”, sexism. There is no excuse or reason for either. Debates about “which is worse” are almost always attempts to downplay or even justify someone’s “ism”. Otherwise, what’s the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.“Except you’re killing someone in both cases” And there’s the point! Murder is bad no matter who you’re killing. Sexism is bad no matter who you’re being sexist to. Get it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?It absolutely is, its just not an “end all be all” factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Yeah it would fix a lotta dude’s problems, the whole debate is around getting and keeping one lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Sure, but no one is ever or has ever claimed that everyone can win, nor that someone will always lose. Its just life, you have to do your best to make the best of it however you can (without hurting other people obviously). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:56 PM |
| 2 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Spot on, when people criticize religions for example no one makes the argument that we should only listen to the archbishops takes or whatever the higher positions within that religion are. We look at the actions of those who practice it. Similar concept here with feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?In your estimate, but how would we or anyone know and would you believe a random man online that they were “more than an ok partner”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?And anecdotal, thus irrelevant to the majority experience of others. I too just “got a gf” 3 years ago (but I mean I never struggled like some dudes do with women) but I know damn well that its not that easy for a lotta dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:46 PM |
| -1 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.Well you’d be wrong but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.Doesn’t matter, still bad. Which harms more, killing an old person or killing a baby? Doesn’t matter, still murder, straight to jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.Didn’t read past the title. No, you’re wrong OP and everyone is telling you so. It’s never ok to be any sort of “ist” towards any group, period. I’m sorry events in your life have led you to be sexist, but you sound like someone going around telling people that it’s ok actually to hate black people because some of them steal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:35 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?I think part of the problem is a fairly classic catch 22 that I’m sure is going to resonate with some people here. As a man, I don’t really want to go to a “men’s space” just to interact with “men”. I want to interact and do things with my friends who are men. I don’t have any interest in bumming around with randos. But, of course, bumming around with randos is how you make those friends who are men. So it ends up being this cycle of wanting to do shit with “the boys” but you want to skip straig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:45 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Dawg’s conclusion is to wallow in self pity and abort men, of course its his dogshit personality that’s the problem but great breakdown nonetheless lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:41 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Are you more than “just ok” as a partner too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:40 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Yep, life is a gamble and you gotta stack as many chips in your favor as you can before you roll. You may still lose, but that’s why you keep trying and keep adding more chips to your stack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:38 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Lets not get weird and crazy here lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:37 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?My absolute guy I’m sure you’re just taking the piss but “just get a gf” is a geriatric response to men’s loneliness issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:36 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?No one is ever talking about “prominent feminists” when it comes to this stuff, they’re talking about women in general who claim to be feminist and use feminist talking points. The whole “prominent feminists” thing is a lazy deflection from the thing that is actually being discussed, which is “feminism in the general cultural/social zeitgeist” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:35 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?“It seems feminism is only against breaking out of gender roles when it benefits wisdom” Funni Space Man With Gun: “Always has been” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:33 PM |
| – | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesBecause the analogy isn’t one to one, as I already explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesOh I’m all for “do whatever you want as long as you’re not hurting anyone”. But I’m just so sick of this particular talking point that I just had to say something, stems entirely from an impulse lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesYou missed the point, it’s not about “control” or “education”. Bad men DONT CARE. No amount of education, shame, lectures, etc, will make them not do the bad things they want to do. At some point it’s up to the individual to know how the world is and to protect themselves accordingly. Its up to the people who know better to educate those who don’t on how the world is. You will never eliminate risk. You will never eliminate bad people. Give up on that, get over it (kindly) and look out for yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesNot in western society, everyone knows what consent is. Even then, as I stated, you could reach a 100% “educated on what consent is” rate and bad men would STILL rape. You’re the one being pedantic and obtuse here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesNah, no comparison is truly one to one because you’re COMPARING two different things. Same with analogy, it’s meant to make a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesYou could argue about the existence of that group, but they’re wrong to believe they can eliminate risk. At some point it IS on the individual to not put themselves in dangerous situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:58 PM |
| 0 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receives“Women and males” You know, mimicking the whole incel “men and females” thing doesn’t help your case at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:24 PM |
| 13 | CMV: What a woman decides to wear has no effect on the amount of unwanted attention she receivesHoly… For the millionth and twenty second time. Bad men. Will always. Exist. No amount of shaming “men”, no amount of “teaching men not to X” (we already do) will change that bad men who don’t care WONT CARE and will still do bad things. Men have only been telling women this, oh, since forever and yet there’s still ladies like you making posts like this and god I’m so sick of it. If you slather yourself in barbecue sauce and jump into the lion pit and get eaten, no one says “have we tried teachi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?Kinda wish I’d seen both your replies first lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?Well I actually read this one and if you’re being sincere (and god knows I have no clue, you could just be baiting me) then my genuine advice is that you gotta care less dude. That doesn’t mean be apathetic, it means not caring so much about things you shouldn’t. It also means accepting that your POV may not in fact be the correct one, or even the notion that it’s not correct for everyone. You may in fact be a genuinely good person and if it’s the case I apologize as well. Seen far too many psyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 05:00 PM |
| – | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?I ain’t reading all that, but it sounds like I hit the nail on the head lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:57 PM |
| – | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?Lmfao I know what you are. You’re one of those psychopaths who put on a huge charade about how you’re “such a good person” and that you “just want to help bring people together and be positive” and all that fake garbage. When in reality you’re just a hateful, insecure ogre who has no confidence in who they really are as a person, so you desperately try to put out the image that you believe will “make you one”, when deep down you know you’re not. That’s why you’re relentlessly telling someone on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Disagree into the void, you’re wrong. This sub is NOT reflective of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Men have zero power to challenge this because shitty people (this includes men) will ALWAYS EXIST. It’s the same dumb argument as the whole “teach men not to rape” line. No one is teaching men to rape or that its ok! THE BAD MEN DONT CARE AND WILL DO IT ANYWAY! God its like people genuinely believe there aren’t just straight up evil people out there and that everyone who does bad things is just misguided or needs to be educated or some other bullshit. No. Objective evil exists and you must be CA… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be there“I can read their minds and I know the REAL reason they support something and not the easily searchable actual reasons they provide!” 1-800-come on now 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereYep, you wanna be the guy that triggers that rare reactive desire in the women you date. If you don’t or can’t, figure out what you need to do to get there. Most men could do it if they put in the effort, the problem ends up being that said effort is a “filter” for low drive/discipline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereNah even that is an overly reductive and ungrounded simplification of things. No “pill” aligns with either of those simplifications. If I had to try my hand I would say: there is a pill that supports “listening to and believing women when they talk about what is attractive to them and never taking risks in dating for fear of offending or upsetting a woman” and another that supports “learning what is actually attractive to women, seeing this reflected in the real world, and doing what you can to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:04 PM |
| 6 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?Much like political alignments, not all people of any “pill” think the same, hold the same beliefs, or view their ideology in the same way. Shocking, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"100%, its basically just cope lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"Sure, maybe, but even that isn’t “intimidation” it’s insecurity. Intimidation is just so not the right word and I find it so strange that its the go-to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 12:57 AM |
| 20 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"Tbh, I’ve always wondered where the notion of “men being intimidated by a woman’s job” came from? Because intimidation seems far from the word to use to describe what could be going on when a man rejects a woman based on her career. Maybe he wants to start a family and believes the mother should stay at home. Maybe he grew up with a terminally working parent and doesn’t want his partner to rarely be available. Maybe, in certain cases, he’s put off by the job itself (sex work) or put off by what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 07:52 PM |
| -2 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Maybe, but that’s a pretty weak reason not to examine the points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?So we gonna refute the point or….? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexLuckily its typically not quite so black and white, more like a sliding scale. Though between the two lemme tell ya, you probably want a woman leaning simpish than one who treats you like a doormat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:17 PM |
| 34 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexYep, I firmly believe that the quickest and best way to “get it” regarding the red pill is to be on both sides of the aisle when it comes to women. Men who go from unattractive to attractive are the ones who most often agree with what the red pill describes because they’ve literally lived it. Source: am one of those guys and I see the same sentiment repeated all the time online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioIf a guy is up front that he doesn’t want to continue the friendship because he caught feelings and its emotionally painful for him, then that’s fine and there is nothing wrong with it. Nor should the female friend in question see anything wrong with it. However, its pure selfishness on the woman’s part to give him grief if he was up front about it. If the man was petulant and/or blames the woman then yeah, that’s wrong of him. This shouldn’t be a difficult concept for either party involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:10 PM |
| – | Most men are struggling to find their equivalent, which is why TRP has not only spilled over into the mainstream but become common senseYup. Always made me chuckle when I would see people say that the red pill only applies to/is only for basement dwelling losers. I was neither a basement dweller nor a loser when I got red pilled, and that exact domino effect you mentioned kicked in. Saw my whole life up until that point in a different light, and everything changed. It sucked at first, the rage was real, but then I got over it and my life got way better. You’re also right that huge swaths of men “do it to themselves” in a sense, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that most guys think they would do better in dating if they were bringing in all the money?Just popping by to drop that no, ejaculation is not the need. I can jerk off whenever but it’s not the same as fucking my girlfriend. It hits completely differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as redpilled as men.No arguments from me here haha, I pretty much agree 🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Thanks! Yeah I completely see your point and I do agree, the red pill has a massive optics and misuse problem. I don’t think it will ever not have that problem due to its nature. There are so many analogies you could make about it that highlight this, like you could even compare it to say guns. You can use a gun to fend off a home intruder or you can use it to commit cold blooded murder. Are guns inherently bad? Some people argue yes, some people argue no. Someone who successfully defended their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:21 PM |
| – | Women are just as redpilled as men.Sure, although I’m not really trying to write a whole dissertation haha. To put it simply, I placed very little value on my appearance and pedestalized women. I believed everything they said and disregarded, ignored, or rationalized the contradictory things they did. I wasn’t very masculine and put way too much stock in other peoples’ opinions. I was afraid to take risks socially with women, fearing rejection, but this led to me never shooting any shots with the women I was attracted to. I was l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as redpilled as men.A combination of all that, yeah. I definitely didn’t do a completely thorough reading of all available materials, but I got enough information from what I did read. I don’t really digest red pill content much any more because I don’t feel I need to, but I do think young men should at least become somewhat familiar with what it has to say. You don’t have to (and shouldn’t, necessarily) subscribe to everything that is said in red pill spaces/literature, but at least exploring and trying to underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Sure thing! The comment was on a post called “Is red pill ideology logically consistent?” or something along those lines. I wrote this in response: As a whole? No, but then again I would argue next to no ideology is. Getting “red pilled” turned my life around, but I didn’t become a “red piller”. I think this is because of the interpretation of it that I had which I haven’t seen as widely spread as some other interpretations. I see the Red Pill as a toolbox with all the different theories and ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Women are just as redpilled as men.The answer is that there isn’t, but you’re not gonna make much headway with disingenuous blue pill folk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Women are just as redpilled as men.“Its never happened to me so its not a thing” Cmon now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Yep, I also subscribe to a “toolbox” analogy that I don’t see used much elsewhere. I did a breakdown of what I’m talking about in another comment once so if anyone is curious what I mean I can just copy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Are women not getting approached anymore?I have sympathy for your plight OP but my genuine advice is to take a deep breath, suck it up, and start approaching dudes yourself. It is unlikely that your situation is going to just change if it hasn’t thus far, take things into your own hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?Oh I’m not saying it could never happen, just that it shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 05:04 PM |
| 4 | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?Nah I’m not being suggestive, I’m just skipping a few connecting steps. Discussions about this topic tend to go in one direction, I’m just heading it off. I’m not doom and gloom about anything, my stance is adapt to times changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 03:52 AM |
| – | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?Yep, its a genie out of the bottle type situation and we’re going to have to just brace for the consequences/ramifications that we’re barreling towards. Its a tough pill to swallow that a lot of relationships in the past stemmed from women needing men in some way, and that now that they don’t they’re even more selective. Cant really do anything about that, what, are we going to take womens’ rights away? Nope. Adapt or die really is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 08:46 PM |
| 14 | Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no oneHow is it made up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?Then we’re in alignment I guess?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?You’re doing it again and if you’re going to continue to do that I’m not gonna engage. “So you’re saying women raping men is less serious than men raping women?” No, I didn’t say that, you did. That’s not my argument and neither was it the other guy’s. The argument is that men know how men are and will more actively caution their daughters about men. Doesn’t mean women aren’t also a threat, two things can be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?He used the wrong name for the fallacy but you did engage in a disingenuous reduction of his point. The premise is far more complicated because men and women aren’t the same. Despite the prevalence of woman-enacted violence, they are in general less violent and (more importantly) typically less capable of inflicting great damage than men. An attempt at an example: Which would you be more concerned about, your kid being punched or your kid being shot? Both are concerning yes but you’re going to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beI think that particular concept hits differently for men and women respectively. I think guys in general either know they’re not all that physically or don’t care if their girl doesn’t find them “the most attractive”. Women tend to (by both choice and by necessity in most cases) prioritize their appearance. It “weighs more” for women that their guy finds them “the most attractive”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?I mean…how many do you know? 20? 40? 100? Even if you knew 1000 single women who all claimed to be happy, that would still be far from a representative statistic. The other guy’s study holds up better than your anecdotes, and I’m not saying that to be a dick or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosSad, but its the state of things. Well done regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 12:36 AM |
| 2 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosGreat comment mate, good on you for spreading the word. I genuinely hope this goes mainstream, but I know its a pipe dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceSure, and for every person like you and OP, there is someone claiming the opposite experience. So which is it? I also don’t struggle with dating, been in a happy relationship for a couple of years now, but I understand and sympathize with the struggle for young men because I’ve also seen and experienced those struggles in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:23 PM |
| 6 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceLmfao “yeah my personal anecdotes where my friends just say all the correct things to say means all you boys’ life experiences are invalid!” Just stop lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.I also think the implication was that they get into relationships with these men and THEN disrespect them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 03:11 PM |
| 15 | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.Yeah so no one on the planet ever changes or is influenced by the things that happen to them, sure 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.You misread that part, the focus is on the disrespect portion. He’s saying these women disrespect men with mo consideration for how that would make them feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 02:18 PM |
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