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| 3 | What does one do when you’ve lost everything?I get it. Starting over sounds so overwhelming it can be crushing, as if the rest already wasn't enough. I think the thing to realize is that you already are starting over. Because she already is. Your option of staying in your old life is already gone. All you can do now is try to embrace reality, in all its gritty glory. There's plenty of suck to embrace in that. But also plenty of new joy to be found, if you can be open to it. My heart goes out to you, and I wish for you to find the joy you d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/22 10:47 PM |
| 7 | What are some not so obvious red flags us younger men should look out for?In general I agree. However, also look out if she idolizes her dad. After 22 years I was still constantly getting compared (negatively) to her dad, simply because I didn't do the same types of things with our kids that she valued with her dad growing up. It was demoralizing to say the least. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Lawyer Time / BillsI'm waiting to chat as we speak with a bank rep to start this process of separating finances (which in my case is really just taking her name off of everything, since she doesn't have a job). I trust myself to be objective, and even generous in making sure she and the kids are taken care of during the process (I just today decided to move out). But I don't trust her not to do anything crazy, because she is on an emotional bulldozer right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Who's Got Two Thumbs, The House, Car, and His Entire Retirement? This Guy!NOICE. Well played, sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/19 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Grow a dick and man the fuck up!Hey, what if I WANT to look like a fag? Haha! I like the zest for life, man. We still all have to work through all the feels on our own terms in our own time, but there's no reason we can't rock out in the meantime! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/19 02:08 PM |
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