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Different strokes for different folks. I don’t care too much for it either though
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:44 AM
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Shit 10 minutes is all you need
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:43 AM
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Definitely. It’s as free as a signal as it gets. I walk up and greet and it’s a number 98% of the time. (There were a few times where I was mistaken)
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:41 AM
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I think aloof is different than “calm,cool, and collected” Being too talkative or too aloof are a turn off for people not just in a romantic setting, but socially altogether.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:32 AM
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Good job so far. Easiest way to talk to a woman is just like with anyone else. Greet them, introduce yourself, and go from there. If you think they’re attractive make sure you let it be known. Tell her she looked great and you a wanted to talk to them. On topics to talk about, just spark a conversation depending on what’s surrounding you at the moment. At a book store? “What good books have you read recently?” or anything dude just asking questions about her and having genuine interest will make…
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:51 PM
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Nah don’t bother
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:47 PM
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It’s ok to not say anything if you have nothing to talk about. Forcing conversation or always trying to entertain her is more unattractive. Now when you’re relaxed and not worried about outcomes, when you do have something to say I doubt it will be as boring as you’d think.
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:09 AM
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Nah it’s straight to the point and mature. If she finds you even a bit attractive, she’ll definitely give you a chance.
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:25 PM
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Delete
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:21 PM
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So you don’t want to go on a date with just her and rather be a third wheel for the plans she already made with her friend?
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:19 PM
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Random but ok
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:15 PM
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That’s a good plan you have
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:15 PM
9

TLDR but you might need some therapy
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:13 PM
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I would just reschedule for a time when it’s just her, and not with her friend.
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:12 PM
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I used to talk fast whenever I got excited. Just remember to breathe man and take it easy. In regards to your tone..learn to speak from your diaphragm and sit up / stand up straight when you talk. I already have deep voice, but Improving these things definitely helped me out a lot socially and romantically.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:37 PM
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Just remember you’re worthy to talk to anyone, and don’t focus on yourself before and after the interaction but on her.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:21 PM
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Delete this
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:19 PM
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It still works and it’s how I do it. The only difference is your tone, delivery, and charm actually matters now that it’s not through a text message.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:14 PM
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When a girl understands that she’s safe around me, she wouldn’t mind coming back to a shabby apt I used to have. That’s why I said you shouldn’t really worry about it. It would be the same context whether it be a hotel or Airbnb. How comfortable you make her feel will be the main factor in her decision.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:09 PM
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What’s your goal? Sleeping with as much women as possible or getting a quality woman for a girlfriend?
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:58 AM
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Shouldn’t be a problem to just bring her to your place. Just make sure she stays safe and all that.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:56 AM
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Relax you got this. You’ll know the proper time and mood, doesn’t have to be the “best moment” you’re looking for. There’s not much to it, just have some confidence in yourself bro.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:53 AM
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Yeah the club for the first date is definitely not ideal
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:54 AM
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If she can’t understand or assume your busy then that’s on her. But yeah some girls are impatient or think you’re playing games (a lot of people are on the apps) by not texting them back in a timely manner. And I feel for you when you say that lack of options is tough. Try taking better photos of yourself as that works wonders for everyone. Also make sure your bio is simple and to the point.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:53 AM
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Not good
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:28 PM
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Why you hating from afar though
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:59 PM
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You gotta change your mindset on that last part. You will mess up or succeed, know anything can happen and accept it. If you like her you’re better off just asking her out. Why casually text some more if you already did that?
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:41 PM
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If you want to help her with that then yeah lol. Like you said it’s not make or break so no need to put much thought into it
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:31 PM
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Well body language is definitely a good way to judge how things are going, so you didn’t necessarily do the wrong thing by leaving. Though it wouldn’t have hurt to try to ask for her number, who knows maybe she wasn’t actually defensive or whatever. Going forward always try to keep the conversation short and pleasant (like how you did) and make sure you leave on a positive note. Number or no number
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:03 PM
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I mean being tall is nice way to get your foot in the door for social or romantic options. But that’s about it. After that it’s your personality whether or not people can stand being around you (or the things you can offer/provide them with). Even in high school where people were the most superficial, there were some tall people who were even bullied and short people who were very popular. So yes personality is very important like it or not. If you’re not pleasant to be around, even being 6’8 wo…
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:53 PM
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It’s more about valuing your self through action and not just by thought. Taking care of your body and mental, learning new skills and experiencing challenges, learning to relax and have fun etc. When you treat yourself like someone who matters, it makes it much easier to accept it as a truth as well.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:29 PM
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Could be an act/game, but more probably actual loss of interest
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:22 PM
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Perfectly fine to approach like that. You should make sure to introduce yourself first. Also make sure to relax and smile as well.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:19 PM
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2 months tops until shit gets complicated
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:27 PM
3

100% so go for it brotha
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:25 PM
2

Ask her out to dinner or something. Doesn’t matter that she’s rich either, that shouldn’t be a factor in this situation. Your communication skills are probably not as bad as you think. If you relax and have fun the conversation you make will be 100% good enough
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:24 PM
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Definitely make the move since she’s showing you signs of attraction. Sucks that you’ll be gone for a while but when you come back you don’t know if she would even still be going there.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:20 PM
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Try online dating, you have a access to a huge pool of women and can definitely find someone interesting. Also try going out more and doing things you find fun, then approach someone that catches your eye. You two may even have similar interests Feelings of loneliness is normal for everyone. Don’t feel too bad about it and just live your life champ
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:16 PM
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Nah just personal experience. Who wants to be around someone who’s faking their character?
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:09 PM
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Timing, mood, comfortability, and attraction all plays a part. So if you can check off the 4 things mentioned, escalation shouldn’t be a problem. If she says no then take the L and assume one of the things was off.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:06 PM
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You dodged a bullet. Don’t pay attention to her, you probably look good enough to get other girls
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:59 PM
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Don’t do anything differently and just talk to her like you would with any girl. She’s going to pick and choose who she wants and your best bet is just being you. No strategy needed
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:29 PM
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Greet them, introduce yourself and ask for their name. Relax and have fun while you talk to them. Ask how their days going and what are they up to etc. Have a good conversation but keep it short. Then announce you gotta bounce then ask for their number. Works 95% of the time for me
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:26 PM
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